00:00Pwede niyo po kami kwentuhan kung paano po nagkahulugan yung loob niyo noong?
00:04He was skuro my first love, you know, so mga bata pa kami.
00:08So at that time po, finally, nung gumitiyo po kayo, what went wrong?
00:25Pilang isa po kayo sa pinakamagagandang nipa, marami po talagang nanligaw sa inyo noong...
00:31Marami yan, definitely. Marami yan, oo.
00:35Pwede po bang pangalan?
00:37Ay, hindi, hindi, wala.
00:38Ay, talaga gusto niyo ng cheese, miss.
00:41Noong pa naman yun.
00:43Ayun po, pero definitely po, no, hindi makakalimutan din ng mga sumusuporta sa inyo na isa po sa mga tumatakda
00:51na karelasyon po niyo noon ay si Mr. J. Ilaga, the late J. Ilaga.
00:56Yes, definitely.
00:57Pwede niyo po kami kwentuhan kung paano po nagkahulugan yung loob niyo noon?
01:01I think kasi we both work for Lea Productions, so I met him there at age 12, 13.
01:09So, magkasama na kami doon. He was siguro my first love, you know, so mga bata pa kami.
01:16So, yun, doon na-develop. Ano mo namang uso noon yung mga love team, love team, di ba?
01:20So, hindi kami magka-love team, magkasama kami palagi.
01:24So, yun.
01:25And tama po ba na you were 16 and he was 18 when you got married?
01:32Paano po yun? Nangyari? Pumayag po ang parents?
01:36Ay, well, yeah. Actually, kaya yung nangyari because nahuli kami ng parents, nung mother ko.
01:42So, parang sapilitan na lang yun.
01:44E, nung araw, mga makaluma ang mga nana, ang magulang.
01:49So, numalabas kami ng patagon, nung huli kami.
01:52Wala naman kami ginagawang masama, pero mga bawal yun, mga ganyan nung araw.
01:57So, yung marriage na yun was a secret actually kasi nga hindi pwede sa amin yun.
02:01And then, we did not live together talaga.
02:03Hindi kami magkasama. I had my own home and, you know, he stayed in his own place.
02:07So, nakatago talaga yun.
02:09Correct.
02:09Saka, during that time, iba pa yung tradisyon eh.
02:12Iba, yung mga nandiligaw sa akin nun, nakaupo.
02:14Ang producer ko dyan, nandun yung nandiligaw, nandun yung nanay ko, nandito ako.
02:19I mean, like, ganun yung, ganun yung araw, hindi ka tulad ngayon, kanya-kanya na.
02:24Maraming shakaroon talaga.
02:25Oo, talaga nakabantay, nakatago, wala ka halos ba sabi, nakatanga ka lang doon.
02:30And then, ano po, you were, what age na finally you were able to live together po?
02:37We never did.
02:39Ever, ever?
02:40Throughout the whole marriage?
02:42Ah, umabot po kayo ng almost 10 years po?
02:45No, on and off kami.
02:48Kasi naman, babaero, ano?
02:52So, on and off, on and off yun.
02:55The ladies love, Jay.
02:57Oh my gosh.
02:58So, at that time po, um, finally, nung gumitiyo po kayo, what went wrong?
03:06Um, it's because of them.
03:08A lot of things.
03:09Marami, marami.
03:10It's not just that.
03:11Maraming bagay.
03:12It just didn't work.
03:13And I think because we were too young, that's why I always told my kids,
03:16wag kayong mag-asawa ng, I tell everybody that wag kayong mag-asawa ng maaga.
03:21It does not work.
03:23That's wisdom.
03:24Yeah, does not work.
03:26It does not work.
03:26Okay, Miss Hilda, no, mag-follow up lang ako kay, ah, late, ah, Jay Ilaghan.
03:32Kasi, before this interview happened, pina-follow na kita sa Instagram.
03:38I know you are active.
03:39I mean, years back, pina-follow na kita, no?
03:42Yeah.
03:42And one of those, ah, posts that you did, that caught my attention, and even the netizens,
03:47is that you exchanged messages with Miss Ami Austria.
03:51Of course, Ami's a friend of mine, you know?
03:54Wala namang kaming samaan ng doob over that because yung relasyon, by the time nag-relasyon sila,
04:00tapos na kami, matagal na.
04:02And I still talk to her.
04:03I was just inviting her for Sisa nga, eh.
04:06Yeah, we're good friends naman.
04:08We did a film together.
04:10So wala yung malinis ang aming mga relasyon.
04:13Walang patungan.
04:14Walang patungan.
04:15Kasi ka nag-uusapan namin kanyo na, posibyo pala yun.
04:17Mag-exprend mo yung current ng ex.
04:21Oh, yeah, wala.
04:22Of course, mayro'ng iba na sinasabi na, oh, I think mag-asawa pa siya.
04:26May mga naging intriga ba na yung pala ganito, na una yata siya,
04:29ang gulo-gulo, hindi na naiintindihan.
04:31Tapos na kami ni Jai noon.
04:33Sakit na kasi.
04:35Cool ex-girlfriends, no?
04:37Si Miss Hilda.
04:38Parang imposible kasi yung sa iba po.
04:41Walang, may hila.
04:42May mga sitwasyon talaga nang minsan imposible.
04:45Pero hindi, karamihan, yeah, magkakaibigan kami.
04:48Yeah, we talk a lot.
04:51Imbita ko nga siya sa sisa, kami, ha?
04:55Yeah, we're good friends naman, yeah.
04:57Sa iba pong mga manliligaw niyo noon, na mga artista, friends po kayo.
05:01Ah!
05:02Oh, naman.
05:04Friends po, kaibigan ko lahat yan.
05:05Lahat ng mga current party.
05:07Yeah, so, huwag nang babanggit kayo, may mga asawa na yan.
05:11Huwag nang babanggit eh.
05:12Huwag nang lang, oo, iniintrigan niyo pa eh.
05:15So, chill po talaga kayo.
05:17Kung magkakapagtapos na yung relasyon, hindi yung para maging bitter or whatever.
05:21Hindi, as much as possible.
05:23Dapat mag-maging, kung pwede niyong tapusin na magkaibigan kayo, mas maganda.
05:27Of course, there are instances talaga na hindi mangyayari.
05:32So, okay lang, but you have to let it go.
05:34Yeah, pero kung mga ganun, mas maganda kung magkasunuka yung magkaibigan kayo.
05:39May mga exes ako, nakaibigan ko pa yung mga asawa nila eh.
05:42Yun, ganun. So, okay lang yun.
05:44Oo.
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