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90 Day Fiancé Season 12 Episode 7
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00:00:01Previously on 90 Day Fiance...
00:00:05Sweetie!
00:00:09It has been eight long months, but I am so excited. I'm finally here with my baby.
00:00:17God is still gonna figure out a way for us. Yeah.
00:00:22It's gonna be tough, man.
00:00:24Our parents, they're wealthy. I always felt like I wasn't good enough.
00:00:28Honestly, with you, like, I'm coming for nothing.
00:00:31I just be here a couple of days, and it started to be very hard to find my place.
00:00:37I'm getting irritated. You're just always sitting around, like, on your phone.
00:00:41I just feel like I have, like, another kid.
00:00:47I'm happy to spend a bit of money, but I think if we did that, you would have an aneurysm.
00:00:53You said you are the house husband. You have all the time in the world, so...
00:00:56Figure out how to get cheap furniture, then.
00:01:00It's a small f***ing expense. I don't want to fight over it.
00:01:04I'm not trying to be an asshole.
00:01:06Then stop being an asshole.
00:01:08I think you need to have a long, hard think about whether marriage is the right thing for you.
00:01:16You said last night you didn't have sex with this woman.
00:01:19Some stuff I don't even remember doing. I just hear about it later. I mean, like...
00:01:23Of course you're cheating on me!
00:01:26I can't tell if I can continue this wedding.
00:01:33If you don't want to take me seriously, then just stop talking to me, alright?
00:01:37If you start spraying this stuff again, I'm gonna leave.
00:01:41You can stay here. I'm gonna go somewhere else.
00:01:45Disgusting if I wear perfumes, like, what am I doing here? Like, I don't need all this s***.
00:01:53I'm like the government. Me and taxes? We're here forever.
00:01:57I want to make boundary because our culture, our country, we don't have ex-boyfriend, two friends.
00:02:08Don't call my fiancé, never.
00:02:11Get the f*** off my tailgate.
00:02:15Motherf***er.
00:02:17Get your f*** and go.
00:02:19I need him out of my house.
00:02:22You can't get in the house anyway if you don't even have your pins.
00:02:24I'm not talking with you. Shut your mouth.
00:02:25I'm not talking with you.
00:02:26I'm not gonna shut my mouth.
00:02:27You don't understand!
00:02:28That's not how you treat women in America, mother f***er!
00:02:32You wanna f***ing get in my face?
00:02:35He's going home.
00:02:55So, um, let's just, like, go over. Remember, I want you to, like, be yourself, but be, like, the family
00:03:02approving Edward. Do you know what I mean?
00:03:06Don't be like, Bob! And give him, like, a big hug.
00:03:09I'm not allowed to hug your mother in doing this.
00:03:11No, don't call her mommy. Don't hug, don't pick her up. Don't pick anybody up.
00:03:17Don't eat your attention by your lonely boy. I like it.
00:03:21You can play it cool, but don't pretend you're trying to find a book.
00:03:26Looks good?
00:03:27Yeah.
00:03:27Happy?
00:03:28Yeah. Are you?
00:03:30No. I hate that that thing is in tinfoil, but I don't have anything else to put it in.
00:03:35Listen, it's your parents. It's okay. This is not a big deal.
00:03:39It is to me.
00:03:40Oh, my God.
00:03:43I met the parents before in the DR, but we don't have the opportunity to be, like, one of 100%.
00:03:50You know, the boys are younger, they're on vacation, vacation moon, and we basically put all the attention with the
00:03:57boys.
00:03:57I talk with them a little bit, but they can make you feel that you are nothing.
00:04:03Maybe it's not on purpose, but maybe because they are rich, and they have all the different mentalities.
00:04:10And I get intimidated with people, because I know that I'm smart, and I know that I'm a good person,
00:04:16you know?
00:04:17I think also, like, a guest, come with me. We'll, um, welcome our guests together.
00:04:31Oh, my God.
00:04:34I haven't seen you in a few days. I miss you.
00:04:36I miss you, too.
00:04:37Hi.
00:04:38Hey, Bob.
00:04:38Hi.
00:04:39Hi.
00:04:42Good to see you.
00:04:43How are you doing? Good?
00:04:44Welcome aboard.
00:04:45How's everything?
00:04:46Should be better.
00:04:47Could be worse.
00:04:48Let's go.
00:04:51This meeting is making me really nervous, because although my family is really nice,
00:04:57Edward isn't necessarily the type of guy that they would normally choose for me.
00:05:02I miss, I have a snow.
00:05:04Uh-oh.
00:05:05More guests coming with me to welcome our next session.
00:05:09But it's not just my parents coming today.
00:05:11In true Italian-American fashion, we have...
00:05:14Hi!
00:05:15My aunt and uncle.
00:05:17Hello, my love.
00:05:18And my cousin and her boyfriend.
00:05:20Hi, cuz.
00:05:21How are you?
00:05:22How are you?
00:05:23Hi, Pete.
00:05:24Hi, Elmo.
00:05:25Bienvenido!
00:05:26I know that my family has very high expectations of Edward.
00:05:30They have seen me struggle a lot through my life, especially in relationships.
00:05:34And they want things easy for me.
00:05:36And a lot of them feel that this isn't the easiest choice that I could have made.
00:05:41So we're not gonna have, like, a sit-down dinner.
00:05:42It's more like mingling, getting to know Edward.
00:05:45So the food's out.
00:05:46It's Italian.
00:05:46Italian.
00:05:47Well, Italian's good.
00:05:48Yeah.
00:05:49Looks great.
00:05:49Thank you, Marissa.
00:05:50Everybody's Italian?
00:05:51Thanks, over here.
00:05:52We're Italian.
00:05:53We're Italian.
00:05:53We're Italian.
00:05:54Italian.
00:05:55Bob's not Italian.
00:05:56Bob's Dominican.
00:05:58Irish.
00:05:59Irish.
00:06:01Maybe.
00:06:02From another mother, Bob.
00:06:03I don't know.
00:06:05Bob knows a lot about baseball, too.
00:06:08Marissa have a lot of expectations.
00:06:10It's very high.
00:06:12She wants everything perfect because of these people.
00:06:14It's very important for her.
00:06:16That start to make a little bit pressure on me, and I feel a little bit nervous about, like,
00:06:20oh, my God, like, everything needs to be, like, good because if it's not, you gotta be upset.
00:06:27So, Edward, how big of a family are you from?
00:06:29Well, with my mother, we are three.
00:06:31Mm-hmm.
00:06:32And, like, um, with my, um, my dad, I don't know.
00:06:37A lot.
00:06:42Being so close with your brother, it was probably an easier transition to step in with Derek and Cole.
00:06:47Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:06:48100%.
00:06:49So, we were so tired last night.
00:06:51We just kind of, like, collapsed on bed, and we were just, like, looking at something on his phone, and
00:06:54I had my head on it.
00:06:55And Cole, like, came running into the room and, like, jumped on Edward and, like, put his head on the
00:06:59other side.
00:07:00And it was so cute.
00:07:01It was like, oh, he really feels comfortable with him.
00:07:03Honestly, like...
00:07:04You know, it's a great opportunity for you to stand so I can sit.
00:07:06Oh.
00:07:07My feet are starting to hurt.
00:07:09My heels.
00:07:10No, no, it's okay, it's okay.
00:07:11Oh, thank you.
00:07:12Please.
00:07:13Well, I'm excited for you.
00:07:15I'm excited that you're here.
00:07:18But it's not always gonna be smooth sailing.
00:07:23Their world is changing.
00:07:24They don't know it yet.
00:07:25Oh, they're all excited.
00:07:26Edward's here, oh, boy.
00:07:27But it's not gonna be smooth sailing all the way.
00:07:31And, honestly, I worry because I don't know you.
00:07:34No, I understand.
00:07:38When Marissa came to me with her situation and the fact that she loves Edward and that they wanted to
00:07:45be together and get married, ultimately, I was not on board at all.
00:07:50There's an age difference.
