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Stefan Molyneux

In this 26 December 2025 Friday Night Live, Stefan Molyneux chats with callers sharing their Christmas thoughts. Talk moved from family holiday stories to women's clothing choices and social norms, where he pointed out how male attention often comes into play. Things wrapped up with a look at parenting and the value of staying involved with kids. He mixed in some laughs and his usual takes on philosophy, pushing folks to think about their own lives and the back-and-forth of attraction.  SUBSCRIBE TO ME ON X! https://x.com/StefanMolyneux  Follow me on Youtube! https://www.youtube.com/@freedomain1  GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK! https://peacefulparenting.com/  Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!  Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!  You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!  See you soon! https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025

Transcript

00:00:00Welcome, welcome everybody, Friday Night Live, 26th of December 2025.

00:00:04Sorry for the chaos in getting started.

00:00:06Apparently I've lost all my skills over Christmas.

00:00:09Only been doing it.

00:00:10I'm only in my 21st year.

00:00:11At some point, I'm going to get this all sorted out.

00:00:15At some point, I like to think that I can wait for these kinds of things.

00:00:20So, of course, love to hear about your Christmas.

00:00:22Love to hear about what's on your mind.

00:00:24Philosophically speaking, we do have a caller.

00:00:27Or, why do I feel something is not working that should be working?

00:00:33Yeah, I think everything's recording.

00:00:35All right.

00:00:37I think we have somebody who wishes to ask, speak.

00:00:44My wife won the Christmas Cookie House Contest.

00:00:49We are live on Substack.

00:00:50Welcome.

00:00:52Substack-o-rama-lama-ding-dongs.

00:00:54Welcome.

00:00:54Laser hat placement almost there.

00:01:00Zara, if you wanted to unmute.

00:01:03I'm happy to hear what's on your mind.

00:01:06We're unmuting.

00:01:07What did you get for Christmas?

00:01:09Oh, that's pretty quiet, man.

00:01:10Let me just turn that up a little.

00:01:11Can you go ahead?

00:01:13Hey, can you hear me now?

00:01:14That's better.

00:01:14Yeah, sorry.

00:01:15That was on my end.

00:01:16Yeah, what's on your mind?

00:01:17Did you get anything existential for Christmas?

00:01:23How would I know?

00:01:26Well, I suppose I got...

00:01:28My daughter said, what do you want?

00:01:30And I said, make me a picture.

00:01:31She gave me a picture.

00:01:32So, that was nice.

00:01:33Other than that, I got pretty much practical things.

00:01:37Very nice.

00:01:40Do you have any questions or comments for us tonight?

00:01:42What could be more necessary?

00:01:44That was it.

00:01:45You told me to unmute.

00:01:47And I just want to know what you got for Christmas.

00:01:49That sounds very nice.

00:01:51Yeah, it was nice.

00:01:52So, we do Christmas Eve because the last thing you want for Christmas is the delay of gratification.

00:01:59So, we did Christmas.

00:02:01We did stocking stuffers on the 23rd.

00:02:04We did opening presents on the afternoon of the 24th.

00:02:10And then met up with some people, did all kinds of fun stuff.

00:02:14We got more people coming over this weekend.

00:02:16So, yeah, it was a very nice Christmas.

00:02:17How about you?

00:02:17How was yours?

00:02:21Fantastic.

00:02:22Been debating an epistemop of a friend of mine lately.

00:02:27And so, we got to talk about that over the phone.

00:02:30There's a little bit of echo coming out.

00:02:32I don't know if my voice was too low and now we had to turn the volume up.

00:02:37Yeah, I can't.

00:02:41Sorry.

00:02:41It's very garbly.

00:02:44I would just in general, and look, I'm not perfect this way either, but just in general,

00:02:48I would say for those of you who want to call in, A, have a headset, and B, have some data.

00:02:55I mean, just test, you know, just, I don't know.

00:03:00I mean, on Skype, there used to be a test thing.

00:03:02Just do a test call and see, because it's kind of annoying.

00:03:06And again, I'm not perfect this way either, but it's kind of annoying when people call in

00:03:09and they're all kind of garbled and you don't have any good data.

00:03:12I've had people call in in windstorms.

00:03:15I've had people call in with barking dogs and screaming this, that, the other.

00:03:19And it's just like, you know, if you're going to do a call-in show,

00:03:21it's just a kind of basic polite thing, in my view, which is to just try and make it as easy

00:03:27as possible for the host, don't have bad data, and have philosophical questions.

00:03:33That would be nice.

00:03:34Just, you know, if you could, I would appreciate it.

00:03:38All right, so let's get your questions and comments.

00:03:41And again, I'm happy to take more calls.

00:03:45Yeah, so the person who is helping me with the books, our good friend Zimf,

00:03:49is waiting for kids to come by.

00:03:51Yeah, so the Christmas Cookie House Contest, I was the one on the left with the dead guy

00:03:54in front.

00:03:55I'd forgotten that he was there.

00:03:57I just never quite got around.

00:03:58What happened was, my wife is a tidy bot.

00:04:00Do you have a tidy bot in your house?

00:04:03Like a permanent, she's like a permanent Greek short-legged Roomba

00:04:07who just goes around and tidies things up, like all the time.

00:04:10So what happened in my house was we started the contest and then we took a break.

00:04:16Now, when my wife's around, you don't want to take a break on anything

00:04:19because the immediate thing that happens is whatever you've taken a break on

00:04:23will get cleaned up.

00:04:25She's anti-entropy par excellence.

00:04:28And so the stuff got cleaned up, like all of the glue and the pieces for the,

00:04:32so I just didn't get around to finishing it, didn't finish the guy.

00:04:35So we went a little bit unfinished, although my wife and my daughter were better.

00:04:38Mine was on the left.

00:04:39My daughter's was in the middle.

00:04:41My wife's was on the right.

00:04:42My daughter's was the one who had the, she had the diaper on the gingerbread man.

00:04:47Mine was the gingerbread man who apparently had fallen from the roof

00:04:49while hanging the Christmas lights.

00:04:52So I do appreciate all the thousands of people who voted

00:04:56and there was great rejoicing in the land on the part of my wife.

00:05:02So a celebration that occurred somewhere around my kneecaps.

00:05:05I didn't hear much of it, but I heard some confetti noise floating upwards

00:05:08from the lower aspects of the planet that she inhabits.

00:05:13She's a little short is what I'm saying.

00:05:15I'm like, don't get short with me, can I mind?

00:05:17You can, you can get short with me.

00:05:18So I really do appreciate everyone's vote and thank you so much for your feedback.

00:05:24It was a lot of fun and people absolutely had hilarious comments

00:05:27because I'm not doing the videos, because I'm not showing the pictures.

00:05:30The comments won't make much sense, but it was very, very, very funny.

00:05:34So if there are ladies here, I know there are ladies here.

00:05:43I can, I can sense it.

00:05:44I can sense it.

00:05:46But why is it that women, what is it that makes it impossible for so many women to say,

00:05:53we dress up to be attractive to men?

00:05:58Why?

00:05:59Right, so there's a video of women, very, very lightly clad, to put it mildly,

00:06:09women walking through Amsterdam.

00:06:11Now, I was in Amsterdam for a speech, not some years ago.

00:06:18I actually did a short documentary on Amsterdam that never saw the light of day.

00:06:21But anyway, I was in Amsterdam and one of the aspects of the documentary

00:06:28was me touring the red light district.

00:06:30Roxanne!

00:06:31And if you see scantily clad women in Amsterdam, you know,

00:06:41they may be ladies of the evening.

00:06:44Not working for the newspapers.

00:06:46They're not prostitutes.

00:06:47They're prostitutes.

00:06:48But maybe, maybe not, right?

00:06:49They could just be girls out there looking to, you know,

00:06:52snag a hot guy for some late evening recreational acrobatics, right?

00:06:58Could be, could be.

00:06:59Who knows, right?

00:07:00Anyway, so this guy writes this.

00:07:04I think he's a guy.

00:07:05I don't know if he's a guy.

00:07:06The male picture.

00:07:07Young women walking through Amsterdam at night,

00:07:09dressed for joy, for music, for themselves.

00:07:13Eh!

00:07:14No!

00:07:15That's not what women are dressing for.

00:07:18Women are dressing for men.

00:07:21I don't know why this seems so hard for people to admit or to understand.

00:07:24Maybe women can explain it to me.

00:07:27Doh!

00:07:28Because basically, oh, I just, I wear this makeup,

00:07:31this incredibly tight dress and heels.

00:07:33It's just for me.

00:07:34And it's like, what?

00:07:37No, it's not.

00:07:38Why is this?

00:07:39It feels almost like blasphemy to point out,

00:07:42to blinding the obvious, that women dress for men.

00:07:45And there's nothing wrong with that.

00:07:47We, we appreciate it.

00:07:48And it's very nice and all of that.

00:07:50My wife dressed up for dinner last night.

00:07:53Looked like a million bucks times a million bucks.

00:07:55And I, of course, was generally mistaken for her security guard

00:07:59as a bullet-headed, vaguely muscular guy

00:08:03who's a little past middle age.

00:08:05So, I think it's lovely.

00:08:08She dressed, and she'll say, yeah, I'm going to dress up to look good for you.

00:08:11Right.

00:08:11I love it.

00:08:12So, why is it that women can't say this?

00:08:20Makeup.

00:08:20Oh, it's just for me.

00:08:21Why is it that, and maybe women are right to not talk about this kind of stuff.

00:08:28I don't know.

00:08:29But why is it that women can't just say, yeah, we dress up for male attention.

00:08:32We like male attention.

00:08:34And male attention is good.

00:08:36And male attention is kind of why we're all here.

00:08:38And we need male attention.

00:08:39We like male attention.

00:08:40We want to be asked out by guys.

00:08:41Like, why is it so hard for women to just say, yeah, we spend two hours getting ready.

00:08:49We get a tiny handbag.

00:08:51We get heels, which raise our butt up on a shelf.

00:08:55We have short, tight skirts.

00:08:57We do our hair.

00:08:58We pluck our eyebrows.

00:08:59We like all for male attention.

00:09:02Why?

00:09:04Why can people not say this?

00:09:06And, of course, you can answer this if you want to call in.

00:09:07That's fine.

00:09:08You can also answer this.

00:09:11Oh, why was the documentary on Amsterdam not published?

00:09:14The guy just, he went AWOL.

