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09:37Dönüştür.
09:37Dönüştür.
09:39Dönüştür.
09:40Ama ben iyi.
09:42Ben de nefesim yapıyorum.
09:44Ve o exact opposite.
09:45Bu ne kadar da.
09:50Ben de nefesim yapacağım.
09:51Ben de nefesim yapacağım.
09:53Ben de nefesim yapacağım.
09:57O zaman, böylece böyle bir şey yapacağım.
09:59I also do depressed apathy, paralyzed embarrassment, and impotent fury.
10:07It's a rich inner life.
10:10Sweetie, what's wrong?
10:11Alison Gibgott invited me to her birthday party.
10:15Why is that sad?
10:17You want the list?
10:18Alison and her friends did this as a joke.
10:20They know I know they don't want me to go.
10:22If I do go, they'll freeze me out until I burst into tears
10:25and Daddy comes to get me, which is what they really want.
10:27I'm completely isolated at school.
10:30I've never had any friends.
10:32And my personality, by which I mean your personality,
10:35makes it impossible for me to ever have any.
10:39Okay, well, do you want my list?
10:41You're intelligent, you're beautiful, and hardworking, and incredibly perceptive, and...
10:46Yeah, thanks for that, too.
10:47That's how I notice every smirk, and slight, and microscopic eye roll aimed at me since first grade.
10:53Why'd you have to be so gentle with me growing up?
10:55I have no armor!
10:56Leah, look, I am so sorry you're going through this,
11:00but I promise it'll get better.
11:02It got so much better for me once I went off to college,
11:05so that's less than a...
11:07a decade.
11:10It's actually worse when he tries hard.
11:15Why'd that make you nervous?
11:17What?
11:17Your phone.
11:18Why did that call make you nervous?
11:20I'm not nervous.
11:21It was just work and we're talking.
11:24Maybe my concern for how upset you are is coming across as nervous.
11:27And why do you keep it so hot in here?
11:29I want to be alone now, anyway.
11:31Okay.
11:33I'm not going to smother you, but I'm here for you, like always.
11:37I love you.
11:39Really love you.
11:43Love you so much.
11:49Malcolm, I need you to call me back today about our anniversary.
11:52We have to know when you're coming.
11:53And we know you're coming,
11:54because you would never be that monstrously inconsiderate.
11:57Love you.
11:59I didn't answer Dad's voicemail yesterday,
12:01so I knew it would escalate to Mom.
12:03I wrote the email.
12:04Sorry, I was in emergency meetings till late,
12:06and I just heard your voicemail.
12:07I scheduled that to send at 2.16 a.m.
12:10That way I look considerate for emailing instead of calling her back.
12:13Trust me, she'll check the timestamp.
12:16I have to set up six more food banks this month,
12:18but barring a crisis, I'll be there.
12:21That's what's great about running a charity.
12:23Anything I say is a crisis is a crisis.
12:26For charity.
12:29I scored the cut, dry-fitted twice,
12:31so now I glue it down.
12:33Perfect.
12:33This is so easy, I had no idea.
12:35I can't wait to start the gazebo next week.
12:38You know, Reese,
12:39doing these projects together every weekend,
12:42I love it more than anything.
12:44Me too.
12:45I have to confess, though,
12:47that this floor was fine.
12:51You don't actually have to rotate floor tiles every six months.
12:56I know.
12:56You do?
12:58But almost every job we've done,
13:00the car,
13:01the backyard irrigation,
13:02the washing machine,
13:03they didn't need to be done either.
13:05It's my favorite thing to do anyway.
13:06I'm spending a lot of money
13:08fixing things that don't need fixing.
13:12And since this is really just about us spending time together,
13:16maybe we can do jigsaw puzzles.
13:18No!
13:19I know how to do puzzles.
13:20You steal one piece,
13:22so you're the only one that can finish it.
13:24We have to be building or fixing things.
13:26What's going on?
13:27What's going on?
13:30Dad,
13:31have you ever heard of
13:32a metaphor?
13:36Yes, Reese.
13:37We all know my life sucks.
13:40I've ruined my job,
13:41my marriages.
13:43I don't really have any friends.
13:46That's not the metaphor yet.
13:48Ready?
13:49Things like gluing these tiles
13:50so they fit together perfectly
13:52is a metaphor for me fitting in with people.
13:56And these tools are a metaphor for you
13:59and all the things in life you're teaching me.
14:02Mm-hmm.
14:02Dad,
14:03you're a tool.
14:05A tool to help me build my life back.
14:09I will always be your tool.
14:15You know what's great
14:16about going to a fancy private high school?
14:20Nothing.
14:21It is the same emotional shithole
14:22as every other high school.
14:25Oh, my God, I can.
14:26Leah!
14:27Hi.
14:28Allison.
14:28Did you get my invitation?
14:30It's going to be really fun.
14:31Dad got an aura camera.
14:32I did.
14:34Thanks.
14:34Great.
14:35See you there.
