00:00On to our next story, we're talking about size 8.
00:04Now, her and her husband came out to clarify a prayer that she had mentioned before.
00:14Now, if you don't know what I'm talking about, there's a time that size 8 spoke and said that you should always pray before you twa-twa, okay?
00:21You pray that the Lord increases your strength.
00:24You pray that the Lord gives you enough power and flexibility for Mastingo so that you may satisfy your husband, okay?
00:33You whisper a small, small spray and say, Holy Spirit, intervene before I jump into these sheets.
00:42And it's like, okay, girl, I'm not doing all of that, you know, but okay, girl.
00:47Anyway, she has come out to clarify what she meant by a prayer.
00:52And she said, life is very spiritual and the enemy hates marriages because it is a replica of Christ.
01:01Who is the main groom and the body or the church, which is the bride?
01:06The devil hates that because that's where he was denied everything and the human race continued.
01:13She went on to say that when she was talking about praying before intimacy,
01:16what she meant was that you do not even start, you don't have to start shouting or speaking in tongues.
01:22Just whisper a few sentences so that the Holy Spirit may prevail.
01:28Now, she was talking this, you know, standing next to her husband.
01:32And I'm just like, cool, girl.
01:35You know, I honestly, I really don't want to be a hating Betty.
01:41And I'm very intentional about it.
01:43But y'all just put it out there.
01:46Because why would you say that when you know what we know?
01:49When you're privy to what we are privy.
01:52Some things we're not even privy to that you know about your husband.
01:56Why would you put up, why are you rejuvenating us?
02:00You want us to say something and then you want us to sue.
02:04How many people have sued us this year?
02:06Like enough is enough.
02:07Stop rejuvenating us.
02:09When it comes to you and your husband, personally, I don't want to hear it.
02:14I don't want to be privy to it.
02:15I just want you guys to succeed, build your houses, move into your mansions,
02:20have a good life, have a beautiful family.
02:23But must be involved.
02:24Because enough is enough.
02:26Knowing what we know about your situation,
02:30girl, I don't want to hear it.
02:33But that's just me.
02:35Okay, as a married woman of all of two days, I can say this.
02:40The way you guys showcase your marriages,
02:42the way you guys make it look out there on the internet,
02:46it makes it hard to defend you.
02:51Now, to mechoka kuwa defend, okay?
02:52To mechoka kuwa defend.
02:53So you just do whatever you want to do, like say whatever you want to say.
02:57At this point, like what do we do?
02:58You saw the Nigerian lady, she's an actress,
03:00she's part of the fashion world.
03:02I forget her name, I was looking for her name just now and I couldn't find her.
03:04Where she says that, mind you, she's very, very successful.
03:09She's very, very successful.
03:10She runs a fashion empire out of Nigeria, travels the world to do that.
03:15She's so successful.
03:17It's crazy.
03:17But she still, every interview, when she sat down being interviewed,
03:24being asked about her success, instead of opening her mouth
03:27and telling young girls, young baddies, how to handle business
03:32in order to get to the levels that she has gotten to,
03:35she somehow always just deters the conversation into her husband.
03:40How before she travels, because sometimes she travels for like days on end,
03:44or like weeks back to back, before she travels,
03:47she has to make like six different soups for her husband.
03:51She wakes up at 2 o'clock, 1 o'clock in the morning
03:54to start making these soups for her husband, okay, before she leaves.
03:58And then she packs everything into the fridge, in Tupperware,
04:02into the fridge to make sure that her husband does not go hungry
04:06while she's away.
04:08She says that her husband, she's the sole breadwinner in her family.
04:15So she was saying that women need to start, not have to wait,
04:19like women need to start a habit of not waiting for their husbands
04:22to be the ones to give them money.
04:24Not every time, baby, give me, I want to buy salt.
04:26Baby, give me, I want to wear.
04:28You need to take initiative and go out there and take care of things,
04:32like buy the groceries.
04:33Take care of the finances in the household.
04:36Take care of your household.
04:38You don't have to be asking your husband, oh, give me money
04:40so that I can go and pay which staff who did what where.
04:44So she says, as a woman, you need to put yourself together
04:46and sort these things out for your husband, okay?
04:50In turn.
04:52Third, and more irritating than all three,
04:56she says that her husband will wake her up,
05:00knock, knock, in the middle of the night,
05:01to give, perform filetio, to give filetio, okay?
05:10But he does not worship her lower bit.
05:16So she has to wake up and give him head,
05:18but he's going to say no, he does not touch.
05:21Absolutely not.
05:22And I said, girl, whatever works for your marriage,
05:25you better than me.
05:27You know, it's your marriage, oh.
05:29What can we do?
05:30What can we do?
05:31We can't do very little.
05:32Whatever you have accepted is what you've accepted.
05:35And that's okay, babe.
05:36But don't be preaching these narratives
05:37or preaching these messages online
05:39because then we're all, people know no better.
05:42You're a role model to so many people
05:44and they will want to replicate what you're doing
05:46and that is horrible.
05:48That is not the standard that we're trying to...
05:50Do you know what, girl?
05:51Y'all just make marriage look tedious
05:53and unfortunately very, very unfair
05:57on the party of the woman.
05:59But if that's what you want, do it yourself,
06:01but in your own household, eh?
06:02Don't be bringing it online.
06:03Leave it.
06:04Since you're trying to get together,
06:04you're not going to be able to do it.
06:05You're not going to be able to do it.
06:06You're not going to be able to do it.
06:07You're not going to be able to do it.
