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90 Day Fiancé Season 12 Episode 7
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00:00:01Previously on 90 Day Fiance...
00:00:05Sweetie!
00:00:09It has been eight long months, but I am so excited. I'm finally here with my baby.
00:00:17God is still gonna figure out a way for us. Yeah.
00:00:22It's gonna be tough, man.
00:00:24Our parents, they're wealthy. I always felt like I wasn't good enough.
00:00:28Honestly, with you, like, I'm coming for nothing.
00:00:31I just be here a couple of days, and it started to be very hard to find my place.
00:00:37I'm getting irritated. You're just always sitting around, like, on your phone.
00:00:41I just feel like I have, like, another kid.
00:00:47I'm happy to spend a bit of money, but I think if we did that, you would have an aneurysm.
00:00:53You said you are the house husband. You have all the time in the world, so...
00:00:56Figure out how to get cheap furniture, then.
00:01:00It's a small f***ing expense. I don't want to fight over it.
00:01:04I'm not trying to be an asshole.
00:01:06Then stop being an asshole.
00:01:08I think you need to have a long, hard think about whether marriage is the right thing for you.
00:01:16You said last night you didn't have sex with this woman.
00:01:19Some stuff I don't even remember doing. I just hear about it later. I mean, like...
00:01:23Of course you're cheating on me!
00:01:26I can't tell if I can continue this wedding.
00:01:33If you don't want to take me seriously, then just stop talking to me, alright?
00:01:37If you start spraying this stuff again, I'm gonna leave.
00:01:41You can stay here. I'm gonna go somewhere else.
00:01:45Disgusting if I wear perfumes, like, what am I doing here? Like, I don't need all this s***.
00:01:53I'm like the government. Me and taxes? We're here forever.
00:01:57I want to make boundary because our culture, our country, we don't have ex-boyfriend, two friends.
00:02:08Don't call my fiancé, never.
00:02:11Get the f*** off my tailgate.
00:02:15Motherf***er.
00:02:17Get your f*** and go.
00:02:19I need him out of my house.
00:02:22You can't get in the house anyway if you don't even have your pins.
00:02:24I'm not talking with you. Shut your mouth.
00:02:25I'm not talking with you.
00:02:26I'm not gonna shut my mouth.
00:02:27You don't understand!
00:02:28That's not how you treat women in America, mother f***er!
00:02:32You wanna f***ing get in my face?
00:02:35He's going home.
00:02:55So, um, let's just, like, go over. Remember, I want you to, like, be yourself, but be, like, the family
00:03:02approving Edward. Do you know what I mean?
00:03:06Don't be like, Bob! And give him, like, a big hug.
00:03:09I'm not allowed to hug your mother in doing this.
00:03:11No, don't call her mommy. Don't hug, don't pick her up. Don't pick anybody up.
00:03:17Don't eat your attention by your lonely boy. I like it.
00:03:21You can play it cool, but don't pretend you're trying to find a book.
00:03:26Looks good?
00:03:27Yeah.
00:03:27Happy?
00:03:28Yeah. Are you?
00:03:30No. I hate that that thing is in tinfoil, but I don't have anything else to put it in.
00:03:35Listen, it's your parents. It's okay. This is not a big deal.
00:03:39It is to me.
00:03:40Oh, my God.
00:03:43I met the parents before in the DR, but we don't have the opportunity to be, like, one of 100%.
00:03:50You know, the boys are younger, they're on vacation, vacation moon, and we basically put all the attention with the
00:03:57boys.
00:03:57I talk with them a little bit, but they can make you feel that you are nothing.
00:04:03Maybe it's not on purpose, but maybe because they are rich, and they have all the different mentalities.
00:04:10And I get intimidated with people, because I know that I'm smart, and I know that I'm a good person,
00:04:16you know?
00:04:17I think also, like, a guest, come with me. We'll, um, welcome our guests together.
00:04:31Oh, my God.
00:04:34I haven't seen you in a few days. I miss you.
00:04:36I miss you, too.
00:04:37Hi.
00:04:38Hey, Bob.
00:04:38Hi.
00:04:39Hi.
00:04:42Good to see you.
00:04:43How are you doing? Good?
00:04:44Welcome aboard.
00:04:45How's everything?
00:04:46Should be better.
00:04:47Could be worse.
00:04:48Let's go.
00:04:51This meeting is making me really nervous, because although my family is really nice,
00:04:57Edward isn't necessarily the type of guy that they would normally choose for me.
00:05:02I miss, I have a snow.
00:05:04Uh-oh.
00:05:05More guests coming with me to welcome our next session.
00:05:09But it's not just my parents coming today.
00:05:11In true Italian-American fashion, we have...
00:05:14Hi!
00:05:15My aunt and uncle.
00:05:17Hello, my love.
00:05:18And my cousin and her boyfriend.
00:05:20Hi, cuz.
00:05:21How are you?
00:05:22How are you?
00:05:23Hi, Pete.
00:05:24Hi, Elmo.
00:05:25Bienvenido!
00:05:26I know that my family has very high expectations of Edward.
00:05:30They have seen me struggle a lot through my life, especially in relationships.
00:05:34And they want things easy for me.
00:05:36And a lot of them feel that this isn't the easiest choice that I could have made.
00:05:41So we're not gonna have, like, a sit-down dinner.
00:05:42It's more like mingling, getting to know Edward.
00:05:45So the food's out.
00:05:46It's Italian.
00:05:46Italian.
00:05:47Well, Italian's good.
00:05:48Yeah.
00:05:49Looks great.
00:05:49Thank you, Marissa.
00:05:50Everybody's Italian?
00:05:51Thanks, over here.
00:05:52We're Italian.
00:05:53We're Italian.
00:05:53We're Italian.
00:05:54Italian.
00:05:55Bob's not Italian.
00:05:56Bob's Dominican.
00:05:58Irish.
00:05:59Irish.
00:06:01Maybe.
00:06:02From another mother, Bob.
00:06:03I don't know.
00:06:05Bob knows a lot about baseball, too.
00:06:08Marissa have a lot of expectations.
00:06:10It's very high.
00:06:12She wants everything perfect because of these people.
00:06:14It's very important for her.
00:06:16That start to make a little bit pressure on me, and I feel a little bit nervous about, like,
00:06:20oh, my God, like, everything needs to be, like, good because if it's not, you gotta be upset.
00:06:27So, Edward, how big of a family are you from?
00:06:29Well, with my mother, we are three.
00:06:31Mm-hmm.
00:06:32And, like, um, with my, um, my dad, I don't know.
00:06:37A lot.
00:06:42Being so close with your brother, it was probably an easier transition to step in with Derek and Cole.
00:06:47Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:06:48100%.
00:06:49So, we were so tired last night.
00:06:51We just kind of, like, collapsed on bed, and we were just, like, looking at something on his phone, and
00:06:54I had my head on it.
00:06:55And Cole, like, came running into the room and, like, jumped on Edward and, like, put his head on the
00:06:59other side.
00:07:00And it was so cute.
00:07:01It was like, oh, he really feels comfortable with him.
00:07:03Honestly, like...
00:07:04You know, it's a great opportunity for you to stand so I can sit.
00:07:06Oh.
00:07:07My feet are starting to hurt.
00:07:09My heels.
00:07:10No, no, it's okay, it's okay.
00:07:11Oh, thank you.
00:07:12Please.
00:07:13Well, I'm excited for you.
00:07:15I'm excited that you're here.
00:07:18But it's not always gonna be smooth sailing.
00:07:23Their world is changing.
00:07:24They don't know it yet.
00:07:25Oh, they're all excited.
00:07:26Edward's here, oh, boy.
00:07:27But it's not gonna be smooth sailing all the way.
00:07:31And, honestly, I worry because I don't know you.
00:07:34No, I understand.
00:07:38When Marissa came to me with her situation and the fact that she loves Edward and that they wanted to
00:07:45be together and get married, ultimately, I was not on board at all.
00:07:50There's an age difference.
00:07:51There's a cultural difference.
00:07:52He doesn't know what he'll do here yet to make a living.
00:07:56There are a lot of red flags.
00:07:57And unless you're oblivious, you understand that there are.
00:08:03I made that very clear to him.
00:08:06Edward, talk is cheap, and we see.
00:08:08We see what you're made of.
00:08:15I'll be your opponent if you let me take all your pieces apart.
00:08:25I try as possible as you can to be very patient with her.
00:08:29What's wrong?
00:08:44What happened that I missed in the car? Can you tell me?
00:08:46I swear.
00:08:48I'm not doing something.
00:08:50She was crying.
00:08:52She was crying.
00:08:53She say, I'm tired.
00:08:54I frustrated.
00:08:55From what?
