00:0010 Common Mistakes Older Men Make That Can Turn Women Off
00:05Bringing Up The Age Gap Every 5 Seconds
00:08Constantly Joking About Being
00:10Old Enough To Be Her Father
00:11Puts Unnecessary Focus On Age
00:13Instead Of Connection
00:15Repeating It Can Make Interactions
00:17Feel Awkward And Self-Conscious
00:18Rather Than Natural
00:20Drop The Age Commentary
00:22And Let Shared Interests
00:23Humor And Chemistry
00:25Take Center Stage
00:25Constantly Comparing Her To Your Exes
00:30Mentioning Exes Even Casually
00:31Makes It Feel Like She's Being
00:33Measured Against Someone Else
00:35Comparisons Create Insecurity
00:36And Emotional Distance Fast
00:38Complimentations
00:40Comments Should Be About Her
00:41Unique Traits
00:41Not How Closely She Resembles
00:43Someone From Your Past
00:45Not Being Emotionally Available
00:47If She Opens Up
00:49And You Respond
00:50With Surface Level Sympathy
00:51Or Emotional Shutdown
00:53It Quickly Feels One-Sided
00:55Emotional Availability
00:56Means Listening
00:57Responding
00:58And Sharing
00:58Too
01:00Connection Deepens When Both
01:01People Feel Heard And
01:02Supported
01:03Overcompensation
01:05With Money Or Status
01:06Success Is Attractive
01:08But Flaunting It
01:10And Feel Like You're Trying
01:10To Buy Affection
01:11When Money Becomes The Main Signal
01:14Authentication
01:15Authenticity Takes A Hit
01:16Thoughtful Time And Genuine Effort
01:18Matter Far More Than
01:20Flashy Gestures
01:20Being Too Stubborn Or Set In Your Ways
01:25Rigid Habits And Resistance To Change
01:27Can Come Across As Controlling Or Dismissive
01:30Relationships Thrive On Flexibility
01:32And Curiosity
01:33Showing Openness To New
01:35Ideas Signals Growth
01:36Not Weakness
01:37Not Taking Care Of Yourself
01:40Letting Your Health
01:41Appearance Or Energy Slide
01:43Sends The Message That Effort
01:44No
01:45No Longer Matters
01:45Taking Care Of Yourself
01:47Shows Self-Respect
01:48And Commitment
01:48Small Change
01:50Can Significantly Boost Attraction
01:51And Confidence
01:52Treating Her Like A Daughter
01:55Instead Of A Partner
01:55Unsolicited Advice
01:58And Constant Fixing
01:59Shifts The Dialogue
02:00Dynamic Into Parent Mode
02:01No One Wants To Feel Managed
02:03Rather Than Respected
02:05Partnership Means Equality
02:06Not Authority
02:07Being Overly Critical
02:10Or Judgmental
02:10Frequent Criticism Slowly
02:13Erodes Confidence And Warmth
02:15Even Well-Intended Comments
02:16Can Feel Draining
02:17If They Skew Negative
02:18Encouragement
02:20Builds Far Stronger Bonds
02:21Than Knitpicking Ever Will
02:22Neglecting Her Independence
02:25Hovering, Controlling Decisions
02:27Or Constant Check-Ins
02:28Can Feel Suffocating
02:30Independence Doesn't Threaten
02:31Relationships
02:32It Strengthens Them
02:33Trust And
02:35And Space Allow Attraction
02:36To Breathe
02:36Lack Of Humor Or Fun
02:40Being Overly Serious
02:41Turns Dating Into Work
02:42Instead Of Enjoyment
02:43Laughter Creates
02:45Connection & Ease
02:46Playfulness Shows Emotional
02:47Security And Keeps
02:48Relationships Feeling
02:50Alive
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