00:04I came to the point that I need to take a little bit to fit in.
00:13I mean, no lies here.
00:15But of course, especially if you start working in a different place.
00:19Of course, you have to try to fit in.
00:22But I don't think that I came to the point that I'm a social climber to the point that I'm
00:27going out of my way.
00:29Yung iba kasi when you say social climber, parang they're putting too much effort to the point na sila na
00:35inaapektuhan just to try to fit in.
00:37Or just to try to climb the social.
00:39Let's say, para lang masabing you're keeping up with today's trends.
00:44Uutang ka ng malaki para makaroon ng bonggang phone.
00:48Uy, yung kaibigan ko may ganyan.
00:50Parang naiingit ka na to the point na, yun nga, you're going out of your way just to try to
00:54fit in.
00:55Yun yung parang hindi na healthy sa pagiging social climber.
00:59So sa tingin mo, yung alimbawa yung sa standards mo, yung mga ginawa mo to like climb the social.
01:06Sabi mo nga, sa tingin mo ba masama siya?
01:10Depende sa goal.
01:12Pero to answer your question, I don't see anything wrong about you being social climber.
01:18It's just that kung hanggang saan level ka ng pagiging social climber, nagiging social climber.
01:25Just like me, I'm a content creator and may mga times na uma-attend tayo ng mga events.
01:29Yes.
01:30Ato, uma-attend tayo ng mga events.
01:31Minsan kailangan i-adjust mo the way how you speak.
01:34Hindi mo pwedeng yung kanal-kanalang kung bunga nga.
01:37Bigla kang i-invitayin sa mga gayla-gayla na ganyan-ganyan.
01:40Bigla kang magkakanal-kanalan doon.
01:43You're not trying to climb the social.
01:45You were just trying to adjust and to adapt to whatever the environment needs.
01:51At nakakapagod yun ah.
01:52Actually, it is.
01:55Hindi, nakakapagod yung gano'ng, nawawala yung pagiging naturalesa mo.
02:00Tapos gusto mo maki-fit.
02:02I mean, para sa akin, sobrang nakakapagod yun.
02:04Iisipin mo yung gagawin mo, sasabihin mo.
02:06Tapos, maaansa ka pa na, okay ba yun?
02:09Okay ba yung ginawa ko na yun?
02:10Actually, pero again, there's a thin line.
02:13There's a thin line between you adjusting to whatever the environment needs
02:18or you being yourself.
02:20Kailangan, you meet halfway.
02:22Kasi kailangan, hindi naman po pwedeng lagi kang totoo sa sarili mo.
02:25Yes.
02:26May i-adjust mo rin yung sarili mo to the need of whoever is around you.
02:31I think, ano eh, yung sinasabi mo na parang safe zone,
02:35na pag sa social climate, kitinuro to sa school eh.
02:38Ay, sa pobeda.
02:40Sa pobeda.
02:40Sa pobeda.
02:41Tsaka yung ano, yung halibawa, sapatos mo, hindi man branded.
02:46Malingis.
02:46Presentable.
02:47Yan.
02:48It's how you present yourself.
02:49I think andun lang yung safe.
02:51Pero yung sinasabi mo, pag gumastos ka, pabumili ka ng...
02:54Na hindi namang kailangan.
02:55Oo.
02:56Yung na-mention mo kasi, parang, kailangan din siyang gawin.
02:59Kasi it matters the way how we present ourselves to the people.
03:02Let's say, nasa business tayo, meeting, blah, blah, blah.
03:04It really matters.
03:06So, pero yung ganun nga, kailangan mo pang bumili ng napakamahal just to impress people.
03:11Pero naintindihan ko yung mga ganyang tao naman din.
03:14What if, kung galing din sila sa hirap, tapos yung tao na inabigyan ng pagkakataon na yumaman,
03:19o nagkaroon ng pera, tapos ginawa nilang yung bagay na, I think they deserve it.
03:23Pero I don't think that's social climbing anymore.
03:25Kasi you can already afford it, man.
03:27Yes, yes.
03:28Tsaka, you're not going out of your way anymore.
03:31I can just simply, um, um, kaya ko nang bilhin to.
03:35I can just simply afford it.
03:36So I'm just gonna buy it.
03:37So there's nothing wrong about it naman.
03:39Tama.
03:41More tawa mo saya.
03:49More tawa mo saya.
03:54More tawa mo saya.
