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00:00Previously on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
00:03You have to make a lot of money on this property,
00:05the one that you're going to put me on the listing for.
00:07I kind of already promised Chris.
00:09She's going to have to add another agent.
00:11You wouldn't mind doing that?
00:12I would not.
00:13We got things we want to do.
00:15It's just always something.
00:17Y'all setting us back.
00:19We need to set some boundaries.
00:21Neil, you said, keep my name out of your mouth
00:24trying to make your problem.
00:26I said why I said it.
00:27You're talking to me.
00:28What did y'all think y'all doing here?
00:30Gang up on me?
00:31It's always something.
00:33But it's always pointed at me.
00:36Mr. Googly eyes.
00:37We have an attraction to each other.
00:38We've acknowledged that.
00:40So we'll get the courage.
00:42It was one and done.
00:43Well, it's nice.
00:44Like, I enjoy his company.
00:46I told all of them, like, I'm not sleeping with you.
00:48That's probably why he went and got that girl pregnant,
00:50because you were sleeping with him.
00:54We keep it moving.
00:56All day, all night.
00:58Yeah.
00:59Yeah.
01:00All day, all night.
01:01Yeah.
01:02Yeah.
01:03All day, all night.
01:04Yeah.
01:05Ain't no stopping us.
01:06Yeah.
01:07Yeah.
01:08Yeah.
01:09All day, all night.
01:10Yeah.
01:11All day, all night.
01:12Yeah.
01:13Yeah.
01:14All day, all night.
01:15Yeah.
01:16Ain't no stopping us.
01:17Yeah.
01:18All day, all day, all night.
01:19All day, all night.
01:20Yeah.
01:21Ain't no stopping us.
01:24Yeah.
01:25Hey, hey, hey.
01:26Dude, I'll be beating with Chris and Destiny.
01:41Today I'll be beating with Chris and Destiny.
01:54We'll have a little lunch, and we also go talk about real estate and them listing the
01:58house that I'll be building over the next eight months.
02:00So we'll see how that goes.
02:02So what's happening?
02:03You doing good?
02:04Your shirt busting open.
02:05Other than that.
02:06You know what?
02:07You just made me feel confident to unbutton my arm.
02:10Martell, Destiny's here.
02:11Why don't you open your shirt?
02:12I'm just saying.
02:14My walls look tight.
02:15Couldn't breathe, could you?
02:16Whatever.
02:17Whatever.
02:18Well, you know, the reason I got us here is because I want to, I guess, really see if, where
02:25you guys are going to sell it.
02:26Absolutely.
02:27Each of you guys are going to be doing some work.
02:29We'll need to see what the, what we can agree in terms of commission.
02:32Destiny seemed very adamant on me giving her the listing.
02:35You know, I shared with her that I already got Chris.
02:37We've got to figure out how we're going to split their fee.
02:40What's up with these plans?
02:41Are these the same blueprints from the previous?
02:44You remember.
02:45I do.
02:46I still have them in my email.
02:47This is going to be a seven bedroom, seven bath house, swimming pool.
02:50This is going to be a multi-million dollar listing.
02:53This property is very important to me.
02:54I owned it about three and a half years ago when I was married.
02:56This was going to be, like, my dream home location.
03:00And we lost it during bankruptcy and whatnot.
03:03So it's very important that I reclaim everything that I lost.
03:06What's the time period to start the bill and finish the bill?
03:10I think, like, in about a month, we should be out there turning dirt.
03:13And how long to build the home?
03:15I think about seven, eight months.
03:16Generally, anything over 7,500 square feet, over a million dollars,
03:21generally takes at least about a year.
03:23To sell?
03:24To sell.
03:25I mean, unless I'm selling it, you know.
03:28Yeah.
03:30I don't know what Destiny's real estate experience is.
03:35I don't know of anything that she's worked on, you know, in Alabama.
03:39I've never been a part of that type of split.
03:42But I already know I'll be the one to sell it before he gets it built.
03:46I mean, you guys like how the house look?
03:47Yeah, it's really nice.
03:49See the outside.
03:50We'll see what you're going to do with the inside.
03:51Yeah.
03:52Yeah?
03:53Yes, ma'am.
03:56So how'd y'all enjoy game night?
03:58So you rolled in with Big Will.
04:01Big Willie.
04:03I enjoyed game night until...
04:06His son came in with that baddie.
04:08Oh, definitely wasn't thinking about that.
04:12Until the pool.
04:13The wife felt ganged up on.
04:17Did she really say she felt ganged up on?
04:19Yeah.
04:20From what I saw, you know, going outside and witnessing, nobody was trying to defend or help my wife.
04:27I would expect Destiny to have her back.
04:30They go back...
04:31I don't even know how many years.
04:33I don't want to say pick a side, but, you know, be loyal.
04:37Why was everyone still out there if it should have been a conversation between her and Letisha?
04:43I know why I stayed was because one of the reasons why there was an issue was because
04:47Letisha thought Neil was saying about leaving LA.
04:50So I was the person that brought that information back.
04:53So here I am saying,
04:55Well, this is what she said and this is what she's saying.
04:57Then they realized that it was a miscommunication.
05:00I really was trying to defuse the situation because it had gotten bigger.
05:06Nell feeling this way is shocking.
05:09I didn't know that she felt that way.
05:11But I think, honestly and truthfully, there should be a conversation had if she does feel that way
05:15and some type of resolve so we can move forward.
05:18How did you enjoy the game?
05:19Oh, she had a good time doing the game.
05:20Yeah, yeah.
05:21How did you enjoy the game?
05:22How long you know Will?
05:23Damn.
05:24Um...
05:25We changed or something.
05:26A few weeks.
