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90 Day Fiancé- The Other Way Season 7 Episode 20
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00:00Oh, well, away we go.
00:02Previously on 90 Day Fiance, The Other Way.
00:06Petia said she wants to go back to the U.S.
00:08When something's meant to be, it always finds a way.
00:11But I want us to stay together.
00:13I want this to work.
00:15Will you marry me?
00:18Yes.
00:18Oh, my God.
00:22You're going to be marrying my son,
00:23but the two weeks that he's been here,
00:26it's f***ing hard.
00:27Is this really what you want?
00:38Schmidt and I are going to move back to our apartment
00:41where we were happy.
00:46You have to live with us.
00:49I can't take it anymore.
00:50You understand?
00:51I'm not going to live in this bedroom the rest of my life.
00:54They are depending on them right now.
00:56We cannot move out of there.
00:58Our life f***ing sucks.
00:59I'm done.
01:03I'm headed to Jonathan's house to get on my stuff.
01:07It's just over.
01:09I did something really stupid.
01:11Just being a guy.
01:12I did ask a woman for her news.
01:15I'm very sorry for her.
01:16And it's up to her if she wants to forgive me or not.
01:20Hey, brother.
01:20Hey.
01:21Hey.
01:21Hey.
01:21Hey.
01:21Hey.
01:21Hey.
01:21Hey.
01:22Hey.
01:22Hey.
01:23Hey.
01:23Hey.
01:24Hey.
01:25Hey.
01:25Hey.
01:26Hey.
01:26Hey.
01:26Hey.
01:35Hey.
01:39So what are we trying today?
01:40Back and bars, chest and tris, glutes and flutes?
01:43Let's do tris and bars.
01:52Have you done this one before, love?
01:55That's chess. I thought we were doing bison tries.
01:57You said didn't you say chess and tries?
01:58No, I said bison tries.
02:00We can start a little warm-up with this.
02:02Okay.
02:03Now that I'm engaged, I feel very different.
02:06I feel like he's realized that I'm the one for him,
02:09and he's finally committed.
02:11You know, it's just amazing.
02:13Feel the burn.
02:16Good job, babe.
02:17Look at those veins.
02:19Damn.
02:21But the more time I spend here,
02:23the more I feel like it's not my home.
02:28Good, babe.
02:29We don't overdo it.
02:30We're just warming up.
02:32So the other day, I went grape stomping,
02:35and I did talk to Dylan about coming back to the States with me.
02:40Even though Tasmania is a beautiful place...
02:44Yes.
02:45I just don't see myself living here.
02:48But you said when I gave you the ring, you'd be happy.
02:50And now that you've got the ring, it's like, now you want to fly away.
02:55I mean, I want to go back and dance.
02:57And, babe, you can come with me.
02:59I'm not crazy about the idea.
03:04He was not thrilled.
03:06So things have been a little tense.
03:09Good.
03:10Let's see if we can do it in synchronization.
03:12Ready?
03:13Ha!
03:15Ha!
03:15Really good.
03:17I'm going to come and help your form.
03:18Keep going.
03:19I'm going to correct your form.
03:20Don't stop.
03:21You're sort of coming out to the side too much.
03:23So turn it up.
03:24Bring it in.
03:26Squeeze your glutes.
03:27Squeeze your core.
03:29You want to go up and wait?
03:31Hey!
03:31Can I just show you what you're doing?
03:33I know how to work out.
03:35You know, I know what I'm talking about.
03:37I'm so passionate about it.
03:39I love it.
03:40And I want to help.
03:41I've been working out 20 years before you, since you were in diapers, before you were born.
03:48This is basically like our relationship.
03:51Me trying to help, and then you not wanting the help.
03:57That's just frustrating to me because I'm trying to help her, lift her up.
04:02But I know that Patia sees that as being controlling.
04:06I think Patia sometimes enjoys the chaos and the drama.
04:11You know, like, after I proposed to her and gave her the commitment, I thought she'd be like,
04:17hey, this place isn't so bad at all.
04:19We can make this work.
04:20But she wants to go back to the U.S. and do dancing again, and she wants me to come with her.
04:26What next?
04:27Some cardio, and then we'll get out of here.
04:29It's like, these are the big issues that need to be, you know, sorted out.
04:34So, love, when I was trying to train you, I felt like you were rushing through the workouts a bit.
