00:00There used to be one love expert in my school, class 12th, and that was the time when the hormones
00:05were raging and people were pouncing on girls left, right, center.
00:09But after just 3, 4, 5 days of meeting, talking, dating, she's gone.
00:14So this love expert would then come up with the most invaluable advice.
00:18He would say have sex as quickly as possible.
00:20Then she will go nowhere.
00:21One would feel like laughing at him.
00:23But in the context of this, you understand where he was coming from.
00:27Once there is physical intimacy, attachment grows.
00:31The fellow was not altogether a fool.
00:33Maybe he was not coming from the Gita.
00:34Wherever he was coming from, some place of heuristics or wherever, or some slimy magazine he read something from, he
00:40had a point.
00:41The more is the time you have spent with someone, even if in a forced way, even if due to
00:47sheer randomness of circumstances,
00:50the more will be the time you will now want to spend with that person.
00:53This is attachment.
00:54When we hear of it this way, it sounds so stupid, no?
00:57But we experience it and patronize it daily in our lives.
01:01Attachment is often what explains arranged marriage, typically.
01:05No, not that you are in love.
01:06The marriage has lasted.
01:08The marriage continues to roll on because now the two of you are attached.
01:14Love does not require physical closeness.
01:18Attachment does.
01:24Love does not require physical closeness.
01:24Lifeγγͺak ei-
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