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90 Day Fiancé The Other Way [ Season 7 Episode 13 Full Episode ]
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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
00:03That's what you call a nice couple experience?
00:07Seeing Menon's reaction to the farm,
00:09I'm kind of questioning my decision on the surprise.
00:13I'm sick and tired of you playing games on me like that.
00:17You don't listen.
00:20Dylan told me that you wanted him to marry somebody younger,
00:23and that's where the resentment with you talking to Dylan comes from.
00:27OK, well, I've never said anything like that.
00:31I'm so sorry, Jo, really.
00:33I'm so mad at Dylan because I hated her for many, many years.
00:38So we're all good?
00:40I feel so unsure if I do want kids anymore.
00:45This is a complete shock to me.
00:48We've even named what all of our kids would be called.
00:53I mean, we didn't get off to, like, the greatest start.
00:58What?
00:59I found out on social media that he was with a girl for her birthday.
01:05Johnny was not faithful to my daughter.
01:07No, I'm actually pissed about that.
01:12You take bicker and fight and nitpick.
01:16How rude.
01:17I am how I am.
01:19If this is anything like what our marriage is going to be like,
01:23holy do we have problems.
01:25Respect goes both ways.
01:26No importa.
01:28I'm saying you need to...
01:29You're going to broke up this relationship.
01:31you.
01:32One night for the weekend, oh, my primary's there.
01:45You don't hide me, you don't mind me.
01:48I'm not you breathing.
01:50I don't cry, I don't cry.
01:52I am, I am.
01:56Hey, Cleo.
01:59You're going to go for a jog.
02:00You want to come with me?
02:02Absolutely not.
02:03I'm ready to go.
02:04Wonderful.
02:05Let's go.
02:06Let's go for it.
02:07Earlier today, I told my mom about Jonathan's cheating.
02:13And now she wants to have some one-on-one time with Jonathan.
02:17You guys going to run a 5K or what?
02:18We'll see what what what happens. I definitely regret telling my mom because now she's going to
02:26drill Jonathan like 17 billion times more
02:354.5 is my max speed
02:40Learning that Johnny cheated on my daughter has changed a lot of things
02:45It's giving me so many more levels of concern are you waiting today? Yeah
02:50Those great it was up to me. I would bring my daughter home with me
02:57Yeah, this is the beach I was talking about
03:00This one. Yeah, right here. Let me show you. Okay, so it's the first part of Eagle Beach
03:06It's very famous for these two trees in particular as the DVD V tree it goes to the form of the wind
03:14Yeah, they even have a special a big bonsai tree. Yeah, kind of yeah
03:19Wow
03:22So
03:24You know I'm glad we had this time alone
03:28Without Chloe here, you know as I'm leaving tomorrow and I do have concerns
03:37In regards to an infidelity in Miami with some girl
03:44That happened the way in the beginning we weren't even I mean
03:49You know that we weren't serious. We didn't agree to commit to each other at that time
03:55You know so we were going out, but we weren't in a relationship
04:00Now for the last few months we've been something real serious and of course I'm not gonna do anything like that
04:06Shouldn't you two have already?
04:09Discussed that and already been there. I feel like
04:12Maybe you were only saying that because that was the right thing to say
04:17That's unacceptable and it scares me and I don't want to leave my daughter here on this island and then
04:23Something like that happens again, and then she's all alone. So
04:26Chloe shouldn't have told her mom that there was a infidelity because you know we weren't exclusive in the beginning like that
04:34We we really weren't I know I feel like Chloe should admit that
04:37She was also with somebody else
04:39You know, but I'm not a person that goes and tells her mom that you know and personally hey, you know what?
