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Love is Blind Sweden Season 3 Episode 1
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00:05:14Oh god, I'm totally stressed out
00:05:17Sometimes I wake up with a girl or two in bed
00:05:20Yeah
00:05:22The cats
00:05:27The biggest red flag is creativity and I just feel
00:05:30Do you mean green flag?
00:05:32Oh yes, just that
00:05:33Yeah, I'm a history nerd
00:05:35So I like learning all kinds of stuff about random kings and Mongolians
00:05:39Do you know that I can do a kula?
00:05:41What do you mean kula?
00:05:43Oh yoohoo
00:05:46Yoo, yoohoo
00:05:50What do I do for work?
00:05:51Yeah
00:05:52I have my own basketball business
00:05:55I used to play ball
00:05:56So I guess you've got to be pretty tall then, huh?
00:06:00Yep, pretty tall
00:06:01Like 6'2 or 6'?
00:06:03Yep, more
00:06:04More?
00:06:05And then some
00:06:06Oh, 2 meters? 6'4, 6'5?
00:06:08Keep going
00:06:09Oh my lord
00:06:11You want to know?
00:06:12No
00:06:15I'm 6'8
00:06:23I'm here simply because I feel like the dating thing for me just hasn't been working out
00:06:29I've been put in this box as just one thing, just a guy that's a ball player
00:06:34I'm tall and I guess I'm relatively good looking
00:06:37I'm a basketball player and nobody takes my profession seriously
00:06:41They see it as something that's just fun
00:06:45One more step into the game
00:06:47Good luck
00:06:48Nobody ever gets to know me for the guy I really am
00:06:51I am misunderstood
00:06:53Very misunderstood
00:06:55And always have been
00:06:56Who am I talking to?
00:06:58Angelica
00:06:59Hi, Angelica
00:07:00God, this is so nerve-wracking
00:07:02I'm Aaron, by the way
00:07:03God, I didn't even ask
00:07:05No
00:07:05Just, hello
00:07:06Okay, hello, Aaron
00:07:07You're like, whatever
00:07:09Oh my god
00:07:10Okay, Aaron
00:07:11Describe yourself in three words
00:07:14Passionate
00:07:15I have a big heart
00:07:18And
00:07:19I mean
00:07:20I'm in love with life
00:07:23Yeah
00:07:23You passionate about anything?
00:07:26Do you have anything like that?
00:07:28Um
00:07:29Oh, that's a hard one
00:07:30My family and my friends
00:07:32I'd say one big thing for me
00:07:35Is that I'm also really looking forward to starting a family
00:07:38Oh, yeah?
00:07:39Yeah
00:07:40Do you?
00:07:41I want kids
00:07:42I love kids
00:07:43Oh, good
00:07:44Good
00:07:46What else is important to you?
00:07:48Aside from
00:07:49In a relationship?
00:07:51In a relationship
00:07:51I really want somebody who's secure and confident with themselves
00:07:55And stable
00:07:56What do you mean by stable, exactly?
00:07:59Somebody who knows what they want
00:08:01I don't know about stable
00:08:03If you put on a Disney movie, I might cry a river
00:08:07Well, yeah
00:08:08Guys that cry at movies
00:08:09I just love that
00:08:11Oh, yeah?
00:08:12Yes
00:08:12I can already tell
00:08:14I'm going to want to meet you again
00:08:15Okay, stop it
00:08:17What the hell?
00:08:17I'm getting so excited over here
00:08:18Where did you come from?
00:08:20Yeah, who are you?
00:08:21Shit, this is crazy
00:08:23Okay
00:08:24Bye
00:08:24Bye, Angelica
00:08:29Holy shit
00:08:32What have we gotten into?
00:08:46I'm really nervous
00:08:48I don't know if that's very macho, latino, masculine of me, but
00:08:54I'm just being honest about that
00:08:56And
00:09:00I hope it won't throw me off
00:09:02Ah, shit
00:09:06I want to meet my partner and get married
00:09:11So if I meet somebody on the other side of that wall, that's a good match
00:09:16That's all I want
00:09:19There's a possibility I won't have to be alone for the rest of my life
00:09:22And that's enough
00:09:26Son of a bitch
00:09:30Hello?
00:09:32Howdy
00:09:32Hi
00:09:33Who do I have here?
00:09:36Well, uh, Fabian, and you?
00:09:38My name is Ellen
00:09:39Hi, I'm kind of nervous
00:09:41Is that okay?
00:09:42Nervous? But is it less than before you came in?
00:09:44Yes, but I did think I wouldn't be able to open the door
00:09:46Oh, sweetie, oh
00:09:48Yeah, I told them I can't do this
00:09:51It's a weird thing we're doing, so it's no wonder
00:09:54I was nervous, too
00:09:55Hmm
00:09:56But tell me, where are you from?
00:09:58Yes, uh, oh, God, straight in
00:10:01That's great
00:10:02Uh, well, I am from Argentina
00:10:05Yeah
00:10:05I studied medicine there for two years
00:10:08Yeah
00:10:08Then I started traveling a little bit
00:10:10Some in Chile, in Peru
00:10:12I ended up in London
00:10:14Then I came to Sweden to visit some friends
00:10:17And realize that I wanted to stay
00:10:20Okay
00:10:20Uh, yeah
00:10:21I lived in London for a bit
00:10:23Okay, cool
00:10:24Yeah, and I just moved back from the U.S.
00:10:27Okay
00:10:28And before that, I lived in Australia
00:10:30Wow
00:10:31So I've lived in different places
00:10:33Jumped around a lot
00:10:35Traveled a lot
00:10:36Nice
00:10:36Yeah
00:10:36How are you in a relationship?
00:10:39I can be kind of old-fashioned
00:10:41Traditional
00:10:42Go to a nice dinner
00:10:43Where you can wear a really nice dress
00:10:45And I can be proud
00:10:47Give presents and flowers
00:10:49And stuff like that
00:10:52But I also don't want it to be too much
00:10:54No
00:10:55What do you feel about that?
00:10:56I feel like I struggle a lot of times
00:10:58With going overboard, too
00:11:00Okay
00:11:00Bare minimum will apply, though
00:11:01No, okay
00:11:04Being spoiled isn't something
00:11:05I'd ever say no to
00:11:07Yeah
00:11:07Being looked after
00:11:37I think there are times
00:11:38Feels weird
00:11:39But hey, it's a flag
00:11:40I'm like, that's fun
00:11:42Is this how the players live?
00:11:44Hi
00:11:46What have I got in front of me?
00:11:48Well, you have a wall in front of you
00:11:49No, my name's Daniel
00:11:51And I live in Norr Shopping right now
00:11:53Hey, I can hear it
00:11:55Yeah, some people say I talk like a contraceptive
00:11:58Let me tell you
00:11:59It's been a real challenge
00:12:00But I can't get rid of the dialect
00:12:02This is what I sound like
00:12:04I like the Norr Shopping dialect
00:12:06My sister lives there
00:12:07Oh, really?
00:12:08How about that?
00:12:09There we go
00:12:10Have you been there, then?
00:12:11Lots
00:12:11Where do you live, Ellen?
00:12:13I live in Stockholm
00:12:14Nice
00:12:15What do you do for work?
00:12:16Right now, I've always worked in sales
00:12:18Okay, yeah
00:12:19But I do have some side businesses
00:12:21I co-own a little brewery with my brother
00:12:24Cool
00:12:25I import perfume vending machines from China
00:12:27With some friends of mine
00:12:29Put them in restaurants
00:12:30Okay
00:12:31Yeah, it's a big part of me
00:12:33I really am a perfume lover
00:12:34Just give me a spritz of anything
00:12:36I love it all
00:12:37Really?
00:12:39That's interesting
00:12:40Because it sounds like you're very ambitious
00:12:42I definitely am
00:12:43It's true
00:12:44I've got a lot going on for sure
00:12:46I love being Toastmaster
00:12:48If someone's getting married
00:12:49I can see that
00:12:50You have a real Toastmaster vibe
00:12:51And that's great
00:12:52I think I've been Toastmaster
00:12:53At least seven or eight times
00:12:54In the past two years
00:12:55Really?