00:09:16You know, some people, like you work with them.

00:09:17And I was like, hey, we've got, you know, like a dozen hours of footage of me commenting

00:09:23about Europe and Amsterdam and all kinds of cool stuff.

00:09:26And he just, I've had this happen a couple of times.

00:09:29I did a whole, I did a four hour interview with a guy who was supposed to be stitched

00:09:32together.

00:09:32A whole overview of my entire philosophy just vanished.

00:09:37I mean, the first documentary I tried to produce like 12 years ago, the guy who was doing

00:09:42my animation, people just vanish.

00:09:44I don't know if it's me.

00:09:46I mean, I've had business relationships that have lasted like 15 years, so I don't think

00:09:49it's me.

00:09:52But people just go AWOL.

00:09:53I don't know.

00:09:54Maybe someone got to them, man.

00:09:55I don't know.

00:09:56I don't know.

00:09:57But yeah, just the guy went AWOL and I couldn't get the footage and I would have put it together

00:10:02myself because it was actually pretty, pretty funny.

00:10:05We did a pretty funny segment where I went to a sort of circus or a fun fair.

00:10:13And this was during one of the housing crashes.

00:10:18And I was like, I was making comments about all the people in the fun fair being yoinked

00:10:22all over the place, still having an easier time with the equilibrium than people trying

00:10:26to buy or sell a house.

00:10:27That was actually, it was pretty funny.

00:10:29I had some pretty funny comments and jokes and observations about the red light district.

00:10:34And maybe it exists on a hard drive somewhere.

00:10:36Maybe it's all gone.

00:10:37I don't know.

00:10:38But yeah, it is kind of annoying when people are like, hey, man, if you're going to be

00:10:41in Amsterdam, let's do a documentary together.

00:10:43I'm like, sounds great.

00:10:44And he mic'd me up and we spent a day and a night walking around Amsterdam.

00:10:48And I was talking about sort of the history and I was talking about the rise of prostitution

00:10:52and what it all means and all of that.

00:10:53And, um, I just never got, never got, never got, uh, somebody says, I just realized the

00:11:04other day how ironic it is that the best philosopher has a French name.

00:11:09It's a bit of a change from French philosophy, which all seems to be about dissolving the

00:11:13evidence of your senses and, uh, legalizing child sexual assault.

00:11:17Uh, good evening, Serpenta.

00:11:19Do you have any topics for today?

00:11:20I do.

00:11:21I do, but I'm certainly happy to hear yours.

00:11:24Um, love the Christmas speech from the other day.

00:11:26You answered many questions on my mind.

00:11:28Oh, thank you.

00:11:29Which one was Laura Loomis house?

00:11:31Does she live in Amsterdam?

00:11:32I did not know that.

00:11:33I know she's in the States.

00:11:34Uh, do you have any thoughts on this massive silver bull run that's been happening?

00:11:39I don't believe I've ever seen a 10% gain in a day.

00:11:41Uh, well, people are panicking away from the U S, uh, U S dollar, right?

00:11:47Current, uh, reserve currency ain't going to be reserve currency for a man too much longer.

00:11:52Dark, nimbus.

00:11:54What's on the line?

00:11:55Hi, can you hear me?

00:11:56Yes, sir.

00:11:57Okay.

00:11:58So, um, the thing is, is that women benefit off of the ignorance of men.

00:12:03And just like any system where somebody is trying to leverage advantage of the other

00:12:08person, the system benefits often to ignorance as men as well.

00:12:12And I believe that most of the system runs off this idea that there is this Disney fairytale

00:12:20like romance that men are tricked into essentially enslaving themselves by to where they think

00:12:26that they have to get these resources and abide by these rules to essentially procure

00:12:33a mate and women can only benefit and not exchange as men remain ignorant and men remain in a mindset

00:12:41where they are not aware that relationships are just simply a mutual exchange of self-interest.

00:12:46And, uh, that's why women fight so viciously to ensure that nobody discovers this.

00:12:52And that's my answer.

00:12:54Now, I appreciate that.

00:12:55I feel that's a little bit of a shock circling rather than sinking its teeth in.

00:12:58So, uh, tell me in particular, I think I understand, but tell me in particular, why women always

00:13:04say that they're dressing sexy and doing all of this, teasing their hair and putting the

00:13:08makeup on and spending hours getting ready and waddling around or stalking around on their

00:13:13giraffe toddler legs.

00:13:14Why is it in particular is so hard for them to say that they're doing it to attract men?

00:13:20So yeah, just, just help me understand that a little bit more.

00:13:22I get the general idea, but I'm not sure how it specifically applies.

00:13:24Because then the illusion will be shattered and then they themselves have to look in the

00:13:30mirror and admit that they're not necessarily good people.

00:13:34They're manipulating and leveraging situations to their benefit like everybody else.

00:13:39And some of them aren't even consciously aware of their own behavior.

00:13:42I think it's evolutionary psychologically ingrained within them to do this.

00:13:46And it's also an involved behavior because behaviors that get rewarded get repeated, right?

00:13:51Still not quite sure.

00:13:54I'm not quite getting the connection here.

00:13:56Um, I, again, I'm not disagreeing with what you're saying, but I'm not quite sure.

00:14:00So how does it harm women to admit that they dress up for male attention?

00:14:09Because then you can't play the game anymore without men being aware that they're being

00:14:14manipulated.

00:14:14Okay, I'm still not quite getting it.

00:14:21I mean, men know that when you look at a woman and she's dressed to the nines and she's looking

00:14:24sexy and she's showing some skin and she's right, her hair is teased or whatever she's

00:14:29got full makeup on.

00:14:30I mean, men know that women are dressing up to be attractive, right?

00:14:33Help me understand what men don't understand about that or what revealing that women dress

00:14:37up for men, how that would destroy that.

00:14:39I don't think that the majority of men are aware that they're being manipulated to the

00:14:47degree that they should be with these behaviors that women engage in.

00:14:53Okay, I've asked four times now.

00:14:55I'm just getting sort of a repeat of the generality.

00:14:57So I'll try and take a stab at it and let me know what you think.

00:15:01Okay, so if men think that women are dressing up for each other, that puts women, sorry,

00:15:06if men think that women are dressing up for each other and not for men, then it means that

00:15:11the men are not in demand.

00:15:14In other words, the women are all dressing up for each other, therefore the male gaze

00:15:19or the male glance or attracting the men isn't important and that puts men at a disadvantage

00:15:23relative to women because the women say, you are not part of my calculations.

00:15:30You are not who I'm dressing up for, therefore you have to work extra hard to get my attention.

00:15:35You have to show more initiative.

00:15:37You have to have more resources.

00:15:38You have to climb a high wall to get past my indifference that I'm not dressing up for

00:15:44you.

00:15:44Whereas if women say, well, of course we're dressing up for men.

00:15:46If we want to attract men, we like men.

00:15:48We're sexual creatures.

00:15:49We're romantic creatures.

00:15:50We want men.

00:15:52Then men will feel more confident that they are a value in the equation.

00:15:57Whereas if women say, we're not dressing up for men, we don't care about men.

00:16:00We only do it for ourselves or for others.

00:16:02Then there's a higher barrier for men to overcome to get male attention, which makes the women

00:16:07feel superior or higher up in the hierarchy of attraction, if that makes sense.

00:16:15I never had to play any games to get the attention of women.

00:16:19If a woman wants you, she doesn't make you play games.

00:16:21You just automatically get access to her immediately and solely and sexually.

00:16:27That's part of the line.

00:16:28Hang on.

00:16:29Hang on.

00:16:30Hang on.

00:16:30Okay.

00:16:31So what you're saying is that if a woman is attracted to you, she'll just what?

00:16:36Jump your bones or what do you mean?

00:16:39Yeah, absolutely.

00:16:40All the women that I've ever picked up and hung out with in my life, within the first

00:16:46five to 15 minutes of meeting them, I'm already procuring them and engaging in those types

00:16:52of activities.

00:16:53So hang on.

00:16:54Five to 10 minutes after you meet a woman, you're engaging in sexual activities?

00:16:59Most of the time, I would say a good 85% of the time, maybe a half a day or a day later

00:17:04in rare instances.

00:17:05But the only men that I hear that are forced to play games with these women are the ones

00:17:10that women don't want.

00:17:12I got to tell you, I think that's absolute bullshit that you can get women into bed five

00:17:15to 10 minutes after meeting them.

00:17:17I mean, they've done studies on this, bro, where like male models will go up to women

00:17:22in a bar and try and get the women to sleep with them.

00:17:25And the women, 100% of the women say no.

00:17:27Whereas, you know, 60, 70% of the men say yes.

00:17:31So, and the reason I'm calling you out on this is because I don't want men out there

00:17:34to think that there are other men who can just get women into bed in 10 minutes.

00:17:38Like this just, it's not a thing that doesn't happen.

00:17:40That's not real.

00:17:41Unless it's some drug addict in a bar and you're like, you know, having some wretched

00:17:46sexual encounter with an STD probability very high in some club toilet.

00:17:53But the idea that you are just going to go and meet a woman and sleep with her in 10

00:17:59minutes later, I mean, it's just not true.

00:18:01It's just not true.

00:18:02Well, if you were correct, then my entire social media accounts wouldn't be still with

00:18:09women ages 18 to 22 who have done exactly that with me all over the nation and the planet.

00:18:15You can go check it out yourself.

00:18:17Okay.

00:18:17So how many women would you say you've slept with?

00:18:21At least over 120 by now.

00:18:24Okay.

00:18:25And how old are you?

00:18:28I'm 37 years old.

00:18:29Okay.

00:18:30And what's the longest relationship you've ever had?

00:18:34Seven years.

00:18:35Okay.

00:18:36So we take seven years out of that and you've slept with 120 women.

00:18:40And why didn't you, I mean, do you ever want to get married and have kids?

00:18:44I've had 20 kids.

00:18:45I have over eight sons right now.

00:18:48Okay.

00:18:49What about getting married?

00:18:50I don't think that's in my benefit because then the power would be not in my favor.

00:18:58That gives the power of the state leverage over my life and I don't want to.

00:19:02Okay.

00:19:03So you have eight sons or you have eight sons.

00:19:06How many kids as a whole?

00:19:10Eight sons.

00:19:12Oh, so you have eight kids.

00:19:13They're all sons.

00:19:14You have only eight kids.