00:07:51There's a cultural difference.
00:07:52He doesn't know what he'll do here yet to make a living.
00:07:56There are a lot of red flags.
00:07:57And unless you're oblivious, you understand that there are.
00:08:03I made that very clear to him.
00:08:06Edward, talk is cheap, and we see.
00:08:08We see what you're made of.
00:08:15I'll be your opponent if you let me take all your pieces apart.
00:08:25I try as possible as you can to be very patient with her.
00:08:29What's wrong?
00:08:44What happened that I missed in the car? Can you tell me?
00:08:46I swear.
00:08:48I'm not doing something.
00:08:50She was crying.
00:08:52She was crying.
00:08:53She say, I'm tired.
00:08:54I frustrated.
00:08:55From what?
00:08:56I told her, you have everything.
00:08:58You don't need something.
00:09:00I need conversation.
00:09:01Conversation for what?
00:09:02I told her, okay.
00:09:03I'm listening.
00:09:04No.
00:09:05Blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:09:06You see?
00:09:12I am, like, just shocked.
00:09:16I am shocked, too.
00:09:17I feel like went south fast.
00:09:20It went south very fast.
00:09:22This is not Egypt.
00:09:24This is not a Muslim country.
00:09:26You do not treat women like that here.
00:09:28Mother .
00:09:31I don't like the way he speaks to her.
00:09:35And that makes me worried for what is going on behind closed doors.
00:09:39How is he treating her then?
00:09:40Because if he has the nerve to treat her like that,
00:09:43today, here and now, he's not going to treat her well at all.
00:09:54I don't know what the future holds for them, but it doesn't look good.
00:09:58It doesn't look like this wedding is going to happen.
00:10:01It's really sad.
00:10:02I'm really upset.
00:10:04Like, Debbie doesn't deserve that kind of heartache to happen to her,
00:10:09but it's better for it to happen now.
00:10:12You just want to sit right here?
00:10:13Yeah, this is perfect.
00:10:18What's your plan right now?
00:10:20Go home.
00:10:21What do you mean by go home?
00:10:22Go to my country.
00:10:25I don't need something new.
00:10:35Good evening.
00:10:36Good evening.
00:10:54So, what is it?
00:10:56God, I don't know how to put this into words.
00:10:59It's a bad day.
00:11:03This evening, I just had like a mini meltdown.
00:11:08Instead of him offering compassion and love or concern,
00:11:13what I got was, what do you have to be crying for?
00:11:19I left my family.
00:11:20I left my work.
00:11:22I left everything.
00:11:24Just completely dismissed anything that I was feeling at all.
00:11:30It's always the same thing.
00:11:33If I'm not comfortable, I'm going home.
00:11:36It depends on you.
00:11:38When you're in a relationship and you love somebody,
00:11:42you don't throw that in their face every two days.
00:11:51I was very surprised, you know.
00:11:54She make a big mistake with me.
00:11:55When they question my virginity.
00:11:59You can that slut in Egypt, but you can't be compassionate with me?
00:12:04Go, go, go.
00:12:06She pushed me too far.
00:12:08Because she sees some photos with some girls in Egypt.
00:12:12Of course, I told her, shut your mouth.
00:12:17And after that, I will not deal with her at all.
00:12:22It's finished.
00:12:23It's over.
00:12:30It's finished.
00:12:31It's over.
00:12:31Already, I start to check the flight tickets.
00:12:36But I don't know.
00:12:40I can't find flight.
00:12:43Tomorrow, inshallah, I will try it.
00:12:46Because it's late now.
00:12:48And I will go home.
00:12:52I'm not going to be taking being called a bitch.
00:12:56I'm not going to take him screaming at my friends.
00:13:00If he wants to go home, pack his bags and go.
00:13:07I can't be with her after all these things.
00:13:11Over.
00:13:13Over, over, over.
00:13:22How are you feeling?
00:13:23I mean, you feel better?
00:13:24Are you still upset with me, or?
00:13:26We talked.
00:13:27She told me already the truth about you and her.
00:13:33And we still have brother.
00:13:35We need to fix this.
00:13:39What's next on your priority list?
00:13:41Well, it is my birthday party.
00:13:43And what are we going to do?
00:13:44We're going to a bar with friends.
00:13:46Nice.
00:13:48One of my friends, Ryan, is in town.
00:13:51So I also invited him.
00:13:52Me and Ryan made out a couple of times.
00:13:55There's something to tell you.
00:13:56What?
00:13:57Am I going to like it?
00:14:04You may run for a long time.
00:14:08Run on for a long time.
00:14:11Run on for a long time.
00:14:15Good night, Annabelle.
00:14:16Bye-bye.
00:14:22Hi, hi, nons.
00:14:25Where's my pop-pop bed?
00:14:26Oh, buy me home?
00:14:27Yes, I'm home.
00:14:30Well, how did it go?
00:14:31Go tell the long-toned liar
00:14:35And tell that midnight rider
00:14:40How are you feeling?
00:14:41I mean, you feel better?
00:14:42Are you still upset with me, or?
00:14:50Yeah, I'm feeling good.
00:14:51I'm feeling better.
00:14:52Feel better?
00:14:53Mm-hmm.
00:14:54So did you and Angie talk, or?
00:15:05You understand now there was nothing going on, right?
00:15:09Yeah.
00:15:10But we still have problem because, Nicole, you need to fix this.
00:15:15Oh, if, you know, if we run into her, it comes down to it.
00:15:18If she pops up, I'll definitely take care of it.
00:15:22So does that mean you're good?
00:15:24You forgive me?
00:15:27Yeah.
00:15:28You take my apology now?
00:15:29Yeah.
00:15:30Well, thank you, mate.
00:15:31I'm glad you're feeling better and everything like that.
00:15:35I love you.
00:15:35Mm-hmm.
00:15:38Mm-hmm.
00:15:40I forgive you, Shay, but you up.
00:15:44I came here for you.
00:15:46And I sacrificed everything from Philippines.
00:15:50So you need to be your best behavior now.
00:15:55I'm here gonna be a wife.
00:15:57I'm gonna definitely work on it, babe.
00:15:59I'm not kidding.
00:16:01This is my role shape.
00:16:03If you do disrespect me again, I'm done.
00:16:07I'm leaving.
00:16:08Nothing like that's gonna happen.
00:16:10And, I mean, you don't have to worry.
00:16:12You're the boss, baby.
00:16:13Yes, I am the boss.
00:16:15I am.
00:16:16Yeah, you're the boss.
00:16:17Yes, I am the boss.
00:16:18All right.
00:16:19That's good.
00:16:21You had a good time, though.
00:16:22I'm glad.
00:16:23Yeah.
00:16:24Allison and Angie told me that you're a good guy.
00:16:28I'm gonna forgive you.
00:16:30Well, thank you, babe.
00:16:31I'm good.
00:16:32I appreciate that.
00:16:32That's what I was hoping for.
00:16:36Hey, it's football night tonight.
00:16:39And, you know, some buddies will be out.
00:16:42And we can go watch a game.
00:16:44And, you know, we can get some dinner.
00:16:45I can drink a couple beers.
00:16:47And you can hang out and meet some new people.
00:16:50No, I gotta stay at home.
00:16:52I'm so tired.
00:16:53I mean, we can just go tonight and stay home tomorrow.
00:16:58No.
00:17:00You're not drinking beer tonight.
00:17:02You're gonna drink herbal tea with me tonight.
00:17:05Mmm.
00:17:06And we're doing yoga together.
00:17:09Yoga?
00:17:10Yeah.
00:17:11I've never done yoga, babe.
00:17:13We're gonna do it.
00:17:14If you want me to be happy, we're gonna do it together.
00:17:19You can sit here.
00:17:20You're gonna wait me.
00:17:20I'm gonna make herbal tea for us.
00:17:23Get on the floor?
00:17:23Yes.
00:17:26You know, Shay, you've gained a lot of weight since you're visiting me in the Philippines.
00:17:32I know, babe.