04:45Think what you want to think I'm just gonna try to show you that I'm a better person than that
04:49Being a mom is
04:51You know I take that job very seriously and my daughter living here, you know so far away from me, you know that
05:00That means I need to put a lot of trust in you
05:03And I feel like it's too much of a struggle here for her honestly
05:08And like I said, I'm leaving tomorrow. Yeah, I
05:12Need to see that she's going to be okay with you
05:16Yeah, definitely definitely no one out of that on my mind
05:18If she could start getting a work permit and she could start working just to keep herself busy make some tips out of it
05:25Set a date to it. Yeah, you know if you don't set a date to it. You'll never happen. Yeah, it will never happen
05:32I sometimes worry that Johnny is just telling me what I want to hear and I am not satisfied with his answers
05:39in reference specifically to you know the unfaithfulness
05:44To be honest the way that I see it once a cheater always a cheater and I want my daughter didn't know that she deserves more
05:50I don't trust him as much as I did when I got here
05:54you both really need to sit down together and
05:58Have a conversation to make sure that this is
06:02truly like
06:04What Chloe wants what you want whether it's together or separately
06:13I'm not sure about having kids
06:18Yesterday, I told Matthew that I am unsure about having kids, so I sent out an SOS to
06:46the wives' chat, because I am completely spiraling about my relationship.
06:50Hey!
06:51Oh, my God.
06:52Hi.
06:53Hi.
06:54Hi.
06:55How are you?
06:56Um, I'm doing okay.
06:59Do you have duct tape on your finger?
07:02Yeah.
07:03We went and fed apples to some hogs yesterday, and I got bit by a pig.
07:10Oh, you're going to eat it out of my pocket?
07:13Okay.
07:14Oh.
07:15Okay.
07:16You guys are getting a little bit feisty.
07:19I just got bit.
07:21It's all good, but while we were picking apples, I brought up the fact that I've been really
07:29on the fence about having children, and he was, like, shocked, and I was like, I think
07:37that you are made to be a dad like you'd be an amazing father, and I don't want you to resent
07:44me for thinking that you will one day convince me, and I'm never convinced.
07:49Yeah, that's true.
07:50Yeah, that's true.
07:52And he then said that he would choose me over having kids.
07:56Yeah.
07:57Yeah.
07:58Yeah.
07:59Yeah.
08:00Yeah.
08:01Yeah.
08:02Yeah.
08:03Yeah.
08:04Yeah.
08:05Yeah.
08:06Yeah.
08:07Yeah.
08:08Yeah.
08:09Yeah.
08:10Yeah.
08:11Yeah.
08:12Yeah.
08:13Yeah.
08:14Yeah.
08:15I love my other thing.
08:16Yeah.
08:17Yeah.
08:17Yeah.
08:18Yeah.
08:18That's what a partner should always give.
08:22So I'm just really struggling right now because I moved here for him so we could be together
08:28and, like, get married and I can see what what a good person he is and like what a great
08:36husband he would be.
08:38for the past six months we did not feel very connected and there was definitely a decline in
08:47the relationship so I started to wonder if like he isn't my person oh my god that's a lot you're
08:59like breaking my heart right now I used to call Matthew all the time I used to flirt with him
09:06more I used to send him nudes a lot but when I was studying for the bar it's about eight to ten hours
09:13of studying a day so we really lost connection I started questioning if all my anxious thoughts
09:21about being disconnected was because we were across the pond or because we are just no longer connected
09:30to each other in general I think I had to wait till I came here and like really understood how we would
09:40be together and whenever I first saw him at the train station it was like really great to see him but I
09:49didn't feel like you know that spark in my heart in general our interactions don't feel very romantic
09:58we did sleep together but it like hasn't been yeah yeah it's hard so I'm getting really conflicted
10:13because it wouldn't be like a bad relationship it would be like a fine relationship I love Matthew
10:20like you know I love Matthew but like you just don't deserve to have a fine relationship if there's
10:27still no spark than that I think tells you everything you need to know I really care about him but
10:35like even though this is like a future that would in many ways would fulfill like everything I've hoped
10:50for in life I have like changed so much in the past two years and I don't know what to do about it
10:57it's just like honestly that simple but also so complicated
11:08I really love Matthew but I'm worried that we might not be compatible anymore I can't even imagine
11:15what it's like right now for you you know I feel really sad saying that and I truly just like don't
11:25know what to do right now for money I could always just dress up as a mine it is both silly and
11:36romantic just if I do too we don't bear welcome to the great outdoors I love it really it's so
11:46different from being in the city that's mom mom she's constantly invading our relationship she calls
11:58every day what's the big deal it's my mom hey it's not normal
12:03every little movement every little thing you do is it's light of hand that commands my heart to love you
12:21say hello and Tony uh Chante Anthony see you can have a contacto yes since we've been in France
12:50There's been a lot of really serious discussions
12:53or arguments, everything's very, very heavy.
