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00:00okay hi it's finita i'm back did y'all miss me or what y'all we have a very exciting panel so if
00:11y'all want to make your way over here to listen to some great chats feel free to do so right now
00:17so the next panel that i'm going to be introducing um is the little well the rick's little broke
00:26girls founder kimberly and b and the b zoo
00:31oh it is hi everyone i'm kimberly into b zoo founder and host of rich little broke girls
00:53the podcast and female collective for aspiring housewives and ceos and today we are going to be
01:00talking about shitty friends so here to join me i have the host and founders of black girls texting
01:09podcast sade parham
01:12glenn pogue so formal wow and chelsea rojas
01:24wow i feel so legit hello everyone i love this little
01:39couch wow you guys look absolutely stunning so do you girl the diamonds are dancing on a dress
01:47we're glowing oh my goodness this is so lovely what's the body oil um it's a little concoction
01:55yeah okay so today we are talking about the complexities of friendships right like as you transition from
02:17college days to adulthood or even like you're moving through jobs you're moving cities like we're all
02:23adults now we're all figuring it out um but how do we maintain our relationships
02:27so ladies i just want to get into it are you ready let's get into it
02:32okay so when you think about adult friendships what are like the three main traits or words that you think
02:43of that like make a really good friend i can start yeah okay so the first is honesty um second loyalty
02:56and my final would be optimism i love that optimism no negative nancies we can't do that we need celebratory
03:05friends the i i don't know if i can give you three right now but the first word that pops into my mind is
03:10effort especially in adult friendships because i find that now with life and schedules and work and
03:17all types of stuff it requires effort to maintain these relationships i literally have to pencil in
03:23my friends on my calendar and it feels so formal but it is me being intentional about spending time
03:29and making time for my friends you know yeah i was gonna say understanding um
03:36i think at this point in time we all just have so much going on and i need friends that are okay if
03:45i don't call them every single day and understand i still love them and i'm thinking about them and i
03:49care about them but i'm i'll see you when i see you and we had a friendship coach on our show and it
03:56was like so fun to talk to her she actually studies friendships um and she told us that the the normal
04:04human can maintain five relationships like five deep relationships at a time at a time and when you're in
04:12a relationship you can only maintain three like when you're in a romantic relationship right one two
04:18who's the third i have i have a lot of amazing friends thank god i have a lot of understanding
04:23friends but it's just a lot of effort and so it my friends have to be understanding that
04:28i'll see them when i see them and i love them no matter what what's your yeah i think well for anyone
04:34who's not familiar with us we're a weekly podcast and we talk a lot about like maintaining friendships
04:40in a business and i'd say three is gonna be really hard i'm gonna do my best but the number one for
04:46me is like open communication and being really honest like chelsea would tell me straight up like
04:50i did not like that you did that thing and i'll be like she is good for that okay okay i have to
04:55i have to own it but it's good right because you don't want someone who's just gonna like
04:59let emotions fester so i think i would piggyback on yours in addition to open communication like
05:05honesty and it's not that you're trying to hurt me but like we are in a relationship the same way
05:10that you may have a romantic partner and you need to be open and honest in communication so
05:14but i think it's very important that we maintain non-romantic relationships and like foster
05:21and water platonic relationships yeah and so i know you ladies like have been friends and you
05:29all lived in new york together but chelsea you made a big move to the west coast so how do you
05:35you know as we're like moving to new cities how do you guys maintain that relationship and like still
05:40prioritize each other through these different like major life changes i mean honestly for us
05:47luckily i will say a big part of it is our podcast because we have a dedicated at least two hours every
05:55week where we talk which that's great um we actually did have a conversation recently where
06:01i told them i said i would love it if you guys made a bit more effort and i think it was well received
06:09yeah um but yeah i think i've moved across the country it's literally six hours on a plane it's very
06:15far um and while i love the move it can feel isolating sometimes when my friends don't check on me
06:22but i do think it's my responsibility to communicate that and hopefully they receive it and change