00:17:33I mean, when I'm not with you, I'm hanging out with the guys and, you know, drinking beer.
00:17:40You need to lose weight so you have a better sex with me every day.
00:17:44I'm always on top.
00:17:46And I do all the work.
00:17:49That's not from losing weight.
00:17:50That's because that's why I like it.
00:17:55Here's the tea.
00:17:56Oh.
00:17:56Mmm.
00:17:58How's the taste?
00:17:59Good.
00:18:00Good?
00:18:00Yeah.
00:18:03Mm-hmm.
00:18:05You like?
00:18:06Yeah, it's kind of spicy tasting.
00:18:07So we gotta sit on the floor and then do yoga.
00:18:11You take your shoes off, too, or just me?
00:18:13No, no, just you, because I feel cold.
00:18:16Oh, if I get down, I might not get back up.
00:18:20Okay, so what is this about, babe?
00:18:26I want you to do this.
00:18:28Like this.
00:18:29Like that.
00:18:31My hands together?
00:18:32Yeah.
00:18:36Hard to breathe.
00:18:39You think this is hard?
00:18:40Wait until I teach you Zumba.
00:18:44You're gonna exhale, inhale.
00:18:46Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:18:47Oh.
00:18:49Oh, my gosh.
00:18:50Oh.
00:18:52Oh, babe.
00:18:53I'm too old for this.
00:18:55Oh, you're not too old.
00:18:58Just pray, babe.
00:18:59I pray for you that you never cheat anymore.
00:19:02I'm kind of praying.
00:19:03I wish I had a beer in the football game, but...
00:19:06Oh.
00:19:08Annabelle's gave up everything to beer with me, and, you know, I may have to change things in my life,
00:19:13like beer, parties, women.
00:19:17Um, you know, I'm gonna have to give up things. I understand that. I mean, it's a two-way street.
00:19:22You know, I love you's too much, and I'm glad that you forgive me. I feel a lot better.
00:19:29Shut up. I'm meditating.
00:19:30Oh.
00:19:32Y'all do anything to keep her from wanting to go home, back to the Philippines, and, you know, make
00:19:37her feel happy.
00:19:40Oh, you're gonna... I don't know if I can get up, baby.
00:19:42Oh.
00:19:43Mm.
00:19:44Oh, my God.
00:19:46Ada, help me up.
00:19:49Oh, Lord.
00:19:52I keep to what I know, but it's not far behind.
00:19:58I'm trying not to care, but it's all I have to show.
00:20:04This is like a way for now, and I'll take it in my stride.
00:20:10So this is a chair from Bella, isn't it?
00:20:13Yeah.
00:20:14It's comfortable.
00:20:16This feels pretty good.
00:20:18Glad you have a desk.
00:20:19Yeah.
00:20:20I like it.
00:20:30You okay?
00:20:31Just setting up a house, or a space, or an apartment with someone, is out of my comfort zone.
00:20:40I don't like living with people.
00:20:45That's okay.
00:20:46I'll just hop on back to the United Kingdom.
00:20:48This has been lovely.
00:20:51Living with Josh is harder than I thought it would be, because he's really frustrated about the lack of furniture,
00:20:55and I'm frustrated with him at the lack of patience.
00:20:59So the last few days have been really tough.
00:21:03We're not seeing eye to eye, but we also aren't communicating well, so I don't really know how to get
00:21:08past this.
00:21:10I think, if anything, we can take comfort that it's just a short thing.
00:21:15Once you've got everything a bit more stable, that bit will be over, and we can just lean into living
00:21:21life, you know?
00:21:22Yeah.
00:21:23I just want to, like, not obsess about each detail of the apartment, as we are making progress every day
00:21:29to make it better.
00:21:31Yeah.
00:21:32Yeah, okay, understood.
00:21:33I feel like we're in a much better place than we were yesterday or the day before.
00:21:37I think we're in a worse place.
00:21:40Can you try and just recognize that I know it's stressful for you living apartments and all of this.
00:21:45Like, I've literally just left my country and I'm setting up, and I feel like you're just a bit dismissive
00:21:49over it sometimes.
00:21:51When I basically moved to the UK and Europe for a year, I didn't find that such a big deal.
00:21:57So it's hard for me to empathize with you moving countries.
00:22:01You went on holiday with a suitcase, and I have no choice. I cannot leave for, like, over a year.
00:22:08I can't work.
00:22:09It's a massive difference.
00:22:11Being an immigrant in the US at the moment is a pretty fragile position to be in, and I feel
00:22:17like that really weighs on me.
00:22:18Okay.
00:22:23I guess, like, if I were in your position, I might feel less stressed out.
00:22:30Sometimes I think that you can say something and it can come across as hurtful.
00:22:34I think sometimes he just reads into things, though.
00:22:38That's a big cultural difference. Like, I think in the UK, I think that you do read into things.
00:22:46And I feel like I'm putting a lot of effort into understanding American ways of being, and I feel like
00:22:53you could try and understand that element of Britishness.
00:22:57We're in America.
00:23:03What's next on your priority list?
00:23:05Well, it is my birthday party, so I was hoping we could focus on that.
00:23:09Well, I don't know what the plans are, so what are we going to do?
00:23:13We're going to a bar with friends.
00:23:16Nice!
00:23:17Yeah.
00:23:19We're going to a bar tonight for my birthday party, and I invited some friends.
00:23:25Also, one of my friends, Ryan, is in town for, like, a work thing, so I also invited him.
00:23:31And I'm realizing that I should not have invited him.
00:23:38Well, I'm pumped.
00:23:39I'm glad you're pumped, too.
00:23:42Super pumped.
00:23:46I met Ryan at a run club in Chicago a couple years ago when I was running the marathon, and
00:23:52we recently ran the Berlin Marathon together and went on, like, a Europe road trip.
00:23:58I had a lot of fun with Ryan, but a little bit too much fun. That was kind of my
00:24:03chaotic era.
00:24:06Me and Ryan made out a couple of times, but nothing further than that.
00:24:11Was Josh there?
00:24:13Josh was there, like, at, like, two out of four of the times.
00:24:21I think that's also why I've been being a bit pissy today, because, um, I hate keeping secrets.
00:24:38Oh, hey.
00:24:40I'm looking forward to this evening.
00:24:41Oh, me too.
00:24:42Yeah?
00:24:43Uh, let's sit down and chat.
00:24:48I think there's a chance that when Josh finds out that Ryan's coming to the birthday party, he won't show
00:24:52up.
00:24:52Because he said he's never going 20 feet, within 20 feet of Ryan ever again.
00:24:58There's nothing to tell you.
00:25:00What?
00:25:01Are you going to like it?
00:25:03No, you're not going to like it.
00:25:11I mean, I don't think I can completely cut him out of my life.
00:25:16If you love me, you can listen to me.
00:25:18I'm listening to you right now.
00:25:20I'm just telling you that's not going to happen.
00:25:22I want you to figure your out with each other, because we're all going to be in each other's lives.
00:25:28He's going to be around.
00:25:31Honestly, if he has such a problem with my American culture, then maybe he should have been with a Turkish
00:25:37one.
00:25:49Okay.
00:25:50So hike means walk, right?
00:25:53Yeah, it's a little walk.
00:25:55And you are wearing jeans for a walk.
00:26:08Bebe, I wish at least one day you could be a gentleman and open the door for me. Just one
00:26:16day.
00:26:17If opening the door means that you don't want to drive, then I'll open the door for you.
00:26:22No, I want to drive.
00:26:24No.
00:26:27This morning, when Thomas glued my perfume that he's allergic to, I was so frustrated.
00:26:34Why I cannot drive?
00:26:36You know, I don't think it's a good day.
00:26:39We hang out with other people.
00:26:41Other people wear perfume.
00:26:43He never say anything I never see.
00:26:45And with me, oh, he started to be super allergic.
00:26:49So I think it's a way of control.
00:26:51I really hate that.
00:26:53I refuse that.
00:26:57I don't feel good right now.
00:26:58Why?