05:27That was your first date?
05:28Yes.
05:29You like it?
05:30Damn.
05:31So how long you been there Antoine?
05:33Hold on, hold on.
05:34We got five more.
05:35Let's go.
05:36Um...
05:43You know, he was my bodyguard at my event last year.
05:46I don't know him like that.
05:47We just...
05:48Y'all vibe a little bit?
05:49There's an attraction there, but we're just friends.
05:52Oh, okay, okay, okay.
05:53You and Lance?
05:54Y'all done?
05:55Yeah.
05:56Oh, really?
05:57Sorry.
05:58I'm gonna be my father-in-law.
05:59Oh.
06:00So who you like more?
06:01I don't really know either of them to, like, say that.
06:04I don't know if Will would be the one considering the conversation.
06:06We had at the gym.
06:07At the gym?
06:08Oh, my God.
06:09What you mean?
06:10What he say?
06:11Maybe I shouldn't...
06:12Oh, he probably gonna tell you.
06:13He gonna keep it 100.
06:14I got a lot of love.
06:15Because when you got so much love, it's hard to give it to one woman.
06:17I don't know about this .
06:20Doesn't that make sense, though?
06:21You curling destiny right here, Hale.
06:25Well, time will tell.
06:26My destiny?
06:27I'm joking, but you gotta...
06:28Yeah, you gotta be a little more selective.
06:30Would you give him three days instead of one now?
06:32All right, you got it.
06:33See, he was talking the same stuff on game night.
06:37It's a game night, yeah.
06:38He might wanna hit it and stay, but he wanna hit it and quit it.
06:40Oh, yeah.
06:41Well, he gonna...
06:42He waiting a long time to hit and quit,
06:43because it ain't nothing like that over here.
06:45Hitting it and quitting it is definitely not my forte.
06:49You should ask Lance.
06:51You don't get the hit over here unless you commit.
06:56No hit without the commit.
06:58How do you think he gonna get you a man if you ain't...
07:01I know that's your standard, but I have a standard.
07:03And a quality man will meet that standard.
07:06I think that would be an issue with women trying to hold out with a man.
07:10So you just think that every woman that goes on a date with someone
07:13should just be sleeping with everybody they go on a date with?
07:15Or they're dating?
07:16I don't know.
07:17Right.
07:18I don't care what you think, and if you feel like you settling...
07:19Yes, it's true.
07:20...because you ball and you losing your uncle.
07:21I have nothing.
07:22If you're gonna settle, then that's on you, baby.
07:23I'm not settling.
07:24And if you feel like you settling because you ball and you losing your uncle.
07:28I have nothing.
07:29If you're gonna settle, then that's on you, baby.
07:31I'm not settling.
07:54Look at you working on the flowers.
07:56Yeah.
07:57Redoing some stuff to it.
07:59Just busy, busy, busy.
08:01I did see Lance earlier at the daycare, so he's probably gonna stop by soon.
08:05And then still looking for Posh and Pritzy location.
08:09Brick and mortar.
08:10But I don't think it's gonna be much longer.
08:12Maybe 30 days or less, and we should have a place.
08:15Really?
08:16Yeah, baby.
08:17You know I got you.
08:18Oh, I'm excited about that.
08:19Yeah.
08:20I'm looking forward to getting my clothes out there.
08:24So I'm opening up my beauty called Posh and Pritzy, and I got the name from my grandmother,
08:30who used to call me Pritzy all the time when I was younger.
08:34And I'm looking forward to actually having this come all together.
08:40It's been a dream of mine since I was a teenager.
08:44So back to what you were saying about my store, my brick and mortar.
08:48It's just, you know, finding the right place, the right location.
08:52And then, I want to think of a better way to say it, but size matters.
08:59I mean, it's gotta be the right square footage.
09:02Really?
09:03You know what I mean?
09:04No, I'm just saying.
09:05I'm willing to maybe try to go with you, just to see what you're doing out there.
09:09Okay.
09:10Because I've got to get Posh and Pritzy up and running.
09:12I've invested too much in it already.
09:14Let me say this to you, and then we can move on from it.
09:16Oh.
09:17Oh, Lance.
09:20You got the baby?
09:21No?
09:22Nope.
09:23Just Lance.
09:24Hey, son, how you doing?
09:25Lance has stopped by the house today.
09:26And I'm glad he's actually here so I can catch up with him and see how everything's been going.
09:32And I have some things I need to speak with him about.
09:34Apparently, he's got a lot going on.
09:37What y'all got going on?
09:39Nothing.
09:40Nothing.
09:41Just sitting here talking business, and there seems to be a lot going on with everyone.
09:47Have you talked to Chris?
09:48Yeah, I talk to him at least every other day.
09:51You know, like, see, you know, he's back working with me.
09:54So I re-hired my brother.
09:55You know, it's the second time around him working for Green Spaces.
09:58I will say he's gotten better, but it's still some times, some days where I'm a little bit frustrated based on the fact that he feels as if he's underpaid.
10:07But to me, he just didn't have qualifications for me to pay him more.
10:11Chris called me the other day.
10:13He feels some type of way.
10:15Now I'm back in the middle of both of my sons.
10:18He going back to work for his brother.
10:20Here he is vending to me already.
10:22That's all I'm saying.
10:23I'm going to let y'all work that out.
10:25I'm going to stay out of it.
10:26I did tell Chris how I felt, just so you'll know.
10:29I did.
10:30Sounds like we probably need to get together again.
10:34Maybe another Fletcher dinner.
10:36Maybe.
10:37I'm good with that.
10:38It's been a minute anyway since we all been in the same room.
10:40There's some things that need to be discussed based on...