06:29behavior yeah now you guys are working friends which i feel like makes it a little bit more
06:35challenging what you know sometimes when you pick up the phone maybe you want to talk business and
06:42maybe your friend doesn't do you guys ever run into that friction so i want to talk business all
06:47the time and you want to talk business all the time i mean you and i feel talk you we call and
06:51like and get into a key and oh and then we're talking business but okay this is a good tip for
06:56anyone if you're in business with a friend or even like just someone who you're talking to often but
07:02you want to have a relationship out of the friendship we have two group chats so one is called
07:06business can we curse business ish yes it's called business shit so like you only talk business in
07:13that chat like do not come in this chat talking about good morning i fried an egg i'm gonna be
07:19like get it out she loves to send a meme inside of the business shit yeah i don't like please take
07:24it to the black girls texting chat and then there's a separate chat for like the fun the kiki because
07:29like if i'm like oh we have a deadline can someone please respond then someone else replies
07:34so we separate it and it also forces us to like streamline wow that feels like very corporate
07:42it's like slack channels yes it's like channels in the iphone and so it helps a lot with the
07:49communication and like just keeping things separate so that we can have moments where we literally just
07:54laughing about a tiktok we saw or telling each other about our nights but yeah we have to remember
08:00to bond and remember that the reason why we started this was because we are friends and this is born out
08:06of a true friendship and conversations we naturally have so like yes we're here for work together to be
08:12here at the stage but we're also like enjoying being here on a girl's trip eating so much gumbo
08:17yeah with the strike that balance yeah a toufee yeah but i think we we like after we record if we do
08:24like a three-hour recording at the studio we make sure to grab dinner and drinks afterwards
08:29tradition um after three hours of hanging out you want to hang out for three more hours
08:34yeah i love that um okay out of you guys who's like the big the busy bee and who's like the good
08:42time girl oh that's such a fun question i feel like sade is both yeah but i'm definitely like always
08:50work work work we're working always working sade is like a grandma now yes very much yeah our
08:57friendship dynamic has changed so much so again we've been friends for over 10 years now 15 years
09:03okay that makes me sound old i'm actually 22 she's in denial about her age um but i remember that like
09:10the first time i went to a club in new york city for example sade took me to griffith in meatpacking
09:15underage i fell down a flight of stairs because i was so drunk it was my first time getting drunk
09:20i had a black eye but it was like a black eye over my eyes so it looked like purple eye shadow
09:27it was a look yeah it was serving it was cute and i had like the hair covering it a little and sade was
09:33like it's time to go home and i was like no i want to stay out i'm at the club but anyways my point
09:39is sade used to be the fun one and now she's not she's boring
09:41and i used to be a grandma and now i feel like i'm in these streets
09:47len does not know how to stay home cannot so chelsea where do you lie on that line good time
09:52girl or busy b i'm just like the perfect balance
09:55you're everything out of her mind i'm perfect i have no chelsea's your good like let's go get a
10:02dinner girl i like she'll do a dinner and a drink a nice dinner yeah a nice dinner but also i feel
10:08like this speaks to how your relationships ebb and flow right like i used to be ready to go and now
10:15i'm i'm ready to go to bed no it's not just because i got cuffed don't do that it's because i got old
10:21and tired and i have bad knees and a bad back but we're very much into sex in the city we're from new
10:31york and sade was always the samantha oh charlotte spicy main character energy i love it look at me
10:41i'm in the middle get over yourself okay so let's talk about friendship breakups right because this
10:48conversation is called you're a shitty friend and we've all been there we've all been a shitty
10:54friend but we've all also dealt with like super shitty shysty quote unquote friends
11:01so when someone does something to you that you feel like is unforgivable
11:08how do you determine whether like this relationship is worth saving
11:13wow well the funny thing about this panel title is that black girls section texting sorry i have a
11:24gold tooth in i thought it was cute but i actually can't really speak so apologies um black girls
11:30texting started off with six women oh my god don't do this don't we're going we're being honest okay
11:37all right um six and we had like you know it was a big girl group and it was something about it was
11:46beautiful it was like we would travel the world together we went to argentina hong kong cambodia
