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00:00Here we are! Say hello, papa. It's balloons! Brennan, look! Do you team the boy or girl?
00:18We don't know. I team the boy. Let's see. I am.
00:21It's your boobies goodbye. Oh my goodness, no. I'm finally having my breast reduction surgery,
00:28and there's so much that could go wrong. I want to keep my nipple sensation. Well,
00:33you know that it's always just a risk. You know, there's a risk that you could lose it,
00:36but the nerves are so small. Brennan, your mom not grandmother material. Your dad
00:43are grandfather material. Your mom not. Today is supposed to be a special day. We are getting
00:49ready for the baby shower, but of course my mother-in-law is trying to rule you. What the
00:54even my baby shower, she has to have her rules and make everything this length now. What can we do?
01:00Tell them to not come. No. No. Don't come.
01:06You attacked Ashley at the chill-all, and it sounds like you owe her an apology. No, I don't. I don't owe
01:12her nothing. She owes me an apology. You're supposed to be the bigger person. I am. She's very tiny. I'm not
01:18going to sit here and let my parents disrespect my girlfriend to my face. Well, you're mean,
01:24with a nasty attitude and a smart mouth, so maybe you and Ashley belong together.
01:28she's very tiny. She's very tiny. She's very tiny. She's very tiny. She's very tiny.
01:44Say hello, pup-pups. Hottie. Here we are at the parky park. I'm Shantel. I'm 34 years old,
01:57and I'm from Atlanta, Georgia.
01:59I'm Ashley.
01:59I'm 36, and I'm from Weedowie, Alabama.
02:02Oh, hi.
02:04Here we go.
02:07Got the pumpers.
02:09Little babies.
02:11Ashley and I have been dating for one year now,
02:13and we're just joint at the hip all the time.
02:18That includes taking a bath together.
02:20Yes, taking a bath together, taking a shower together.
02:24Do you guys like it right here?
02:28Do you like it right here?
02:30Say yes.
02:32All right, I guess I'll take them out then.
02:34Is that okay?
02:35Sure.
02:37My 90-day journey began when I married Pedro from the Dominican Republic.
02:42I pronounce that they are husband and wife.
02:46You may kiss your bride.
02:47But things didn't go well when our families didn't get along.
02:58Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
02:59What do you say?
03:00What do you say?
03:03What are you talking about?
03:05What's up?
03:06What's up?
03:07Hey!
03:08Hey!
03:09Hey!
03:10Hey!
03:11Hey!
03:12Hey!
03:13How did you do that?
03:14I was always in the middle, and it took a toll on our marriage.
03:18And we divorced.
03:20I started dating again, and things were really rocky.
03:24I tried finding love in Greece.
03:27I even went on a singles retreat in Mexico.
03:31What would your ex say about you?
03:33Where's my money?
03:34Did you take his money?
03:36I took my money out of the bank account.
03:38It was yours, right?
03:40But nothing really stuck.
03:43Finally, I found love right in Atlanta with Ashley.
03:49I'm so happy.
03:51The relationship I had with Ashley early on was strictly friends, like platonic.
04:00And it took a turn one drunken night when you told me that you had romantic feelings for me.
04:09And then my whole world was open to a whole world of possibilities that I didn't knew that existed.
04:15It's been so nice.
04:16I've actually been.
04:18Plus all the sex we're having.
04:21Ashley's been living with me for an entire year now, and it's been going really well.
04:28It just feels good.
04:30Feels right.
04:32You look nice, by the way.
04:35I'll look a lot nicer once I get my breast reduction because then I won't have like a supersonic
04:41bra showing out the side.
04:42Yeah.
04:43Your big day is coming up.
04:45Oh, man.
04:47Tomorrow, I'm finally having my breast reduction surgery.
04:52I decided to get a breast reduction because I have a size L, boobs, which are, by the way,
05:01100% natural.
05:03And as a nurse who works 12 hours a day on her feet, my back is killing me.
05:10I also feel like I'm always sexualized or not taken seriously because of my big boobs.
05:17And I've battled with it for so long.
05:21Now I think that this, it's time.
05:24It's crazy that this is finally happening.
05:29It's your boobies goodbye.
05:32Oh, my goodness.
05:33No.
05:34I'm going to be crying.
05:35I'm going to be so upset that I don't have my pillows.
05:38Yeah.
05:39You're going to have to use a real pillow.
05:41I'm going to miss them a lot.
05:43Really?
05:44It's okay, though.