00:12:56Yeah, I think it's just the best
00:12:58Yeah?
00:12:59On the other hand
00:13:00Having to sit around the boring singles table
00:13:02Is another thing
00:13:03And it's obvious that they're single for a reason
00:13:05And I sit there
00:13:06And I'm not really interested in them
00:13:08I want somebody to do all the fun things I do
00:13:11I don't want to find someone to live with
00:13:13I want somebody I can't live without
00:13:15I really hope we meet again soon
00:13:17I'd love to talk to you more
00:13:19Hey, have a great day, Ellen
00:13:20Okay, bye
00:13:23Now that I'm 43 and older
00:13:25I have a better idea of what I'm aiming for
00:13:28I used to shoot with a shotgun
00:13:29But now I have a really narrow sniper scope
00:13:32Let's go, guys
00:13:33There have been times I've met girls
00:13:35That were my exact opposite
00:13:36Very calm
00:13:37Hey there
00:13:38That do yoga
00:13:39Now I think I should maybe find somebody
00:13:41That likes the same kind of things I do
00:13:44We're having a beer tasting
00:13:45No
00:13:46I'm co-owner of a brewery with my brother
00:13:49I would bring you to this cool little brewery
00:13:51That my brother and I are co-owners of
00:13:53I'll arrange a beer tasting
00:13:55If you're into beer
00:13:56Yeah, that's nice
00:13:57But I think maybe
00:13:58Well, now there's also cider
00:13:59I'll fix you up with ciders
00:14:01No problem
00:14:02If I see you again
00:14:03I would love the chance to give you some lovely perfume
00:14:06Yeah?
00:14:07I've dabbled with it a bit
00:14:08I import perfume vending machines that I distribute
00:14:10Yeah
00:14:11And what about perfumes?
00:14:13Do you like them?
00:14:14No
00:14:14No?
00:14:15Didn't you hear that?
00:14:16No, I didn't hear that
00:14:17No, because you talk so much
00:14:19Oh, sorry
00:14:19Bye
00:14:21I need to learn to listen more in these days
00:14:24I just felt it went quickly
00:14:25I didn't have time to
00:14:26I forgot to ask what her name was
00:14:28But I do work in sales
00:14:30So most of the time
00:14:31That's an advantage
00:14:32The customers also need to tell me
00:14:34What their needs are
00:14:35If she has a fear of flying
00:14:37Maybe I don't have to sit and brag about my trips to Australia
00:14:41What?
00:14:42What the heck?
00:14:43You really live in Australia?
00:14:45Yeah
00:14:45I live in Sydney
00:14:46In Neutral Bay
00:14:47My god, that's crazy
00:14:49I have family in Australia
00:14:50And they live in Sydney
00:14:52I've been there quite a bit
00:14:53Oh
00:14:54We have
00:14:55Or my family has a vineyard down there
00:14:57What?
00:14:58Yeah
00:14:58There's only one country on earth
00:15:00Where I feel at home
00:15:01And that's Australia
00:15:03Because everything works the same way as Sweden
00:15:06Yeah
00:15:06I feel like I could come back home to Sweden pretty easily and stay
00:15:11But it would have to be for a good reason
00:15:13Exactly
00:15:14So
00:15:14Like Daniel or something
00:15:16Yeah, exactly
00:15:17Exactly
00:15:17So true
00:15:18But hey
00:15:18Let's go to Australia then
00:15:20And try to take over the vineyard instead
00:15:22That sounds amazing
00:15:24I feel like wherever my partner and I can have a better life is where I want to be
00:15:29Wow
00:15:30Sounds like a dream
00:15:31Yes
00:15:33I'm so ready
00:15:38I live in Sydney
00:15:40And I've lived there for 14 years now
00:15:43It's like
00:15:45It's just that dating in Sydney
00:15:48It's
00:15:48It's
00:15:49It's a disaster
00:15:52It's always
00:15:53Next, next, next
00:15:54You know
00:15:55It's all just fun for now
00:15:57So here I am
00:15:59Hi
00:16:00Good luck
00:16:01Good luck
00:16:02When Swedish guys decide to commit
00:16:04They commit
00:16:06They just seem more ready
00:16:08And willing to have a long-term relationship with someone
00:16:11So yeah
00:16:12I've missed that
00:16:15How do you feel about kids?
00:16:17Come on kids
00:16:18Definitely
00:16:18You do?
00:16:19Yeah
00:16:19If I can
00:16:20When?
00:16:21As soon as I get married
00:16:22Bang right away
00:16:23Bang
00:16:24Bang right away
00:16:24I'll time the wedding with their ovulation
00:16:28Oh my god
00:16:30Okay, so how do you feel about dogs and cats?
00:16:33Yeah, I love dogs
00:16:34Dogs are great
00:16:34I mean cats
00:16:35I could take them or leave them
00:16:37They're just not as fun as dogs
00:16:38I would normally agree with you
00:16:40Yeah
00:16:41But I have one of those really big long-haired cats
00:16:44Okay
00:16:44That thinks he's a dog
00:16:46I'm quite big and long
00:16:47I mean
00:16:48I'm not long-haired
00:16:49But I do have a lot of hair on my body
00:16:50Oh, okay
00:16:52Oh, why'd I say that?
00:16:53How do we make that leap?
00:16:55You like long-haired things
00:16:56Yeah
00:16:57I don't have long hair on my head is what I mean
00:16:59Yeah
00:17:00So I'm not lying to you but
00:17:02My body
00:17:03I see
00:17:03Anyway
00:17:04Jessica was nice to
00:17:05Oh
00:17:07Sorry
00:17:07Joanna
00:17:08Yes
00:17:10Sorry
00:17:11Man, I just don't get it
00:17:12I'm calmer during life-saving surgery than when I'm in there
00:17:21I said some fucking weird shit
00:17:23It's okay that you had a bad hair
00:17:25Yeah
00:17:27I don't think I've ever felt this neurotic in my life
00:17:30How the hell are you supposed to show who you really are?
00:17:33When your future wife might be sitting on the other side
00:17:39I'm a doctor and I like being able to do all the hobbies that I have
00:17:42Yeah?
00:17:43Brazilian jiu-jitsu, doing a lot of wrestling
00:17:46My god
00:17:47It can be chaotic sometimes
00:17:48Okay
00:17:49When I'm working on projects or doing some carpentry
00:17:51You do carpentry?
00:17:53Furniture carpentry is something I really love
00:17:55Well
00:17:55Done a lot of it
00:17:56There's a bonus point for you, for sure
00:17:59Oh, nice
00:17:59Handymen, they are kind of sexy
00:18:01Good, I'm very handy
00:18:04Yeah
00:18:04You had to emphasize that
00:18:06Yeah
00:18:08So, what kind of person are you?
00:18:11I'm a complete music nerd
00:18:13I've always been interested in music
00:18:15Okay
00:18:16My mom says I sang before I could talk
00:18:18I love writing music, it's so much fun to write
00:18:21Yes, nice
00:18:23I work full-time at a record company
00:18:25I run the A&R team
00:18:27That's an interesting job, very social
00:18:29Yeah, you know what it is?
00:18:31I do, I know some musicians
00:18:33That's crazy
00:18:34Yeah
00:18:35Could we talk a little about
00:18:36I'd like to see if I can get an idea of what you're like when you're in a relationship
00:18:40Sure
00:18:40Okay, so I like to talk a lot because I enjoy it
00:18:44I share my feelings, my opinions and my thoughts
00:18:47What if something annoys you then?
00:18:49I'll bring it up
00:18:49Yeah?
00:18:50I'm not somebody that bottles things up
00:18:52I just, I love that, I really do
00:18:55Well that's good
00:18:56Yeah, I'm just
00:18:57No but it's
00:18:57I'm exactly the same
00:18:58Yeah
00:18:59I have a very strong urge
00:19:01An immense longing for meeting my person
00:19:04My love for life
00:19:06And I'm putting down the work to get a relationship to work
00:19:09And I really do want to give all I have to a relationship
00:19:13I think I do
00:19:15But then I wonder if I go too far sometimes and it's too much
00:19:18I get the feeling we'll see more of each other
00:19:21Absolutely
00:19:21Yes, bye
00:19:22Goodbye
00:19:23But I haven't found the right one yet
00:19:24And I really do hope I will now
00:19:27That would be like hitting the jackpot
00:19:29Actually, I've dated half of Stockholm, so
00:19:33We were like, see you tomorrow
00:19:35Oh my god
00:19:36It's so exciting
00:19:37You okay?
