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90 Day Fiance Season 7 Episode 13
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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiance, The Other Way.
00:03That's what you call a nice couple experience?
00:07Seeing Menon's reaction to the farm,
00:09I'm kind of questioning my decision on the surprise.
00:13I'm sick and tired of you playing games on me like that.
00:17You don't listen.
00:20Dylan told me that you wanted him to marry somebody younger,
00:23and that's where the resentment with you talking to Dylan comes from.
00:27OK, well, I've never said anything like that.
00:31But I'm so sorry, Joe, really.
00:33I'm so mad at Dylan because I hated her for many, many years.
00:38So we all good?
00:40I feel so unsure if I do want kids anymore.
00:45This is a complete shock to me.
00:48We've even named what all of our kids would be called.
00:53I mean, we didn't get off to, like, the greatest start.
00:58What?
00:59I found out on social media that he was with a girl for her birthday.
01:05Johnny was not faithful to my daughter.
01:08No, I'm actually pissed about that.
01:12You take bicker and fight and nitpick.
01:16How rude.
01:17I am how I am.
01:19If this is anything like what our marriage is going to be like,
01:23holy do we have problems.
01:25Respect goes both ways.
01:26No importa.
01:28I'm saying you need to...
01:29You're going to broke up this relationship.
01:30F*** you.
01:40One night for the weekend, oh, my friend always said
01:45You don't hide me, you don't mind me
01:48I never pretend
01:50I don't cry on you, I don't cry on you
01:53Hey, Chloe.
01:59Gonna go for a jog.
02:00You wanna come with me?
02:02Absolutely not.
02:03I'm ready to go.
02:04Wonderful.
02:05Let's go.
02:06Let's go for it.
02:08Earlier today, I told my mom about Jonathan's cheating
02:12and now she wants to have some one-on-one time with Jonathan.
02:17You guys gonna run a 5K or what?
02:19We'll see what happens.
02:21I definitely regret telling my mom
02:23because now she's going to drill Jonathan
02:27like 17 billion times more.
02:354.5 is my max speed.
02:40Learning that Johnny cheated on my daughter
02:42has changed a lot of things.
02:45It's given me so many more levels of concern.
02:48Very windy today, huh?
02:49It is.
02:51It was great.
02:53If it was up to me,
02:54I would bring my daughter home with me.
02:57Yeah, this is the beach I was talking about.
03:00This one?
03:01Yeah, right here.
03:02Let me show you.
03:02Okay.
03:03So it's the first part of Eagle Beach.
03:06It's very famous for these two trees in particular.
03:10That's the DVDV tree.
03:11It goes to the form of the wind.
03:13It's beautiful.
03:14Yeah.
03:14They even have a special...
03:15It's like a big bonsai tree.
03:17Yeah, kind of.
03:18Yeah.
03:20Wow.
03:20So, you know, I'm glad we had this time alone without Chloe here, you know, as I'm leaving
03:31tomorrow, and I do have concerns in regards to an infidelity in Miami with some girl.
03:40That happened way in the beginning.
03:46We weren't even, I mean, you know, like we weren't serious.
03:51We didn't agree to commit to each other at that time.
03:54You know, so we were going out, but we weren't in a relationship.
04:01Now, for the last few months, we've been something real serious, and of course, I'm not going to
04:05do anything like that.
04:06Shouldn't you two have already discussed that and already been there?
04:11I feel like maybe you were only saying that because that was the right thing to say.
04:18That's unacceptable, and it scares me, and I don't want to leave my daughter here on this
04:22island, and then something like that happens again, and then she's all alone, so...
04:27Chloe shouldn't have told her mom that there was an infidelity because, you know, we weren't
04:32exclusive in the beginning like that.
04:34We really weren't.
04:35I know I feel like Chloe should admit that she was also with somebody else, you know,
04:40but I'm not a person that goes and tells her mom that, you know.