10:42It's never good when we all in the same room.
10:44If I could get all the money back that I've loaned to y'all, I'd be wealthy.
10:49I just honestly feel like you need a therapist.
10:52I just need to get out of debt.
10:53So they come to you to escape her rap?
10:56Mm-hmm.
10:57Pretty much.
10:58Okay.
10:59If he can pay all your need help with.
11:01I already told y'all, y'all needed to see Dr. Francis, not me.
11:05Y'all need to see it.
11:06So y'all get to open in y'all's mouth.
11:08I don't think that's the truth.
11:10No good.
11:11That's not true.
11:12We only have it once or twice.
11:13I mean, of course, we're going to talk.
11:14We're going to do...
11:15Okay.
11:16Let me put it to you this way.
11:17It's different.
11:18You say, oh, let's have a party.
11:19Yeah.
11:20Have a good time.
11:21But when you say dinner, it's a little more intense.
11:24But that needs to happen, though, because if not, it's going to build up and continue.
11:29We need to have it.
11:30We absolutely have to have it.
11:31Okay.
11:32Well, .
11:33Let's have it.
11:34Let's do it.
11:35See how this go.
11:37Whoo!
11:38This can be interesting.
11:39It's not a bad thing when we get together.
11:41I mean, sometimes we know how to get together and eat and be civil.
11:45And then there's some times that we don't.
11:47But because of some of these boundaries that are being broken and out the freaking window,
11:52and I think it's time to get them back together and just to hear what's going on in their lives.
11:56If we do this, it's going to be catered.
11:58Do I need to invite Dr. Francis?
12:00No.
12:01Don't do that.
12:02Oh, I won't be at that damn dinner.
12:04I'm just kidding, man.
12:07Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
12:09I'm an open book.
12:10Are you?
12:11100%.
12:12So you have four children and never been married.
12:14Why haven't you been married?
12:17All Chris said was, he explained it.
12:19It was a question that dad said, I asked him.
12:21Now you're back on dad.
12:22So I was like, what the hell?
12:23One person else is doing a motherfucking lie.
12:27And that happened to be me.
12:44So Will has invited me to a skate date.
12:50And my first thought is, I hope I don't bust my ass.
12:56All right, let's get it.
12:58All right.
12:59On three.
13:00One, two, three.
13:03Good stuff.
13:05I can't.
13:06He got it.
13:07Okay.
13:08Whoa.
13:09Those grooves are terrible.
13:10Yeah.
13:11Yeah.
13:12I'm sorry.
13:13This isn't a good idea.
13:14It wasn't a good idea.
13:15Oh, goodness.
13:16This is terrible.
13:17Yeah.
13:18Hey, the grooves are good for stopping.
13:19If you bust your ass, I'll massage it.
13:20Come on.
13:21Okay.
13:22Oh, shut up.
13:23Tell you what.
13:24We should go find a rink next time.
13:26Yeah, that would be better.
13:28Oh, I got you.
13:29See, I told you I had you.
13:30Oh, my God.
13:34There you go.
13:35Safe.
13:36I saved it.
13:37Brought some stuff to hopefully let you know a little bit more about who I am.
13:42Since you don't really get to talk too much at Fletchitivities.
13:44So, start with the basketball.
13:46What's the basketball for?
13:47It's my first love.
13:49Oh, really?
13:50Yup, it's the hoop.
13:51You know how I played at your age?
13:52I didn't know that.
13:53And it's pretty much my whole life.
13:55But most of my life.
13:56Well, you can't be 6'5".
13:57That's a waste of height.
13:58And not a hoop, right?
13:59Mm-hmm.
14:00But basketballs and balls always remind me to just take a break.
14:04You know, stop.
14:05I work a lot.
14:06But you gotta stop.
14:07Just enjoy life.
14:08Especially with the kids.
14:09The kids.
14:10How many kids?
14:11I got four kids.
14:12Okay.
14:13Yes.
14:14Youngest is six, so...
14:15And you were married before?
14:17I've never been married.
14:18Been engaged once.
14:19Never married, though.
14:20Really?
14:21Nope.
14:22So, you have four children and never been married.
14:23Why haven't you been married?
14:24Okay, so all those relationships were in different situations.
14:27All those relationships?
14:28So you have four different...
14:29Okay.
14:30Yeah.
14:31Four kids, four women.
14:32Uh...
14:33Do you believe in marriage?
14:35Um, I mean, it exists.
14:37I see more people getting out of marriage than getting into it.
14:40It's a greater commitment.
14:42Certain things.
14:43I don't have any tattoos.
14:44You are dancing around a straight answer.
14:48In a relationship, I will commit to the right person or persons.
14:52Or persons.
14:55So, yeah.
14:56No.
14:57Polly nothing over here.
14:58Yeah.
14:59Pollyanna.
15:00No polyamorous.
15:01No poly...
15:02No poly nothing.
15:03Nothing.
15:04No.
15:05Yeah.
15:06I don't like to share.
15:07I had that only child syndrome comes up.
15:09All right.
15:10So we're gonna do the next date.
15:12A next date?
15:13Yeah.
15:14I should do something else.
15:15Um, yeah.
15:16I got a few questions for you.
15:17Before we say...
15:18Ask away.
15:19I'm an open book.
15:20Are you?
15:21100%.
15:22I'll tell you what.
15:23I'll never lie to you.
15:24I just might not volunteer the truth.
15:25Okay.
15:26So you're not forthcoming.
15:27It depends.
15:28Mm.
15:29All right.
15:30So, ask the right question and get the right answer.
15:32Martel made a comment about you.
15:36Something about, uh, you saying something about hitting it and quitting it.
15:40He said that.
