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Seeking Sister Wife S6 Episode 11
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00:01I went on a date with someone.
00:04The thrill is didn't feel right.
00:05Angelica met this person.
00:06Yeah, she met her before.
00:08Wow.
00:09I feel hurt in betrayal.
00:12Matthew, I don't think I can do this with us anymore.
00:18I think Angelica's going to be upset.
00:20She's going to be really upset.
00:22Matt and I have been dating a woman as a sister wife.
00:25Oh, hell no!
00:27Oh, hell no!
00:29I'm choosing to tell my family now about our plural lifestyle
00:33because we just broke up with Shanae.
00:36I'm hurting.
00:37I need my family more than ever.
00:43The way that you are about yourself, Teresa,
00:45it's causing disruptions in the harmony of our situation overall.
00:51I knew this conversation was coming,
00:53but now that it's here, it's terrifying.
00:55I'm going to go take a moment.
00:57Yeah.
00:59Okay.
01:00Every single time we try to talk to her about her-
01:02Self-destructiveness.
01:04She runs away.
01:05I love Teresa very much, we all do, but we're trying to get our family established.
01:10If you don't want to understand that or you don't want to work towards that,
01:13well then just never mind.
01:14I felt like last time we met that maybe you were uncomfortable.
01:22I really didn't even want to come back.
01:24Because of my reaction.
01:27Yeah.
01:28Okay.
01:29I like Randy.
01:30I see something there and for it to all just kind of be flushed away is really defeating.
01:37How do I know you're not just going to run away with my husband?
01:41Grace is super excited.
01:43I don't want to let him down.
01:45How, you know, am I supposed to know that I'm not always going to be second?
01:53You guys want to sit and start talking and see about trying to call that lawyer?
01:57Lorena is here on a K-1 visa.
01:59We have to get married in 90 days.
02:01We have 17 business days left until we hit that 90-day mark.
02:04So we need to get married tomorrow.
02:07Otherwise, we risk Lorena being deported.
02:13Ms. Merrifield, Mr. and Mrs. Merrifield.
02:16I'm very happy for Garrick and Lorena, but like I'm wondering how the future is going to look for all of us.
02:22Finding out that Lorena could possibly be pregnant is exciting.
02:31But the reality is if there is a baby and Lorena is pregnant, we are tied to her for life.
02:36There's no going back.
02:37There's no going back.
03:01Waiting to find out if Lorena was pregnant was the longest five minutes of my life.
03:05Oh, deus.
03:08Everything could possibly change in the blink of an eye if two lines show up on that pregnancy test.
03:14Oh, my gosh.
03:19Sister.
03:23Oh, my gosh.
03:26Oh, my gosh.
03:31Oh.
03:32Oh, my God.
03:34It's Janine.
03:36It's actually, it's right.
03:37It's right.
03:38It's right.
03:40It's right.
03:41It's, elaine.
03:42It's right!
03:43It'så®ļæ½.
03:44Oh, my God!
03:45I'm sick of elle.
03:46Sister.
03:47Does it get it right for her?
03:49My gosh.
03:50Yeah.
03:52I don't know.
03:53Sister.
03:54And I was a little surprised by getting married so fast, of course, that I would like to take advantage of my marriage a little more here in the United States.
04:12I want to study, learn English and so on, but this is the plan of God, but I'm so happy because I always wanted to be a mother.
04:22So it's official. Lorraine is pregnant. We're having a baby.
04:34Now it's real. Real? Yeah. You're going to be Gordo.
04:40Now I believe. I believe. When you see it, yeah.
04:46Yeah. Happy. Happy. Yeah.
04:50Twins? No.
04:54Oh, I'm so happy. I'm so happy.
04:58Thank you. Oh. Gary, are you happy?
05:04Oh, my God.
05:06Oh, how are you going to tell him? He's gone.
05:10Huh? Wisconsin. How do you explain how I'm here?
05:13Yeah. A surprise.
05:15Okay.
05:16Hi. Good. How are you? I have a reservation for two under Angelica.
05:34Absolutely. Right this way.
05:37After telling my family about our relationship dynamic and getting their reactions, knowing that I don't have, like, my mom's support, it hurts.
05:53I might not ever have my family's support, you know, now more than ever. I need my best friend. I need my sister wife.
06:04Can I grab something for you to drink to get started?