14:47Leah?
14:48Oh, hey, Cheyenne.
14:49I couldn't finish my math homework.
14:51Can you show me how to do a slope intercept?
14:53Of course.
14:54I don't mind at all.
14:55I'm always happy to help.
14:56You know, you don't have to panic about it.
14:58I wasn't panicking.
15:00Oh.
15:01It's just,
15:02I can see where you've been pulling out your hair.
15:05I'm not saying you pull out your hair.
15:06It's probably just ringworm.
15:07And that's easy to fix.
15:09Eight weeks of fungicide pills.
15:11Because it's not an actual worm inside your head.
15:12It's a fungus.
15:16Oh, God.
15:17What do I do?
15:18Make it seem like I was joking?
15:20All right.
15:21All right.
15:22All right.
15:22All right.
15:25Come on.
15:26What is wrong with her?
15:29I'm really sorry about the whole thing.
15:30You othered Cheyenne in view of the peer group.
15:34Yeah.
15:34I knew I was upsetting her, and I was trying to fix it.
15:36But I kept making it worse, because right before, other girls hurt my feelings, so I wasn't thinking clearly.
15:42I'm not blaming them.
15:44They can't help it.
15:45Robert Sapolsky has pretty compelling research that endorphin levels actually spike when members of an in-group exclude or attack
15:50members of an out-group.
15:52At least with chimpanzees.
15:57He's on YouTube.
16:08Once a week, he'll stand in the front yard, shirtless and flex.
16:17Get ready.
16:18You're going to see something shocking.
16:22Hey.
16:23How proud of us.
16:24We actually got all the way to the bed before he went at it.
16:26Huh.
16:29Tristan, my girlfriend.
16:31I mean, it is so much more than that.
16:34She loves me.
16:35I know.
16:36It sounds like a lot of me, too.
16:41How was your day?
16:42It was good.
16:43We won the Grosvenor Innovation Grant.
16:45I beat an AI.
16:47Dude, you don't have to keep proving how smart you are.
16:49I really don't care.
16:51Oh, except for my taxes.
16:53That was awesome.
16:54So what do you care about?
16:56I care that you always listen to me and that you're supportive and that you keep your promises.
17:03And mostly I care that you understand in a deep and complete way who I am inside.
17:12And you love me anyway.
17:15And I am so grateful for that.
17:18Jesus, I thought we were just doing banter.
17:27She's going to like me, right?
17:29Are you kidding?
17:30Lee's going to love you.
17:32You're as worried as I am.
17:33What makes you say that?
17:33Because you know that if she doesn't like me, we can't move forward.
17:38I mean, eventually we'd have to break up.
17:40But I have so many plans to prevent that.
17:43Mutual interest outings, weekly kindness days, shared journaling.
17:46There's one where you hold on to the end of a yarn ball and you pass it back and forth
17:50to each other and you keep saying nice things and you keep throwing it until you guys are both tied
17:54up really tight together in the yarn.
17:58I'm betting on us.
18:00Look, you can make friends with anyone.
18:02I've seen it.
18:02And it's obvious how much we love each other.
18:04Lee is going to see that and she's going to want to be a part of it.
18:06I don't know.
18:07When I was her age, I hated myself and everything in my field of vision.
18:11So shall I grow it?
18:12Can we wait for that?
18:14No.
18:15No.
18:16It is past time we did this.
18:18We're doing it.
18:19Okay.
18:20You're also honest and sincere and sensitive.
18:25Not to mention in bed, the way you combine enthusiasm and startling physical strength with a clear understanding of nuance.
18:39Tristan likes green, so maybe wear your chinos.
18:41Sue went to private school too, so you can talk about that.
18:43And politics just makes her upset.
18:47Movies.
18:47She can talk about them all day, but she loves rom-coms, so don't you say anything snotty.
18:52You can write this down if you want.
18:53I would, but my pen is busy doing actual homework.
18:57Sweetie.
18:57So when do I yell, I want my real mommy, and run out in tears?
19:01I'll surprise you.
19:02Please, this is important to me.
19:04Dad, I get it.
19:05It's your only chance for love, and I have complete control over your future happiness.
19:12Every parenting book says I shouldn't let you believe that.
19:19Kelly, where are you?
19:20What can I do?
19:21Are you okay?
19:21What's the matter?
19:22That I have to make up a lie to get my own brother to answer the phone.
19:25You have to promise me you'll come to mom and dad's anniversary.
19:28Kelly, I'm trying.
19:29Hey, listen to me.
19:30All they talk about is whether or not you'll be there.
19:32They're old, Malcolm.
19:33They could die any second.
19:35Decapitated in a car wreck.
19:37Slowly choking to death on a respirator from some lingering illness.
19:41Stabbed over and over by some drifter they took in.
19:43Clock is ticking, busy boy.
19:45You can do this for them.
19:46I am doing everything I can to be there, but my charity just has me so busy all the time.