04:40Like, I was just trying to help.
04:43I don't like it when you boss me around like that.
04:47Like, the controlling thing is a little bit much.
04:50The thing that's hard is when I can see something is detrimental to your health or your finances,
04:59I'm trying to sort of help you because I've seen you make those mistakes before.
05:03And I want you to be happy.
05:05I want to see the sparkle in your eyes.
05:07I want you to be the best version of yourself, okay?
05:12I don't want to be arguing and bickering and the spending and the credit cards
05:17and the fast cash, fast spend lifestyle.
05:20I want it to be more slow and calm and peaceful.
05:24But I told you I'm not like that anymore.
05:27I don't want the six credit cards to be seven and eight.
05:29Babe, it's not like that anymore.
05:32I told you.
05:35Is that it?
05:37When the big decisions come, I'd like to have some input
05:40and I'd like to have my opinions sort of respected.
05:43Of course, babe.
05:44I just feel like you're telling me that I'm controlling.
05:47It's like you're trying to control me too.
05:49You don't admit that?
05:51That you can sometimes be controlling also?
05:55I'm so confused.
05:57I mean, we just got engaged and you're just nitpicking about everything.
06:02Where is this coming from?
06:04You can do whatever you want, but as soon as I try and call my mom...
06:08No, I can't do whatever I want.
06:10Yes, basically you can.
06:11No.
06:13You can call your mom, you can call your friends,
06:15but as soon as I try and call my mom, you flip out, okay?
06:20Please.
06:21I don't flip out, no.
06:23You're so full of s***.
06:24Like, you're very controlling me.
06:26Babe, you don't let me control you.
06:29If I had control, you wouldn't be working in a freaking strip club.
06:35You do whatever you want with whoever you want.
06:37I don't know who you're with or what time you're at
06:39until four or five, six in the morning with different guys.
06:42What are you talking about with different guys?
06:48You're going out with different guys after work.
06:50You've got them on your phone.
06:50You're such a liar.
06:51You're changing.
06:52You're so f***ing insecure.
06:54You really think I go out with different guys?
06:58I'm not insecure.
06:58You do whatever you want whenever you want.
07:00I just want to know the truth.
07:01I am telling you the truth.
07:02I want to hear it from you all now.
07:03And you refuse to believe it.
07:06If you don't trust me, why are you even with me?
07:09I do trust you, love.
07:11No, you're saying I go out with different guys every night?
07:13I know for a fact you've got customers in your phone, love.
07:17So what?
07:17Does it mean I go out with them?
07:18Well, you're with them at the pub,
07:20and then afterwards sometimes you go back to the hotels.
07:24Are you for real?
07:26Yes.
07:29I can't believe you just said that.
07:31I've never done that.
07:35Okay.
07:35You're f***ing lying about this stuff.
07:37You're making things up.
07:38You've lied to me for years about what goes on in that pub, Patilera.
07:41Because you're not telling me the truth, love.
07:43I am telling you the truth.
07:49This is extremely f***ed up.
07:51I know what he's implying,
07:53that I have sex with other men in the club.
07:58He's calling me a prostitute.
08:00Sorry, I'm not.
08:01We're not prostitutes.
08:02We're entertainers.
08:04Big difference.
08:07I'm shocked, and I'm hurt,
08:09and I'm, like, my heart is, like, crying.
08:13I am so mad.
08:15If you're going to assume that I'm doing something that I'm not,
08:18then you don't love me,
08:20because there's no trust there.
08:22Well, let's be honest.
08:22There's a lot more going on in that pub than I know about.
08:25Oh, my God.
08:25And I'm not stupid, love.
08:26I'm not talking to you.
08:29You piss me off.
08:30I can't be with somebody like you.
08:32I've never used one of these steamers before.
08:55I don't know if I'm doing this right, but...
08:57I'm nervous, excited, a bunch of emotions.
09:02I mean, today's the big day.
09:04It's the kind of love that goes through the night
09:07as you're losing track of time
09:09and you don't want to stop it
09:12because the sunrise is lost.
09:15Today is my wedding day.
09:29I'm so nervous about it.
09:31I was wearing this tape for, like, one year and a half,
09:34but we are here, finally.
09:36And you dormiste well?
09:39No, casi no.