15:41You were the hit it and quit it type of guy.
15:46So, you listen to a lot of Martel stuff, but you guys talk a lot, very often, too?
15:50That's the homie, but I'm just...
15:51It's the homie?
15:52Okay, I'm just asking.
15:53Uh, it's probably a joke.
15:54Something...
15:55Like, you know how we were.
15:56It's flexivities.
15:57It was a lot of jokes.
15:58A lot of nonsense.
15:59I don't know if this was flexivities.
16:01I think it was a guy's outing.
16:03Oh!
16:04Oh, we worked out together.
16:05Um, oh, you know what?
16:06I asked the guys about you.
16:09So, ironic that you just rolled up in there with Destiny.
16:12I was thinking, like, where the is Twan?
16:15I knew about Lance.
16:16I knew about Jalen.
16:17But, uh, so Twan's...
16:19That's what I was told.
16:21My homeboy Antoine came up.
16:23Mm-hmm.
16:24You know Twan?
16:25I do.
16:26How do you know Twan?
16:27Twan, uh, was my bodyguard for an event.
16:29Okay.
16:30We're really good friends.
16:31We go way, way, way back.
16:33What the ?
16:34Yeah, like, like, like, since 02 go back.
16:37Yeah.
16:38Yeah.
16:39But...
16:40Welp.
16:41Uh...
16:42So, it's just your bodyguard?
16:44Like, you mean, like, your personal bodyguard or just for, like, an event?
16:49Why does Hunts feel so damn small?
16:51Jesus help me.
16:52It's the Ville.
16:53Yeah.
16:54Yeah.
16:55Antoine's a nice guy.
16:56We've had a business lunch and...
17:00A business lunch?
17:01Yeah.
17:02That's what we call it these days?
17:03That's how I got four kids.
17:04Clearly.
17:05With business lunches.
17:06That's how they started.
17:07Ah!
17:08Huntsville is way too damn small.
17:09And Twan knowing Will because of Ken and the land, it's just like, dang.
17:22It's not even a degree of separation in this little town.
17:26It's quite annoying.
17:27I think it's time for me to go.
17:29Don't get scared.
17:30All right.
17:31Well, did you have fun, though?
17:32I did.
17:33Every time I get with you, it's always a good time.
17:35It's always a good time.
17:36And then you disappear, like Cinderella.
17:38I'm disappearing from Huntsville now at this point.
17:40And you gotta get out of Huntsville?
17:41I do.
17:43Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
17:46So, uh, Destiny told you we're on a date.
17:48I already know, man.
17:49So, it was, uh, it was fun.
17:51Hold on.
17:52My thing is, what you were saying, like, you know, you just gonna, whatever it is, go hit
17:56it and quit it.
17:58I'm glad you said that.
17:59Because she told me you told her that I said that.
18:03I said, we'll prepare for more.
18:04You know, I'm bringing.
18:05I invite a cure.
18:08Get to come to the family dinner?
18:09You must be serious.
18:10I mean, damn, you and Destiny was dating, too.
18:13But she ain't come to the family dinner.
18:21Let's go.
18:22Turn it up.
18:23Turn it up.
18:24Turn it up.
18:25Here we go.
18:26Here we go.
18:27Show it off.
18:28Show the world that I got the goods.
18:30Yay!
18:35Oh!
18:37Y'all boys been good, man?
18:38Yeah, man.
18:39Same one.
18:40Yeah?
18:41Getting ready for the big day.
18:42What's that?
18:43Playing the Sky Brothers.
18:45No one.
18:50Y'all boys been good, man?
18:51Yeah, man. Same old.
18:52Yeah?
18:53We're getting ready for the big day?
18:55What's that?
18:56Playing the Scott brothers.
18:58Aw, man.
18:59Y'all already forgot?
19:00Man, they adamant on playing you guys for real, man.
19:03You think so?
19:04It seemed like it.
19:05So Destiny told you we were on a date?
19:07Oh, how'd it go, man?
19:09How did that date go?
19:10It was fun.
19:12Hold on.
19:13My thing is what you were saying, like,
19:15you know, you just gonna, whatever it is,
19:17go hit it and quit it.
19:19I'm glad you said that.
19:21So she, so did I say that?
19:24Because she told me you told her that I said that.
19:27Oh, that you, that you're in a relationship?
19:32Why would you tell a woman that I'm potentially...
19:35Wait, wait, wait, wait.
19:36But that's my girl, though.
19:37I mean...
19:38So y'all are cool like that?
19:39Yeah, that's my girl.
19:40I gotta watch what I say around you.
19:41Okay, thank you.
19:42I didn't know that.
19:43So it's like, I'm gonna have to warn her.
19:44That's your girl.
19:45Okay, thank you.
19:46Yeah, cause you know she recently divorced and stuff,
19:47you know what I'm saying?
19:48Okay, I got you.
19:49She recently divorced and...
19:50I got you.
19:51Oh, yeah, yeah.
19:52We go way back to no high school, man.
19:55Yeah.
19:56Hey, listen.
19:57How did the date go?
19:58I mean, after someone told her, you know,
20:00you're trying to hit it and quit it,
20:02there's not much I can really do at that point.
20:04No, it is.
20:05Prove it wrong.
20:06You know what I'm saying?
20:07There's nothing to prove wrong.
20:08I'm not trying to hit it and quit it.
20:09I mean, we could be friends,
20:10but I'm not trying to...
20:11Get into a relationship.
20:12I'm not trying to have a quick engagement
20:13and divorce either.
20:14Yeah, yeah.
20:15I'm with that.
20:16I'm with that.
20:17She's a cute girl, man.
20:18I do like her.
20:19Like, she's cool.
20:20Yeah.
