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Aired (December 13, 2025): Kylie Padilla talks about co-parenting with Aljur Abrenica and her friendly rapport with his current partner, AJ Raval. #YourHonor #YouLOL #YouLOLOriginals

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00:00How do you accept your kids?
00:02How do you accept them?
00:04How do you accept them?
00:06How do you accept them?
00:08How do you accept them?
00:10How do you accept them?
00:12The co-parenting set-up?
00:14It's hard to explain to Alas
00:16because Alas is really the oldest.
00:18He's older.
00:20Axel is the second one.
00:22Sorry, how did Alas go?
00:24He was so young.
00:26He was so young.
00:28Eight and five na sila.
00:30Ah, ano na?
00:32Talino na yan.
00:34Sabay pala tayo halos.
00:36Si Alas yung maraming tanong na.
00:39Are you comfortable sharing it?
00:42Yung sa questions niya?
00:44Well, kinwento naman na ito ni Aljor.
00:46So, siguro, okay lang ikwento.
00:49May one time kasi,
00:51nagtatanong si Alas,
00:53bakit kayo nag-iwalay?
00:55Mga ganyan.
00:56Kasi,
00:58kasi siyempre nandun siya eh.
01:00May times na nandun siya eh,
01:02nung nag-aaway kami.
01:03Parang,
01:04yung sinabi ni Alas sa'kin,
01:06does Papa not love you?
01:08Tanong niya sa'kin.
01:10Ang lingit-liit.
01:12Sabi ko,
01:14no!
01:15Ano to?
01:16Sabi ko,
01:17hindi ibig sabihin,
01:18hindi kami nag-work ng dad niyo.
01:20Ibig sabihin,
01:21hindi namin kayo love.
01:23Love na love namin kayo.
01:25And friends pa rin naman kami.
01:27But some things,
01:28ganito lang talagang buhay.
01:29I tried to explain na,
01:30hindi ganun na,
01:31kasi bata pa lang siya nun eh.
01:32Just,
01:33in layman's terms,
01:34kasi hindi nalo sa kanya.
01:35Tapos ang ginawa ko,
01:36after nun,
01:37di rin ako nagpakita ng kahit anong emosyon,
01:39kasi ayokong makita niya na
01:41it's an issue
01:42na mabigat somewhere there.
01:45Ang kinausap ko,
01:46diniretso ko na si Aljor.
01:48Sabi ko, ganito yung sinabi ng anak mo.
01:50Please explain,
01:51mas magandang manggaling sa'yo kasa sa'kin.
01:54Huwag ko alam kung anong sinabi niya.
01:56Basta...
01:57Hindi tsaka alam mo yung mahirap dyan.
01:59If they use their,
02:00if they use your words against you.
02:03Like, example,
02:04I always tell them na,
02:06ah,
02:07walang,
02:08dapat lagi kang nakikipag-communicate.
02:10Yeah.
02:11Tama.
02:12Always communicate,
02:13use your words.
02:14You speak,
02:15you talk.
02:16Ito na.
02:17Sabi ko,
02:18lahat ng conflict can be resolved
02:19with communication,
02:20with proper communication.
02:22Tinan lang ako nung panganay ko.
02:24Like you.
02:25Meron tayong pagkakamali,
02:26nakita din nila
02:27yung mga times na vulnerable ang relationship.
02:30At naintindihan na nila pala.
02:32Talaga.
02:33So,
02:34sinabi ko sa kanya,
02:35sabi ko sa'kin,
02:36Ma'am,
02:37sabi mo diba,
02:38pero English.
02:39Mayroon natin English yun.
02:40Sabi mo diba,
02:41lahat pwedeng pag-usapan.
02:43Ay ko,
02:44oo.
02:45Ba't di nila kayo mag-usap ni dad?
02:46Oh my God.
02:47Ba't di kayo mag-usap ni dad?
02:48Ba't di kayo mag-usap ni dad?
02:49Ang hirap!
02:50Ganon pa eh,
02:51yung ano pa yung set up pa
02:52ng pagkakatanong eh.
02:53Ba't di ka mag-host ng your honor?