12:58I do know that I missed the mark with the goat farm.
13:01So I'm just looking to cheer her up a little bit.
13:20It's a very, very good idea.
13:23All right.
13:24Super.
13:25On y va.
13:26On y va.
13:27Nous allons marcher.
13:28Le moonwalk.
13:29You know moonwalk?
13:30Oh, oui.
13:31Michael Jackson.
13:32Tac.
13:33C'est la première marche qu'on apprend quand on fait du mimi.
13:37Ah, tac.
13:39Ah, ok.
13:41Ah, tac.
13:46Like a flyer.
13:48Respire.
13:49Respire.
13:53I had made a joke one time to Manon,
13:55when we had decided to move here,
13:57that for money I could always just dress up as a mime.
14:00Put a hat in front of me,
14:02and people can pay me for my mimeing skills.
14:04And it's just kind of been this running joke between us.
14:07Yes.
14:10It is both silly and romantic.
14:12And it is sort of the only job that I'm qualified for,
14:18not being able to speak French.
14:20Yes.
14:21Very well.
14:22Okay.
14:23Okay.
14:24Alors, maintenant, pour la magie, je vais t'aider à t'habiller en mime.
14:29Okay.
14:30Okay.
14:31I know that Manon and Ben are coming any second.
14:34Ah, super.
14:36For what she thinks is a walk.
14:38I don't know if I'm nervous for them to see me as a mime,
14:41or to improvise for strangers.
14:44I don't know who he is at home.
14:47What the ?
14:51What the ?
14:52Qu'est-ce qu'il fout là, lui ?
15:01Qu'est-ce qu'il fout là, lui ?
15:02Qu'est-ce qu'il fout là ?
15:03Qu'est-ce qu'il fout là ?
15:04Qu'est-ce qu'il fout là ?
15:08the carousel over there and i see my husband dressed as a freaking mime this is a complete
15:19turn off he's taking the jokes way too far like we don't do that in france you don't put yourself
15:25in a spectacle in the street okay it's very very humiliating like this is not helping our
15:31relationship whatsoever antoni what the heck what are you doing this what is wrong with you
15:35oh it's a little fun a little fun yeah you're so serious all the time i'm just trying to have
15:41a little fun while trying to be like a little romantic and show you that i love you antoni
15:47oh my gosh but with makeup on and lipstick on your face yeah okay well we don't have the same idea of
15:53romance i guess hi you're scaring ben you're scaring me honestly i think you are making
16:05quite the spectacle i was shocked i was shocked seeing my husband in front of people doing the
16:13clown supposed to be whoa whoa whoa not a clown it's kind of mine it's the same
16:23what is in your mind antoni oh my god i'm trying to show you that you know it doesn't have to be
16:28serious all the time and you like completely took it seriously again i'm not out here begging for
16:35money i was doing it for you this was a whole routine like for you right it's a tight rope we're
16:41working on balance i fall off and i present you the rose and then you could have taken my heart and i was
16:49read jack dead just now it's me we cannot speak why you did again something that you liked that you
16:59know that is not my style and not my vibe you do that in public and then i look like that crazy and
17:06grateful bitch you know i don't like this type of things
17:10things maybe i should put some tears makeup
17:27but bon comme c'était une image très poétique je vous dis qu'elle allait être donc touchée
17:32mais elle a été touchée en effet mais pas dans le sens que je pensais
17:36you just don't get what i'm saying it's fine
17:50i don't feel quite like myself now have remain maybe there's a way we can survive
17:59future's on the line so let's go back in time
18:04so lovely excited to go camping
18:07i uh know nothing about camping but i'm sure you will show me you're gonna be so comfortable love
18:15oh thank goodness you don't want to leave okay after dinner the other night dylan and i talked
18:24about him lying about his mom and the age gap thing i cannot believe you don't remember telling me that
18:32the hatred stemmed from you telling me that your mom said all those things about me yes you're right
18:38you're right in everything you're saying no i apologize welcome to the great outdoors but it's raining
18:46uh i was so mad but then he apologized and at this point i'm just ready to let it go
18:56camping in the rain so what we got tents we're at shelters i've never put one of these up before
19:03do you you have instructions i don't need instructions just a tent do you want that cut to
19:09the fire my hair's gonna catch on fire that'd be fine patia's a big city girl she comes from the big