00:19:16Yes, correct.

00:19:17Okay.

00:19:17And how many different mothers?

00:19:18Okay.

00:19:20Eight different ones.

00:19:22Okay.

00:19:23And do you make enough to take care of these eight different families?

00:19:27Yes.

00:19:27I run a cybersecurity engineering contracting company.

00:19:32I have for many years and I do a lot of other things, including own, buy, sell land and property.

00:19:38Okay.

00:19:38So what is your financial obligation on a monthly basis?

00:19:42Just out of curiosity for these kids.

00:19:45Uh, the women I choose are very frugal and they're very smart with taking care of children.

00:19:51They don't require a lot, but they also don't have to work because I take care of them as well.

00:19:55Okay.

00:19:56That's not answering my question though.

00:19:57You're telling me how much for each one?

00:20:02No, no.

00:20:02What's your total monthly expenses for these eight families?

00:20:05Just roughly.

00:20:06Is it like 20K, 50K?

00:20:08What are you, what are you spending per month on these eight families?

00:20:13Probably about 15 to 20K a month on all my kids in total.

00:20:16Oh yeah.

00:20:17Okay.

00:20:18So you're spending a quarter million dollars a year for these eight families, right?

00:20:24Correct.

00:20:24Absolutely.

00:20:25Okay.

00:20:26So let me just do a little math here.

00:20:27So you're sending about two grand a month to each one of these women, right?

00:20:35Yeah, absolutely.

00:20:37And are these geographically scattered or in one central location?

00:20:43They're geographically scattered.

00:20:44So how much time are you able to spend with each one of your sons every month?

00:20:51As much as I need to, to make an impression on them as their father.

00:20:55Okay.

00:20:55You don't know how much each kid needs.

00:20:56So just give me an hour.

00:20:58Like do you spend 10 hours, 20 hours, five hours with each son over the course of any given month?

00:21:04Whenever I come around, that's pretty much what it is.

00:21:08I'm all over the United States all the time.

00:21:10Okay.

00:21:11So you really don't spend much time with your sons.

00:21:13So you are having your sons be raised by paid for single mothers, right?

00:21:20I guess if, if you could put it that way, but I mean.

00:21:27No, no, no, don't get, don't, don't get feminine on me, bro.

00:21:31Don't give me well if you put it that way.

00:21:33I mean, you're paying for their mothers to raise them and you barely see them.

00:21:37So your sons are being raised by paid for single mothers.

00:21:42In fact, if they were single mothers and you were around, you know, if you had one son and

00:21:47you got him 25 or 50% of the time, you'd be seeing them a whole lot more.

00:21:52So you have abandoned your sons to be raised by single mothers who you pay two grand a month

00:21:57to raise them.

00:22:01I assume that the way you're saying things is highlighting what I've done as bad.

00:22:10And I don't see it as that.

00:22:12I'm sorry.

00:22:15Did I say it was bad?

00:22:16I said, I'm simply stating it for what it is.

00:22:20Oh, okay.

00:22:21Well, that's fine with me.

00:22:23Okay.

00:22:24So do you know what the outcomes are?

00:22:28And I, I assumed that to these eight women who have your eight sons, do they have other

00:22:32children or just one of your sons?

00:22:34Just me.

00:22:37Okay.

00:22:38So you have eight sons with no siblings being raised by eight single mothers.

00:22:43Do you know what the outcome is in general for only children who are sons raised by single

00:22:50mothers?

00:22:53The outcome with me was fine.

00:22:55No, no, no, no.

00:22:56We're trying to get the focus off you for like 30 seconds.

00:22:59So what are the outcomes for single sons of single mothers?

00:23:06What is their life outcome in general?

00:23:08Is it good, average, or worse than average?

00:23:12Oh, I'm aware that the statistics are worse than average.

00:23:15I know what you're talking about.

00:23:17Okay, great.

00:23:18So how do you square with your conscience the fact that you have handed over eight sons to

00:23:23eight single mothers with no siblings when you know that the outcome is pretty

00:23:29terrible on average?

00:23:32Well, that's the average.

00:23:33I'm above average.

00:23:34So I'm not worried about that.

00:23:36Okay.

00:23:36Again, I'm not focusing on you or what you're worried about.

00:23:40I'm focused on what's best for your sons.

00:23:44Yeah.

00:23:44So am I, and they have what's best for them.

00:23:47They'll be fine.

00:23:49How do you know they have what's best for them?

00:23:53Because I'm me and I know.

00:23:56Okay.

00:23:56So you're just trolling me at this point, right?

00:23:58I mean, you can't be this narcissistic.

00:24:01No, I'm, I'm absolutely this narcissistic.

00:24:04Absolutely.

00:24:04Oh, so you are narcissistic.

00:24:06Okay.

00:24:06Well, and I would suggest that you're doing real harm to your sons and it is gross and

00:24:12vile.

00:24:13And if you're real and not just trolling, I don't know, who knows, right?

00:24:17I can't see people.

00:24:18But yeah, I mean, as long as you admit that you're a narcissist, I suppose, at least the

00:24:22kids who can hear this later will know why they were abandoned to be raised by women

00:24:26with the only ambition is to get money off some narcissist for having his kid around and

00:24:31it's going to be pretty bad.

00:24:32All right.

00:24:33Regular guy.

00:24:34What is on your mind?

00:24:35My friend.

00:24:35Hello, hello.

00:24:43Question.

00:24:47All right.

00:24:48Yeah.

00:24:48Okay.

00:24:48Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:24:49Okay.

00:24:49Hey, thank you.

00:24:50You know, I just wanted to comment on the girls dressing up and the reason why they can't

00:24:54admit it.

00:24:55That has seemed pretty simple to me.

00:24:57The reason why they can't admit it is because they have a built-in anti-slut defense and

00:25:02that triggers it.

00:25:03So they feel the need to defend themselves if they're ever questioned about why they're

00:25:08dressing up sexy and whether it's for men or not.

00:25:10It's because they don't want to look like sluts because they care about their social

00:25:14levels.

00:25:15Well, but you can dress up nicely.

00:25:17You can even show some skin without looking like a slut.

00:25:20So I'm not sure it's all just slutty stuff.

00:25:24Right.

00:25:25But it's when you accuse them because they're going to, it puts them on their heels thinking

00:25:30they're being accused of doing something specifically for men, which would ultimately lead to sex

00:25:35and they're afraid to look like sluts.

00:25:38So hang on.

00:25:39I mean, I'm not disagreeing with you.

00:25:40I just want to make sure I understand the context of what you're talking about.

00:25:45So a woman can dress up nicely, can dress up in a sexy way without it being for a one

00:25:52nightstand with the walk of shame, you know, breaking off a heel in the subway grate and

00:25:56waddling home with her mascara running down her face and, you know, God knows what in

00:26:00her hair.

00:26:00Right.

00:26:01So a woman can dress up nicely, can even dress up in a sexual or sexy manner.

00:26:05And it could be with the goal of procuring a long-term boyfriend that might lead to

00:26:09marriage and so on.

00:26:10So dressing to attract a man doesn't mean automatically, of course, dressing for a one-eye

00:26:16stand and being a slut or things like that.

00:26:19And even the women who dress up nicely with the goal of having a boyfriend seem to be

00:26:23unable or unwilling to admit that they're dressing up to attract men.

00:26:27Right.

00:26:28Because that will make them look like a slut.

00:26:30And it goes along the whole spectrum.

00:26:33Like women won't admit that they're doing anything to procure sex because they are afraid.

00:26:39Sorry, this is the point I'm trying to make.

00:26:41Women can dress up to look good to attract a man when their goal is not sex alone.

00:26:47Sure.

00:26:50But ultimately, that's where the goal, that's where it leads.

00:26:54No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

00:26:55Come on.

00:26:56Attracting the opposite sex doesn't just lead to sex.

00:27:00Eh.

00:27:01I mean, that's, well, so, and even if the women doesn't expect to have sex with that

00:27:06person, they could feel when that person wants to have sex with them.

00:27:10And I think that's why they like to dress up, too, because it gives them sort of a, sort

00:27:14of, sort of a buzz because they know, I mean, every, just about, especially when they're

00:27:18really sexy, just about every man that walks past them has a sexual feeling.

00:27:24And I think that trans, I think they could sense it and it makes them feel, feel good.

00:27:29And they don't want to admit to that.

00:27:31But I think.

00:27:32Okay.

00:27:32So, look, of course, of course we all want to be attractive to the opposite sex if we're

00:27:37that way inclined, right?

00:27:38So, men, if you say to a man who's going out for the night, you know, put some gel

00:27:44in his hair and, you know, puts on his most expensive watch and a really nice shirt and

00:27:51slacks or whatever it is and, you know, shows up to the club in a nice car.

00:27:56And he, if you were to say, well, why are you putting all this effort in?

00:27:59What would he say?

00:28:02Yeah, that he's doing it for girls.

00:28:03Yeah.

00:28:04But that doesn't have, yes, but that doesn't have the same social connotation as a woman

00:28:09saying it does it for guys.

00:28:10Because it's okay for guys to go out and unlock lots of doors.

00:28:15But women don't want to be unlocked that easily.

00:28:18Okay, so are you saying that the only way, are you, sorry, I just want to be trying to

00:28:23understand what you're saying.

00:28:24And maybe this is a bit of a, you sound younger than me, it could be a generational gap.

00:28:27So women, when I was younger, women dressed up and looked good.

00:28:31And it wasn't just so they could fulfill this last guy's imaginary fantasy of 10 minutes

00:28:36and we're into bed, which is just a complete lie.

00:28:38I don't think he was a real guy at all.

00:28:40Just an AI man war.

00:28:42Yeah, that was crazy.

00:28:42Yeah, that was funny.

00:28:44But, um, and I just, I don't want men out there thinking like, oh my God, other men are

00:28:47betting women within 10 minutes.

00:28:49It's like, no, they're not.

00:28:50No, they're not.

00:28:51And if this guy's running an entire company, he knows how to answer a simple question about

00:28:55finances.

00:28:55Uh, so anyway, I mean, I just thought it was a, it was a kind of funny role play, but,

00:28:59um, so women dress up nicely to attract men and they have done so all throughout history.

00:29:05And it's not just for sexual access.

00:29:08It is to attract a man so you can exchange numbers so you can go on dates and this and

00:29:13that, the other, right?

