00:052025 was a good year for you, right?
00:10Yes, yes.
00:10Agosto noong 2025, nabalitaan namin that...
00:15Pagkaayos na kayo ng kaibigang Paulo Contes, what is the story, Lian?
00:20Ano ang kwento?
00:23Actually, matagal...
00:25Yung process.
00:26Nag-reach out siya matagal na.
00:28So, quiet lang naman talaga ka...
00:30Kasi, yun na nga, I'm out of the limelight already and...
00:34Um...
00:35Hinintay ko rin naman na mag-heal ako.
00:38Tama.
00:39Yes, pero nakita ko yung sincerity ni Paulo kasi because more than me, mas nagme-message...
00:44Kasi siya kay John, sa husband ko.
00:47Okay.
00:47Naalala mo kung kailan?
00:50The first time he reached out to...
00:52Siguro, after pandemic.
00:55After pandemic.
00:57Magkaibigan.
00:57Magkakilala sila?
00:59No.
01:00Oh, okay.
01:01So, he got the...
01:02number of John and decided to communicate with John.
01:06Um, he communicated...
01:07With John through Instagram.
01:09Okay, IG.
01:10Okay, message, message.
01:12Message, message.
01:12Tapos, um, noong una, parang hesitant pa kami, of course, because showbiz nga.
01:17Ganyan, and I'm keeping the kids talaga away from ano pa.
01:22Um...
01:22Nagkaroon ng problema.
01:24Oo.
01:24Yeah, nagkaroon ng problema, and mahirap, of course, magtiwa.
01:27At first, but then, I've seen his sincerity, and...
01:32I've seen myself also, Tito Boy, na I'm...
01:35Also, may mga pagkukulang din ako.
01:37So, it's really by the grace of God.
01:41Ganda naman.
01:42I mean, napakulang.
01:42Magaganda, na yung perspective na...
01:45Oo, it takes two to dance.
01:47Yes.
01:47Pero ang gusto kong malaman, ano ang reaksyon ni John?
01:51Nung una niyang...
01:52Ah...
01:54Nakatanggap yung mga messages ni Pao.
01:56Siyempre, very protective talaga siya sa akin.
01:57Ang unang iniisip talaga niya, more than me, is yung mga bata talaga.
02:02Okay.
02:02So, ayaw din namin na mabigla sila, magulat sila, because yung mga bata is lumaki talaga.
02:07So, babies pa sila, maliliit pa talaga sila nasa amin.
02:12So, I don't want them na parang magulat sila sa sitwasyon and all.
02:16So...
02:17Pinahinaya lang namin yung panahon.
02:20I think it's really just the right time.
02:22Ah, Leon, take me to that moment.
02:26Nung after the first message...
02:27Halimbawa ni Paolo, ah, kay John, paano yung pag-uusap nyo?
02:32Paano, ah, i-brining up ni John sa'yo?
02:37Ah, kasi sa kami naman ni John, open talaga kami mag-communicate.
02:41So, everyday kami magkasama.
02:42And then, yun, sabi niya na, ah, I think you have to, to see this.
02:47This message, ah, pinabasa niya sa akin yung message.
02:50So, tinanong niya ako, are you ready?
02:53Okay.
02:55At ang sagot mo noon ay?
02:56Ang sagot ko ay hindi.
02:57Hindi pa.
02:59Hindi pa.
03:00Kasi gusto ko talagang makita yung...
03:02Effort talaga niya na talagang dire-diretsyo na, tuloy-tuloy ba.
03:07Tsaka, tito...
03:07Without having to go into the problems.
03:11Pero dumating...
03:12...yung pagkakataon, correct me if I'm wrong, ha?
03:15Na balita na parang...
03:17The kids were...
03:19I mean, just to show you na ang pinanggalingan ay problema.
03:22The kids were requesting, ah, for them to drop the family name, Quantis.
03:27Totoo yun?
03:29Hindi naman nila-request talaga na ayaw na nila, no?
03:32But, kasi dumaan din kasi yung mga bata na nagubuli.
03:38Sa school, natatanong about that.
03:40And then, siguro napagod na na sila.
03:42Sa mga tanong.
03:44So, they just want, ah, let's just get it over with.
03:47Doon ang galing yun.
03:48Oo, doon ang galing yun.
03:49So, noong nag-umpisa mag-message...
03:52...si Pao, ah, kay John, na laman siyempre ng mga bata.
03:58Did you consult the children?
03:59No.
03:59No, you didn't.
04:00Yes.
04:01Pero, eventually, nalaman nila.
04:02Bakit hindi nila?
04:04Ba't hindi nyo sinabi sa kanila?
04:05Because I think they are not...
04:07...ready.
04:08Ah, okay.
04:09During that time.
04:11Masyadong marami nangyayari sa school.
04:12You know, pagod din sila sa school.
04:15And nakakatuwa kasi very, very...
04:17...focused yung mga bata sa school.
04:20Right.
04:20They're really top students in school.
04:22So, I...
04:22They're the one that jeopardized that.
04:24So, tinignan muna namin talaga...
04:26...kong okay ba.
04:27Ano yung turning point ng mga bata?
04:31Ah, anong turning point sa...
04:32When did they realize that it was okay?
04:38To, you know, to start a relationship again...
04:40...with their father.
04:41I'm talking about Sonia and Salim.
04:42Yes.
04:43Actually, decision din namin ni John.
04:45We decided to let the kids know...
04:47...ready.
04:48And we asked them, of course,
04:50kung sila mismo ready na.
04:51And...
04:52Um, pinakita ko po kasi sa kanila,
04:54Tito Boy, na...
04:56Um, ayokong makita...
04:57...at masabi ng mga anak ko
04:59na hindi ako marunong magpatawad.
05:02So...
05:02Pinakita ko sa kanila na...
05:04...girls, um...
05:06...hindi perfecto ang...
05:07Papa niyo, ganun din si Mama.
05:10But...
05:11...we want this family to be okay.
05:12Right.
05:13I think everybody deserves a chance.
05:16And we prayed about...
05:17...and we know that, you know,
05:19everyone is accountable to the Lord.
05:21Okay.
05:21So let's just put it...
05:22...that way.
05:23Do you want to give your Papa a chance?
05:26At ang sagot ng mga bata.
05:27Yes.
05:27Of course.
05:28Oh.
05:29Ang ganda nung latag.
05:31Ang ganda nung latag.
05:33Konsepto ng pagpapatawad.
05:35Hindi perfect si Papa.
05:36Hindi ako perfect.
05:37And the salient message also.
05:41Pag kinakausap ang mga bata.
05:42Ang ganito.
05:44Hindi tayo perfect.
05:46Yes.
05:46But we can do something about it.
05:47about our weaknesses.
05:49Yeah.
05:50Ang nakakaano lang.
05:52Ang nakakaano lang.
05:53Hindi tayo perfect.
05:54Hindi tayo perfect.
05:55Hindi tayo perfect.
05:57Hindi tayo perfect.
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