00:08:56I told her, you have everything.
00:08:58You don't need something.
00:09:00I need conversation.
00:09:01Conversation for what?
00:09:02I told her, okay.
00:09:03I'm listening.
00:09:04No.
00:09:05Blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:09:06You see?
00:09:12I am, like, just shocked.
00:09:16I am shocked, too.
00:09:17I feel like went south fast.
00:09:20It went south very fast.
00:09:22This is not Egypt.
00:09:24This is not a Muslim country.
00:09:26You do not treat women like that here.
00:09:28Mother .
00:09:31I don't like the way he speaks to her.
00:09:35And that makes me worried for what is going on behind closed doors.
00:09:39How is he treating her then?
00:09:40Because if he has the nerve to treat her like that,
00:09:43today, here and now, he's not going to treat her well at all.
00:09:54I don't know what the future holds for them, but it doesn't look good.
00:09:58It doesn't look like this wedding is going to happen.
00:10:01It's really sad.
00:10:02I'm really upset.
00:10:04Like, Debbie doesn't deserve that kind of heartache to happen to her,
00:10:09but it's better for it to happen now.
00:10:12You just want to sit right here?
00:10:13Yeah, this is perfect.
00:10:18What's your plan right now?
00:10:20Go home.
00:10:21What do you mean by go home?
00:10:22Go to my country.
00:10:25I don't need something new.
00:10:35Good evening.
00:10:36Good evening.
00:10:54So, what is it?
00:10:56God, I don't know how to put this into words.
00:10:59It's a bad day.
00:11:03This evening, I just had like a mini meltdown.
00:11:08Instead of him offering compassion and love or concern,
00:11:13what I got was, what do you have to be crying for?
00:11:19I left my family.
00:11:20I left my work.
00:11:22I left everything.
00:11:24Just completely dismissed anything that I was feeling at all.
00:11:30It's always the same thing.
00:11:33If I'm not comfortable, I'm going home.
00:11:36It depends on you.
00:11:38When you're in a relationship and you love somebody,
00:11:42you don't throw that in their face every two days.
00:11:51I was very surprised, you know.
00:11:54She make a big mistake with me.
00:11:55When they question my virginity.
00:11:59You can that slut in Egypt, but you can't be compassionate with me?
00:12:04Go, go, go.
00:12:06She pushed me too far.
00:12:08Because she sees some photos with some girls in Egypt.
00:12:12Of course, I told her, shut your mouth.
00:12:17And after that, I will not deal with her at all.
00:12:22It's finished.
00:12:23It's over.
00:12:30It's finished.
00:12:31It's over.
00:12:31Already, I start to check the flight tickets.
00:12:36But I don't know.
00:12:40I can't find flight.
00:12:43Tomorrow, inshallah, I will try it.
00:12:46Because it's late now.
00:12:48And I will go home.
00:12:52I'm not going to be taking being called a bitch.
00:12:56I'm not going to take him screaming at my friends.
00:13:00If he wants to go home, pack his bags and go.
00:13:07I can't be with her after all these things.
00:13:11Over.
00:13:13Over, over, over.
00:13:22How are you feeling?
00:13:23I mean, you feel better?
00:13:24Are you still upset with me, or?
00:13:26We talked.
00:13:27She told me already the truth about you and her.
00:13:33And we still have brother.
00:13:35We need to fix this.
00:13:39What's next on your priority list?
00:13:41Well, it is my birthday party.
00:13:43And what are we going to do?
00:13:44We're going to a bar with friends.
00:13:46Nice.
00:13:48One of my friends, Ryan, is in town.
00:13:51So I also invited him.
00:13:52Me and Ryan made out a couple of times.
00:13:55There's something to tell you.
00:13:56What?
00:13:57Am I going to like it?
00:14:04You may run for a long time.
00:14:08Run on for a long time.
00:14:11Run on for a long time.
00:14:15Good night, Annabelle.
00:14:16Bye-bye.
00:14:22Hi, hi, nons.
00:14:25Where's my pop-pop bed?
00:14:26Oh, buy me home?
00:14:27Yes, I'm home.
00:14:30Well, how did it go?
00:14:31Go tell the long-toned liar
00:14:35And tell that midnight rider
00:14:40How are you feeling?
00:14:41I mean, you feel better?
00:14:42Are you still upset with me, or?
00:14:50Yeah, I'm feeling good.
00:14:51I'm feeling better.
00:14:52Feel better?
00:14:53Mm-hmm.
00:14:54So did you and Angie talk, or?
00:15:05You understand now there was nothing going on, right?
00:15:09Yeah.
00:15:10But we still have problem because, Nicole, you need to fix this.
00:15:15Oh, if, you know, if we run into her, it comes down to it.
00:15:18If she pops up, I'll definitely take care of it.
00:15:22So does that mean you're good?
00:15:24You forgive me?
00:15:27Yeah.
00:15:28You take my apology now?
00:15:29Yeah.
00:15:30Well, thank you, mate.
00:15:31I'm glad you're feeling better and everything like that.
00:15:35I love you.
00:15:35Mm-hmm.
00:15:38Mm-hmm.
00:15:40I forgive you, Shay, but you up.
00:15:44I came here for you.
00:15:46And I sacrificed everything from Philippines.
00:15:50So you need to be your best behavior now.
00:15:55I'm here gonna be a wife.
00:15:57I'm gonna definitely work on it, babe.
00:15:59I'm not kidding.
00:16:01This is my role shape.
00:16:03If you do disrespect me again, I'm done.
00:16:07I'm leaving.
00:16:08Nothing like that's gonna happen.
00:16:10And, I mean, you don't have to worry.
00:16:12You're the boss, baby.
00:16:13Yes, I am the boss.
00:16:15I am.
00:16:16Yeah, you're the boss.
00:16:17Yes, I am the boss.
00:16:18All right.
00:16:19That's good.
00:16:21You had a good time, though.
00:16:22I'm glad.
00:16:23Yeah.
00:16:24Allison and Angie told me that you're a good guy.
00:16:28I'm gonna forgive you.
00:16:30Well, thank you, babe.
00:16:31I'm good.
00:16:32I appreciate that.
00:16:32That's what I was hoping for.
00:16:36Hey, it's football night tonight.
00:16:39And, you know, some buddies will be out.
00:16:42And we can go watch a game.
00:16:44And, you know, we can get some dinner.
00:16:45I can drink a couple beers.
00:16:47And you can hang out and meet some new people.
00:16:50No, I gotta stay at home.
00:16:52I'm so tired.
00:16:53I mean, we can just go tonight and stay home tomorrow.
00:16:58No.
00:17:00You're not drinking beer tonight.
00:17:02You're gonna drink herbal tea with me tonight.
00:17:05Mmm.
00:17:06And we're doing yoga together.
00:17:09Yoga?
00:17:10Yeah.
00:17:11I've never done yoga, babe.
00:17:13We're gonna do it.
00:17:14If you want me to be happy, we're gonna do it together.
00:17:19You can sit here.
00:17:20You're gonna wait me.
00:17:20I'm gonna make herbal tea for us.
00:17:23Get on the floor?
00:17:23Yes.
00:17:26You know, Shay, you've gained a lot of weight since you're visiting me in the Philippines.
00:17:32I know, babe.
00:17:33I mean, when I'm not with you, I'm hanging out with the guys and, you know, drinking beer.
00:17:40You need to lose weight so you have a better sex with me every day.
00:17:44I'm always on top.
00:17:46And I do all the work.
00:17:49That's not from losing weight.
00:17:50That's because that's why I like it.
00:17:55Here's the tea.
00:17:56Oh.
00:17:56Mmm.
00:17:58How's the taste?
00:17:59Good.
00:18:00Good?
00:18:00Yeah.
00:18:03Mm-hmm.
00:18:05You like?
00:18:06Yeah, it's kind of spicy tasting.
00:18:07So we gotta sit on the floor and then do yoga.
00:18:11You take your shoes off, too, or just me?
00:18:13No, no, just you, because I feel cold.
00:18:16Oh, if I get down, I might not get back up.
00:18:20Okay, so what is this about, babe?
00:18:26I want you to do this.
00:18:28Like this.
00:18:29Like that.
00:18:31My hands together?
00:18:32Yeah.
00:18:36Hard to breathe.
00:18:39You think this is hard?
00:18:40Wait until I teach you Zumba.
00:18:44You're gonna exhale, inhale.
00:18:46Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:18:47Oh.
00:18:49Oh, my gosh.
00:18:50Oh.
00:18:52Oh, babe.
00:18:53I'm too old for this.
00:18:55Oh, you're not too old.
00:18:58Just pray, babe.
00:18:59I pray for you that you never cheat anymore.
