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90 Day Fiancé Season 12 Episode 8
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00:00:01Previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
00:00:05Sweetie!
00:00:09It has been eight long months, but I am finally here with my baby.
00:00:16She wants to change my hairline.
00:00:18She wants to change my eyeballs.
00:00:20What if he likes the way he is?
00:00:21He doesn't know what he likes until he sees it.
00:00:24You can't tell me he doesn't know what he likes until he's a man.
00:00:28I do not accept it.
00:00:30I do not.
00:00:31No, we have fossil.
00:00:36I invested $250 to buy this rock.
00:00:40There's free rocks all over the place.
00:00:42This will help you.
00:00:43We'll clean the atmosphere here.
00:00:46Would I get married with this guy?
00:00:48He's so stupid and so aggressive.
00:00:51If you want to lose one teeth, you're going to mess with my rocks, okay?
00:00:59Ah!
00:00:59Ah!
00:00:59I am super anxious.
00:01:02My parents' approval means the world to me.
00:01:05I know that everybody here is concerned.
00:01:07I just like her for papers or things like this, you know?
00:01:11There are a lot of red flags.
00:01:12And unless you're oblivious, you understand that there are.
00:01:16So far, your relationship has been in the tropics, in lovely hotels, but reality is a whole different ballgame.
00:01:24My daughter is an extremely strong woman, and if she leaves him, he'll survive.
00:01:32How are you feeling?
00:01:33I mean, you feel better?
00:01:34Are you still upset with me?
00:02:04Allison and Angie told me that you're a good guy.
00:02:05And if there's no problem with my American culture, then maybe he should have been with a Turkish woman.
00:02:13I invited someone you don't like to my birthday party.
00:02:16I invited Brian.
00:02:19When Katie was doing the Berlin marathon, they'd shared a kiss.
00:02:23I told her, this needs to stop, or you need to admit that this relationship isn't what you're looking for.
00:02:31I'm not going to be shy away from my fiance's party, because some boy from the Midwest decides to turn
00:02:38up.
00:02:38Why are you here?
00:02:40Katie and I have had conversations about what she really wants.
00:02:45Like, we're going to be married.
00:03:08I don't know who tried to fist up, but to be honest with you, it's a limousel.
00:03:13Jesus.
00:03:19What the f*** is wrong with this?
00:03:25All right, come show me the fence.
00:03:26Mm-hmm.
00:03:28Mm-hmm.
00:03:36This is me.
00:03:39Mm.
00:03:41No.
00:03:42No.
00:03:43Well, how do you open it?
00:03:44Uh, I'm not supposed to open.
00:03:47What do you mean?
00:03:47It is supposed to open.
00:03:48It's a gate.
00:03:50The imbecile that help you broke this part.
00:03:53So what I'm doing is just lock completely, not going to open.
00:04:01When Marisa told me that half me here is basically half a tertiary, that made me very, very aggravated.
00:04:08I'm not working right now, so I'm just basically doing things in the house like that probably she got to
00:04:14pay for somebody else.
00:04:15And I just try to help.
00:04:17Yeah, but if we have to get out, like, what if you have to get out of there?
00:04:20Yeah, but if we have to get out, like, what if you have to get out of there?
00:04:20We go in that way.
00:04:21It's a thing.
00:04:23In my whole life, I never f***ed a pen before, to be honest with you.
00:04:26I just broke this, broke that, I take my chair off this, and I just f***ed it in this way,
00:04:30you know?
00:04:30Like, it don't look nice, but it's f***ed.
00:04:36But that's the point, you know?
00:04:37Like, I was f***ed.
00:04:39What if the landscapers have to come in with their lawnmowers and come in this way?
00:04:43Oh, no way.
00:04:44The door doesn't open that way.
00:04:45It's open.
00:04:45I just figure out this.
00:04:46I f***ed in the other one over there.
00:04:48What does it look like on the other side?
00:04:49Is it nice like this?
00:04:50Oh, yeah.
00:04:52Well.
00:04:53Oh, I'm gonna go stay.
00:04:56The last few days, a lot of concerns have come into my brain.
00:05:01Yes, I'm excited.
00:05:02Okay, that's a given.
00:05:03We're excited to be together in person.
00:05:05But I started thinking, what if he's not prepared?
00:05:07What if I'm gonna take on another child in my life?
00:05:11So, it's been like a rollercoaster of emotions every single day.
00:05:16Woo!
00:05:19You'll be okay.
00:05:20Come on.
00:05:21Get used to it.
00:05:23Jesus.
00:05:25One of the things that I really need Edward to step up with is just being a man, being
00:05:31a strong man in my life, and start doing things on his own without me holding his hand
00:05:35through every step of the way.
00:05:39Edward.
00:05:40What?
00:05:43What in the hell is this?
00:05:46Well, I'm gonna explain to you now.
00:05:49So...
00:05:49What is this?
00:05:50Molding from my living room?
00:05:52Yeah.
00:05:53How did you do this?
00:05:54Did you go like this?
00:05:57Uh...
00:05:57Oh, yeah.
00:05:58Did you?
00:05:59Yeah.
00:06:01Like, look at it from, like, this far away.
00:06:03Okay.
00:06:04Like, when people drive up this road and they see my pathetic fence, it looks so, like,
00:06:10trashy.
00:06:12I appreciate that you try to fix the fence, but, well, my neighbor's gonna be like, look
00:06:17at how, like, poor she keeps her house.
00:06:20I never think about the neighbors, because if somebody don't pay my bills, I don't give
00:06:25the opinion.
00:06:26Make sense?
00:06:27Yeah, but I do.
00:06:28I care about people's opinions, especially when it comes to things that represent me.
00:06:35I get it that you had to have a fast fix, but let's be real.
00:06:38What exactly possessed you to use broken molding that you found somewhere in my house with rusty
00:06:45nails so that it stays intact?
00:06:48Well, who cares?
00:06:49I care!
00:06:50These people don't pay our bills.
00:06:52It doesn't matter if they don't pay their bills.
00:06:53I pay your bills, and I want the house to look a good way.
00:06:57Just say yes, honey.
00:06:59Yes, babe.
00:07:00Yeah, it's a pleasure.
00:07:04Secondly...
00:07:05Okay.
00:07:06This looks like a disaster.
00:07:09I need this cleaned up, like, immediately.
00:07:11Like, not tomorrow, not, like, you know, like, in an hour.
00:07:14Like, I need it completely cleaned now, because I'm, like, mortified that this is on the side
00:07:18of my house, and everybody that walks by and drives by sees, like, oh, there's the white
00:07:23trash house.
00:07:24Okay.
00:07:28I try to, like, fish something, and it's not enough.
00:07:32This is not enough, it's not enough, but, like, don't insult me, you know?
00:07:37Feels like no matter what I do, I'm never going to be in the level that Marisa has standards
00:07:43or the standards of her family.
00:07:46I'm trying everything, and she always cutting me down.
00:07:49Can I help you?
00:07:50No.
00:07:52That's all.
00:07:53I'm going to go and, like...
00:07:53No, no, no.
00:07:55You're nails.
00:07:56It's okay.
00:07:56Go.
00:08:01Jesus.
00:08:20Mike, they're going to be married.
00:08:23You ready?
00:08:24You ready?
00:08:27I don't think so.
00:08:29Hmm.
00:08:31I've got fire in my heart, got a doing in my soul, thought I'd fade out in the dark,
00:08:37but I don't.
00:08:42I feel like I'm the problem.
00:08:45In my mind, it's 50-50.
00:08:47I think you've got to deal with.
00:08:49I think we've kind of both made this mess together.
00:08:52The last time we spoke, you asked me to not be a part of your life anymore.
00:08:56Yeah.
00:08:59I'm not interested in people who aren't bringing anything to me, you know?
00:09:07I don't really understand, like, when we were all hanging out, I thought it was all quite
00:09:13friendly, and then everything kind of went downhill, and I felt like a bit of collateral.
00:09:19Katie and I did some things that were inappropriate, but Katie's hard to say no to.
00:09:29I can't help but judge anyone who would go through with something, knowing me and knowing us.
00:09:35Like, it's...
00:09:37I guess I really don't know you, and I don't know the us, but I made quite a big mistake.
00:09:44Like, you know, I hurt you, and I want to apologize.
00:09:52Ryan, to his credit, did apologize.
00:09:55I think that was the kind of minimum expectation.
00:09:59But on the other hand, you know, how many times have I heard an apology?
00:10:03Is it just another apology?
00:10:05Because that's...
00:10:06That's just...
00:10:07I'm not down for that kind of attitude.
00:10:11I appreciate you recognizing it.
00:10:15But I'm also thinking that, like, when we were in Berlin, like, you guys did whatever you did,
00:10:20and then, you know, I got an apology after that, and then it happened a couple more times.
00:10:25I want to be able to trust who you're hanging out with.
00:10:27I want to be able to trust people that are going to be around me.
00:10:33Katie and I have discussed what our relationship is in terms of just being friends.
00:10:37Yeah.
00:10:39I feel like we're just, like, chill friends now.
00:10:43But I understand that that's difficult.
00:10:46I don't want to control you.
00:10:48I want you to live your life, but I also don't want you to make stupid decisions.
00:10:51Yeah.
00:10:54This whole thing is just a bit of a waste of my time.
00:10:57But, you know, hearing what you've got to say, I appreciate that.
00:11:00Yeah.
00:11:00Yeah.
