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00:15:08J'ai pas peur de vous.
00:15:10Qu'est-ce que je vais faire ?
00:15:13Je suis d'accord.
00:15:18Merci encore pour nous.
00:15:19Je suis Pastor Raymond Siff.
00:15:21Nous allons prendre une autre question.
00:15:22C'est par Melissa, en Concord.
00:15:25Merci, Reverend. Je suis un peu nerveux.
00:15:27Ma fille a fait une erreur.
00:15:30Elle s'est faite, puis elle s'est faite.
00:15:32Elle s'est faite dans un car accident.
00:15:33Je vous conseille de vivre comme votre vie
00:15:35et vous ne vous en priez pas.
00:15:36Si vous voulez vivre dans le Holy Spirit,
00:15:37vous ne vous en priez pas.
00:15:42Quand le Holy Spirit
00:15:44contrôle votre vie,
00:15:45il va produire
00:15:46love, joy, kindness,
00:15:49goodness,
00:15:49et self-control.
00:15:51Tout le monde a savoir ?
00:15:52Nous sommes votre famille.
00:15:54Nous voulons vous.
00:15:57Ma, vous avez un petit peu de temps.
00:16:15Nous voulons vous.
00:16:18Nous voulons vous.
00:16:18Oui, merci.
00:16:19Je vais vous donner un privacité.
00:16:28Hi, Mary.
00:16:29Hi.
00:16:39Aux unc'espierienie.
00:16:41who wants to renounce homosexuality
00:16:43finds a psychiatrist
00:16:45who knows how to cure homosexuality,
00:16:47he has every chance
00:16:49of becoming a happy,
00:16:50well-adjusted heterosexual.
00:16:52C'est bon.
00:17:04Vous entendez des voix ?
00:17:06Non.
00:17:10Vous entendez des voix ?
00:17:13Non.
00:17:15C'est le téléphone ?
00:17:22C'est un peu.
00:17:28Vous pensez que vous êtes homosexuel ?
00:17:34Comment vous avez-vous été avec ?
00:17:36Je ne sais pas, deux ?
00:17:40Vous avez des relations sexuelles ?
00:17:46Comment vous savez-vous ?
00:17:49Je ne sais pas.
00:17:53Je ne sais pas.
00:17:54Je ne sais pas.
00:17:54Je ne sais pas.
00:17:56Je ne sais pas.
00:17:58Je ne sais pas.
00:18:00Vous voulez être homosexuel ?
00:18:09Je veux juste être avec ma famille.
00:18:11Je me sens que j'ai lancé et maintenant je ne peux pas...
00:18:14Je ne vais pas pouvoir vous aider.
00:18:17Je ne sais pas.
00:18:23Je ne sais pas.
00:18:26Je ne sais pas.
00:18:27Je ne sais pas.
00:18:27Je vais parler avec votre mère pour un moment.
00:18:29Ok ?
00:18:34Elle veut parler avec vous.
00:18:41Il peut être curé.
00:18:42Il peut être curé, non ?
00:18:45C'est quoi ?
00:19:00C'est quoi ?
00:19:01C'est quoi ?
00:19:04C'est quoi ?
00:19:06C'est quoi ?
00:19:17C'est quoi ?
00:19:21C'est quoi ?
00:19:23C'est quoi ?
00:19:25C'est quoi ?
00:19:27Je ne sais pas.
00:19:28C'est quoi ?
00:19:29On ne sait pas si il est.
00:19:29C'est quoi ?
00:19:39C'est quoi ?
00:19:40C'est quoi que vous disiez?
00:19:41Tu penses que Bobby était recruté?
00:19:43C'est bon, Mary, tu vas aller au bord.
00:19:45Tu dois faire quelque chose de ça.
00:19:47Je ne vais pas perdre lui.
00:19:53L'heure, nous nous demandons que vous gardez Bobby
00:19:55de la mort.
00:19:59Vous pensez que ça va me healer?
00:20:01Tu dois croire que Dieu va vous healer
00:20:03et que Satan va vous encourager.
00:20:06Tu crois que Dieu va vous aider?
00:20:08Oui.
00:20:10Il va me laisser dormir.
00:20:17Quand temptation est tout autour de vous,
00:20:20faith n'est pas assez.
00:20:22C'est besoin de discipline,
00:20:24non seulement mental, mais aussi physical.
00:20:26Qui voudrait partager votre histoire?
00:20:30Je suis tellement heureux.
00:20:33J'ai resté tout le temps.
00:20:34J'ai parlé de ma mère.
00:20:36depuis qu'elle est venu et accepté Jesus
00:20:38comme saveraine,
00:20:39je n'ai changé.
00:20:40Ma mère et moi,
00:20:41nous sommes comme mes amis.
00:20:43C'est génial, Harry.
00:20:45Oui.
00:20:46C'est génial.
00:20:46Le pouvoir de la peur et la peur.
00:20:48Bobby, comment est-ce que vous ?
00:20:49Vous avez ce que vous ?
00:20:54Bien.
00:20:55Vous vous sentez bien, non ?
00:20:56Je vois que je la peur.
00:20:58Vous avez eu l'impression que vous avez fait ?
00:21:01Oui.
00:21:01Oui, allons-y, allons-y ?
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00:22:03Yeah, it's good, but I don't know the point of it.
00:22:06I mean, my face is cleared up, but everything else feels the same.
00:22:09Well, you have to stick with it.
00:22:11Do you like the people in your group?
00:22:14They're okay.
00:22:15This one girl, she...
00:22:16You know, I hope you're taking this seriously.