04:43I'm a person that, hey, you know what, think what you want to think.
04:46I'm just going to try to show you that I'm a better person than that.
04:50Being a mom is, you know, I take that job very seriously.
04:54My daughter living here, you know, so far away from me, you know, that means I need
05:01to put a lot of trust in you, and I feel like it's too much of a struggle here for her, honestly.
05:09And like I said, I'm leaving tomorrow.
05:11Yeah.
05:12I need to see that she's going to be okay with you.
05:16Yeah, definitely, definitely, and no one out of that in my mind.
05:19If she could start getting a work permit, then she could start working just to keep herself
05:23busy, make some tips out of it.
05:25Set a date to it.
05:26Yeah.
05:27Because, you know, if you don't set a date to it...
05:29It'll never happen.
05:29Yeah, it will never happen.
05:31No.
05:33I sometimes worry that Johnny's just telling me what I want to hear, and I am not satisfied
05:38with his answers in reference specifically to, you know, the unfaithfulness.
05:44To be honest, the way that I see it, once a cheater, always a cheater.
05:48And I want my daughter to know that she deserves more.
05:51I don't trust him as much as I did when I got here.
05:54You both really need to sit down together and have a conversation to make sure that this
06:01is truly like what Chloe wants, what you want, whether it's together or separately.
06:08I don't trust him as much as I did when I got here.
06:39Yesterday, I told Matthew that I am unsure about having kids.
06:44So I sent out an SOS to the wives' chat because I am completely spiraling about my relationship.
06:52Hey!
06:53Oh my God, hi!
06:54Hi!
06:55How are you?
06:56Um, I'm doing okay.
07:00You have duct tape on your finger?
07:01Yeah, we went and fed apples to some, um, hogs yesterday, and I, uh, got bit by a pig.
07:11Oh, you're gonna eat it out of my pocket?
07:13Okay.
07:14Oh!
07:15Don't eat my hand.
07:16Okay, you guys are getting a little bit feisty.
07:19I just got bit.
07:21It's all good.
07:22But while we were picking apples, I brought up the fact that I've been really on the fence
07:29about having children, and he was, like, shocked, and I was like, I think that you are
07:38made to be a dad like you'd be an amazing father, and I don't want you to resent me for thinking
07:46that you will one day convince me, and I'm never convinced.
07:50Yeah, that's true.
07:51Babe, to the deepest part of my core, I love you, and you make me happy.
08:07If you end up not wanting kids, I'll still be there.
08:13That's what I would always give.
08:15That's what a partner should always give.
08:21So, I'm just really struggling right now because I moved here for him so we could be together
08:28and, like, get married, and I can see, like, what a good person he is and, like, what a
08:34great husband he would be, like, an amazing husband.
08:38But for the past six months, we did not feel very connected, and there was definitely a decline
08:47in the relationship.
08:48So, I started to wonder if, like, he isn't my person.
08:57Oh, my God, Grana, that's a lot.
08:59You're, like, breaking my heart right now.
09:03I used to call Matthew all the time.
09:05I used to flirt with him more.
09:08I used to send him nudes a lot.
09:09But when I was studying for the bar, it's about eight to ten hours of studying a day.
09:15So, we really lost connection.
09:17I started questioning if all my anxious thoughts about being disconnected was because we were
09:25across the pond or because we are just no longer connected to each other in general.
09:32I think I had to wait till I came here and, like, really understood how we would be together.
09:41And whenever I first saw him at the train station, it was, like, really great to see him.
09:48But I didn't feel, like, you know, that spark in my heart.
09:55In general, our interactions don't feel very romantic.
09:59We did sleep together.
10:01But it, like, hasn't been.
10:06It falls flat.
10:07Yeah, yeah.
10:09It was hard.
10:10So, I'm getting really conflicted because it wouldn't be, like, a bad relationship.
10:16It would be, like, a fine relationship.
10:19I love Matthew.