00:11:01Um, I mean, I can totally respect that you're not interested in a friendship.
00:11:07We are where we are now, and, you know, if everyone knows where we all stand, I'm happy to just
00:11:13leave it in the past, if that suits both of you.
00:11:17Friends?
00:11:18It does.
00:11:18Yeah.
00:11:19Yeah?
00:11:19Katie?
00:11:19Do you think I can make out with everyone I know?
00:11:22I think...
00:11:22I think it's a bad idea.
00:11:25We're getting married soon, and I'm starting to feel, just in my gut, that she's not ready for, that she
00:11:33doesn't want right now.
00:11:36Well, I think we're here for a party, so...
00:11:38Let's go.
00:11:40Yeah, okay.
00:11:41Yeah.
00:11:42Just the one feeling.
00:11:43Yeah.
00:11:45We have less than 90 days before we get married now, and so I think that Katie, if she's ever
00:11:51going to make a show of commitment, now it's the time, honey.
00:11:58Can I go see everyone?
00:12:00Nice.
00:12:02You good?
00:12:03I think I'll give a rest of martini.
00:12:06Can we have the water first?
00:12:07I'm scared.
00:12:09Okay.
00:12:12Good shot.
00:12:14Hey, Katie, how's it going?
00:12:17We kissed.
00:12:19No, we're not kissing Katie.
00:12:21Nope, nope, nope, nope, we're not doing that.
00:12:23Everybody keeping your pretty occupied?
00:12:26Yeah, no, it's lovely.
00:12:27It's practice for the wedding, like, mingling and circulating.
00:12:32Okay, we can be normal mode.
00:12:34I think I did.
00:12:35What, normal mode?
00:12:36Katie, you're being crazy mode.
00:12:38Yeah, you're being crazy mode.
00:12:40Hi.
00:12:43Hi.
00:12:44Katie.
00:12:45No, I'm being crazy mode.
00:12:46You're being crazy.
00:12:47I'm being crazy mode.
00:12:48Why are you being crazy?
00:12:49Just chill.
00:12:50Shh.
00:12:53I'm giving Katie a lot of slack, and already it feels a little bit like that's being thrown
00:13:01in my face.
00:13:02Is this her table?
00:13:03Probably.
00:13:07It makes every conversation that we've had pointless.
00:13:12It makes our relationship feel very unserious.
00:13:18I thought we were past this, but clearly we're not.
00:13:24Hey, Katie.
00:13:28I'm not as close as I've been.
00:13:31No.
00:13:34I want it too.
00:13:38This is bulls**t.
00:13:41This is bulls**t.
00:13:52Babe, you can't eat this.
00:13:55What is this?
00:13:56Poof?
00:14:00Poof is dirty.
00:14:02Muslim people can't eat.
00:14:06Bacon is the best type of pork.
00:14:07Baby!
00:14:09Oh, don't be so dramatic!
00:14:13So, please, when we go downstairs, baby,
00:14:15you need to be respectful.
00:14:16Good morning, sire. Good morning, Miami.
00:14:18Do you understand me?
00:14:20When you come to a Nigerian family
00:14:22and then you address an elderly person as,
00:14:25hey, it makes the person seem like you're talking to a dog.
00:14:28Hey, hey, mom.
00:14:29Baby, correct yourself.
00:14:30I told you this before.
00:14:34I'm speechless.
00:14:36Yeah.
00:14:40I hear come trouble,
00:14:42but you can't look away.
00:14:44Oh, preach or try to tell your love.
00:14:51I'm bathed in his blood
00:14:53and it runs through his face.
00:14:56Hi, baby.
00:14:58Hi.
00:14:59Why you didn't wash last night?
00:15:02Oh, my God.
00:15:03What?
00:15:03Oh, my God, baby.
00:15:05You don't listen to me.
00:15:06Oh, my God.
00:15:07I know I know you're a girl.
00:15:07You don't listen to me.
00:15:09I know you're a girl.
00:15:09I know you're a girl.
00:15:11Come home.
00:15:12Come home.
00:15:13Come home.
00:15:13Come home.
00:15:15You can't stop.
00:15:18Everybody loves an outlaw.
00:15:24we fight probably daily about being clean yeah it's not big fights but that's majority of what
00:15:32our fights are about his culture like they clean every day all day long and I'm just a messy person
00:15:40when you're doing coffee when you eat something with
00:15:44yeah this city five day six day no she's lying I am very excited about this I called around just
00:16:07to
00:16:07find you a bidet it's it's not common here in America for toilets to have bidets
00:16:16yeah I know yeah if you don't have uh wash us yeah we are not clean we say I mean
00:16:26you're not wrong
00:16:27honestly since the white trash bash uh life's been you know a little tense with the whole Brandon
00:16:35situation but we're with each other you're here in America and why not have water shooting up in
00:16:44your butthole to make you feel like home you know yes can you hand me my sandwich babe thank you
00:17:09babe you can't eat this what is this
00:17:16oh don't be so dramatic
00:17:36work don't clean the body chicken and like human like we clean inside
00:17:44uh God sent message pork is dirty Muslim people can't eat
00:17:51how was it you want another bite
00:17:54no baby I think this is all my life first yeah bacon is the best type of pork no I
00:18:02don't like really
00:18:03mm-hmm baby
00:18:09you know we're really close to where the accident happened like we're gonna yeah we're pretty much
00:18:15gonna pass right by it almost about a year ago I was in a major car accident with my best
00:18:34friend
00:18:34Michaela her mom and Michaela's son and we were hit head-on by a distracted driver we were all hospitalized
00:18:44for well over a week I unfortunately had to have a bowel surgery where I lost about three feet of
00:18:53my
00:18:53intestines obviously rush couldn't be there physically for me and that was hard on me that
00:19:00he couldn't be there physically but I think it was even harder on him he struggled a lot mentally I
00:19:06think feeling
00:19:08like you know like how would you feel if the person you love was in a horrific accident and
00:19:17you are stuck you can't be by their side I haven't been here since the accident happened yeah like I
00:19:27avoid it I don't you don't want to come yeah I don't want to come at all so this would
00:19:35be the first time
00:19:39it was up here okay yeah let's go right here yeah we were coming down this way yeah oh just
00:20:04we're like that's where like that truck is right there she went like right into our lane you can see
00:20:11like how fast people are going yeah
00:20:21very about oh yeah this is for me that's because yeah like little bit I feel you will that like
00:20:41yeah and I will
00:20:43I wish I could at the hospital with you because I wanna yeah I kill you you know baby I
00:20:51know
00:20:56I was think if she's die in hospital I was so much think I don't want to marry it another
00:21:09woman
00:21:09because I love Mallory this time I don't want to cry it's okay
00:21:27she's my everything like she's my first married woman and last girlfriend
00:21:41yeah I love you I love you so much
00:21:46I don't really care to be here much longer so can we go yeah
00:21:51I love you I love you
00:21:55I love you
00:22:08I love you
00:22:28Today, Aesha and I were going out together to the market, and we're going to discuss
00:22:33a lot about my visa that was rejected and, you know, come up with a decision that is
00:22:39going to be best for us.
00:22:41But then, I'm not even going to lie, I'm nervous, because I thought last night, you know, at
00:22:47every point in time, I need to be around Aesha, I need to be around my family just to keep
00:22:51everybody in check, especially Aesha, you know, okay, baby, the way you said this, don't
00:22:57say it like that again, you know, the way you did this, don't do it like that again, okay?
00:23:01What would it mean to you if your family were to disapprove of Aesha?
00:23:05Oh, Lord.
00:23:06If my family was to disapprove of Aesha, oh, Lord.
00:23:13Ah, I feel like when I get there, I'll cross the bridge, because right now, I can't even
00:23:17think.
00:23:21Sweetie, come help me figure out what to wear.
00:23:23What you got?
00:23:24Oh.
00:23:27No, it's real hot in here.
00:23:28How do you think about this?
00:23:31That's too hot.
00:23:32Sweetie, them long sleeves, what's the temperature outside?
00:23:35You're going to pass out.
00:23:37I like it.
00:23:38It look good, but you might need to wear it at, like, nighttime or when it cool down
00:23:41a little bit.
00:23:44Let me put on this.
00:23:47And that'll kind of match what I'm putting on.
00:23:49I got, like, a tan dress.
00:23:52Does Maxwell have a good sense of fashion?
00:23:55You're going to get me hurt right here on this one.
00:23:56I still have it ingrained in my head, that blue suit that you want to be.
00:24:01The blue, not the suit, the blue senator I wore, right?
00:24:06I want it to appear a little bit cultural, because I've seen on videos and pictures where
00:24:11people go to the airport to pick people up.
00:24:13You know, they come with flowers, and they look cultural.
00:24:16Just to, you know, sell their culture.
00:24:18Hey, welcome to Nigeria and stuff like that.
00:24:21You sold it all right.
00:24:23It was just a bad choice, and the shoes just, like, topped it off.
00:24:27In the States, we be saying people look country.
00:24:30He look real country.
00:24:32It looks good, but it's too hot.
00:24:34Just do the brown pants and then the flip-flops.
00:24:38Baby, are you the one wearing it?
00:24:40You always want to have your way.
00:24:42I do.
00:24:43I'm coming to pick out what you will wear.
00:24:46You never complained about what I got to wear.
00:24:50Before you be talking, cho-chor-chor-chor-chor-chor-chor.
00:24:52Go ahead and get ready.
00:24:53A what?