09:41Oh.
09:42And you did the conversation that I had ayer with my husband?
09:45I told you everything.
09:47Eh, but imagine that Luke told me everything.
09:52I told you everything, the stripper.
09:54And it was very uncomfortable.
09:55So, it was like that we also talked about the name of the property.
10:03At the end, I said,
10:05obviously, I respect that he was your husband,
10:07but that doesn't change the fact that it's bad.
10:11The trust had been lost.
10:12You brought my shoes?
10:18Yep.
10:21We're finally here.
10:22I'm getting dressed in my suit, you know?
10:24Like, it's surreal.
10:27And he's checking folks.
10:28I mean, do I have some doubts?
10:32Yeah.
10:32I mean, we've fought nonstop,
10:35but I love the girl.
10:37I want to take a step into my future,
10:40and I feel ready.
10:43I had this conversation with Madeline last night.
10:46I said,
10:46are there any second thoughts on your side?
10:51And she actually paused and thought about it.
11:00¿Tú sabes que han sido semanas muy difíciles?
11:03Gracias.
11:05Un matrimonio no es fácil.
11:09Y de eso se trata,
11:11de superar todo ese tipo de cosas.
11:12Porque cuando uno quiere estar junto,
11:16va a estar por encima de lo que sea.
11:17Por encima de lo que sea.
11:18Familia, dinero.
11:21Y que ese amor tan bonito que sienten.
11:25Bueno, pelear por eso.
11:28This is the man I love,
11:31but I still have so many doubts.
11:36Like, 48 hours ago,
11:38I didn't know if I'm going to marry this guy.
11:41I only want to get married once,
11:43so I'm confused.
11:45Just my head gives so many questions to me.
11:49Luke say he's coming to me,
11:51and we're working on some issues,
11:54but I really don't want to be hurt more.
11:57Yeah, I don't know.
12:02Mom finally accepts you,
12:04and you want to move on?
12:05Are you crazy?
12:06Moving God out of the house is not an option.
12:09Simit has the upper hand right now
12:11in our relationship.
12:12I'm trapped.
12:13I asked you multiple times
12:16if you had slept with that girl.
12:18What did you tell me?
12:19No.
12:20So you lie.
12:21Yes.
12:22That is a problem.
12:23You don't lie about that.
12:25You want to talk about lying?
12:26Really?
12:49Really?
12:52Yeah, really.
12:56Jane and I are supposed to be
13:02having a relaxing day often.
13:04She just told me that
13:05she don't want to live with my family anymore.
13:08And she already talked to my parents about it.
13:13Do you even understand
13:15what I'm going through?
13:16Do you realize I left America
13:18to come live with you here in India?
13:21And now I have to deal with this?
13:23I have to live with your parents?
13:27You should have tried harder
13:28to keep that apartment.
13:30You should have did whatever it took.
13:34We were living away from the family
13:35because of the reason.
13:37Because they were not,
13:38they didn't accept us as a couple.
13:39Now we are.
13:41And right now I need my family.
13:43I need their help.
13:45And that's what they are doing.
13:46They just tried to help us.
13:47Initially,
13:48you were mad that
13:50you were never a part of the family.
13:52And mom finally accepts you
13:54and you want to move on.
13:55Are you crazy?
13:57Like moving on out of the house
13:58is not an option, baby.
14:00What should I say in this situation?
14:02How can you be happy about this?
14:04Think of how our life was before.
14:07You can't do any of the things
14:09that we were doing before.
14:11We can't even have sex in this house.
14:14This just sucks.
14:15I can't enjoy my life.
14:18You can enjoy your life.
14:19You have everybody around.
14:21You have family around.
14:22You have business around.
14:23You have me.
14:24How can you enjoy your life by yourself?
14:28Like you cannot.
14:29Well, at least I don't get insulted
14:31and be called fat and lazy.
14:34We were living by ourselves
14:36and nobody was there to say anything.
14:39It sounds good,
14:40but that was toxic.
14:42That was unhealthy.
14:43You seemed pretty happy.
14:45Yeah, I would complain.
14:47Yeah, until this situation arrived.
14:50Look, what happened?
14:50We enjoyed so much
14:52that we end up into that situation
14:54where we have to ask a help from my family.
14:58Who would help us?
14:59It's your family.
15:01So I expect you to think the same way.