05:45It's okay.
05:46For a better back.
05:47Do you want to do first position?
05:49Okay.
05:50So we have different positions that we sleep in, and we call it first position, second position,
05:54third position.
05:55All because of these boobs.
05:57But I love when I sleep at night, I jack it up like this.
06:01I put my head like this, and I do this.
06:03This is first position.
06:06Don't go to sleep now.
06:08I'm so nervous.
06:10But I'm so ready.
06:12Really.
06:13Truly am ready.
06:15I know you are.
06:16You know I'm going to want my mom there.
06:18The day of surgery.
06:20Ashley has been a friend of the family for a very long time, and everybody loved her.
06:30But now that she's in a relationship with me, everybody's acting crazy about it.
06:36Like, especially my mom.
06:38Well, I brought a little something for you.
06:40Here.
06:41And what?
06:42I thought I would give suckers to the suckers.
06:45Hold up a second.
06:46I'm about to get crazy.
06:47Oh, I'm about to get crazy, too.
06:49She came here throwing trash bags, giving me suckers and calling me a sucker and
06:55.
06:56But who's the clout chaser?
06:57She came here to try to ruin what we got, right?
06:59Is that it?
07:00You trying to ruin what we got?
07:01Who's acting crazy and ?
07:02Since the tell-all, I haven't spoken to Karen or Chantel's family.
07:07It has been very difficult, and it's made things very weird.
07:11That really made me feel .
07:14Yeah.
07:15Yeah.
07:16I know.
07:17I know.
07:18I get it.
07:19But I want her to be a part of it in some way.
07:24I mean, I understand that's your mom, but I really don't want her there.
07:29Like, I really do not want your mom there, and I just want to be there for you and relax,
07:34and I don't want to cause a scene in the hospital.
07:38One of my biggest fears is that my mom is in the waiting room with Ashley arguing while
07:45I'm being operated on.
07:47I don't want to go and be put under anesthesia with that fear.
07:53Well, we will figure it out, don't you?
07:58Oh, my gosh.
07:59I'm really nervous.
08:00Don't worry.
08:01Don't worry.
08:02What?
08:03Oh, my gosh.
08:13I don't want to go.
08:18Hi, my kids.
08:19Bye.
08:20Okay.
08:21Bye.
08:22Bye.
08:23Bye.
08:24Bye.
08:25Bye, dogs.
08:26Here we go.
08:27Bye, dogs.
08:29We love you.
08:32Oh, man.
08:33Today is my surgery, and I can't believe
08:35that it's finally here.
08:37You get in first.
08:39OK.
08:41In you go.
08:47My nerves.
08:49Your nerves?
08:50Yeah.
08:50My nerves.
08:51I called my mom to talk to her about Ashley
08:58and her being at the surgery.
09:00And I told her that I don't want her to come to the hospital
09:06when I'm having the surgery.
09:08All right.
09:11I'll see you soon.
09:12See you in a little bit.
09:14And she was not happy about it at all.
09:17But I can't risk having any unforeseen drama.
09:32So I am hooked up to my IV.
09:39I've got my bear hugger on me.
09:42I've got my IV going.
09:45Hello.
09:46Hi.
09:47How are you doing?
09:48Doing well.
09:49Good, good.
09:50So I know what we've talked about.
09:52You want to be around a V or a double D.
09:55I want to be more like a D.
10:04OK.
10:05Whatever she can safely do and possibly keep her nipple sensation.
10:08Yeah.
10:09I want to keep my nipple sensation.
10:10Yeah.
10:11But I want to make it worth it.
10:13Well, you know that it's always just a risk.
10:15You know, there's a risk that you could lose it no matter how much or how we take off.
10:19But I'll do my best to kind of, you know, preserve anything that I see.
10:24The nerves are so small.
10:26So any other questions?
10:29I think I'm OK.
10:31OK.
10:32All right.
10:33So, yeah.
10:34So they'll get you situated.
10:35And then, you know, once you hear from me that she's in the recovery room.
10:38OK.
10:39One thing that's really important to me is my nipple sensation and placement.
10:44I'm worried that my nipples are going to be botched.
10:49Like, one's higher, one's lower, or different sizes.
10:53Or what if the lines are crooked?
10:56Or, I don't know.
10:57There's so much that could go wrong.
11:00What does that mean?
11:01Thank you for being here for now.
11:02Thank you for being here for now.
11:04Thank you for being here for now.
11:05Thank you for being here for now.