00:24:54A cho-chor-chor-chor-chor-chor-chor-what?
00:24:55You're wasting time.
00:24:56Go get ready.
00:24:56Put your mouth.
00:24:57Don't rush me.
00:24:58You're going to wear those sandals, right?
00:25:00All right.
00:25:00OK.
00:25:01Aisha, sometimes there's just a little bit of bossy behavior.
00:25:05My family expects, you know, peace, love, respect from the woman I'm getting married to,
00:25:10and I don't want them on misunderstanding and, like, oh, this person is not respectful,
00:25:14something like that.
00:25:16Sweetie.
00:25:18You're not done?
00:25:19Who's rushing me now?
00:25:20What are you up going on?
00:25:21Nothing.
00:25:22Just trying to get my makeup finished up so we can go.
00:25:26So please, when we go downstairs, baby, you need to be respectful.
00:25:29Good morning, sir.
00:25:30Good morning, ma'am.
00:25:31Do you understand?
00:25:32Be sweet.
00:25:33My family is already traumatized, but you're trying to change this, change that.
00:25:37Did they say anything else to you in private?
00:25:39Maybe.
00:25:40Oh, they haven't said anything yet?
00:25:41My mom doesn't like the idea of you trying to change my ear, my nose, my mouth.
00:25:45The eye thing, you didn't even try to explain that to them.
00:25:50I'm mind, doctor.
00:25:52No, but you should have packed me up.
00:25:56All right.
00:25:57I don't say anything about my hair.
00:25:59And I'm serious.
00:26:00You was rushing me, so come on.
00:26:02Don't say anything about my hair again.
00:26:04There was a lot going on at dinner last night.
00:26:07I feel like they were attacking me because they were definitely not hearing me out when
00:26:11I was trying to tell them about the skin care, you know, how we need to be watchful about
00:26:15his eye condition.
00:26:16Just they were not being open-minded.
00:26:18You know, throughout the whole time, I've suggested all these things to make Maxwell a
00:26:22better person, to look better.
00:26:24And he has been on board.
00:26:27So I was just a little bit shocked that he, you know, just didn't really have my back.
00:26:32It's very kind of upsetting.
00:26:35Hello, Ma.
00:26:36Hello, Dad.
00:26:37Hey, Ma.
00:26:38Hi.
00:26:39How are you?
00:26:40Baby, correct yourself.
00:26:41I told you this before.
00:26:45Good morning, sir.
00:26:46Good morning, ma'am.
00:26:47Good morning, sir.
00:26:47Good morning, good morning, ma'am.
00:26:48Good morning.
00:26:49You're welcome.
00:26:49You're welcome.
00:26:50You know, when you come to a Nigerian family and then you address an elderly person as,
00:26:56hey, you know, it makes the person seem like you're talking to a dog.
00:26:59I wasn't brought up that way.
00:27:01You do that in my house, my mom is going to kill you.
00:27:04You say, good morning, sir.
00:27:05Good morning, ma'am.
00:27:06When you don't eat sin, you say, thank you, sir.
00:27:08Thank you, ma'am.
00:27:09Because this whole thing about respect, you know, so I'm not happy about it at all.
00:27:15Why are you people going to the market?
00:27:17I want to go to the market and sit down and talk about the whole visa stuff, what we're
00:27:21going to do, and whatever will come up related to the whole family.
00:27:25People can't discuss it in the whole...
00:27:28Is it what you are trying to tell me?
00:27:30Eh?
00:27:30We just need a long time to talk about everything.
00:27:35But we don't worry.
00:27:36We are not going to go out and walk on my eye or change my nose or change my ear.
00:27:41Ah.
00:27:43I'm speechless.
00:27:46In our culture, for me, it means obeying the man, whether the man have money or not, you
00:27:52must.
00:27:54Whether the man is short or tall, you must.
00:27:58Whether the man knows how to dress well or not, you must.
00:28:02It's because the woman cannot disobey.
00:28:06We'll see you all later.
00:28:07All right, Nadine.
00:28:08Bye.
00:28:09You don't want the man to see you as a somebody that is so arrogant.
00:28:16I'm weak.
00:28:18I say I'm weak.
00:28:21Sweetie, mama seemed like she was upset.
00:28:24You think she mad at me?
00:28:31Have you called Nicole about getting her stuff out of the shed?
00:28:36I didn't know that Nicole stopped there.
00:28:41I'm enjoying, like, poking at them and starting arguments because I feel like he's not being
00:28:46truthful.
00:28:47I've been told her a dozen times.
00:28:49Because you let her walk all over you.
00:28:51You still love her, I guess.
00:29:07Shea, I'm making your smoothie.
00:29:10Where are you?
00:29:12Okay, bud.
00:29:22I think this is done.
00:29:24Yeah, that's good.
00:29:28Allison.
00:29:30It tastes good.
00:29:31Good?
00:29:32Yeah.
00:29:33You try it.
00:29:38How's it taste?
00:29:39Yeah, it's real good.
00:29:39You like?
00:29:40Yeah, I like.
00:29:41We have to go get some groceries.
00:29:43We're out of bananas and stuff, so we're going to meet Allison at the grocery here in a little
00:29:47bit.
00:29:48With the kids?
00:29:49Mm-hmm.
00:29:49But, yeah, the smoothie in the morning, I like it a lot.
00:29:53Starting from now, instead of beer, you drink smoothie everything.
00:29:55Babe, I don't drink beer in the morning anyway.
00:29:57I was drinking beer.
00:29:58I told you, when I get there, the fun is over.
00:30:02The fun is over.
00:30:03No more fun.
00:30:05You can fun, but the hunter is a limit.
00:30:07I can't help you, babe.
00:30:08What do you mean no more fun?
00:30:09What do you mean no more fun?
00:30:12It's definitely been an adjustment since Annabelle's arrived.
00:30:15I mean, my friends are still, like, texting and calling.
00:30:18Hey, the game's on.
00:30:20We're drinking.
00:30:21But I just tell them, hey, I'm watching the game here and drinking a smoothie.
00:30:26Annabelle just made me.
00:30:29It's cold.
00:30:31All righty.
00:30:34I mean, I know it's only been a few weeks, but I'm already feeling like I've lost weight
00:30:39and feel better, and...
00:30:40What are you talking about?
00:30:42No!
00:30:43Babe, look.
00:30:44I mean, look, my stomach...
00:30:47It's just...
00:30:48It's been only two weeks.
00:30:50It's been only two weeks, okay?
00:30:52My pants fall down.
00:30:53No, you said back here, you know, no.
00:30:55I'm telling you.
00:30:56No.
00:30:57I can feel it.
00:30:58All right, well, we're going to get batteries for the scale, and I'll prove it.
00:31:03Okay.
00:31:08So you haven't seen Allison since the nail salon.
00:31:11I kind of feel bad, because she asked me to go to lunch, you know, I think, like, yesterday
00:31:15when I was too busy at work, but...
00:31:18So maybe she's thinking odd at you and neglecting or avoid or whatever.
00:31:24Maybe, that's what I'm saying.
00:31:25She probably thinks that, but it was, I mean, legitimately, I was working.
00:31:29It just seems like we've been super busy, you know?
00:31:32Yeah.
00:31:35Ever since we did the spa day with the girls, Annabelle and Allison, they seem like they bonded
00:31:41a little more.
00:31:42Their relationships gotten better, so I'm pretty happy to see them getting along so well,
00:31:47because it worried me in the beginning that it would ever work out like this.
00:31:52There's Allison.
00:31:55Yeah, she's right beside us here.
00:31:58What I didn't expect was Allison and I had a relationship to suffer a little bit.
00:32:03I don't know if Allison's, like, you know, resentful, since we're not spending as much
00:32:07time together, but I do know Allison doesn't like to play second fiddle to anybody.
00:32:13Oops.
00:32:18Allison, the kids should be here.
00:32:20Oh, yeah, there they are.
00:32:23Hey, guys.
00:32:24Bye-bye.
00:32:24Hi, Cruzy.
00:32:25How are we going?
00:32:26What you doing?
00:32:27You doing?
00:32:28Cruz.
00:32:29Cruz.
00:32:29Cruz.
00:32:30Hey, Cruz.
00:32:30Hey, Cruz.
00:32:31Look.
00:32:32Say hi, Papa.
00:32:32Hi, Allison.
00:32:33Hello.
00:32:33Hello.
00:32:34Hi.
00:32:34Hey, everybody.
00:32:35Hey, bud.
00:32:36You got your own buggy?
00:32:37Mm.
00:32:38What do you guys do?
00:32:39Since y'all were here, we thought we'd come do some shopping.
00:32:41Oh, yum-yums.
00:32:42What are y'all shopping for, Annabelle?
00:32:44We're going to get some fruit and some chicken adobo.
00:32:46Chicken adobo.
00:32:47I love chicken adobo.
00:32:49You're going to have me over whenever you make that, right?
00:32:52Yeah.
00:32:53We're going to make for everybody.
00:32:54Yeah, yeah.
00:32:55We'll get my bag.
00:32:56We don't know what not yet.
00:32:57We'll let you know.
00:32:58OK.
00:32:59I think that's what we need for pancit, babe, that stuff.
00:33:02The green pepper.
00:33:03The red pepper.
00:33:05Oh, did you get celery?
00:33:06We're not yet.
00:33:08I heard there's a little fight, Dad, with you and Annabelle.
00:33:11Something about you cheating or something?
00:33:15What's that about, Dad?