15:06This is not right.
15:07This is being a selfish chauffeur.
15:10For seven years,
15:11I gave whatever she wanted.
15:13I get divorced.
15:14I start living away from my family.
15:16I risk my relationship with my parents
15:19and society over Jenny.
15:21And where I need Jenny more,
15:24she is not ready to adjust or sacrifice.
15:28I'm just letting you know
15:30that we are moving out
15:32and you're figuring out how.
15:36Or I'm moving out.
15:42It's fine for you.
15:43For me, it's not fine.
15:46You can make it work.
15:47I'm getting so upset.
15:50He doesn't want to leave.
15:52He doesn't understand.
15:53Or he doesn't want to understand.
15:57I told Sumit,
15:58I will leave.
15:59I will just be gone.
16:01But, I mean,
16:02if I try to move out on my own,
16:04where would I go?
16:05Where am I going?
16:07Sumit has the upper hand right now
16:09in our relationship.
16:10I'm kind of stuck there.
16:12I'm trapped.
16:13I'm screwed.
16:16We are living with the family.
16:18So what do you want to do?
16:39I just want to go home.
16:43There's nothing you can say anymore.
16:45There's not.
16:46I shouldn't have said the things to you
16:48when I'm sad.
16:49Like, I'm sorry.
16:50Like, I really am.
16:54I really just want to go home.
16:56I don't think you realize
16:57how upset it, like, really made me.
17:00Like, I'm so miserable.
17:05Like, I would never do that to you.
17:08Never.
17:09Like, there's no justifying it.
17:11I would have never done that.
17:13Ever.
17:13Bro, that hurt so f***ing bad.
17:17So bad.
17:19I'm going to f***ing up.
17:21What I did was very wrong.
17:23And I'm sorry for that.
17:25I'm sorry that I asked a woman for nudes.
17:28I'm very sorry.
17:29I was being stupid.
17:30I was bored.
17:31I was being a guy.
17:32Okay?
17:33It's not an excuse.
17:34It's not I'm not trying to justify it.
17:36I am admitting my fault.
17:37Okay?
17:39But my point here is that
17:40how you reacted
17:42wasn't the right way.
17:47You went through my phone,
17:49took a bunch of screenshots
17:50of things before
17:51we were actually committed to each other.
17:54Try to portray a picture of me
17:56between your friends,
17:57your family,
17:58and everyone else.
17:59No, but I'm just trying
18:00to explain to you my point.
18:01What was before us?
18:03Because the girl
18:04that you hooked up with in May,
18:05yes.
18:06That was before us, apparently.
18:08That was before us.
18:08Yes.
18:09But I asked you about it.
18:10You're just mad
18:11because you didn't know
18:12who it was.
18:14That's why you're mad.
18:15Because you already knew.
18:16What?
18:17Chloe, you already knew
18:18about this video.
18:19I've seen the video,
18:21but I didn't know it was her.
18:23Exactly.
18:23That's my point.
18:24And I asked you multiple times
18:26if you had slept with that girl.
18:28What did you tell me?
18:28No.
18:30Okay, so did you not lie?
18:31I did.
18:32I'm sorry.
18:32Okay, so when I actually saw
18:33the other video of you two together,
18:35I was like,
18:36oh my God.
18:38You told me you deleted
18:39that whole shit in the album,
18:41A Bunch of Girls,
18:41and if you deleted it,
18:42I wouldn't have
18:43found any of this shit.
18:45So you lied?
18:46Yes.
18:47That is a problem.
18:48You don't lie about that.
18:50You want to talk about lying?
18:51Go ahead.
18:52I'm not in the wrong.
18:54It's fine.
18:54You want to put May behind us?
18:56Good.
18:56It was already behind me.
18:57You went through my
18:58behind my back.
19:00Cry about it.
19:02Like, dude,
19:03you're so childish, man.
19:04I'm childish?
19:05Yeah, dude.
19:05It's like...
19:06At the end of the day,
19:08it is wrong to ask
19:10four nudes
19:11in front of your girlfriend.
19:13I'm explaining to you
19:14I was bored,
19:15I was being stupid,
19:16and I was a guy,
19:17and I'm wrong for doing that.
19:19I cheated,
19:19and I'm sorry.
19:20I admitted that.
