00:27If
00:29somebody's ego blinds so much that
00:31they are not open to see
00:33others' opinion and can only believe
00:34that they are correct or right,
00:36how do we open their eyes?
00:39Why you want to open their eyes?
00:42You have to adjust
00:43with them and solve
00:45the requirement. I don't want to
00:47change their opinion.
00:49Just you can say, this is my opinion.
00:51Whatever your opinion is with you,
00:53my opinion is with me.
00:54Don't say your opinion is with you, but you are
00:57always correct, but inside
00:59mind you have to say, by your
01:00viewpoint, not by fact.
01:04Because we
01:05have to adjust, otherwise
01:07we will
01:08stop our progress. He don't want to
01:11get any progress, but we are losing our
01:12progress. So we have to adjust
01:15and we have to
01:17accept whatever you are believing is okay.
01:19This is my viewpoint, this is your viewpoint.
01:21I want to get my progress.
01:24Don't
01:25change their opinion.
01:26Don't
01:27open their eyes.
01:29He want to
01:30know something more, then we will
01:32help you.
01:33Them.
01:34He don't want to, he is reserved, he don't want
01:36anything, then don't change them.
01:39And one thing
01:40there, if you are
01:42adjusting that person,
01:44automatically he will feel something different.
01:46because other people, they are attacking him or blaming them.
01:52And we are not giving any blame, any attack.
01:56We are, instead of attacking, we are adjusting them.
02:00So he will feel better than other person.
02:04And that will help.
02:06In future, sometimes, if you say,
02:08my opinion is so and so,
02:10whatever you are believing,
02:12you can see this,
02:14this is some
02:15thing, you want to
02:17understand something like that.
02:19If you say, he will accept for it,
02:21because you have not hurt him.
02:23And
02:24he don't want to change his opinion,
02:27but we should not give
02:28any opinion for that.
02:30He is so and so person,
02:32he is reserved person,
02:33he is a
02:33feeling that always right,
02:35he is wrong sometimes,
02:37but don't give any opinion
02:38for him.
02:39If you care about the person,
02:41you want
02:42them to see,
02:43you want them to
02:46you want them to be open,
02:48you don't want them to be
02:49closed
02:50in the way that their ego is
02:52blocking them
02:53from believing anything else
02:54that anybody says.
02:56No, but you do conversation only.
02:58Whenever, if you say,
02:59you think for this,
03:00this is my opinion,
03:02now you study,
03:03whatever you are deciding,
03:04you are believing,
03:05it is okay for you,
03:06but this is my viewpoint.
03:08And if you have,
03:09if you don't have any
03:10insistence,
03:11then he will
03:12think for
03:12your opinion,
03:13your suggestion.
03:16Because
03:18if you pull
03:18and he will pull,
03:20then there will not be
03:21any
03:21compromisation.
03:23If you leave
03:24your opinion
03:25and you will see
03:26his viewpoint,
03:27then he will try
03:28to see
03:28your viewpoint.
03:30That will helpful,
03:31little helpful
03:32for him.
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