00:26:59I don't know. My nose is running.
00:27:01Like, I'm allergic to something.
00:27:02You think it's my perfume that I wear this morning?
00:27:05Like, this isn't normal for me.
00:27:06I don't normally feel like this.
00:27:08My mouth isn't normally itchy.
00:27:10I don't have my sinuses usually running.
00:27:12Like, my nose is running.
00:27:13I have to, like, keep blowing it.
00:27:15I can't handle it with you.
00:27:19This double personality suddenly change.
00:27:25I'm, like, fighting to, like, progress through the day.
00:27:29Like, can you just give me a break?
00:27:30It's not a double personality.
00:27:31Is there something that I can...
00:27:32I'm trying to have fun.
00:27:33I'm trying to do this.
00:27:34But I'm having a hard time, like, being fully here.
00:27:37Just, like, go easy.
00:27:38Where do you wanna be?
00:27:40I don't know.
00:27:42I mean, let's just go for a hike and enjoy nature.
00:27:48Paula is aware of my allergies,
00:27:51but I would never go as far to say that she understands my allergies.
00:27:56She feels like it's a personal attack against her.
00:27:58It's a real difficult conflict that we have yet to figure out between us.
00:28:06Honestly, I think gluing the perfume shut was the best thing I could have done.
00:28:10But I recognize it's her second day here.
00:28:13And I'll be honest, I feel bad that she's upset about it.
00:28:17Hey, I'm sorry for bringing the stuff in the car, okay?
00:28:19Like, it's just tough.
00:28:20But I love you.
00:28:22I'm happy to be here with you.
00:28:24I never knew that in only two days we would have this much of a problem.
00:28:30Perfume, meat, you are freaking out.
00:28:34It's just hard for me to be myself when I'm feeling, like, so bad.
00:28:38When the perfume comes out in the apartment, like, my nose is running.
00:28:43My sinuses are all congested.
00:28:45My mouth is itchy.
00:28:46It's like I can't focus on anything else but, like, my whole entire face area.
00:28:50It's, like, inflamed.
00:28:52I mean, I know that it is very hard for you.
00:28:55But it's hard for me to accept.
00:28:59You are putting our relationship down.
00:29:02You are fighting with me.
00:29:04You are not being gentlemen.
00:29:07It's, uh...
00:29:08Sometimes it's just, it gets hard, and I don't know how to voice what I'm going through.
00:29:12And I'm sorry that, like, I'm the one that you're matched up with.
00:29:18I'm so different from you.
00:29:21We're gonna find a middle way, you know, from you and I.
00:29:25My life is not easy at all.
00:29:27But in my relationship, that would not be different.
00:29:31You are from another country.
00:29:34You speak another language.
00:29:35You have another preference that is 100% opposite than mine.
00:29:41Which is hard to do.
00:29:43But I love you.
00:29:47I wanna make our relationship work.
00:29:50I just don't wanna be treated like...
00:29:53You know?
00:29:54Because you must treat me bad.
00:29:56I'm sorry.
00:29:57I'm sorry for what I did.
00:29:58I'm sorry for what I said.
00:29:59And I wanna be better.
00:30:07Thanks.
00:30:11Sorry to make you feel bad, okay?
00:30:14It's okay.
00:30:15I don't wanna make you feel bad.
00:30:18He's very sensitive, right?
00:30:20Yeah, that's very true.
00:30:22I'm an emotional wreck.
00:30:23That's, that's for sure.
00:30:26Yeah, that's true.
00:30:27It was hard for me.
00:30:29Only two days.
00:30:29I could barely make it.
00:30:31Yes.
00:30:32Only two days and you wanna send your fiance back to Brazil.
00:30:37The one thing that can break Thomas and I apart
00:30:40is he don't found me in a middle way.
00:30:44I'm not here for vacation.
00:30:46I'm, I'm here to build a family.
00:30:47We were talking about having kids in future.
00:30:50But we need to found a middle way to meet.
00:30:53Is it possible?
00:30:56I'll try.
00:30:57What?
00:30:57I'll try.
00:31:01Let's go.
00:31:04Can I hold my hand?
00:31:06Yes.
00:31:07I'm lost.
00:31:19Up, up, up.
00:31:20Up, no.
00:31:21Come on.
00:31:22Come, come, come here.
00:31:23Come here.
00:31:23Come on, Opal.
00:31:25Good girl.
00:31:28Yeah, you know, I, I was drunk last night.
00:31:31They are very lucky.
00:31:32They, they sleep with us.
00:31:35You cuddled.
00:31:35You cuddled with Opal.
00:31:36No.
00:31:37You did.
00:31:37I saw it.
00:31:38No.
00:31:39You did.
00:31:40All right, guys.
00:31:42Let's go.
00:31:53Baby.
00:31:55Yes.
00:31:56There is oil, something.
00:31:58Ow, I'm coming, I'm coming.
00:32:01in the american spirit rosh got white girl wasted like he wanted to what does it mean white girl
00:32:10wasted okay what does it mean say white girl wasted white coat wasting
00:32:18it means like white girls they get really really drunk they're like ah i didn't know
00:32:26huh bieber bieber bieber justin bieber what is this
00:32:34after hangout hangover hangover yeah i need turkish breakfast breakfast yeah i will make
00:32:42meraman my butthole's gonna be hating me later this is good when you eat hot after toilet yeah no
00:32:51your bowel hot cry pain do you understand no i don't
00:33:04here here's your coffee thank you so much you're welcome
00:33:12i felt like last night was fun what did you think do you think you have did you have fun
00:33:16last night yes
00:33:17i mean they did all of that for you you know it was very nice of them but you know
00:33:26brandy is that well i need to i want i really didn't talk about it last night
00:33:32i don't want to be you friends my fiance i say this and he's he didn't listen to me and
00:33:43it's he's very i see he's very angry last night i speak brandy like he don't speak he's he's has
00:33:56something here and he say i'm brandy get on off my truck oh god i say what i'm brandy what
00:34:07is your
00:34:08problem like what i i don't understand just i say yes okay you know if someone came up to me
00:34:14was like
00:34:15don't speak to my fiance i'd be like bitch bye go on with yourself like if he say this like
00:34:22this i will
00:34:23learn the punching oh yeah who are you bitch i mean i don't think i can completely cut him out
00:34:33of my
00:34:34life oh my god
00:34:38i want you to figure your out with each other because we're all going to be in each other's lives
00:34:46like rin mikayla's husband yeah you know that is his best friend yeah so if you say you don't want
00:34:54him around then that means i can't spend time with mikayla that's not going to happen like i'm going to
00:34:59hang out with my best friend he's going to be around if you love me you can listen to me
00:35:07i'm listening to
00:35:08you right now i'm just telling you you're trying to start that doesn't need to be started i don't
00:35:14care no you are pissing me off good because i'm over good
00:35:23i'm totally fine with him being the man of the house and acting like the man of the house
00:35:28but it's not just some little culture adjustment i mean i'm not going to let him come in and just
00:35:35change everything about my life that i've been living these past couple of years like
00:35:39these people have been a part of my life whether he likes it or not and honestly if he has
00:35:45such a
00:35:46problem with my american culture then maybe he should have been with a turkish one
00:35:53change this face please i just want this to be over with i don't want to see your face right
00:36:00now
00:36:00just turn turn your back
00:36:09asia so when you get married to my brother how many kids do you intend to have two
00:36:16these two kids you are talking about it's unacceptable you've raised him he's grown let him go i think i
00:36:37prefer four
00:36:37mama look around this is nigeria africa look at that man standing there in the car
00:36:45what enough room in the car you say he gonna get there one way or another
00:36:50those guys you see standing on the bus that's your job they are called bus conductors you see this guy
00:36:57they can't conduct no bus there
00:37:10maybe you look so beautiful do i sweetie you look so fine like a model yeah
00:37:18it's been eight long months i've set my eyes on this beautiful
00:37:23damn cell sitting close to me we had already promised each other that we would do every five
00:37:27to six months and the only reason we beat it this time was because the case was moving so fast
00:37:32we
00:37:33might just be waiting another month or two and then you'll be in the u.s it wasn't easy because
00:37:37sometimes i want to talk to her in person i'm gonna take her out i want to spoil her but
00:37:42i do things
00:37:42i'll just make her smile because i know the kind of things she like
00:37:51i can't wait to get uh to your parents who are we gonna see next where mama we'll see them
00:37:56soon
00:37:56as we get back to the home house son we are almost there so they put on a sweater for
00:38:03my family so you can cover up
00:38:05your body i'll put it on when i get out the car
00:38:12baby when i saw your outfit i'm like there we go again am i supposed to start lecturing you and
00:38:17tutoring you how to present yourself to my parents this is my thing with him it's like