00:33:20I mean, y'all talk about it.
00:33:22Why are you bringing it up?
00:33:23Because I haven't heard about it.
00:33:25Annabelle told me at the spa.
00:33:27When Nicole came over that night, she was just saying a bunch of stuff.
00:33:31I mean, I had to tell Annabelle what she said in case we run into her.
00:33:35I mean, are you guys doing OK?
00:33:37That's kind of a big deal, especially for Annabelle just getting here.
00:33:40Yeah, I mean, we're doing really good, actually.
00:33:42I mean, we got through all that crap.
00:33:45Hot.
00:33:46Right?
00:33:47I think so.
00:33:50But no, everything's good.
00:33:51Do you need green onion for your stuff or not?
00:33:54Yeah, sure.
00:33:56Have you called Nicole about getting her stuff out of the shed?
00:34:03Oh, no, I haven't had time to deal with that either.
00:34:08If you're wanting Nicole out of the picture, I'd start...
00:34:10Well, I haven't thought about it.
00:34:12...prioritizing that.
00:34:15I didn't know that Nicole's stuff there.
00:34:20I forgot about it, babe.
00:34:23My ex-wife, Nicole, was recently moving.
00:34:25She reached out, asked for help getting her a storage unit.
00:34:29Well, you know, I happen to have a place on my property.
00:34:32So instead of helping her try to find one or pay for one,
00:34:36I was like, you can just use one on my property.
00:34:38But I thought it would be long gone before Annabelle got here.
00:34:42And, you know, it just kind of slipped my mind, honestly.
00:34:45And then when Allison brought it up, I'm like, oh, yeah, it's there.
00:34:49Crap.
00:34:50You know, now it looks like I've been trying to hide something.
00:34:53I tell her, come get it, or I'm getting rid of it.
00:35:17I said, hey, you need to get the stuff out of my building today,
00:35:20or I'm going to be getting rid of it.
00:35:23Call me.
00:35:25I mean, come on.
00:35:25You didn't actually mean that.
00:35:28All right.
00:35:29I mean, I will.
00:35:29I mean, that's why I've done told her a dozen times,
00:35:32so it's not like that.
00:35:33Because you let her walk all over you.
00:35:37My dad made a promise to me that he would prioritize me
00:35:41and that we would still see each other
00:35:43and do the things that we used to do or have done forever now,
00:35:45and I have to run into him in the grocery store.
00:35:48I'm enjoying, like, poking at them and starting arguments
00:35:52because she moved from the Philippines to be with my dad.
00:35:56I really like her so far, and I feel like he's not being truthful
00:36:00and she's not asking questions,
00:36:01and there's stuff that needs to be said and done, so.
00:36:07I mean, obviously, we know how Nicole does sometimes,
00:36:10and it just sounds like she's putting it off.
00:36:14I mean, she tells me she doesn't have a way to get it.
00:36:15She doesn't have a drug, doesn't have anybody to help her,
00:36:19blah, blah, blah, but, I mean...
00:36:20And you've listened to all her excuses.
00:36:22This has always been on her.
00:36:24You protect her for no reason.
00:36:26I'm still... I mean, I'm going to run into her.
00:36:28So, I mean, I want to stay halfway cordial with her.
00:36:30Do you still love her, I guess?
00:36:33Still love Nicole?
00:36:34No, baby, of course I don't still love Nicole.
00:36:38There's nothing going on with me and Nicole,
00:36:40and there's no love.
00:36:41It's just, I mean, I'm going to run into her and stuff.
00:36:46I need to know why, until now,
00:36:48Nicole not get there, the stuff.
00:36:51And I want Nicole's stuff out today.
00:36:59And I feel...
00:37:02I feel annoying about Allison said
00:37:05that Shay still have soft spot
00:37:08and maybe feelings.
00:37:10I don't know.
00:37:11And, of course, it's a problem for me.
00:37:14I want to find out what is the truth.
00:37:18You always bring crap like that up.
00:37:20Well...
00:37:21Well, I mean, why?
00:37:22Because she needs to know these things.
00:37:24I know, but, I mean, you need to know them kind of hurt.
00:37:27Well, you're not going to do it.
00:37:28I don't know what's up.
00:37:29Just chill out about it.
00:37:31Because it's, like, hurt on me, you know?
00:37:34How do you just want to avoid it?
00:37:41Oh, my God, guys.
00:37:43You saw my apartment, like, instead of couch,
00:37:46we have a bed.
00:37:49Thomas and I, we are super disconnected.
00:37:51I love him, but I love myself more.
00:37:55I don't want to come here and live like a homeless.
00:37:59One day, I will be like,
00:38:01you know what?
00:38:04And go back to Brazil, really.
00:38:23You see this?
00:38:25What is the memory that you think about when you see this?
00:38:29Like a spoon?
00:38:30Bad investment.
00:38:31My first thought is, this was a bad investment.
00:38:37Liberating it from the everyday
00:38:42You're the best
00:38:44Every time I see this tiny spoon
00:38:47and tiny forks and tiny dish,
00:38:50I remember how warm and cozy can be a family,
00:38:54can be cooking together.
00:38:56Sometimes I cry.
00:39:01Because I am manifesting so bad
00:39:03and so with so much intention.
00:39:07You're just saying you're thinking really hard about stuff
00:39:09and it's coming true.
00:39:11Yeah, because I'm paying the bills.
00:39:14So when you're spending money on this stuff,
00:39:16that's less money we have to pay the bills.
00:39:18You don't pay bills with 90 cents, Thomas.
00:39:21So, come on.
00:39:22It adds up.
00:39:23You've been miserable.
00:39:24It adds up.
00:39:25It adds up.
00:39:27I mean, look at this.
00:39:29There's a whole pile of stuff that's been arriving all week.
00:39:32What is this stuff?
00:39:34Thomas, these stuffs are some things that we actually need here
00:39:38because this is not a hotel room.
00:39:41This is a real house.
00:39:44I gave Paula a credit card.
00:39:45I trusted her to be sensible with it.
00:39:48And I feel like she's abusing my trust a little bit.
00:39:54What do you think is in here?
00:39:55If you had a guess, what do you think this is?
00:39:56I think it, um, I don't remember.
00:40:05Jesus, are you kidding me?
00:40:07Did you really buy this?
00:40:09This is the most ridiculous thing I've ever seen.
00:40:12A tiny couch?
00:40:15Why are you smiling?
00:40:17They're so adorable.
00:40:19I want this to manifest the real one.
00:40:23Oh, my God.
00:40:25It's so beautiful.
00:40:26If we get to keep this couch instead of getting a real couch,
00:40:28I'll be happy.
00:40:29That's the deal I'll make for this.
00:40:32Are you not worried about the money you're spending?
00:40:34No.
00:40:35Oh, my God, Thomas.
00:40:37Look at that.
00:40:38How much money did you spend on this?
00:40:40It was on clearance.
00:40:42It was not on clearance!
00:40:45You're lying to me!
00:40:46I'm really trying to understand what is the cause
00:40:49because it is not about money.
00:40:51I think he's going to commit with this.
00:40:55With me, I don't know.
00:40:57Like, I don't feel like I'm welcome.
00:40:59Any money that you can save,
00:41:00I'll consider buying maybe a piece of furniture.
00:41:15Oh, it was Felix Anderson.
00:41:16Tell him I said hi.
00:41:17Okay.
00:41:20I have two neighbors, Felix and Anderson.
00:41:23The first time that I met them,
00:41:25the doorman from my building said,
00:41:27hey, there's another Brazilian living here.
00:41:30And they are so adorable.
00:41:32And we became friends
00:41:34and we are building a very cool friendship.
00:41:39Surprise!
00:41:40Oh, my God, guys!
00:41:40Oh, my God, I'm going to be here.
00:41:42Oh, my God!
00:41:43Oh, my God!
00:41:43Hi!
00:41:43How are you?
00:41:44Nice to see you.
00:41:44I'm fine.
00:41:46How about you?
00:41:46Welcome.
00:41:47Everything good.
00:41:47Wow, it smells so good here.
00:41:49What you guys are doing?
00:41:49Oh, really?
00:41:50Yes.
00:41:51Thank you, thank you.
00:41:52Awesome.
00:41:52That's a Virgo house, too.
00:41:55Virgo house, but it doesn't work with me
00:41:57because Thomas is also Virgo.
00:41:58He is?
00:41:59He is there?
00:42:00Yeah.
00:42:00Oh, my goodness.
00:42:00And look here.
00:42:02It's so clean and organized.
00:42:04Come in.
00:42:06Oh, my God, guys.
00:42:08It's so nice here.
00:42:10Thank you, thank you.
00:42:11Wow, it's amazing, guys.
00:42:12My God.
00:42:13You saw my apartment.
00:42:15Like, instead of couch, we have a bed.
00:42:18And also, instead of table like this, a dinner table,
00:42:22we have a camping table that he bought.
00:42:24Camping table?
00:42:25Camping table?
00:42:25And we eat sitting in a yoga blocks.
00:42:30It's, like, very embarrassing the position.
00:42:33I am like this and, you know, eating in a tiny table.
00:42:36So, see something like this?
00:42:38I love it.
00:42:39I would throw everything away if I was Paola.
00:42:42I'm sorry.
00:42:44In my opinion, Thomas is a little...
00:42:49Challenging?
00:42:49Yes.
00:42:51He's a very nice guy, but now she can see
00:42:54they have a lot of problems.
00:42:56Problems they need to resolve.