00:29:14I mean, when I first started dating my wife, she, I mean, she still does, but she dressed

00:29:18up really nicely.

00:29:19And it wasn't like we jumped into bed together because we're old enough to know that that's

00:29:22a bad idea and we wait our, our time and so on.

00:29:25Right.

00:29:25So why can't women dress up nicely and say, I would like to attract a man without it being

00:29:33and go straight to bed with him or like, cause that's not the case for a lot of women, for

00:29:39most women.

00:29:39I, yeah, well, I think it's kind of like what you said is they don't want to admit that

00:29:45they're a part of this game that they, so they don't want to admit that they like and

00:29:50need men.

00:29:50And yeah, no, no, they don't want to admit that.

00:29:53Because if they say that they like and need men, then the men have more leverage over them.

00:30:00Yeah.

00:30:00In the same way, like maybe it's like, if I, if, if I want to go on, let's imagine that,

00:30:05that Bob is out there buying a house.

00:30:07Now, if the guy knows that Bob is homeless and living in his car, right, then, or whatever,

00:30:13right?

00:30:14Or Bob is, is about to have, his wife is about to have triplets and he's living in a small

00:30:18apartment.

00:30:18And let's say something more realistic, then Bob really needs this house.

00:30:23And if Bob says, oh yeah, I love this house.

00:30:25This is like the perfect house for me, blah, blah, blah.

00:30:27Then the seller has leverage because Bob has expressed need.

00:30:31And so if the women say we're dressing to attract men, then the men have more leverage because

00:30:38the women have dressed up for them, so to speak.

00:30:41Sure.

00:30:41Is it something like that?

00:30:43I think so.

00:30:44Probably.

00:30:45So playing hard to get is a way of like, if, if, uh, if somebody wants you to come and

00:30:50work for them and you say, no, no, I'm really happy where I am.

00:30:53I'm, I'm, I'm just, I'm not really, I'm not really looking for a new job.

00:30:56Then, then it may up the offer they're going to give you as opposed to, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:31:01I definitely, I need another job.

00:31:03I can't stand it where I am.

00:31:04I'm really, I'm, I'm dressing for success to land this job interview.

00:31:07Then you have a need which lowers what you're going to be offered.

00:31:11Is it something like that?

00:31:12Ah, you know, I could take this job.

00:31:14I could not.

00:31:14I'm easy.

00:31:15I mean, I'm basically, I'm just dressing up for myself.

00:31:17I'm not dressing up for a job interview.

00:31:18I guess I could listen, uh, skeptically.

00:31:20And it's a way of trying to up the demand by showing indifference to the product.

00:31:25Is it something like that?

00:31:27I think so.

00:31:28Yeah.

00:31:28Okay.

00:31:29Leveraging.

00:31:30Yeah.

00:31:30Totally.

00:31:30That makes a lot of sense.

00:31:32Okay.

00:31:32So it's a strategy to, to up the demand.

00:31:35Okay.

00:31:36Uh, sorry.

00:31:37Is there anything else you wanted to mention?

00:31:39Uh, you know why I hear, I just want you to know, I have listened to you for years and

00:31:43years and you've completely changed my life.

00:31:45I love all the stuff you've ever done.

00:31:47And I really, really appreciate you.

00:31:49Well, thank you, brother.

00:31:49I really appreciate that.

00:31:51Uh, of course, I'm not trying to dodge the compliment.

00:31:53I really accept it and appreciate it.

00:31:56But, um, let's say that I write a recipe book.

00:31:58You still have to cook the meal and do the diet.

00:32:00So really give a nod to myself, take a bow for yourself.

00:32:04Uh, that would be my suggestion.

00:32:06You're saving a, but yeah, you're saving a bunch of kids.

00:32:08You're saving a bunch of kids from, from terrible childhoods.

00:32:12And I really appreciate you.

00:32:13I appreciate that.

00:32:14And I would also, one of the reasons I wanted to bring this topic up is don't be with

00:32:18manipulative people.

00:32:19And so totally.

00:32:20Yeah.

00:32:21If a woman says, Oh, I don't like dress up for a man.

00:32:25Like I dress up for myself.

00:32:26I dress up because it makes me feel good.

00:32:28The makeup is just for me.

00:32:29It's like, don't date her.

00:32:30Right.

00:32:31Yeah.

00:32:31Just don't date her.

00:32:31Because that is, that is a manipulative person, man.

00:32:34That's somebody who can't, they can't even be honest about why they're wearing makeup.

00:32:38Like, why do I work out?

00:32:40I work out because I'm in a monogamous relationship with my wife and I want to look good for her.

00:32:44And I think I have a good brain and I need to take care of it and be healthy.

00:32:47Like, that's why I work out.

00:32:49I don't like working out.

00:32:50I don't enjoy it.

00:32:51I don't thrill at moving metal, but, uh, I work out for my wife.

00:32:55I work out for my health and you know, I don't mind being trim and looking good.

00:32:58I think that's fine, but you know, I just work out for me.

00:33:02It has nothing to do with anyone else.

00:33:03It's just so that I can look at myself in the mirror and pose.

00:33:06And I just like seeing the little vein that goes down my bicep or as I need to call it,

00:33:10the monster sap.

00:33:12Like, of course I work out for other people and there's a little bit to do with my health

00:33:15and myself, but you know, that's a lot.

00:33:18So I think just being honest, uh, is, is really important.

00:33:23And if there's a woman who can't even admit why she dresses up, which is to attract men

00:33:28and not all men, but a certain type of men, uh, if a woman can't admit that, I mean, why

00:33:33would you want to get into a relationship with her?

00:33:34The odds of her being honest and direct in your relationship as a whole, if it starts

00:33:39off without people telling the truth, it doesn't get better from there.

00:33:43No doubt.

00:33:44I really appreciate you.

00:33:46Thanks, man.

00:33:46I appreciate that.

00:33:47Keep up the good work, the philosophy.

00:33:48And I really do appreciate your kind words.

00:33:50They, they really mean the world to me.

00:33:52I'm not going to pretend to be like, Oh, just another bit of braise.

00:33:55It's like, no, that's a thrill.

00:33:56All right.

00:33:58Noah, are you out there in Africa trying to get people to join your arc?

00:34:01I think that's going on at the moment.

00:34:03Did he come?

00:34:04Did he go?

00:34:05Hey, did he just vanish?

00:34:06All right.

00:34:06Let's give him a sec to come back.

00:34:08See if he shows up.

00:34:08If not, we go to J two, three, something, something.

00:34:14My eyes getting old.

00:34:15All right.

00:34:16What is on your mind?

00:34:16If you want to unmute, I'm all ears.

00:34:18Yeah.

00:34:18I just quickly pay, play in the devil's advocate.

00:34:22Um, women is kind of as devil's advocate.

00:34:24I think in some cases they might dress up, um, for themselves.

00:34:29Only this one observation, women has more of an abundance mindset than men, meaning, um,

00:34:39like an average girl can get more attention on the opposite sex than an average man can

00:34:45get from, like the opposite sex.

00:34:50So Tim, and I, I think we talked today earlier, which is nice, but, um, tell me about, uh, the

00:34:55abundance mindset.

00:34:56What does that mean?

00:34:57So it's kind of like, let's just say if you, um, you have a business and you have a thousand

00:35:06paying customers, you don't really care if one of them complains or if they drop off.

00:35:11But if you only have 10 customers, each one little, uh, prospect that, or customer that

00:35:19leaves or falls off has more weight.

00:35:21Um, so in this scenario, and I could be wrong, um, I think that women just have more options

00:35:31to choose from to where they can say, uh, I'm not going out for these guys.

00:35:39I'm not trying to get these guys.

00:35:40I'm trying to get, uh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:35:43And I think that's interesting.

00:35:44And I, I think the thought, the thought just struck me and tell me if it's complete interruption

00:35:48to your thought or whether it's complimentary is maybe it's a simp filter.

00:35:53So if a woman says, I don't dress up for a man, I just dress up for myself.

00:35:58Maybe the man she wants is like, no, you don't, no, you know, come on.

00:36:03I mean, I get, you got to say that, but let's be honest.

00:36:05Let's not, you dress up for men, but not for all men, just for a particular top tier of

00:36:09men, but you know, and so maybe it's a simp filter.

00:36:12Uh, like I, I genuinely believe that women's addiction to astrology is a simp filter because

00:36:18if a woman says, well, the reason that I'm sometimes moody every third Tuesday is because

00:36:23a Venus is in the, uh, abscess of Uranus and is doing its rotational spin like the ShamWow

00:36:30guy.

00:36:31And, and if a man says, oh yeah, yeah, no, totally.

00:36:34I understand that.

00:36:35Then he's a simp and he can't, so he's not interested in her.

00:36:38He's just interested in her body or dating her, but he, you know, he, he'll say anything,

00:36:43you know, and that's a test to see if men can handle disagreement from women or can

00:36:48disagree with women.

00:36:49Because if they're simps with women, they're not going to succeed as men in general, because

00:36:54they're weak, weak.

00:36:55And I remember, um, a woman, I've said this before, who I dated, who talked about her psychic

00:37:02abilities.

00:37:02And I said, you know, the amazing Randy has like a million dollars in Vegas.

00:37:05We can like fly down tomorrow.

00:37:07Hey, I'll split it with you, man.

00:37:08Uh, half a million dollars would go down pretty nice and easy.

00:37:11Uh, and I was like, I don't, you know, I mean, if you can do it, I don't think you can.

00:37:16I don't think it's real, uh, for a variety of reasons.

00:37:18Like, of course, psychic abilities aren't real because they'd be so much greater than having

00:37:23to speak things and write things down.

00:37:25Like imagine the army you could coordinate or the hunting party you could coordinate.

00:37:29If people had the ability to read each other's minds, it would be unbelievable.

00:37:32Imagine the sports team you could have if everybody was a mind reader rather than having

00:37:37to do these summon a fireball hand gestures in their groin in baseball or other

00:37:41other places.

00:37:43So of course, there's no such thing as psychic phenomenon.

00:37:46And I was basically just calling her out on that and saying, yeah.

00:37:49And she actually, we dated after that.

00:37:50And, and she showed me quite a bit of respect because she was very attractive.

00:37:55And, uh, the fact that I was willing to say, well, bullshit.

00:37:59I mean, come on, like with all due respect, that's fine.