11:06Maybe...
11:07I want to FaceTime my mom.
11:10Don't mind if I do that right now?
11:21Hi there!
11:22Hi!
11:23How's it going?
11:25So far, so good.
11:26So, when does the sergeant actually start?
11:28Because I can speed up there real quick.
11:30You should not come up here.
11:32No, we don't do what you say.
11:34And now we are the parent.
11:36You are the child.
11:38No, they only allow me to have one visit.
11:41Yeah, we don't throw them out when we come and eat.
11:44That's right, we don't throw them out there.
11:47Excuse me.
11:48I'm going to hang up.
11:49Bye, Mom.
11:50Bye.
11:51Bye.
11:52See you later.
11:52Hey, we coming.
11:54That is crazy.
11:55Did you hear what my mom just said?
11:57That is ridiculous.
11:58Man, I'm stressed.
12:01They're going to end up here waiting to open the damn door when they're there.
12:05This is the last thing that I need right now.
12:08I'm literally about to have major surgery.
12:11And now, I don't know if my mom's going to show up spontaneously in the waiting room.
12:17And getting in a fight with Ashley while I'm under anesthesia, I don't know what kind of
12:21mess I'm going to wake up to.
12:23I love you.
12:26I mean, I love you too.
12:27We'll take really good care of her for you.
12:29I want to know it.
12:30I love you.
12:30See you soon.
12:31I love you.
12:32Let's do it.
12:33I love you.
12:52Brandon's in London.
13:01Not very good to tell I'm Brandon. No more.
13:07Really?
13:09My name is Julia, I'm 31 years old, and I'm from Russia now.
13:13I live in Norfolk, Virginia.
13:15I'm Brandon, I'm 33 years old, and I live in Norfolk, Virginia.
13:20I need to be exercising more.
13:23Oh, actually, that is so easy to sit up.
13:26I still can do something.
13:31I'm looking good. For eight months?
13:34I mean, yeah.
13:41Our 90-day journey began almost seven years ago.
13:44Julia was living in Russia at the time, and I was living in the United States.
13:48But we had a mutual friend in common, and he urged me to reach out to Julia online.
13:52Hi, love. How are you today?
13:55And we meet in person first time after one month.
13:59And soon after that, I proposed.
14:02Julia, will you marry me?
14:05Yes.
14:06Yes.
14:09We applied for the K-1 visa, and six months later, we were approved.
14:13Go, go, go, go, go, go, go.
14:21And less than three months later, we got married.
14:24You may kiss your bride.
14:33Through the first few months of our marriage, we had some relationship struggles.
14:37When we first got together, we wanted to have kids.
14:40And Julia's telling me she no longer does.
14:45When they say, like, I don't want kids.
14:48Two years ago, I take whole facility tests.
14:51And them say, I can't have kids.
14:54But Brandon's trying to tell me I need second opinion in America.
14:58Yeah, absolutely.
14:59I'm not here to help.
15:00But if we're going to the doctor, if the doctor is saying no.
15:02That could be the possibility.
15:04He couldn't leave me.
15:05No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
15:08But we made it through.
15:10And now we're entering a new happy chapter.
15:13We're having a baby.
15:19I swear to God, I'm not lying.
15:22This is not a joke.
15:23I swear to God.
15:28Your heart?
15:29Yeah.
15:30And now I'm eight months alone and I'm freaking out.
15:34We're still not ready at all for being a parent.
15:40Uh-huh.
15:42We have to go into the one-time class to figure out this brief exercise together.
15:49We need to go to a class to learn how to breathe.
15:51Yeah, that's just like...
15:52I've been doing it my whole life.
15:53I'm a professional.
15:54And you just ask me.
15:56Right then.
15:57It's in and out.
15:59We have six weeks left.
16:01We're not ready for anything.
16:03And it's getting so real.
16:06He doesn't know how to hold a baby.
16:08He doesn't know how to change the adverse to baby.
16:10He doesn't know...
16:11How to hold it?
16:12Oh, you told me you know how to hold a baby.
16:14Yeah, you cradle its head.
16:16That's a baby.
16:18Show me what it is.
16:19What you need to do with this.
16:21You are gonna be dead.
16:22You're over stressing.
16:24Head supported.
16:27It's not rocket science.
16:29I think we can figure it out.
16:31We doesn't have a room ready.
16:34We doesn't have anything set up, clean.
16:38We doesn't have shoulder and car seat.
