00:00Two people love the child very much, but between them there is a lot of conflict, husband and wife.
00:05What is the impact on the child and how can the parent help the child to be a stable adult?
00:10When you are fighting, you know, you become very, very self-centered, extremely selfish.
00:14When you are fighting, then the ego is aroused to unimaginable levels.
00:19You forget all about anybody else.
00:22In the moment of aggressive excitement, you are totally yourself, you are totally the little self, you are totally the
00:31petty ego.
00:32And then the other's welfare, the other's concerns just cease to matter.
00:37When the woman is fighting the man or vice versa, then it becomes very immaterial to both of them what
00:43is happening to the child.
00:44And in the process of winning that petty battle, what is happening to the kid becomes insignificant.
00:50The solution lies in basic inner transformation.
00:54And that inner transformation will become easier if the parents see that they have some love for the kid.
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