00:38:01I mean, it's nice that you say that kind of stuff, but it's not real.

00:38:03Like at the same way women have, you know, the secret, I just ask the universe for things

00:38:08and lo and behold, and it's like, do you find that when you ask the universe in a low cut

00:38:12top, the universe tends to respond a little bit more.

00:38:15Uh, do you find that the universe responds to you more with longer hair, more makeup

00:38:19or shorter hair and no makeup?

00:38:20Because you know, the universe shouldn't care what kind of makeup you have on, but somehow

00:38:24it really seems to.

00:38:26So I think that women saying absurd things is kind of a shit test for men to see, are

00:38:31you a simp or are you going to disagree with me, but not get angry?

00:38:36Right.

00:38:36Cause I wasn't, if the woman said, well, I'm psychic and I was like, oh, that's bullshit.

00:38:39That's ridiculous.

00:38:40How could you possibly say this?

00:38:41Absolutely.

00:38:42Then it's too aggressive.

00:38:43Right.

00:38:44But if I say, yeah, yeah.

00:38:45I mean, come on, that's not real.

00:38:46I mean, if it's real, let's go pick up the million dollars, but you know, it's not real.

00:38:49It doesn't work that way.

00:38:50And I'm like, how do you know you haven't tried it?

00:38:52Right.

00:38:52So, so if you can be kind of good natured, but call out the nonsense, then I think that

00:38:58women are like, okay, so he's not a simp.

00:39:00He's also not overly aggressive and he can also disagree with the kids and manage them

00:39:05when they're teenagers and so on without getting too aggressive and without just bending down

00:39:09before everything, because women like having power over men, but they're never less happy

00:39:15than when they achieve it.

00:39:19Oh, I'm not sure if I put you to sleep or not.

00:39:22No, you're good.

00:39:23I agree with that.

00:39:24That, that makes a lot of sense.

00:39:25It's kind of interesting because, um, it's, this is not just putting the blame on men,

00:39:30but I feel like a lot of dudes will just orbit a chick and agree and simp for her.

00:39:37And it used to irk the hell out of me.

00:39:40Like have some balls, have some respect for yourself.

00:39:43Well, have some respect for the truth and don't, uh, it's an insult to women to say,

00:39:48if I tell you the truth, you're not going to be interested in me.

00:39:51Now, of course there are some women who are like that, but you don't want to be around

00:39:54those women because they're manipulative hags with no soul.

00:39:57So, uh, you want to be honest with women.

00:40:00And you know, if there's a woman at karaoke and she sounds like the proverbial dying cat

00:40:04parade, and she says, how did I do?

00:40:05And you say, oh, it was glorious music to my ears.

00:40:08Beautiful.

00:40:08Right.

00:40:09Um, then you're just kind of lying.

00:40:11If you say, ah, you know, I mean, you, you put a lot of passion into it, but I wouldn't

00:40:15say it sounded particularly great.

00:40:16In fact, kind of, kind of was bad.

00:40:18Uh, then that's fine.

00:40:20That's just being honest.

00:40:20Right.

00:40:21And I think that women, I mean, cause there's this thing that I see all the time on X and

00:40:26other social media, which is women just, you know, doing their bird hands saying the

00:40:30most absurd nonsense with the most ridiculous amounts of makeup on, uh, known to man.

00:40:35And it's just a way of trying to get attention and trying to get men interested in them.

00:40:39Uh, they're just saying absurd things with heavy makeup and filters, always in their

00:40:43car with the brain pecking bird hands and stuff like that.

00:40:46And it's just a weird mating display to say absurd things to get male attention, to get

00:40:50viral, to get shared and to get this kind of a focus and attention.

00:40:56Maybe you'll get the guy you want, but it is just a weird thing that goes on these days,

00:41:00which is women saying crazy stuff with heavy filters on in cars to just get male attention.

00:41:05Uh, and of course it gets all the wrong male attention.

00:41:08So yeah, when, when women say, uh, this, this kind of crazy stuff, uh, then, uh, I mean,

00:41:14my general habit has been, uh, bullshit, right?

00:41:17I mean, sort of like the guy who was like, I, I sleep with women 10 minutes after I meet

00:41:22them.

00:41:22I'm like, no, you don't, no, you don't, unless you're paying them, uh, unless you're paying

00:41:26them.

00:41:27And, uh, also I don't believe that he has eight sons, only sons.

00:41:32I'm that manly.

00:41:33I only produce males, but yeah.

00:41:35So I, uh, I would just put this out there that when women say absurd things, um, and

00:41:43then you point out that they're absurd and you don't believe them, but you do it in a

00:41:46way that's not like hostile.

00:41:48Uh, I think that's actually kind of a relief for women because they can then, um, offload

00:41:52some of that reality processing stuff off to men and focus on the stuff that they're really

00:41:56good at.

00:41:57If that makes sense.

00:41:58It does.

00:41:59It does make sense.

00:42:00I, um, I had a quick, it's kind of a sidebar, still related.

00:42:05I've heard, well, I read on the Atlantic, might've been like 10 years ago, um, a couple of things.

00:42:12One is how testosterone levels are dropping in men.

00:42:16And then secondly, how being on birth control, like rewires a woman's hormones or her, it rewires

00:42:24her attraction circuits, apparently to what she's attracted to some are related, but not

00:42:29entirely related to the topic.

00:42:31Yeah.

00:42:32I've, I've certainly heard that women, uh, tend to want softer, more feminine men when

00:42:38they're not ovulating and then tougher and more masculine men when they are, um,

00:42:45ovulating, which is the, you know, alpha fucks, beta bucks kind of, uh, idea.

00:42:50Um, definitely there are, I'd sort of heard yes or no about the testosterone dropping,

00:42:57sort of looking into it a little bit more.

00:42:59U.S.

00:42:59men's testosterone from the late eighties to the early two thousands about, it's going

00:43:02down about 1% a year as independent of aging, obesity, or smoking changes.

00:43:08A 2020 analysis of U.S.

00:43:10national health and nutritional examination survey data showed a decline in adolescent and

00:43:13young men, uh, of testosterone from 1999 to 2016, average total testosterone dropping

00:43:21from about 605 NG per deciliter.

00:43:26I don't know what that is.

00:43:27NG per DL from 605 to 451, about 25% decrease over those about two decades.

00:43:34This held even after adjusting for BMI and even normal mate men showed the trend.

00:43:38Uh, more recent reviews and meta-analysis confirm an ongoing gradual decline of about

00:43:430.5 to 1% per year in healthy men.

00:43:46And that is, uh, now in normal aging about, you get about a 1% drop per year after age

00:43:5230 to 40, your testosterone drops when you get married and it drops again when you have

00:43:56children.

00:43:58So there's, which is kind of what you want.

00:44:00You want to be out there being aggressive to get a mate, but you don't want to retain

00:44:03those high levels of aggression when you're around children.

00:44:05Otherwise the children are going to end up, uh, being catapults in a trebuchet or something

00:44:09like that.

00:44:10And so some is, some of it is rising obesity and BMI, sedentary lifestyles, less physical

00:44:19activity, processed food for, uh, phytoestrogens, lower fat intake in some cases.

00:44:25Um, of course, plastics, pesticides, female hormones in the water supply, marijuana use,

00:44:30stress, sleep disruption, and so on.

00:44:33There's a lot of, um, there's a gradual, so most men still fall within normal ranges,

00:44:41but averages are lower and more men may experience symptoms, right?

00:44:44Low energy, reduced libido at younger ages.

00:44:47So it is, um, it is a very sort of real, uh, it is a very sort of real thing.

00:44:52Testosterone is like a muscle.

00:44:53And when men's life gets too easy, we, um, we don't do well in masculinity.

00:45:00That's why I wrote earlier today.

00:45:01I think a lot of people's like a lot of men in particular, sort of emptiness and depression

00:45:05and stuff like that.

00:45:06And my obviously amateur opinion comes from this weird belief, like life should be peaceful,

00:45:12man.

00:45:12Life should be easy.

00:45:13You know, uh, it should be fun.

00:45:15And, and it's like, no, you're a bro.

00:45:17You're a man.

00:45:18Life is fights.

00:45:19Life is battle.

00:45:20Life is combat.

00:45:21Life is conflict.

00:45:22That's the way that it is.

00:45:24It's what we're built for.

00:45:25We're built for, you know, we can keep it verbal.

00:45:27We can keep it intellectual and so on.

00:45:29Oh, I guess you can join a boxing, uh, clubs if you want it to be more physical or some

00:45:33sort of, uh, jujitsu or martial arts thing.

00:45:38But no, uh, life is not supposed to be peaceful.

00:45:40Life is supposed to be conflict, combat, and fighting.

00:45:44And that's the chafing that gets our testosterone high and keeps it high.

00:45:51And when men retreat to imaginary sex through pornography, they retreat to imaginary combat

00:45:58through video games.

00:45:59Real quick, your mic sounds a little different.

00:46:00I'm sorry?

00:46:01I'm not sure if it's me, but your mic sounds a little different right now.

00:46:04My mic sounds?

00:46:05It might just be me.

00:46:06I'm not sure.

00:46:06Yeah.

00:46:07Uh, no, it's the same mic.

00:46:08So, yeah, if it's all imaginary stuff, at some point your body catches up and says,

00:46:12okay, well, none of this is real.

00:46:13And I think also it's one of the reasons why societies tend to cycle is that when you

00:46:18get an upper class, they tend to get softer and then they get taken over by a lower class

00:46:22who then get softer.

00:46:23And that sort of process is going on, uh, at the moment.

00:46:26So, uh, you got to work out, you got to exercise and you got to take on fights, conflicts,

00:46:31and challenges.

00:46:32But of course, because we live in such a female centric society, uh, fights, conflicts,

00:46:37and challenges are just not allowed by the estrogen, uh, tyrants that generally run the

00:46:42world these days.

00:46:44Like if you have a big conflict with your coworker, you're going to get reported to HR and you're

00:46:48going to have a lot of sensitivity training and you got to not do fighting and, and no

00:46:52conflict.

00:46:52And it's really bad.

00:46:53And don't raise your voice and don't interrupt.

00:46:55It's like, no, no, no.

00:46:56It's what we do.

00:46:57We raise a voice.

00:46:58We interrupt.

00:46:58We yell it out.

00:46:59We fight it out sometimes, hopefully not physically, but.

00:47:01It's not beyond the pale.