06:08Yes. Can I actually have, um, a glass of your house cabernet? Can I actually have two of those? One for me and one for my friend?
06:15Yeah, of course. I'll put that right in for you.
06:17Thank you so much.
06:18Of course.
06:19Shanae's mad because I went with Matt to see another woman, and I didn't tell her about it.
06:25Can I get a hairy yoga?
06:27Thank you so much.
06:28You're welcome. Enjoy.
06:30Shanae and Matt broke up about a week ago, and she and I have only texted once, and that was to schedule this dinner.
06:37I definitely am nervous because she might not forgive me. Is she also going to say goodbye to me?
06:45Hi.
06:46How are you?
06:47Party of two for Angelica.
06:48I'm going to be right that way.
06:50You're welcome.
06:51Things with Angelica and I are pretty in limbo.
06:55How are you?
06:56I'm doing all right.
06:58You?
06:59Yeah.
07:00I still feel hurt and anger and betrayal by her, so I don't know where things are going
07:06to end up with her and I.
07:09Is this for me?
07:10It is.
07:11I guess at least one of you guys know what my favorite drink is because he definitely didn't.
07:16So, I wanted to see you today because, you know, I did have a conversation with Matt about what happened on the train ride.
07:29It was a lot.
07:32It was exciting to see him and be on this romantic train and then at some point it just took a turn and I think what broke the camel's back for me is something he shared about you.
07:46You know, Matt did tell me that he told you that I knew about this other person.
07:53I assume that's what you're talking about.
07:55Not that you knew, but you met this person.
07:59I told him I feel like we're not even done and over with Shanae.
08:04What are you doing?
08:06I was really there just to make sure nothing happens and keep an eye on what was going on.
08:23I'm angry, Angelica.
08:28And I don't want to be angry at you.
08:30I don't care to be angry at him.
08:32You know what?
08:33With Matt, I'm done.
08:34I don't want a relationship with him.
08:36But you and I, we're you and I.
08:45No, I understand.
08:46I get it.
08:50I don't know what you need me to do, but I'll do it whatever it takes.
09:02I was, as I was going through this stuff, I found some of our clothes too.
09:14Like, our sister wife life, you know.
09:17But, um, after this, we're done.
09:19After Teresa walked out on the conversation, she sent me a text message informing me that she doesn't think that this relationship is the right place for her.
09:30To be honest, getting that text message from Teresa was a little bit of a relief.
09:37Looking at herself as being the cause of so much turmoil in our home over the past eight or nine months and wanting to remove herself, I can appreciate that.
09:49Oh, she's here.
09:54Oh, Teresa.
09:55Okay.
09:56Well.
09:57The last time I saw the Davises, I left in the middle of a very difficult conversation.
10:02I needed to come back over to pick up a few more things, but I really wanted to see all three of them face to face.
10:08I felt that that was very important for me to talk to them and tell them how I feel.
10:12Oh, there's Teresa.
10:19Teresa has always lacked the ability to take ownership for her bad actions.
10:27I learned that very well through these last eight or nine months of being with her.
10:32And honestly, I don't know what this conversation is going to be about.
10:35I don't know if it's going to be good.
10:37I don't know if it's going to be bad, but I'm here to have it, so let's go.
10:42Hi, Teresa.
10:45Now, would you be okay, though, knowing, like, if you lived on the same land with knowing I'm right next door with a sister wife?
10:57That's part of the reason why I said separate houses.
11:00I don't have to see it.
11:01I don't have to hear it.
11:03My biggest concern is with Billie and jealousy.
11:07Is this something that's going to keep coming up?
11:09Is this right for her?
11:10Is this right for her?
11:11Does she really want this?
11:29Lorena had a cool idea to send a care package to Garrick.
11:34She didn't think that she could keep it a secret because we didn't know when Garrick was going to be back home.
11:39So, my brother was with Garrick in Wisconsin when Lorena and I sent the package.
11:45I didn't tell either of them what was in the package.
11:49I just told my brother that he needs to video Garrick opening the package while he video chats with us.
11:56What?
11:57What's this?
11:58Yeah, they want to see you open this package.
12:01Oh, it's flat.
12:02It was supposed to come two days ago.
12:14I'm nervous here.
12:16Aw.
12:17Aw.
12:18Aw.
12:19Those are cute.
12:20Uh-oh.
12:21I know what that is.
12:22Wash your hands after touching that.