00:19:02I'm kind of praying.
00:19:03I wish I had a beer in the football game, but...
00:19:06Oh.
00:19:08Annabelle's gave up everything to beer with me, and, you know, I may have to change things in my life,
00:19:13like beer, parties, women.
00:19:17Um, you know, I'm gonna have to give up things. I understand that. I mean, it's a two-way street.
00:19:22You know, I love you's too much, and I'm glad that you forgive me. I feel a lot better.
00:19:29Shut up. I'm meditating.
00:19:30Oh.
00:19:32Y'all do anything to keep her from wanting to go home, back to the Philippines, and, you know, make
00:19:37her feel happy.
00:19:40Oh, you're gonna... I don't know if I can get up, baby.
00:19:42Oh.
00:19:43Mm.
00:19:44Oh, my God.
00:19:46Ada, help me up.
00:19:49Oh, Lord.
00:19:52I keep to what I know, but it's not far behind.
00:19:58I'm trying not to care, but it's all I have to show.
00:20:04This is like a way for now, and I'll take it in my stride.
00:20:10So this is a chair from Bella, isn't it?
00:20:13Yeah.
00:20:14It's comfortable.
00:20:16This feels pretty good.
00:20:18Glad you have a desk.
00:20:19Yeah.
00:20:20I like it.
00:20:30You okay?
00:20:31Just setting up a house, or a space, or an apartment with someone, is out of my comfort zone.
00:20:40I don't like living with people.
00:20:45That's okay.
00:20:46I'll just hop on back to the United Kingdom.
00:20:48This has been lovely.
00:20:51Living with Josh is harder than I thought it would be, because he's really frustrated about the lack of furniture,
00:20:55and I'm frustrated with him at the lack of patience.
00:20:59So the last few days have been really tough.
00:21:03We're not seeing eye to eye, but we also aren't communicating well, so I don't really know how to get
00:21:08past this.
00:21:10I think, if anything, we can take comfort that it's just a short thing.
00:21:15Once you've got everything a bit more stable, that bit will be over, and we can just lean into living
00:21:21life, you know?
00:21:22Yeah.
00:21:23I just want to, like, not obsess about each detail of the apartment, as we are making progress every day
00:21:29to make it better.
00:21:31Yeah.
00:21:32Yeah, okay, understood.
00:21:33I feel like we're in a much better place than we were yesterday or the day before.
00:21:37I think we're in a worse place.
00:21:40Can you try and just recognize that I know it's stressful for you living apartments and all of this.
00:21:45Like, I've literally just left my country and I'm setting up, and I feel like you're just a bit dismissive
00:21:49over it sometimes.
00:21:51When I basically moved to the UK and Europe for a year, I didn't find that such a big deal.
00:21:57So it's hard for me to empathize with you moving countries.
00:22:01You went on holiday with a suitcase, and I have no choice. I cannot leave for, like, over a year.
00:22:08I can't work.
00:22:09It's a massive difference.
00:22:11Being an immigrant in the US at the moment is a pretty fragile position to be in, and I feel
00:22:17like that really weighs on me.
00:22:18Okay.
00:22:23I guess, like, if I were in your position, I might feel less stressed out.
00:22:30Sometimes I think that you can say something and it can come across as hurtful.
00:22:34I think sometimes he just reads into things, though.
00:22:38That's a big cultural difference. Like, I think in the UK, I think that you do read into things.
00:22:46And I feel like I'm putting a lot of effort into understanding American ways of being, and I feel like
00:22:53you could try and understand that element of Britishness.
00:22:57We're in America.
00:23:03What's next on your priority list?
00:23:05Well, it is my birthday party, so I was hoping we could focus on that.
00:23:09Well, I don't know what the plans are, so what are we going to do?
00:23:13We're going to a bar with friends.
00:23:16Nice!
00:23:17Yeah.
00:23:19We're going to a bar tonight for my birthday party, and I invited some friends.
00:23:25Also, one of my friends, Ryan, is in town for, like, a work thing, so I also invited him.
00:23:31And I'm realizing that I should not have invited him.
00:23:38Well, I'm pumped.
00:23:39I'm glad you're pumped, too.
00:23:42Super pumped.
00:23:46I met Ryan at a run club in Chicago a couple years ago when I was running the marathon, and
00:23:52we recently ran the Berlin Marathon together and went on, like, a Europe road trip.
00:23:58I had a lot of fun with Ryan, but a little bit too much fun. That was kind of my
00:24:03chaotic era.
00:24:06Me and Ryan made out a couple of times, but nothing further than that.
00:24:11Was Josh there?
00:24:13Josh was there, like, at, like, two out of four of the times.
00:24:21I think that's also why I've been being a bit pissy today, because, um, I hate keeping secrets.
00:24:38Oh, hey.
00:24:40I'm looking forward to this evening.
00:24:41Oh, me too.
00:24:42Yeah?
00:24:43Uh, let's sit down and chat.
00:24:48I think there's a chance that when Josh finds out that Ryan's coming to the birthday party, he won't show
00:24:52up.
00:24:52Because he said he's never going 20 feet, within 20 feet of Ryan ever again.
00:24:58There's nothing to tell you.
00:25:00What?
00:25:01Are you going to like it?
00:25:03No, you're not going to like it.
00:25:11I mean, I don't think I can completely cut him out of my life.
00:25:16If you love me, you can listen to me.
00:25:18I'm listening to you right now.
00:25:20I'm just telling you that's not going to happen.
00:25:22I want you to figure your out with each other, because we're all going to be in each other's lives.
00:25:28He's going to be around.
00:25:31Honestly, if he has such a problem with my American culture, then maybe he should have been with a Turkish
00:25:37one.
00:25:49Okay.
00:25:50So hike means walk, right?
00:25:53Yeah, it's a little walk.
00:25:55And you are wearing jeans for a walk.
00:26:08Bebe, I wish at least one day you could be a gentleman and open the door for me. Just one
00:26:16day.
00:26:17If opening the door means that you don't want to drive, then I'll open the door for you.
00:26:22No, I want to drive.
00:26:24No.
00:26:27This morning, when Thomas glued my perfume that he's allergic to, I was so frustrated.
00:26:34Why I cannot drive?
00:26:36You know, I don't think it's a good day.
00:26:39We hang out with other people.
00:26:41Other people wear perfume.
00:26:43He never say anything I never see.
00:26:45And with me, oh, he started to be super allergic.
00:26:49So I think it's a way of control.
00:26:51I really hate that.
00:26:53I refuse that.
00:26:57I don't feel good right now.
00:26:58Why?
00:26:59I don't know. My nose is running.
00:27:01Like, I'm allergic to something.
00:27:02You think it's my perfume that I wear this morning?
00:27:05Like, this isn't normal for me.
00:27:06I don't normally feel like this.
00:27:08My mouth isn't normally itchy.
00:27:10I don't have my sinuses usually running.
00:27:12Like, my nose is running.
00:27:13I have to, like, keep blowing it.
00:27:15I can't handle it with you.
00:27:19This double personality suddenly change.
00:27:25I'm, like, fighting to, like, progress through the day.
00:27:29Like, can you just give me a break?
00:27:30It's not a double personality.
00:27:31Is there something that I can...
00:27:32I'm trying to have fun.
00:27:33I'm trying to do this.
00:27:34But I'm having a hard time, like, being fully here.
00:27:37Just, like, go easy.
00:27:38Where do you wanna be?
00:27:40I don't know.
00:27:42I mean, let's just go for a hike and enjoy nature.
00:27:48Paula is aware of my allergies,
00:27:51but I would never go as far to say that she understands my allergies.
00:27:56She feels like it's a personal attack against her.
00:27:58It's a real difficult conflict that we have yet to figure out between us.
00:28:06Honestly, I think gluing the perfume shut was the best thing I could have done.
00:28:10But I recognize it's her second day here.
00:28:13And I'll be honest, I feel bad that she's upset about it.
00:28:17Hey, I'm sorry for bringing the stuff in the car, okay?
00:28:19Like, it's just tough.
00:28:20But I love you.
00:28:22I'm happy to be here with you.
00:28:24I never knew that in only two days we would have this much of a problem.
00:28:30Perfume, meat, you are freaking out.
00:28:34It's just hard for me to be myself when I'm feeling, like, so bad.
00:28:38When the perfume comes out in the apartment, like, my nose is running.
00:28:43My sinuses are all congested.
00:28:45My mouth is itchy.
00:28:46It's like I can't focus on anything else but, like, my whole entire face area.
00:28:50It's, like, inflamed.
00:28:52I mean, I know that it is very hard for you.
00:28:55But it's hard for me to accept.
00:28:59You are putting our relationship down.