00:47:03And we live in this sort of claustrophobic.

00:47:06Oh, you can't only, like I was saying this the other day to a friend about, I can't remember

00:47:10if I mentioned it on the show when I was, um, I was on the swim team when I was 14, 14

00:47:16years old.

00:47:16I was on the swim team.

00:47:17I was on the water polo team.

00:47:18I was on the tennis team.

00:47:19I was on the cross country running team.

00:47:21I was just a motion madman.

00:47:24And I went up to a friend's cottage and I was swimming across the lake and back, which

00:47:29was a long way.

00:47:31It was a long way.

00:47:31Now I knew enough, like, you know, you get that metallic sound when your head's underwater

00:47:34and there's boats coming because you don't want a boat to run over you.

00:47:37God knows that happened to a friend of mine's wife many years ago.

00:47:39It was just appalling what a boat propeller can do to a human body.

00:47:43But I swam there and I swam back.

00:47:46And my friend's mother was outraged, insensually, literally yelling at me.

00:47:52It's so dangerous.

00:47:53What are you doing?

00:47:54It's like, I said, I'm on the swim team.

00:47:55I know what I'm doing.

00:47:56I've swum way more than this in the pool.

00:47:58I know I can do it.

00:47:59I'm totally fine.

00:48:00But she was just horrified at the dangers that I was taking on.

00:48:05And it's like, yeah, but we need that stuff.

00:48:07We need that danger.

00:48:08We need that opposition.

00:48:09We need those risks.

00:48:10I myself have taken a risk or two over the course of my career as a public intellectual, and it's been well worth it.

00:48:18So I think risk avoidance or faking risk is like, you know, like the guys who in their teens, like in your teens, man, you just got to go up.

00:48:27You got to ask girls out and you got to get shot down.

00:48:29And then you get up.

00:48:29You dust yourself off.

00:48:30You complain to your friends.

00:48:31And then you, they say, yeah, man, that's tough.

00:48:35Go do it again.

00:48:35And you just, that's how you develop the muscle of being able to overcome rejection.

00:48:39And it's where you find your place in the sexual market pecking order.

00:48:42And you just got it.

00:48:43You just got to do it.

00:48:44But now you can just avoid doing it.

00:48:46And then you can go online and everyone's like, oh yeah, women are this and women are that.

00:48:50And you're better off without like this earlier guy who's like, well, I don't want to get controlled by the government.

00:48:56So I have eight baby mamas like that's not going to get you controlled by the government.

00:49:02It's just crazy.

00:49:03So, yeah, it is.

00:49:05It is really, really sad.

00:49:06You should take on your physical challenges, your physical activities.

00:49:09You should go to the edge of what you could do physically.

00:49:11You should ask girls out, get your heart kicked around a bit and go to a foreign country with very little money and try and make a go of it.

00:49:18I went to work up north, gold panning and prospecting.

00:49:21Like just go do roughneck stuff.

00:49:23Do things that are going to give you some calluses.

00:49:25Do things that are going to push you to the edge of your comfort level.

00:49:28And that way you can get and keep a boner probably until about eight days after you're dead.

00:49:33Sorry, is there anything else you wanted to mention?

00:49:36No, that was everything.

00:49:37That was very insightful.

00:49:39I guess one quick last question.

00:49:44It's for developing like a daughter.

00:49:47Like if someone, this is hypothetical, it's not me.

00:49:49Just out of curiosity.

00:49:50For someone that's concerned about raising a daughter in like today's environment, how to make her strong, strong-minded, strong-willed and not falling for just any guy at the bar or the club or whatnot.

00:50:04What's like, I mean, peaceful parenting, of course.

00:50:07Well, of course, if a girl is raised with a good relationship in particular with her father, a father, of course, who takes interest in her for herself as a person, then if she knows that she's interesting and of value to her father for herself as a person, her thoughts, interests, jokes, and ideas, then she is used to male attention for the qualities of her character.

00:50:37And then if a man is just wants to grab at her and stuff like that and doesn't really care about the quality of her character, that's just going to feel foreign, weird, alien, and gross to her.

00:50:46In the same way that you raise the kid speaking English and somebody starts talking to her in Japanese, she's not going to be able to answer or follow what's going on.

00:50:54So you have a good relationship with your daughter and you make sure that your daughter knows how much you enjoy her company, what a great person she is, and that way she will expect the guy to want to get to know her before making any sort of romantic or sexual advances.

00:51:09And if a guy starts off with the sexual stuff, it'll just be like, it's obvious.

00:51:13Like, it's just kind of, kind of gross because she knows how important she is to, you know, the sort of first man as a person.

00:51:20And then she can't be de-personalized by others just looking for sex, if that makes sense.

00:51:26It does. Thank you so much.

00:51:27All right. Appreciate that. Thank you.

00:51:29And, uh, I will, I will get to the callers in just a sec.

00:51:32It's a great to having, uh, uh, having these great, uh, great conversations.

00:51:37I really do. Appreciate it.

00:51:39Are you conservatives not interested in hearing pick yourself up by the bootstraps anymore?

00:51:43Yeah. Well, you know, the boomers, the boomers were raised without DEI and, um, quota systems and the exclusion of white men, uh, from the workforce.

00:51:53So they don't understand the world that they made.

00:51:55They don't understand the world that they made.

00:51:58Kairos, nice to see you.

00:51:59My friend says dressing up for men is called being a pick me and breaks the sisterhood.

00:52:02According to all the feminism programming.

00:52:04I think it's a form of intrasexual competition, similar to a woman convincing her friend to cut her hair off.

00:52:09Maybe.

00:52:11James says, doesn't, we don't dress up for men.

00:52:13Also try to inject a kind of cognitive dissonance in others.

00:52:16Sensitive men will listen to the words.

00:52:18Insensitive men will just ignore what they say and pursue anyway.

00:52:22Yeah. I mean, you don't want to be sensitive to anything but the truth and your own conscience.

00:52:29Somebody says, oh, Zim says, gets girls in five to 10 minutes.

00:52:31It's exclusively goes after bar skanks.

00:52:33Oh, just really broken, uh, really broken people, right?

00:52:39Troll detected.

00:52:39Yeah, it could be.

00:52:40It could be.

00:52:42This, there was another troll who said he was 37 yesterday.

00:52:45Yeah, yeah.

00:52:45So it could, it could be somebody, uh, who's calling in again, maybe with a voice changer,

00:52:49uh, to, to make listeners look bad or something like that.

00:52:52Eight times deadbeat dad, responsible women who sleep with him after five to 10 minutes

00:52:59eats up the sweet government contract money.

00:53:01This has to be a troll.

00:53:02Yeah, maybe, uh, cute mug.

00:53:05Uh, yes, uh, this is, uh, my Christmas mug.

00:53:08Uh, my daughter made it for me when she was like five.

00:53:11It was something I love.

00:53:13I'm kind of, I'm going to drop it one day because that's just me, but it's nice.

00:53:16Right.

00:53:16Uh, the Noah's Ark guy brought himself a new Mercedes.

00:53:21There's a guy in Africa who's getting thousands of people to line up to get on his Ark.

00:53:25Craze, crazy man.

00:53:29Uh, how dare you take a masculine risk?

00:53:32Yeah, yeah.

00:53:34When I tell people that I did swim across the East River, their first question is, is it

00:53:37dirty?

00:53:38Yeah, when I was in Africa, uh, with a cousin of mine, unfortunately he later died, but,

00:53:42uh, we went rock climbing.

00:53:44I did like an overhang with no, no ropes.

00:53:47Like if we'd fallen, we would have just died.

00:53:49And it never even really crossed my mind that it was particularly dangerous.

00:53:51I mean, I may have had a little bit of a lower sensitivity to danger, uh, perhaps a little

00:53:56bit less positive that way, but all right.

00:53:59So let's get to people who have successfully called in or at least not failed to call in

00:54:06before.

00:54:06Alex Alexikov, what is on your mind?

00:54:11Hey, Stefan.

00:54:12Uh, so my question is a little bit, uh, off topic from what you're talking about.

00:54:17I mean, is, is that okay?

00:54:19Or what does up to be women make up?

00:54:23So, uh, like very quick preamble, like, I don't like a month ago.

00:54:28I asked you if, uh, what's the most supernatural thing you will be willing to believe.

00:54:32Um, and then that devolve into like a half an hour argument or something.

00:54:39I mean, it's just, uh, it's just another question, uh, that I like to hear your take on, but it's

00:54:46not about arguing or who's wrong or right or whatever.

00:54:50Um, and the question is, is this one, uh, is there a, uh, is there a moment in your life that you will want to go back to and do things differently?

00:55:04Um, I'm not, yeah, I mean, I've, I sort of get that idea that, you know, if I could rewind and do things differently, I, you know, there's an old saying, which says never underestimate how much worse luck your bad luck has saved you from.

00:55:21Right. So in the past you'd say, oh, this girl, I really, I, I love her and she broke up with me and it's really sad, but you know, every girl who I broke up with or who broke up with me paved the way to my wife, who is like the best woman for me that, uh, uh, God himself could invent.

00:55:38And so I try, I don't really think too much about those kind of things.

00:55:43Uh, you know what, I do sort of think back and say, you know, when I was a teenager, I wish I'd gotten the kind of instruction that I try to give people, you know?

00:55:51One of the things I do in the world is I try to be kind of a resource for young men and women that was missing when I was a young man and to provide what you were denied is really the best thing that you can do with bad things that have happened.

00:56:04So, yeah, I mean, I could certainly say, oh, I shouldn't have done this or I shouldn't have done that and so on.

00:56:09But given that I'm sort of very happy and content with how my life, I wouldn't say has turned out because that sounds like it's really the end of the road, but how my life is turning out is, is good and positive.

00:56:18I think I've done maximum good in the world.

00:56:20You say, oh, well, I shouldn't have taken on this topic or that topic and maybe I wouldn't have been deplatformed and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

00:56:26Like, yeah, but deplatforming got me back into reading and writing novels and it got me a real tight community for a while.

00:56:32And, uh, it helped me appreciate being back and all of that, at least to the limited degree that I am.

00:56:36And so I, you can't know before, you know, and given that I'm happy where I've ended up, it's tough for me to complain about every twist and turn or any twist and turn, because if I were to go back and change decisions that I made in the past, I might not end up where I am now, which is kind of where I want to be, if that makes any sense.