00:22:18I mean it, I hope you are trying with all your might.
00:22:21I cannot lose you to this.
00:22:24You won't.
00:22:29Have faith.
00:22:35Well, this is going to be fun.
00:22:37When was the last time all the Griffith men went hiking together?
00:22:44Oh.
00:22:55So, how's school?
00:22:58Good.
00:23:01Well, have you thought about your plans?
00:23:04Well, the powers.
00:23:07No, I mean, life plans.
00:23:10Well, I'm still thinking of becoming a writer.
00:23:12Listen, Bobby, you've always had a strong imagination, and we've always been a writer with that.
00:23:16But you're getting to the age where you're going to have to get practical.
00:23:19Like, pipe dreams, they're great when you're young, but they don't really have a place in the real world.
00:23:30Yeah.
00:23:32Do you hear what I'm saying, Ian?
00:23:34Yeah.
00:23:34All right, all right, let's go.
00:23:35Let's move.
00:23:36All right.
00:23:44How'd it go?
00:23:47I'm healed.
00:23:51It was fine.
00:23:54Did you two talk?
00:23:56Yeah, we talked.
00:23:58Well, what'd you talk about?
00:24:01Mary was fine.
00:24:03No, but this is important.
00:24:05This could make him or break him.
00:24:07I did the best I could.
00:24:08Is that all right with you?
00:24:15A lot of times, confusion like Bobby's can be caused by a distant father or an overbearing mother.
00:24:24I had both, and I'm fine.
00:24:29Bob.
00:24:30Yeah?
00:24:30You need to participate in this.
00:24:33I'm right here, Mary.
00:24:34I'm in the room.
00:24:36You know?
00:24:37I think.
00:24:39I've been a very good father.
00:24:41And maybe you don't know this, but Bobby, I mean, he was never into the stuff that his brother or
00:24:45other boys were into him.
00:24:46You know, he's just not interested.
00:24:48Mm-hmm.
00:24:49So I'm not going to force him.
00:24:50You know?
00:24:55Hi, Bobby.
00:24:56I'm Sheila.
00:25:03Mom, who's that?
00:25:06Sheila is a student in my son.
00:25:08Sunday school class.
00:25:10You got me a date?
00:25:11You need to go out with lots of girls.
00:25:13Your dad thinks so, too.
00:25:15Can I at least pick my own?
00:25:19Don't do that thing with your art.
00:25:22Have fun.
00:25:23You look nifty.
00:25:25Do you want a brownie?
00:25:26For energy?
00:25:26Take them out.
00:25:27No.
00:25:32Hello.
00:25:33Who's this?
00:25:34This is my brother, Ed.
00:25:35Hi.
00:25:35Hi, I'm Sheila.
00:25:36Nice to meet you.
00:25:37Nice to meet you, too.
00:25:38Hi.
00:25:39Oh, hi.
00:25:40Hi.
00:25:40You want to come and meet some of my friends?
00:25:41Yeah.
00:25:47Are you ever going to talk to me again?
00:25:51Look at where it got me.
00:25:54What if she wants me to kiss her goodnight?
00:25:56Till you're gay.
00:26:05What if she wants me to kiss her goodnight?
00:26:08What if she wants me to kiss her goodnight?
00:26:15What if she wants me to kiss her goodnight?
00:26:40Did you tell your friends?
00:26:43Bobby, those aren't my friends.
00:26:44Did you tell everyone I'm gay?
00:26:46I haven't told anyone.
00:26:47Stop being so paranoid.
00:26:48You all hate me.
00:26:49I know you don't think I see it, but I do.
00:26:53I gotta go.
00:26:54Bobby.
00:27:03It's three in the morning.
00:27:07Sorry, I lost track of time.
00:27:09Well, where were you?
00:27:14Bobby.
00:27:16You weren't with homosexuals, were you?
00:27:20This is not you.
00:27:23This is temptation working its ways.
00:27:25You have to pray harder if you're going to get well.
00:27:30Goodnight, Mom.
00:27:33Pray for forgiveness right away.
00:27:56It's not fun, girls, but I gotta go.
00:27:58Okay.
00:27:59Okay.
00:28:00Okay, here's Bobby.
00:28:01Hey.
00:28:04Nice job.
00:28:05She had work, so she asked me to pick you up.
00:28:09You're welcome.
00:28:11What's with you?
00:28:12What?
00:28:12You think I didn't notice that?
00:28:14You didn't want your friends to see me.
00:28:15Some people wouldn't understand.
00:28:17And now it's so obvious.
00:28:18Or did you tell them?
00:28:20Well, look at what you're wearing.
00:28:23And I've told you time after time not to do that thing with your arm.
00:28:27It makes you look like a girl, and you continue to do it.
00:28:30I've always dressed this way.
00:28:31No, you haven't.
00:28:32It's gotten worse.
00:28:34Why are you doing this?
00:28:35I'm trying to help you.
00:28:36No, you're not.
00:28:37You're trying to help you.
00:28:39It's not about me.
00:28:40It's about what people think about you.
00:28:41Imagine if they thought your son was some big queer.
00:28:44What's wrong with you?
00:28:45Stop that.
00:28:47Nice, Mom.
00:28:48Great.
00:28:50Let's go home.
00:28:51I'm walking.
00:28:52No.
00:28:53Where are you going?
00:28:54Come on.
00:29:18Come on.
00:30:19No.
00:30:37Bobby.
00:30:40Don't worry, I was at church.
00:30:51Hi, cousin.
00:30:52I have a name.
00:30:53It's gorgeous, cousin.
00:30:57So, how long are you here for?