11:52like it was really cool but there was a lot of drama um and sade you have something you want to say
11:59about i'm just like oh gosh the sexy sex listen there's three people on the couch right now
12:04so take that as you will and you know what's interesting i mean i want to get back to your
12:11original question but i was thinking about this recently in therapy talking about friendships
12:16we had a major falling out with someone in our friend group and to give an example of like shitty
12:21friend behavior she wrote me a four-page letter about all the things that i did wrong
12:27emailed it bcc'd the other girls in the group chat for like i don't know evidence it was a good
12:35letter i never read it but i think i think you realize you you realize what you can tolerate
12:43like certain things i've realized and it comes with age certain things you realize i cannot tolerate
12:49like i cannot tolerate a friend that i can't trust for example like girl if i tell you something and
12:56that i can't dress trust oh i thought you said that can't dress i said girl no that can be
13:02we can help with that um but a friend that i can't trust like trust if i tell you something
13:08and then all of a sudden everybody knows like that's a big red flag and i will have a funeral
13:14for you in my head and pretend that you've died oh my gosh and even going back to the example i gave
13:19once that girl showed me that that's how she would behave i was like oh i'm not even responding to
13:24this or giving this the attention oh don't but don't forget the part where i blew it all up
13:29that's we could go that's a long time about this forever we can talk about but but yeah no i think
13:34there are certain relationships that you feel like i really want this i think when that relationship
13:37blew up for me it gave me the opportunity to to pull back and be like wait do i even want to do this
13:43or have we just been doing this because of time because of habit because of routine and it actually
13:48was like a blessing in disguise it really was truly what i was gonna say was like an audience
13:55people if you're good at this please help me i am really bad at confrontation and so like
14:02if somebody's problematic i'm so good i just like kind of let them like fade out of my life they'll be
14:07like you stop calling me they be coming to my house i'm not home i've done that someone has come
14:13to my house and i've acted like i was not home because i just was like i don't want to deal with you
14:16the friendship was just dwindling away and instead of being like hey this isn't working
14:21out i just like disappeared which can be very hurtful i know i know did i not just say i have
14:29a problem somebody in the audience help me damn i think it's always best if you're having an issue
14:34with a friend to just tell them and then recognize how they react like if i tell you that something
14:40bothers me and your reaction is defensive okay then you're not for me that's it wait i have an
14:49example of a friend that just called me out recently and i would love you guys's opinion
14:52shoddy and i actually were together on a line to go to a very exclusive party it was like a met gala
15:00after party a friend of mine humble at the very last minute was i was facetiming him and i was like
15:06oh i'm getting ready to go to this party he was like oh i would love to come i knew he wasn't on
15:10the lot on the list but he pulled up why did you say no when we got to the front they asked for my
15:16name and i was like that's my name and then i was kind of like ah ah and i went in the party glenn's
15:23like hello i am a shitty friend yeah and then he called me out damn y'all looking at me like
15:28you should have talked i should have left with him no he should have never even gotten in like come
15:34to the event yeah that was a shitty friend move that was no i don't think it was a shitty friend
15:40move on your behalf i think your friend was kind of being a shitty friend why do you think that you're
15:45invited i didn't say you were invited i was invited you're not invited that's a hot take why is a shitty
15:49friend too no i think you were both being shitty friends okay i gotta keep it a buck you know did you
15:55try to get them in no she walked in no really i was like ah again ah ah i think the proper i think
16:03the proper and we spoke about it i feel like the proper thing to do would have been to over
16:08communicate and say hey boo i'm on the list you are not we can probably finesse because we finesse a
16:16lot of things in our day you know i'm the card holding conglomerate of many hotels we finesse a lot
16:22private membership but just be honest i'm on the list and i'm definitely going in um i want you to
16:29come and we can try to figure it out but there is a possibility that you won't get in yeah and in
16:34that case i'm going in and you'll go home and i'll see you after call you about it tomorrow yeah i feel
16:40like for me when we think about what's worth saving and what's not saving i've definitely saved some
16:47hoes in my life but when they were when it was like a one-off you know if it was like a one-off