00:42:58Because they will be married.
00:43:02I'm sorry to vent.
00:43:04No, it's fine.
00:43:04You guys are so nice to me because, you know,
00:43:08it's hard to process the feeling.
00:43:10In Brazil, I work it so hard.
00:43:12And I don't want to come here and live like a homeless,
00:43:16you know?
00:43:16It's, it's, it looks like I'm camping inside my own apartment.
00:43:21Sometimes I forgot who I am.
00:43:23Like, I have printed on my body, like, my mentalization words,
00:43:28like, boss and power.
00:43:31And sometimes I think I'm being too nice.
00:43:33Because I deal with this before in old relationships,
00:43:37like, being the person that always accept everything,
00:43:40and it ended bad.
00:43:46I was married before, many, many years ago.
00:43:49I got divorced because I know what I want in my life,
00:43:53and mainly I know what I don't want.
00:43:56Thomas and I, we are super disconnected.
00:43:58I love him, but I love myself more,
00:44:02and I don't need to be begging for something so usual
00:44:06and normal for me.
00:44:08All this is about what do you want?
00:44:11I don't want to live like a refugee
00:44:14inside my own apartment.
00:44:17If he don't be more open to talk about this
00:44:21and make any progress, one day I will be, like, pissed,
00:44:26and not say, OK, you know what?
00:44:28,
00:44:31and go back to Brazil, really.
00:44:41Oh, it's hot.
00:44:44So what is this?
00:44:46Oh, this is a fan.
00:44:50You'll be wanting one of these.
00:44:53They feel good, don't they?
00:44:55It sure does.
00:45:05Your mom was looking so mean at me.
00:45:08What?
00:45:09You didn't notice when she was at the table.
00:45:11She was frowning at me.
00:45:13See, after correcting you in the morning
00:45:15about how to address my parents,
00:45:18we went on to say, hey, dad, hey, mom.
00:45:21Quit addressing them that way, please.
00:45:24They're not going to tell you, but they'll keep observing.
00:45:27That's what I'm trying to, you know, put you in place.
00:45:32It's simple.
00:45:32Is it?
00:45:34Mm-hmm.
00:45:37The first time I met them, like, I'm calling them mom and dad.
00:45:41And so why didn't he tell me to greet them a certain way the first time?
00:45:45Now this is the second time we're hanging out, and now all of a sudden there's something new.
00:45:51That's crazy to me.
00:45:52I've seen you.
00:45:53I've already spoken.
00:45:54Oh, my.
00:45:54Enough already.
00:45:56Are you dating your family, or are you dating me?
00:46:00You're dating me and my family.
00:46:02Sweetie, that's not true.
00:46:03That's not biblical.
00:46:05If the visa got approved, you would have already been in the U.S.,
00:46:07and you wouldn't have been worried how they felt.
00:46:09Correct?
00:46:10All of a sudden, you worried.
00:46:13Because you are here.
00:46:15Right.
00:46:15I don't want all those advice.
00:46:17Are you making a mistake?
00:46:18Is this right?
00:46:19Is this this?
00:46:20They should have been worried about that the first time I came,
00:46:22and the second time I came, not the third.
00:46:31Say what now?
00:46:34Are you sure God really wants us to be married?
00:46:39You changed your mind?
00:46:43You confused?
00:46:47You ought to be ashamed of yourself.
00:46:50You let other folks help you make a decision.
00:46:52But I thought that you weren't like that.
00:46:54You make decisions for yourself.
00:46:56I do. I do.
00:46:57No, you don't.
00:47:00If your mom doesn't support me getting married, you don't want me?
00:47:04Sweetie, she would only say no if it was a reason.
00:47:06Like being abusive or cheap.
00:47:09My parents would only say no if there was a reason.
00:47:12You being disrespectful to them.
00:47:14No.
00:47:14They might just have a misunderstanding.
00:47:17What kind of misunderstanding?
00:47:18I don't know.
00:47:19That's a misunderstanding.
00:47:19That's why you should learn the culture.
00:47:21Sweetie, quit yelling at me.
00:47:22I think I need to yell so that it will stick in your head.
00:47:25Oh, okay.
00:47:25Because it's not sticking.
00:47:26You keep on.
00:47:26You're going to get me and you in trouble.
00:47:28Don't worry.
00:47:30This is absolutely not the man I fell in love with.
00:47:33Never has Maxwell raised his voice at me like this.
00:47:36And it's very disappointing that not only is he questioning the relationship, but to me it's as if he's questioning
00:47:43God.
00:47:43Like our whole relationship is built on God.
00:47:47So the fact that he's let his family come in and caused him a waiver in what he believes, it's
00:47:53very hurtful.
00:47:54And it really never crossed my mind that I could be going home single.
00:48:22You're okay?
00:48:25Yeah.
00:48:34I am glad we are here, babe.
00:48:37Yeah, I know.
00:48:38Me too.
00:48:39I'm glad we're all still here.
00:48:41Thanks, God.
00:48:45You can open music?
00:48:47No.
00:48:59Come on.
00:49:04Oh, my God.
00:49:11I am very excited about this.
00:49:14Bidet?
00:49:15Bidet?
00:49:16Bidet.
00:49:16Yeah.
00:49:17Bidet.
00:49:17We'll see what the price is and everything and see how, you know, what we're going to be looking at.
00:49:27Tell me.
00:49:33I know.
00:49:34I know it's hard for you.
00:49:35Yeah.
00:49:37I just, you know, we have a wedding coming up.
00:49:39I think, you know, sometimes I just get really stressed out about money and you know that.
00:49:45Oh.
00:49:47Raj doesn't really have any experience living on his own and paying a mortgage because in his culture, it's normal
00:49:56to still be living at home, you know, well in your 20s.
00:50:02Hey, ready?
00:50:03Yeah.
00:50:03You know, I really don't think he understands the amount of money I pay every month to keep a roof
00:50:10over our heads.
00:50:11And now I have an extra mouth to feed and an extra butthole to clean.
00:50:22First lady.
00:50:23Ooh.
00:50:24Wow.
00:50:25I can't afford anything in here.
00:50:28Wow.
00:50:28I like it.
00:50:29Very fancy.
00:50:30Yeah.
00:50:31Hi.
00:50:31Hi.
00:50:32Good morning.
00:50:33Good morning.
00:50:33I'm Heather.
00:50:34Mallory.
00:50:34Nice to meet you.
00:50:35Very nice to meet you.
00:50:36Hi.
00:50:37Nice to meet you.
00:50:37Nice to meet you too.
00:50:38So what are you guys in for?
00:50:40He's from Turkey and nice.
00:50:42Everyone in Turkey has a bidet.
00:50:45They do.
00:50:46They do.
00:50:47Yeah.
00:50:47Yeah.
00:50:47So that's what we're looking for.
00:50:49All right.
00:50:49So we have a few different options that we can show you guys.
00:50:52Okay. Perfect.
00:50:52This one is fantastic.
00:50:53So we can just kind of show you a little features about it.
00:50:56Okay.
00:50:57First of all, it's got a very nice warm seat for your bum.
00:51:01It has a rear wash.
00:51:02Okay.
00:51:03It has a front wash.
00:51:05Females.
00:51:06Oh.
00:51:06You can feel it's got a pretty powerful.
00:51:09Oh my God.
00:51:10Right?
00:51:11If we have some stubborn things that we need to take care of.
00:51:14We've got a little pulsating action going on.
00:51:19Right?
00:51:20Wow.
00:51:21I like.
00:51:21This is how much?
00:51:23So this one's going to run about $1,100.
00:51:27That's a lot.
00:51:28Wow.
00:51:29Yeah.
00:51:30If, you know, price might be a little part of the equation.
00:51:34Yeah.
00:51:34This one is going to be in that $800 price range.
00:51:38It's going to do its thing.
00:51:40Same thing.
00:51:44I don't want to be, I am sort of horny, like.
00:51:47Stop!
00:51:49Hey, no judging here.
00:51:51No judging here.
00:51:53We have a working one in our showroom that I want you to use before you leave.
00:52:00Yes.
00:52:01Yes.
00:52:01Would you like to try it?
00:52:02Yeah.
00:52:05Oh my God.
00:52:06I'll let you go in and do the honors.
00:52:08Yeah.
00:52:11Yeah.
00:52:12Oh my God.
00:52:14You stay here?
00:52:16Yeah.
00:52:17My ass is hot, baby.
00:52:20Does that feel good?
00:52:20You want more?
00:52:21No.
00:52:22Oh.
00:52:22Oh.
00:52:24Oh.
00:52:25Oh.
00:52:26Oh.
00:52:26Your golden throne opens up as you walk.
00:52:29When the toilet sees me open, welcome Rashid.
00:52:34Oh.
00:52:35What?
00:52:36Come on.
00:52:37You don't need to be sitting on the toilet all day long.
00:52:40Lord have mercy.
00:52:42Toilet do everything.
00:52:43Dry.
00:52:44Hot water.
00:52:45Cold water.
00:52:46Wash.
00:52:47But so expensive.
00:52:49But I want to buy.
00:52:50It's expensive.
00:52:50And let's be realistic.
00:52:52His ass ain't worth that much money.
00:52:53No, I need.
00:52:54You don't need it.
00:52:55You want it.
00:52:56There's a difference.
00:53:01Okay.
00:53:05Maybe we need to also look at, like, cheaper ones.
00:53:08Do we really need something so fancy?
00:53:09Yes, baby.