16:41Do you know they're not gonna give us baby to the home if he doesn't have a car seat?
16:48We need to prepare.
16:49Because if we're not, Brad and Mom will be overstepping and thinking that it's her baby.
16:54And over control can try to make us do everything what you want, like usual.
16:58I can talk to a doctor.
17:00I can help go with you if you want to make sure that, you know...
17:03No, I mean, that is our situation.
17:05I don't want...
17:06Yeah, but you need somebody to help.
17:07No, I don't want...
17:08No, we're family.
17:10We need to be independent.
17:12I know.
17:13And your mom has to be a supporting girl, not be a role in a mom.
17:17Got it.
17:18Your mom has to have biology.
17:21That's what we need to do.
17:22I have to be a controlling girl.
17:24Mm-hmm.
17:26Brandon, your mom not grandmother material.
17:30Your dad or grandfather material.
17:33Yeah, for sure.
17:34Your mom not.
17:35I survived, didn't I?
17:37Yes, because you're dad.
17:39Grandmother to me is a person who will be respecting your boundary and helping when...
17:48They need it.
17:49I guess, like, Betsy come and tell me, like, I don't know what I'm going to do.
17:54This is why Brandon have to sit down and talk about bungees and tell her to step back a little bit.
18:00I know Betsy will be probably freaking out, but this conversation has to be happening.
18:05Oh my god, I just can imagine it's gonna be like a nightmare.
18:08It's a f***ing nightmare.
18:18It's gonna be a mistake.
18:21Hello, hello!
18:22Hi!
18:24Our favorite store in the world!
18:27Hi!
18:28Hi, guys!
18:30Today we are at our friend Nikki and Drew's jewelry shop because Julia has just learned what a push present is.
18:36In Russia, I never heard about this before.
18:38I saw on TV somebody talking about a push present.
18:41This is how I learned.
18:43I don't hear a lot of American traditions, but this one, I love it.
18:48No more TV for you.
18:53Push give.
18:54Did you know about this tradition?
18:56No, it's very typical.
18:57I didn't know about that.
18:58Nikki can show you different stuff and see if Brandon can step up to the plate.
19:03I think your push present should be an epidural.
19:08That's cool.
19:09You can show me something.
19:11Julia has rejected every other American tradition.
19:15She doesn't want to know the gender.
19:17She doesn't want to have a baby shower.
19:20In Russia, it's superstition.
19:22Don't celebrate baby if it's not come.
19:26But when the tradition involves getting something shiny and expensive,
19:30of course she's all for it.
19:34Look at that.
19:35That's pretty.
19:37I told Julia that we could at least look at some jewelry today,
19:40but I'm not making any promises.
19:42Let me see what I can get you.
19:45Oh, no.
19:47Oh, no.
19:48Oh, no.
19:49Oh, no.
19:50I mean, I give you example, and you can come and surprise me after.
19:54Okay.
19:55Take the notes.
19:56Right.
19:57We got you got the new tools in the workshop.
19:59Oh, yeah, man stuff.
20:00Let's do it.
20:01Okay, man stuff.
20:02I'm probably going to click and do the game.
20:04Girl, are you ready for the baby?
20:06I am not ready for the baby.
20:08We are like six weeks away.
20:11We doesn't have a name.
20:13We doesn't buy anything.
20:15I'm like, I'm just frustrated about everything.
20:18I know you possibly don't want to do the baby shower, but I really feel like you should,
20:24because you'll get lots of diapers, clothes, like maybe even like a car seat or stroller,
20:29and then you wouldn't have to worry about getting those things.
20:32Okay, but that is not like something like superstition here in America.
20:36No, no, no.
20:37It's just like a small get together with family, friends.
20:40We're just going to eat, and then we're going to shower you with some gifts.
20:43I mean, but who should come to this baby shower?
20:46Whoever you want.
20:47I'm going to leave that to you.
20:48You know, if you don't want to invite Betty, you're wrong.
20:52She'll take over.
20:53Yeah, she'll be safe for sure.
20:55She should know before, like a couple of days.
20:57A couple of days before, okay.
20:59Nikki gave a good point.
21:01We does need all this stuff.
21:03And no way Brandon will have the time to get everything before baby arrives.
21:09I'm going to ignore this Russian superstition for now,
21:11because we need all this help.
21:14Betty, I'm fine if she'll go there, but I want you to be involved for this.
21:18I just have a lot on my head right now,
21:21and I just hope this will eliminate our stress.