00:19:38Yeah, finally starting to feel kinda good
00:19:41Ready for day two?
00:19:42Yeah
00:19:43Damn bro, that's nice
00:19:48Hi
00:19:49Oh my god
00:19:51I've never felt so lonely
00:19:54How did it go?
00:19:55So damn good
00:19:56Did it?
00:19:57Yeah, so good
00:19:58No, really?
00:19:59It's insane
00:19:59Was it?
00:20:00You just here by yourself?
00:20:02Yeah, I'm going last
00:20:03You excited?
00:20:05Yeah
00:20:07Let's go boys
00:20:08Think zero zero
00:20:09I'm so freaking excited to do this
00:20:11But I'm not kidding myself
00:20:13I know it's gonna get rough
00:20:15When we're in the pods
00:20:17Hello
00:20:18Hi
00:20:18You are?
00:20:19Ronia from Stockholm
00:20:20How old are you?
00:20:22I'm 36
00:20:22Nice, great
00:20:24But wait
00:20:25Did you tell me where you live?
00:20:27Yes
00:20:28So yeah
00:20:29It's hard for me to have long discussions
00:20:31I have trouble concentrating
00:20:34I think it's really important to be respectful
00:20:37I think it's really important to be respectful
00:20:37Hmm
00:20:38And you?
00:20:39Uh, what do you mean?
00:20:41I can zone out and just be like, wait, what?
00:20:44It's hard for me to sit still
00:20:46And so I'll just fidget or I'll do something else
00:20:49No, no, no, I just got a nosebleed
00:20:52Okay
00:20:52This will work
00:20:53Okay
00:20:53I'll just shove this up my nose here
00:20:56There
00:20:57Yeah
00:20:58I'll be fine
00:20:59Have you been in a relationship before?
00:21:01I have
00:21:02I'm a relationship guy
00:21:04So I have missed it a lot actually
00:21:08So yeah, that's why I'm here
00:21:13I hope I can find somebody
00:21:16Somebody to share life with
00:21:18Somebody that's got the same kind of interests I do
00:21:20Somebody that likes being active
00:21:24Hello?
00:21:25Hey
00:21:25But yeah, I'm pretty flexible
00:21:27Especially now that I've been single
00:21:29I can't have too many requirements
00:21:34I like being out in the woods and just hanging out in nature
00:21:37Hmm
00:21:37Are you an outdoorsy guy?
00:21:39Well, I wouldn't say so, I guess
00:21:41No?
00:21:43Uh...
00:21:43No, you stay inside?
00:21:44I stay in, is that what you said?
00:21:46Yeah
00:21:47If I'm not outside, then what?
00:21:49I mean...
00:21:49Oh, yeah, then I'm inside
00:21:51No, but I like ball games and stuff like that
00:21:54Oh, yeah?
00:21:55A lot of football
00:21:56Yeah?
00:21:56I used to play it, but I don't anymore
00:21:58But I like to watch a lot of football
00:22:01Oh, yeah, cool
00:22:02Oh, yeah, and I love board games
00:22:03Oh, me too
00:22:05Quiz games, cards, quizzes and stuff
00:22:08That's great, so do I
00:22:10You're joking
00:22:11No
00:22:12Okay, your star's getting bigger
00:22:13Yeah
00:22:16What else?
00:22:17What do you like doing?
00:22:18I like working out
00:22:19I'm doing a lot of running right now
00:22:21So, like, on the weekend
00:22:23I usually try to go on a long run
00:22:25Okay
00:22:26Yeah
00:22:27What?
00:22:27But do you like red wine?
00:22:30Do I like red wine?
00:22:31Please
00:22:32Isn't that the best thing ever?
00:22:34Okay, good
00:22:34That's fucking nice
00:22:36You found the right place
00:22:37You found the right place
00:22:39I like talking to you
00:22:41Well, yeah, me too
00:22:42You have a really nice
00:22:43Convite
00:22:44I've given you a big star
00:22:45Oh, you have now?
00:22:46Oh, yeah
00:22:47Okay, I'll give you one too
00:22:49My strategy is just to say yes
00:22:51Say yes, yes, yes
00:22:52I think I've been standing in my own way without knowing it
00:22:57I've never really had a real relationship
00:22:59Nobody that I would call my boyfriend or anything
00:23:03What the hell?
00:23:05The idea that I could be married in a month is just wild
00:23:08But, yeah, you should just be saying yes to life
00:23:12So, of course, we will be
00:23:15This is going good
00:23:16It's happening now
00:23:17Good luck
00:23:18Number three
00:23:19Ah, there it is
00:23:22I became a Christian a few years ago
00:23:24So, I said a prayer where I asked God
00:23:26I can't be going out and looking for a woman
00:23:28So, if I'm meant to be with someone
00:23:31Please put me in a position where I can meet them
00:23:34Now I'm here
00:23:36That's the long and the short of it
00:23:38Everyone in Stockholm that I hang with are Christians
00:23:40I make a real effort to go to church every Sunday
00:23:44Yeah?
00:23:45What do you think about that?
00:23:46How do you feel about me not coming with you?
00:23:49Yeah
00:23:50Are you really religious then?
00:23:53I mean...
00:23:55Yeah
00:23:55Oh
00:23:57I've been celibate for three years
00:23:59What?
00:24:00I was thinking that I wouldn't have sex before I was married
00:24:03For real?
00:24:05Well, I'd never be able to sleep around
00:24:07That's something I don't get in our society today
00:24:10Yeah?
00:24:11That people just sleep with each other
00:24:12No matter how messy it gets
00:24:14I think people can do whatever they want
00:24:16The way I see it, it could be harmful
00:24:18It's one of the seven deadly sins for a really good reason
00:24:21Yeah
00:24:23Yeah
00:24:24Thank you so much for this date
00:24:25Yeah
00:24:26Same to you
00:24:28You and I have good vibes
00:24:29And I could see you being a really good friend
00:24:31Yeah
00:24:32But I'm not quite sure it could be more than that
00:24:35Yeah
00:24:37Okay
00:24:37And I hope you find what you're looking for
00:24:40Yeah, thanks
00:24:41Bye
00:24:42Bye
00:24:43Bye
00:24:46Bye
00:24:46Bye
00:24:46Bye
00:24:46It's fine if I'm friends with everybody
00:24:49But that's not realistic if I'm trying to have a relationship with somebody
00:24:53I hope through all of this that I find the woman who's made for me
00:24:56And I do hope there's one that is
00:24:58Where do you live?
00:25:00Uh...
00:25:01I moved to Stockholm because I wanted to live near family
00:25:04Yeah?
00:25:05Nice
00:25:05Family is something I think you should hold close
00:25:08Yeah
00:25:10I would say
00:25:11I mean
00:25:12I'm a Christian
00:25:14I'm a Christian too
00:25:15Mmm
00:25:16Mmm
00:25:22That got...
00:25:23It got kind of awkward because it was feeling so good
00:25:26I know
00:25:26No, I felt comfortable too
00:25:28It was just like
00:25:28Yeah, I was comfortable too, so it didn't really matter
00:25:30Yeah, exactly
00:25:35I usually fall, for the most part, for someone's personality
00:25:38The reason for everything
00:25:41I hope I meet someone that matches my energy
00:25:43Someone that walks around with a big smile like me
00:25:47And who appreciates life, no matter what
00:25:50I try not to take life so seriously anymore
00:25:52It can be frustrating sometimes
00:25:55And sometimes it's exciting
00:25:57And sometimes it's too much
00:25:58I know firsthand that I can be all of that
00:26:02You're all I need
00:26:06Hello, hello
00:26:07Holy crap!
00:26:08You scared me!
00:26:09Oh!
00:26:10Sorry!
00:26:11I don't usually...