00:38:23sexy sexy sexy i want to see sexy the family they want you to be all the way covered up
00:38:29so it's like a balancing act like how can i be comfortable how can i be cute and how can
00:38:35i be
00:38:35conservative like all at the same time and then be in this heat baby put on your jackets when am
00:38:41i
00:38:41crossing the line i have no idea because you got him saying be sexy 24 7. with me not with
00:38:48my parents
00:38:53what's your step mama mommy daddy
00:39:03oh look at y'all thank you you're so pretty mommy
00:39:15you're welcome you're welcome you're welcome happy to see you happy to see you like you
00:39:22yeah me too well you you can come here come okay come tell your father and then oh on this
00:39:28trip we
00:39:29rented an apartment for the whole family to come together as one and get to know each other and get
00:39:34comfortable with each other i've met the parents but this will be the first time we will be staying
00:39:39such a long time together so you know how you can do your best for a short period of time
00:39:46but as time
00:39:47go on they'll be probably nitpicking me and trying to see you know who i am how i am and
00:39:51stuff like
00:39:51that so hopefully i can i can do good for a longer period of time this is a cola just
00:39:59officially welcome
00:40:00your people okay we eat this thing it will give us life in abundance
00:40:12oh it's sweet it's kind of flashy it's medicinal just swallow it right it's no invite it's with him it's
00:40:18hard
00:40:23oh that's spicy
00:40:27oh god
00:40:31y'all eat this for taste or just for blessing
00:40:33for blessing and then it's medicinal okay you've been in tudec hot i mean i am very honored that he
00:40:43went out his way to welcome me but he could have just gave me a hug mama let me show
00:40:51you your room
00:40:51so you can freshen up you and isha oh thank you mommy thank you daddy you're welcome
00:40:57master being the first son is the most important lesson in our life so what i have in mind for
00:41:06my
00:41:06son is that he must attract a good wife oh my goodness all these snails i am worried though because
00:41:15people say that love is blind hair when you love someone you you you behave as a fool i feel
00:41:24like that
00:41:25is what is going on now oh it's bright in here very very bright i love it you love it
00:41:33yes it's a lot of
00:41:35room i need this closet at my house baby don't worry you i'll i already look all the shoes and
00:41:41purses
00:41:42in the world yeah this is the kind of household dude that's nice i love freestanding tubs too you love
00:41:46your temporary home i'm telling you i was kidding with my parents the other day i told them i was
00:41:52going to stay here stay well sweetie this room oh baby i know they had a milk down they started
00:41:58preaching
00:41:59what'd they say well you can't stay here you know you're married to isha blah blah blah blah blah blah
00:42:04is she right for real yes sweetie you mean i can't stay here
00:42:15sweetie no we're not married since you don't want me to be in your room you don't have no
00:42:18business coming to my room if you want to meet with me downstairs sweetie i love your jokes that's
00:42:24so sweet i love i mean yes yes i'm serious but sweetie on another note but you think everything
00:42:28went well yeah yeah it did your parents look beautiful thank you what else do they have
00:42:35planned the dinner and that's it the kids you're gonna meet them blaze i see oh sweetie no you already
00:42:42know i don't want everybody not busy on this trip i'll be staying with maxwell's parents and his
00:42:52sisters and blaze is literally maxwell's private investigator you know she just dig dig dig dig
00:42:59until they find something so that's what i'm worried about with her all right sweetie let me go
00:43:06freshen up okay okay sorry she will question me to death hey mom well done what's up for the dinner
00:43:16daddy daddy how are you doing fine nice you're welcome oh nice to see you today is the first time
00:43:23i'm meeting asia face to face and i should know her intentions for my brother i am very protective of
00:43:30maxwell we value first son so much we don't joke with our first sons anything that will try to take
00:43:36him away from the family we fight against it by all means
00:43:48i'm just so sorry that i put you and laura in that situation he acted like a clown saying shut
00:43:56your mouth
00:43:56woman is completely unacceptable it's not acceptable behavior i don't think it would
00:44:01be right to even give him another chance honestly mito is not showing me that he loves me that presents
00:44:08real consequences relationship ending consequences
00:44:32you're in too deep
00:44:41this is a huge mess and i don't have any idea
00:44:49what do you do next
00:44:52yesterday was just i don't know he just got in a mood and i just had this moment where i
00:45:02remembered
00:45:04being married before and feeling so alone i'm not gonna walk alone again i'm not gonna do that again
00:45:20i just want to talk to you about what happened
00:45:26how are you feeling today how are you feeling today so so in this moment if i had the ticket
00:45:31i would go back to you
00:45:39i have no idea if mido has booked a flight or not to return home
00:45:45is that scary i don't
00:45:50i'm just so shocked that i'm not sure how to feel about anything
00:46:00i've gotten a few are you okay texts from astra this morning and so we're gonna meet up later on
00:46:07so we
00:46:07can have a conversation about what happened last night
00:46:11i definitely need more time before i speak with mido because it's just too explosive at this moment
00:46:18i'm embarrassed about this situation so badly it's not even funny i'm expecting astral to say run
00:46:46it's good to see you good to see you too it's bad enough when he talks to me like that
00:46:52but not my friends
00:46:54no way it's absolutely heart-wrenching to watch your fiance be a monster in front of your friends
00:47:00i'm devastated i've never seen anything go south that fast in my life it was so frustrating because
00:47:10like the entire like haunted house like he barely even looked at me it broke my heart honestly like
00:47:17for you the way he was acting it was like he thought he was there for a job audition with
00:47:23the haunted
00:47:23house rather than there on a date with you and that was really really heartbreaking to see
00:47:31he got thank you oh wow thank you that's beautiful
00:47:37i would not accept that type of behavior from anyone so i think she cannot brush this under the rug
00:47:46i just i'm over here like get this guy out of here send him home
00:47:52i have to say like no matter what culture you're from saying shut your mouth woman is completely
00:47:58unacceptable it's not acceptable behavior and he tried to intimidate me he was really close to me and
00:48:05you could see like a lot of pent-up anger like his neck was his veins were bulging in his
00:48:11raging it's
00:48:12just raging it was super immature like you're over 40 years old sir grow the up
00:48:21he acted like a clown i want you to calm down i know i'm i really want just like worried
00:48:28for you
00:48:29because i don't be worried i if i was in your position i would be quite honestly like devastated
00:48:34if he's saying that type of stuff to you in front of people then how is he treating you when
00:48:40nobody
00:48:41else is around he's been wonderful some days we've had some of the greatest days there is just not always
00:48:48every day is a great day i understand that but not having a great day shouldn't always result in
00:48:55a complete toddler yeah ask meltdown yeah it was bad do you feel like mido really loves you
00:49:07i don't know to right now i don't know he doesn't seem genuine yeah have you ever felt like maybe
00:49:16he's
00:49:16just using you to get famous or anything he says he came here for me did he really though
00:49:25that's what he says yeah his intentions are honestly very questionable at this point the way he acted
00:49:33behaved treated her like his mido using debbie it kind of seems like he is like it seems like he's
00:49:40acting i don't know if it's for her or if it's for the chance to be in the movies on
00:49:46tv
00:49:49i don't think you can marry this guy w like i honestly don't think you should or could or would
00:49:54like he showed his ass and i don't think he can come back from it i don't think it would
00:50:00be right
00:50:00to even give him another chance honestly he's gonna have to apologize he's gonna have to make some
00:50:05apologies what happens if he doesn't do that though then there's nothing to talk about
00:50:14i'm getting really strange vibes from this guy debbie
00:50:19i am so angry with him because mido is not showing me that he loves me he is not showing
00:50:27me that he cares about me i don't know what he's doing here that presents real consequences
00:50:36relationship ending consequences
00:50:40i'm gonna be very honest with you i have no idea what to do i respect you you're an adult
00:50:45you're
