00:00There are no free lunches. This that we are living in is not really a world of love.
00:07Nobody will help you for nothing. There would always be an intent, an agenda, a desire, an interest.
00:18Something would always be there. Let that be stated up front. Let that not remain hidden.
00:26Then think of a woman dependent on her family, her siblings or her in-laws or her husband.
00:36Who would want to exchange places with such a person? Nobody.
00:40Because it becomes far more vicious when unstated.
00:45You allow it to remain unworded, unstated. It still remains or does it not?
00:51Just that it is not expressed.
00:52And then the fellow will say, oh I thought it is commonsensical. I thought it was understood. I thought it
01:00was obvious.
01:02Let nothing remain to this so-called common sense.
01:07Make it explicit so that there is no ambiguity.
01:12So that there are no unspoken expectations.
01:16Love is not a default. Love is a great exception.
01:20Don't think that the fellow has come to you because the universe is so full of kindness.
01:28No, the universe is not full of kindness.
01:31The universe is full of evolutionary struggle.
01:37Often say, love is a person.
01:39You are the four of these.
01:40That's so Saiyan.
01:42But you also know is what people can't be either a person or something.
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