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Société : Les Femmes ont les mêmes droits que les hommes selon Sana Nova
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00:00Women have far fewer rights than men, but that's why things aren't going well.
00:06Hello, welcome to this video.
00:11Today, we're going to talk about the fact that in the West, women have the same rights as men.
00:18Okay, we have to stop after a while. Stay until the end.
00:23I have a little rant to make in my personal experience on this subject to tell you.
00:30Thank you very much for subscribing, it makes me very happy.
00:33So don't hesitate to subscribe if you haven't already for the likes, shares, and all the comments.
00:38Once again, it's time, I'm all in.
00:41I'm trying to respond but I can't manage to respond to everyone, but I read all your comments.
00:45So give me every word, all your opinions, sorry too.
00:48And here we go.
00:51So in the West, rights are already 100% equal.
00:54Okay, in the West, I repeat, we already have 100% equality.
01:02The law does not discriminate against women.
01:05On the contrary, sometimes we will see it further down the line.
01:08The problem is not legal but cultural and behavioral.
01:10And as long as we continue to play the victim, I am talking about this problem here, but also about everything else in life in general, we will absolutely not be able to move forward.
01:24So the famous pay gap is the crux of the matter.
01:29Everyone will tell you this when they run out of arguments, and I do not agree with that.
01:34So legally, the same position is equal, the same salary is equal, and I think that given all the controversies we have had for years as bosses, I would not want to give two different salaries for the same position and for different sexes.
01:53I would not be too tempted to do that because in my opinion the sky is falling on you if you did.
01:58Otherwise, the difference mainly comes from, and this is very important to understand, who negotiates, who asks for promotions, who takes risks, who accepts the extra hours because yes, once again, men and women do not do the same thing.
02:17Hormonala, we do not turn out the same either.
02:20So we have different behaviors.
02:22It doesn't matter, once again, it's very good and fortunately we are different because we are complementary but we are not made to be the same.
02:31We have to stop this, okay?
02:34A man is a man, a woman is a woman.
02:39So men, as a general rule, tend to be more demanding, more demanding, more assertive.
02:45Women very often, and I see this also in real life with my clients, whatever you want, they have more and that's it, that's how it is, that's all.
02:57They are more afraid to ask.
02:59They don't feel very comfortable, they're even embarrassed sometimes, and I find that really unfortunate.
03:05So, I hope that there are women who are listening to me too.
03:08Don't underestimate yourselves, okay?
03:10And there are many who are worth a lot and who can give a lot but who don't dare because they think maybe I'm not up to it and so on.
03:18Whereas a man, generally speaking, by nature, is more likely to bang his fist on the table and say, I have this, I want that.
03:26That's not an injustice, it's simply a different behavior, not a missing right.
03:33Responsibility and Professional Choice
03:35The most highly paid methods are often the most dangerous, the most difficult are those that require the most responsibility.
03:44So those that are the most stressful.
03:47Again, men and women have two different natures.
03:51Men have a greater impact on the average salary.
03:55There are still many more men who are at 100% than
03:58at 80%.
04:01And the same goes for women, and that's not a problem.
04:05It's normal.
04:07Sometimes women will reduce their rate a little bit to be able to compensate for taking care of their family or their children, for example.
04:13And that's not a problem.
04:15But we just have to understand that too.
04:17Women tend to choose lower paid but more stable sectors.
04:21And sometimes women are also attracted to certain sectors.
04:26That are much less well paid.
04:28That's something we have to understand too.
04:30These are individual choices, not a system against them.
04:35And I also want to say that we have to be careful with studies because we can often manipulate the figures as we want.
04:42So, uh, on that specifically, uh, I haven't, well, I haven't looked for studies, but in other studies, sometimes, I've seen things, but crazy, but really where the numbers, well, everything was completely mixed up in the way in which we express things and in which we give certain numbers can completely skew everything.
05:05So, always be very careful, but there is a study that came out on being careful, okay?
05:11And here, I'm going to give you my personal experience as a woman living in the West.
05:16Okay, quite a few years ago, for almost two years, yes, I didn't look the same when I worked there.
05:23I worked for two years as a mason's assistant.
05:26Okay, so, one of the most difficult jobs.
05:29And I still want to say that I didn't do it.
05:31Well, there you have it.
05:32I lifted the same weights as men.
05:33I did the same things as men.
05:35I didn't go there to get help.
05:37I was very much in my masculine energy.
05:40I had a lot to prove to myself.
05:43But it worked very well for two years.
05:45It was a great experience, actually.