00:29:02You are fighting with me.
00:29:04You are not being gentlemen.
00:29:07It's, uh...
00:29:08Sometimes it's just, it gets hard, and I don't know how to voice what I'm going through.
00:29:12And I'm sorry that, like, I'm the one that you're matched up with.
00:29:18I'm so different from you.
00:29:21We're gonna find a middle way, you know, from you and I.
00:29:25My life is not easy at all.
00:29:27But in my relationship, that would not be different.
00:29:31You are from another country.
00:29:34You speak another language.
00:29:35You have another preference that is 100% opposite than mine.
00:29:41Which is hard to do.
00:29:43But I love you.
00:29:47I wanna make our relationship work.
00:29:50I just don't wanna be treated like...
00:29:53You know?
00:29:54Because you must treat me bad.
00:29:56I'm sorry.
00:29:57I'm sorry for what I did.
00:29:58I'm sorry for what I said.
00:29:59And I wanna be better.
00:30:07Thanks.
00:30:11Sorry to make you feel bad, okay?
00:30:14It's okay.
00:30:15I don't wanna make you feel bad.
00:30:18He's very sensitive, right?
00:30:20Yeah, that's very true.
00:30:22I'm an emotional wreck.
00:30:23That's, that's for sure.
00:30:26Yeah, that's true.
00:30:27It was hard for me.
00:30:29Only two days.
00:30:29I could barely make it.
00:30:31Yes.
00:30:32Only two days and you wanna send your fiance back to Brazil.
00:30:37The one thing that can break Thomas and I apart
00:30:40is he don't found me in a middle way.
00:30:44I'm not here for vacation.
00:30:46I'm, I'm here to build a family.
00:30:47We were talking about having kids in future.
00:30:50But we need to found a middle way to meet.
00:30:53Is it possible?
00:30:56I'll try.
00:30:57What?
00:30:57I'll try.
00:31:01Let's go.
00:31:04Can I hold my hand?
00:31:06Yes.
00:31:07I'm lost.
00:31:19Up, up, up.
00:31:20Up, no.
00:31:21Come on.
00:31:22Come, come, come here.
00:31:23Come here.
00:31:23Come on, Opal.
00:31:25Good girl.
00:31:28Yeah, you know, I, I was drunk last night.
00:31:31They are very lucky.
00:31:32They, they sleep with us.
00:31:35You cuddled.
00:31:35You cuddled with Opal.
00:31:36No.
00:31:37You did.
00:31:37I saw it.
00:31:38No.
00:31:39You did.
00:31:40All right, guys.
00:31:42Let's go.
00:31:47You cuddled with us.
00:31:53Maybe.
00:31:55Yes.
00:31:56That is oil something.
00:31:58Oh, I'm coming.
00:31:59I'm coming.
00:32:01In the American spirit, Roche got white girl wasted like he wanted to.
00:32:08What does it mean?
00:32:09White girl wasted?
00:32:11Okay, what does it mean?
00:32:12Say white girl wasted.
00:32:13White girl wasting.
00:32:18It means like, white girls, they get really, really drunk.
00:32:23They're like, ah!
00:32:24Ah, I didn't know.
00:32:27Bieber. Bieber?
00:32:29Bieber? Justin Bieber?
00:32:31What is this?
00:32:34After hangout?
00:32:36Hangover?
00:32:37Hangover?
00:32:37Yeah.
00:32:38I need Turkish breakfast.
00:32:40Breakfast, yeah.
00:32:43My butthole's gonna be hating me later.
00:32:47This is good.
00:32:48When you eat hot, after toilet, no.
00:32:52Your butthole, hot, cry, pain.
00:32:58Do you understand?
00:33:00No, I don't.
00:33:04Here, here's your coffee.
00:33:06Thank you so much.
00:33:07You're welcome.
00:33:12I felt like last night was fun.
00:33:14What did you think?
00:33:15Do you think you have, did you have fun last night?
00:33:17Yes.
00:33:17I mean, they did all of that for you.
00:33:20You know, it was very nice of them.
00:33:22Yeah.
00:33:23But, you know, brandy is there.
00:33:27Well, I need to, I want, I really didn't talk about it last night.
00:33:32I don't want to be you friends, my fiance, I say this, and he's, he didn't listen to me and
00:33:43he's very, I see he's very angry.
00:33:50Last night I speak brandy, like, he don't speak, he's, he has something here.
00:33:57And he say, I'm brandy, get on my truck.
00:34:02Oh, God.
00:34:05I say, what?
00:34:06I'm brandy, what is your problem?
00:34:09Like, what, I don't understand.
00:34:11Just, I say, yes, okay.
00:34:13You know, if someone came up to me and was like, don't speak to my fiance, I'd be like,
00:34:17pfft, bitch, bye, go on with yourself, like.
00:34:21If he say this like this, I will learn punching.
00:34:24Oh.
00:34:25Yeah.
00:34:25Who are you, bitch?
00:34:29I mean, I don't think I can completely cut him out of my life.
00:34:35Oh, my God.
00:34:38I want you to figure your out with each other, because we're all going to be in each other's lives.
00:34:46Like, Rin, Mikayla's husband.
00:34:48Yeah.
00:34:48You know that is his best friend.
00:34:51Yeah.
00:34:52So?
00:34:52If you say you don't want him around, then that means I can't spend time with Mikayla.
00:34:57That's not going to happen.
00:34:58Like, I'm going to hang out with my best friend.
00:35:01He's going to be around.
00:35:05If you love me, you can listen to me.
00:35:07I'm listening to you right now.
00:35:09I'm just telling you, you're trying to start .
00:35:12That doesn't need to be started.
00:35:23I'm totally fine with him being the man of the house and acting like the man of the house.
00:35:28But it's not just some little culture adjustment.
00:35:31I mean, I'm not going to let him come in and just change everything about my life
00:35:36that I've been living these past couple of years.
00:35:38Like, these people have been a part of my life, whether he likes it or not.
00:35:44And honestly, if he has such a problem with my American culture,
00:35:48then maybe he should have been with a Turkish one.
00:35:54Change this face, please.
00:35:56I just want this to be over with.
00:35:58I don't want to see your face right now.
00:36:00Just turn your back.
00:36:09Asia, so when you get married to my brother, how many kids do you intend to have?
00:36:14Two.
00:36:16These two kids you are talking about is unacceptable.
00:36:22You've raised him.
00:36:23He's grown.
00:36:25Let him go.
00:36:26I think I prefer four.
00:36:38Mama, look around.
00:36:39This is Nigeria, Africa.
00:36:42Look at that man standing out there in the car.
00:36:45What enough room in the car?
00:36:47You say he's going to get there one way or another.
00:36:50Those guys you see standing on the bus, that's your job.
00:36:53They are called bus conductors.
00:36:55You see this guy?
00:36:57They can't conduct no bus there.
00:37:10Mami, you look so beautiful.
00:37:12Do us, sweetie.
00:37:13You look so fine.
00:37:15Like a model.
00:37:16Yeah.
00:37:18It's been eight long months.
00:37:20I've set my eyes on this beautiful damn cell sitting close to me.
00:37:25We had already promised each other that we would do every five to six months.
00:37:28And the only reason we beat it this time was because the case was moving so fast.
00:37:32We might just be waiting another month or two and then you'll be in the U.S.
00:37:36It wasn't easy because sometimes I want to talk to her in person.
00:37:39I'm going to take her out.
00:37:40I want to spoil her.
00:37:42I want to do things that will just make her smile because I know the kind of things she like.
00:37:51I can't wait to get to your parents.
00:37:53Who are we going to see next where mama?
00:37:55We'll see them soon as we get back to the old house.
00:37:57Son, son.
00:37:59We are almost there.
00:38:02So they put on a sweater for my family so you can cover up your body.
00:38:06I'll put it on when I get out the car.
00:38:12Baby, when I saw your outfit, I'm like, there we go again.
00:38:15Am I supposed to start lecturing you and tutoring you how to present yourself to my parents?
00:38:20This is my thing with him.
00:38:22It's like sexy, sexy, sexy.
00:38:24I want to see sexy.
00:38:26The family, they want you to be all the way covered up.
00:38:30So it's like a balancing act.
00:38:31Like how can I be comfortable?
00:38:33How can I be cute?
00:38:34And how can I be conservative?
00:38:36Like all at the same time and then be in this heat.
00:38:39Baby, put on your jackets.
00:38:41When am I crossing the line?
00:38:42I have no idea because you got him saying be sexy 24-7.
00:38:46With me, not with my parents.
00:38:53Watch your step, mama.
00:39:01Mommy, daddy.
00:39:05Oh, look at y'all.
00:39:08You're so pretty.
00:39:10Mommy.