20:21It seems like y'all would make a good couple, though.
20:22Honestly, man.
20:23Probably looks wise.
20:24You know, I think she probably looked good on my arm,
20:25but she lied to me, too.
20:26No, definitely not lie.
20:27First, yeah, she did.
20:28I asked her about Lance and Twan,
20:29and first she said Twan was nothing but her bodyguard
20:31for her event.
20:32Right.
20:33And then I told her I knew Twan,
20:34and then she was like, oh, you know him?
20:35Oh, did it switch stuff?
20:36She was like, oh, well, that was nothing serious.
20:38We were, you know, we were just...
20:40I was like, oh, you know him?
20:41Yeah.
20:42Yeah.
20:43Yeah.
20:44Yeah.
20:45Yeah.
20:46Yeah.
20:47Yeah.
20:48Yeah.
20:49Yeah.
20:50We were just...
20:51I was like, okay, so you just lied.
20:52Right.
20:53To my face.
20:54Already.
20:55That's the worst thankful woman to be doing.
20:56This early, put it all out there,
20:57so we know what we're dealing with,
20:59because, you know,
21:00if you have that conversation with Twan,
21:02and Twan says the same thing,
21:03then there is no...
21:05Yeah.
21:06There's nothing wrong with it.
21:07Well, I told you.
21:08I already called Twan,
21:09so I already know what it is.
21:10Yeah.
21:11Him and Destino, they...
21:12He said it was just something that,
21:13you know, they're friends,
21:14and they're just not really...
21:16He didn't say dating.
21:17Oh, .
21:18But he said that they know each other,
21:19and they do things together.
21:21So...
21:22Did y'all just live it like that?
21:23That's...
21:24Yeah, you know.
21:25That's why we lived it.
21:26Huntsville is small,
21:27and, you know,
21:28Destiny, she's dating.
21:30So happily that the guys know each other.
21:33She got about four, five...
21:35She's dating several dudes.
21:37As long as you're honest with people,
21:38I don't know how honest she was with Will,
21:41but as long as she's honest with people,
21:44I don't see anything wrong with it.
21:46I was just like, hey, cool with me.
21:47I just wanted him to know
21:48that I wasn't trying to step on any toes.
21:50No.
21:51You just let him know that,
21:52um,
21:53you made the best man win.
21:55Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
21:58Okay, girl.
21:59Go ahead.
22:00She was named a man.
22:01You don't leave my mind?
22:02Is it okay to call you mama?
22:04Well, Lance, I just recently heard about
22:08the night your mom watched the kids.
22:10But you did not inform me
22:11that Destiny was came
22:13and y'all was talking outside.
22:14.
22:15Oh, wait a minute.
22:16How did he go?
22:17.
22:34This catering is great.
22:37It's probably best if you allow them
22:39to come in here and make the plate
22:40so food's not all over the place in there.
22:43So for me, some of these adult children of ours
22:47are having a hard time understanding
22:50what boundaries are.
22:52So we're gonna try again.
22:54I think it's important to get them all together
22:57to hear that the collective,
22:59you guys are hurting your parents.
23:02I agree.
23:03How many of us, six?
23:05I think seven of us.
23:07Okay.
23:08Right?
23:09I said we'll prepare for more.
23:11You know, I'm bringing, I invited Kiera.
23:15.
23:16You get to come to the family dinner?
23:17You must be serious.
23:18I wouldn't say just that serious,
23:20but I mean, we're dating.
23:21I mean, damn, you and Destiny was dating too,
23:23but she ain't come to the family dinner.
23:25Hearing Lance say that he's invited Kiera,
23:28it's like, okay, it's to let your family dinner.
23:32Like, of course.
23:33It's too soon.
23:35You think?
23:36Yes.
23:37Okay.
23:38I guess it's his way or opportunity to say, okay,
23:41maybe she can see the dynamics of the Fletcher family
23:43to even make her decision,
23:44hell, if she wants to be in the Fletcher family or not.
23:46Exactly.
23:47Run.
23:48Run, Kiera, run.
23:49Hey, girls.
23:50Hey, girls.
23:51How you doing?
23:52How you doing?
23:53Y'all look pretty.
23:54Aw, yeah.
23:55Take after their dad.
23:57What the hell am I? Chuck Libby?
23:58What's up with y'all?
23:59All right.
24:00Hey.
24:01Hey, babe.
24:02I know you ain't gonna act like you missed me.
24:04Hell, you ain't too long moved out.
24:06True.
24:07I'm feeling good.
24:08Yeah, y'all do know he was here for about, what, a month?
24:10We came home from, um, enticed one night.
24:14All out there on the damn back porch back here.
24:17The furniture?
24:18All his stuff.
24:19Well, that was two days in advance, though,
24:21because I was in my car.
24:25What?
24:26I stayed in first.
24:29What you mean?
24:30In my car.
24:31To spend a night?
24:32Yeah, I did.
24:33No, I stayed in the car.
24:34I'm not really sure how I feel that Chris
24:37had spent a couple of nights in the parking lot.
24:40Well, damn.
24:41You stayed.
24:42What up?
24:43What up?
24:44What up?
24:45Hey, boy.
24:46How you doing, babe?
24:47How you doing?
24:48So now that we have guests in the house,
24:52I don't think this is the time.
24:54It's the place.
24:55But...
24:56Tommy, it's always wrong when it comes to Chris.
24:59You never know.
25:00Just never know what you're gonna get with Chris.
25:02So, Chris, you know what?
25:03Whatever.
25:04I had just a conversation with you another time.
25:06Special guest.
25:07Hey!
25:08That's the beautiful lady.
25:12Kiara.
25:13So we meet again.