05:47It really built my character.
05:50And to say that when I got there, the complete opposite happened.
05:54In fact, they told me, okay, because in Switzerland, if you like, we have CCTs, which are collective labor agreements.
06:01And in fact, we have minimum wages for certain sectors.
06:05And when I got there, I had no experience.
06:08So logically, I had to be on the minimum wage.
06:11Quote, and I was told, they told me this in secret.
06:13They told me, listen, you have a very tough job.
06:17You're a woman.
06:17You're going to be paid a little more than, uh, what a man is paid at the very beginning of his career and in relation to this famous collective bargaining agreement.
06:25So, in short, my experience is completely the opposite.
06:30So once again, we need to stop.
06:32Well, victimization is something that really annoys me.
06:35But on all subjects, okay?
06:38Except on this.
06:39And sometimes, women even have more rights.
06:42For example, in everything that has to do with child care, in family decisions.
06:48Sometimes I also see stories in the comments that really hurt my heart.
06:52So under my videos, there are just terrible stories about men.
06:55Now, I'm not into it.
06:58I didn't see what happened and so on.
07:00But it's not the first time I've seen this kind of testimony and even that I've heard.
07:04I once heard, well, yeah, a little aside.
07:07I heard a friend of a friend, at the time.
07:09But to tell you, it shocked me.
07:11It stuck in my head until then and, in fact, she was in the process of separating from her.
07:16I don't even think they were married, her boyfriend.
07:20They had a son together and we knew him too.
07:22But she had nothing to reproach him for regarding the way he raised his son.
07:26He was super fair.
07:28He was an educator.
07:28So that doesn't mean anything of course.
07:33But still, he adored his son.
07:35He really adored him and he was the one who spent most of the time with her.
07:39Because again, my goal with my videos is not to throw stones at women.
07:43Okay?
07:44There are plenty of really good women and there are plenty of men who are also catastrophic.
07:48And that's very important to say.
07:49Okay?
07:50But here I'm giving you specific examples.
07:52So this isn't a generalization.
07:54It's just one example among many others.
07:56And she, well, I'm sure she loved her son too.
08:00But you could see that she wasn't feeling well.
08:02That her mind was more focused on going out clubbing than anything else.
08:05Uh, that's it.
08:06That she was fed up.
08:08That a lot of responsibility had fallen on her.
08:10Whereas, well, that's it.
08:12And so the son spent a lot more time with the father and it was the father who took care of him the most.
08:18And, when it came time to separate, I don't remember what the problems were between the two.
08:22And she said something.
08:23It would have been now.
08:24But I would have gotten into it.
08:26But really.
08:26At the time, well, I wasn't like I am now.
08:29I didn't dare to talk too much.
08:30And so on.
08:31But she said, uh, well, listen.
08:33Uh, no.
08:35What did she?
08:35What did she say?
08:36She said I'm going to make him pay.
08:38So yeah, I don't know what happened between the two.
08:40But it didn't seem like a disaster either.
08:42She said, I'm going to make him pay for all this.
08:44I'm going to stop him from seeing his son.
08:46I'm going to do everything so that he can't see his son anymore.
08:48You hear stuff like that, you know.
08:49But it's not possible.
08:50So to get back to the comments because I haven't let go.
08:53No.
08:53To get back to the comments.
08:54So sometimes I see testimonies that, I swear, sometimes I almost have tears in my eyes when
09:00I see them because I think to myself.
09:02But it's so sad.
09:03Fathers who can't even see their children anymore.
09:05Uh, who do everything.
09:06Uh, who, you know, who are blocked by the justice system.
09:09So, family decisions very often lean more towards the other side.
09:13So there are areas where men are disadvantaged but no one talks about it.
09:17So not only has equality not been achieved, it sometimes even leans towards the other side.
09:22Equality exists but the narratives are overstating everything.
09:26Some movements maintain the idea that women are more oppressed.
09:30We won't name them.
09:32Name them in the comments if you want.
09:33Many people repeat this without checking the facts, without being involved in it either and without asking themselves certain questions.
09:41Once again, we are different by nature.
09:44We function differently.
09:46Men tend to be more vocal than women.
09:51Media victimization is not necessarily equal to reality and the West is objectively the most egalitarian place in the world.
09:58Okay?
10:01Really, today, women have the same rights, the same freedoms.
10:05So once again, I'm not saying that wow, that's great, we should be thankful.
10:10No, that's perfectly normal.
10:11Okay?
10:13Everything I'm saying is for people who might start to want to say the opposite.