21:26Put this in safe.
21:27I am doing this in safe right now.
21:29It's literally going in the safe.
21:30Bye, guys. Love you.
21:31Bye.
21:43Good morning, everybody.
21:44Good morning from me, Nalo.
21:46Yay, we have a baby shower today.
21:49I'm a little scared, excited.
21:52Julia, what do you think about this?
21:53That's what he wants to wear into the baby shower.
21:58Yeah, it's somebody's favorite color.
22:01It's your mom's favorite color.
22:02No.
22:03We can both be purple.
22:05No, that is my pajamas.
22:07We can be the purple kids.
22:09No.
22:10It's been a bit of a crazy morning.
22:12We've been a little stressed and trying to get everything ready to get out the door.
22:17What about this?
22:18I don't think it's, uh...
22:19No?
22:20I don't think that's right, no.
22:21Why?
22:22What about this?
22:23Because you're not going to the club, girl.
22:24I'm excited for our party, but I'm just anxious Betty and Ron will be there, and I hope they're not going to create any team drama there.
22:33I think you're excited to get gifts.
22:36Sure.
22:38Let me call my parents, see if they're on the way yet.
22:42Hey, what's going on?
22:43Not much.
22:44Just wondering how you're progressing this morning.
22:47We're just picking an ice up, and we're on our way.
22:50So we'll be there an hour and 20, though.
22:52Hour and 20?
22:54Yes.
22:55Okay.
22:56All right.
22:58All right.
22:59Bye.
23:00Bye.
23:01What the ?
23:03Even my baby shower should have to have your rules and make everything as late now.
23:07We told them the time, and them are not coming the exact time when we asked.
23:12They'd be asking five times.
23:14I know.
23:15Come for this time.
23:16Calm down.
23:17It's...
23:18What can we do?
23:19Tell them to not come.
23:20No.
23:21Too late.
23:22No, I...
23:23Too late.
23:24Doesn't need to come to my baby shower.
23:25Julia.
23:26Don't come.
23:27I know, Nala.
23:30I know, Nala.
23:57What do you think?
23:58Yes.
23:59Yes.
24:00Yes.
24:01Yes.
24:02I know.
24:03I don't know, so...
24:04All right.
24:05Yes.
24:20I'm a little nervous.
24:22Yes.
24:23Yes.
24:24Yes.
24:25How do you feel?
24:26I feel nervous.
24:27I feel nervous.
24:29You feel sleepy.
24:32Get your rest.
24:32We'll check in later.
24:34The surgeon just came and talked to me.
24:35Everything went very well.
24:37Oh my goodness, I'm so happy to hear that.
24:40Can't wait to have her in my arms and take her home.
24:42My poor baby.
24:44Can't wait.
24:44I'm so excited.
24:45Yes.
24:46Are you here?
24:47OK.
24:49Ah.
24:52How are you feeling?
24:53I feel very sore underneath my breast.
24:58I have to pee bad though.
25:00OK.
25:01Well, let's get you in this wheelchair and we're heading home.
25:03OK?
25:04I love you, baby.
25:05I love you, too.
25:12My back is so strong.
25:15Good right now.
25:17So she took three pounds off of one side and 2.
25:20Almost three off the other.
25:21That's like six pounds off of just boobs.
25:25And you still have plenty there.
25:26Because I still want to be sexy.
25:30Baby.
25:35Did my mom show up?
25:36No, thank God.
25:38Not today.
25:40Or maybe I should say, not today, Satan.
25:42But like, that's the right one to talk to, not today, Satan.
25:46Tomorrow maybe, but not today.
25:48Yeah, not today.
25:57All right, baby.
25:58Let's change out those drains.
25:59Yeah.
26:00You got it?
26:01You got it?
26:02Mm-hmm.
26:08It's been two days since my surgery.
26:10And every hour, I have to check to see how much fluid is coming out
26:15of my drains and keep a log of it so that we prevent infection
26:18and speed up the wound healing.
26:21It's the same.
26:22Great.
26:23It's good.
26:24It's a 20-year-old socks.
26:25Mm-hmm.
26:26All right.
26:27Let's see how fast this sucker's been within 12 hours.
26:29I like the smile that I put on you.
26:42It sure looks good on you.
26:44Ooh, yeah, yeah.
26:46Hello.
26:47Hi.
26:48Hello, amigo.
26:49Hola.
26:50Thank you for coming.
26:51Don't hug hard.
26:52I can't.