25:14So y'all, everybody met Kiara?
25:16I met her before she said she went to a daycare.
25:18She did.
25:19Oh, really?
25:20Yes.
25:21You remember?
25:22I was in the front the other day cleaning.
25:23And I just happened to look at the pictures.
25:24I was on the road with Lance and Kayla and Chris and them.
25:27Literally three kids down.
25:29There go Kiara.
25:30They was in the same class.
25:32Lance and Kiara.
25:33In the same daycare class.
25:34That growing smile.
25:35Aw.
25:40Look at this.
25:41This is crazy.
25:42This is a small world.
25:43Yeah.
25:44This is the start of a movie.
25:45It is.
25:46Yeah.
25:47So this is the first time Kiara is going to meet my siblings.
25:50I'm pretty excited about it.
25:51I think she'll fit in really well.
25:53They're all pretty silly.
25:54Kiara has a really silly side about herself.
25:57If I want to take this to the next level,
25:59I think this is going to be a good way to kind of gauge
26:03if it's going to work.
26:04Y'all get the food ready.
26:05Y'all get that food together.
26:06Yeah.
26:07Whatever.
26:08He slept someday well.
26:09Anyway, I got some grilled salmon.
26:12I got some fried chicken.
26:15Ooh.
26:16Normally, I cook Kiara.
26:17She's amazing.
26:18But.
26:19I got to come back again.
26:20Yes.
26:21Before you cook.
26:22Yeah.
26:23OK.
26:24Yeah.
26:25Yeah.
26:26You got to come back again.
26:27So I'll be at the next one.
26:28OK.
26:29You better claim to your place.
26:30You better claim to exist.
26:31I know that's right.
26:32OK, girl.
26:33Go ahead.
26:34She the claim to me.
26:35You don't leave mama hanging.
26:36No.
26:37Is it OK to call you mama?
26:39Miss Nell.
26:40OK, Miss Nell.
26:41We'll start there.
26:42We'll start there.
26:43Yeah.
26:44Miss Nell.
26:45Kiara needs to slow down.
26:47Pump the brakes.
26:49I don't see a ring on her finger.
26:51Nowhere.
26:52Neither finger.
26:53No promise ring.
26:55No wedding ring.
26:57Just take it slow.
26:59And let's see where this goes.
27:01What's going on with you, man?
27:02How you been doing, man?
27:03What you do today?
27:04Really want to know?
27:05We was up kind of late with the baby last night.
27:07I know.
27:08So I slept in.
27:09Baby just agitated because of her allergies, I believe.
27:12I don't miss them days, man.
27:14Having these little squeegee thing to get stuff out their nose.
27:17Oh, yeah.
27:18They crying and fighting.
27:19Pull that line out.
27:20Yeah.
27:21I ain't gonna lie.
27:22I'm new to it, but I love it.
27:23No, it really is.
27:24Now, every move that I make, I put her first.
27:26Like, anything that I do first, I got to think about that first before I do everything.
27:30100%.
27:31Glad to hear you say that, son.
27:33Glad to hear you say that.
27:34I can already tell.
27:35I'm proud of you, bro.
27:36For real.
27:37What's going on with the ladies?
27:40Destiny, Kimmy.
27:44I feel like the last time I was with them, Kiara was there.
27:49I was there.
27:50Oh, so you met Destiny.
27:53When I first got there, I felt like you just kept giving me the eye, like, the whole time.
27:56Just, you know, you can feel somebody looking at you.
27:58Every time I turn around, she, like, had a little fake little grin, like...
28:01She was already looking at you.
28:02Already looking at you.
28:03Already looking.
28:04I care, Kimmy.
28:05I'll tell your mama that I want her, uh, drawing smiles when I was in the house.
28:08I did not tell her that, no.
28:11Me and Destiny was friends before her and Lance decided they want to damn date,
28:17which I said I didn't think was a good idea to begin with, just because of this right here.
28:22So do you think she's gonna feel some type of way now since I'm over here?
28:27I'm sure she will.
28:29Actually, I'm trying to figure out how she pulled up out here beside my house.
28:34You're doing what?
28:35Well, Lance went to get some pizza.
28:37I had the grandkids.
28:39And, um, I looked outside.
28:44He was outside talking to Destiny.
28:50So Destiny meets Kiara at Flashtivities.
28:55And all of a sudden, you know, Destiny shows up at my house a few days later, you know, to meet and talk to Lance.
29:02I think she might be feeling a way, and she might be, you know, just a slight bit jealous.
29:08Well, Lance, I just recently heard about the night your mom watched the kids and you went to get pizza.
29:16But you did not inform me that Destiny was came and y'all was talking outside.
29:20Oh, wait a minute. I don't hear you. Oh, okay.
29:23I don't hear you. Oh, okay.
29:27Coming up on Love & Marriage, Hinesville.
29:30What? Your dad don't need you to take it. He needs to defend his damn self.
29:33Wait a minute, I'm not kidding.
29:34He the one got to damn live here with me.
29:36Understood, but we know how this is going on.
29:38What am I defending?
29:39Exactly. If you feel a certain type of way, apparently, Lance is feeling for you.
29:43But you did not inform me that Destiny came and y'all was talking outside.
29:52Oh, wait a minute. I don't hear you. Oh, okay.
29:55Well, your mom was chatting in the kitchen.
29:58I cannot speak for Lance, but if I was Kiara, I would be curious to know why Lance X is stopping by or popping up to see him.
30:10This is what happened.
30:11This is what happened.
30:13So I went and got pizza, and I did not talk to Destiny. I didn't talk to her.
30:17I literally pulled up in the driveway, and as I'm getting out the truck, there's a car in the street.