00:39:12Mommy, what's going on?
00:39:15You're welcome, you're welcome, you're welcome.
00:39:18Happy to see you.
00:39:20Happy to see you in a year.
00:39:22Me too.
00:39:23Well, you can come, yeah, come.
00:39:25Okay.
00:39:26Come to your father and then.
00:39:27Oh.
00:39:28On this trip, we rented an apartment for the whole family to come together as one and get to know
00:39:33each
00:39:33other and get comfortable with each other.
00:39:35I've met the parents, but this will be the first time we will be staying such a long time together.
00:39:42So, you know how you can do your best for a short period of time, but as time goes on,
00:39:47they'll be probably nitpicking me and trying to see, you know, who I am, how I am and stuff like
00:39:51that.
00:39:51So hopefully I can, I can do good for a longer period of time.
00:40:00Okay.
00:40:04We eat this thing.
00:40:05It will give us life in abundance.
00:40:12Oh, it's sweet.
00:40:13It's kind of fleshy.
00:40:14It's medicinal.
00:40:15Just swallow it?
00:40:16Bite, no, bite.
00:40:18Sweetie, it's hard.
00:40:22Mmm.
00:40:23Oh, that's spicy.
00:40:24Mmm.
00:40:25Yes.
00:40:25Ooh, yes.
00:40:26I'm gonna share that.
00:40:27Oh, God.
00:40:31Y'all eat this for taste or just for blessing?
00:40:34For blessing and then it's medicinal.
00:40:35Medicinal.
00:40:36Okay.
00:40:37You've been into the sea.
00:40:38Ooh, hot.
00:40:40I mean, I am very honored that he went out his way to welcome me, but he could have just
00:40:48gave me a hug.
00:40:49Mama, let me show you your room so you can freshen up.
00:40:52You and Isha.
00:40:53Ooh.
00:40:54Thank you, mommy.
00:40:55Thank you, daddy.
00:40:56You're welcome.
00:40:57You're welcome.
00:40:57You're welcome.
00:40:57You're welcome.
00:40:58Maswa being the first son is the most important lesson in our life.
00:41:03So, what I have in mind for my son is that he must attract a good wife.
00:41:09Oh, my goodness.
00:41:10Oh, my goodness.
00:41:11I don't understand.
00:41:13I am worried, though, because he would say that love is blind to her.
00:41:18When you love someone, you, you, you behave as a fool.
00:41:23I feel like that is what is going on now.
00:41:28Oh, it's bright in here.
00:41:29Very, very bright.
00:41:32I love it.
00:41:33You love it?
00:41:33Yes.
00:41:34It's a lot of room.
00:41:36I need this closet at my house.
00:41:38Baby, don't worry you.
00:41:40Look, all the shoes and purses in the world.
00:41:42Yeah, this is the kind of household, Judy.
00:41:44That's nice.
00:41:44I love freestanding tubs, too.
00:41:48I'm telling you.
00:41:49I was kidding with my parents the other day.
00:41:52I told them I was going to stay here.
00:41:53Stay well, sweetie.
00:41:55Oh, baby.
00:41:56I know they had a milk down.
00:41:59What'd they say?
00:42:00When you can't stay here, you're not yet married to Asia, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:42:07Is she right?
00:42:09For real?
00:42:11Yes, sweetie.
00:42:12You mean I can't stay here?
00:42:15Sweetie, no.
00:42:16We're not married.
00:42:17Since you don't want me to be in your room,
00:42:18you don't have no business coming to my room.
00:42:20You even want me to meet downstairs.
00:42:22Sweetie, I love your jokes.
00:42:23That's so sweet.
00:42:24No, no.
00:42:25Yes, yes, yes.
00:42:26I'm serious.
00:42:26But, sweetie, on another note, but you think everything went well?
00:42:29Yeah, it did.
00:42:30Mm-hmm.
00:42:31Your parents look beautiful.
00:42:33Mm, thank you.
00:42:34What else do they have planned?
00:42:36The dinner and that's it?
00:42:37The kids, you're going to meet them, Blaise, Messi.
00:42:40Oh, sweetie, no.
00:42:41You already know.
00:42:42I don't want everybody to not be here.
00:42:44That's OK.
00:42:44Mm-hmm.
00:42:48On this trip, I'll be staying with Maxwell's parents and his sisters.
00:42:53And Blaise is literally Maxwell's private investigator.
00:42:56You know, she just dig, dig, dig, dig until they find something.
00:43:00So that's what I'm worried about with her.
00:43:04All right, sweetie.
00:43:05Let me go freshen up, OK?
00:43:07OK, sweetie.
00:43:09She will question me to death.
00:43:14Hey, Mom.
00:43:15Well done.
00:43:15What's up for the dinner?
00:43:17Daddy, how are you doing?
00:43:18Fine.
00:43:19Nice to see you.
00:43:20Yes, you're welcome.
00:43:20Oh, Mom, nice to see you.
00:43:22Today is the first time I'm meeting Asia face-to-face.
00:43:25And I should know her intentions for my brother.
00:43:28I am very protective of Maxwell.
00:43:31We value first sons so much.
00:43:33We don't joke with our first sons.
00:43:34Anything that will try to take him away from the family,
00:43:37we fight against it by all means.
00:43:48And I'm just so sorry that I put you and Laura in that situation.
00:43:52He acted like a clown.
00:43:55Saying, shut your mouth, woman, is completely unacceptable.
00:43:59It's not acceptable behavior.
00:44:01I don't think it would be right to even give him another chance, honestly.
00:44:04Mm-mm.
00:44:05Mito is not showing me that he loves me.
00:44:07That presents real consequences.
00:44:10Relationship ending consequences.
00:44:24MUSIC
00:44:25MUSIC
00:44:26MUSIC
00:44:26MUSIC
00:44:27MUSIC
00:44:41This is a huge mess and I don't have any idea what do you do next yesterday was just I
00:44:54don't
00:44:55know he just got in a mood and I just had this moment where I remembered being married before
00:45:07and feeling so alone I'm not going to walk alone again I'm not going to do that again
00:45:20I just want to talk to you about what happened
00:45:26how are you feeling today so so in this moment if I had a ticket I would go back to
00:45:32you
00:45:32I have no idea if Mido has booked a flight or not to return home
00:45:45is that scary I don't I'm just so shocked that I'm not sure how to feel about anything
00:46:00I've gotten a few are you okay text from Astra this morning and so we're going to meet up later
00:46:06on so
00:46:07we can have a conversation about what happened last night I definitely need more time before I speak
00:46:13with Mido because it's just too explosive at this moment I'm embarrassed by this situation so badly
00:46:22it's not even funny I'm expecting Astro to say run
00:46:30get out what you can
00:46:46it's good to see you yeah I'm good to see you too it's bad enough when he talks to me
00:46:52like that
00:46:52but not my friends no way it's absolutely heart-wrenching to watch your fiancee be a monster in front of
00:46:59your
00:46:59friends I'm devastated
00:47:02I've never seen anything go south that fast in my life
00:47:08it was so frustrating because like the entire like haunted house like he barely even looked at me
00:47:14it broke my heart honestly like for you the way he was acting it was like he thought he was
00:47:20there for
00:47:21a job audition with the haunted house rather than there on a date with you and that was
00:47:25really really heartbreaking to see he got thank you oh wow thank you that's beautiful I would not accept
00:47:39that type of behavior from anyone so I think she cannot brush this under the rug I just I'm over
00:47:48here
00:47:48like get this guy out of here send him home I have to say like no matter what culture you're
00:47:55from
00:47:55saying shut your mouth woman is completely unacceptable it's not acceptable behavior
00:48:02and he tried to intimidate me he was really close to me and you could see like a lot of
00:48:07pent-up anger
00:48:08like his neck was his veins were bulging in his neck it's raging it's just raging he was super immature
00:48:15like you're over 40 years old sir grow the up he acted like a clown i want you to calm
00:48:25down
00:48:25i know i'm i really want just like worried for you because i don't be worried i if i was
00:48:30in your
00:48:30position i would be quite honestly like devastated if he's saying that type of stuff to you in front of
00:48:37people then how is he treating you when nobody else is around he's been wonderful some days we've had
00:48:44some of the greatest days there is just not always every day is a great day i understand that but
00:48:52not having a great day shouldn't always result in a complete toddler yeah ask meltdown yeah it was bad
00:49:02do you feel like mito really loves you i don't know right now i don't know he doesn't seem genuine
00:49:14have you ever felt like maybe he's just using you to get famous or anything
00:49:20he says he came here for me did he really though that's what he says yeah his intentions are honestly
00:49:31very questionable at this point the way he acted behaved treated her like is mito using debbie it
00:49:38kind of seems like he is like it seems like he's acting i don't know if it's for her or
00:49:43if it's for
00:49:44the chance to be in the movies on tv i don't think you can marry this guy w like i
00:49:51honestly don't think
00:49:53you should or could or would like he showed his ass and i don't think he can come back from
00:49:59it i don't
00:50:00think it would be right to even give him another chance honestly he's gonna have to apologize he's
00:50:04gonna have to make some apologies what happens if he doesn't do that though then there's nothing to talk
00:50:10about i'm getting really strange vibes from this guy debbie i am so angry with him because mito is
00:50:24not showing me that he loves me he is not showing me that he cares about me i don't know
00:50:28what he's doing
00:50:31here that presents real consequences relationship ending consequences i'm gonna be very honest with
