00:00È magari un'un-British cosa di credere nei migliori persone, ma credo che sia una lezione brillante che credo
00:08che tutti potremmo imparare.
00:16La famiglia in cui siamo nati e a quelle che ci creiamo lungo la strada. Al Richmond! Al Richmond!
00:22Ted è così bello, è quasi distruttivo. Siamo più usati oggi a ritirare persone come Jenny, quindi in tua opinione,
00:33perché essere bello è così bello oggi?
00:35Wow, that's a really good question. I think that there is a vulnerability that comes with being nice. I think
00:42that you leave yourself open for people to, you know, take benefit out of you, giving them space to be
00:52themselves, to say something, to think something.
00:54And I think that, you know, I think that, I think that people have a lot of opinions and they
01:02have lots of space to talk about those opinions now.
01:06But, you know, I think that, I think that people always want kindness. I think they always want to believe
01:12that we can be kind.
01:14And I, and I personally think that we are all kind, as default, we are all kind. And I think
01:22that, I think that rather than it being weird, I think that people see that and they're reminded that that
01:28they can do that, that they can be that.
01:32And so, yeah, I don't know. I guess that there's, there's a lot of opportunity for people to voice their
01:40opinion these days, but I think that a show like this maybe offers people just a moment of understanding, of
01:50empathy, you know, of listening.
01:52And I think that kindness comes from, from those things.
01:55Ted said that being curious is more important than being judgmental.
02:01So do you believe that he's got a point? We must be more curious and less judgmental.
02:08Um, but yeah, it's, it's, it's one of the things that it feels strange for me being in the show
02:13to take into my life and to encourage people to do, but it's since it's been such a huge takeaway
02:19for me that I think it's a great idea to be curious, ask people why they are the way they
02:25are, you know, ask people, even if you don't agree with it, you know, try to understand.
02:30It's hard, like it's hard. I think that's the thing. That's the thing that Ted Lasso is good at showing
02:35and exploring is that whilst they're nice ideas, it's really difficult to do it.
02:41And I think you see with Jamie, it's really difficult for him to, you know, be kind and to be
02:47curious and to, um, give people the benefit of the doubt.
02:51Uh, I, it's a difficult thing to do from day to day.
02:55And so I think that it's such a beautiful line. Um, be curious, not judgmental. And I think that a
03:02lot of people, I think it's, it's one of those things that you're like, oh yeah, that makes sense.
03:07It makes a lot of sense. And I think for a lot of people watching the show, I think that
03:11they've really heard that and it's a really wonderful thing.
03:14And so, yes, be curious, not judgmental.
03:17Ted has put, um, a sign with the word believe in the locker room. Um, do you believe, um, do
03:26you believe that believing is important?
03:28But sometimes it's so difficult. So how can we believe?
03:33Well, I mean, as an England fan, it's difficult to believe that we're going to win the Euros. Um, but
03:38you must believe. Um, I think that we're hardwired to believe.
03:42I think that we, you know, hope is the thing with feathers. We are, we are, uh, hardwired to want
03:48things to be better.
03:50I think that if we all lived a sort of life where, um, we expected everything to get worse, you
03:59wouldn't get up in the, in, you know, you wouldn't get out of bed in the morning.
04:02Um, but also I think whilst we believe that things would be better, I think believing that life is not
04:11straightforward and is not easy is also a really important thing.
04:15And I think, yes, believe in hope. Yes. Believe in the best of people, but also understand, you know, being
04:23curious, understanding that people may be going through things that are difficult and mean that they are not the best,
04:30their best selves or their, you know, whatever.
04:32Um, you know, it's, it's, it's maybe an un-British thing to believe in the best of people.
04:40Um, but I think it's a brilliant lesson that I think, you know, I think that we all could learn.
04:46Okay. Thank you so much. Great work. You are amazing. Bye.
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