00:26:14I'm so glad you're coming in with energy
00:26:16Don't get me wrong
00:26:17It sounded a little aggressive when you said it
00:26:19If my hello, hello is aggressive, I apologize
00:26:22No!
00:26:23Who am I talking to?
00:26:25My name is Lars Eric
00:26:27Lars Eric
00:26:28May I ask your name?
00:26:29My name is Ronia
00:26:31Where do you live?
00:26:32I live in Stockholm
00:26:33And you?
00:26:34I'm in Stockholm too
00:26:36Are you born and raised in Stockholm?
00:26:39I'm shocked you can't tell I'm from Dalarna
00:26:41Ah!
00:26:44I should have known
00:26:45I've played games with folks from there
00:26:48Really?
00:26:49What kind?
00:26:50Yeah, it's...
00:26:51I don't want to say computer games
00:26:55I see, so you're a computer nerd
00:26:57No, not now
00:26:58That was...
00:26:59That was back in the day
00:27:00Back in the day?
00:27:01Two months ago?
00:27:02Yeah
00:27:04Sweaty computer nerd
00:27:06This was a nice date
00:27:07Next!
00:27:10But what do you do when you're not at a LAN party?
00:27:12When I'm not at a LAN party, I drink Coke
00:27:15Definitely not Coke Zero
00:27:17Gotta be regular Coke too
00:27:18No, no, no
00:27:19I have to watch my calories because of all the cheese curls
00:27:27I have a very clear picture in front of me now
00:27:30And I'm Lars Eric on top of that
00:27:31I know
00:27:32That doesn't help
00:27:32It doesn't help at all
00:27:36I'm like, LAN parties, cheese curls, perfect
00:27:39We haven't got anything serious out of this date
00:27:47That was so...
00:27:48It was so magical
00:27:49I started saying that I go to LAN parties
00:27:52And eat cheese curls
00:27:54What?
00:27:54And drink Coke
00:27:55And eat crisp curls
00:27:56Crisp curls?
00:27:57Yeah, yeah, you know, crisp curls
00:27:58You're high on something else now
00:27:59I know
00:27:59Hell yeah
00:28:01That was a blast
00:28:02I'm here because for a long time now
00:28:04I've been missing that last piece in my life
00:28:07And that's him
00:28:11That was so damn funny
00:28:12I have everything else
00:28:14The only thing missing in my life
00:28:16Is that real special and safe feeling of
00:28:20It's the two of us
00:28:21And we support each other a hundred percent
00:28:25I've missed that
00:28:26Yeah, but now
00:28:27Now my smile is ear to ear
00:28:31Oh, that's amazing
00:28:32Imagine if one of them
00:28:34Is your husband?
00:28:35Yeah, that's crazy
00:28:39Thanks, guys
00:28:41Again tomorrow
00:28:42Damn it, I lost my pen
00:28:44It's on the table
00:28:44Yeah, uh...
00:28:47No, that was a knife
00:28:53Good day
00:28:54Good morning
00:28:55Oh, wow
00:28:57Look how nice
00:28:58Look at that
00:28:59Damn
00:28:59Cheers, girls
00:29:00Cheers
00:29:02Good luck
00:29:04It wouldn't be fun if it was tequila
00:29:08I'll do a magic trick for you, High Thumb
00:29:10Here you go
00:29:11Okay
00:29:11Choose any color you want
00:29:13Don't show me
00:29:14Then close the box and give it to me
00:29:15There you go
00:29:17Put it in my hand
00:29:19You thought about it?
00:29:20Yes
00:29:20I think you have thought of a color that has something to do with what we're doing here
00:29:25Love
00:29:26Can you do magic?
00:29:28Of course I can
00:29:30Red
00:29:33How did you know you bastard?
00:29:35Dah da da da da da da da da da da da da da da
00:29:39Are you ready for the rest of these guys?
00:29:42Cheers then
00:29:43Good luck
00:29:44I'm not
00:29:46Yeah, good luck yourself, man
00:29:50What a hell of an emotional thing this is
00:29:53What a journey
00:29:54Good luck!
00:29:55This is me
00:29:56Okay, good luck.
00:29:57Thanks.
00:29:58I have found my top one, top two, and top three.
00:30:02Problem is, it's the same person.
00:30:04Her name is Ellen.
00:30:05Is it Ellen?
00:30:06Yeah.
00:30:07It is.
00:30:09Ellen, my lady.
00:30:10I know her name, where she lives, and what she does, and that was enough.
00:30:14I didn't think you could have chemistry with only your voice.
00:30:18I hope we feel the same.
00:30:20I kind of feel creepy now, but you were the one that made the best impression on me.
00:30:24Okay.
00:30:25You just did.
00:30:26There's something about you.
00:30:28If I could put a finger on it, I'd point it out right now, but I can't put my finger
00:30:33on it.
00:30:33No, that...
00:30:34And that's what I like about you.
00:30:35How interesting.
00:30:36But now I'd like to hear why you wanted to see me again.
00:30:39Yeah, I feel that we...
00:30:40Well, I'll say this.
00:30:41I've always wanted somebody I could laugh with, and I do feel like we have a lot of fun.
00:30:46Yes.
00:30:47But then at the same time, I still feel very curious that I'd like to keep digging a little deeper.
00:30:52I mean, you come across as a very happy guy.
00:30:55You seem positive, and you're exuberant, you know?
00:30:59Like, you have a great main character energy.
00:31:02Yeah.
00:31:03Okay.
00:31:03That's nice.
00:31:04So, I want to know how you came to be like that.
00:31:07How I became who I am today?
00:31:09Yeah.
00:31:10Yeah, I don't know.
00:31:11I've been working in sales since 14, you know?
00:31:14Yeah, interesting.
00:31:15And everyone says to me, Danny, you could sell sand in the Sahara.
00:31:19As soon as I open my mouth, people listen.
00:31:23Hmm.
00:31:23Um, I suppose that's what made me who I am.
00:31:26Hmm.
00:31:26That's why people call saying, we're getting married, and you're Toastmaster.
00:31:30I like playing that role.
00:31:32It's fun, and I enjoy making people happy.
00:31:34And making people laugh.
00:31:35Hmm.
00:31:35I can totally see that with you.
00:31:37So, if you're asking what's my strength, that's it.
00:31:41Hmm.
00:31:42What's your strength?
00:31:43Hmm.
00:31:43I'm very caring, and I'm good at it.
00:31:45I love that part of myself.
00:31:46I genuinely do.
00:31:47It makes me happy to see others happy.
00:31:50Hmm.
00:31:50And I suppose that's why I'm so committed to children's rights, human rights, and social justice.
00:31:57Hmm.
00:31:58Those are important to me.
00:32:00That's nice.
00:32:01Are there things you really care about?
00:32:03Let's see.
00:32:04Things that I really care about would be, I mean, well, I think that common sense is a big thing
00:32:10for me.
00:32:11Okay.
00:32:11To know what is right and wrong.
00:32:13Like, when you were a kid, something like, no, don't pour milk on the carpet, that's wrong.
00:32:19Um, that was a horrible answer, Ellen.
00:32:22But I do mean what I said, because I'm not all that into politics.
00:32:26No.
00:32:26I don't know anything about religion.
00:32:28Common sense.
00:32:29Hmm.
00:32:29That's what I care about.
00:32:31That's it.
00:32:32Yeah.
00:32:33Of course.
00:32:34And that's a reasonable expectation to have on people, to have common sense.
00:32:41Absolutely.
00:32:41Well, okay.
00:32:42So we're trying to dig deeper with each other.
00:32:44Yes.
00:32:44And we are.
00:32:45Yeah.
00:32:46Slowly but surely, we're getting there.
00:32:47Yeah.
00:32:48But I do want to say that I think you really should go back and think a little bit on
00:32:54how
00:32:54you became who you are and what has shaped you.
00:32:57Because I feel like you're holding back a little.
00:33:00But I don't think I am.
00:33:01No?
00:33:02But I could maybe open up a little more.
00:33:04Yeah, I think so.
00:33:05You know?
00:33:05Because I'm so very much ready for this.
00:33:07Hmm.
00:33:08I really hope we see each other again.