12:23So, this Lorena?
12:24Yeah!
12:25Positive?
12:26Yeah!
12:27Are you surprised?
12:28Yeah!
12:29It's like he's tearing up or is that just the sawdust?
12:33No, I'm not tearing up.
12:35You're excited?
12:36Oh, yeah.
12:37Me.
12:38Emotional.
12:39Emotional.
12:40Yeah.
12:41Emotional.
12:42Yeah.
12:43Oh, it's special.
12:44Lay is going to have a buddy, like, you guys will raise the kids together.
12:46I mean, that's...
12:47Yeah.
12:48Yeah.
12:49Yeah.
12:50I mean, that's...
12:51Yeah.
12:52Yeah.
12:53Yeah.
12:54Yeah.
12:55Yeah.
12:56Yeah.
12:57Yeah.
12:58Yeah.
12:59Yeah.
13:00Yeah.
13:01Yeah.
13:02Yeah.
13:03Yeah.
13:04Yeah.
13:05Yeah.
13:06Yeah.
13:07Yeah.
13:08Yeah.
13:09Yeah.
13:10Yeah.
13:11Yeah.
13:12I mean, that's...
13:13You know, I wasn't surprised she got pregnant so quickly.
13:14I believe God works perfectly in our lives and, you know, God says that through childbearing,
13:30women are saved um god uses that a lot of times to change a woman's heart and perfect her
13:42exciting celebrate yeah i love you
14:00oh it's a beautiful day it's finally spring i know thank you for uh coming out here and helping
14:14me with this i'm glad we're finally able to have a garden i know it's happening it's happening
14:20today the kids are with their grandma and we are going down to some property that we own just down
14:25the road from our house we have another acre or so it's been passed down through my family through a
14:30few generations now and we're hoping to build our sister wife compound there you can just put those
14:36down i figured we got tomatoes cucumbers and squash yeah do all the self-sustainable so i mean it's not
14:44much but you know we'll just keep adding i have a pretty clear vision on this little compound that i
14:50would like to have going on i would like my house over here sister wife over here we're just looking
14:57for one sister wife right just one just one okay i think that's all i can handle so have you uh talked
15:05to randy yeah i i have um conversations have been good so far what about for you yeah i mean i've still
15:14been in touch with her i'm still keeping it like pg-13 and very i guess vanilla you know it's been a
15:24couple weeks since we've seen randy she started a new job so she's been really busy but it's going
15:30really well like things are still progressing i feel like at a a good pace and they have a relationship
15:36to their messaging i just like to send her videos and she sends me videos we keep it kind of light
15:45right now so it's been good it's getting me like more excited about it like knowing that we have all
15:52this yeah because i mean the ultimate goal was be for us to live close i don't want to live in the next
15:58town or right now would you be okay though knowing like if you lived on the same land with knowing i'm
16:04right next door with the sister wife part of the reason why i said separate houses i don't have to
16:12see it i don't have to hear it my biggest concern is with billy and jealousy because is it going to be
16:21a continuing theme is this something that's going to keep coming up it's making me nervous about this
16:27whole situation is this is this right for her is this does she really want this was it was it
16:33something we jumped into quickly so it's something i feel like we definitely are going to have to
16:38go over a little bit more after the last date i mean she was excited to go on another one so i'm
16:45really just excited to to keep moving forward and seeing where it's going well i like that she's
16:52comfortable with going slow because this is new for all of us right and so that way you know we're all
16:59kind of learning and taking it in together when we started this i mean we were complete newbies
17:05green we had no idea what we were doing and we had to learn a lot i felt like she was so confident in
17:12the beginning and that's what made me confident was i overwhelmed at first yeah but we're definitely
17:18going to go through ups and downs and i feel like as long as i communicate and i stay open and let you know
17:24everyone know what's going on and how i'm feeling then i feel like it's going to be okay i think we've
17:30got something really really good here and that works yeah i think it's moving in the right direction
17:35as well i know it's not going to be easy but i'm not scared
17:55you know i i genuinely am sorry i really do care about you i really do love you
18:03i never wanted to hurt you that's the absolute last thing i wanted to do
18:15i kind of assumed that angelica felt like she was caught in the middle of a lot of the issues
18:19that matt and i had but to see the pain in her face i guess it kind of reset some of the anger that
18:27i was feeling and turned it more into compassion and sympathy and understanding for her because