00:56:57Yeah, yeah, it makes, it makes a lot of sense.

00:57:01Um, what would be your advice, um, if, if there's someone who has like, what, like something that, that deeply regrets, like, I wish I had done this in a different way.

00:57:12Um, and that can like, that can be very, um, that can consume your mind if it's something that, uh, um, and I'm not talking like, like you committed a crime or something like that, but just like decisions, because when you, sometimes like when you look at your life in retrospective, you, you figure out like, okay, maybe this will have been a better choice for a career or whatever.

00:57:35Um, this is something that, uh, that's affected me and I know affects other people, particularly if you're in like, like around your theories, I would say, where do you like start getting like, uh, start making like some sort of, um, review of like where you are, where would you like to be in 10 years, if everything is worth it or not, things like that.

00:58:01I mean, I, I do have like a couple of things that I say, oh, I, I wish I did differently in years ago, but I just didn't know better.

00:58:10So can you give me a, just a very abstract, which is a little tough for me to focus in on.

00:58:15Can you give me an example of a kind of decision that you or someone else that might fall into this category, not a moral evil or something, but.

00:58:23I can tell you one that, uh, that actually applies to something you, you just said to another guy right now.

00:58:31So I think it's, it's interesting to, to bring it up.

00:58:34Uh, I, uh, I, I, I have a daughter.

00:58:38I didn't choose to not spend time with her, but I, I spent more time doing other things than with her.

00:58:45And that's something that I deeply regret.

00:58:48I wish I had spent more time with her when she was younger.

00:58:52Now, now she's like a 10 years old.

00:58:54So everything is fine, but still, uh, I mean, those, those moments will not come back.

00:59:01Right.

00:59:02So it's like.

00:59:03Well, it's funny too, sorry to interrupt, but it's pretty consistent in the social sciences.

00:59:08When you ask people, what was the happiest time in your life?

00:59:12It's usually when their kids were very little.

00:59:15Yes.

00:59:16Like a little bit beyond babies, which is kind of exhausting, but certainly sort of pre-school age, sort of the two, three, four, five.

00:59:22It's like an absolutely adorable age.

00:59:25And I remember I used to go out for dinner, uh, every Thursday night when my wife was working, I would go out for dinner with my daughter.

00:59:31She'd wear her princess dress.

00:59:32She'd sit on my lap and we'd go to a restaurant.

00:59:34They had a, uh, a, uh, a half price seafood special and we'd go and eat that.

00:59:39And she loved grandfather clock.

00:59:40So we'd go and play with the grandfather clock at the restaurant.

00:59:42And, uh, you know, those, uh, times are just great and super fun.

00:59:47And so most times when people look and say, well, what was the best time in your life?

00:59:50They don't necessarily really remember professional stuff.

00:59:53They don't remember educational stuff as being peak.

00:59:55What they do remember was the times that they were sort of rolling around wrestling with their kids when their kids are very little and mega nights, you know, and, and all of that sort of stuff.

01:00:05And, uh, so what happened with your daughter that you spent less time with her?

01:00:13What was, what were you doing instead?

01:00:15I, um, it was related to work.

01:00:18I was starting a PhD.

01:00:19I, I put a lot of time into that and I, and I needed to make money because we were, so, so now I'm in a much more comfortable, uh, position.

01:00:28But back then, uh, money was like really, really tight.

01:00:31I was the only one.

01:00:32Well, my, my wife, uh, also did work, but I was like the main provider and I had to, uh, so I, I had to, I had to work and I had to do a lot of things instead of, uh, just being with her.

01:00:46But, uh, but looking back into it.

01:00:49Uh, uh, I'm quite sure that, uh, I, I still could have spent more time with her.

01:00:57I'm, I'm sure.

01:00:58Well, if you have to work, you have to work.

01:01:03Uh, if you're doing a PhD and working full time, then the PhD, you know, it's five years, you know, five years for your kids.

01:01:10There's almost nothing in life that is sort of the length of your life involved that can't be postponed for a couple of years.

01:01:17Like you could have postponed the PhD for a couple of years.

01:01:19Right.

01:01:20Um, I, yeah, yeah.

01:01:23So I think if you're honest about it, which I'm sure you are, and you say to your daughter, this is what I regret.

01:01:31I'm really sorry if it had any negative impacts on you and so on.

01:01:34And that's the one aspect of things.

01:01:38The second aspect of things, of course, is that we get a correction for parental mistakes.

01:01:44And do you know what the correction for parental mistakes is?

01:01:46No.

01:01:49Grandkids.

01:01:50Nice.

01:01:51Yeah.

01:01:52Grandkids, which is why a lot of people who weren't like, I'm not putting you in this category, but a lot of people who were kind of indifferent or maybe even abusive parents have a do over like a whole mulligan with the grandkids and doing better with your grandkids is how things should be.

01:02:06But you should also be honest with your kids about what you've learned in the interim.

01:02:11And it's nothing wrong with apologizing for kids for what you've gotten wrong and what mistakes that you've made.

01:02:18I mean, I've certainly said to my daughter, like, I'm sorry for those, you know, weeks when sometimes I was in full combat with the entire planet, you know, like splashed all over the New York Times and, and inquiries and hit pieces coming fast and furious.

01:02:30And, you know, that that was a time when I was less emotionally available to her and all of that.

01:02:35So, you know, good, bad choices, whatever I can say.

01:02:38Yes, but I was trying to make the world a better place.

01:02:40But, you know, that's not something she understood as a little kid.

01:02:43And so I think saying, yeah, there's things I could have done better or things I should have done better.

01:02:48And I'm really sorry about that.

01:02:50To own your mistakes, to be honest with about them, to apologize, to make amends where possible.

01:02:55And then to do better with the grandkids is, I really think, the best that we could do, particularly if you are coming from a not great family or parental situation, like having been parented as a kid.

01:03:07If your parents weren't particularly great, then you really are having to reinvent the wheel.

01:03:12So I think, you know, be honest, apologize, make restitution where possible, and then, you know, really nail the do-over, so to speak.

01:03:23Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely.

01:03:24And she's 10 years old now, but there's still lots of time to do stuff.

01:03:30It's only that, yeah, I kind of, like, miss those years where she was, like, much younger and super cute, and I'm like, you know what I mean.

01:03:39But anyway, okay, well, thanks, different, for your answers, and yeah.

01:03:46Thank you, and I really appreciate your sensitivity about what we did as kids, you know, what you did with regards to parenting, because it's really hard to get that stuff perfect.

01:03:54And here's the thing, too, even if you're a perfect parent, your kids are still going to have a tough time, because there's a whole lot of imperfect people out there.

01:04:02And if you're some perfect parent, how's your kid going to adjust to the regular atmosphere of the everyday traumatized planet, right?

01:04:10So there's a sweet spot, because if you're perfect, then your kids can't really run in society.

01:04:15There's sort of a sweet spot where you're good enough that it's a big improvement, but not so good that they can't ever breathe anybody else's oxygen, so to speak, because they're used to a totally different.

01:04:24Atmosphere, so I hope that makes some sense.

01:04:26All right.

01:04:28You're very welcome, brother.

01:04:29Take care.

01:04:30All right.

01:04:31Dark.

01:04:31I think that's dark.

01:04:33Nimbus, we're going to give this one more try.

01:04:35You, and you requested to speak again.

01:04:38Yeah, I just spammed the, uh, can you hear me?

01:04:42Yes, sir.

01:04:44Yeah, I just spammed the chat with all the videos of the women I'm with.

01:04:47I'm not lying to you.

01:04:48I don't know why you think I am.

01:04:50It's not.

01:04:52Okay, why would it matter if, um,

01:04:54if I didn't believe you?

01:04:58It matters because I'm not safe,

01:05:00and it also matters because the reason why you're in denial

01:05:04is because women didn't choose you,

01:05:07and it makes you mad.

01:05:12Well, women didn't choose you either.

01:05:14No, they did.

01:05:17No, they didn't because, uh...

01:05:18That's why you got married,

01:05:20because they never chose you.

01:05:24Is this a level...

01:05:25I guess you must spend a lot of time around women

01:05:27to think that this sort of nonsense,

01:05:29this sort of pathetic...

01:05:30Way more than you,

01:05:31and I understand them a lot better than you ever will.

01:05:33Okay, all right.

01:05:37Why do you think that you would come across

01:05:39this punchy and aggressive?

01:05:42Because it's in my nature to be that way,

01:05:44and I would call what I did genetic success.

01:05:47Okay.

01:05:48Well, I mean,

01:05:49you certainly have more kids than I do,

01:05:51without a doubt.

01:05:52Um, I would say that

01:05:54abandoning kids to be raised by

01:05:56poverty line

01:05:58single mothers

01:05:59is not going to result in success

01:06:01for your children.

01:06:02You don't want to abandon them.

01:06:03We'll see what...

01:06:04We'll see who places bets where

01:06:06in 10 years, buddy.

01:06:07Check on me.

01:06:08You'll see.

01:06:09Well, I can tell you one thing

01:06:10I'm not going to be doing in 10 years

01:06:12is checking on you.

01:06:13I can absolutely...

01:06:13Absolutely guarantee that.

01:06:15Because you just don't...

01:06:17You don't really spend enough time

01:06:19around quality men to...

01:06:21You won't have a choice,

01:06:22because I'll be everywhere.

01:06:25Okay, so narcissistic and megalomaniacal.

01:06:28That's a delightful combo.

01:06:30That's a delightful combo.

01:06:31All right.

01:06:31Noah, let's bring in...

01:06:34And the idea, too,

01:06:35this is a guy who thinks that

01:06:37spamming pictures...

01:06:39I didn't see any pictures,

01:06:40but spamming pictures of women

01:06:42proves all of this.

01:06:44I don't know.

01:06:44It's very strange to me.

01:06:46But I'm, you know,

01:06:47I'm very sad.

01:06:48Grok had no idea of who this guy was.

01:06:50Yeah, let's see.

01:06:51Noah, did you want to...

01:06:53Oh.

01:06:54Yes, sir.

01:06:54Can you hear me?

01:06:55Okay, sorry.

01:06:57Yeah, well,

01:06:57a lot of interesting conversations.

01:07:00I like the...

01:07:01Yes, okay.

01:07:04Would you like to add to them?

01:07:09Really?

01:07:10Are you with me?

01:07:13Are you with me?

01:07:14All right.

