The Bachelorette Becca Kurfin Reveals How She Got Over Arie | EXCLUSIVE - video Dailymotion

The Bachelorette Becca Kurfin Reveals How She Got Over Arie | EXCLUSIVE

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00:00I'm not gonna lie marriage plans aren't in the works yet just because everything is still new

00:07and fresh I just got off the plane from filming last week so I'm just trying to take things slow

00:11and you know live in the moment as crazy as it is right now the new bachelorette Becca

00:16Becca's got 28 new bachelors I think the main quality that I kept stressing is honesty and

00:27loyalty just because I felt like in my past relationships I didn't always get that

00:31um I really wanted somebody who was open and not judgmental and just carefree and open to new

00:39experiences to all the other people that they'd be living with and then another thing that's always

00:45important to me is I want to be able to laugh only this time they better not chicken out

00:51oh what is happening in interviews I do empathize with Ari a lot more and I was with him for a short

01:04amount of time and I saw him struggle with the guilt of sending women home and at that point I

01:10didn't always get it because I was so fixated on the one relationship with him and in the process you

01:16start to develop feelings for multiple people so I get where his struggle was watching the breakup it

01:21wasn't easy but we signed up for this and he had to show his story from start to finish and he had to

01:28show his thought process you know he had to end things with me to get to Lauren in the end it was

01:36difficult but I'm glad that it did happen the way it did because it held all parties accountable for everything

01:42that went down and it ultimately pushed me into this position now where you know I became a veteran

01:48and I met 28 great guys I mean the main things that I wanted to find in a partner is somebody who did

01:56want to have kids because I want to start a family one day and I would love somebody that wanted to do

02:02that same thing I don't think I could really end up with somebody that didn't want to have a family

02:06career wise I am a very independent person I love my work I love having something that I wake up to

02:13and have the drive and the motivation to go to every day and so I definitely wanted somebody to respect

02:18that I didn't want somebody that was gonna say oh no I want you to stay home I could because that's not

02:23me somebody who is very family oriented because family is huge to me and I'm with my family all the

02:30time and I wanted somebody who is that same way who appreciated their family who could take me in as their

02:36own and who I could take in as my own too I mean yeah I'd be open to it I don't know until recently I

02:43never really envisioned what my dream wedding would be god night one handing out the roses at the

02:51ceremonies it's intense and it's just it's so weird standing there with all the roses next to you and all

03:00of the guys laser focused on you and I was like oh my god what did I get myself into it's like I don't

03:06know where to look do I look in everyone's eyes do I just look around it was an interesting thing to go

03:12through and I mean it was nice because it was on my terms and it was deciding who do I want to

03:20continue to get to know and who do I see relationships developing with it's definitely a lot more stressful I

03:26think giving out the roses because it's intense and everyone's watching you and hoping for the

03:31best and you know it's gonna be hard sending some guys home