00:33:09Yeah.
00:33:10And then I will be the absolute deepest version of myself.
00:33:13Then you can grade that.
00:33:15Yeah, good.
00:33:22I already know that Daniel is a very lovely, bubbly, and funny person.
00:33:28There's chemistry there because I can feel it in my chest.
00:33:31We still have to get to know each other better.
00:33:35And so now we have those little, those three little dots to be continued.
00:33:43We do have time to explore.
00:33:45And I think it's also healthy for me to practice really trying to feel what feels good and reflect
00:33:51on that.
00:33:53Hello?
00:33:54Hello.
00:33:55Hi.
00:33:56Who's there?
00:33:57It's Ellen.
00:34:00Hi, Ellen.
00:34:01Hi, Fabian.
00:34:02How are you?
00:34:03It's good.
00:34:04It's good.
00:34:05It's cool.
00:34:05That's nice.
00:34:05You?
00:34:06Yeah, I'm good.
00:34:07I'm going to drink some water.
00:34:09It's been a long day.
00:34:11Oh, let's see.
00:34:12I'm just sitting down here now.
00:34:14I'll do the same then.
00:34:15Well, yeah, please do.
00:34:17I think you should.
00:34:19Did you get any sleep?
00:34:21Yeah.
00:34:22Yeah?
00:34:23That's good.
00:34:24It's nice to hear your voice again.
00:34:27Oh, thank you very much.
00:34:29That's nice of you.
00:34:30But hey, I was hoping to ask, what things in your life do you think have shaped you?
00:34:38Well, this is something, but it's kind of hard.
00:34:41Um, but it happened in Buenos Aires.
00:34:45Yeah.
00:34:46And I lost my parents in an accident when I was 18.
00:34:51Oh, wow.
00:34:53That was really rough.
00:34:54But, yeah, I lost my mom and dad.
00:34:59And that was very traumatic.
00:35:02Yeah.
00:35:03And it was tough to stay in Argentina by myself.
00:35:08I was a teenager, so it wasn't easy.
00:35:13I miss my dad so much.
00:35:16I still would look around the streets to see if I would see him.
00:35:20Or when I was shopping around, buying my first car.
00:35:23Oh, I'll call dad and ask him about this.
00:35:25And then, oh, right.
00:35:26It took me a long time to realize they were gone.
00:35:28And so I decided to take my backpack and travel around the world.
00:35:35Hmm.
00:35:36And I tried to take all my feelings of frustration and loneliness and try to do something good.
00:35:45Directed at something that wasn't just good for me, but for others, too.
00:35:50Yeah.
00:35:50I went to Mexico first.
00:35:51I went to help with a natural disaster that had happened there in the emergency response unit.
00:36:00Then I did that in Peru and in Chile.
00:36:03Oh, that's so nice.
00:36:05I tried to fill up all that emptiness with love.
00:36:09And I feel that when I give, I get a lot back.
00:36:14Yeah.
00:36:15So.
00:36:16Sorry, I'm so, I'm just so moved by that.
00:36:19I'm sorry.
00:36:20No, you don't need to, my God.
00:36:23I just think it's so wonderful to be able to go through something that's so difficult
00:36:28and then be able to turn it into tenderness and warmth.
00:36:32Yes, but it's, thank you.
00:36:36You should be very proud of how you have handled your, your story, so to speak.
00:36:42You're so sweet.
00:36:43I feel really inspired.
00:36:45I think it's awesome when people go through such tough stuff and then choose to become
00:36:50a better person because of it.
00:36:52It was brave of you to share that.
00:36:54And I apologize because I'm just sitting here sniffling.
00:36:58No, no.
00:36:58I didn't mean to.
00:36:59It feels so good talking to you, so I'm just following my feelings, saying that it feels
00:37:06like I can talk with you about whatever.
00:37:09I hope we get to talk again.
00:37:11Me too.
00:37:12Yeah, and I won't have such a runny nose.
00:37:20I just opened up and said everything.
00:37:22And she just respected that, and she even said she was inspired by me.
00:37:31I can't believe it.
00:37:34The feelings I'm having for Ellen are coming so easily.
00:37:38She really takes me in, and that lets me open up and be myself in all the ways that I
00:37:44am.
00:37:45And that's something I've been looking for my entire life.
00:37:51It's just so crazy.
00:38:00I feel like this date just changed a lot.
00:38:03This last date has raised the bar for me.
00:38:06My expectations have definitely been raised.
00:38:08Give him a hug.
00:38:09Yeah.
00:38:10That's great.
00:38:11Nice, Fabian.
00:38:13I just can't believe it.
00:38:17So, can I know yours?
00:38:19Yes, Ellen.
00:38:20Oh.
00:38:20She's my number one.
00:38:24Do we have time to go to the bathroom?
00:38:29Ah, shit.
00:38:35I have insider information.
00:38:37Yes, okay then.
00:38:39Not that I think you need to be worried, but Fabian?
00:38:43Fabian?
00:38:44Ellen?
00:38:45Mm.
00:38:46It's top choice.
00:38:47Okay.
00:38:48She's definitely been my number one.
00:38:55It's starting to get real now.
00:38:57Hmm.
00:38:58I decided to end things with Joanna, because she basically said that a lot of the guys might not choose
00:39:04her.
00:39:06Because she lives in Sydney.
00:39:09Uh-huh.
00:39:09I feel kind of guilty about it now, because I didn't give her a chance.
00:39:14Mm-hmm.
00:39:16Come on over tonight.
00:39:19Okay, where are you going?
00:39:21I'm going to seven.
00:39:22Oh, really?
00:39:22I'm going to eight.
00:39:23Oh, you are?
00:39:23Are we neighbors?
00:39:25I've thought about it, and I totally understand that it might be a problem or could be stressful for them
00:39:30that I live in Sydney right now.
00:39:32And I think that I've been clear about, I mean, that I'm ready to move back here and start a
00:39:38family.
00:39:39So I don't think it should be seen as an actual problem, because it's not a problem for me.
00:39:44There are so many feelings right now.
00:39:46Mm.
00:39:47About what?
00:39:48About the fact that I live in Sydney.
00:39:52Most people know that you're fine moving, right?
00:39:54Yeah, I'm just hoping that I got that part across clearly.
00:39:58I think you were clear to me about that.
00:40:00That's good.
00:40:00Yeah, for sure.
00:40:01Then I can let that go.
00:40:03With me, you can.
00:40:04Are there things you miss about Sweden?
00:40:07I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic.
00:40:09Mm.
00:40:09My mom has been together with her husband for 30 years.
00:40:13Mm.
00:40:13Till this day, they're still like they just fell in love.
00:40:16That's sweet.
00:40:17I hear how they talk to each other with so much respect.
00:40:21It's important to me to have that, too, to be very honest about what your feelings, thoughts, and opinions are.
00:40:27Yeah, that's definitely what I want, too.
00:40:29Mm-hmm.
00:40:30And you're one of my favorites.
00:40:32Okay.
00:40:32I think it's because you're really easy to talk to.
00:40:35Huh.
00:40:36And...
00:40:36Is that because I'm so quiet?
00:40:38No.
00:40:39I just feel like you have a really great energy.
00:40:42Well, I'm really happy to hear that.
00:40:44That's good.
00:40:44I've been in my head thinking, oh, I need to let loose a little bit.
00:40:47There's a goofy side of me that I don't think comes out very much.
00:40:52But you can't ever really show every side of yourself at once.
00:40:56No.
00:40:56I mean, like, I'm super clumsy.
00:40:58Mm.
00:40:58So I fall over a lot.
00:41:00I walk into doors.
00:41:01I fall over.
00:41:02I've literally left face prints on doors because my...
00:41:07I remember this one party I was at.
00:41:09I walked out on the terrace, didn't know they closed the door behind me, realized I had forgotten something, and
00:41:16just ran back into the door.
00:41:19So then I kind of had to peel myself off.
00:41:23But my face was still stuck to the glass.
00:41:26I was so...
00:41:30I was like, God, this is embarrassing.
00:41:34Roll with the punches when you're clumsy.
00:41:36That's it, yeah?
00:41:38I'll stick you back together.