01:07:14I think I'm going to have to add Noah

01:07:17to the lock and remove list,

01:07:21because I think he's tried to come in

01:07:22a bunch of times before.

01:07:23All right.

01:07:25So, yeah,

01:07:26it's kind of interesting to me,

01:07:28again,

01:07:28if this guy's real

01:07:29and he's got eight baby mamas with...

01:07:32Oh, I mean,

01:07:32that's just wretched.

01:07:33That's very sad

01:07:33and very, very tough for his kids.

01:07:36So, if he's like

01:07:37a hyper-masculine guy,

01:07:39let's say he's just, you know,

01:07:40the Aristotelian mean, right?

01:07:41You don't want to be

01:07:42too little masculine.

01:07:44You don't want to be over-masculine

01:07:45in the same way

01:07:46that you don't want to be

01:07:48a coward,

01:07:49but you also don't want to be foolhardy

01:07:50and so on, right?

01:07:52You don't want to not work out.

01:07:54You don't want to work out so much

01:07:55that you get injured, right?

01:07:57You need that sort of Aristotelian mean.

01:07:59And so,

01:08:00with people as a whole...

01:08:02Sorry, JJ,

01:08:03I'm not sure if you

01:08:04want to come back in or not.

01:08:05Just let me know.

01:08:07I'm not sure if you're...

01:08:08If this is from the last time.

01:08:10But,

01:08:10if you are excessively masculine,

01:08:14you will tend to produce

01:08:15a feminine male offspring

01:08:18because they'll react

01:08:19to that.

01:08:21And also,

01:08:21if you're excessively masculine

01:08:23and you're hyper-aggressive

01:08:24and hyper-competitive

01:08:25and kind of contemptuous

01:08:26and all of that

01:08:27and a bit of a

01:08:28sleep-around kind of guy

01:08:30with you've got

01:08:31eight baby mamas

01:08:31and so on,

01:08:33then

01:08:33the women will resent you

01:08:35and the women will

01:08:37infect your sons

01:08:39with resentment against you.

01:08:42And

01:08:42so,

01:08:44what will happen is

01:08:45the pendulum will swing

01:08:47enormously

01:08:48to the other side

01:08:49as a whole.

01:08:51Oh,

01:08:51somebody's asking,

01:08:52is your video on the truth

01:08:53of the crusades

01:08:54still available?

01:08:54Yes,

01:08:55fdrpodcasts.com,

01:08:57fdrpodcasts.com.

01:08:59Just do a search there

01:09:00and you can find it.

01:09:01Do a search for crusades.

01:09:02You'll see the show.

01:09:03Click on it.

01:09:04Click below.

01:09:04There'll be a link

01:09:05to the video.

01:09:07So,

01:09:08yeah,

01:09:08if you're hyper-masculine

01:09:09and you've got

01:09:10a whole bunch of sons

01:09:11with a whole bunch

01:09:11of baby mamas,

01:09:12then

01:09:13the baby mamas

01:09:14will be

01:09:15like 95%

01:09:16more influenced

01:09:17than you

01:09:17and they'll resent you.

01:09:18They'll be hostile

01:09:19towards traditional masculinity

01:09:21or hyper-masculinity.

01:09:23So,

01:09:23your sons will

01:09:24swing to the other

01:09:25side in general.

01:09:27It could be exceptions,

01:09:28of course,

01:09:28right?

01:09:28But the general trend

01:09:29will be

01:09:30that they will then

01:09:31swing too hard

01:09:32to the other side

01:09:33and then will be opposed

01:09:34to that level

01:09:36of masculinity

01:09:36and because it's hard

01:09:37to find stability

01:09:38in this world

01:09:39and they're really

01:09:40over-emphasizing,

01:09:41really,

01:09:43the female domination

01:09:45and the low-quality

01:09:46female domination.

01:09:47I mean,

01:09:48how many women

01:09:49will say,

01:09:50give me $1,800 a month

01:09:52and I'll raise your kid?

01:09:54Well,

01:09:54not women who have

01:09:55any particular potential

01:09:56or ambition

01:09:57or ideals

01:09:58or anything like that.

01:09:59So,

01:09:59if this guy is very smart,

01:10:01he's probably,

01:10:02you know,

01:10:02it's not,

01:10:03the smart women

01:10:03wouldn't take that deal,

01:10:05right?

01:10:05Because smart women

01:10:06would not take the deal.

01:10:08Oh,

01:10:08thanks,

01:10:08James.

01:10:08Yeah,

01:10:08the show number

01:10:09is 3,153.

01:10:113,153.

01:10:12Boy,

01:10:13that's like

01:10:13halfway back,

01:10:14right?

01:10:14So,

01:10:15fdrpodcast.com

01:10:16forward slash

01:10:173153,

01:10:18Truth About The Crusades.

01:10:20So,

01:10:21yes,

01:10:21smart women

01:10:22won't,

01:10:23I'm just sort of

01:10:24laughing in my mind

01:10:25imagining that

01:10:26when I met my wife

01:10:27and I said,

01:10:27hey,

01:10:28I'll pay you

01:10:28$1,800 a month

01:10:29and barely see you

01:10:31if you stay home

01:10:33and raise a kid of mine.

01:10:34I mean,

01:10:35honestly,

01:10:35she'd just look at me

01:10:36like,

01:10:37what planet

01:10:37had I

01:10:38disgorged myself

01:10:39from to make

01:10:39such a ridiculous offer.

01:10:41So,

01:10:42women who are willing

01:10:43to take the offer

01:10:43of I'll pay you

01:10:44$1,800 a month

01:10:45and you can raise my kid

01:10:47with barely any input

01:10:48from me,

01:10:49that is not

01:10:50a high-quality woman

01:10:52in general

01:10:52because a high-quality woman

01:10:53wouldn't want that deal

01:10:54and wouldn't take that deal

01:10:55because a high-quality woman

01:10:56would want an actual family

01:10:57with a husband

01:10:57who stuck around

01:10:58and helped to raise the kids.

01:11:00So,

01:11:00you know,

01:11:00baby mamas

01:11:01are basically close

01:11:03to single mothers.

01:11:04Single mothers

01:11:04have an average IQ

01:11:05of 90 or 91

01:11:06and this is probably

01:11:08even lower

01:11:08than that.

01:11:10So,

01:11:10unfortunately,

01:11:11you're just going to have

01:11:12the next generation

01:11:13fairly anti-masculine

01:11:14and

01:11:15also

01:11:17probably less smart

01:11:20than you

01:11:20because

01:11:20you're having

01:11:21kids with women

01:11:22who think that

01:11:23$1,800

01:11:23a month

01:11:25to raise someone's kid

01:11:27without them being around much

01:11:28is a really good deal.

01:11:30right,

01:11:33let's see here.

01:11:34Let me,

01:11:35oh,

01:11:35there was something

01:11:36about Andrew

01:11:37Wilson.

01:11:39Andrew

01:11:39Wilson.

01:11:41What did I miss here?

01:11:44Oh,

01:11:44I have scrolled too far.

01:11:46I have scrolled

01:11:47too far.

01:11:51So,

01:11:51somebody was talking

01:11:52about Andrew Wilson

01:11:53was on a show.

01:11:55Oh,

01:11:56somebody says,

01:11:56thanks,

01:11:56Ed.

01:11:57Did you see

01:11:57the PBD

01:12:00podcast?

01:12:01Andrew Wilson

01:12:02has a lot of praise

01:12:02and respect for you

01:12:03and wants to debate you.

01:12:05I mean,

01:12:05I would love to debate

01:12:06with Andrew Wilson.

01:12:07He is a

01:12:07very smart guy

01:12:09who always

01:12:10shows up on

01:12:12Piers Morgan

01:12:12as if he is

01:12:13somehow living

01:12:15in Satan's armpit.

01:12:16I'm just saying,

01:12:17bro,

01:12:17get a little lighting.

01:12:18It's really cheap.

01:12:19You don't need much.

01:12:20I have two lights here

01:12:21and all of that

01:12:22and it's not easy

01:12:22to light my forehead

01:12:23because if you light

01:12:24my forehead incorrectly,

01:12:25I look like that

01:12:26diamond ring that happens

01:12:27with a solar eclipse.

01:12:29So,

01:12:29to smoke

01:12:31and to debate

01:12:32from Satan's armpit,

01:12:33he is a very skilled debater,

01:12:35a very smart debater.

01:12:36He actually has

01:12:37a whole debating course,

01:12:38by the way,

01:12:39if you wanted to know.

01:12:39He has a whole debating course.

01:12:41I have art at theargument.com.

01:12:42He has a whole debating course

01:12:43and he's very learned

01:12:45and smart

01:12:46and wise

01:12:46at debating

01:12:47and a very good thinker

01:12:48on his feet

01:12:50and so on.

01:12:51I would like

01:12:52to see him debate

01:12:53maybe slightly more skilled people,

01:12:56but, you know,

01:12:56that's, of course,

01:12:57a lot of the own destroyed stuff.

01:12:59So, yes,

01:13:01Monsieur

01:13:01Le Wilson,

01:13:03if you want to reach out,

01:13:05reach out

01:13:06and touch me.

01:13:07you can email

01:13:10support at freedom.com

01:13:12and I'm sure we can have,

01:13:13you know,

01:13:14whether it's a great chat

01:13:14or a debate

01:13:15or something like that

01:13:16would be,

01:13:17would be fine.

01:13:18Universal morality,

01:13:18I would love to debate that

01:13:20from a religious

01:13:20versus a philosophical perspective.

01:13:22I think that would be

01:13:23just

01:13:24excellent.

01:13:26Just

01:13:27excellent.

01:13:29All right.

01:13:29Any other last questions,

01:13:31comments,

01:13:32issues,

01:13:33problems?

01:13:33I think,

01:13:33yeah,

01:13:34we can have a bit of a shorter

01:13:35show today.

01:13:36I did a lot of work

01:13:37on the show today

01:13:37at a call-in show

01:13:38this morning

01:13:39and all of that sort of stuff.

01:13:40Got some great call-in shows

01:13:41coming out shortly.

01:13:43I hope you will check those out.

01:13:44I'm sorry,

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01:13:45on the call-in shows

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01:13:51You can do a public call-in show.

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01:13:54You can stay off names

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01:13:55You'll be anonymous

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01:13:57or, you know,

01:13:58if you keep things generic

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