19:50So you can figure out all this advanced infrastructure for hundreds of charities and corporations,
19:55but even after six months' notice, you can't plan half a day off?
19:58Wow, that's almost mom level.
20:01Okay, at their age, they're a little self-righteous, simultaneously overconfident, and insecure.
20:07Validate their intentions and blow some smoke.
20:09Look, I am glad that you see how important this is for mom and dad.
20:12They are lucky to have you looking out for them.
20:14Other kids your age aren't half as perceptive.
20:17What?
20:18I'm on the phone.
20:19Okay.
20:20Look, I am so sorry, but I do have to get back to work.
20:23But don't worry, I'm sure I can be there.
20:26Love you.
20:26Hey, Linda, can you print me that report?
20:29With that one, you gotta get in and out before they can think too much.
20:32How do you not allow glitter?
20:34You're a party venue.
20:36I just want a couple of handfuls for people to toss during our spotlight dance.
20:41Okay, so no glitter.
20:43Did our monogrammed cocktail stirs with the little hearts, did they come in?
20:47No, no, they come with the Radiant Elegance Package.
20:52The Radiant Mystique Elegance Package?
20:55How much does that cost?
21:00Okay, let's do it.
21:02Such nonsense.
21:04I'm sorry to be taking all the attention away from your 40th birthday.
21:08Mom, I'm 39.
21:09I was born on your first anniversary, not your wedding day.
21:1439?
21:17Of course you are.
21:18Hey, how are you guys enjoying the new guest suite?
21:20The garage?
21:21Yeah, once we unpacked the bag, stomped a few spiders, got the plastic tarp off the bed.
21:26It was real homey.
21:27Me and Dad did all the renovations.
21:28Your brother's become quite the handyman.
21:30Well, it is great.
21:32A heads up the toilet wasn't connected.
21:34Would have been cool.
21:35You know, we could afford a motel.
21:37Absolutely not.
21:38We love having you here.
21:39Besides, you gotta save up some money until you get a solid job.
21:42Mom, I've been there 15 years.
21:44I'm senior management.
21:45I have 75 people under me.
21:47That's 75 people plotting to replace you.
21:50And you need to retie your bows.
21:52They need to be droopy.
21:53They droop?
21:54They need to droop languidly.
21:57Look at your father's.
21:58Your knots are too crisp.
22:00Use baby hands.
22:01Why don't you criticize his bows?
22:02Those aren't languid.
22:03They're turgid.
22:04Dad likes me better than you now.
22:07Did you ever talk to Malcolm?
22:08No.
22:09We keep trading emails back and forth.
22:11I know he's doing good things, but he is gonna work himself to death.
22:14I just got off the phone with him.
22:17He's not coming.
22:23Okay.
22:24We can do this.
22:25It's gonna be great.
22:26Love you.
22:27Love you.
22:27Do you need to pee?
22:28No.
22:28Yes.
22:29No.
22:30You got the link.
22:31No, it's not.
22:34Leah, we're here.
22:38Leah, this is Tristan.
22:42Hey.
22:44Hi, Leah.
22:50Good.
22:51We're-we're easing in slowly.
22:53There's no rush.
22:58So, how much did he prep you?
23:06When you were four, you tried to scare Miss Rachel into canceling preschool by saying her mold didn't look right.
23:14You have to twist your hamburger bun exactly three times, so the condiments smear evenly.
23:21You refused an award from the State Young Sciences Challenge because you thought it would make you a famous nerd.
23:26You love being a physical therapist, but you are grossed out when you have to touch old people.
23:32You fly into a spitting rage if you do Wordle in three.
23:36Sometimes when you stand up too fast, you fart, and I have to ignore.
23:41I do.
23:42You don't.
23:43Now him.
23:45Has he ever told you about his reluctant move into politics?
23:49Oh, my God.
23:51No.
23:51One time I found a notepad where he wrote, assemblyman, congressman, lieutenant governor.
23:57And the thing with the actor shape.
24:06I've never been so happy to be humiliated in my life.
24:09It always does.
24:10This could be my family.
24:11My last checkbox.
24:13This is amazing.
24:14Malcolm, we are not doing this by email or text or over the phone or by Zoom.
24:19We are going to talk about it.
24:21No matter what you have to arrange, you are going to be at our anniversary with the rest of the
24:25family.
24:26Dad?
24:32You have a daughter?
24:34She's alive?
24:38What's happening?
24:44You made me do this!
24:46Malcolm, this family's non-stop anti-social behavior and mindless belligerence and myopic priorities are toxic to me!
24:53Every single bad thing that happened to my life is your fault!
24:56Getting away from you is how I finally stopped being such an asshole!
25:02Wait, so your biggest problem is that we exist?
25:15Thank you.
25:16Who are you?
25:17I don't know.
25:19How could you do this to your family?
25:21No, stop!
25:23You insisted on barging in on my home, okay?
25:26Without an invitation.
25:27So you can at least give me the courtesy to explain myself.
25:30Please, sit down.
25:35Oh, come on.
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