00:41:40Oh, yeah, I totally need somebody like you.
00:41:44I'd be like, take me to Ibrahim.
00:41:48Oh, you made me laugh.
00:41:50Hey, I'm going to put down that I'd like to see you again.
00:41:53I hope you do, so we can laugh again.
00:41:57If I can laugh with somebody like that every day of my life, I'll live until I'm 142.
00:42:03My whole life's ahead of me.
00:42:08I've been skeptical about this experiment.
00:42:11Did wonder how the hell we were going to hit it off with somebody.
00:42:14But it works.
00:42:16Feels like it does.
00:42:17There are definitely some women here that have what I'm looking for.
00:42:21It's Ibrahim.
00:42:22I knew it, but you're eBay in my notes.
00:42:25You have a nickname?
00:42:26Some of my friends call me Annie.
00:42:29Yeah, that's pretty.
00:42:30What didn't we have time for yesterday?
00:42:33Uh, other than music, are there other things that you like to do?
00:42:38I'm a big fan of doing stuff at home.
00:42:41Sometimes it's like, I build, I build custom stuff.
00:42:44What?
00:42:45I repod all my plants, or...
00:42:46What kind of custom build?
00:42:48I've got a custom built bookshelf with my TV in it, and...
00:42:50That you, that you built?
00:42:52Yeah.
00:42:52No way.
00:42:53And also, I've been doing a little bit of boxing.
00:42:58For real?
00:42:59You mean real boxing?
00:43:01Yeah.
00:43:02Yeah, nice.
00:43:03But also, like, I decided I wanted to try pole dance.
00:43:07So I also thought I should try that at the beginning of the year, too.
00:43:14But I'm like this.
00:43:15I'm always doing things like that.
00:43:17But that's what I've been looking for.
00:43:19I mean...
00:43:19You want to do things, you want to...
00:43:21I definitely want to be doing things.
00:43:22And I do love trying all kinds of new things, too.
00:43:25I love it.
00:43:26I never want to feel like I'm done learning, or be satisfied.
00:43:30I just want to keep growing and learning, you know?
00:43:32Yeah.
00:43:33That's great.
00:43:35Can you tell me more things I don't know about you?
00:43:37Okay.
00:43:38Yeah?
00:43:38Did I mention to you that I've co-authored an article together with a Nobel Prize winner?
00:43:44Oh, my God.
00:43:45That is so cool.
00:43:47Yeah, it's pretty cool.
00:43:48I've also lived in South America and lived in New York.
00:43:51Oh, okay.
00:43:52I play basketball.
00:43:54I do furniture carpentry, and I think I'm pretty good at it.
00:43:57Yeah.
00:43:58I'd love to hammer and sand with you, but you'd probably have to take the lead.
00:44:03Absolutely.
00:44:03I mean, I think you're better than me at that.
00:44:05Yeah.
00:44:06I don't know about that.
00:44:08Probably.
00:44:09Probably.
00:44:11Yeah.
00:44:12Oh, I like that.
00:44:13This is good stuff.
00:44:15It is.
00:44:16Yeah.
00:44:16It seems like we agree on a lot of stuff.
00:44:19God.
00:44:20Yeah.
00:44:22But, I mean, I've got a whole lot of bad sides to me, too, I guess, so...
00:44:26We all do.
00:44:27Yeah, true.
00:44:27I can be ridiculously stubborn.
00:44:29Me, too.
00:44:31What?
00:44:31We agree on that, too?
00:44:35Oh, but who are you?
00:44:37You're my dream world.
00:44:38No, stop it.
00:44:38I'm not joking.
00:44:41Oh.
00:44:43But, like...
00:44:44Tell me.
00:44:47There's a lot more I want to know about you, but...
00:44:50Yeah, if it doesn't feel like this, I don't want to date anybody else.
00:44:56Somehow, it feels pretty obvious to me.
00:44:59Mm-hmm.
00:45:00Not gonna be satisfied with anything less.
00:45:04Uh, I'm still dating a few people.
00:45:07Mm-hmm.
00:45:08Um, but I'm having an exceptional time here.
00:45:13Time here?
00:45:14Really?
00:45:14I think you're very nice in every way.
00:45:16Thanks.
00:45:17You are, too.
00:45:18I'm also really enjoying just being in this field.
00:45:21Yeah, me, too.
00:45:22Just lying here and smiling.
00:45:23It's crazy.
00:45:24Hey, have a fabulous day.
00:45:26Same to you.
00:45:27Have a good day.
00:45:28Bye.
00:45:28Bye.
00:45:34Ibrahim, Ibrahim Mubik, how are you?
00:45:36You in love?
00:45:37I'm in love.
00:45:38Are you now?
00:45:38I am.
00:45:40It's crazy that you can feel such an attraction to someone's personality like this.
00:45:46But, I mean, my dad told me to follow my brain, not my heart, but...
00:45:51I don't know.
00:45:57Hey!
00:46:00I'm so hot.
00:46:02I love it when you come back, because every time you do, you're like this.
00:46:05Aww.
00:46:08Like you're under a spell.
00:46:09But it's still so early.
00:46:11Only day two.
00:46:12Come on.
00:46:13Yeah.
00:46:13I mean...
00:46:14Think of it like this.
00:46:15Just keep on dating?
00:46:16Yeah, just keep going.
00:46:17Don't overthink it.
00:46:18Just be present.
00:46:19Whatever happens...
00:46:20Yeah.
00:46:21Happens.
00:46:22This experiment does get kind of scary and confusing, so it's important to keep some hope alive.
00:46:29Some faith, as I say.
00:46:31It'll be okay.
00:46:42I believe in God.
00:46:43And I'd love for my partner to also have someone.
00:46:49Something they believe in.
00:46:52There's a few things that you have to be compatible with to be able to manage a family life together.
00:47:00And I think there is only one man on the other side of the wall that I'm the most compatible
00:47:05with here.
00:47:06I'm a very moral person.
00:47:09Mm.
00:47:10Like, what's the Bible say?
00:47:12How to treat each other, things like that.
00:47:14Yes, that's a pretty big part of what I'm looking for.
00:47:17Yeah.
00:47:18Those values that you said.
00:47:20That's nice.
00:47:21Mm-hmm.
00:47:22Yeah.
00:47:23I was raised in a very Christian home.
00:47:25Mm.
00:47:26But my mother's passing made me...
00:47:29Brought you closer?
00:47:30Yeah.
00:47:31Mm.
00:47:32She died three years ago.
00:47:33Oh, I'm sorry.
00:47:35Yeah.
00:47:35And she was...
00:47:36Until she died, she was...
00:47:38Mm-hmm.
00:47:39She didn't complain at all.
00:47:40You could see how painful it was for her.
00:47:44Mm-hmm.
00:47:45It's tough to see someone close go through something and you can't even take the pain away from them.
00:47:50No, exactly.
00:47:51I can relate to that a little bit.
00:47:53Yeah.
00:47:54There was this time when my brother got sick.
00:47:56Um, a few years ago.
00:47:58And I had to be his caretaker.
00:48:00So I was the one that was there for him and took him to the hospital.
00:48:04Um, and also to his treatments.
00:48:07Yeah.
00:48:07And I tried my best to make him feel better.
00:48:10You were there at his darkest time then, it sounds like.
00:48:13Exactly.
00:48:13And that was when I got closer to God.
00:48:16And I just felt like someone has to take this.
00:48:19It's too heavy for me to carry alone.
00:48:21Yeah.
00:48:21Yeah, so it helped me during that time.
00:48:23Mm-hmm.
00:48:23A lot.
00:48:24Um, so I hear what you're saying.
00:48:27Yeah.
00:48:29Um, I don't usually open up just like that.
00:48:33Yeah.
00:48:34Um, so, yeah, I want you to know that I like talking to you.
00:48:40It's comfortable.
00:48:41Yeah.
00:48:42And being here with you is like being at home.
00:48:46Yes, I feel the same way.
00:48:48Mm, cool.
00:48:50I mean...
00:48:54I'm just smiling over here.
00:48:56Me too.
00:48:58This is...
00:49:01This is crazy.
00:49:03See you tomorrow.