00:53:11It's not a necessity, though.
00:53:12No, baby.
00:53:13You can use toilet paper.
00:53:15I want.
00:53:15I know you want, but you're not the one paying for it.
00:53:19$800 is a lot of money.
00:53:21I need you to understand that this is not a priority.
00:53:35No, I'm not.
00:53:37I did get an insurance settlement from the car accident.
00:53:41It's not like I'm some multimillionaire.
00:53:43I wish.
00:53:45But in my mind, that money doesn't exist.
00:53:48That money is in a brokerage account that I can barely access for a reason.
00:53:53Because if I would have easy access to that money, I would spend it.
00:53:58Honestly.
00:53:59Any normal person would.
00:54:01And it really irritates me and gets under my skin that he thinks this is just money that we can
00:54:08blow on stupid .
00:54:13I'm not touching that money unless there's an emergency.
00:54:16We don't have easy access to it.
00:54:17So I am not special.
00:54:18You know, I left my country for you.
00:54:21I don't have money.
00:54:22I don't have a car.
00:54:24Watch that finger.
00:54:26I'm not paying $800 for something that my hand can do.
00:54:31That's my money.
00:54:32And I want to be able to build a future for myself on it.
00:54:35And if he's in that future, then great.
00:54:38But if things don't work out between us, I don't want to be broke with no money.
00:54:44And no man.
00:54:46Like, damn.
00:54:47You don't listen.
00:54:48What?
00:54:49It's a bidet.
00:54:53I hate to be the one to tell you, but the last four years, like, y'all have been engaged
00:54:58and they've also been hanging out.
00:55:01I've heard him, like, tell her, like, he loves her.
00:55:06I love Shay, but he stabbed my back.
00:55:10He's lying to me.
00:55:11For four years, I can't marry this man.
00:55:23I love Shay.
00:55:37I love Shay.
00:55:39I love Shay.
00:55:44I love Shay.
00:55:50Sweet.
00:55:53Let's stop here a little bit.
00:55:55I'm thirsty.
00:55:57That was a lot.
00:55:58I love it.
00:56:00You want some water?
00:56:01You want to get ice cream?
00:56:03I want to get a sorbet.
00:56:04Very vegan.
00:56:09Do you believe this is vegan?
00:56:14Mm-hmm.
00:56:15I'm just licking.
00:56:17Mm.
00:56:19Since the argument with Thomas a few days ago, we had a little bit of progress.
00:56:25He gave me a little bit closet, but I still have the feeling that I'm a guest in his life,
00:56:31because everything for Thomas is his way or no way.
00:56:37And this is scary.
00:56:40Flomilio, I just arrived here, and I just want to figure out my life.
00:56:45We got a lot of stuff to figure out now that we're living under the same roof.
00:56:49I 100% want to support you, but we got to be a team.
00:56:53Mm-hmm.
00:56:54I'm 100% sure that I don't want to pay my stuff forever.
00:57:00This is just the beginning.
00:57:02I just want to have control 100% of my life.
00:57:06And there are some things that I really want to make happen, for example, about the furniture, about our apartment.
00:57:15And I don't like that tiny closet.
00:57:19For me, it is not fair, you know?
00:57:22I left Brazil saying that I want to have the same infrastructure that I have here.
00:57:30And I'm stick on that.
00:57:32I'm stick on that.
00:57:34I don't really get the sense that Paula really appreciates everything that I've done.
00:57:40First of all, I got her here.
00:57:42And that's not just buying a flight.
00:57:44That's doing the paperwork and all the fees that come along with it.
00:57:49I got her a credit card.
00:57:51I've already done a lot, and none of it just seems to be enough.
00:57:57I don't want to fight.
00:57:58Yeah, but you have way more stuff in Brazil.
00:58:00I know you have five closets in Brazil.
00:58:02And you use every single one of them.
00:58:04You always want them.
00:58:04And when I visited you, you gave me five hangers.
00:58:09Because...
00:58:09You gave me five hangers, and you gave me one drawer.
00:58:11You don't live there.
00:58:12Okay, you want to move there?
00:58:14But you have...
00:58:15Those closets are full.
00:58:17Okay, what is your point?
00:58:19My point is that your closets in Brazil are full.
00:58:23And your closet here is still empty.
00:58:26When it's full, we'll talk about it.
00:58:27Give it to your dog.
00:58:28Fill it up first.
00:58:29I don't want to.
00:58:29I'm just saying, fill up the closet.
00:58:32If you have that much stuff, let me see it full.
00:58:34If you insist, I'll go back to Brazil.
00:58:35If you insist, I'll go back to Brazil.
00:58:36Wait, wait, wait.
00:58:36Okay, hold on a second.
00:58:37Go back to Brazil?
00:58:38Come on.
00:58:40Stop.
00:58:40Come on, come on.
00:58:41One second, real quick.
00:58:43You always try to manipulate me and cover me.
00:58:47Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:58:47Stop with that.
00:58:50I'm thinking about to go back to Brazil, especially because it's so easy.
00:58:54I don't have any drama.
00:58:56I don't beg for anything.
00:58:58I'm fighting so much here.
00:59:00I'm tired.
00:59:02The only reason that I'm here in the United States is because of him.
00:59:06Well, I'm starting to wondering if love is enough.
00:59:09I'm not a little girl.
00:59:12I'm not shutting up my mouth anymore.
00:59:15I will go up to what I want, okay?
00:59:34Allison seemed a little bit upset.
00:59:36Oh, you know, I should be the one who will upset to you.
00:59:40You know why?
00:59:41Why are you upset?
00:59:42I need to know everything.
00:59:44I need to know the stuff in the shed of Nicole.
00:59:47Just, I want to know.
00:59:50You want to go to the shed right now?
00:59:52Yes.
00:59:53Okay.
01:00:05How much of her stuff is in here?
01:00:07Babe, I don't know.
01:00:08I don't know what's in here, but I'll tell you in just a second.
01:00:12Whoops.
01:00:20You can get in there and look.
01:00:21Yeah.
01:00:22A couple tables and...
01:00:25This is all her stuff?
01:00:27I assume so.
01:00:27Or one of her kids, babe.
01:00:28I don't know.
01:00:30So call her right now and tell her to get...
01:00:33I'll call her in a little bit, babe.
01:00:35I told you.
01:00:36Call her.
01:00:39You know, I'm willing to move on, but only if all this stuff is gone.
01:00:46Okay, I'll go out here and call her and I'll be right back.
01:00:49I'll see if she'll answer.
01:00:51Shea and I were almost broke up a few years ago because hanging out with his ex Nicole.
01:00:58And I always suspected that there's always something going on since then.
01:01:05Hello?
01:01:06So the fact he lied to me about her and about this, it's really upset to me.
01:01:13We have two months before getting married, but I don't know if I will continue because
01:01:18I keep finding out so many lies.
01:01:24Uh, I was wanting you to get this stuff out of this building.
01:01:30What about the table and stuff?
01:01:35All right, well, I'll get it taken care of.
01:01:38All right, bye.
01:01:49I got a hold of her.
01:01:51So the couch, I'm just going to take a few pictures from it.
01:01:55Upload and put it on the internet.
01:01:57I'm going to try to sell it.
01:01:58And then you sell it and then she will come here to get the money?
01:02:01No, I'll send it to her through Cash App or something.
01:02:06You're still hoping her, right?
01:02:09I mean, I'm getting what you want done.
01:02:11You want that empty.
01:02:13And I mean, helping her.
01:02:14Yeah, I want that empty.
01:02:15But if she doesn't want to come here to get that stuff.
01:02:17Well, if you call it helping, if you don't.
01:02:19It's true, it's a dump.
01:02:23I will deal with it.
01:02:24I'll get it taken care of, okay?
01:02:26Just calm down.
01:02:34I have to talk to Alison because I trust her to tell the truth.
01:02:40But not him.
01:02:46She is a bitch, you know?
01:02:48He still keeps secret to me.
01:02:51And I've done all of this.
01:02:57Oh, hey.
01:02:58Alison.
01:02:59Yes, what you doing?
01:03:00Can I talk to you?
01:03:01Yeah, sure.
01:03:03Everything okay?
01:03:04No, I'm not okay.
01:03:06Because me and your dad were arguing about that stuff of Nicole.
01:03:13It seems like he doesn't want to let her go.
01:03:17Yeah.
01:03:19I hate to be the one to tell you, but the last four years, like,
01:03:23you all have been engaged and they've also been hanging out, you know?
01:03:28Mm-hmm.
01:03:30I mean, I know, like, she goes out on the boat with him sometimes
01:03:33and they text sometimes.
01:03:36And, I mean, he invites her to the bar sometimes.
01:03:40He told me that he's with his friends, some old friends,
01:03:44but I didn't know that Nicole is there.
01:03:46Yeah, it's because he would turn the camera
01:03:48to what he wanted you to see.
01:03:50Mm-hmm.
01:03:52I'd even ask my dad.
01:03:53I'd be like, what are you doing?
01:03:54You have a fiancé.
01:03:55Like, why are you doing that?
01:03:58He's lying to me for four years.
01:04:03As much as I hate the fact that she's taken my dad away from me,
01:04:06I do feel bad for Annabelle.
01:04:08So I'm telling her the entire truth because she deserves the truth.
01:04:11Like, dad came home four years ago from the Philippines engaged,
01:04:14but it was like living double lives.
01:04:16Like, you're engaged in the Philippines,
01:04:18but you're acting single in America.