00:50:41you i have no idea what to do i respect you you're an adult you're gonna make your own decisions
00:50:46but like
00:50:47you should probably send him packing asap girl like get him out
00:50:59my daughter is beautiful and very lovable yeah what is it about my daughter that is so special to you
00:51:07i am super anxious my parents approval means the world to me i want respect i want more weight the
00:51:14only person that i found with all these things was her he sounded a little macho when he said i
00:51:22love
00:51:23respect and loyalty you know that's not what i would have led with
00:51:26that's not what i would have led with all these things was her that's not what i would have led
00:51:35with
00:51:35there's something to tell you what um
00:51:42you're pregnant yes no
00:51:59okay i invited someone you don't like to my birthday party
00:52:04okay on the list of people i don't like who is it
00:52:12um
00:52:16i invited brian
00:52:22that's it all good i know i i should have told you earlier
00:52:28he told me he was here and i was like come to my birthday but then i didn't really
00:52:31think very hard about if that would be like a good thing to do i just kind of got excited
00:52:39and invited
00:52:39him instead of thinking it through with you sorry it puts me in a position because
00:52:47i can't promise i'm not going to be a bit of a dick but it's your birthday
00:52:53oh the the uh the topic that never stops giving ryan i met ryan in germany when katie was doing
00:53:03the berlin marathon we all went out to a bar and they were both drunken and i saw that they'd
00:53:09shared a kiss i wasn't happy with that and katie was going on to travel with them for two weeks
00:53:17after i'd gone back to the uk so i got a conversation with
00:53:21katie and say this needs to stop or you need to admit that this relationship isn't what you're looking
00:53:26for katie was apologetic whilst setting it happen over that trip and the two weeks while she was away
00:53:35i was just expecting every text to be an admission of something else stupid that had happened from what
00:53:41katie said they didn't sleep together and i don't want to be living in a relationship where i'm second
00:53:48guessing things so i'm choosing to take her at her word
00:53:53i don't i just i'm sick of this you know what can i do to make you feel comfortable at
00:54:01this
00:54:01party you know my feelings about him i don't trust him i just don't want anything to go horribly wrong
00:54:11the thing is you must know by now what's good behavior and what's not good behavior like
00:54:18do i want you to end up having a dozen shots and making out with ryan or the next guy
00:54:23that you lay
00:54:24your eyes on probably not i don't want you to feel uncomfortable i want you guys to be able to
00:54:30coexist i mean i think what i want is an explanation from him as to his motives and why he
00:54:37thinks that his
00:54:38behavior was acceptable honestly like if it were up to me ryan would just off and go about his life
00:54:47and
00:54:47i think that him even being invited is bull i think katie may be taking advantage of
00:54:55me being nice about things which feels a bit rotten
00:55:02i don't know what katie wants to happen with this situation but she can play games and see how
00:55:13that works out i don't think it's a good idea i really want to be a good partner and be
00:55:20a better
00:55:20partner but i yeah like sometimes i just like love seeking thrills and excitement i mean what do you
00:55:29want because sometimes the way you talk about it makes me feel like i'm like a ball and chain just
00:55:33kind of like weighting you down and you just want to live a party girl lifestyle i want you to
00:55:41be able to
00:55:41enjoy your party but this will like make it out with people i didn't set up for it it's not
00:55:47that
00:55:47a relationship that i'm wanting you know yeah
00:56:04i worry because i don't know you but i know my daughter yeah and my daughter is a good person
00:56:09with a beautiful heart i know that everybody here is concerned i just like her for papers
00:56:15or things like this you know i just want to have the opportunity to show you you know i give
00:56:20you
00:56:20proof that is not my decision you know every talk is cheap and we see we see what you're made
00:56:26of
00:56:35all right well this was some good i think that maybe we'll like take some of the heat off the
00:56:40group
00:56:40setting and like you know relax mingle have some more drinks eat some more food i like that
00:56:47and then um maybe we can head outside yeah you want to come with us yeah why not okay
00:56:55it's not a good feeling that marie except family question if i'm good enough for her
00:57:03because michael even tried to give me like alert about like oh this family can be like this you
00:57:08know so if they try to do the same thing like michael's because they're rich money class and all
00:57:16these things this is a problem so um it's nice to actually be out here in a smaller setting where
00:57:21we
00:57:21can talk oh so nice i mean marissa as you know i mean very smart very successful and i don't
00:57:27think
00:57:27she would have taken this chance and this gamble if she didn't believe it was going to work out and
00:57:35introduce you to her her kids and bring you into her home that now has to become your home yeah
00:57:41like
00:57:41he's the first person that i ever introduced to the kids like in person you know nobody's ever met
00:57:44them before so it had to be like a special person in order for me to even allow that to
00:57:49happen right
00:57:53so we're all happy here i don't know you well enough not to like you but what i know of
00:57:58you i
00:57:58don't like however people come here from another country they want to come to america because america
00:58:06is a wonderful place honestly i sacrificed all these things friends and family to move here i understand
00:58:14like american is a wonderful country but i was okay in my you know i appreciate that but my daughter
00:58:23is beautiful and very lovable yeah and has a heart of gold she's the most amazing person that i was
00:58:28living in my life you know that's that's my next question what is it about my daughter that is so
00:58:35special to you um i beat you a lot and i always learn what i want in a relationship
00:58:51i want respect i want lloyd i don't like people lying to me i hate that feelings you know and
00:58:59the only
00:59:01person that i found with all these things was her and that made me understand like that's my person
00:59:11i am super anxious my parents approval means the world to me but you know he sounded a little
00:59:20macho when he said i love respect and loyalty you know that's not what i would have led with
00:59:25he's leaving the parts out that are truly meaningful to me which is that he loves the type of person
00:59:31that
00:59:31i am and he loves my heart and the caring nature that i have and now i don't know if
00:59:37they're gonna
00:59:38really appreciate what i see in him what i worry about is so far your relationship has been in the
00:59:45tropics in lovely hotels and everything is done for you but reality is a whole different walking
00:59:53i think these uh 90 days and unfortunately 90 days is never enough both and these are cards you're
00:59:59given and these 90 days you're going to learn a whole lot more about each other than you've
01:00:04ever known before so maybe having these 90 days are a good thing you know i appreciate that you say
01:00:10these things you know the only thing that i can promise you is that i'm gonna do everything in my
01:00:14hands and that's all you can do she believes that this is the man that she wants to spend the
01:00:22rest
01:00:22of her life with and i think all we could do now is say let's see you know let's see
01:00:27where we go from
01:00:27here my daughter is an extremely strong woman i raised her that way and if she leaves him he'll survive
01:00:36because relationships begin and relationships end and that may very well happen to them oh well there you go
01:00:44i just think there are a lot of challenges i know my daughter loves you very much and i believe
01:00:48you
01:00:48love her i hope it works i pray it works and if it doesn't let's hope that god is with
01:00:55you and that
01:00:56god's will is done what is that are you kidding me i invested 250 dollars to buy this rock this
01:01:09is a bad
01:01:10investment paula loves to just waste money but if paul wants any sort of independence in her new
01:01:16country she really needs a credit card i'm trusting you all right but i am absolutely terrified i want
01:01:23you to start life differently in the u.s if i die it doesn't matter if i have one billion
01:01:29dollars in a bank
01:01:32account
01:01:51uh you are supporting this with a bag doesn't make any sense if i push this bag away this will
01:01:59fall
01:02:00oh my god
01:02:1110 minutes in this position thomas look at your head you are red i'll shut you my legs nobody kiss
01:02:19me
01:02:21you really want to kiss you yes nobody give me a kiss
01:02:26uh i'll kiss you silly come on later all right here grab my hands
01:02:36just pull oh my god be careful i need you bring you bring me some hangers there's a there's a
01:02:44couple
01:02:45white ones those are the ones you get from dry cleaning when for what give you your shirts back