00:50:45gonna make your own decisions but like you should probably send him packing asap
00:50:50girl like get him out my daughter is beautiful and very lovable yeah what is it about my daughter
00:51:05that is so special to you i am super anxious my parents approval means the world to me
00:51:11i want respect i want more weight the only person that i found with all these things was her
00:51:19he sounded a little macho when he said i love respect and loyalty you know that's not what i would
00:51:25have led with
00:51:35so
00:51:36there's something to tell you um
00:51:42you're pregnant yes okay i invited someone you don't like to my birthday party okay on the list of
00:52:06people i don't like who is it um i invited brian
00:52:22this is awkward i know i i should have told you earlier
00:52:28he told me he was here and i was like come to my birthday but then i didn't really
00:52:31think very hard about if that would be like a good thing to do i just kind of got excited
00:52:39and invited him
00:52:39to be here instead of thinking it through with you
00:52:44sorry it puts me in a position because i can't promise i'm not going to be a bit of a
00:52:50dick but it's
00:52:51your birthday oh the the uh the topic that never stops giving ryan i met ryan in germany when casey
00:53:02was
00:53:07both drunken and i saw that that they'd shared a kiss i wasn't happy with that and katie was
00:53:14going on to travel with them for two weeks after i'd gone back to the uk so i got a
00:53:20conversation with
00:53:21katie and say this needs to stop or you need to admit that this relationship isn't what you're
00:53:26looking for katie was apologetic whilst setting it happen over that trip and the two weeks while
00:53:34she was away i was just expecting every text to be an admission of something else stupid that had
00:53:40happened from what katie said they didn't sleep together and i don't want to be living in a
00:53:47relationship where i'm second guessing things so i'm choosing to take her at her word
00:53:53i just i'm sick of this you know what can i do to make you feel comfortable at this party
00:54:02you know my feelings about him i don't trust him i just don't want anything to go horribly wrong
00:54:11the thing is you must know by now what's good behavior and what's not good behavior like do i
00:54:18want you to end up having a dozen shots and making out with ryan or the next guy that you
00:54:23lay your eyes
00:54:24on probably not i don't want you to feel uncomfortable i want you guys to be able to coexist
00:54:32i mean i think what i want is an explanation from him as to his motives and why he thinks
00:54:38that his behavior was acceptable honestly like if it were up to me ryan would just off and go about
00:54:46his life and i think that him even being invited is i think katie may be taking advantage of me
00:54:55being
00:54:57nice about things which feels a bit rotten
00:55:02i don't know what katie wants to happen with this situation but she can play games
00:55:12and and see how that works out i don't think it's a good idea i really want to be a
00:55:18good partner and be
00:55:20a better partner but i yeah like sometimes i just like love seeking thrills and excitement
00:55:28i mean what do you want because sometimes the way you talk about it makes me feel like i'm like
00:55:32a ball and chain just kind of like waiting you down and you just want to live a party girl
00:55:38lifestyle
00:55:40i want you to be able to enjoy your party but this will like making out with people i didn't
00:55:45stand up for
00:55:46it it's not that relationship that i'm wanting you know yeah
00:56:04i worry because i don't know you but i know my daughter yeah and my daughter is a good person
00:56:09with
00:56:09a beautiful heart i know that everybody here is concerned i just like her for papers or things like
00:56:16this you know i just want to have the opportunity to show you you know i give you proof that
00:56:21is not
00:56:22my decision you know every talk is cheap and we see we see what you're made of
00:56:35all right well this was some good i think that maybe we'll like take some of the heat off
00:56:40the group setting and like you know relax mingle have some more drinks eat some more food i like
00:56:47that and then um maybe we can head outside yeah you want to come with us yeah why not
00:56:55it's not a good feeling that marie except family question if i'm good enough for her because michael
00:57:03even tried to give me like alert about like oh this family can be like this you know so if
00:57:09they try to do the same thing like michael's because they're rich money class and all these
00:57:16things this is a problem so um it's nice to actually be out here in a smaller setting where
00:57:21we can talk oh so nice i mean marissa as you know i mean very smart very successful and i
00:57:27don't think
00:57:27she would have taken this chance and this gamble if she didn't believe it was going to work out and
00:57:35introduce you to her her kids and bring you into her home that now has to become your home yeah
00:57:41like
00:57:41he's the first person that i ever introduced to the kids like in person you know nobody's ever met
00:57:44them before so it had to be like a special person in order for me to even allow that to
00:57:49happen right
00:57:53so we're all happy here i don't know you well enough not to like you but what i know of
00:57:58you i do like
00:58:00however people come here from another country they want to come to america because america's a wonderful
00:58:07place honestly i sacrificed all these things friends and family to move here i understand like
00:58:14america is a wonderful country but i was okay in my you know i appreciate that but my daughter is
00:58:23beautiful and very lovable yeah and has a heart she's the most amazing person that i was living in
00:58:28my life you know that's that's my next question what is it about my daughter that is so special to
00:58:36you
00:58:39on
00:58:42i beat you a lot and
00:58:47i always learn what i want in a relationship
00:58:51i want respect i want more weight i don't like people lying to me i hate that feelings you know
00:58:59and the only person that i found with all these things was her and that make me understand like
00:59:07that's my person
00:59:11i am super anxious my parents approval means the world to me but you know he sounded a little
00:59:20macho when he said i love respect and loyalty you know that's not what i would have led with
00:59:25he's leaving the parts out that are truly meaningful to me which is that he loves the
00:59:31type of person that i am and he loves my heart and the caring nature that i have
00:59:36and now i don't know if they're gonna really appreciate what i see in him
00:59:41what i worry about is so far your relationship has been in the tropics in lovely hotels and
00:59:49everything is done for you but reality is a whole different ballgame i think these uh 90 days and
00:59:56unfortunately 90 days is never enough both and these are cards you're given and these 90 days you're
01:00:01going to learn a whole lot more about each other than you've ever known before yeah so maybe having
01:00:06these 90 days are a good thing you know i appreciate that you say these things you know
01:00:11the only thing that i can promise you is that i'm gonna do everything in my hands and that's all
01:00:15you
01:00:15can do
01:00:18she believes that this is the man that she wants to spend the rest of her life with and i
01:00:23think
01:00:23all we could do now is say let's see you know let's see where we go from here
01:00:29my daughter is an extremely strong woman i raised her that way and if she leaves him he'll survive
01:00:36because relationships begin and relationships end and that may very well happen to them oh well there
01:00:42you go i just think there are a lot of challenges i know my daughter loves you very much and
01:00:48i believe
01:00:48you love her i hope it works i pray it works and if it doesn't let's hope that god is
01:00:55with you
01:00:56and that god's will is done
01:01:02what is that are you kidding me i invested 250 to buy this rock this is a bad investment paul
01:01:11loves
01:01:11to just waste money but if paul wants any sort of independence in her new country she really needs
01:01:17a credit card i'm trusting you right but i am absolutely terrified i want you to start
01:01:23life differently in the u.s if i die it doesn't matter if i have one billion dollars in a
01:01:29bank account
01:01:51you are supporting this with a bag doesn't make any sense if i push this bag away this will fall
01:02:00my god
01:02:1110 minutes in this position thomas look at your head you are red i'm stretching my legs
01:02:18i'm gonna kiss you
01:02:18nobody kiss me
01:02:21you really want to kiss you yes nobody give me a kiss
01:02:26i'll kiss you
01:02:29see you come on later all right here grab my hands
01:02:36just pull oh my god be careful i need you you bring me some hangers there's a there's a couple
01:02:45white
