00:00Friends cannot be accidental. I just met someone during my journey to Chennai
00:07and you know, you're great friends now. You check into your hostel and your
00:14roommate, he becomes your friend. Now that kind of friendship is hardly any
00:20good. The probability of that being fruitful friendship or an elevating
00:26relationship is one in hundred. You have to be tremendously lucky to find a great
00:31friend just by chance. That cannot happen that way. For example, let's say you want
00:37to be a badminton player. So what do you do? And you do not know where to find a
00:45right partner. You start doing whatever you can. You start maybe bouncing the
00:52shuttle off the wall of your room. And then when you when you do that you get
00:56fed up of yourself. You say, I need a proper coat. And when you find that coat
01:02you find there are others on that coat. And those others are the one who prove
01:09good to you and are fit to be called friends. If you want to find people who
01:16really deserve to be called friends, then you need to aspire and endeavor. You need
01:24to look at yourself, see where you lack, see how you can shed your weaknesses. And in
01:32that process of inner effort and honesty, you will come across people who will be
01:39better than accidental finds.
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