10:20Like, you know I love Matthew.
10:21But, like, you just don't deserve to have a fine relationship.
10:25If there's still no spark, then that, I think, tells you everything you need to know.
10:32I really care about him.
10:35But, like, even though this is, like, a future that would, in many ways, would fulfill, like,
10:48everything I've hoped for in life.
10:51I have, like, changed so much in the past two years, and I don't know what to do about it.
10:57It's just, like, honestly that simple, but also so complicated.
11:05Yeah.
11:07I really love Matthew, but I'm worried that we might not be compatible anymore.
11:14I can't even imagine what it's like right now for you.
11:17Yeah.
11:17I feel really sad saying that, and I truly just, like, don't know what to do right now.
11:30Ah, super.
11:32For money, I could always just dress up as a mime.
11:35It is both silly and romantic.
11:38I don't know what it is, your father.
11:43Welcome to the great outdoors.
11:45I love it.
11:46Really?
11:46It's so different from being in the city.
11:49That's Mom.
11:50Hi, Mom.
11:51Hi, how are you going?
11:53She's constantly invading our relationships.
11:57She calls every day.
12:00What's the big deal?
12:00It's my mom.
12:02Babe, it's not normal.
12:03Every little movement, every little thing you do, is it's light of hand that commands my heart to love you?
12:21I love you, I love you.
12:22I love you!
12:22I love you.
12:23I love you.
12:23I love you.
12:24What's the big deal?
12:24You love you, Anthony.
12:24I love you, Anthony.
12:25Hello.
12:41Hey.
12:42My name is Anthony.
12:44Nice to meet you, Anthony.
12:46You have contacted me?
12:48Yes.
12:49Since we've been in France, there's been a lot of really serious discussions or arguments.
12:54Everything's very, very heavy.
12:56On y va?
12:57On y va. C'est parti.
12:58Allez.
12:59I do know that I missed the mark with the goat farm.
13:01So I'm just looking to cheer her up a little bit.
13:04Pourquoi tu veux apprendre le mime français?
13:09Ma femme, Marseillaise, très, très sérieux.
13:15Moi, pas sérieux.
13:18Je vous aussi ajoute une touche de romance.
13:22C'est une très, très bonne idée.
13:23All right.
13:24Super.
13:25On y va.
13:26On y va.
13:27Nous allons marcher.
13:29Le moonwalk.
13:30You know moonwalk?
13:31Oh, oui.
13:32Michael Johnson.
13:33Tac.
13:34C'est la première marche qu'on apprend quand on fait du mime.
13:38Ah, tac.
13:40Ah, ok.
13:42Ah, tac.
13:44Like a flyer.
13:45Respire.
13:46I had made a joke one time to Manon when we had decided to move here that for money I could
13:59always just dress up as a mime.
14:00Put a hat in front of me and people can pay me for my mining skills.
14:05And it's just kind of been this running joke between us.
14:08Yes.
14:09Ooh.
14:10It is both silly and romantic.
14:13Ooh.
14:14And it is sort of the only job that I'm qualified for not being able to speak French.
14:20Yes.
14:21Very well.
14:22OK.
14:23Alors, maintenant, pour la magie, je vais t'aider à t'habiller en mime.
14:30OK.
14:31OK.
14:32I know that Manon and Ben are coming any second.
14:35Ah, super.
14:36For what she thinks is a walk.
14:39I don't know if I'm nervous for them to see me as a mime or to improvise for strangers.
14:45I don't know where your father is.
14:52What the ?
14:57What the fuck ?
15:02What's he doing?
15:04I was supposed to meet Anthony in the center town because Ben loves the carousel over there.
15:10And I see my husband dressed as a freaking mime.
15:15Qu'est-ce que tu fais là ?
15:17This is a complete turn off.
15:20He's taking the jokes way too far.
15:22Like, we don't do that in France.
15:24You don't put yourself in a spectacle in the street.