18:33although this is new for me it's new for her as well and as a woman i can completely understand
18:39the tough position that she was in
18:43it's going to take time you know when someone lies in a relationship you have to regain that trust again
18:50but i can accept your apology because i truly do believe that you didn't mean to hurt me thank you
19:01i just want the past to be in the past and just close this chapter i'm gonna really give it my all
19:07and dive full force into this new person and then see what the future holds for us as friends
19:13sounds good shanae telling me that she does want to you know continue our friendship means so much to me
19:24i have been really scared that i'm going to lose her completely we have really weathered some storms
19:33together and you mean the utmost worlds to me like i'm connected to you and connections like that are rare
19:44i don't know if i would consider polygamy again i've invested the last three years of my life
19:50into this relationship and the only reason i stayed with matthew and angelica is because they are matthew
19:57and angelica and it just fits and i don't know how that would be the case with anyone else
20:03i love you and i truly do hate seeing you cry so wipe your face yeah let's enjoy our wine
20:20we are going to toast although we need to figure out a new one because communal is no longer
20:25appropriate yeah that's that's not happening not at all how about just us just us just toast to us
20:34sounds good to us to us
20:37i think we all just kind of agreed that this might be better in the long term
20:49you're my best friend nick you're my best friend
21:01you're my best friend
21:03Hello.
21:18Great.
21:24Hi, James.
21:25Hi, James.
21:33I've got a few boxes for you.
21:40How are you feeling?
21:41Um, stupid.
21:44Aw, Teresa.
21:46I just want to take some time for myself to heal.
21:49I'm not going to be good to any relationship unless I love myself.
21:54And I really need to reflect, and I really need some deep soul-searching and deep self-love
22:00and deep understanding of who I am before I can offer anything to anybody else.
22:05We don't want to stand in the way for that.
22:08I appreciate you giving me my space to heal because I don't want to put that burden on
22:14you guys to heal me because as much as you are healers, that can be a lot, a huge burden,
22:21especially on someone who's pregnant and getting ready to give birth.
22:30Yeah.
22:32We don't have any bad feelings towards you, Teresa.
22:37We're not mad at you at all for the way things have developed.
22:42It just, I think we all just kind of agreed that this might be better in the long term.
22:49I can't find anybody else that's going to love me the way you guys love me,
22:55and I just wish that I could receive it in a way that it's not like I don't deserve it
22:59because that's how I feel.
23:01It's like all this was too good to be true.
23:04How could you ever love me?
23:06And after all the things I've done and the things that I've put myself through unnecessarily,
23:10you're my best friend, Nick.
23:16You're my best friend.
23:17Jenny, I never meant to put you through any stress during your pregnancy.
23:34Ever.
23:38And we know you never, you know, you never meant for any bad in any place.
23:45Like, and we don't put that on you.
23:48I appreciate that.
23:49You're worthy of true, genuine love, Teresa.
23:53You are.
23:53You're worthy of that true, genuine, kind love.
23:58It means a lot hearing that from you guys.
24:01It has to us.
24:02I do appreciate Teresa taking accountability
24:06and acknowledging that she has been the source of the trouble that we've had in the house
24:12since she's been here.
24:13Owning up to some of the things that she's owning up to.
24:17This definitely leaves the groundwork for us to still at least remain friends.
24:26We love you, Teresa.
24:29I love you guys, too.
24:31I love the Davises very much.
24:37I know that sounds crazy saying that because I don't love myself, but I'm on a journey to self-love
24:43and I appreciate everything they've done for me.
24:46I am a better person because of them.
24:49I'm going to pick you up and spin you around.
24:51My ankle wasn't hurting me right now.
24:53I don't regret moving in with them.
24:58I don't regret shooting my shot at Nick.
25:00Bye, Teresa.
25:01Bye, Nick.
25:03But I just want to work on myself, take some time on my own, and have it be just me and my son.
25:10I want to be an inspiration to my kid.
25:13I just want to be proud of myself.
25:17I love you guys.
25:18I love you guys, too.
25:20I love you guys, too.
25:50Girl, she said girl.
25:51Okay, she's team girl.
25:52Yeah.
25:53Today is our gender reveal party.
25:55We're really excited to find out what Lorraine is having.
25:59Boy or girl, I think the whole family is super pumped, too.
26:03Yeah?
