00:00I don't think keeping it a secret is all that crazy.
00:02I think the fact that everybody gets to watch you do it is weird.
00:05It's like, yeah, like, can we keep this a secret?
00:07And then everyone's like, oh, that's that's shady.
00:10But like, in reality, it should have been like a one on one thing.
00:13I mean, it's already messy enough.
00:16I think being out in the open about it would be even worse to some degree.
00:23My advice would be if you're going to keep the secret,
00:26maybe pull it off a little bit better, you know,
00:29maybe lock the door or something.
00:32Yeah, that'd probably be my two cents.
00:35It's yeah, I understand it.
00:39It's it's funny because because because it is a TV show, right?
00:44And so the fact that so many people are or will be privy to the the like,
00:51hey, let's just keep this a secret thing.
00:53Like, it feels a little embarrassing to see that come up so many times.
00:57But in reality, I find I find myself doing that so often just because,
01:01you know, different insecurities, different concerns about the spread of information
01:06and like the spread of personal information.
01:10It's like, hey, like, can we keep this between us?
01:12Or like, I'm a big fan of like a triangle of trust, a cone of silence.
01:17Hey, trust tree, right?
01:19We can we can we can speak in confidence just because it's like I like to be transparent
01:24and deep and like building those those paths of trust are pretty difficult in everyday life.
01:29So.
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