01:02:45ones those are the ones you get from dry cleaning when they give you your shirts back can you give
01:02:51me
01:02:51some of yours because you you don't wear all these t-shirts give me more maybe 20. yeah but these
01:02:58are
01:02:59good hangers i was thinking about if we can we go to the store i want a mini furniture with
01:03:06a drawers you
01:03:06know yeah we call that a dresser well i'm not sure where you want to even put a dresser i
01:03:11know but we
01:03:12need to find our fast solution because i have so much stuff look at this this is only one bag
01:03:18i need
01:03:18to hang because i would rather give you the closet than get a dresser even if you give me the
01:03:23closet
01:03:24doesn't make any sense only hang stuff i think hanging your stuff might be a little bit better
01:03:28because i can't hang your panties i can hang socks this is not enough thomas never lived with
01:03:36another woman so he have no experience at all i'm the first one and i need to educate this little
01:03:44baby
01:03:44how to live together because they have no idea i cleaned out this bucket you can put like socks and
01:03:52stuff in there how many well this is huge you can fit a bunch of stuff in there it's like
01:03:59a good little
01:03:59drawer i appreciate this but this is not enough i don't came here to play any game with you i
01:04:06just
01:04:06wanted the normal regular life that i have in brazil and that includes closet and drawers i mean you got
01:04:13one suitcase i'm sure your socks and yeah but stop to offer me this like this doesn't fit anything
01:04:20okay well when it's full up to the top i'll agree that it won't fit anything else but right now
01:04:26it's
01:04:26empty what is that are you kidding me look hold it hold it this is a black tourmaline this is
01:04:36a cleaner
01:04:36you got scared and you need this because you have so much bad energy this will help you will clean
01:04:43the atmosphere here if she's trying to start her life new in the u.s why is a rock the
01:04:49first thing
01:04:50she needs to bring with you uh newsflash we got plenty of rocks here paula's been playing a very
01:04:55dangerous game ever since i met her she loves to just waste money and the more that we get closer
01:05:01the more i feel like she's starting to waste my money did you spend money on this of course they
01:05:07don't give us how much does this cost i invested 250 dollars to buy this rock but this is a
01:05:13instrument
01:05:14that will give us return try to be a magical being at least one time because i'm doing all the
01:05:20work by
01:05:21myself all the manifestation by my own if you want memorabilia why not just find a cheaper stone
01:05:27there's free rocks all over the place i'm looking for the baby one there's a second one like this a
01:05:32baby yes this doesn't mean anything this is a bad investment i was putting thousands of dollars on
01:05:39real things and then you're spending money on silly stuff you have your rollerblades right and
01:05:45and i never say that your rollerblades is a bad investment this can get me somewhere this can get
01:05:50that saves gas this doesn't save anything this is all my manifestation this is all a hard work that
01:05:58i'm doing i show you a totally new world when i met you do you remember how many foods you
01:06:04ate
01:06:05you only ate rice banana and meat you was dry like a grape you was like this suck but say
01:06:16thank you at
01:06:17least you are crazy to throw my rocks away as you did with my perfume if you want to lose
01:06:24one teeth
01:06:25you're gonna mess with my rocks okay he wants to control every little thing that i do like money
01:06:32only worth while i am alive if i die doesn't matter if i have one billion dollars in a bank
01:06:39account
01:06:40that was the first time that i really put our relationship in a in a point like would i get
01:06:47married with this guy he's so stupid and so aggressive i told the government i said hey i will
01:06:56sponsor this girl financially all right but i want to sponsor you i don't want to sponsor your tiny stuff
01:07:01or your rocks and i'm just worried that when i give you a credit card that you're going to go
01:07:04too far with
01:07:05it put yourself in my shoes okay i understand you i want to be more conscient with money but i
01:07:11just
01:07:11want to understand that some specific stuff that i bought is just a symbol of my manifestations look
01:07:19look here's your credit card this is your credit card with your name on it i pay the bills for
01:07:24this
01:07:24i need you to help me survive so that we're in this together
01:07:30i'll take care so if you spend a lot of money i'll have to pay for it
01:07:34you know we live in a cashless society if paula doesn't have a credit card i am actually concerned
01:07:39about letting her roam free in the u.s like i just felt like hey if paula wants any sort
01:07:45of
01:07:46independence in her new country she really needs a credit card but at the same time like i am
01:07:52absolutely terrified about what she's going to do with it i'm trusting you right can i buy a car
01:07:58no paula fluctuates in and out of credit card debt i mean i didn't tell her this but that credit
01:08:05card
01:08:05has a 25 000 spending limit like i didn't know how to get it any lower so like if she
01:08:11accidentally makes
01:08:12a mistake she could do some pretty bad damages i want you to start life differently in the u.s
01:08:18i want
01:08:18you to say hey listen i want to be more reserved i want to be more careful with my spending
01:08:22in the u.s
01:08:23i swear to god in brazil when i want something that i need monies throw up from nowhere it's just
01:08:31magic
01:08:31that doesn't make any sense i'm terrified right now
01:08:39she wants to change my hairline she wants to change my eyeballs i suppose what if he likes the way
01:08:45he is he doesn't know what he likes until he sees it you can't tell me he doesn't know what
01:08:49he likes
01:08:50what he is a man i do not accept it i do not what we have also
01:09:17that's what is being a little bit more reserved you know maybe he's been a little bit chill because
01:09:22his parents are here and i know they're very opinionated when it comes to them selecting spouses
01:09:27but at the end of the day he knows that god brought us together you know so i feel like
01:09:31he just has to stand on faith knowing that everything is going to be okay in the end
01:09:35the end of the day
01:09:48hey hey
01:09:50mommy and daddy blaze
01:09:52oh
01:09:54oh blaze
01:09:56how are you doing
01:09:58nice to meet you okay let me see my twin they said we look alike though blaze
01:10:10i am so excited i have a channel mom in the house my sisters and my parents together
01:10:17i'm worried about meeting blaze because blaze is nosy literally let me tell you she has went through
01:10:23my entire facebook profile facebook came out around 2009 she went through
01:10:34every single picture of mine and then told maxwell that she did it like i would be so ashamed like
01:10:40even if i had done that i don't think i would let anybody know welcome mom how was your trip
01:10:46no it was okay she tried to sleep the best she could blaze tried the foods mom please wash your
01:10:53hands rinse your hands in it mom just rinse your hands in it you wash your hands like this you
01:10:58make
01:10:58your hands clean because you're going to be eating with your hands today she has washed her hands
01:11:03yeah so you roll it up like this you dip it in your soup take that from vegetables you know
01:11:09and you don't chew it you swallow it that's why they call it swallow you roll it up with your
01:11:13hands
01:11:17how come i can't chew this you want to chew it
01:11:27let's be honest do you like nigerian food uh no i don't like nigerian food the meat is really tough
01:11:35if they could get a tender it'll be a little better my wife will teach asia how to make this
01:11:39man look
01:11:40let's teach me and maxwell no no no man doesn't eat a kitchen man don't enter the kitchen no woman
01:11:49owns
01:11:49the kitchen oh okay you can cook right yeah i can cook enough asia so when you get married to
01:11:59my
01:11:59brother how many kids do you intend to have two why do you want to what's your reason it's expensive
01:12:09blaze to have kids in america is very expensive these two kids you are talking about is what is
01:12:18is unacceptable i think i prefer four dad we're gonna have what god planned for us to have how about
01:12:31that
01:12:36the two children are you no no no no no no no i do not accept it
01:12:44i do not maybe maxwell talked to her or maybe she realized her mistake in nigeria what we think about
01:12:56the u.s you see them as people that are not submissive because here in nigeria it's expected
01:13:01of you that you must be submissive to that man i feel like if i have opinion just because i'm
01:13:08a woman
01:13:09doesn't mean that maxwell's not going to listen to me he listens because he knows that i respect him