26:04Yeah.
26:05Yeah?
26:05Yeah.
26:08You pick color.
26:09Pink.
26:09Girl.
26:11This girl or this boy.
26:12You pink.
26:14Okay, you pick.
26:15One.
26:16Two.
26:17Two.
26:17Two.
26:20I'm with 20 weeks of birth, and it's being a lot of emotions.
26:26Thank God, the family here has a lot of patience with me.
26:31Even because now that I'm pregnant, my emotions are more aflorated, my feelings.
26:37There's a little hole in that shirt, though, now.
26:41It'll go away.
26:42I think it should go away.
26:44I do feel like Lorraine is now more of a family member, you know?
26:49From when she first moved here until now, she feels a little bit of both, like a mom and
26:54a sister.
26:55You ready?
26:56Belly?
26:57Baby?
26:57Yeah.
26:58Boy, girl.
27:00You differentiate.
27:01You boy, you girl.
27:03Boy, jump Thunder style.
27:06How big the belly game?
27:09Like this?
27:10Oh, my gosh.
27:13Definitely seems like we're getting to know Lorraine better.
27:17Aw.
27:17And we're happy she's starting to get comfortable with the family.
27:21My wife actually got to spend some time with Lorraine.
27:23She took her shopping to get baby stuff.
27:27Garrett said art rate 156.
27:29Boom, boom, boom.
27:31Me think girl because Leia's similar.
27:33Sister, no me think.
27:36I think.
27:37Oh, maybe.
27:38Wait, Lorraine, you think baby boy?
27:41Yeah.
27:43No inĆcio, eu tava achando que era menina, menina.
27:47Mas depois que eu fui na Ćŗltima consulta e eu vi o ultrassom, eu acho que Ć© menino
27:51porque Ć© muito fortinho.
27:54Seems like everyone thinking it's a boy.
27:56I'm team boy.
27:58I saw the ultrasound pictures and it looked like it was flexing, it had muscles.
28:02I'm like, that kind of looks like a boy to me.
28:06I think we better turn him, don't you?
28:08Oh, yeah.
28:11Getting ready for the gender reveal today, and I was hanging all the decorations, and
28:16as I'm hanging, it was like God came to me and goes, it's a girl.
28:21And I go, you serious?
28:23And he was like, yeah.
28:24I was like, all right, all right.
28:26So, I decided to go with what I heard, hanging all the decorations as a girl.
28:35Okay, people, let's do this.
28:37Let's get this going.
28:37Like, I'm, like, excited.
28:41For the gender reveal, Lorena had the great idea of doing cupcakes.
28:45So, Jeremiah is in charge of the envelope from the doctor, and he's also in charge of making
28:51the cupcakes.
28:51One will have blue or pink dye baked into the bottom of it.
28:57Okay, who's going to pick first?
28:59No, should we let Lorena decide?
29:00Lorena?
29:01Leia.
29:02Leia.
29:03Leia?
29:03Leia.
29:04Leia?
29:04Do you want to open it for her?
29:06We've got to open it.
29:07Kids first.
29:07Oh, Samantha's just like, let's get this off.
29:13That was too little, but should we pull it in half?
29:16Nothing.
29:17I thought I saw blue for a minute, but I think it was the frosting on top.
29:22I hope it's a girl.
29:23I really do.
29:25I feel like, you know, I have my two boys, and it would be great to have two girls in
29:29the house, have Leia have a sister, and hopefully they can grow up close and best friends, and
29:35I think it would be really special.
29:36Well, I just...
29:38Okay.
29:39I'm excited.
29:41Oh, my God.
29:43Brayden's excited.
29:44You want a cupcake, don't you, bud?
29:46I'm so nervous.
29:47Isn't it?
29:48I don't need...
29:49All right, bite into it.
29:51All right, bite into it.
29:51Bite it out!
29:53What do you got?
29:54What do you got?
30:06What are you guys doing over there?
30:14Give me a hug.
30:14Give me a hug.
30:16To know that Angelica and Sinead are going to keep their friendship, I'm happy.
30:20Her being able to have that friend and still just even remain a sister, that's good for
30:26her.
30:26That's healthy for her.
30:27And I really like that.
30:32You good?
30:34Yeah.
30:34After this first relationship, I wouldn't say this is a failure.
30:40I would actually consider it a success because we learned a lot about each other.