00:30:59Just a day.
00:30:59I'm driving home tonight.
00:31:01I came in to see my dad, but I couldn't resist stopping by.
00:31:05Maybe it's not a choice.
00:31:06Maybe I just can't help it.
00:31:08It's like saying stealing's not a choice.
00:31:11What?
00:31:12Yeah, Mary, lunch is delicious.
00:31:14Joy's right, Bobby.
00:31:16The Bible says men committed shameless acts with men and received in their own persons the due penalty for their
00:31:22error.
00:31:23You just won't change, will you?
00:31:24Well, I can't erase what's in the Bible.
00:31:26Personally, I think people should be able to love whoever they want.
00:31:35Did I mention how good lunch is?
00:31:37Even animals know who to do it with.
00:31:41Actually, our dog does it with a pillow.
00:31:43Can we please find something different to discuss?
00:31:45Yeah.
00:31:47Ed, you're up.
00:31:47What about, uh, why don't you tell us about college?
00:31:49I dropped out of school last week.
00:31:53You what?
00:31:56Well, what about college?
00:31:58I'm not going.
00:32:00Great.
00:32:02What's next?
00:32:04You're going to ruin your life?
00:32:06Yeah, well, it's my life to ruin.
00:32:14Is it like this at every meal?
00:32:17Pretty much.
00:32:19You should come up and visit me in Portland.
00:32:21It's so great.
00:32:22I used to envy you.
00:32:25When I'd come here with Mom and Dad,
00:32:27I always wished your parents were my parents.
00:32:29You all seem so close.
00:32:31Well, that's over with.
00:32:33Hey, I think they love the sin or just not the sin.
00:32:36They should love the son no matter what the sin.
00:32:38Hey, that's good.
00:32:40I'm going to start my own Bible.
00:32:50Think about coming to Portland?
00:32:55Hi, Mrs. Griffith.
00:32:57Is Bobby here?
00:33:01Bobby, you know, it's enough you go God knows where at night,
00:33:04but now you're bringing these deviants into my house.
00:33:07It's my house, too, and they're my friends.
00:33:10Is that what that boy is?
00:33:11Is it a sin to have friends now, too, Mom?
00:33:14We have a good time, okay?
00:33:15We go to the Rocky Horror together.
00:33:17Does that mean we're all going to get struck down?
00:33:18You're gay, aren't they?
00:33:20I thought you were getting better.
00:33:22When?
00:33:22When I was miserable?
00:33:23That looked like I was getting better?
00:33:26You're right, Mom.
00:33:26I'm doomed just to roast in hell.
00:33:28Don't say that.
00:33:29Well, that's what your Bible says.
00:33:30The Bible also says a person can change.
00:33:32I tried, Mom.
00:33:33I can't.
00:33:34Why do you keep choosing this?
00:33:37Why would I choose this?
00:33:38Why would I choose to have my entire family hate me?
00:33:41No, we love you.
00:33:41Can't you see that's why we're doing this?
00:33:44Really, Mom?
00:33:44This is what love feels like?
00:33:51I have fun in Portland.
00:33:55Here's a new shirt for your vacation.
00:33:57I hope you like it.
00:34:01Promise me you'll write and call all the time.
00:34:04It's two months.
00:34:08Drive carefully.
00:34:09Don't worry, man.
00:34:12You'll call me when you get to Portland.
00:34:15I had this engraved with your initials.
00:34:31I love you guys.
00:34:35Bye.
00:34:36Have fun.
00:34:37Bye.
00:34:39Bye, Mommy.
00:34:52Already, I'm glad to be away from Walnut Creek.
00:34:55This feels like a new life.
00:34:57A new day.
00:34:58And I'm going to be a success in every way I can.
00:35:01It is my goal to achieve a sense of pride and worth as a human being.
00:35:07I want the lady's eyes.
00:35:09I want the lady's eyes.
00:35:11It feels so nice.
00:35:16Gorgeous cousin.
00:35:19Come on.
00:35:23Welcome to Portland.
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00:36:35Nice to finally meet you, Bobby
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00:37:51...
00:37:53...
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00:39:50Vous devriez commencer par l'école pour l'année prochaine.
00:39:53Vous devriez prendre votre GED d'abord.
00:39:55Je pense que c'est ok à prendre un peu de temps,
00:39:57mais ensuite...
00:39:58Est-ce que vous entendez ?
00:39:59Je ne veux pas savoir.
00:40:00Je veux que vous le savez.
00:40:03Il s'appelle David.
00:40:04Nous commençons à le début chaque fois.
00:40:06Si nous ne devons pas aller différente,
00:40:07nous ne devons pas aller là.
00:40:09Quand je suis avec lui,
00:40:10il me semble bien.
00:40:13Il me fait bien.
00:40:15Il me semble bien.
00:40:17Il me semble bien.
00:40:17Je ne veux pas entendre.
00:40:19Vous savez que je ne veux pas.
00:40:20Je ne veux pas entendre.
00:40:22Vous allez me entendre pour une fois.
00:40:24Il me semble bien quand je suis avec David.
00:40:27Mais si il me touchait en public,
00:40:28ou, il me semble, me kissait,
00:40:32je me pulle-t.
00:40:34Je me suis désolé.
00:40:35Parce que vous savez que c'est pas.
00:40:36Parce que vous me disait que c'est pas.
00:40:38C'est pas moi.
00:40:39C'est le Bible.
00:40:40C'est pas le Bible.
00:40:41C'est vous.
00:40:42C'est le Bible.
00:40:43C'est le Bible.
00:40:44C'est le Bible.