19:21My problem with you is that
19:23you're bringing all these things
19:24from the past
19:25and trying to portray me
19:26as this evil person,
19:27and I can't deal with that.
19:30I can't deal with a person
19:31that's going to talk bad about me,
19:32or that when there's a problem
19:34between us,
19:34you won't let the whole world know.
19:36That just shows
19:37you're not from thick and thin.
19:38You know how many days a week
19:39I'm bored?
19:40Yeah.
19:41What do I do?
19:41Go to the beach.
19:42That's what I do.
19:43I'm a guy.
19:44I'm sorry.
19:44I like women.
19:45I'm sorry that I cheated.
19:47You have a woman
19:47right in front of you.
19:48Yeah,
19:48that treats me like
19:49anyways.
19:50Oh, okay.
19:50All right?
19:51I treat you like
19:52a cheating scandal.
19:53You were treating me like
19:53anyways,
19:54so I don't want you anyways.
19:57Like,
19:58it's ridiculous.
19:58I have to do all this
20:00for what?
20:01For someone that disrespects me,
20:02that when there's a problem,
20:03won't come and talk to me,
20:04instead runs away
20:05and bashes my name?
20:06You think I want to be
20:07with somebody like that?
20:09Are you
20:09serious?
20:10I don't know.
20:40Oh, my God.
21:04I feel my hair going like
21:06one hundred of the times more fast.
21:09It's real.
21:10This is happening right now,
21:12but I feel so nervous
21:15because I don't know
21:17if we are really
21:18ready to get smart yet.
21:24Oh!
21:29Ay, ma.
21:30This is my girl.
21:40This is my girl.
21:42She's so beautiful.
21:46She's so beautiful.
21:47I'd be lying if I didn't say that
22:16I've had moments of extreme doubt
22:18through the whole relationship.
22:20Can't believe the day's finally come.
22:22It's been a bumpy road.
22:23We've had ups and downs,
22:25like a roller coaster.
22:27I mean, the wedding's probably been called off
22:29ten times or something like that.
22:31Who knows at this point?
22:33But we're finally here.
22:34You're only a single man for a few more minutes, boy.
22:37Okay?
22:40I'm standing up there.
22:42I'm waiting.
22:43I'm overwhelmed with joy.
22:45But I'm nervous.
23:05Woo!
23:06Smoke!
23:09This is Madeline.
23:11I think this is Madeline.
23:12I'm so excited.
23:21Getting to the helicopter
23:23and see the wedding venue from the ire.
23:27Oh, my God.
23:28That moment is magic.
23:30But at the same time,
23:43I see Luke's face.
23:46He was so pain,
23:49so that means he already started to cry a lot.
23:52In that moment,
23:56I feel like this one is the right decision.
24:01I know you know
24:02how I'm holding back.
24:05Something like him, boy.
24:06I just don't know how you
24:09could love me like that.
24:11As I'm standing up there,
24:15all I can feel is happiness.
24:18And all of my problems,
24:19all of the fights,
24:21all of the hardships that we've endured
24:23just floated away.
24:25I never saw someone so beautiful.
24:41I was just overwhelmed
24:44and I was so happy to see her.
24:47And it was amazing.
24:51I love you so much.
25:13You know,
25:14are you the best things
25:16that have happened to me?
25:20Thanks.
25:21for teaching me independence.
25:24And it's so beautiful
25:25to have you in my life.
25:32Adelaide,
25:33from the very first moment we met,
25:37I knew my life had changed forever.
25:42You were my best friend.
25:44My heart, my home.
25:46And today, in front of everyone,
25:48I give you the most precious thing
25:50that I have.
25:52which is my heart.
25:54They have a watch for me.
25:57They have a mom.
26:00Ante la presencia
26:01de todos los seres aquí reunidos,
26:04les declaramos
26:05unidos en esta hermosa aventura.
26:09Can I show you this?
26:10Can I show you this?
26:11Can I show you this?
26:11Can I show you this?
26:11Can I show you this?
26:12All of these fires are round.
26:14Can I show you this?
26:16She won't break my knees
26:21Together we've a lot of love
26:26We just got married!
26:28Woo!
26:34I can't believe that I'm so lucky
26:37and this is my life.
26:39Seeing her get out of the helicopter
26:41with her big ass dress,
26:44it filled me with so much emotion.