30:48We've learned a lot about this polygamous lifestyle.
30:52My biggest regrets are really just effort.
30:58I kept my guard up for a long time, and it wasn't until everything was falling apart
31:03that I decided to let my guard down, and by then it was too late.
31:08Come on, come sit down.
31:09You want some mashed potatoes?
31:10Yes!
31:11You ain't, brother.
31:12Come here.
31:13Polygamy isn't just about going out on dates with people or sex.
31:19It's really about the connection, the true deep connection you can have with someone.
31:27I'm definitely committed to moving forward and maybe trying again to see if we can find
31:35that sister wife.
31:36Cripple!
31:37Cripple!
31:38In an ideal world, I would love for us and our sister wife to be living a lot closer.
31:46Matt would be going back and forth.
31:48No, no!
31:49Is it good?
31:50I'm just on the couch.
31:52Yeah.
31:54He doesn't like mashed potatoes.
31:56Is it good?
31:57He's going to go follow her.
31:58Go ahead.
31:59We're not really looking to have more kids.
32:02Obviously, if we find a woman that has kids, that's just bonus kids for us.
32:08We just want to add to our family and share our love with someone else.
32:12She just suplexed him.
32:15Get over here.
32:16Get over here.
32:17My plan is to take a little time, you know, just let the sting from Sinead not being around,
32:25let that go away and, you know, with your permission, get back out there and start dating again.
32:31I don't think I'll ever meet someone like Sinead again, but, you know, hopefully we'll find our person and I do it the right way.
32:42And in the meantime, I still have a best friend who I can also call a sister.
32:48I'm in the bath!
32:50Are you okay?
32:51I love you.
32:54I love you, too.
33:06Yeah, you got me, uh, reminiscing about prom way back when, and I had a great time, and I'm sure you will, too, son.
33:18Oh, I remember when William was this little.
33:21Now he's going to prom.
33:22Aw, senior prom.
33:24Last big thing.
33:25It's crazy.
33:26I can't believe it.
33:27I know.
33:29I enjoy seeing my wives back to their normal, peaceful selves, and I enjoy having our house with the regular energy that we usually have.
33:39Oh.
33:41The other way.
33:41Look at brother.
33:43What's up, Vera?
33:44Do you like brother's outfit?
33:47Wow, looking good.
33:48No matter what happens in our life, nothing could ever sway what we have together.
33:59Um, the, the Holy Trinity, so to speak.
34:03Those are nice shoes, kid.
34:07Yeah, thanks.
34:08Yeah.
34:09Yeah, it's a good look.
34:09It came together sharp.
34:10We've decided that at this point, it's the best thing for our family to just kind of settle down, focus on this new baby, and, uh, just reestablish our connection and our foundation, and then continue our pursuit and keep seeking.
34:28All right, Vera, we're going to take some pictures with brother, okay?
34:33My big takeaways from our experiences from dating Danielle and now Teresa is just that it takes very particular pilots to control Voltron, okay?
34:45Not just anybody can jump into one of these suits and, and, and make, and make them, make it work, okay?
34:51Only, only certain people can, and it's not the sort of thing that I feel like we, uh, did anything wrong in these relationships.
35:01I just have to accept that Teresa and Danielle were not the individuals who were meant to be here.
35:07Vera, look right here.
35:08One, two.
35:10Ah!
35:11She's hilarious.
35:14We are very aware that there's always a chance that something might not work out with someone that we're dating, but we don't let fear lead us.
35:25We still always take a chance on love because there's going to be things that we're all going to grow from and we're all going to benefit from.
35:35All right, bye, kiddo.
35:37Appreciate it.
35:38Bye.
35:38Say bye, brother.
35:39We're still looking for, for the other individuals to help us complete the Voltron robot, you know what I mean?
35:48So we can, can, can build this.
35:50Bye.
35:52All right, Will.
35:52Bye.
35:54So that's, what's going to be great.
35:56You need the arms to hold the sword.
35:57You need the arms to hold the sword, you know what I mean?
35:59So when everything comes together, then we just get to be the defenders of the universe, you know?
36:03We just get to go through life representing love in a way that, you know, most people don't think is possible.
36:10It's always worth the experience, you know, even when it doesn't work out, it's still fun and, and, uh, I think I'm, I'm still enjoying this journey.
36:20I hope I'm not the only one.
36:22We're all enjoying this journey.