16:53situation i will overlook it after giving you time to grow however like if it's a pattern and you are
17:01like stabbing me in my back constantly or rather like if i see this is how you behave with your other
17:07friends then like i'm not saving you but i also think you know sometimes if you do miss someone
17:14and we all do miss our friends sometimes if you miss them reach out to them it's okay it's a sign
17:20like we don't have to dead everybody right like let's actually think about the grand scheme of
17:25things if you guys had a really beautiful relationship and you do miss them then yeah
17:30give them another chance if it's not a pattern yeah that's hella real i'm just thinking about
17:35the instances and friendships and people are so quick to cut people off for things you know and
17:41that's also kind of a red flag where you take things super personal and you just believe that
17:45like i'm out to get you i had a friendship falling out like that the same one i mentioned with the
17:50email right it felt so unseen i was like we've been doing this for so long how could you think i was
17:56this person that would malicious be malicious or try to hurt you you know and that's the thing i think
18:02like what you said about your friend is doing something and it's a pattern i also think it's your
18:06responsibility if that's your friend to communicate if your friend's doing something and you just
18:10have an issue but you never tell your friend you have an issue that's not really fair like
18:15communicate and let them receive it and let them either change behavior or show you that it's time
18:22to end the relationship it's like a relationship relationship i know we've been talking about this
18:28but i also feel like it is okay to grow apart now it should be communicated but like i'm not the
18:35same clearly clearly i'm now uh i was a club hopper now i'm a grandmother according to the
18:40100 in the bed but like that certain elements of my life have changed right so like if that didn't
18:46necessarily mesh for like it works for us just because like our relationship is far beyond like
18:51just being friends at the club but like there's some friends that are like yeah no i'm not trying
18:56to go on that uh therapy retreat with you in the poconos and i'm not trying to go to the club then
19:03like maybe this just isn't gonna work and like that's okay um i think communicating that we've
19:09grown apart we're different people is fine no harm no foul if i see you in the streets hey it's all
19:15love forever it's all love but we not season yeah yeah exactly i think it's time for us to do some
19:21inner work and really discuss how we ourselves have been shitty friends
19:27should i start so she's perfect yeah you go ahead i'll start so recently in fact i'm really good
19:37at cutting people out of my life like what's your son you might have to do some inner work on that
19:41him oh you a pisces i'm a pisces oh my god that's the girl who sent me the email
19:46i do send emails see if you block me you will get an email anywho so i am i'm good at you know
19:55cutting people out of my life within reason like if you gotta go you gotta go like i need to be able
20:00to sleep at night and wake up and do my thing but if you're infringing upon my peace and i know
20:05people hate like protect your peace protect my peace you gotta go so like i said earlier i do like
20:13to resolve issues like i don't want to have any burned bridges like i want us to be good at least
20:18and so recently probably like three months ago i was missing two really good friends that i had
20:25from the past and i said you know what kim reach out to them because i'm sure they miss you so i reached
20:33out to them and they were so ready and willing and ready to like have a conversation and when i tell
20:41you i got on the phone with them and i just let them air their grievances and they were going for
20:47like 30 plus an hour just like telling me everything about myself and i say all of that to say that
20:55my pattern is that i am selfish and that is how i am a shitty friend okay i'm selfish with my time if i
21:02don't want to do something i'm not going to do it if we're on vacation you want to go jet skiing you
21:07want to go zipline i'm not doing that that's her that's how i'm a shitty friend what about you
21:14guys i don't think that's a shitty friend um i actually will piggyback on that i'm very selfish
21:22i've i've worked on it i i struggle with like she's like we're gonna live really long lives i'm actively
21:28working on it and i think you've gotten so much better yeah and i struggle with empathy like listen
21:33if you're a black kid and you got your ass beat as a little kid we have like emotional intelligence
21:37issues because you're like i didn't take the chicken off the fridge and i'm getting my ass beat i don't
21:42know what's happening and so i just be crying i'm sad i'm i don't know what's happening i don't have a
21:47good spectrum so i literally am in therapy she'll be like you're sad i'll be like oh that's what's