15:27OK.
15:28It's very, very humiliating.
15:30Like, this is not helping our relationship whatsoever.
15:33Anthony, what the heck?
15:34What are you doing this?
15:35What is wrong with you?
15:36Oh, it's a little fun.
15:37A little fun?
15:38Yeah.
15:39You're so serious all the time.
15:40I'm just trying to have a little fun while trying to be, like, a little romantic and show you that I love you.
15:46Anthony, oh my gosh.
15:48But...
15:49With makeup on and lipstick on your face?
15:51Yeah.
15:52OK.
15:53Well, we don't have the same idea of romance, I guess.
15:55Hi.
15:56Oh, tu les fais peur !
15:58You're scaring Ben.
15:59You're scaring me, honestly.
16:03I think you are making quite the spectacle.
16:06I was shocked.
16:08I was shocked seeing my husband in front of people doing the clown.
16:14Supposed to be romantic.
16:15Whoa, whoa, whoa.
16:17Not a clown.
16:18Yeah, it's kind of...
16:19Mime.
16:20It's the same.
16:21What is in your mind, Anthony?
16:25Oh, my God.
16:26He's trying to show you that, you know, it doesn't have to be serious all the time, and you, like, completely took it seriously again.
16:31But of course, I'm in front of, like, thousands of people.
16:33I'm not out here begging for money.
16:35I was doing it for you.
16:36This was a whole routine, like, for you, right?
16:39It's a tightrope.
16:40We're working on balance.
16:43I fall off, and I present you the rose, and then you could have taken my heart, and I was rejected.
16:50Uh, just, uh, now it's me, we cannot speak.
16:53Why?
16:54You did again something that you liked, that you know that is not my style and not my vibe.
17:02You do that in public, and then I look like that crazy and grateful bitch.
17:08You know I don't like this type of things.
17:24Maybe I should put some tears in makeup.
17:27But, well, as it was a very poetic image, I would say that she was touched, but she was touched, in fact, but not in the sense that I thought.
17:36If you just don't get what I'm saying, it's fine.
17:38I just need to hear your voice, I'm not the same.
17:50I don't feel quite like myself now have remained.
17:54Maybe there's a way we can survive.
17:59Future's on the line, so let's go back in time.
18:04So lovely and excited to go camping.
18:07I, uh, know nothing about camping, but I'm sure you will show me.
18:13You're going to be so comfortable, love.
18:15Oh, thank goodness.
18:16You're not going to want to leave.
18:17Okay.
18:18After dinner the other night, Dylan and I talked about him lying about his mom and the age gap thing.
18:28I cannot believe you don't remember telling me that.
18:31The hatred stemmed from you telling me that your mom said all those things about me.
18:36Yes, you're right.
18:37You're right in everything you're saying.
18:39I apologize.
18:42Welcome to the great outdoors.
18:44But it's raining.
18:46I was so mad, but then he apologized, and at this point I'm just ready to let it go.
18:56Camping in the rain.
18:57So what?
18:58We've got tents, we've got shelters.
19:00I've never put one of these up before.
19:03Do you have instructions?
19:05I don't need instructions.
19:07Just a tent.
19:08Do you want that close to the fire?
19:10My hair's going to catch on fire.
19:13That'll be fine.
19:15Patia's a big city girl.
19:17She comes from the big city of Dallas.
19:19And, you know, she doesn't like camping.
19:21But maybe once she actually tries it, she's never tried it.
19:24Maybe she'll love it.
19:25And I also see it as being beautiful and magic and romantic.
19:30If she's going to be here in Tassie, she needs to get into the culture and the lifestyle of Tasmania.
19:38Oh, yes!
19:39Good job!
19:40It's going to get dark soon.
19:42Let's just pull up some chairs and make some nice marsh billows and enjoy this beautiful evening.
19:47If I go to the bathroom, you're going with me.
19:50Sure.
19:51Oh!