19:18city of dallas and you know she doesn't like camping but maybe once she actually tries it she's never
19:24tried it maybe she'll love it and i also see it as being beautiful and magic and romantic and if she's
19:31gonna be here in tassie she needs to get into the culture and the lifestyle of tasmania oh yes good
19:40job it's gonna get dark soon let's just pull up some chairs and make some nice marsh billows
19:45and enjoy this beautiful evening if i go to the bathroom you're going with me sure
20:01oh that's so cute hey baby i'm blinding him there's a little paddy melon
20:10does he bite no you can't go into it or scare it away oh there we go
20:20how do you feel about tasmania now i love it in the wilderness i love it really it's so different
20:27from being in the city that's mom
20:36hi mom hi how are you going good how are you i'm good where are you camping with patia
20:43i'm so romantic oh we've had a great day is it cold out there it's currently raining oh really yeah
20:51don't let the mosquitoes bite you for goodness sake have you got any spray or anything no we didn't
20:57bring you that all right babe we have to go down i'm sorry oh okay well listen have a lovely evening
21:03together camping and i'll be thinking of you guys bye bye bye bye oh can she just not like call when
21:13we're like trying to do stuff to call her back and tell her no it seems like you're not going to tell
21:18her yeah she calls every day she doesn't call every day just relax enjoy life he wants so badly for me to
21:26love his mother but i feel like she's constantly invading our relationship
21:34g'day mom how are ya g'day mom how are ya hi how's it going good how are you g'day mom how are ya
21:45let's look at your call log i bet you it's all your mom bust it out let's count how many times your mom
21:50called oh my god it's just jo jo jo jo jo jo jo jo jo jo what's the big deal it's my mom babe it's not
22:01normal you're 38 you're pushing 40 and you talk to your mom that many times it's very normal she wants
22:10you close to her she wants you at her beck and call you really i gotta set boundaries with you i've sat at
22:17the table with you girls and i'm like is it resolved but you guys i know but you guys act
22:21like best friends and you're both saying it's resolved yeah but you're saying is it resolved
22:25you're supposed to say you know what mom but he is right let's work i'm not talking so much
22:33it's really frustrating that pete is still jealous of my mom calling me
22:37to have pete dictate what my relationship is with my mother it's unreasonable i shouldn't have to choose
22:44between my mom and my partner if pete can't move past this i don't know how our relationship will work
23:01since i've arrived all we've done is fight and bicker look and what can i say we really need to have a
23:08come to jesus conversation because we don't make each other happy i have doubt in my mind about
23:15whether or not i'm the right person for you
23:27i want to stay hope you don't play play with my heart
23:35you come to take one off my back so that is so hard for you you want to pop the trunk it's in the
23:49front wait give me my puppy
23:57oh wow you've been caballero
23:59madeline and i really need to have a come to jesus conversation because that car ride was super
24:08heated the wedding is this weekend and we don't make each other happy what are we doing here
24:14you have the character of her mom yeah no kidding it seems like every day i've been here since i've
24:28arrived all we've done is fight and bicker and it it's alarming to me because if it's any indication of
24:35what this marriage is going to be like we're going to have big problems like really big problems
24:40all i really want is just some appreciation look and what can i say
24:52i bother so much everything you sacrifice for me you just need to be careful about the way you say
24:59things you don't come to tell me i pay your rent i pay you bills and like that so this is not something
25:08about you need to feel superior i just i i don't i don't want to argue all the time like that's what
25:20i really don't want to do me neither sometimes like i have like a little doubt in my mind about whether or not
25:29i'm not i'm the right person for you
25:43i really don't want to fight with you i really don't want to fight with you
26:03i need to recognize i am so difficult person and more difficult person to make happy you know