00:40:45C'est le Bible.
00:40:47C'est le Bible.
00:40:48C'est le Bible.
00:40:52Ce ne peut pas avoir eu compris.
00:40:53C'est-ce que tu veux.
00:40:54C'est-ce que tu es devenues!
00:40:54C'est-ce que je suis pas la communication.
00:40:55Une rafraisonne poignée,
00:40:56mais je ne peux pas le pardonne pas,
00:40:57C'est-ce que tu as je suis ou non,
00:40:59ou le rassons que je ne Generation.
00:41:03C'est-ce que je n'ai pas un beau,
00:41:04Sous-titrage Société Radio-Canada
00:41:36...she meant that.
00:41:42I really want you to be happy.
00:41:46I'm sure that guy's really nice.
00:41:50No matter what, she'll never accept it.
00:41:53It's gonna be a lonely life because he will never be welcome here.
00:41:58And for Christmas, Thanksgiving, anything.
00:42:11Don't worry about Mom too much. She'll come around.
00:42:14You're not gonna hold my breath.
00:42:18Here you come.
00:42:21Your parachute pants.
00:42:25Thanks.
00:42:30I'll send you my first novel when I write it.
00:42:36Bye, Buktu.
00:42:39Take care, okay?
00:42:42Drive safe.
00:43:04I'll send you my first novel.
00:43:08I love you.
00:43:09I love you, Buktu.
00:43:11I love you.
00:43:11C'est parti.
00:43:41C'est parti, c'est parti, c'est parti.
00:44:10C'est parti.
00:44:10C'est parti.
00:44:13C'est parti.
00:44:14C'est parti.
00:44:16C'est parti.
00:44:19C'est parti.
00:44:21C'est parti.
00:44:21C'est parti.
00:44:25C'est parti.
00:44:27C'est parti.
00:44:30C'est parti.
00:44:33C'est parti.
00:44:34C'est parti.
00:44:35C'est parti.
00:44:48C'est parti.
00:44:49C'est parti.
00:44:55C'est parti.
00:44:57C'est parti.
00:44:58C'est parti.
00:45:00C'est parti.
00:45:01C'est parti.
00:45:02C'est parti.
00:45:02C'est parti.
00:45:04C'est parti.
00:45:06C'est parti.
00:45:32C'est parti.
00:45:43C'est parti.
00:45:45C'est parti.
00:45:46C'est parti.
00:45:48C'est parti.
00:45:58C'est parti.
00:46:02C'est parti.
00:46:04C'est parti.
00:46:06C'est parti.
00:46:08C'est parti.
00:46:12C'est parti.
00:46:13C'est parti.
00:46:16C'est parti.
00:46:17C'est parti.
00:46:30C'est parti.
00:46:31C'est parti.
00:46:31C'est parti.
00:46:32C'est parti.
00:46:33C'est parti.
00:46:33C'est parti.
00:46:34C'est parti.
00:46:35C'est parti.
00:46:35C'est parti.
00:46:37C'est parti.
00:46:37C'est parti.
00:46:38Oui, c'est Bobby.
00:46:41Je pensais qu'il serait là.
00:46:45Je...
00:46:47J'ai vraiment besoin de quelqu'un de parler.
00:46:48Je pensais qu'il serait là.
00:46:55Et, s'il vous plaît,
00:46:58continue de convaincre Bobby's heart de sin.
00:47:08...
00:47:10...
00:47:15...
00:47:15...
00:47:16...
00:47:16...
00:47:17...
00:47:17...
00:47:19...
00:47:19...
00:47:19...
00:47:19J'ai trouvé le chemin, le chemin de la pureté, le chemin de l'righteous.
00:48:08J'ai trouvé le chemin, le chemin de la pureté, le chemin de l'righteous.
00:48:32J'ai trouvé le chemin de l'righteous.
00:49:01J'ai trouvé le chemin de l'righteous.
00:49:04J'ai trouvé le chemin de l'righteous.
00:49:08J'ai récupéré la natrice.
00:49:10J'ai trouvé le chemin de l'righteous.
00:49:14Je suis le premier qui s'est passé.
00:49:16Ok, alors nous allons être tous les jours.
00:49:19Je vais vous en faire un peu.
00:49:20Ok.
00:49:21Bonjour?
00:49:25Jeanette, ce qu'il est de l'autre?
00:49:32Ce qu'il est de l'autre?
00:49:34Non.
00:49:35Ce qu'il est de l'autre?
00:49:37Je ne suis pas de l'autre!
00:49:39DAD!
00:49:41DADDY!
00:49:45Bonjour.
00:49:48Bonjour.
00:49:48Bonjour, Jeanette.
00:49:51Marie m'a appelé au front et a propos de la question.
00:49:56Une autre d'une des enfants a besoin de la prochaine fois.
00:49:58Il faudrait un peu de temps à la fin.
00:49:59Je n'ai besoin de la petite petite.
00:50:00Bye.
00:51:11What's-what's wrong?
00:52:11Thank you
00:52:29Death of a loved one is always tragic
00:52:31But the death of a young person can be particularly painful
00:52:35Because that person had his whole life ahead of him
00:52:39Bobby was only 20 years old
00:52:41We'll never know who he could have been
00:52:43Or what he could have accomplished
00:52:46Bobby was a good young man
00:52:48But he was lost
00:52:50By giving in to temptation
00:52:52He strayed
00:52:56Then disillusioned
00:52:58He chose to end his life
00:53:01And we know to condemn the sin
00:53:04Not the sinner
00:53:06It was this sin that Bobby succumbed to
00:53:10It led to his unhappiness
00:53:13And it led him
00:53:14To take his own life
00:53:18As goodness begets goodness
00:53:21So does sin begets sin
00:53:24They're okay with this
00:53:54You're running low
00:53:55Mom, do you think Bobby got salvation?