01:02:50the uh can you give me some of yours because you you don't wear all these t-shirts give me
01:02:56more
01:02:57maybe 20. yeah but these are good hangers i was thinking about if we can we go to the store
01:03:03i want a mini furniture with a drawers you know yeah we call that a dresser
01:03:08well i'm not sure where you want to even put a dresser i know but we need to find a
01:03:13fast solution because i have so much stuff look at this this is only one bag i need to hang
01:03:19okay so i would rather give you the closet than get a dresser even if you give me the closet
01:03:24doesn't make any sense only hang stuff i think hanging your stuff might be a little bit better
01:03:28because i can't hang your panties i can hang socks this is not enough thomas never lived with
01:03:36another woman so he have no experience at all i'm the first one and i need to educate this little
01:03:44baby how to live together because they have no idea i cleaned out this bucket you can put like
01:03:52how many socks and stuff in there how many well this is huge you can fit a bunch of stuff
01:03:57in there
01:03:58it's like a good little drawer i appreciate this but this is not enough i don't came here to play
01:04:04any
01:04:05game with you i just wanted the normal regular life that i have in brazil and that includes closet and
01:04:12drawers i mean you got one suitcase i'm sure your socks and yeah but stop to offer me this like
01:04:18this doesn't fit anything okay well when it's full up to the top i'll agree that it won't fit anything
01:04:25else but right now it's empty what is that are you kidding me look hold it hold it this is
01:04:34a black
01:04:34tourmaline this is a cleaner you got scared and you need this because you have so much bad energy
01:04:40this will help you will clean the atmosphere here if she's trying to start her life new in the us
01:04:48why is a rock the first thing she needs to bring with you uh newsflash we got plenty of rocks
01:04:53here paula
01:04:54has been playing a very dangerous game ever since i met her she loves to just waste money and the
01:04:59more
01:05:00that we get closer the more i feel like she's starting to waste my money did you spend money on
01:05:05this
01:05:05of course they don't give us how much does this cost i invested 250 dollars to buy this rock but
01:05:13this is a instrument that will give us return try to be a magical being at least one time because
01:05:19i'm
01:05:19doing all the work by myself all the manifestation by my own if you want memorabilia why not just find
01:05:25a cheaper stone there's free rocks all over the place i'm looking for the baby one there's a second
01:05:31one like this a baby yes this doesn't mean anything this is a bad investment i was putting thousands of
01:05:39dollars on real things and then you're spending money on silly stuff you have your rollerblades right
01:05:44and and i never say that your rollerblades is a bad investment this can get me somewhere this can
01:05:52save anything this is all my manifestation this is all a hard work that i'm doing i show you a
01:06:00totally
01:06:01new world when i met you do you remember how many foods you ate you only ate rice banana and
01:06:09meat
01:06:09you was dry like a grape you was like this suck but say thank you at least you are crazy
01:06:19to throw my
01:06:20rocks away as you did with my perfume if you want to lose one teeth you're going to mess with
01:06:26my rocks
01:06:27okay he wants to control every little thing that i do like money only worth while i am alive if
01:06:35i die
01:06:37doesn't matter if i have one billion dollars in a bank account that was the first time that i really
01:06:42put our relationship in a in a point like would i get married with this guy he's so
01:06:49stupid and so aggressive i told the government i said hey i will sponsor this girl financially
01:06:57all right but i want to sponsor you i don't want to sponsor your tiny stuff or your rocks and
01:07:02i'm just
01:07:02worried that when i give you a credit card that you're going to go too far with it put yourself
01:07:06in my
01:07:06shoes okay i understand you i want to be more conscient with money but i just want to understand that
01:07:12some specific stuff that i bought is just a symbol of my manifestations look look here's your credit
01:07:20card this is your credit card with your name on it i pay the bills for this i need you
01:07:25to help me survive
01:07:26so that we're in this together i'll take care so if you spend a lot of money i'll have to
01:07:32pay for it
01:07:34we live in a cashless society if paula doesn't have a credit card i am actually concerned about letting her
01:07:40roam free in the u.s like i just felt like hey if paula wants any sort of independence in
01:07:46her new
01:07:47country she really needs a credit card but at the same time like i am absolutely terrified about what
01:07:54she's going to do with it i'm trusting you right can i buy a car no paula fluctuates in and
01:08:02out of
01:08:02credit card debt i mean i didn't tell her this but that credit card has a 25 000 spending limit
01:08:07like i
01:08:08didn't know how to get it any lower so like if she accidentally makes a mistake she could do some
01:08:13pretty bad damages i want you to start life differently in the u.s i want you to say hey
01:08:19listen
01:08:19i want to be more reserved i want to be more careful with my spending in the u.s i
01:08:23swear to god
01:08:24in brazil when i want something that i need money's throw up from nowhere it's just magic that doesn't
01:08:32make any sense i'm terrified right now she wants to change my hairline she wants to change my eyeballs
01:08:43what did he likes the way he is he doesn't know what he likes until he sees it you can't
01:08:49tell me he
01:08:49doesn't know what he doesn't know what he likes until he's a man i do not accept it i do
01:08:54not what we have also
01:09:17that's what is being a little bit more reserved you know maybe he's been a little bit chill because
01:09:22his parents are here and i know they're very opinionated when it comes to them selecting spouses
01:09:27but at the end of the day he knows that god brought us together you know so i feel like
01:09:31he just has to
01:09:32stand on faith knowing that everything is going to be okay in the end
01:09:58let me see my swing they said we look alike though blaze
01:10:03Look at her life.
01:10:05Let me be talking about my mom, my mom, my mom.
01:10:08So pretty.
01:10:11I am so excited to have Aisha and the mom in the house,
01:10:14my sisters and my parents together.
01:10:17I'm worried about meeting Blaze, because Blaze is nosy.
01:10:20Literally, let me tell you.
01:10:22She has went through my entire Facebook profile.
01:10:27Facebook came out around 2009.
01:10:31She went through every single picture of mine.
01:10:37And then told Maxwell that she did it.
01:10:39Like, I would be so ashamed.
01:10:40Like, even if I had done that, I don't
01:10:42think I would let anybody know.
01:10:44Welcome, Mom.
01:10:45How was your trip?
01:10:46Oh, it was OK.
01:10:48She tried to sleep the best she could, Blaze.
01:10:51Try the food.
01:10:52Mom, please wash your hands.
01:10:54Rinse your hands in it, Mom.
01:10:55Just rinse your hands in it.
01:10:56You wash your hands like this.
01:10:58You make your hands clean, because you're
01:10:59going to be eating with your hands today.
01:11:02She has washed her hands.
01:11:03So you roll it up like this.
01:11:04You dip it in your soup.
01:11:06Take that from vegetables, you know.
01:11:09And you don't chew it.
01:11:10You swallow it.
01:11:11That's why they call it swallow.
01:11:12You roll it up.
01:11:13With your hands.
01:11:17How come I can't chew this?
01:11:24Let's be honest.
01:11:28Do you like Nigerian food?
01:11:31No, I don't like Nigerian food.
01:11:34The meat is really tough.
01:11:35If they could get it tender, it'll be a little better.
01:11:37My wife will teach Asia how to make this meal.
01:11:40Look, let's teach me and Maxwell.
01:11:43No.
01:11:43No.
01:11:44No.
01:11:44Men don't eat in the kitchen.
01:11:46Men don't eat in the kitchen then?
01:11:47No.
01:11:48Women own the kitchen.
01:11:51Oh, OK.
01:11:52You can cook, right?
01:11:53Yeah.
01:11:54I can cook.
01:11:55Enough.
01:11:57Asia, so when you get married to my brother, how many kids do you intend to have?
01:12:03I don't want two.
01:12:06Why do you want two?
01:12:07What's your reason?
01:12:09It's an expensive place.
01:12:10To have kids in America is very expensive.
01:12:12These two kids you are talking about is unacceptable.
01:12:24I think I prefer four.
01:12:27Dad, we're going to have what God planned for us to have.
01:12:30How about that?
01:12:36The two children, are you, are you really doing something?
01:12:38No.
01:12:38No, no, no, no, no, no.
01:12:41I do not accept it.
01:12:44I do not.
01:12:47Maybe Maxwell talked to her or maybe she realized her mistake.
01:12:54In Nigeria, what we think about the U.S., they see them as people that are not submissive.
01:12:59Because here in Nigeria, it's expected of you that you must be submissive to that man.
01:13:05I feel like if I have an opinion, just because I'm a woman doesn't mean that Maxwell's not going to
01:13:10listen to me.
01:13:11He listens because he knows that I respect him and he knows that I have his best interests at heart.
01:13:17Like, there's a lot of stuff I tell him to do that he probably don't want to do.
