00:00It's very hard to walk into a movie, like Jack Loudon did, to play a douchebag.
00:08It's very, very difficult to do.
00:13Do you remember when he came in? It was like this new burst of...
00:15But he came in with all of his charm and humor and complexity.
00:23He's fantastic in the movie.
00:25But it's very hard to do that.
00:27And he just came in and won us all.
00:31We all fell in love with him.
00:33But there's that great line.
00:34There's that hard truth that really hit me when I saw the movie,
00:39when you say, I think what I've always thought,
00:42that your husband is a ticking time bomb in your life.
00:45And you saying that, and the timing of it,
00:50and you kind of braving to take that step and say it's so impactful.
00:54And it's very telling because people stay sometimes for the wrong reasons.
00:59They stay attached to a version, a past version of their partner or their husband.
01:04And they hold on to that hope that, you know, it's going to be okay.
01:07And when we have a value system and we have to honor these values that we've created for ourselves,
01:12you know, this family unit we're trying to, you know, get going.
01:15But you've also chosen him for all the reasons why you would choose him.
01:20Exactly.
01:21Stable family.
01:22So it's part of it.
01:23Loving units from a broken family where that wasn't the norm.
01:27Yeah, but it's part of that whole package, I suppose.
01:31The big thing is given the kind of woman she is,
01:36which is also really a smart woman.
01:38And so why is she with him had to be answered.
01:45Why she was with him had to be all in him, his charm, what he said to her, what he saw in her.
01:52And he saw in her, you know, like, you know, he saw that, you know, they were high school sweethearts.
02:01And he was, you know, he was never going to want to go to college and she was headed for all this stuff.
02:08And it was a reason for him loving her.
02:11And the magic of that, you're going places and you don't even know where.
02:15And I'm going to go there with you.
02:18And so that's what he was, he, so it's love.
02:21He fell in love with her.
02:22That's sort of at the core of the love.
02:24And it backfires.
02:26I hope so.
02:27Thank you very much.
02:31I hope so.
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