00:53:58I don't know
00:54:00Suicide is a sin
00:54:02But maybe God knew that Bobby wasn't in his right mind
00:54:05I mean, why would God allow Bobby to go to hell
00:54:09If it was in his power to cure him?
00:54:11I don't know, Mary
00:54:12Put yourself together
00:54:15People are uncomfortable enough
00:54:26Thanks for coming home
00:54:28I'm so sorry for you
00:54:30Mrs. Griffith
00:54:38Mr. Griffith
00:54:40I'm David
00:54:42I was a friend of Bobby's
00:54:46I wanted to offer my condolences
00:55:05He was an amazing young man
00:55:14I'm so sorry
00:55:16I'm so sorry
00:55:39Aunt Mary
00:55:41David is a good person
00:55:43All of Bobby's friends were
00:55:46When Bobby was here
00:55:47It was under control
00:55:49Then he moves to Portland
00:55:50And someone puts all these ideas into his head
00:55:52It wasn't like that
00:55:53David cared for Bobby
00:55:54We're his family
00:55:56We knew how to help him
00:55:57He wanted to change
00:55:58To be closer to God
00:55:59To be closer to you
00:56:00Then he just got further and further into that lifestyle
00:56:03And then he couldn't get out
00:56:04Do you believe everything they tell you in church?
00:56:07I know you and Uncle Bob meant well
00:56:09But that sermon
00:56:10Bobby knew the repercussions of a homosexual lifestyle
00:56:12Bobby was good
00:56:14And decent
00:56:15And kind
00:56:16Someone who didn't even know Bobby
00:56:18Stood up there and condemned him
00:56:19And you let him
00:56:21Bobby did everything he could
00:56:23To make himself acceptable to you
00:56:24He was so good
00:56:25And bright
00:56:26And funny
00:56:27He should be praised
00:56:30I'm sorry you can't see it that way
00:56:33Maybe you should go
00:56:36Fine
00:56:38I left Bobby's things in his room
00:57:00I'm sorry you can't see it that way
00:57:02I'm sorry you can't see it
00:57:05I'm sorry you can't see it
00:57:10I'm sorry you can't see it
00:57:12I'm sorry you can't see it
00:57:16I'm sorry you can't see it
00:57:18I'm sorry you can't see it
00:57:18I'm sorry you can't see it
00:57:19I'm sorry you can't see it
00:57:21I'm sorry you can't see it
00:57:24I'm sorry you can't see it
00:57:29Bobby!
00:57:30Hey, Mom.
00:57:33Don't you ever do that again.
00:57:35God, I knew it wasn't true.
00:57:37I knew God would bring you back to me.
00:57:40Mom, you worry too much.
00:58:19I'm slowly sinking in a vast lake of quicksand, a bottomless pool.
00:58:23I wish I could crawl under a rock and sleep forever.
00:58:27No one understands me.
00:58:29No one in this house can accept my side of the story.
00:58:32I can feel God's eyes looking down on me with pity.
00:58:35I can't ever let anyone find out I'm not straight.
00:58:37It would be so humiliating.
00:58:40My friends would hate me.
00:58:41And my family.
00:58:43Mom.
00:58:44I've overheard them.
00:58:45Mom, thank you.
00:58:47They've said that they hate gays.
00:58:49And even God hates gays.
00:58:52It really scares me when they talk that way because now they are talking about me.
00:58:56I don't want to choose sin.
00:58:58I don't.
00:58:59I am so mad and frustrated, God.
00:59:02I seem to be at the end of the road.
00:59:05Why do you remain silent?
00:59:09May 30th.
00:59:10Memorial Day barbecue.
00:59:12I had fun.
00:59:14Mom was her sweet and funny self.
00:59:16Like the old mom.
00:59:18For a second it felt like the old days.
00:59:21She smiled at something I said.
00:59:23And I saw in her eyes that for a second she forgot what she really thinks of me.
00:59:28The anger never erupts.
00:59:30My timid nature would never allow a full-fledged thunderstorm to occur.
00:59:35But it's there on the horizon.
00:59:38I can feel God's eyes looking down on me with such pity.
00:59:41He can't help me though.
00:59:44Because I've chosen sin over righteousness.
00:59:49Things will get better.
00:59:51Just give it time.
00:59:56Just give it time.
00:59:59Give it time.
01:00:02It ain't easy.
01:00:13Excuse me.
01:00:15You all right Ed?
01:00:17Yeah I'm fantastic.
01:00:18I think we all are.
01:00:19Isn't that obvious?
01:00:20Ed.
01:00:21We have to deal with this as a family.
01:00:24That was your answer for Bobby too.
01:00:25But it didn't work.
01:00:27Damn it.
01:00:29Oh, oh, oh.
01:00:30Excuse me.
01:00:37Come on Nancy.
01:01:02Hey.
01:01:07You want to get out of here and maybe go for a beer?
01:01:12Yeah.
01:01:18Did he even think about what it would do to us?
01:01:22I mean he could have called.
01:01:25Something but.
01:01:27It would just screw us right?
01:01:29Ed.
01:01:30And nothing.
01:01:31No, no goodbye.
01:01:32No, no, nothing.
01:01:33Just.
01:01:38I'm sorry.
01:01:40I'm sorry.
01:01:43Are you happy now?
01:01:45I'm sorry Bobby!