26:54I know.
26:55It's been a long time.
26:56It's been a long time.
26:57I know.
26:59It's been three days since surgery.
27:01And I'm having my mom and dad over because they haven't seen me
27:04this whole time I've been recovering.
27:06Ashley wasn't ready to be in the same room as my mom,
27:09so she went out for a very long walk.
27:12I brought you some clam chowder.
27:16I hate that Ashley feels like she has to leave her own home.
27:20So I'm hoping that I can talk some sense into my mom today.
27:24Why are you so happy, Chloe?
27:26Of course, we brought you all your mail.
27:29Yes.
27:30And then something a little special.
27:33A good little wild pass.
27:34There he is.
27:35There's your friend to help you recover.
27:37Yeah.
27:38That is my little bear friend.
27:40Yeah, give him a squeeze.
27:41I love him.
27:42You guys are so sweet.
27:44She's so nice.
27:46I see that everything turned out just fine,
27:50but I wish I could have been there with you, for you.
27:54Yes, because, you know, I took off work.
27:56He did.
27:57He took off work.
27:58I took off work to come to your appointment with you.
28:01I would have liked for you to come, but it just seemed like there was too much friction between the idea of having you and Ashley in the waiting room.
28:14I wasn't going to bother Ashley.
28:17Mm-hmm.
28:18Well, you attacked Ashley at the tell-all.
28:20And what Ashley tells me is that it hurt her so badly because she felt like you guys were really friends, all for you to just throw it in her face in front of everybody.
28:31How they got there?
28:32Sounds like you owe her an apology.
28:33No, I don't.
28:34I don't owe her nothing.
28:35She owes me an apology.
28:36You're supposed to be the bigger person.
28:38I am.
28:39She's very tiny.
28:43All you want to do is use your displaced emotions about Pedro towards Ashley.
28:48I'm seeing the same patterns in you.
28:50In me?
28:51Uh-huh.
28:52As I did with my failed marriage.
28:54Lord, you mean the failed marriage to Pedro that scammed you to get into this country.
29:00There is similar to the same situation that someone is trying to look for a come up.
29:07The same, the same, the same.
29:12I don't want to discuss Ashley with you.
29:17Well, why are you acting nasty towards me?
29:19I brought you soup.
29:20I brought you presents.
29:21And you're up here talking about it like that.
29:23You and Ashley might deserve each other.
29:25And I'm not saying that in a mean way.
29:26And what's that supposed to mean?
29:27But you're mean with a nasty attitude and a smart mouth.
29:30So maybe you and Ashley belong together.
29:33It might be time for you to go.
29:34I think it might be.
29:36And I'm just going to help you change your drains.
29:39I'm not going to sit here and let my parents disrespect my girlfriend to my face.
29:45And I'm certainly not going to let them disrespect me in my own home.
29:50I love my family, but I don't want them to ruin another one of my relationships.
29:55I honestly, I don't know what to do.
30:00No, dog.
30:01Love you, beast.
30:25So this day is already not great.
30:30My parents are going to be late.
30:32And Julia is already in a bad mood.
30:37But we need to get to the shower, Julia.
30:41Be a good girl, Fluffy.
30:44Make friends, make good choices.
30:47Today is supposed to be a special day.
30:49We are getting ready for the baby shower.
30:51But of course, my mother-in-law already trying to ruin.
30:56So we're on our way to the baby shower.
30:59Everything is intense already.
31:01My parents again decide what they want.
31:04And they don't want to follow any rules.
31:08I ask them to come specifically time and now they're late.
31:11So everything is already being off the plan and disaster.
31:16It's already so stressful and I'm already doesn't want to, if I want to do this.
31:21Everything's going to be fine.
31:23Just calm down and relax.
31:25Just like you're having the baby.
31:27Just breathe in and out.
31:29You think that is how it will be?
31:32I think it'll help.
31:34Can't hurt.
31:36So we arrived and it's...
31:38Balloons.
31:39It's balloons.
31:40Brennan, look.
31:41Do you team the boy or girl?
31:44We don't know.
31:45I team the boy.
31:46You'll see.
31:48Baby creature Gibbs.
31:49Oh my god, this is so funny.
32:00Oh my god, hi!
32:05You look beautiful!
32:06You look beautiful!
32:07Beautiful!
32:09Hi guys!
32:11Hi!
32:12Hey!
32:14I'm going to be a daddy.
32:15Daddy to be.
32:17Dadacita.