19:52That's so cute.
19:53Hey, baby!
19:54I'm blinding him.
19:55That's a little paddy melon.
19:56Does he bite?
19:57No.
19:58No.
19:59You can't go into it.
20:00It'll scare it away.
20:01Oh, there we go.
20:02How do you feel about Tasmania now?
20:04I love it.
20:05Being out here in the wilderness?
20:06I love it.
20:07Really?
20:08It's so cute.
20:09Hey, baby.
20:10Hey, baby.
20:11I'm blinding him.
20:12There's a little paddy melon.
20:13Does he bite?
20:14No.
20:15You can't go into it.
20:16It'll scare it away.
20:17Oh, there we go.
20:18How do you feel about Tasmania now?
20:22I love it.
20:23Being out here in the wilderness?
20:24I love it.
20:25Really?
20:26It's so different from being in the city.
20:32That's Mum.
20:36Hi, Mum.
20:37Hi, how are you going?
20:38Good.
20:39How are you?
20:40I'm good.
20:41Where are you now?
20:42Camping with Patia.
20:43Sounds romantic.
20:44Oh, we've had a great day.
20:46Is it cold out there?
20:48It's currently raining.
20:50Oh, really?
20:51Yeah.
20:52Don't let the mosquitoes bite you, for goodness sake.
20:54Have you got any spray or anything?
20:56No, we didn't bring any of that.
20:57All right, babe.
20:58We have to go now.
21:00I'm sorry.
21:01Oh, okay.
21:02Well, listen, have a lovely evening together camping.
21:04And I'll be thinking of you both.
21:06Bye, Joe.
21:07Bye.
21:08Take care.
21:09Bye.
21:10Oh, can she just not, like, call when we're, like, trying to do stuff?
21:14I don't want to call her back and tell her.
21:15No, I don't want to call her back and tell her.
21:16Because it seems like you're not going to tell her.
21:17No, I don't want to call her back and tell her.
21:18Because it seems like you're not going to tell her.
21:19She calls every day.
21:20She doesn't call every day.
21:22Just relax.
21:23Enjoy life.
21:24He wants so badly for me to love his mother.
21:27But I feel like she's constantly invading our relationship.
21:33G'day, Mum.
21:34How are ya?
21:35G'day, Mum.
21:36How are ya?
21:37G'day, Mum.
21:38How are ya?
21:39Hi.
21:40How's it going?
21:41Good.
21:42How are you?
21:43G'day, Mum.
21:44How are ya?
21:45Let's look at your call log.
21:46I bet you it's all your mum.
21:48Bust it out.
21:49Let's count how many times your mum called.
21:54Oh, my God.
21:55It's just Joe, Joe, Joe, Joe, Joe, Joe, Joe.
21:58What's the big deal?
21:59It's my mum.
22:00Babe, it's not normal.
22:02You're 38.
22:03You're pushing 40.
22:05And you talk to your mum that many times.
22:08It's very normal.
22:09She wants you close to her.
22:11She wants you at her beck and call.
22:14You really...
22:15I've got to set boundaries with you.
22:17I've sat at the table with you girls.
22:19And I'm like, is it resolved?
22:20But you guys...
22:21I know, but baby...
22:22You guys act like best friends.
22:23And you're both saying, it's resolved.
22:24Yeah, but you're saying, is it resolved?
22:25You're supposed to say, you know what, Mum?
22:26But Tia's right.
22:27Let's work on not talking so much.
22:32It's really frustrating that Tia's still jealous of my mum calling me.
22:37To have Tia dictate what my relationship is with my mother, it's unreasonable.
22:43I shouldn't have to choose between my mum and my partner.
22:48If Tia can't move past this, I don't know how our relationship will work.
22:55Since I've arrived, all we've done is fight and bicker.
23:05Ah, Lucan, what can I say?
23:07We really need to have a come-to-Jesus conversation because we don't make each other happy.