02:54Sabi ko sa anak ko.
02:55Alam mo,
02:56hirap.
02:57Non-simple,
02:58pero pasok yun, men.
02:59Ito na.
03:00Paano mo explain?
03:01Totoo.
03:02Merong ano yun,
03:03hingang malalim na dahan-dahan
03:04hindi ala tayo.
03:05Oh.
03:06Ganyan nga, June.
03:09Hindi ako makapag-exhale
03:10kasi makikita niya eh.
03:12So,
03:13napipigil ka ng lu...
03:14Sabi ko.
03:15Sabi ko.
03:16Sabi ko,
03:17anak ganito kasi yan.
03:18Yun.
03:19Ano kasi?
03:20Minsan,
03:22yung mga tao,
03:23nag-iiba yung priorities nila.
03:25And hindi natin maaano.
03:27Minsan,
03:28gusto mo mag-communicate
03:29pero merong ayaw na makipag-communicate.
03:32Maybe it's a fault on our end.
03:35Pero,
03:36ang importante,
03:37anak,
03:38andito kami pareho
03:39para sa'yo.
03:40We're fighting for you.
03:41Yes.
03:42Tama.
03:43At mahal na mahal ka namin.
03:44Yes.
03:45Are you feeling less loved?
03:46Yes.
03:47Kaya tanong ko siyang gano.
03:48You feel less loved?
03:49You feel incomplete?
03:50Hindi.
03:51Mahinahon talaga.
03:52I want to know.
03:53Tapos,
03:54sinabi ko sa kanya,
03:55anak,
03:56I want you to know
03:57this is not normal
03:58but this is not bad.
03:59Tapos,
04:00sabi ko sa kanya,
04:01when you have...
04:02Oo.
04:03When you have your own family,
04:04you have your own wife,
04:05I don't want you
04:06to leave your wife.
04:07You fight the best way you can.
04:10Don't leave your wife.
04:11Ang hirap, no?
04:12Oh my God.
04:13May gano'n.
04:14That's and that's that.
04:15Pero maganda yung sinabi mo.
04:16Okay.
04:17May gano'n din akong...
04:18Sa school.
04:19Sa school,
04:20tinuturo yung mga family dynamics,
04:21di ba?
04:22Sabi niya,
04:23mama,
04:24tignan mo to.
04:25May magkapatid,
04:26may ano...
04:27Ba't wala tayo dito
04:28kasi sila buo tayo.
04:29Hindi.
04:31Sabi ko anak,
04:32it's okay.
04:33We're a modern family.
04:34That's a new one.
04:35Wala pa dyan.
04:36Hahahaha.
04:37Pero ang hirap nga nun yung family tree, no?
04:41Nangyari nga din sa'kin yung kasaling.
04:42Nangyari nga din sa'kin yung kasaling.
04:43Kasi bakit nga ba wala?
04:45Siya yung anak ko,
04:46may FB.
04:47Pero pang-pang family lang,
04:49hindi nila hinahawakan.
04:50Parang mahawakan lalai for messenger.
04:52Yung cover photo,
04:53yung tatay,
04:54tsaka yung pamilya
04:55ng jowa ng tatay niya.
04:57Asan ako?
04:58Hahahaha.
04:59Buti pa si Minion nandyan.
05:01Ako wala.
05:03Hindi pero,
05:04isa pa yan.
05:05Nung nakita ko,
05:06in-assess ko yun sa sarili ko,
05:08okay lang ba to?
05:10Mali ba to?
05:11Magagalit ba ako?
05:13Is it helpful to all concerned?
05:15Will it affect all that concerned?
05:18Yung mga four questions.
05:20Sabi ko,
05:21wag na ako magalit.
05:22Ako, recent lang yung ganyan eh.
05:24Nag-post na rin sila,
05:25magkasama silang lahat.
05:26Okay.
05:27Very nice.
05:28Hindi alam mo,
05:29kayaan mo na.
05:30Alam ko yun naman,
05:31pero siyempre may ano pa rin yun.
05:33Meron.
05:34Pain?
05:35Gusto ko talagang sanugin.
05:36Oo, gusto kong manunog ng bahay eh.