26:47I cried.
26:48I'm so embarrassed.
26:49Woo!
26:52This is my girl.
26:53This is my person.
26:54This is my future.
26:57And I'm blessed.
26:59Oh my God, yeah!
27:01Like, it's so amazing.
27:14I can't tell you how happy I am for the both of them.
27:26There's been a long, heavy-duty build-up with all the hurdles.
27:29He gave up everything he owned to come down here to be with her.
27:34Every marriage has their ups and downs.
27:37I'm just praying that they can make it work.
27:40Because I think they're wonderful.
27:42I really do.
27:49After everything we've been through,
27:51I'm so excited to start this new chapter of a life together.
27:54I, from the bottom of my heart,
27:57I love you, baby.
27:59Thank you so much.
28:01Woo!
28:06I can't imagine my life without you
28:09to make sure we are together forever.
28:12See you.
28:13Yeah, what?
28:14You're accusing me of doing stuff that I'm not doing.
28:31And I'm not like that.
28:33I have asked for Tia on numerous occasions
28:36what goes on in these champagne rooms,
28:38but I really shouldn't have pushed it that far.
28:41That's what you believe I can be in this relationship.
28:48I'm not talking to you.
28:49You piss me off.
28:50I can't be with somebody like you.
29:09I have asked for Tia on numerous occasions
29:12what goes on in these champagne rooms with these high rollers,
29:16but she's just brushed it off or got really defensive,
29:19and it makes me feel like she's hiding things.
29:22But I wish my emotions wouldn't get the best of me.
29:25I really shouldn't have pushed it that far.
29:27Do you just go outside and talk?
29:28Sit down here, love.
29:29I do trust you, love.
29:30It's just...
29:32It's just hard because you get so defensive whenever I...
29:33It's such a touchy subject.
29:34You're accusing me of doing stuff.
29:35It's just...
29:36It's just hard because you get so defensive whenever I...
29:37It's such a touchy subject.
29:38You're accusing me of doing stuff that I'm not doing.
29:39I don't appreciate that.
29:40I really like...
29:41I tell you I'm not like that.
29:42You're accusing me of doing stuff that I'm not doing.
29:43I don't appreciate that.
29:44I really like...
29:45I tell you I'm not like that.
29:46For 12 years I've been trying to tell you that I'm not like that.
29:47You're accusing me of doing stuff that I'm not doing.
29:51I don't appreciate that.
29:52I really like...
29:53I tell you I'm not like that.
29:54For 12 years I've been trying to tell you that I'm not like that.
29:59I can't believe you're still today asking me that.
30:16It hurts.
30:17Hey, I'm sorry.
30:18It's just you get so defensive and agitated and emotional when I ask about it.
30:22It hurts because you're calling me a liar when I'm trying to be truthful with you.
30:27Like, you don't believe me. It hurts.
30:29It's like, why am I even with this guy if he doesn't trust me?
30:34I mean, if you really feel like that, accusing me of, like, going home with guys, really?
30:39Are you serious?
30:40The thing is, babe, I don't care what happens.
30:42Yes, you do.
30:43If you didn't care, you wouldn't bring it up.
30:45I'm just saying, whatever happens, whatever did or didn't happen, no matter what, I'll always love you.
30:52I just want them to know the truth.
30:54And if you say it's the truth, then it's the truth.
30:55It's the truth.
30:56It hurts.
30:57It hurts from the bottom of my heart.
30:58I don't want to lose you, babe.
30:59I don't want to lose you, okay?
31:00Because if that's what you believe, I seriously can't be in this relationship.
31:03I don't want to lose you, babe.
31:04I'd rather, like, be by myself.
31:11I don't want to lose you, babe, okay?
31:13So let's never talk about that again, all right?
31:15Let's put that to bed.
31:16No, I want you to say yes.
31:18I trust you.
31:19Yes, I trust you.
31:21I'm sorry for making you upset.
31:23I hate to see you upset, love.
31:24I don't want to fight.
31:29I don't want drama.
31:30I just want to live a happy, peaceful, loving life.
31:34That's what I want.
31:35I'm not drama.
31:37And I just feel like being with you is just toxic and drama all the time.
31:41You love all this?
31:44You love this rollercoaster?
31:45No, I love you.
31:47Because I feel like it's just a rollercoaster ride.