26:25all my traumas from where i come from you know my mom had me when she had 16 years old my father
26:36don't beat my life and all the means i know in my life is a social bad bad bad bad bad means
26:46all the means cheating all the means never bothered a woman the only love i have it is myself
26:54and i protect myself so that is when my reactions and when it start to work again a lot
27:03when i was child i don't have any control of my life
27:07and later i grow up and be lonely and when you are lonely you have the control of everything and it's
27:15it's obviously you made me so much happy with so many things you my first love like i never have love
27:23i love you and i care about you and i'm sorry that you've had to go through what you've gone through
27:36but you don't need to go through life alone i'm not like the other men i'm a good person i'm a good guy
27:50madeline is opening up more than she typically does she's trying to be vulnerable and this
28:05gives me confidence i think that we can have an adult conversation without yelling at each other
28:10and i feel really hopeful for the future of our relationship i love you and i want to make this
28:16work let's try and have a good weekend let's try with a clean slate not to argue okay
28:26i love you miss you i am worried about chloe being in the hands of someone that had indiscretion
28:41infidelity but i think when she feels the difference between having my financial support
28:47and not a little bit of reality is going to settle in
29:09chloe johnny you guys ready i'm all packed i have to make my flight
29:13after visiting for the weekend my mom is flying home today johnny did you mind taking the bags
29:19down to the car i'll help you take that i'm just gonna make sure we have everything looking back at
29:24it i think my mom and jonathan learned a lot about each other but i think it also created more questions
29:30all right so you know what's in here my credit cards you know what i can do with those credit cards
29:36right now buy you a ticket home what do you think no but you can give me your credit card
29:43no just consider it right now first class ticket home what's that saying when the bird flies from
29:52the nest let it fly i'm 100 sure that's what i'm saying well it is now and that's how i feel so no i'm
30:01not coming home i'm going to stay here and i'm going to figure it out and then you're going to be very
30:04proud of me i'm proud of you anyway but you know i feel more proud of you at home
30:11my mom's offer for the most part is just projecting what she thinks would be best for
30:15not only my future but our relationship do you need directions city airport no i can't say in this
30:25moment that i'm making the right decision because i feel guilty about it but i truly am happier here
30:32and i think that's important did you enjoy your trip i did mostly but i was dreading today i was
30:43dreading this part yeah it's always the hardest part yeah this time it's so much harder well i'll miss you
30:51i will miss you more
30:58it's hard for me i knew she would always you know move out and you know develop her own life and find
31:05her own path but i just didn't know it would be so far away from me come on honey just don't hold my
31:11hands just make sure you're safe i think chloe feels comfortable in her own mind but i think
31:19when she feels the difference between having my financial support and not a little bit of reality
31:25is going to settle in so johnny thank you so much all right thank you take care of my daughter i will
31:33definitely come back to a little bit definitely i'll come visit you i'll come visit you yes all right i love
31:41you love you i miss you thank you thank you so much thank you thank you okay okay mama you make me cry
31:56every time you come to the airport because you are ready why did you do this
32:05do the things we talked about okay okay show me that you can take care of yourself here please
32:14okay all right love you i am worried about chloe being in the hands of someone that had
32:22indiscretion infidelity you know at the beginning of the relationship which definitely causes a lot
32:27of concern for me so i know you're both set in your ways with your current plan but i want you to know
32:37that my offer to come to boston you know and be part of the company um still stands
32:43okay okay if the future is chloe and johnny in aruba forever i'll be missing out on you know on
32:56my daughter's life all right love you bye guys bye take care of her