30:24So I look, and I do realize it's Destiny.
30:27So she pulled up in the driveway. We had a cordial conversation for about ten minutes, and that was it.
30:33Ten minutes?
30:35She said ten minutes.
30:36But ten minutes is a long time, and you're just speaking.
30:38Well, what she was saying?
30:39Well, what was the conversation about?
30:41Listen, I don't know.
30:42You said you don't know?
30:44What she told me was she was on a kid route. She was trying to get her kids to sleep.
30:48She was in her neighborhood.
30:49Well, that's what it was told to me.
30:51And so that turned in ten minutes. I'm just trying to clarify.
30:58I mean, well, I'm a gentleman at the end of the day.
31:02Destiny and I were friends before anything.
31:04We had to sit down, and we had clothes, and it was cool.
31:07We're back on the friend side, okay?
31:09Well, she says she don't like you, but then that's the spark of chemistry or whatever.
31:12Oh, chemistry is there. I can't no disrespect. You know what I'm saying? I'm just keeping it above. Like, it's chemistry.
31:18She flirts a lot, and she flirts with you still.
31:21I hope you ain't flirting.
31:23I don't do that.
31:25So how does Destiny end up in front of our house and yelling out to Lance?
31:29I mean, I thought that was kind of crazy.
31:31She said she was turning down the street, trying to put the baby to sleep.
31:34Okay, but she lives on the other side of town.
31:39Hmm. Interesting.
31:41Destiny just needs to be single so she can just flock on whoever she wants.
31:46Well, I know she's single. She can date whoever she wants.
31:48But, hell, I don't even know who else to want dating.
31:52I don't know if it's Destiny or who else.
31:54That's what everybody want to know. But, uh...
31:56You know, I mean...
31:58We did go on a date.
32:01And, I mean, to me, she's cool.
32:04You know, cordial.
32:05So you did go on a date with her?
32:07Well, it wasn't a date. It was, like, it was really a business thing.
32:10Who set the damn business meeting up?
32:12That's G14 classified information.
32:15She paying you?
32:16I mean, hopefully she would be. That was the plan.
32:18You think she paying for security?
32:20Well, to me, if she paying him, then it could be just a business meeting.
32:23I mean, how you want to date his godbrother?
32:26Then she bring Will to Fletch-tivities.
32:31Hello.
32:32What up, man?
32:35Am I listening right?
32:37She, like, lends Will in.
32:40You're next.
32:41The lends.
32:44So have you and Will had the conversation?
32:46Because that's your guy, too.
32:47He's asking me some questions.
32:49I told him, I said, hey, man, look.
32:50What are y'all singing?
32:52You know, do what you got to do.
32:54If a date is what y'all doing, the date is what y'all doing.
32:56I'm easygoing.
32:57But, I mean, at the same time, I mean, I ain't really dating nobody.
33:00I'm just kind of out here chilling like I try to tell a lot of people.
33:05Lance.
33:06Just wanted to know if we was chilling.
33:07He said this is his right hand, so I wanted to know if, you know,
33:10words of a feather, y'all.
33:11Nah, nah, nah, nah.
33:12Don't make sure we ain't chilling.
33:13No, we ain't chilling, we heeding.
33:15That's so sweet, Lance.
33:18Oh, I thought it was lame.
33:20Just like it was when I had visited you at your home.
33:26And I asked you, do you want to get back in the dating world?
33:30You said, yeah, I do, but not right now.
33:33And then I find out that you already dating.
33:37We're dating, you know what I'm saying?
33:39Like, have I made it exclusive?
33:41No, but am I seeing someone else?
33:43No.
33:44I got a lot on my plate as far as business and being a full-time father.
33:49And then I have to fit in Kiara at this point.
33:53You know this, we have these conversations.
33:55So I wasn't necessarily looking to start dating,
33:58but it just so happened fell in my lap.
33:59Well, just know, when we get past the school through dating,
34:02you got to ask me to be a girlfriend so we're clear.
34:04They're right, they're right too.
34:06All right.
34:07All right.
34:08The key error to me right now is, you know, doing the most.
34:12Asking whatever to be the girlfriend,
34:15to saying they're exclusive.
34:17You know, sweet girl, but pop your brakes, dear.
34:20Let's slow down a little bit.
34:22That's on Lance.
34:24And, you know, his choices here lately have been, you know, interesting.
34:29Very, very interesting.
34:32Chris.
34:33You know, you made a statement that you, uh,
34:36it's kind of been on my mind.
34:37You're saying you stayed in your car for two nights.
34:39Is there a reason why you didn't call me?
34:45Call you?
34:46Mm-hmm.
34:47If I'm in a bad space, why do I feel like I have to...
34:50Put somebody else in your ass.
34:51Like, yeah, and keep doing it.
34:52And then on top of that, when I hear y'all talk to me,
34:54oh, Chris this, Chris get locked up, Chris keep doing it,
34:56keep doing that.
34:57It's like, Chris, stay to yourself and get your together
35:00and do something for yourself.
35:02So it's like, I got in the space where I just needed to be,
35:05I just needed to be alone and figure out.
35:09I feel like y'all love us so much to where sometimes y'all don't
35:13see it to y'all self that maybe y'all care so much,
35:18y'all can be holding me back.
35:20Cause you're doing too much.
35:26I feel like y'all love us so much, y'all can be holding me back.
35:30Cause you're doing too much.
35:34This is the first time that I've heard you acknowledge...
35:37Acknowledge his wrongdoings?
35:39Yes.
35:40Yes.
35:41And I appreciate that what we call spoil, you all feel entitled.
35:53For a long time, I wanted to take that away.
35:57Like, let him go.