21:53happening and so like for me i'm very closed off and when there's like empathy moments i'm like i don't
21:59i can't get there with you but i try my best and so that is where i can be shitty but i am actively
22:07working on it in therapy go to therapy y'all that is apt i'm about to do something a little bold and
22:14i'm very scared are you gonna how am i a shitty friend you're selfish too yeah no me but i don't
22:25fall for it here's my thing too like we all have our things and like i'm able to live with the fact
22:31that like i know i can send you a million text messages and you will not answer them and then i
22:36will see you posting on instagram and i'm like um hello and then i will pick up the phone and be like
22:41if you don't answer my goddamn message we're gonna have a problem and you'll be like oh sorry okay cool
22:44okay that's not i'm a poor communicator terrible communicator you know what i take it back terrible
22:49communicator that is fair i get overwhelmed by messages that's a bigger it's a bigger problem
22:55wait now i'm curious how am i a shitty friend how do you think you're a shitty friend
23:00i think i'm sensitive i was gonna say you're sensitive that's what i'm gonna say
23:04i'm not gonna say nothing she's sensitive i say she's sensitive she's gonna get sensitive
23:08i'm not gonna say anything about you i'm not supposed to do that um yes i think i'm highly
23:14sensitive okay she's a pisces venus venus look she knows our charts that's a good thing she knows
23:22our whole chart deeply romantic thing that you do with us in our chart if anyone's into signs
23:28just so you know i'm a capricorn and i'm a she's gonna tell you but she knows a leo rising and a
23:36sagittarius moon yes sagittarius sun taurus moon capricorn rising pisces sun taurus moon i think
23:46i'm also a capricorn rising one of the two something along the line what's yours i am a leo sun i'm an
23:52aquarius moon if there are crazes out there i understand you we are so strange sometimes um and
23:58i'm a gemini rising which is problematic but i love me a gemini like let's get into it let's be
24:04problematic i love it okay i want to turn the question to the audience how are you guys shitty
24:10friends or rather who what is the shittiest thing a friend has ever done to you oh we're doing we're
24:19getting into the audience are you pointing at me because i didn't text you back oh who's a poor
24:25communicator just say your name oh my god stunning she is fucking stunning period oh my god it's
24:38giving all of that thank you so black barbie it is so i'm leslie roberson i'm the owner and founder
24:44of the black beauty collective a harem beauty retailer that features exclusively black owned brands
24:48so let's talk about this whole shitty friend thing so a couple years ago i went through a really bad
24:55breakup it was actually a divorce and one of my girlfriends told me she didn't like how i was
24:59handling it from an emotional stance so she couldn't watch me go through a divorce and she
25:04ended our friendship what a bitch and did wait she couldn't watch you go through a divorce she could
25:12not watch me she didn't like how i was being emotional because i was going through a divorce
25:17nothing crazy just normal it was a divorce and she did not like how i was moving through it because
25:25i was still getting along with my ex-husband and she thought that he was really crappy and she said
25:29that she could not watch me go through it and we have not been friends since she deserved to get chopped
25:35she did i have a shitty friend story anyone else come on up i was going to talk about jasmine oh i figured
25:45whoops and the question for those who have just joined is the shittiest thing a friend has ever done to you
25:53oh they're gonna say each other's shitty qualities are you going to say oh my god oh my god we done
26:00okay so my name is ray my name is julia okay we've been best friends since we were like eight years
26:13old so that's you okay my your shittiest quality is that
26:19that i feel like you can hold a grudge like she can hold a grudge and she's gonna hold the grudge
26:28like forever i remember when like we first became friends and she believed that i didn't like her
26:35and she still reminds me of that every single day so that's the grudge part
26:39i mean after all i am a pisces so
26:43um i would say your thing is she's not a great communicator she will not text you back
26:53me girl and when it comes to emotion you're crying she's just so awkward with it that's you
27:00she like she'll stare at you crying just
27:03yeah oh but i love that you guys can maybe you guys can talk more about that
27:09well that was a nice honest and open moment that was so beautiful and y'all still friends
27:14that was beautiful oh we have just one more one more and then we will wrap this beautiful shitty
27:22conversation and i have a question too because this is a great talk and i actually have a question
27:28so i um am a beauty advisor at the black beauty collective
27:32um and i'm not the perfect friend but i had a situation with a friend where we were doing an
27:41activity that we were both passionate about and she noticed that i started to grow in in this
