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00:14Suppose when you are having true love, that love never increases, never decreases.
00:21Love is throughout same.
00:24Suppose you are having love with your children,
00:26right now, how your love is there.
00:30Suppose your son has graduated
00:32and has very good grades, A-plus in all subjects,
00:37so you give graduation party,
00:41you call so many people, thousand people,
00:43and you will give all introduction of your son
00:47and you will tell with pride,
00:49Oh, my son is so, so good and so humble
00:52and so listening to his parents, very intelligent,
00:57and he will go to medical school.
01:01And he was so happy,
01:03and he will give his son a brand new car as a gift.
01:08After four days, what will happen?
01:10And by mistake or by bad luck,
01:15your son gets accident of that car,
01:19car gets smashed total.
01:22So what will happen?
01:23As soon as he will come to you,
01:25you will shout,
01:27you will, you will hit also.
01:31You are a foolish rascal,
01:33you don't know how to drive,
01:35I will take the car back,
01:36I will never give you car now.
01:38See, four days before,
01:40you were giving very good certificate,
01:43and within four days,
01:45you took back that certificate.
01:48See, the son will think,
01:50my dad's certificate is not proper,
01:53it's not permanent,
01:54my school certificate is permanent,
01:56I should not rely on my dad's certificate,
02:00my school or university certificate is reliable,
02:04throughout life that certificate will remain.
02:07So see, when he had good,
02:09he done good,
02:09when your son did good thing,
02:11then your love was increased,
02:13and when he did some wrong things,
02:16then your love decreased.
02:17This is called asakti,
02:20not true love, not prem.
02:23This is worldly attachment, not true love.
02:27Suppose when true love is there,
02:29then whether he is doing good or bad,
02:31the love is same throughout,
02:34you are not,
02:35see, you are full of joy,
02:38and you are dancing inside.
02:43No, it's not like that,
02:44you are same,
02:45inside the same thing is there.
02:47This is called,
02:48never increases,
02:49never decreases,
02:50one thing.
02:51The second thing of,
02:52what is true love?
02:55To whom you love,
02:58you never find any mistake of that person.
03:01Suppose you love your wife,
03:03you will never find any mistake of the wife,
03:06or your children,
03:07no mistake.
03:08Even though they do any mistake,
03:10we don't see their mistakes.
03:12But what happens,
03:13even though they have not done mistake,
03:15by your mistake you find lots of mistakes,
03:18even in single day.
03:20This is not,
03:21this is called worldly love.
03:25Third thing,
03:26no expectations to whom you love,
03:29no expectation from person to whom you love.
03:33No return,
03:35no expectation.
03:37You love means love,
03:38whether the person doing wrong with you,
03:41not doing anything,
03:43no return,
03:44still your love is the same,
03:45no change.
03:47See,
03:48this is all,
03:49this is called Paramatma Prem,
03:52real love.
03:54And that love starts coming out,
03:58when you get detachment from world,
04:01attachment with soul.
04:03See,
04:03the attachment with your son,
04:06or with your wife,
04:07is not physical attachment,
04:09but the attachment of soul,
04:12with soul,
04:13that,
04:13that oneness,
04:15real oneness,
04:16you start experiencing.
04:18And that gives tremendous good results.
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