36:24We're looking for the third wife, and we're going to continue to pursue that.
36:38At the moment, I don't feel very comfortable looking for another wife now.
36:42What do you got?
36:58Let's see.
36:59Is there anything in there?
37:00Nope.
37:01Nope?
37:01Just a cup.
37:02Shut up.
37:03It's on the bottom of it.
37:05Wait, what?
37:06Look at the wrapper on there.
37:07Brayden, let me see your wrapper.
37:08Wait, wait, hold on.
37:10He got it.
37:11He said Brayden got it.
37:12Brayden got it.
37:13Oh, my God, Brayden, let me see.
37:16Oh, my God!
37:18It's a girl!
37:19Oh, my God!
37:21Oh, my God!
37:23Oh, my God!
37:23It's a girl!
37:24Oh, my God!
37:26It's a girl!
37:27It's a girl!
37:41Oh, my God!
37:42Oh, my God!
37:43Oh, my God!
37:49A baby girl?
37:51Yeah!
37:52Oh, my God!
37:52Oh, my God!
37:58Oh, my God!
38:16Oh, my God!
38:20I think with Lorena being pregnant and a baby on the way,
38:33this does make it feel more real
38:36because you have a human being involved.
38:39It's a baby.
38:40This is really happening.
38:42Like, Lorena's part of our lives and our family,
38:44and she will be indefinitely.
38:47And no matter what happens between Garrick, Lorena,
38:50and I, there's always going to be a baby.
38:52Nothing's going to change that, and God forbid nothing happens,
38:55and we all stay together, and, you know, we grow old together.
38:59That's the dream.
38:59I am truly always in awe of what God does
39:13because today also happens to be the anniversary
39:16of when Garrick and I got divorced five years ago.
39:19You know, we're definitely still seeking.
39:25It's a calling on our family,
39:27so we're definitely looking for the third wife,
39:29and we're going to continue to pursue that.
39:32I know we live in the plural,
39:42but at the moment I don't feel very comfortable looking for another wife now
39:47because it's all very new to me.
39:50Having a baby and not having much time with Garr makes me a little worried.
39:54I definitely totally understand where you're coming from and your feelings.
40:04You know, I get it, but we are a plural family,
40:08and I know it's a calling from God
40:10and that we have to be open to what He has,
40:13and if that is tomorrow or three months for now,
40:19I don't know, but I know He is in perfect control,
40:23and we have to keep seeking.
40:25So for now, we're just going to have to keep an open heart and mind
40:29to what God has.
40:36You know, if God had us to meet another woman from another country,
40:43truly our best option would be
40:45Danielle would have to marry her to have her come here,
40:49you know, just because we don't know how long
40:52it would take before me and Lorena
40:53could get divorced where I could marry another woman.
40:58I wasn't aware of that.
41:00Yeah, she can get a green card,
41:02but then it takes, like, five to ten years
41:05for her to actually become a citizen.
41:09Yeah.
41:11So.
41:12Danielle, how do you feel about that?
41:15I feel like it's more of a discussion
41:16I feel like we need to have
41:18because I thought it was going to be a couple years
41:21for her, like, adjustment of status
41:22and they could divorce,
41:24and then I didn't realize, like, it would take so long
41:27and that that would be, you know,
41:30in the next year, if we're adding someone,
41:32that it would be on me to marry them
41:35from another country, somebody.
41:38So.
41:49All right, just need a minute.
41:51Okay.
41:52You know, married life has struggles,
42:09especially when you do it God's way.
42:14It's a lot to go through,
42:17but it's expected.
42:19Oh, you know the trick.
42:40Oh.
42:41Say bye.
42:53Bye.
42:54Bye.
42:55See you later.
42:55Bye.
42:56That's our date.
43:14That's our date.
43:15Oh, yeah.
43:15Yeah.
43:16Yeah.
43:16Who's ready to be big siblings?
43:34Oh, yeah.
43:38Oh, wow.
43:39Oh, you look at your dad, yeah?
44:03On your dad, yeah?
44:05See you later.
44:06Yeah.
44:07This will be good.
44:11Bye.
44:14Bye.
44:15Bye.
44:15Bye.
44:16Bye.
44:20Bye.
44:20Bye.
44:29Bye.
44:30Bye.
44:30Bye.
44:31Bye.
44:32Bye.
44:32Bye.
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