05:38Misal nga tinetext ko to si Condi,
05:39sabi ko,
05:40dala ka nga dyan ang kahit sino lang,
05:41bugbugin ko lang.
05:42Hahahaha.
05:44Mabaitol ko.
05:46Dala ka nga.
05:47Yung mga gano'n,
05:48it's normal.
05:49Halika, halika, halika, halika.
05:50Bakit po?
05:51Papabanot na kita kay Charis.
05:52Hahahaha.
05:54Pero meron ba kayo,
05:55yung mabawa,
05:56yung sa setup nyo diba,
05:57na school days,
05:58yung mga bata,
05:59nasa'yo,
06:00weekends na sa papa nila,
06:02meron bang naging problema
06:04or discussion about it
06:05within the kids?
06:07Which one?
06:08With you and the kids?
06:09Yung scheduling.
06:10Bakit kailangan ganito?
06:11Pag si Aljor,
06:12pumunta sa mga event nila sa school.
06:14Ah, so hindi talaga nagtanong yung mga bata
06:16na ay,
06:17napapagot na ako, lipat-lipat.
06:18Ganyan.
06:19Ay, hindi, wala naman.
06:20Kasi nga 80% nga nasa'kin, di ba?
06:22Hindi naman sila masyadong napapagot.
06:23Okay.
06:24Tsaka alam mo, ginawa ko,
06:25since sumilipat sila ng bahay, di ba?
06:27Ayoko yung pressure na, oh,
06:29magdala ka na ng damit.
06:30Wala silang dadalin.
06:32Yeah, yeah.
06:33Basta ang usapan namin,
06:34huy, yung sinuot nilang damit dito,
06:36yung din pasot mo pabalik, ha?
06:38Kasi bubabalik sa akin,
06:39pinapadala ko maganda pang alis.
06:40Oh my God!
06:41Tapos pagbalik sa akin,
06:42pambahal na siya.
06:43Yung mga brief pagdalik dito,
06:44bacon.
06:45Alam mo na?
06:46Alam mo yung solusyon ko dyan?
06:47Ang mahal-mahal.
06:48Yung mas lumang damit na yung pinapadala ko.
06:50Yung mga maganda sa akin lang.
06:52Para sigurado,
06:53pabalik nila kasi luma eh.
06:55Ipasot mo nga yan,
06:56pabalik dun.
06:57Yung ganon.
06:58Pero ayoko mabigyan sila ng burden
07:00na kailangan mo mag-pack ng damit.
07:02Diba?
07:03Kasi parang yung feeling pinapalis.
07:04Yung feeling na stress ka na nga sa school,
07:07tapos magpapak ka pa dahil
07:08pupunta na naman kayo,
07:09gano'n.
07:10So magandang style yan,
07:12yung ginagawa natin.
07:13Up here.
07:14Up here.
07:15Agli na lang din ako.
07:16Di ba?
07:17Di abat mo ba yun?
07:19Oo, maikli eh.
07:20Ayun.
07:21Hindi rin maiiwasan
07:22na nagkakaroon tayo ng disagreement talaga
07:25with our exes
07:26pagdating sa pagpapalaki sa mga bata.
07:29Ano yung isa sa mga biggest arguments nyo today?
07:32Buboy, ang gandang tanong nyan.
07:34Hindi!
07:35Hindi!
07:36Hindi!
07:37Hindi!
07:38Peaceful naman kami!
07:40Parang nag-bring up ko naman nyo.
07:42Oo, actually, yung mga tao na lang
07:44na hindi naman kasali sa pamilya
07:45yung nagsasabing hindi kayo okay eh.
07:47Oo.
07:48Yung mga tao lang talaga yan?
07:49Hindi, tsaka para makapagsalita ka
07:51and be like that here.
07:52Yeah, hindi talaga kami sobrang...
07:54Okay talaga kami.
07:55Yeah.
07:56Tsaka, ang reward sa akin,
07:58close silang magkakapatid.
07:59Syempre apat kaming magkakapatid.
08:01Alam ko yung bonding na yun.
08:03I like that too.
08:04I like that too.