36:01You said for a long time I wanted to let him go.
36:06Let him figure it out.
36:07What are you saying?
36:08I said what I said.
36:10Maybe I should have said we.
36:11I'm taking it as if you were saying I wouldn't let him go?
36:14Is that what you're saying?
36:15Oh, there's been a few opportunities or situations where I've said,
36:20let's just not do it.
36:21And you have.
36:22No, that's my baby.
36:24There's been times where I didn't want him to go to prison.
36:27If you're gonna clarify, clarify, who wants to see their son in prison?
36:32What mother?
36:33Not me.
36:34I just wanted to figure it out, that's all.
36:36A lot of stuff lately feel better when you figure it out.
36:40You start doing it for yourself.
36:41Because then you ain't got to hear nobody say nothing.
36:43Or hold it over your head.
36:44Or I did this for you.
36:46Or I was just go ahead and just do it.
36:49You feel like that's what we've been doing previously?
36:52Holding over your head.
36:53Even though we're your parents and it's kind of,
36:55sometimes it's an obligation.
36:57What's an obligation?
36:58With my parents, I feel like it's a,
37:00I think y'all care about us.
37:03And they're children.
37:05They still are children.
37:07Can I agree?
37:08Because you, you trilling backwards.
37:11The fact that he stayed outside for two days or what have you.
37:16But all he did was ask a question respectfully.
37:18He didn't say that he refuted.
37:19It was a question.
37:20It wasn't that he was saying he did anything wrong.
37:23All he did was ask him a question.
37:25You're not the parent.
37:26I, no ma'am.
37:27And respectfully, I know I'm not the parent.
37:29All Chris said was, he explained it.
37:31It was a question that dad said, asked him.
37:33Chris just explained his answer.
37:35You agree with it.
37:36So we all are doing the same thing.
37:38I agree with Chris.
37:39But then, but then you're, but now you're back on dad.
37:41So it's like, what the hell?
37:42What?
37:43Your dad don't need you to take, he need to defend his damn self.
37:46Wait a minute, I'm not, please.
37:47He the one gotta damn live here with me.
37:48Understood.
37:49But we know how this going on.
37:51What am I defending?
37:52Exactly.
37:53If you feel a certain type of way, apparently Lance feel it for you.
37:57This is some .
37:58That's why he talking.
37:59I'm not.
38:00He didn't say nothing.
38:01You know what?
38:02I've been with you for over 30 years.
38:03I don't really know.
38:04He didn't say nothing.
38:05But I said .
38:06No, cause you, cause you know I'm telling the damn truth.
38:08Tell the truth about what?
38:09All y'all have stressed me the out.
38:17As the mom, everyone runs to me.
38:21Everyone wants me to put out the fire.
38:25Mom will fix it.
38:26They want to complain when something goes wrong.
38:29I think it's important to get them all to understand and see that you guys are hurting your parents.
38:35Because these boundaries are not being followed.
38:40I don't forget what boundaries are nowadays.
38:42No, no, no.
38:43We haven't forgotten, they have forgotten what boundaries are.
38:46Do any of y'all remember the boundaries that we discussed when we were in the kitchen here?
38:50We harped a lot on finances.
38:51We harped a whole lot on finances.
38:53I do still currently owe from previous stuff prior to the boundaries being set.
39:03No.
39:04But I do not recall there being any more boundaries being, like, finances being landed.
39:08No.
39:09Let me, let me, let me, let me say something.
39:11We are getting older.
39:12And there's things that we want to do.
39:17There's things that I want to do now that I can't.
39:21And I have helped you recently.
39:23The boys, they're just spoiled.
39:26There is a lot of funds that have been lended to them that have not been paid back.
39:35And I can use those funds right now.
39:37I have things that I want to do.
39:39I have endeavors that I'm trying to start, like my boutique.
39:42So, stop playing with me.
39:45Pay the money.
39:47Okay?
39:48You done broke me down.
39:49It's a family.
39:50Everybody tired.
39:51It ain't just about one person.
39:52It's about all of us.
39:53Well, one person is doing a mother lot.
39:56One person here is doing a mother lot.
39:59And that happened to be me.
40:02So, as we've seen before, there's always chaos going on at the Fletcher family dinners, right?
40:06I immediately was concerned when my mom decided to slam the table.
40:10You want this to go smooth.
40:12Well, here we are.
40:13Things are not going smooth.
40:14Maybe I should have warned Kira about this.
40:18Everybody needs to shut the up.
40:25Next on Love & Marriage Huntsville.
40:27Welcome to the Love & Marriage Huntsville Holiday Special.
40:31We're letting our hair down with the Christmas game night Huntsville style.
40:35Y'all ready?
40:36Let's go!
40:37Let's go!
40:38Three, two, one, go!
40:40How quick can you go?
40:42With that?
40:43Oh!
40:44Oh!
40:45Who is more likely to get busted telling a half-truth?
40:49Martell.
40:50Martell?
40:51What?
40:52I'm going to tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
40:55Who has the most exes?
40:58Tisha?
40:59Me.
41:00You?
41:01What?
41:02Y'all lost for sure.
41:03Hey, Martell.
41:05Now let the kissing begin.
41:07Oh, man.
41:08Oh, man.
41:09Oh, man.
41:10No!
41:12The holiday season is not complete without an ugly sweater contest.
41:16Goddamn.
41:17Come on with it, Megatron.
41:18Come on.
41:19Come on!
41:20Oh, my God.
41:21The�!
41:22Oh, my God.
41:23Oh, my God.
41:24Oh, my God.
41:25Andrew!
41:26Oh, my God!
41:27Yeah!
41:28Yes.
41:29Go!
41:30Go!
41:31Go!
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