23:12I have doubt in my mind about whether or not I'm the right person for you.
23:18I want to stay.
23:29Hope you don't play.
23:31Play with my heart.
23:39Take care of my heart.
23:42You come to take one off my back, so that is so hard for you.
23:47You want to pop the truck?
23:49It's in the front.
23:50Give me my puppy.
23:57Oh, wow.
23:58You've been caballero.
24:00Madeline and I really need to have a come-to-Jesus conversation because that car ride was super heated.
24:09The wedding is this weekend, and we don't make each other happy.
24:13What are we doing here?
24:23Yeah, no kidding.
24:26It seems like every day I've been here since I've arrived, all we've done is fight and bicker, and it's alarming to me because if it's any indication of what this marriage is going to be like, we're going to have big problems.
24:39Like, really big problems.
24:42All I really want is just some appreciation.
24:47Ah, Lucan, what can I say?
24:49I bother so much.
24:54Everything you sacrifice for me.
24:56You just need to be careful about the way you say things.
25:01You don't come to tell me, I pay you rent, I pay you bills, and like that.
25:05So, this is not something about you need to feel superior.
25:13I just...
25:14I don't...
25:16I don't want to argue all the time.
25:19Like, that's what I really don't want to do.
25:21Me neither.
25:25Sometimes, like, I have, like, a little doubt in my mind about whether or not...
25:33I'm the right person for you.
25:46I really don't want to fight with you.
25:53I don't want to be there.
25:56I don't want to be there.
25:59I need to recognize I am a so difficult person, a more difficult person to make happy.
26:14I need to recognize I am a so difficult person, a more difficult person to make happy.
26:24You know all my traumas and from where I come from.
26:31You know my mom had me when she was 16 years old.
26:35My father don't be in my life.
26:38And all the men I know in my life is social, bad, bad, bad, bad, bad men.
26:46All the men's cheating, all the men never bullied a woman.
26:51The only love I have is myself.
26:54And I protect myself.
26:57So that is when I react and when I start to argue a lot.
27:03When I was a child, I don't have any control of my life.
27:06And later I grew up and be lonely.
27:10And when you are lonely, you have the control of everything.
27:14And it's obviously you make me so much happy with so many things.
27:20You're my first love like I never have loved.
27:23From my parents, from all my story, it's so, so hard work getting into a space when I kind of have peace.
27:33And right now, later, all these problems, he's still my peace.
27:37And I just want to my peace come back.
27:41I love you and I care about you.
27:45And I'm sorry that you've had to go through what you've gone through.
27:49But you don't need to go through life alone.
27:51I'm not like the other men.
27:53And I'm a good person.
27:56I'm a good guy.
27:59Madeline is opening up more than she typically does.
28:02She's trying to be vulnerable.
28:05And this gives me confidence.
28:07I think that we can have an adult conversation without yelling at each other.
28:10And I feel really hopeful for the future of our relationship.
28:15I love you and I want to make this work.
28:18Let's try and have a good weekend.
28:20Let's try with a clean slate not to argue.
28:24Okay?
28:28Okay.
28:33Love you.
28:34I miss you.
28:34I am worried about Chloe being in the hands of someone that had indiscretion, infidelity.
28:42But I think when she feels the difference between having my financial support and not,
28:48a little bit of reality is going to settle in.
28:50Chloe, Johnny, you guys ready?
29:11I'm all packed.
29:12I have to make my flight.
29:14After visiting for the weekend, my mom is flying home today.
29:17John, did you mind taking the bags down to the car?
29:20I'll help you take the bags down.
29:20And I'm just going to make sure we have everything.
29:23Looking back at it, I think my mom and Jonathan learned a lot about each other.
29:27But I think it also created more questions.
29:30All right, so...
29:32You know what's in here?
29:34My credit cards.
29:35You know what I can do with those credit cards right now?
29:36Buy you a ticket home.
29:37What do you think?