08:05I like that too.
08:06I like that too.
08:07I like that too.
08:08I like that too.
08:09I like that too.
08:10That's how my mom is.
08:12Because we have a friend here,
08:14Ate Camille.
08:15But we were close to our family.
08:17We were really close.
08:19We were not bonded.
08:20I didn't have an issue.
08:21So I said,
08:22I did it again.
08:23Why not?
08:24Because it's a hard thing.
08:26Why not?
08:27Why not?
08:28And the kids are not bad.
08:30They're not good.
08:31They're not good.
08:32Oh, yun nga eh.
08:33Yung kadugo mo nga.
08:34Why not?
08:35Diba?
08:36Oo.
08:37Yan ang gusto ko pang itanong.
08:38Diba?
08:39Diba siyempre,
08:40meron ng other people
08:41sa family.
08:43Sa family.
08:44Okay.
08:45So, nandiyan na si,
08:46ang partner ni AJ ngayon,
08:48ni Aljur.
08:49Diba?
08:50So,
08:51meron ba kayong mga limits?
08:52Like halimbawa,
08:53Aljur,
08:55ayokong ano ha,
08:56hindi naman ganun pagsasama.
08:58Aljur,
08:59huwag mag mag ano,
09:01huwag siya papagalitan ni AJ.
09:04May ganun ba kayo?
09:05Alam mo,
09:06feeling ko.
09:07Sa mga nanilalilig ko ah,
09:09ano si AJ,
09:10parang di siya,
09:12nakikidiscipline din.
09:15I mean,
09:16dinasabi na lang niya.
09:17Meron siyang ganun wisdom.
09:20Yes.
09:21And I like that about her.
09:22Tsaka, kasi may anak na din siya eh.
09:24Yun nga.
09:25So, gets niya.
09:26So, and I like that about her.
09:27I respect that about her.
09:29Ang galing, ang ganda.
09:30Ang ganda nyo.
09:30So, yun dapat ganun.
09:31Dapat ganun yung sistema.
09:32Ganun sana.
09:33Ayoko kasi ng gulo.
09:34Oo, tama.
09:35Tsaka wala naman sinang ginagawang,
09:37sa nakikita ko ha,
09:38pag mabalik ang mga anak ko sa akin,
09:40they're still happy.
09:41Oo.
09:42Kalmado.
09:42So, ibig sabihin,
09:44okay ang lahat.
09:46Tsaka sa tanong,
09:47how's,
09:47blessed ako doon.
09:48Oo.
09:49How's everything in dad's house?
09:51Oo, ganun.
09:52Tapos yung,
09:53sa akin naman,
09:54parang ganun din.
09:55Kasi may anak din yung partner ni ex.
09:58So, ano,
09:59parang nagsasabi siya sa akin.
10:01Nagsusumbog din sa akin si, ano,
10:03si, yung partner nga ng
10:05ni Nestor.
10:06So,
10:07sasabi din siya sa akin.
10:08And I respect that.
10:09And sobra akong,
10:10sabi ko nga,
10:11I'm so blessed.
10:12Ibadil yung fulfillment, no?
10:14Oo.
10:14Tsaka yung mga babae na may,
10:16ano pa rin,
10:17may camaraderie pa rin tayo.
10:18Yay.
10:19At the end of the day,
10:20we're all moms.
10:21Camaraderies.
10:22I like it.
10:22Thankful ako nanay
10:23kasi yung naging partner.
10:24Yung nanay na din.
10:25Bakit po?
10:26Masaya ako na.
10:26Nagit lang,
10:27nagit lang.
10:28Pag sa akin yung camaraderie,
10:29hindi kayo natawa sa akin.
10:30Yung camaraderie ko,
10:30parang hindi ko araw-araw sinasabi, no?
10:33Camaraderie.
10:35Sorry po,
10:35in-interrupt ko lang kayo.
10:36Sorry, go po.
10:37Di ba?
10:37Natutuwa ko.
10:38Pag may friendship na ganun.
10:39Mortal amor sa iya.
10:42Mortal amor sa iya.
10:49Mortal amor sa iya.
10:51Woo!
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