00:00You're a bubble blown by society and they tell you who you are, they tell you who you are not.
00:06Even if we say we don't want external validation, we are doing it for ourselves.
00:09There's this part of us that would love it if somebody compliments us, tell us we did great.
00:15Seeking validation from others is not really your natural state.
00:20It comes from social conditioning.
00:23Let four people say, oh you are pretty, oh he's a wonderful person.
00:27How do you know somebody is wonderful?
00:28Because four others have been calling you wonderful and he has been trained.
00:32That you are what others describe you as.
00:36So that's the point from where this need for validation arises.
00:41It's an implanted need, it's an artificial need.
00:44You're a bubble blown by society.
00:47And they tell you who you are, they tell you who you are not.
00:50You feel this is my wish, this is what I want.
00:54No, no, no.
00:54Most of that which we want is something we have been made to want.
01:01We don't want it.
01:02We have been told to want it.
01:04No, no, no.
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