00:49:04See you.
00:49:05I can't wait.
00:49:06Me neither.
00:49:12It's weird to be dating again, I gotta say.
00:49:14A lot's happened in a short amount of time.
00:49:18I'm feeling things that I haven't felt in a long time.
00:49:23I clicked with the net.
00:49:25Amazing person.
00:49:27Similar values.
00:49:28It's good.
00:49:30Same faith.
00:49:31Promising.
00:49:34Good luck.
00:49:38Rania is another person that I'm really into.
00:49:41She's very easy to talk to and there's lots of laughs.
00:49:44But I haven't told her I'm a Christian.
00:49:47That worries me.
00:49:49I think my faith's a wonderful thing, but I'm actually a pretty wonderful person too.
00:49:53So it would be really great not to be cast out because of it.
00:49:57Good luck.
00:49:58Have fun.
00:50:01Hello, hello.
00:50:02Hello, hello.
00:50:04Ah.
00:50:05This is the sweetest thing I've seen so far.
00:50:08The LAN party guy who eats cheese curls and drinks Coca-Cola.
00:50:12Yeah.
00:50:13Perfect.
00:50:14How are you?
00:50:16I'm good.
00:50:17Better hanging with you.
00:50:19Well, I'm happy to hear that.
00:50:20Yeah.
00:50:21Let's see if we've got any deal breakers then.
00:50:24Let's do that.
00:50:25So is there something really out there that...
00:50:29I mean, the only thing I...
00:50:31I don't know if I mentioned it.
00:50:36I am a person of faith.
00:50:39So I want a very stable family, a husband and wife.
00:50:44And I haven't been intimate with anybody in years.
00:50:49Because I think your body is the most sacred thing there is.
00:50:53So we shouldn't give that away too freely.
00:51:02I don't care how people treat their bodies and sex.
00:51:07I really don't care what other people choose to do.
00:51:10And I suppose that's what I'm thinking about.
00:51:14Yes.
00:51:14Because if you judge people for choosing how they want to live regarding sex...
00:51:20I...
00:51:20We're very different that way and I wanted to say so.
00:51:23I don't judge anyone for how they live their lives.
00:51:26Absolutely not.
00:51:27And I'm not religious.
00:51:29It's important to me to be with somebody that...
00:51:32Aside from your beliefs and how you want to live...
00:51:35That you have an open mind when it comes to other people.
00:51:38Yeah.
00:51:39Yeah.
00:51:40I do.
00:51:40Yeah.
00:51:41I accept everyone for who they are.
00:51:44A good example is one of my best friends is a gay man.
00:51:47And he only talks about sex when we hang out.
00:51:51I still want to understand the world.
00:51:53Yeah.
00:51:54I read a lot of different religions, different philosophies.
00:51:58I became a Christian when my mom passed.
00:52:01She was a Christian her whole life.
00:52:03And then...
00:52:07Sorry, I got quiet.
00:52:09I'm just...
00:52:09No.
00:52:10She passed away three years ago?
00:52:13I'm so sorry to hear that.
00:52:16Thank you.
00:52:17It's just that...
00:52:19Whenever I open up to somebody that I'm interested in...
00:52:24I get more emotional than I would saying it in passing.
00:52:28This is more intimate.
00:52:30Makes sense.
00:52:31Yeah.
00:52:31And I want you to know that if we decide to continue meeting and keep going, I really want to
00:52:39know everything.
00:52:40It's important you know that you can feel understood by me too.
00:52:44Yeah.
00:52:44Because my mother passed away five years ago now in November.
00:52:50So I know what it feels like to lose someone that you've loved so completely and what it does to
00:52:56you and the journey you have to go through.
00:52:59I also needed a break from everything for a while because I felt I had lost myself.
00:53:04Yeah.
00:53:04So I want you to understand that even though your mom had her path and my mom had hers, it
00:53:12sounds like we both loved our mothers very much.
00:53:15For me, it was like my mom was the only woman who loved me unconditionally.
00:53:22I mean, whatever I did, she'd say, I love you, son.
00:53:27As a mother, she did the best thing ever.
00:53:33But...
00:53:35God, I mean, I...
00:53:38I feel very emotional.
00:53:40It's really special.
00:53:41It's important that we're talking about this, to be allowed to be sensitive and soft and vulnerable too.
00:53:58For the first time in a very long time, I'm left speechless.
00:54:02And that's so cool.
00:54:06Wow.
00:54:08He's amazing.
00:54:12He's the one I've been laughing with this whole time.
00:54:15And then he was also able to show me a lot of his softer side.
00:54:20He said he'd lost his mom too.
00:54:22No.
00:54:23Yeah.
00:54:24And God, I'm getting sad again.
00:54:27And I felt like, wow, now here's somebody that really gets me.
00:54:32Tell me who it is.
00:54:34Okay.
00:54:34Lars Ehrig.
00:54:37What?
00:54:38No, our guys are different guys.
00:54:40Yeah, that was...
00:54:42Damn, that's good.
00:54:51From a very young age, I've always been the kind of girl that wanted family and kids early.
00:54:58That didn't happen.
00:55:00That's the only thing I feel is missing in my life.
00:55:03So I'm on here to find...
00:55:05The one.
00:55:08How are you feeling?
00:55:11When I think about Aaron, the chemistry's there and my gut feels good.
00:55:15Good luck, boys.
00:55:17He feels exciting.
00:55:20I love cuddling.
00:55:22You?
00:55:22Yeah, I mean, yeah.
00:55:24If you're still in bed when I get up in the morning, I will come back to kiss you goodbye.
00:55:29You can always kiss me goodbye.
00:55:31Yeah, I mean, I will be kissing you goodbye every day.
00:55:34I'll always kiss you goodbye before I leave.
00:55:37And, well, if I have a lot of extra time that day, I will get into bed for a little
00:55:41bit before I have to leave and cuddle you and kiss you.
00:55:45That's gonna be tricky.
00:55:46Stop it.
00:55:47Then you'll have to shower again after that.
00:55:50What?
00:55:51Oh, God.
00:55:52What did you say?
00:55:56Now I've got a certain image in my head.
00:55:59Oh, you do?
00:56:00Yeah.
00:56:01That sounds nice.
00:56:05Can I ask you something?
00:56:07Okay.
00:56:08I just want to be super clear about what I feel that I need from a partner.
00:56:15Yeah.
00:56:15I'm still establishing myself, the business I have now.
00:56:19But there's parts that are very much up in the air, and it's not a sure thing yet.
00:56:27So, because of that, I feel like I need somebody that can be supportive.
00:56:31Yeah.
00:56:32And that is, for me, that means, are you open to possibly, at some point, living abroad in order to
00:56:38manage some of it?
00:56:40Mm.
00:56:44You mean for short periods?
00:56:47Or long?
00:56:48Or long.
00:56:49Long periods.
00:56:51Maybe.
00:56:51I see.
00:56:55Well...
00:56:57Yeah.
00:56:59Sure, I would be willing to do that.
00:57:01No problem.
00:57:02Yeah?
00:57:03No.
00:57:04I mean, what I really want is that we motivate each other, that we prioritize enjoying life together, and that
00:57:13we have fun together.
00:57:15I love that you say that.
00:57:17Yeah?
00:57:18Because that's so important.
00:57:20But I have a lot more to say.
00:57:23Hear it tomorrow?
00:57:25Yeah, I really hope so.
00:57:27Or are you unsure?
00:57:28No, that's up to you.
00:57:30Why?
00:57:30You know I want to see you.
00:57:32But you know I want to see you, too.
00:57:35Okay.
00:57:35Talk tomorrow.
00:57:36Okay.
00:57:37Okay, bye.
00:57:38Bye.
00:57:38With the power of us.
00:57:43Oh.
00:57:44Oh, the crazy.
00:57:46What's going on?
00:57:48Oh, shit.
00:57:49Okay, Don Juan.
00:57:52When I think about Aaron, there's chemistry and a really good gut feeling.
00:57:57He's warm and can give a lot of love.
00:57:59I will feel seen in this relationship.
00:58:01Feeling good?
00:58:02I'm tired now.