01:01:47Are you happy now?
01:01:49Yeah.
01:01:53It's not your fault.
01:01:59Okay.
01:02:09There must be other Bobby's out there.
01:02:13Other young gay people who may be thinking of taking their lives.
01:02:18Does the church reach out to them?
01:02:23There are other churches that do that.
01:02:26Reverend Joseph asked us to tell you how sorry he is for your loss.
01:02:32We could come back in a couple of weeks and check in on your family.
01:02:35You don't understand.
01:02:37I...
01:02:41I don't know what to do.
01:02:44I need to make peace with this and I can't.
01:02:49The Lord says the impure will be thrown into the lake of fire.
01:02:56Bobby sinned, but he was pure of heart.
01:03:00He'd never knowingly hurt anyone.
01:03:05Is that enough?
01:03:09Is that enough?
01:03:13Is it?
01:03:19Dear God.
01:03:21My relationship to you leaves something to be desired.
01:03:25I have never asked of you, only given as I was told.
01:03:30Your Holy Spirit has taught me so much.
01:03:33But now there's more I need to know.
01:03:43Hey.
01:03:49I can't.
01:03:53They're not.
01:04:03I think I'll sleep in our living room.
01:04:19I think I'll sleep in our living room.
01:04:20Merci.
01:04:50No, no.
01:04:51No, no.
01:04:51You're right.
01:04:53Reverend?
01:04:54Mary Griffith.
01:04:56Nice to have you with us, Mary.
01:04:57The Bible.
01:04:59It says that homosexuality is a sin punishable by death.
01:05:03Do you believe that?
01:05:04There are other interpretations of the Bible, Mrs. Griffith.
01:05:07My son was gay, and he killed himself.
01:05:12Is there another interpretation of that?
01:05:17I'm sorry.
01:05:23What was his name?
01:05:26Bobby.
01:05:28Bobby Griffith.
01:05:32I saw him here a couple of times.
01:05:34My Bobby.
01:05:36He always sat way in the back.
01:05:39And he stopped coming.
01:05:41I am so sorry.
01:05:43You must be.
01:05:44I need answers.
01:05:45I need to know where he is.
01:05:48Is homosexuality an unforgivable sin?
01:05:52Leviticus 18.22 says, if a man lies with another man, it is an abomination.
01:05:58An abomination in that time didn't mean sin.
01:06:01It meant unclean.
01:06:03Leviticus also goes on to say, eating shellfish is an abomination or mixing fabrics.
01:06:09Leviticus 20.13, if a man lies with another man, they both shall be put to death.
01:06:13And then he says the same thing about an adulterer or a child that disobeys their parents.
01:06:19And we certainly don't interpret that scripture literally.
01:06:22In Deuteronomy 22, if a woman is not a virgin on her wedding day, she shall be taken to her
01:06:27father's house and stoned to death.
01:06:30So what do you tell people who come here? Gay people? That homosexuality is okay? That it is permissible in
01:06:40God's eyes?
01:06:41I tell them what I believe to be the truth. That God loves them as they are.
01:06:45God's vengeance is great.
01:06:47So is his compassion.
01:06:49You shouldn't teach them that homosexuality is okay. That's not what the Bible says. It just confuses them more.
01:06:57Mrs. Griffith, if you would like to come back during the week and talk, my door is open, but not
01:07:02to be blamed. Okay?
01:07:42I think we got a pretty good one. Nice and full.
01:07:47A couple of bald spots, kind of like your dear old dad.
01:07:50Or your grandma.
01:07:55Yeah.
01:07:56Mom, can we hang this one on the tree?
01:08:01We should.
01:08:03I remember when he made this.
01:08:06Second grade.
01:08:08Mrs. Tom's class, I think.
01:08:10He was so proud of himself.
01:08:15Where do you want to put it?
01:08:17Um, up high.
01:08:19So he can look out.
01:08:28Hey, they work.
01:08:34I'm gonna go check on the cookies.
01:09:00I found the passage you talked about.
01:09:02About stoning to death.
01:09:04Deuteronomy 20.
01:09:06But what about Sodom and Gomorrah?
01:09:09God punished the sin of homosexuality.
01:09:11How do you explain that?
01:09:13It's nice to see you too, Mary.
01:09:16What's this for?
01:09:17It's a rummage sale.
01:09:19Oh, gay people have rummage too.
01:09:22So, what about Sodom and Gomorrah?
01:09:26Many scholars think this sin was greed and not homosexuality.
01:09:30And it wasn't labeled homosexuality until years after it was written.
01:09:34Do you have answers for all these things just to justify being that way?
01:09:39Your answer is to justify that it's wrong.
01:09:41I guess we're at an impasse here.
01:09:45So you think it's okay to interpret the Bible any way you want?
01:09:49No, of course not.
01:09:50But the Bible was written and interpreted by mortal men.
01:09:54And many of those interpretations were reflections of the time in which they lived.
01:09:59So you feel completely free to question it?
01:10:04Because I think it's blasphemous.
01:10:06I don't think God minds questions.
01:10:09He might not be thrilled with all of our answers.
01:10:12I think blind faith is just as dangerous as none at all.
01:10:16Well, I've never questioned my faith.
01:10:18I've never had reason to.
01:10:20Sometimes to question it helps you find a deeper faith.
01:10:27Bobby stopped coming here.
01:10:30I think the reason was he could never allow himself to feel worthy of God's love.
01:10:40And we didn't help.
01:10:42Mary, have you ever heard about PFLAG?
01:10:47It's a national organization.
01:10:48It's Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays.