33:05it's really sad to think i won't have those milestones with my daughter
33:13she's so cute
33:29she's gone
33:32i feel like really guilty why
33:36i have been feeling shifts in my relationship with matthew the honest truth is that
33:56don't give up on this
34:07promise me you won't let go so quick i know you're barely getting back but hope is waiting on the other
34:19side
34:23let's see i need vegan mints i'm making a vegan shepherd's pie one kilogram potatoes
34:34and i don't know how much a kilogram is at all
34:37so i guess i'm just gonna get like six potatoes and hope that's enough
34:43after my first date with matthew i went to see a friend that i had in london and one of the first
34:51things i said to this friend was i think i just met my husband i was so excited he was a vegan and
34:59like very passionate about animals and we just had very interesting conversation hi there i'm ready
35:06to check out okay can i add these as well yes thank you we were very very aligned in how we saw our
35:15future together i felt this immense excitement of possibility
35:27but after moving here and giving our relationship a chance i don't really know if it's who i am anymore
35:36like it's not too much i don't know if it's not too much
35:40apple how was your day okay where are the pots pots cooking in other people's
35:48kitchens are always very stressful to me i don't know where anything is
35:54at the beginning of our relationship i felt like he was mr darcy and i was elizabeth
36:00and it was just really romantic and magical but i think like i am pretending to be the person that
36:10i think that he needs and that is someone to come home to to a nice home-cooked english meal
36:16i lose housewife points right now yeah oh no are they not cooked all the way i have been feeling
36:34shifts in my relationship with matthew in the past six months i realized that i started telling him less
36:40less and less about my life and we just really lacked like emotional intimacy with each other
36:49i think you're with the right person whenever you're in a relationship that makes you feel like
36:54you can fly and that's not how i'm feeling right now honey i'm home
37:14hey hiya
37:24hey hey you okay
37:29how's your day
37:32what's yours it's okay um i made a vegan english shepherd's pie wow
37:39wow i don't know if it's probably really bad though i mean uh to address the elephant in the room
37:47what's what's for the tears i'm just like thinking about a lot
37:53yeah
38:00i'm actually a little afraid that's gonna be gross
38:02uh what's in it um vegan mints carrots celery um onions
38:14it actually turned out okay yeah
38:17i thought it was gonna be gross
38:19this is all right
38:23how have you been feeling after a talk in the car
38:25uh
38:29like i'm on a ship in choppy waters
38:39how about you
38:43i feel like
38:47really guilty
38:50why
38:55i think you're like one of the greatest people i've ever met
39:05but like i don't really think i'm being very fair to you at all
39:09and
39:18i am just
39:22so so grateful i met you
39:26you deserve the world
39:28and you deserve to be really happy and you deserve to be with someone who like loves you
39:32like to the most that their heart can handle
39:39and like
39:40who reciprocates like your affection
39:43and like appreciates like what an amazing partner you are
39:49and like
39:50the honest like truth is that
39:58like i don't like
40:01think i love you anymore
40:09next time on 988 fiance the other way
40:12manone loves the fact that i was in the military she just loves the uniform
40:20yeah
40:22it's just very cute it's very sexy it's very cute
40:28you ready yes
40:31dylan's mom is the reason why we are not married today
40:35you still haven't heard the dead off well that's because dylan asked me to move here
40:39so it's dylan's fault again this is what i'm talking about when he shares too much information
40:44with his mom about us i feel like you're a needy mother joe
40:50how long would it take if we did file the partnership papers that process will take
40:55approximately five months part of that five months you need to stay in the states that's a long time
41:01that's a long time i'm shocked jonathan and i definitely would not survive long distance not
41:09not at all
41:12me again making the worst mistake of my life i had no idea it was building up
41:18all this time we just need to spend a little bit of time together again
41:23i think there's something to us for us to help