01:13:21But when he sees, like, the benefits of it, then he's like, oh, well, that wasn't so bad.
01:13:26Like, this chemical pill, I think it did good.
01:13:28You sure did.
01:13:29I showed them the chemical pill.
01:13:30I think, Macy, come closer that you see this.
01:13:32Come to this side.
01:13:36So this was day one.
01:13:38Wow.
01:13:41This is day four.
01:13:42So it's already clearing up a little bit.
01:13:44This is serious.
01:13:46Wow.
01:13:47What if he likes the way he is and you are still trying to?
01:13:50Oh.
01:13:50He doesn't know what he likes until he sees it.
01:13:52You can't tell me he doesn't know what he likes until he's a man.
01:13:55She wants to change my hairline.
01:13:57She wants to change my eyeballs.
01:13:59Eyeballs?
01:14:01Really?
01:14:02Let me say, Blaise, he's been letting the sun damage the white part of his eyes.
01:14:08But here in Nigeria, that white part of her eyes is not usually white.
01:14:12It's not that it's not white.
01:14:14What he's been doing is going out in the sun.
01:14:17And after so much sun damage as a protector, a special coating of skin rolls over the pupil
01:14:24where people see.
01:14:25And so he has it on the whites.
01:14:27That's what I'm saying that we Nigerians, that white part is not usually white.
01:14:30Look at mine.
01:14:36Honestly, that's what I'm thinking.
01:14:38Like, are you okay?
01:14:39The eye is a delicate part of the body.
01:14:41It should be his decision.
01:14:43He should be the one saying, I want to get this done.
01:14:45Not someone suggesting it for him.
01:14:49Like, are you going to change everything about Maxwell?
01:14:51No, no, no, no, no. We're good.
01:14:56I know I'm right.
01:14:58And I know we're going to do it.
01:14:59And we're going to continue to do it.
01:15:00And so he's going to have to let them go.
01:15:03Like, you've raised him.
01:15:04He's grown.
01:15:06Let him go.
01:15:15Hello.
01:15:16Hi.
01:15:17This is my friend Ryan.
01:15:19I like your outfit.
01:15:20I'm not going to be shied away from my fiance's party because some boy from the Midwest decides to turn
01:15:26up.
01:15:27Why are you here?
01:15:29Katie and I have had conversations about what she really wants with her life.
01:15:34There's a reason that this keeps happening, right?
01:15:36Katie?
01:15:37I don't know.
01:15:38Do you know more what you want with your life?
01:15:39Josie is.
01:15:39Leave her, leave her inside animals.
01:15:44Such a bad girl, living in a mad world.
01:15:47Working in endlessly.
01:15:53Is this it?
01:15:55Yeah.
01:15:55It looks like it.
01:15:56Yes.
01:15:57Hello!
01:15:59Helloикvity.
01:16:00Yay, I'm excited for my birthday!
01:16:02Yas!
01:16:0428.
01:16:0527.
01:16:0627.
01:16:08It's a bit embarrassing.
01:16:21i'm excited hopefully people can make it i'm trying to confirm with people who's coming
01:16:27have you heard from ryan then i haven't talked to him on the phone or anything but we texted he
01:16:33said
01:16:34let's have a roll no tequila shots and i said a little yes and he said we'll have a ton
01:16:39of fun
01:16:39without them anyways and then we were talking about maybe going on a run this weekend yeah but
01:16:45he didn't really say anything why do you want to be friends with him given like the amount of drama
01:16:50there is around this situation he's just fun when we're not making poor choices i think he's like a
01:16:57fun person and he's like a good friend like i feel like if i was crying in the middle of
01:17:01the night he
01:17:01might answer toxic as i think there's a big uh kind of have your cake and eat it thing with
01:17:11ryan like in my mind like our relationship is the thing to account for and if something threatens it
01:17:17in some way it has to be removed i don't know i really like him as a friend um and
01:17:26i really want
01:17:26to be friends with him but how would you feel if i was partying around with other women and
01:17:35i'd probably be hurt and jealous and like why are you friends with that girl still um i don't want
01:17:44to
01:17:44sound like a hypocrite because like we're not in that situation even to say that it sounds dumb
01:17:52i'd love it if you guys could chat and like i don't know you don't have to be friends with
01:17:57anyone you don't want to be friends with i mean what i'm looking for is like responsibility of him to
01:18:02like take responsibility for being a dip have we have a competition whoever kisses the most people
01:18:08tonight wins are you trying to like get me to break up with you yeah what i'll stop
01:18:24i don't need nobody's help i'm just like everyone else i got problems
01:18:38don't you uh i'm having us to be can you take this forever what would help nothing
01:18:43hey girl how you doing how you doing we're gonna be fine hello hello it's nice to see you
01:18:53buddy yeah yeah okay let's hear it wait josh do you have my phone secure in your pocket
01:18:58yeah do you want it will you lose it i'm sorry no can you not lose it do you promise
01:19:02yeah i've got
01:19:03it okay plenty of pockets so stressed out yeah me too i am nervous the last communication between
01:19:12them josh sent him a really see you never you're a horrible human being text
01:19:19nice to see you guys happy birthday birthday the text was just saying like i'm aware of what's
01:19:27been going on and you're bad and you know it's you're in the wrong i don't have space to you
01:19:35in
01:19:35my life that was their last interaction not a positive one yeah is that number one yeah all right
01:19:42plus a little bit of tequila okay so number two i need more alcohol you feel like you made the
01:19:49right
01:19:49choice to come back to america maybe maybe i miss plundin kind of but it was a good time
01:20:03it's gonna be awkward hey nice to see you hello hi this is my friend ryan
01:20:13hi nice to meet you um she showed up by my run club one time the prayer pressure made to
01:20:19during the berlin marathon nice well this is for you oh thank you i'm so excited it's really heavy
01:20:28actually katie is my uh whirlwind friend she is always fun to hang around with and creates the most
01:20:40interesting opportunities and situations i'm dying you're dying this is a lot
01:20:49the last time i saw josh was uh in oktoberfest i would say katie and i got a little bit
01:20:57too drunk
01:20:58and did some things that were inappropriate and um things are not left in the best place
01:21:08i like your outfit thank you i like yours too
01:21:14so how's tonight going for you i mean it's quite fun but
01:21:19katie is a bit of a wild card when did you figure that one out oh day two three four
01:21:25did he calm you down at all did he calm me down sometimes but i feel like every time i
01:21:31think i'm
01:21:31calm i'm not calm i'm just going crazy yeah isn't that what's great about her though
01:21:39do you think you could settle down or do you do you still like i still crave the party life
01:21:43do you
01:21:44still crave being crazy i crave the party life she's got a good heart she's just unpredictable
01:21:52i'm conflicted because on one side i want to um kind of say my piece and uh kind of get
01:21:59my points
01:21:59across but doing so means uh thinking back to that drama i'm gonna get josh so we can chat outside
01:22:07and
01:22:08have a chat bye hey can we have a chat outside yeah okay let's go outside turn around
01:22:19but i'm not gonna be shied away from my fiance's party because some boy from what is chicago in
01:22:26the midwest some boy from the midwest decides to turn up
01:22:38why are you here um it seemed like a fun time to hang out with a friend and uh katie
01:22:50and i have
01:22:50had quite a few conversations about what she really wants with her life
01:23:02there's a reason that this keeps happening right katie
01:23:08i don't know do you know more what you want with your life
01:23:13i think so
01:23:17like they're gonna be married
01:23:25next time on 90 day fiance if we have some stubborn things that we need to take care of we've
01:23:31got a
01:23:32little pulsating action i don't want to be i am sort of horny like
01:23:40we fight probably daily about being clean 800 is a lot of money
01:23:46i don't have money i don't have car watch that finger
01:23:53oh my god guys you saw my apartment like instead of couch we have a bed thomas and i we
01:24:02are super
01:24:02disconnected i don't want to leave like a refugee inside my own apartment one day i will be like you
01:24:11know what and go back to brazil really
01:24:20these last few days have not been easy for me you wanna come for me all the time you're gonna
01:24:27be
01:24:27overwhelmed okay that i'm gonna stop you because i'm trying to settle in and trying to figure out how
01:24:33i'm gonna do everything that i do now and take on another person to care for in my life
01:24:39if you take like that this is not gonna work you know
01:24:46he told me that he's with with his friends some old friends but i didn't know that nicole is there
01:24:52like the last four years like y'all have been engaged and they've also been hanging out
01:24:57i love shay but he stabbed my back i've heard him like tell her like he he loves her
01:25:06i can't marry this man
01:25:12katie no i'm being crazy you're being crazy
01:25:16i thought we were past this but clearly we're not i am done with this bull
01:25:22i want this this is bull
01:25:26you
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