31:50We just go in circles and circles.
31:54Babe, I love you.
31:55And I want to be with you.
32:01I told myself, this is it.
32:02I'm going to come to Tasmania.
32:04If we don't come together, if I don't get a proposal, we don't get married.
32:07I'm done.
32:10Well, you've got the proposal, love, and we're about to get married.
32:13I told myself you're doing this s***, babe.
32:14I know.
32:1412 years of this s*** is enough.
32:17Seriously.
32:23Everybody thinks I'm crazy.
32:26Waiting for you for so long.
32:29Hoping you change.
32:30I'm done.
32:37How are we going to get past all this?
32:43Like we always do, babe.
32:44Like we always do.
32:48In order for this to work, he has to change.
32:52He has to have, one, my back.
32:55When I'm talking to him about his mother and how she influences his decision in our lives.
33:01Two, he needs to trust me.
33:03And three, being controlling.
33:05He needs to work on that.
33:08I want to get married.
33:09I want to be with you.
33:10Show me, babe.
33:12Starting today, show me.
33:15Help me to get past this.
33:17It's got to change, you know.
33:19I just can't keep going on like this.
33:21We just cannot keep doing this.
33:23I love this crazy, beautiful love.
33:31It is crazy.
33:32I wouldn't try it for the world.
33:37These aren't like f***ing earrings, you f***ing f***ing.
33:41Chloe.
33:42Did he just not care the entire time?
33:45I don't even know.
33:47Those are not f***ing mine.
33:49I don't care who they are.
33:53Like, it's ridiculous.
33:55I have to do all this s*** for what?
33:57For someone that disrespects me?
33:58That when there's a problem, won't come and talk to me?
34:00Instead, runs away and bashes my name?
34:03You think I want to be with somebody like that?
34:05You cheated.
34:10I'm a f***ing guy.
34:12I'm sorry.
34:12I like women.
34:13You're a guy?
34:14My ex didn't f***ing do that.
34:16My dad didn't do that to my mom.
34:18Because you're a guy?
34:20F***ing f***ing.
34:21does that mean i have to go in the kitchen and clean for you while you're out doing this
34:25and you want to tell me you don't do it anyway thank god i didn't cook and clean for you this
34:30is why i didn't cook and clean for you because i knew this was going on but why even start with
34:34me in the beginning because i didn't think you were a person my mistake now i'm a person
34:40what do you want me to call you
34:45i'm not perfect man i will admit that i was wrong it was messed up me asking for the girl for news
34:52hey but don't be like oh petty i'm gonna go behind your back and i'm gonna try my very very best to
34:58ruin your reputation no man wants a woman like that no man will ever want a woman like that
35:05i admitted that i cheated i am sorry for that my point is when there's a problem you shouldn't go
35:12run around go tell everybody about it i don't give a of course because you don't understand
35:16relationships who whoa i don't understand relationships okay all right i'll how's this
35:22i'll see how my next relationship goes versus yours i have a feeling the next girl you're with
35:27is gonna leave your ass a little bit sooner than i did because no one's gonna put up with the that i
35:31put up with okay i asked for loyalty in this okay i moved my entire life here i also asked for
35:38loyalty and honesty in a lot of things but you did not give that to me okay you know
35:41me then okay no no it's just saying you're acting like i did so much when you did a lot worse
35:47oh yeah no i'm i'm bad i mean you don't even care like you have no sense of reality
35:52no woman would want somebody to do this and you think anybody want a woman that disrespects
35:58him like that talking about his dead mom you disrespected me by mentioning my mom
36:02you disrespected me by cheating okay so you know what it's okay i'm just more i talk to you the
36:08i don't want to be with you i didn't come here to be with you all right done you're happy
36:15no i'll never be happy about this happy you go home you'll be fine like chill out dude
36:23so i'll just do this myself you can just hide your face because i don't want to
36:32eat you all right so thank you for that thank you with a smile on your face yeah of course
36:38you're just not compatible when there's a problem no i can't be compatible with a game floor i can't be
36:59compatible with that no one can i can't i actually can't speak i literally can't even speak of course
37:05it's not because you can't control your emotions i can't with you
37:11don't help please the faster you're out the better yeah i think you have your rings and stuff in my room