29:38No, but you can give me your credit card.
29:43No.
29:44Just consider it right now.
29:46First class ticket home.
29:48What's that saying?
29:50When the bird flies from the nest, let it...
29:55Fly?
29:57I'm 100% sure that's not a saying.
29:59Well, it is now, and that's how I feel.
30:00So, no, I'm not coming home.
30:02I'm going to stay here, and I'm going to figure it out,
30:04and then you're going to be very proud of me.
30:06I'm proud of you anyway, but, you know, I'd be more proud if you were home.
30:09My mom's offer, for the most part, is just projecting what she thinks would be best
30:15for not only my future, but our relationship.
30:19Do you need directions?
30:21Let's see the airport.
30:21No.
30:23I can't say in this moment that I'm making the right decision,
30:27because I feel guilty about it.
30:29But I truly am happier here, and I think that's important.
30:34Did you enjoy your trip?
30:38I did, mostly.
30:41But I was dreading today.
30:43I was dreading this part.
30:45Yeah.
30:45It's always the hardest part.
30:46Yeah.
30:48This time it's so much harder.
30:50Well, I'll miss you.
30:54I will.
30:55I'll miss you more.
30:55It's hard for me.
31:00I knew she would always, you know, move out and, you know, develop her own life and find
31:05her own path, but I just didn't know it would be so far away from me.
31:09Come on, honey.
31:11Just hold my hand.
31:13Just make sure you're safe.
31:14I think Chloe feels comfortable in her own mind, but I think when she feels the difference
31:21between having my financial support and not, a little bit of reality is going to settle
31:26in.
31:28So, Johnny, thank you so much.
31:30All right.
31:31Take care of my daughter.
31:33I will.
31:33I'll rather come back to her little bit.
31:35Definitely.
31:36I'll come visit you.
31:38I'll come visit you.
31:39Yes.
31:40All right.
31:41I love you.
31:41Love you.
31:42I miss you.
31:44Thank you so much.
31:50Thank you, Sam.
31:52Okay, stop, okay?
31:53Mama, you make me cry every time you come to the airport.
31:58I'm not sure you're ready.
31:59Why did you turn this up?
32:05Do the things we talked about, okay?
32:07Okay.
32:09Show me that you can take care of yourself here.
32:11Please.
32:14Okay.
32:14All right.
32:15Love you.
32:17I am worried about Chloe being in the hands of someone that had indiscretion, infidelity,
32:24you know, at the beginning of the relationship, which definitely causes a lot of concern for
32:28me.
32:28So, I know you're both set in your ways with your current plan, but I want you to know that my offer to come to Boston, you know, and be part of the company still stands.
32:43Okay?
32:45Okay?
32:46Okay.
32:46If the future is Chloe and Johnny in Aruba forever, I'll be missing out on, you know, on my daughter's life.
32:58All right.
32:59Love you.
33:00Bye, guys.
33:02Bye.
33:03Take care of her.
33:03It's really sad to think I won't have those milestones with my daughter.
33:22She's so cute.
33:23I feel like really guilty.
33:35Why?
33:37I have been feeling shifts in my relationship with Matthew.
33:42The honest, like, truth is that I can't.
33:45Don't give up on this.
34:07Promise me you won't let go so quick.
34:12I know you're barely getting by, but hope is waiting on the other side.
34:22Okay.
34:23Let's see.
34:24I need vegan mints.
34:27I'm making a vegan shepherd's pie.
34:30One kilogram potatoes.
34:34And I don't know how much a kilogram is at all.
34:37So, I guess I'm just going to get, like, six potatoes
34:42and hope that's enough.
34:44After my first date with Matthew, I went to see a friend that I had in London.
34:49And one of the first things I said to this friend was,
34:53I think I just met my husband.
34:56I was so excited.
34:58He was a vegan and, like, very passionate about animals.
35:01And we just had very interesting conversation.