27:49area or this platform and i noticed that she would kind of like downplay me or like speak negatively
27:56about me in front of other people though that we we like don't know like that so i put you very
28:04harshly and this is where my question comes in i ended up talking to her about it because um i like
28:10to confront things i'm a sagittarius i gotta keep it all out there you know so i kept it real i'm like
28:16it actually kind of hurt when you said this in front of this person and the reaction i got was just
28:22like okay i just like okay and why are you talking to me about this so it's like one you hurt my
28:29feelings and two you don't care that you hurt my feelings but we see each other as best friends and
28:34we call each other best friends so it's like one she she responded to me and told me that the the
28:40problem was my problem and that i always take what she says or what other people are saying as a
28:47issue and that that was my problem so i'm like when is addressing issues and friendship when did
28:53it become like a stepping the line where you're nagging or something no you did not nag in that
28:59situation from what i just heard whatsoever that's a shitty valuable i mean invalid it sounds like that
29:04person it's me trying to be a guy like a therapist and diagnosing this person but there's like some
29:09emotional immaturity there where you were just coming to them and they couldn't receive it period
29:15because i'm working on this yeah no like they just hopped into the defense and they couldn't
29:20hear what you were giving you were to me that sounds completely valid and the way that they were
29:24moving is foul you're supposed to celebrate and uplift your friends you know what i mean yeah i agree
29:30well i think it is fair if you do feel like sometimes maybe you take things more to heart i don't
29:35know if that's a pattern that some people have told you to be like okay i've received that and that's
29:39something i'm working on and you can meet me in the middle and not say little digs as well
29:43but i don't i don't like that behavior but then i feel like her response could have or their response
29:49could have been more like i'm sorry you feel that way but i honestly don't mean to make you feel that
29:55way and i'll be a bit more thoughtful about it in the future not why are you being sensitive about it
30:01like that's weird yeah i think you did the right thing you communicated that's what you're supposed to
30:06do and they didn't receive it well best of luck yes amazing this is such a great conversation
30:13i think we have just one more the beautiful lady in green oh oh god wait we should give her a mic
30:21okay so i have a shitty friend story um i was dating this guy am dating this guy and i have a
30:30personal trainer and one of my friends asked if she could come and train with me and i said fine you
30:35know whatever it's on the house like come i'll take care of it she came for a couple of times and then
30:41it became an expectation and when i told her hey i don't feel comfortable with my man paying for both of
30:48us she was like well why not he got it and then i forgave that i forgave that and then so we went to
30:56lunch you know because i was like i'm going to be i'm going to communicate at the lunch she ordered
31:01what she ordered i ordered what i ordered and then the bill came and she slid the bill over to me and
31:07she said you got it because i know you have this card the man paying for the bills is sitting right
31:14here i'm sorry to you but that was my shitty friend no wait are you still friends with her
31:19no good that's okay wait i have a shitty phone as hell okay is this thing on okay my shitty friend
31:29story i feel like i may have told you this already and but there's a lesson in this story
31:33story so i was in my bed hair wrapped makeup off in brooklyn in my bed and my friend goes
31:42come meet me in manhattan i want you to meet all my friends from georgetown come please i want them
31:48to meet my best friend from home i was like babe i'm in the bed i'm i'm asleep please i'm asleep i don't
31:55want to go all the way to manhattan she said please begging me so i get up out of my bed my friend
32:01is really wants me to be there so i'm trying to be a good friend i get up out of my bed get dressed
32:06and i go i go to this bar i'm calling her i'm texting her i'm calling her i'm texting her i'm
32:16looking around the bar the girl is nowhere to be found but that night i literally met my best friend
32:25and my future husband because i was walking around the bar by myself so she served a purpose
32:31but a few months later we stopped talking but also that was one of the friends that my mom was
32:38always like i don't like that girl so also listen to your mom they always know they always know well
32:42ladies i feel like we could go on forever with this topic we've all been through it we're all going
32:47through it whatever um but before we leave this conversation please let everyone know how they can
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