10:16So the same freedoms, access to the same profession, I'm living proof of that, the same legal protections, total freedom over their life, their body, their career, and once again, that's normal.
10:29Okay?
10:30I'm just repeating it because, you know, we have to stop saying the opposite.
10:34So equality already exists.
10:37What's missing is not a right, it's accountability.
10:39I can't say it enough, take responsibility, but never victimize yourself.
10:51We'll never get far in life like that, but always take responsibility.
10:57So we're not talking about legal injustice because that no longer exists.
11:01We're talking about behavior, choices, and a distorted narrative.
11:06True equality is when everyone takes responsibility for their choices, not when we blame a system that no longer exists.
11:15Ultra important.
11:16Now, let's get to my little rant.
11:19This video isn't live.
11:20In fact, I'm going to explain how it works.
11:23And I'm not saying this for everyone because I'm sure most people understand.
11:27Okay?
11:27I haven't done a live on this channel yet and I know I've been talking about it for a long time.
11:31Don't beat me up, I'll do it, I promise.
11:34I'll explain it to you right after.
11:36It's really about time, I can't do it but I'll do it.
11:39So this video isn't a live.
11:41When I show it, it says preview.
11:45Preview isn't a live because someone had the nerve to rate me, yes, the live was crap, it was too short, and so on.
11:52So first of all, I have a question.
11:54How?
11:55Because when I do.
11:56Premieres, it allows me, if you want, to start my video that is already recorded and it allows me to chat with you while the premiere is running.
12:07Ah, there you go.
12:08So first question, how would it be possible for me to record this video and answer your questions at the same time?
12:17I can't do things at the same time.
12:20That's a myth.
12:22Women can't do things at the same time.
12:24At least, not me.
12:25Okay?
12:25It's not possible.
12:27Don't give me superpowers that I don't have.
12:29That's nice, but no, it's not true.
12:31So thank you because honestly, I got such a nasty comment that I just deleted it because, well, you have to think for two seconds.
12:41So no, we're not live, but normally, if everything goes well, except sometimes when I'm busy, I'm just below chatting with you.
12:48There you go, that's it.
12:52Let's move on to the conclusion.
12:54So if you want to support the channel and support my work too, then first of all, don't hesitate to subscribe if you haven't already.
13:02Comment, tell me your experiences, like, share, it actually sends signals to the algorithm.
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13:15It really talks about reprogramming the subconscious.
13:18By the way, yesterday, I released a new video that is just absolutely brilliant.
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13:27It will help you understand how our brain works like a computer and how in fact, uh, 95% of our life is not controlled by our conscious mind but by our subconscious.
13:38And how can we change that?
13:40So, I'm really giving you some keys in this video, because as long as we don't change the basic program that's installed and whose sole purpose is to keep us alive, it doesn't care if we're depressed, if we're not happy in our life, or if we want to completely change our lives, or if we're alone, or if we don't have a partner, it doesn't care at all.
13:56So I'll explain to you how it works and how to reprogram your subconscious.
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14:18So don't hesitate to come and follow me on the other side.
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14:43So that's why right now, it's time, I don't really have time to do live.
14:46Every morning, almost 7 days a week, I wake up between 4 and 5 a.m. to shoot videos, prepare videos, and make modules.
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15:32So, there's going to be a training for women and a training for men because there's really going to be a module on everything related to couples.
15:38How to find the right person, how to attract them, how to do it, and most importantly, know that I went from being obese, so almost 100 kilograms, to being athletic.
15:50Okay?
15:51I went from being angry, sad, depressed with constant ups and downs.
15:56Sorry for the bells and whistles, constant ups and downs, to being really stable, happy, I'm almost completely fearless.
16:03I trust what's happening so much and I've reprogrammed my subconscious so well that I'm really in a great state.
16:10I've never been better in my life, so I'll give you the keys to that.
16:14I went from being a smoker to a non-smoker, from barely making ends meet to having my business running for 8 years.
16:21So if I know this, it's not because I'm different, it's just that I've been learning for 15 years and I know things that not everyone knows at the moment.
16:29So I really want to give you the keys and if I can change stress in just one life, that would be absolutely amazing.
16:35Okay?
16:37So, I hope to release it before the beginning, or rather the end of December, because I'm really working hard right now, but I have, well, what I'm doing is bigger than me.
16:47And I really have a strength that comes from within, and there you have it, I, I, I'm doing all this, I have something to do, so I'm going to do it thoroughly.
16:55And so once again, subscribe, like, share, thanks for listening.
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