32:19Dadacita.
32:21I doesn't have food because Brennan's parents are late.
32:24They're not here.
32:25So I'm so pissed.
32:29Are you okay?
32:30I don't know if Julia's going to like this amount, but it says, my Nona loves me.
32:45Well, you like it, that's for sure.
32:47I hope the baby's going to love me more than she loves Julia.
32:50Stop!
32:52Betty Nolan arrived late.
32:53What is typical Betty?
32:56I hate to complain, but yes, it is probably one of the most annoying things about my mom.
33:03Oh, okay.
33:04Hi guys!
33:05Hi!
33:06I really didn't know you're here.
33:08So we're trying to set up and get things ready for the food.
33:12Oh, that's amazing.
33:13Look beautiful!
33:14Hey girl!
33:17Yeah, I set up the food.
33:19Are you going to the kitchen and do it?
33:20Yes, come on!
33:21Can you get a hand cut?
33:22Yeah, that'd be great.
33:24I see Betty already trying to change something in here.
33:27Is she really?
33:28I did not know this.
33:29What did she try to change?
33:30Is she trying to move some stuff?
33:32Just like that is your decoration.
33:34No, I'm going to snap if she moves it.
33:36Is she trying to move something that's your decoration?
33:38Is she going to make the toilet paper roll?
33:41We need to go in to check.
33:43It's like a bad thing.
33:44Betty drove me crazy and I worry when this baby will be arrived.
33:48It's going to be a disaster.
33:50We need to take this pacifier and give it to Betty.
33:57So, I'm planning to do a little prank on her today.
34:00She's been bothering us to know the gender of the baby
34:04and she knows Brennan and I doesn't want to know.
34:08I need to make sure she knows she's going to have to stay in her lane.
34:15You team girl or boy?
34:17Girl.
34:19You team boy or girl?
34:20Yeah.
34:21Girl.
34:22Say boy.
34:24Boy.
34:26Okay, Graham.
34:28Okay.
34:29You ready?
34:30Okay.
34:33Are you guys going to do this now?
34:35Are you doing the review?
34:37We're doing the review.
34:38Okay.
34:39Are you guys ready to the gender?
34:41Yeah, we're ready.
34:42What are you doing?
34:43I want to see that track.
34:44Come on, let's go.
34:46Let's go.
34:47Let's go.
34:48Let's do it.
34:49Yay!
34:54Wait a minute.
34:55Whoa, wait a minute.
34:57Let's go.
34:59Are you having quiz?
35:01No.
35:02Are you having quiz?
35:04No, we decided not doing this.
35:06This was job.
35:08Man!
35:09You brought us out of here for this?
35:10We decided to do this because we...
35:13It's not ever thinking about you!
35:15What?
35:17What do you got?
35:18Like, like, for real?
35:21I'm going to get your wife on.
35:22Yeah.
35:23I know.
35:24I know.
35:25I knew my mom was not going to take this joke well.
35:27I don't think she understood quite what we were trying to do, so now I've got to smooth things
35:32over with her.
35:34Okay.
35:35That was pretty cruel.
35:36That joke was not funny.
35:38I'm sorry.
35:39I don't know.
35:40I don't know.
35:41She's just...
35:42stressing.
35:43She's got those raging hormones.
35:44Like...
35:45That's normal.
35:46She's coming up with all these rules and everything.
35:47She's trying to set boundaries.
35:48Boundaries?
35:49For you.
35:50For me?
35:51For dad.
35:52Yeah.
35:53Like, just rules that you have to follow.
35:54And...
35:55I mean, it's kind of...
35:56Is this a Russian?
35:57Is this a Russian?
35:58Is this a Russian...
35:59um...
36:00...traditional thing?
36:01I think it's a Julia thing.
36:02She hasn't said anything to me about this, so...
36:03We'll see.
36:04We'll see what happens.
36:05I'm a little worried because...
36:06Brainy said something about the fact that we're going to have boundaries.
36:11I still don't know what those are, but I'm going to keep myself positive and think
36:14positive and happy thoughts.
36:17Yeah.
36:18I'm a little worried because Brainy said something about the fact that we're going to have boundaries.
36:23I still don't know what those are, but I'm going to keep myself positive and think
36:27positive and happy thoughts.
36:28If there's nothing that's going to be too invasive or restricting, yes.
36:32Because it's going to be really disappointing and very...
36:35Yeah.
36:36No, I'm...