01:04:21If I figured out that I was being lied to by a man
01:04:23that had been engaged to me for four years, yeah, see ya.
01:04:31You see them holding hands together, or?
01:04:33I haven't seen them actually kiss or hold hands or anything.
01:04:37Like, he would talk about her body and smack her butt.
01:04:42I've heard him, like, tell her, like, he loves her.
01:04:49You heard that he say that I love, I love Nicole?
01:04:52Yeah, I mean, he says I love you.
01:04:54Like, I always love you.
01:05:03I can't do this anymore.
01:05:05I love Shay, but he stabbed my back.
01:05:09And I can't marry this man.
01:05:13He's a liar.
01:05:15I don't know.
01:05:24You know, at some point, you've got to put your foot down.
01:05:26What I find difficult is figuring out what's OCD
01:05:29and what's her being dramatic,
01:05:32because sometimes they look similar.
01:05:35Katie does need tough love.
01:05:37He's just kind of letting Katie roll over him.
01:05:39At some point, he does need to stick up for himself.
01:05:42I want to go with you.
01:05:44Katie!
01:05:46I need you to .
01:05:58I'm excited to show you New York,
01:05:59because, like, even the drive-in is very cool,
01:06:02because you'll see the skylight.
01:06:03Like, you know, like the...
01:06:06No way.
01:06:07No, like all the buildings and stuff.
01:06:11It's going to be really cool for you.
01:06:12I want to see that.
01:06:21First road trip together?
01:06:22Yes.
01:06:23Good.
01:06:25Want a graham cracker?
01:06:27Uh, no.
01:06:29I don't think so.
01:06:30Have you ever had a graham cracker?
01:06:31No?
01:06:32No, sounds good.
01:06:33Let me try.
01:06:34No.
01:06:35Now, no?
01:06:36Well, I'm eating this one.
01:06:38Take one of these.
01:06:39Okay.
01:06:43Hmm.
01:06:44This is very good.
01:06:45Okay.
01:06:47The first couple weeks here in America,
01:06:50I see a very different America that I was seeing here.
01:06:54Like, a very different side.
01:06:58And, like, this is the day we go to New York City,
01:07:01because she worked in New York.
01:07:01She's going to be busy all day, and I'm going to be free.
01:07:05I'm going to be a tourist for the first time in my life,
01:07:07you know?
01:07:09Everybody want to be in New York.
01:07:11Like, you know, like, New York, New York, New York.
01:07:13I'm very excited to see the city and everything.
01:07:17Like, you're going to be off on your own when I'm working,
01:07:18so, like, do you have money?
01:07:22Um, I think I have a couple of hundreds.
01:07:26Did you put it in your wallet?
01:07:27Uh, no.
01:07:28I need to buy in a wallet, honestly, with you.
01:07:30You don't have a wallet?
01:07:31No.
01:07:32So what do you keep all your things in?
01:07:34Um, this is the reason why I need to buy a wallet.
01:07:40Do you have a credit card at least?
01:07:41Like, how are you going to pay for things when I'm not with you?
01:07:43Cash.
01:07:44You don't have any cash.
01:07:47You forgot it at home.
01:07:50You have to think about these things, my love.
01:07:53It's not like I've been thinking, you know?
01:07:55Like, it's exciting, you know?
01:07:56And I forget.
01:07:59What the hell are you thinking?
01:08:01How would you expect to be in a big city all alone
01:08:04with no money, no identification?
01:08:06I'm at work all day.
01:08:08I'm not able to, like, be there to help you.
01:08:10I don't think Edward is a planner.
01:08:12I think he kind of just flies by the seat of his pants.
01:08:14And what's most concerning for me is that
01:08:17I don't want to always have to worry,
01:08:18is Edward prepared for this scenario?
01:08:21Is Edward prepared for this trip?
01:08:22You know, it's annoying to me.
01:08:23And I don't want to have another child.
01:08:27I feel really bad about my behavior over the last couple days
01:08:30because I feel like I've been kind of cold to you
01:08:32and, like, you don't really deserve that.
01:08:34You're in a new country.
01:08:34You're experiencing new things.
01:08:36But these last few days have not been easy for me.
01:08:42I think one of the challenges with us is that
01:08:43we just live very, very, very different lifestyles
01:08:47in every aspect.
01:08:49You've really just seen me in Pennsylvania
01:08:53dealing with the children,
01:08:54which is essentially a full-time job.
01:08:56But, like, in New York, I'm also running a company.
01:09:01It's okay. I'm gonna help you now.
01:09:05I think the biggest thing for me
01:09:07is not that you're necessarily
01:09:08gonna help me with all my tasks,
01:09:10but I think the biggest thing
01:09:12that I'm hoping that you can do
01:09:15is really figure out how to be self-sufficient.
01:09:18You know?
01:09:19Like, I just...
01:09:20I don't have the bandwidth
01:09:23to take on one more thing to take care of.
01:09:26You know?
01:09:29Yeah, but to be honest with you, like...
01:09:31Say what you want.
01:09:31I've been really open with you,
01:09:33so you need to be open with me, too.
01:09:33Well, like, you need to, like,
01:09:35most of the time come down.
01:09:37You know why?
01:09:38Because, like,
01:09:40you decide to have the kind of life that you have.
01:09:45You live in two different cities at the same time,
01:09:47you know?
01:09:49You run a company.
01:09:51All the time, you're gonna be overwhelmed.
01:09:53All the time.
01:09:54Okay, that... I'm gonna stop you.
01:09:56I didn't choose to get married to Michael
01:09:59and then get divorced.
01:10:00That was not my intention.
01:10:01The way that I had thought my life was gonna be
01:10:03was that I would have a complete family
01:10:05with two parents, two incomes,
01:10:08and when we got divorced,
01:10:09like, my whole life flipped upside down,
01:10:11and I had to, like, make sacrifices,
01:10:12and I chose to have kids, yes.
01:10:15And I will never regret that decision,
01:10:16and, like, the responsibilities of the kids,
01:10:18I'm never gonna complain about.
01:10:19I'm not trying to say this.
01:10:21But you said, like, you chose this life.
01:10:24I just...
01:10:25The things that I just tried to say right now
01:10:27is, like, life's gotta be tough, you know?
01:10:29It's a lot of inconvenience all the time.
01:10:31This is life.
01:10:31I get that, but these last couple days,
01:10:33I do feel a little bit, like...
01:10:35Overwhelmed.
01:10:36Overwhelmed.
01:10:36Because I'm trying to settle in
01:10:38and trying to figure out how the...
01:10:39I'm gonna do everything that I do now
01:10:42and take on more expenses
01:10:44and another person to care for in my life.
01:10:47If you take like that,
01:10:50uh, not not...
01:10:51This is not gonna work, you know?
01:10:55I don't think that Edward understands
01:10:58what my frustration is
01:10:59and how much pressure is on my shoulders.
01:11:01I've been upfront and honest with him,
01:11:03and his response has kinda just been,
01:11:06okay, well, we'll figure it out.
01:11:08But that is not an appropriate response
01:11:10to me telling him
01:11:11that I don't know if this arrangement
01:11:13is gonna work out.
01:11:14If Edward doesn't start
01:11:15taking my concerns seriously,
01:11:17I'm gonna really start
01:11:19wondering if I'm making the right decision.
01:11:22It's like, I have to make a decision
01:11:25if this is the right path for me.
01:11:28I do understand.
01:11:29And this is a big leap of faith.
01:11:34It's not just you.
01:11:35Like, I don't wanna, like,
01:11:37make unstaken too, you know?
01:11:44Asha is 38,
01:11:45and she could have been married
01:11:47years ago.
01:11:49I was surprised to hear
01:11:51that Asha is approximately 40.
01:11:55If they marry old age,
01:11:57they cannot take care of their children.
01:12:00Somebody married at the age of 38.
01:12:03The monopause is knocking at the door.
01:12:06It bothers me.
01:12:07They don't want Asia
01:12:09to be a problem for my son.
01:12:23You're gonna get me at you in trouble.
01:12:24Don't worry.
01:12:25Make it hard, okay?
01:12:27Yeah, yeah.
01:12:27Make it difficult.
01:12:28Yeah, yeah.
01:12:29Sweetie, get up out this car.
01:12:40Let's do this.
01:12:45Let's talk about it over there.
01:12:47Okay?
01:12:48Yeah.
01:13:00That's pretty.
01:13:01That's nice.
01:13:02Which is pretty?
01:13:03That green.
01:13:03I like that color.
01:13:04That green?
01:13:05Mm-hmm.
01:13:06That's it.
01:13:09I feel like things are a little bit tense right now
01:13:11between me and Maxwell, so I'm super excited to go to the market.
01:13:15I just think this is gonna be a great opportunity for us to get away from everybody.
01:13:19And then I can get a little retail therapy, because I love to shop!
01:13:23And I definitely want like a few little African outfits, you know.
01:13:28And I've never been to the market in Africa.
01:13:32Maxwell does not like shopping.
01:13:34So it's kind of like a little treat, I guess,
01:13:36because ordinarily he wants no part of those markets.
01:13:44I swear to you, you fan of me too hard now.
01:13:47All right now.
01:13:53This is gorgeous.
01:13:54You like it?
01:13:55Yeah, it's beautiful.
01:13:57You like it?
01:13:58Yeah.
01:13:59How much is it?
01:13:5932, sorry.
01:14:01This is the one on the high side.
01:14:03I'm telling you, I won't even give it 30.