35:04Hi there.
35:06I'm ready to check out.
35:08Okay.
35:09Can I add these as well?
35:11Yes.
35:12We were very, very aligned in how we saw our future together.
35:16I felt this immense excitement of possibility.
35:20But after moving here and giving our relationship a chance,
35:33I don't really know if it's who I am anymore.
35:40Apple, how was your day?
35:43Okay.
35:45Where are the pots?
35:46Pots.
35:46Cooking in other people's kitchens are always very stressful to me.
35:51I don't know what anything is.
35:54At the beginning of our relationship,
35:56I felt like he was Mr. Darcy and I was Elizabeth.
36:00And it was just really romantic and magical.
36:04But I think, like, I am pretending to be the person that I think that he needs.
36:12And that is someone to come home to, to a nice, home-cooked English meal.
36:19I lose housewife points right now.
36:22Yeah.
36:25Oh, no.
36:26Are they not cooked all the way?
36:29Oh, .
36:30I have been feeling shifts in my relationship with Matthew in the past six months.
36:38I realized that I started telling him less and less about my life.
36:42And we just really lacked, like, emotional intimacy with each other.
36:46I think you're with the right person whenever you're in a relationship that makes you feel like you can fly.
36:58And that's not how I'm feeling right now.
37:13Honey, I'm home.
37:14Honey, I'm home.
37:17Hey.
37:18Hiya.
37:24Hey.
37:24Hey.
37:25You okay?
37:26You okay?
37:29How's your day?
37:32What's yours?
37:34It's okay.
37:35I made a vegan English shepherd's pie.
37:38Wow.
37:40I don't know.
37:41It's probably really bad, though.
37:42I mean, uh, to address the elephant in the room, what's, what's for the tears?
37:50I'm just, like, thinking about what.
37:53Yeah.
37:57There you go.
37:59It's taking a go.
38:00I'm actually a little afraid that it's going to be gross.
38:03What's in it?
38:06Vegan mints, carrots, celery, onions.
38:14It actually turned out okay.
38:16Yeah.
38:17I agree.
38:17I thought it was going to be gross.
38:19This is all right.
38:23How have you been feeling after a talk in the car?
38:26Uh, like I'm on a ship in choppy waters.
38:32I think you're, like, one of the greatest people I've ever met.
39:00But, like, I don't really think I'm being very fair to you at all.
39:16And I am just so, so grateful I met you.
39:24You deserve the world.
39:28And you deserve to be really happy.
39:30And you deserve to be with someone who, like, loves you, like, to the most that their heart can handle.
39:36And, like, who reciprocates, like, your affection and, like, appreciates, like, what an amazing partner you are.
39:46And, like, the honest, like, truth is that I don't, like, think I love you anymore.
40:03Next time on 988 Fiancé, the other way.
40:13Manon loves the fact that I was in the military.
40:16She just loves the uniform.
40:20Yeah!
40:22It's just very cute.
40:23It's very sexy.
40:24It's very cute.
40:25Ooh, yeah!
40:26You ready?
40:29Yes.
40:31Ah!
40:31Dylan's mom is the reason why we are not married today.
40:35You still haven't hired the debt off?
40:37Well, that's because Dylan asked me to move here.
40:39So it's Dylan's fault again.
40:41This is what I'm talking about when he shares too much information with his mom about us.
40:45I feel like you're a needy mother, Jo.
40:47How long would it take if we didn't file the partnership papers?
40:54That process will take approximately five months.
40:57Part of that five months, you need to stay in the States.
41:00That's a long time.
41:01That's a long time.
41:03I'm shocked.
41:04Jonathan and I definitely would not survive long distance.
41:07Not...
41:08Not at all.
41:12Maybe I'm making the worst mistake of my life.
41:14I had no idea it was building up.
41:17All this time.
41:20We just need to spend a little bit of time together again.
41:23I think there's something to explore still.
41:27Okay.
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