01:13:15and he knows that i have his best interest at heart like there's a lot of stuff he probably i
01:13:18tell
01:13:19him to do that he probably don't want to do but when he sees like the benefits of it then
01:13:24he's like oh
01:13:24well that wasn't so bad like this chemical feel i think it did good you sure did show them the
01:13:30chemical appeal i think messi come closer that you see this come to the side
01:13:36so this was day one
01:13:41so day four so it's already clearing up a little bit this is serious wow
01:13:47what if he likes the way he is and you are still trying to he doesn't know what he likes
01:13:51until he sees
01:13:52it you can't tell me he doesn't know what he likes he's a man she wants to change my hairline
01:13:57she
01:13:57wants to change my eyeballs really let me say blaze he's been letting the sun damage the white part of
01:14:06his eyes but here in nigeria that white part of our eyes is not usually white it's not that it's
01:14:13not
01:14:13white what he's been doing is going out in the sun and after so much sun damage as a protector
01:14:20a special
01:14:21coating of skin rolls over the pupil where people see and see he has it on the whites that's what
01:14:27i'm saying that we nigerians that white part is not usually white look at mine
01:14:36honestly that's what i'm thinking like are you okay the eyes the delicate part of the body it should
01:14:42be his decision he should be the one saying i want to get this done not someone suggesting it for
01:14:47him
01:14:49like are you going to change everything about maxwell no no no no no we're good
01:14:56i know i'm right and i know we're going to do it and we're going to continue to do it
01:15:00and so he's going to have to let them go like you've raised him he's grown let him go
01:15:15hello hi this is my friend ryan i like your outfit i'm not gonna be shied away from my fiance's
01:15:23party
01:15:23because some boy from the midwest decides to turn up why are you here katie and i have had
01:15:30conversations about what she really wants with her life there's a reason that this keeps happening
01:15:36right katie i don't know do you know more what you want with your life
01:15:44such a bad girl living in a mad world rocking it endlessly
01:15:53is this it yeah it looks like it yes hello hello yeah i'm excited for my birthday yes
01:16:21i'm excited hopefully people can make it i'm trying to confirm with people who's coming
01:16:27have you heard from ryan then i haven't talked to him on the phone or anything but we texted he
01:16:33said
01:16:34let's have a roll no tequila shots and i said a little yes and he said we'll have a ton
01:16:39of fun
01:16:39without them anyways and then we were talking about maybe going on a run this weekend yeah but he
01:16:45didn't really say anything why do you want to be friends with him given like the amount of drama
01:16:50those around this situation he's just fun when we're not making poor choices i think he's like
01:16:57a fun person and he's like a good friend like i feel like if i was crying in the middle
01:17:00of the night
01:17:01he might answer toxic as
01:17:07i think there's a big uh kind of have your cake and eat it thing with ryan like in my
01:17:12mind like our
01:17:13relationship is the thing to account for and if something threatens it in some way it has to be
01:17:20removed i don't know i really like him as a friend um and i really want to be friends with
01:17:27him
01:17:28how would you feel if i was partying around with other women and i'd probably be hurt and jealous
01:17:39and like why are you friends with that girl still um i don't want to sound like a hypocrite because
01:17:45like we're not in that situation even to say that it sounds dumb
01:17:52i'd love it if you guys could chat and like i don't know you don't have to be friends with
01:17:57anyone you don't want to be friends with i mean what i'm looking for is like responsibility of him to
01:18:02like take responsibility for being a dip have we have a competition whoever kisses the most people
01:18:08tonight wins are you trying to like get me to break up with you yeah what i'll stop
01:18:16and when i'm taking the doctor now i said go away the doctor said you need a sign i said
01:18:24go away
01:18:25and i don't need nobody's help i'm just like everyone else i got problems
01:18:38don't you uh i'm having us to be can you take this forever more without nothing hey girl how
01:18:45you doing we're gonna be fine hello hello it's nice to see you buddy yeah yeah okay
01:18:56wait josh do you have my phone secure in your pocket yeah do you want to lose it
01:19:00i'm sorry no can you not lose it do you promise yeah i've got it okay plenty of pockets so
01:19:05stressed
01:19:05out yeah me too i am nervous the last communication between them josh sent him a really
01:19:15see you never you're a horrible human being text
01:19:19nice to see you guys happy birthday the text was just saying like i'm aware of what's been going on
01:19:27and you're bad and yeah it's you're in the wrong i don't have space to you in my life that
01:19:36was their
01:19:36last interaction not a positive one yeah is that number one yeah all right plus a little bit of tequila
01:19:44okay so number two i need more alcohol you feel like you made the right choice to come back to
01:19:50america
01:19:51yeah maybe maybe maybe i miss london kind of but it was a good time
01:20:03it's gonna be awkward hey nice to see you hello hi
01:20:10this is my friend ryan hi nice to meet you um she showed up by my run club one time
01:20:18the prayer pressure of mandy doing the berlin marathon nice
01:20:23well this is for you oh thank you i'm so excited it's really heavy actually
01:20:30katie is my uh whirlwind friend she is always fun to hang around with and creates the most
01:20:40interesting opportunities and situations
01:20:45i'm dying you're dying this is a lot
01:20:49the last time i saw josh was uh in oktoberfest i would say katie and i got a little bit
01:20:57too drunk
01:20:58and did some things that were inappropriate and um things are not left in the best place
01:21:08i like your outfit thank you i like yours too
01:21:14so how is tonight going for you i mean it's quite fun but
01:21:19katie is a bit of a wild card when did you figure that one out oh day two three four
01:21:25i think josh calmed you down at all did he calm me down sometimes but i feel like every time
01:21:31i think
01:21:31i'm calm i'm not calm i'm just going crazy yeah isn't that what's great about her though
01:21:39do you think you could settle down or do you do you still like you still crave the party life
01:21:43do you
01:21:44still crave the party life she's got a good heart she's just unpredictable
01:21:52i'm conflicted because on one side i want to um kind of say my piece and uh kind of get
01:21:59my points
01:21:59across but doing so means uh thinking back to that drama i'm gonna get josh so we can chat outside
01:22:07and have a
01:22:08chat hey can we have a chat outside yeah okay let's go outside turn around
01:22:19but i'm not gonna be shied away from my fiance's party because some boy from what is chicago in
01:22:26the midwest some boy from the midwest decides to turn up
01:22:38why are you here um it seemed like a fun time to hang out with a friend and uh katie
01:22:50and i have had
01:22:51quite a few conversations about what she really wants with her life
01:23:02there's a reason that this keeps happening right katie
01:23:08i don't know do you know more what you want with your life
01:23:13i think so
01:23:17like they're gonna be married
01:23:25next time on 90 day fiance if we have some stubborn things that we need to take care of we've
01:23:31got a
01:23:32little pulsating action
01:23:33i don't want to be i am sorry horny like
01:23:40we fight probably daily about being clean 800 is a lot of money
01:23:46i don't have money i don't have car watch that finger
01:23:53oh my god guys you saw my apartment like instead of couch we have a bed thomas and i we
01:24:02are super
01:24:02disconnected i don't want to leave like a refugee inside my own apartment one day i will be like
01:24:11you know what and go back to brazil really
01:24:20these last few days have not been easy for me
01:24:24you wanna come for me all the time you're gonna be overwhelmed okay i'm gonna stop you because i'm
01:24:31trying to settle in and trying to figure out how i'm gonna do everything that i do now and take
01:24:36on
01:24:37another person to care for in my life if you take like that this is not gonna work you know
01:24:46he told me that he's with with his friends some old friends but i didn't know that nicole is there
01:24:52like the last four years like y'all have been engaged and they've also been hanging out
01:24:57i love shay but he stabbed my back i've heard him like tell her like he he loves her
01:25:07i can't marry this man
01:25:12katie no i'm being crazy you're being crazy
01:25:16i thought we were past this but clearly we're not i am done with this bull
01:25:22i want
01:25:25this is
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