01:10:51That's not for me.
01:10:52It could help.
01:10:53You'd be able to see you're not so alone in this.
01:10:56Bye, Reverend.
01:10:57Now, there is a woman in Concord, Betty Lambert.
01:11:00You'll love her.
01:11:01She has a gay son in his 30s.
01:11:04I just had a few questions.
01:11:05I don't need anything else.
01:11:07Just in case.
01:11:14It's true.
01:11:15There's a passage that says,
01:11:17if children are disobedient, they should be put to death.
01:11:20And I mean, no one interprets that literally.
01:11:23What I'm saying is,
01:11:26if the church no longer interprets that literally,
01:11:29maybe homosexuality is also on that list.
01:11:32Maybe.
01:11:34Well, don't you think that's important?
01:11:37Mary, I wasn't all that keen on the first interpretation of the Bible.
01:11:40Well, it could mean that Bobby's in heaven.
01:11:43Yeah, well, he's not here, all right?
01:11:45Why isn't that enough for you?
01:11:47Is it enough for you?
01:11:51Does it make it any better, everything you're doing?
01:11:54Well, what do you want me to do?
01:11:55Just forget about him?
01:11:57I can't do that.
01:11:58Maybe you can.
01:11:59I don't want to forget about him, Mary.
01:12:00I want to remember him, and then I want to move on.
01:12:02But I can't.
01:12:03Nobody can!
01:12:04Just walk away, you know?
01:12:06Like you always do.
01:12:07You never deal with anything.
01:12:09Oh, I see.
01:12:10Maybe...
01:12:11Maybe if I did, Bobby would still be alive today?
01:12:13Is that what you're saying, Mary?
01:12:13Is that what you think?
01:12:17You gonna answer me?
01:12:25Listen, Mary.
01:12:27We both made mistakes.
01:12:28We all made mistakes.
01:12:29But it's done.
01:12:29He's gone.
01:12:30We're not gonna bring him back!
01:12:33I know that!
01:12:35Don't you know?
01:12:36I know that!
01:12:36We're gonna...
01:12:37We're gonna drive.
01:13:02We actually run!
01:13:03We're not going to run!
01:13:03I'm going to go running!
01:13:06Oh, you're going to get to bed!
01:13:07Gréverine Witzel told me what happened to Bobby.
01:13:10I can't imagine what it must feel like to lose a child like that.
01:13:15How long has it been?
01:13:17Um, six months. Six months and a few days.
01:13:25Our son was 14 when he came out to us.
01:13:28Isn't that a little young?
01:13:30Oh, I knew before then.
01:13:35We mothers, we always know, don't we?
01:13:39And you were okay with it?
01:13:40Oh, God, no.
01:13:42I don't think any parent hears the news and thinks,
01:13:47Oh, Goody!
01:13:50Goody wasn't the first word that came to my mind.
01:13:57Mary, why don't you come to a PFLAG meeting with me?
01:14:01No, I'm, um, I'm not good at talking in groups.
01:14:06So don't talk.
01:14:07No, just, just come and listen.
01:14:10I think you'll be shocked at how many people think they were the all-American family.
01:14:18I'll think about it.
01:14:25Eric was taunted at school all the time.
01:14:27Then he got beat off.
01:14:29Mary, you came.
01:14:30I can't stay long.
01:14:31That's all right. Come on in.
01:14:33I'm so furious.
01:14:34I went to the principal.
01:14:35But he didn't do a thing to the boys who did it.
01:14:39I was shocked by that.
01:14:42I called them fruits and fairies.
01:14:45I didn't know.
01:14:47It took me a long time to accept my Sam.
01:14:51I think I always knew.
01:14:52I mean, he asked for a pink Lacoste shirt for his birthday.
01:14:57Now, he's always different.
01:15:00So he tells me he's gay.
01:15:02And what do I do?
01:15:03I take him hunting.
01:15:04And there he is in his pink Lacoste shirt.
01:15:07He saw a deer and yelled, run, Bambi, run.
01:15:11I always knew I could love my son.
01:15:14I never thought I could accept him for who he is.
01:15:19Well, when Jill told me she was gay, I insisted she see a psychiatrist.
01:15:23But when that man suggested shock therapy,
01:15:28I looked at my baby and the hurt in her eyes.
01:15:32And I thought this is crazy.
01:15:35Oh, hello, Reverend.
01:15:36Please come sit down.
01:15:37Hi, guys.
01:15:38Hi, Reverend.
01:15:39Nice to see all of you here tonight.
01:15:41As you may know, Reverend Witzel is pastor of the Metropolitan Community Church.
01:15:46And he's proposing a Gay Freedom Day to the Walnut Creek City Council.
01:15:52The City Council vote happens in about a month.
01:15:55And I would love all your support.
01:16:14And I would love all your support.
01:16:54Mary, Mary, what are you doing out here?
01:16:57You're so coming to the hunt.
01:16:59I didn't know where else to go.
01:17:08I was sitting there, listening to all their stories
01:17:13about how they always just knew their kid was different.
01:17:20And then I had this dream tonight.
01:17:24Bobby was a baby.
01:17:32My son was always different.
01:17:39His difference began at conception.
01:17:44I knew that.
01:17:47I felt it.
01:17:50I know now why God didn't heal Bobby.
01:17:56He didn't heal him because there was nothing wrong with him.
01:18:05I did this.
01:18:08I killed my son.
01:18:11You did not kill your son.
01:18:12Bobby killed himself.
01:18:14How can God forgive me?
01:18:18How can Bobby forgive me?
01:18:20God has already done the forgiving.
