00:00Hello, wonderful parents, and welcome.
00:03If you've ever felt that heart-sinking moment when your baby just won't stop crying,
00:08know that you are not alone.
00:11Parenting a newborn is beautiful, but let's be honest, it can be overwhelming.
00:17Today, we're diving deep into some simple, yet powerful tricks to soothe your little one
00:23and bring peace back into your home.
00:25These aren't just quick fixes.
00:27They are proven techniques that will help you understand your baby-esque needs
00:32and build an even stronger bond.
00:35So take a deep breath, and let's get started.
00:38First up, the magic of swaddling.
00:41Why do babies love it so much?
00:43It mimics the snug, secure feeling of being in the womb.
00:48This gentle pressure can prevent the startle reflex that often wakes them up.
00:53Let's walk through how to do it safely.
00:55Lay a blanket down like a diamond and fold the top corner down.
01:00Place your baby on top with their shoulders just above the fold.
01:04Gently take their right arm and tuck it alongside their body.
01:09Pull the left corner of the blanket snugly over their arm and chest and tuck it under their back.
01:15Then, do the same on the other side.
01:18Bring their left arm down, pull the right corner of the blanket over, and tuck it under.
01:24The bottoms should be loose enough for their hips and legs to move freely.
01:29A snug swaddle can be a game-changer for a fussy baby.
01:33Now, let's expand on this with a famous technique called the five S's developed by Dr. Harvey Karp.
01:41The first S is swaddling, which we just covered.
01:45The second is the side or stomach position.
01:47It's important to note, this is only for calming your baby while you are holding them, never for sleep.
01:54Laying your baby on their side or tummy across your forearm can activate a calming reflex.
02:01The third S is shushing.
02:03A loud, rhythmic shushing sound, as loud as their cries, can replicate the sounds of the womb.
02:09You can do this yourself or use a white noise machine.
02:12The fourth S is swinging.
02:15Babies are used to constant motion from their time in a womb.
02:19Gentle, rhythmic movements, like rocking in a chair or a slow, careful swing, can be incredibly soothing.
02:27Think small, jiggling motions, not big, wild swings.
02:32The final S is sucking.
02:34Sucking is a natural reflex that calms babies.
02:38This could be a pacifier, your clean finger, or feeding.
02:43Combining these five techniques can often calm even the fussiest of babies in minutes.
02:50Next, let's talk about the incredible power of touch.
02:53Your touch is a powerful tool for connection and comfort.
02:58Skin-to-skin contact, where you place your baby's bare chest against yours, is amazing.
03:05It helps regulate their heart rate, breathing, and temperature, and releases feel-good hormones for both of you.
03:13Another wonderful way to use touch is through a gentle baby massage.
03:18You can use a bit of baby's safe oil.
03:21Start with their legs, using gentle, milking strokes from the thigh down to the foot,
03:26for their tummy, which can help with gas.
03:29Use clockwise, circular motions around the navel.
03:34Follow your baby's cues, if they seem uncomfortable.
03:37It's okay to stop.
03:39Massage is less about perfect technique and more about loving connection.
03:44Sometimes, all your baby needs is a change of scenery.
03:48If you're both feeling cooped up and stressed inside, a simple change of environment can work wonders.
03:55A short walk outside can be incredibly calming.
03:58The fresh air, new sounds, and gentle motion in a stroller or carrier can distract and soothe a fussy baby.
04:06A car ride is another classic for a reason.
04:10The consistent motion and low hum often lull babies to sleep.
04:14And don't underestimate the power of water.
04:17A warm bath can be very relaxing for a little one.
04:21The sensation of the warm water can ease tension and provide a comforting sensory experience,
04:28making it a perfect part of a calming bedtime routine.
04:32Of course, we can't forget the basics.
04:35It sounds simple, but in a moment of stress, it's easy to overlook.
04:40Before you try more complex soothing techniques, run through a quick checklist.
04:46Is your baby hungry?
04:47A crying baby might be signaling it's time for a feed.
04:52Could they have a wet or dirty diaper?
04:55This is a common cause of discomfort.
04:58Check their diaper and change it if needed.
05:01And finally, do they need to be burped?
05:04Trapped gas can be very uncomfortable.
05:07Try holding your baby upright against your shoulder and gently patting their back for a few minutes.
05:14Covering these basic needs is always the first and most important step.
05:18Finally, and this might be the most important tip of all, take care of your own calm.
05:24Babies are incredibly attuned to their parents' emotions.
05:28If you are feeling stressed, anxious, or frustrated, your baby will pick up on that tension, which can
05:35make them even fussier.
05:37It's a tough cycle.
05:38When you feel your stress levels rising, it's okay to put your baby down in a safe place,
05:44like their crib, and step away for a few minutes.
05:48Go to another room, take some deep breaths, splash some water on your face, or call a friend.
05:55Calming yourself first is not selfish.
05:58It's essential for being the calm, confident parent your baby needs.
06:02Remember to be kind to yourself.
06:04So there you have it, a whole toolbox of strategies to help soothe your baby.
06:10Remember that every baby is unique.
06:13What works one day might not work the next, and what works for one baby might not work for another.
06:19The key is patience, observation, and a whole lot of love.
06:24You are learning about your baby, and they are learning about the world.
06:28You are doing an amazing job.
06:30Thanks for watching.
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