00:58:04He's in the middle of setting up his own business.
00:58:07And he doesn't know what that's going to look like down the line yet.
00:58:12And the person I want to leave this experiment with, I imagine would be somebody that's already
00:58:20got all that figured out.
00:58:22We'd move in and go for it.
00:58:24Just settle down and start a family.
00:58:27But I get the feeling that that might not be the case if I choose to continue with him.
00:58:33And that's scary.
00:58:35Mm.
00:58:36Because the chemistry's good.
00:58:38Ah.
00:58:41Who knows?
00:58:42Yeah, I mean.
00:58:44Fuck.
00:58:48I think I'm done if it's not an easier one.
00:58:50What a mess.
00:58:52Ida, I want your right hand on yellow.
00:58:56Okay.
00:58:56Can you?
00:58:57Yes.
00:58:58Yes.
00:58:58No, I can't.
00:58:59No!
00:59:01Oh, but that still looks great, though.
00:59:05I just want a ten-hour date with my number one.
00:59:09Who is it, then?
00:59:11Aniela.
00:59:12I see.
00:59:14Pretty sure she likes me.
00:59:16She said it anyway.
00:59:18But I know she's got a few others, too.
00:59:19A few others.
00:59:21But it's still so early, so I get it.
00:59:23It's not that weird.
00:59:26I'm not into anybody else, really, so I'll just end it with them today.
00:59:30Maybe that's stupid.
00:59:32Who knows?
00:59:32But right now, I don't see myself caring more for anybody.
00:59:36You know?
00:59:37Do you feel like you have any more clarity on where you stand with anybody?
00:59:43No.
00:59:43No?
00:59:44It's still so early.
00:59:46It's so early, and I think I'm still having fun.
00:59:49Yeah.
00:59:50Hmm.
00:59:51I've had a number one the whole time.
00:59:53We've laughed until I cried.
00:59:55He's so funny.
00:59:57Get your man and get your ass home so we can hang out.
01:00:00Right?
01:00:00That'd be so nice.
01:00:01Yes, nice.
01:00:02Of course we should hang out.
01:00:03Of course we should hang out.
01:00:04Yes, damn it.
01:00:05Come home, girl.
01:00:09I mean, I feel excited.
01:00:12I was a little worried at first.
01:00:14Can I feel through a wall?
01:00:16But now it's feeling like I probably can.
01:00:19And there's somebody that's really standing out.
01:00:27And I'm feeling like I want to dig a little deeper emotionally on this next day.
01:00:33And see what's there.
01:00:36This is such a crazy big chance for me to find the love of my life.
01:00:42And I will try my best to be brave and open up.
01:00:49Hello.
01:00:50Hey.
01:00:50Hey.
01:00:51A favorite on the other side.
01:00:54Thank you.
01:00:55I'm glad we're here so we can be a little more serious than we were before.
01:00:59Yeah.
01:00:59I've had lots of fun with you.
01:01:01I haven't laughed more with anyone else.
01:01:04I love that you think I'm funny.
01:01:06I definitely do.
01:01:08And I had so much fun.
01:01:09We were really able to share a laugh.
01:01:12You did jump up to second place.
01:01:14Oh, yeah?
01:01:15Great to hear.
01:01:16But I still feel that the first place is pretty...
01:01:52I don't know what to say.
01:01:53I don't know.
01:01:54I feel what I feel.
01:01:56Yeah.
01:01:57But that's okay.
01:02:01You leaving?
01:02:02Yes.
01:02:03I understand.
01:02:05I need someone to play with me.
01:02:21Come here, love.
01:02:24Oh, yeah.
01:02:25It's pretty hard.
01:02:26My number one dumped me.
01:02:30It's over.
01:02:31God damn it.
01:02:33Yeah.
01:02:34You can say whatever you want about the fact that we haven't known them very long, but it's just not
01:02:39about that.
01:02:39We've built this up, and we have high hopes and expectations.
01:02:43Yeah, that's how I feel.
01:02:44And then it's sad that it didn't come true.
01:02:47I'm not sad about that I didn't.
01:02:49About that guy.
01:02:50No, exactly.
01:02:51I'm sad that...
01:02:53Your future plans?
01:02:54Yeah, I mean, I was ready to meet my man and get married in a few weeks, and now that's
01:03:00gone.
01:03:00And now I'm going back to the dating circus that I hate.
01:03:05Oh, it's crazy.
01:03:07I'll put all my eggs in one basket, and I don't know.
01:03:11Could have dated her forever.
01:03:13No.
01:03:14Time just flew by when we meet.
01:03:16But do you regret what you did?
01:03:18I think I should have given her a chance.
01:03:21Yeah, I get it.
01:03:24We're going to lie down for a bit.
01:03:26Go for it.
01:03:28I'll be here.
01:03:29Yeah, thanks, bro.
01:03:35I think it's going to be okay.
01:03:37I've got that feeling.
01:03:40Thanks.
01:03:41Fabian says all the right things.
01:03:43But then I've had this little feeling, this funny little feeling with Daniel.
01:03:49What sort of weird thing is that?
01:03:52Yeah.
01:03:53I'm excited.
01:03:54I gave him homework.
01:03:55We talk a lot about what does she need.
01:03:59Like, in a relationship.
01:04:01But that's not deep.
01:04:02What?
01:04:03I'm talking about the shit that makes you both weep.
01:04:06What?
01:04:07I can't make shit up that didn't happen.
01:04:08That's what I mean.
01:04:09I'm sorry.
01:04:10I wish I'd been in a goddamn plane crash or something.
01:04:13Just have something to say.
01:04:14My God, how deep of you to tell me.
01:04:17Now I've got to make something up.
01:04:21Ellen, she says we have to get deep to know each other.
01:04:24But, uh, deep, what does that mean?
01:04:27I mean, some people open up.
01:04:30But I haven't been through any trauma.
01:04:32Am I not deep then?
01:04:34Because I can't talk about that kind of stuff.
01:04:36I can't look for something that's not there.
01:04:40We're sitting out there, the boys, and they're all saying,
01:04:43I got deep today with my date.
01:04:45Oh, just like that.
01:04:47And they've been telling me some sad story.
01:04:50Okay.
01:04:51I don't have anything in my life that would be considered tragic.
01:04:54No, but I think that maybe that's a common misconception that many people have.
01:05:00That you need to have been through some deep trauma to be able to talk about meaningful things.
01:05:06But I'm more interested in learning how you became who you are.
01:05:10Exactly.
01:05:11And the feeling I get from you is that you have a very big heart in that chest of yours.
01:05:17But you might not find anything that I need help with.
01:05:21And I'm worried because maybe there's someone else here that makes you feel like.
01:05:25This person's actually, he needs me.
01:05:28I need someone to share my life with.
01:05:30Yes.
01:05:30But I don't need a therapist.
01:05:32I'm not looking for someone to help me.
01:05:35I want someone to live with.
01:05:36Yeah, no, it wasn't my intention to make you feel like you were talking to a therapist.
01:05:41And if that's how you felt, I'm sorry.
01:05:43Let's put it this way, Ellen.
01:05:45Imagine I was in a car crash when I was a kid.
01:05:48And I lost my best friend.
01:05:51And I'm sitting here crying.
01:05:53Wouldn't you feel like we have a special relationship?
01:05:56Yes, of course.
01:05:57Yeah, so the guy that experienced a car crash is ahead of me.
01:06:01Just because I haven't been in a car crash.
01:06:04No, I really don't agree with that at all.
01:06:06No, but tell me.
01:06:07Tell me how I'm wrong.
01:06:09That trauma isn't everything that person is.
01:06:12It's a tiny part of a person.
01:06:13There are so many aspects of what makes you...
01:06:15Well, Ellen, that didn't answer my question.
01:06:17The question I asked was, if I had cried and told you about this car crash when I was a
01:06:23kid,
01:06:23and then another guy came in and didn't cry or become emotional,
01:06:28wouldn't you feel you had a deeper connection with the first guy?
01:06:32I just want a yes or no answer.
01:06:33I just want a yes or no answer.
01:07:03I just want a yes or no answer.
01:07:11I can't be your villain.
01:07:33Gracias.
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