01:14:06Should I give you 25 so that we'll go?
01:14:08Give me 25.
01:14:09No, 25.
01:14:10Please.
01:14:11Just because she likes it.
01:14:1325?
01:14:14Yeah.
01:14:15I feel like in the US, like the price is the price.
01:14:18Like what are we asking for discounting?
01:14:20I guess unless something is damaged.
01:14:21To me, like I'm looking at this top and it's very intricate.
01:14:26It's a really nice garment.
01:14:28So like, I'm almost ashamed that he's convincing these people
01:14:34to lower this price.
01:14:36But you know, I'm kind of liking how Maxwell going back and forth,
01:14:40trying to give me what I want, give me these good prices.
01:14:42It could look a little sexy on it.
01:14:45Sweetie, try to get something for your mom.
01:14:47What about a purse?
01:14:48Would she like a purse?
01:14:50Okay.
01:14:52I'm looking for like a dark color.
01:14:54Let me see this.
01:14:57All right.
01:14:59I like that.
01:15:00Simple purse.
01:15:02You don't have one in the bag.
01:15:03No, this is okay.
01:15:04Just pack this.
01:15:05Let's go.
01:15:06I'm hot here already.
01:15:13Thank you, mama.
01:15:15Oh, you're welcome.
01:15:17Let me clear the table so that we can move on.
01:15:20Okay.
01:15:21I'm going to go to the living room.
01:15:23Okay.
01:15:24Today that Asia and Maxwell has gone out to have a good time with themselves,
01:15:29this is the time for me to discuss with Juliet, the mummy of Asia.
01:15:34And I want to say a lot of things.
01:15:40Mama, how was your night?
01:15:42It was good.
01:15:43Did you sleep well?
01:15:45Yeah.
01:15:46It was good.
01:15:47Do you know there's something that I was just thinking about since last night?
01:15:53You know that Asia was telling me that he would have to change Maxwell's eyes?
01:16:00Changing eyes, changing face.
01:16:02All those things are not being natural.
01:16:05Just like.
01:16:05Because God hates it.
01:16:07Better living in natural, the way God created him.
01:16:09Hmm.
01:16:10She just wanted skin smoother.
01:16:12That's all.
01:16:13She just wanted skin to look better.
01:16:17You know in Africa, women submit to husband.
01:16:21Yes.
01:16:22That's right.
01:16:23Yeah.
01:16:23But you know when there is issue of money coming in because of maybe she can see herself
01:16:28that she has everything.
01:16:31I have this.
01:16:31I have that.
01:16:32I have money.
01:16:33Do you understand mama?
01:16:35I don't think Asia, just because she make money, I don't think that she'll try to push
01:16:39Maxwell around.
01:16:41Okay.
01:16:41I don't think she'll do that to him.
01:16:43Okay.
01:16:43Because I mean she could have found someone that really have money if she wanted it.
01:16:49Okay.
01:16:49Asia is 38 and she could have been married years ago.
01:16:55I was surprised to hear that Asia is approximately 40.
01:17:00Did you not know?
01:17:03I don't know.
01:17:05In the life of Maxwell, we want to see someone about 25 up to 30, 35.
01:17:1238?
01:17:13No.
01:17:17You know from 25 above, 30 is matured.
01:17:22If they marry old age, they cannot take care of their children.
01:17:27Mm-hmm.
01:17:28In that old age.
01:17:30Is it a problem if a person is too old?
01:17:34What is too old?
01:17:35Yeah.
01:17:35To get married?
01:17:36Yeah.
01:17:36There's a problem.
01:17:38The woman can marry at the age of 30.
01:17:42Man is a mom.
01:17:45Somebody married at the age of 38.
01:17:47The monopause is knocking at the door.
01:17:50And monopause too.
01:17:51That's why late marriage is not all that good.
01:17:53And some of them in there is not giving birth.
01:17:56Yeah.
01:17:57That's where I am afraid.
01:18:00Yeah.
01:18:03It bothers me.
01:18:05I don't want Asia to be a problem for my son.
01:18:10My son and Asia will not go further to do what they plan to do.
01:18:16They will be mama.
01:18:24I want to go with you.
01:18:26No.
01:18:28Katie.
01:18:30I am done with this .
01:18:32I'm not going to get married if I don't know that her head's in the right space.
01:18:36It is.
01:18:37What am I doing wrong?
01:18:40I think you're .
01:18:55I think you're .
01:19:29I think you're .
01:19:33I think you're .
01:19:35I think it's .
01:19:36I think it's .
01:19:36But it's just complicated.
01:19:38I think that I'm feeling it on myself to be patient and tolerant, trusting that underneath
01:19:46all the rubbish and all the silliness, Katie is actually the person I think she is.
01:19:53In my head, I try to wrap around what it would be like to be in your position and I'd
01:20:00be furious.
01:20:01I'd be yanking her out of the bar.
01:20:02I'd be like, no, we're going home.
01:20:04We're going to have a talk right now.
01:20:05I mean, I am looking for reasons to excuse her because otherwise, what have I done?
01:20:12I've come here for what?
01:20:15I know that you're trying to be accepting, but it's okay to be mad.
01:20:20What I find difficult is figuring out what's OCD and what's her being dramatic because sometimes
01:20:27they look similar.
01:20:28Okay.
01:20:29You know, there's just times where I worry about you, right?
01:20:33When it comes to how Katie's acting on a night like tonight, you know, you deserve to be respected
01:20:40as an individual and more as her fiance.
01:20:45You guys are engaged.
01:20:46You guys are planning on being married.
01:20:48Like, at some point, you've got to put your foot down.
01:20:52Josh is processing the whole situation in a way that I can't fully comprehend.
01:21:01I think it's because he's more worried about the blowback from expressing himself than the act of doing it.
01:21:10I don't know.
01:21:11There's just something about her.
01:21:12Just like, she's so good at winning people's hearts despite what she does.
01:21:18And that's kind of the issue, right, is she has that charm.
01:21:23And if you're always rolling over, she might just, like, continue going on with, you know, how she's living just
01:21:31because she thinks that's acceptable, right?
01:21:37Well, what does that say about your relationship as a whole if you're married and she's, you know, still doing
01:21:42that a year from now?
01:21:44Yeah, I think you're right.
01:21:45I think I need to kind of get over this kind of, um, I don't know what it is, timidness,
01:21:50Britishness.
01:21:52Like, get it done before you're married, right?
01:21:57Katie does need tough love.
01:21:59She needs a firm hand.
01:22:00She needs, you know, I think Josh to be a manly man.
01:22:05He's just kind of letting Katie roll over him.
01:22:07At some point, he does need to stick up for himself.
01:22:10What are you doing?
01:22:11Oh, wait, no.
01:22:12I want to go with you.
01:22:14No.
01:22:15Katie.
01:22:18Do it, Mark.
01:22:20No.
01:22:20Uh-uh.
01:22:22You have a fiancé.
01:22:25I think Katie is a bit too drunk now.
01:22:28I think it might be time to call it.
01:22:34This is, she's tongue-ing my palm.
01:22:37What am I doing wrong?
01:22:39I think Katie is a bit too drunk now.
01:22:39I think you're a .
01:22:44Come on, let's go home.
01:22:46Babe.
01:22:47I am done with this bull .
01:22:50This is not the right start for any sort of a marriage that I want a part of.
01:22:59No.
01:23:00I need to have a conversation with Katie and say, I'm not going to get married if I don't know
01:23:07that her head's in the right space.
01:23:09You're in a committed relationship, Katie.
01:23:17Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:23:19It's not that hard to get around New York, but you have to pay attention.
01:23:24Only in New York.
01:23:27Oh, this is very impressive.
01:23:29Yo, there's a lot of people in the street, you know?
01:23:32Hi.
01:23:33Oh, my God.
01:23:34You feel like a DC, like what the .
01:23:38Wow.
01:23:41I don't know what you want from me.
01:23:42Just like, we'll go shopping.
01:23:44That's fine.
01:23:45Like, I don't care.
01:23:46It is not about go shopping.
01:23:48I'm hurt.
01:23:49I just want to be hurt from him.
01:23:51That's everything that I need.
01:23:52I'm not asking for a furniture.
01:23:54I'm asking for a knowledge, a reconhecimento.
01:23:59I'm struggling.
01:24:03I want you to want me 100% with no doubt.
01:24:07I want peace between you and my family.
01:24:11Mm-hmm.
01:24:11You know I'm not disrespecting your family.
01:24:13You're not disrespecting...
01:24:14You better not.
01:24:15Hush.
01:24:16Don't tell me to hush again.
01:24:25Hey.
01:24:25This is Aspen.
01:24:26This is Annabelle.
01:24:27Good time to meet you.
01:24:29If I was 21 years old, you would have never been here.
01:24:34Shay, I know he's drunk because he's flirting to women.
01:24:38I'm like, hell, you'll get your own island, buddy.
01:24:41If this is who really Shay is, I don't want to live my life like this.
01:24:52I wanted to just go over some of the bills.
01:24:54This is one month you pay?
01:24:56Yeah.
01:24:56This is just from this month.
01:24:58The money issue is a big thing in our relationship,
01:25:01and in the future it could get even worse, and that terrifies me.
01:25:06Just to protect myself, do you know what a prenup is?
01:25:17You're focused on breakup, I focus on merit.
01:25:22Okay, whatever.
01:25:23Enjoy your f***ing shop.
01:25:24F*** you.
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