37:25what what what am i leaving here what what is it what rings like these are yours chloe
37:38these aren't my
37:38oh god
37:43chloe why are you acting like this chloe
37:50chloe
37:53chloe
37:53chloe why would you say that because none of those earrings are mine who else are they chloe
38:01those are not mine i don't care who they are
38:04like all i wanted to do was talk to you and try to fix this issue between me and you
38:10i don't have anything else like you say you love me but this is how yeah you know what i do and i
38:17shouldn't no you don't all right i don't know if you did why didn't you just talk to me
38:21why didn't you just talk to me i just talked to you it wouldn't have gone this far if you just
38:24talked to me with this conversation i'll why can't you just be nice to me man johnathan
38:28why can't you just be respectful and nice to me i know i cheated but damn what you're doing
38:32is insane dude call me names mention my mom all this sorts of for some nudes like i'm not gonna
38:40let you cheat and go i'm not gonna okay you okay all right so doesn't matter how many times i say
38:45sorry doesn't matter how many times i ask for your forgiveness doesn't matter how many times i go
38:48with you i don't have it like i just i don't have anything i'll say more
38:53you want it done there's no option there's an option you always have an option you i can't stay
39:04with somebody who's gonna do that to me that's not fair no it's a mistake i'm not gonna do it ever
39:09again clearly i will never do it ever again clearly
39:13i will take you back man
39:23there's nothing we can fix right now i'm sorry i cannot put it behind me i can't
39:34you can go inside now
39:37i still have love for chloe you know i really really wish you know it was different and we
40:00could have worked it out but like the way she react was very disappointing and it's just yeah i just have
40:05to live with the fact that you know you can't always have it your way you can't always have
40:09a person be the way that you want to be especially when there's a conflict you know what i mean so
40:13take it as a lesson you know swallow the pill you know be a man
40:18that conversation completely changed like my last image of him
40:28like say that i'm in the wrong and that like i'm the problem it's just like
40:35none of it makes sense none of it makes sense it's very
40:39very hurtful
40:41i'm just like literally who are you like i feel like i was in a relationship with a total different
41:02person than what i saw today did he just not care the entire time
41:08i don't know
41:11next time on 90 day the other way the couples tell all
41:36goodnight
41:36spin your knee a little bit and you're gonna do the figure 8
41:39oh
41:40we both look like we did the same hairstyle
41:44stop it
41:46everybody ready do we have a choice
41:50no you don't have a choice
41:51matthew gretta said that the sex
41:56fell flat
41:57damn gretta
42:00I don't really remember it.
42:01What?
42:02I think sex is a reflection of your relationship.
42:07Oh, my goodness.
42:09Patia, are you adjusting better to Tasmania?
42:14Uh, well.
42:17Does they say no?
42:19I have some tea for you.
42:20Uh-oh.
42:21Uh-oh.
42:22Pour us the cup.
42:26I really did love him so much.
42:28It, like, hurt.
42:31Johnny, is there anyone special in your life now?
42:35Yeah.
42:36Do you see marriage in your future?
42:40Well, it's a very complicated situation.
42:42Come on, let us know.
42:43Lay it on us.
42:45OK, guys, don't kill me.
42:47So what the ?
42:49Oh, my God.
42:54But Jenny and I, things are not working.
42:56I can't be miserable all day long, every day.
43:00Is divorce in the cards?
43:03Yeah, I am at my breaking point.
43:06No.
43:07No.
43:08I think Chloe's a catch, bro, and you done up.
43:10I see it, Luke.
43:13You so much interested in here.
43:16F***, bitch.
43:17Ooh.
43:18Luke actually messaged me, saying, are we grabbing a drink tonight?
43:22What are you doing?
43:23Here, everyone see it.
43:24Who real the f*** are.
43:27If I'm making you so miserable, leave.
43:30Don't worry, honey.
43:30It's OK.
43:31Don't call me honey.
43:32Don't f***ing call me honey.
43:34She controls his phone.
43:36I have to delete messages if I'm talking to my family, because she's going to see those
43:40messages and blow up.
43:42That's crazy.
43:44Why everyone else matters the most to you and not me?
43:48We're going to try.
43:49Oh, my God.
43:51Oh, she's leaving.
43:54They put the camera for my Facebook right now.
43:56We're going to try.
44:12We're going to try.
44:14We're going to try.