36:37...waiting if I can't, like, spend time or cuddle and love our new...
36:42Franchile.
36:43Franchile.
36:44Mom, we'll talk about it.
36:46Okay.
36:47That's a conversation, I guess, for another day.
36:53Let's got the cake!
36:55Got the cake!
36:56There was a little bit of drama today with Mom, but...
37:01I mean, ultimately, I think the baby shower went well.
37:04Yeah.
37:05We're getting there.
37:07Mom?
37:08It's like a beast.
37:09It's like a beast.
37:10It's like a beast.
37:11I did have a conversation with Mom about boundaries, and she did seem to take it well.
37:17I believe it when I see it.
37:19Let's see when this baby gets here.
37:21It is, like, no calling.
37:22Could be a calling before a storm.
37:24That just made me worry, because I know your mom, and you know your mom.
37:28God.
37:29I can't wait to have my dreams taken out.
37:37What if she doesn't take them out today?
37:38I don't think I could go much longer with these dreams, honestly.
37:47I hope you don't.
37:48After years of back pain, I finally had breast reduction surgery two weeks ago.
37:56And today is the big reveal, because honestly, I've been wearing the surgical bra this whole
38:13time, and all I've seen is my cleavage.
38:18I can't wait to take off the bandages and see what my breasts look like.
38:23I'm excited to see your boobs, baby.
38:27Me too.
38:28And also nervous.
38:29I'm scared.
38:30Yeah.
38:31I'm nervous.
38:32I'm really nervous about my nipples.
38:36I want them to be in line.
38:40I don't want one bigger or one smaller.
38:42I don't want one looking south and one looking north.
38:45Oh, let me go.
38:48But one thing that's really important to me is my nipple sensation.
38:52Well, the nipple sensation and placement is important for me, too.
38:56Especially the sensation part.
38:58I sure hope you can feel it.
39:01Hey.
39:02Hey.
39:03How are we doing?
39:04Doing well.
39:05Yay.
39:06How have things been for you?
39:07They've been fine.
39:08Okay.
39:09Very good.
39:10Good, good, good.
39:11So, all right.
39:12Well, let's take a look here.
39:15Oh, gosh.
39:17They're so high.
39:18Oh, my God.
39:19Look at my nipples.
39:20Oh, yes.
39:21Nipples are nice and alive.
39:22Very good.
39:23All right.
39:24And so, and your incisions look great.
39:26You just have minimal amount of bruising.
39:27Okay.
39:28I'm going to show you so you can take a look with the mirror.
39:30Oh.
39:31Oh, my God.
39:32Oh, my God.
39:33Oh, my God.
39:34Oh, my God.
39:35Right?
39:36Yeah.
39:37They look so good.
39:38Oh, my God.
39:39Yes.
39:40I so love my new breasts.
39:41They look amazing.
39:42They're light, they're lifted, and my nipples are symmetrical and even, and they're cute.
39:58Oh, my God.
39:59I'm just so excited and so happy because now my back is really thanking me.
40:05No more back pain.
40:06Woo!
40:07My boobs look so good.
40:11They so small.
40:12They so cute.
40:13Ooh, ooh, ooh.
40:14Look at them.
40:15Look at them.
40:16Look at them.
40:17Look at them.
40:18Look at them.
40:19They don't bounce like they used to, but I like that.
40:22You know, I like that.
40:23I don't want to be hit in the face when I'm running.
40:26My boobs don't move.
40:28Ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay.
40:34Another question.
40:35The fact that I feel pins and needles, that's good.
40:38That's good.
40:39That sensation's coming.
40:40Okay, good.
40:41Okay?
40:42What we'll do is we'll get these little drains out, and then you'll really be free.
40:47I'm looking forward to the future.
40:50I'm going to be more active.
40:52I'm going to buy a whole new wardrobe.
40:54And I can't wait to wear whatever I want and feel comfortable and confident in my body.
41:01And?
41:02They're ready for some attention hopefully soon.
41:06Hopefully soon they'll be ready for some attention.
41:09I'm so happy.
41:11I'm just so excited.
41:13That's okay.
41:14I'm not used to that.
41:16I know.
41:17I am so happy that I got the drains taken out.
41:22Thank you for coming and supporting me and taking care of me.
41:26And I just love you so much my little sweet pea.
41:29Mmm.
41:30I love you too.
41:31I love you too.
41:32I'm so happy.
41:33I love you too.
41:34I love you too.
41:35I love you too.
41:36I love you too too.
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