01:18:23You have to forgive yourself.
01:18:42Dear God, give us something we can live with
01:18:46and pass on to others whose lives will never be the same
01:18:49because of a loved one's death.
01:18:52I did not decide on brown eyes for myself.
01:18:56And I now realize that Bobby did not decide to be gay.
01:19:00If you say in your word
01:19:01that it is evil and wicked to be born with no arms
01:19:05and a child is born with no arms
01:19:08what is that child to think?
01:19:10The key flag organization.
01:19:12I hope she's happy.
01:19:17Our first order of business is a proposal
01:19:19for a gay freedom day in Walnut Creek.
01:19:23Attention, please.
01:19:24We have a select group to debate the issue.
01:19:27I don't see her.
01:19:28Next up is Reverend Witzel.
01:19:30For one day
01:19:32for one day
01:19:33people can celebrate their difference
01:19:35rather than feel shame.
01:19:36They should be ashamed.
01:19:40There are so many other people
01:19:42who need our time and our attention.
01:19:45Why are we wasting it on this?
01:19:47All right, all right.
01:19:48Let's have some order here, please.
01:19:50They spit in the face of decency and morality.
01:19:55We cannot allow
01:19:57the fabric of our society
01:20:00to be torn apart.
01:20:01Right?
01:20:07I tried to run
01:20:08for the Human Relations Commission.
01:20:11They picked that limp-wristed Witzel instead.
01:20:14I sent them a letter.
01:20:16I said, we sing hymns at our church.
01:20:18What do you do with the hymns at your church?
01:20:20So unless anyone else has anything else to add,
01:20:23we'll adjourn to make our decision.
01:20:26Mary?
01:20:28Hey, Dad!
01:20:30Dad, get in here!
01:20:31Dad, hurry up!
01:20:33Mom's on TV!
01:20:35Homosexuality is a sin.
01:20:38Homosexuals are doomed to spend eternity in hell.
01:20:42If they wanted to change,
01:20:44they could be healed of their evil ways.
01:20:47If they would turn away from temptation,
01:20:49they could be normal again.
01:20:52If only they would try and try harder,
01:20:55if it doesn't work.
01:20:57These are all the things I said to my son Bobby
01:20:59when I found out he was gay.
01:21:01When he told me he was homosexual,
01:21:04my world fell apart.
01:21:06I did everything I could to cure him of his sickness.
01:21:11Eight months ago, my son jumped off a bridge and killed himself.
01:21:17I deeply regret my lack of knowledge about gay and lesbian people.
01:21:22I see that everything I was taught and told was bigotry and dehumanizing slander.
01:21:27if I had investigated beyond what I was told.
01:21:31If I had just listened to my son
01:21:36when he poured his heart out to me,
01:21:39I would not be standing here today with you filled with regret.
01:21:43I believe that God was pleased with Bobby's kind and loving spirit.
01:21:49In God's eyes, kindness and love are what it's all about.
01:21:53I didn't know that each time I echoed eternal damnation for gay people,
01:21:58each time I referred to Bobby as sick and perverted and a danger to our children,
01:22:05his self-esteem, his sense of worth were being destroyed.
01:22:10Anyway, and finally, his spirit broke beyond repair.
01:22:17It was not God's will that Bobby climbed over the side of a freeway overpass
01:22:23and jumped directly into the path of an 18-wheel truck which killed him instantly.
01:22:31Bobby's death was the direct result of his parents' ignorance and fear of the word gay.
01:22:40He wanted to be a writer.
01:22:44His hopes and dreams should not have been taken from him, but they were.
01:22:50There are children, like Bobby, sitting in your congregations.
01:22:57Unknown to you, they will be listening as you echo amen.
01:23:04And that will soon silence their prayers, their prayers to God for understanding and acceptance and for your love.
01:23:16But your hatred and fear and ignorance of the word gay will silence those prayers.
01:23:27So, before you echo amen in your home and place of worship,
01:23:33think, think and remember, a child is listening.
01:23:44Don't want.
01:23:50Don't want.
01:23:52It should be good.
01:24:06We lost.
01:24:08They voted the ordinance down.
01:24:10Well, we'll try again next year, all right?
01:24:14So we're really going to San Francisco, huh?
01:24:17I think we have to.
01:24:18I don't think it's a choice.
01:24:22Well, that's ironic.
01:24:26Okay.
01:24:37Are we late?
01:24:38Just in time.
01:24:39Just in time.
01:24:40Oh, Jackie, is this everyone?
01:24:42Oh, honey, no.
01:24:44Come with me.
01:24:45We have a special place for you.
01:24:47Okay?
01:24:58Let's go!
01:25:00Woo-hoo!
01:25:03Woo!
01:25:03Woo!
01:25:05Woo!
01:25:35I say these words to you as I would my own precious children
01:25:40Please don't give up hope on life, or yourselves
01:25:44You're very special to me
01:25:45And I'm working very hard to make this life a better and safer place for you to live in
01:25:51Promise me you'll keep trying
01:25:54Bobby gave up on love
01:25:55I hope you won't
01:25:57You were always in my thoughts
01:26:02My name is Bobby Griffith
01:26:05I write this in hopes that one day, many years from now
01:26:09I will be able to go back and remember what my life was like
01:26:12When I was a young and confused adolescent
01:26:15Desperately trying to understand myself and the world I live in
01:26:19Another reason I write this
01:26:21Is so long after I die
01:26:23Others may have a chance to read about me
01:26:26And see what my life as a young person was like
01:27:04I have a chance to read about me
01:27:04I have a chance to read about me
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