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01:00El Namea Pons amén y alarqu prince quieres impedir
01:02que no se 춤uyó sin el� witness comparar.
01:04¡Ah! Ah, otra vez, estás haciendo le difference!
01:06Esto además prefi corsIO al cuerpo,
01:10lo hemos tenido.
01:15Calante.
01:18Solo son 40 inclusive,
01:20un saludo.
01:20Más malvito,
01:24Scot Aussie.
01:30¡Gracias!
02:00My name is Nikki.
02:02I'm 30 years old.
02:04I live in Carnesville, Georgia
02:06with my husband, Derek, and my son, Ryan.
02:10Are you going to be able to dance in that one?
02:13Probably not.
02:15I do little fun TikTok videos.
02:18You can be plus-size and beautiful.
02:20About body positivity.
02:22No makeup.
02:24Ba-bam. Ba-bam.
02:27All right, babe, you ready?
02:29I'm ready.
02:31Ooh.
02:32What do you think?
02:33I like it.
02:34I feel sexy.
02:36I feel fierce.
02:38The last time that I posted a video,
02:40I got a lot of backlash.
02:43There's a lot of people out in this world
02:45who just do not like confident plus-size people.
02:48They were saying I was disgusting.
02:51Like, it hurt my feelings.
02:53I even had direct messages,
02:55not just comments on the video.
02:57Ready to make a video?
02:59Let's go.
03:01All that stuff bothered me,
03:04but I let it go for a while.
03:10Look at you go.
03:12There we go.
03:14To anyone who does not like my body, I don't care.
03:20I'm gonna strunt my stuff.
03:27All right, I'm nervous.
03:29Yeah, I think Nikki posts all her videos to come off as strong,
03:36but deep down, I don't think she's truly happy.
03:41Uh, sorry, hold on.
03:43What's going on?
03:51So, what's making you upset and sad?
03:53I'm scared.
03:54Yeah.
03:56That's understandable.
03:58Tell them why you're scared.
04:03There's a lot of mean people.
04:04Yeah.
04:13I hate being this size.
04:19Growing up, I've always been a larger frame.
04:23We never really learned to eat healthy.
04:25Then, as a teenager, I don't know exactly how much I weighed, but I felt beautiful.
04:33I was still thick, but I was able to function.
04:36And I played softball until I was about 17.
04:40I mean, I was a little plus size, but I was really good at it.
04:44Like, really good.
04:45Until that day.
04:47The day.
04:49Um, so I was running from first to second base.
04:52And I tore my hamstring and pulled tendons.
04:57It was probably due to my weight.
05:03And I replayed again.
05:05That was my last, um, last time I stepped on the field.
05:13I'm sorry.
05:16I started feeling really sad.
05:18And so I gained a significant amount of weight in a small time.
05:25Then one day I was like, boom, I have to help buy a whole new wardrobe.
05:28And I can't shop at those stores anymore.
05:30I actually got to shop at this store.
05:32And I'm like, wow.
05:34This sucks.
05:36Hey, babe.
05:37Yes, sweetie.
05:38Can you come help me?
05:40Being my size is definitely starting to affect the day in and day outs
05:44of life.
05:48Derek does do a lot.
05:50He puts my shoes on.
05:51He helps me put my bra on.
05:53Like, I can't really reach behind and clasp it.
05:56There you go.
05:58Thanks.
05:59Let me know if you need anything else.
06:03Doing all these things, especially after coming home from a long day at work, it's just exhausting.
06:09And sometimes it puts a little bit of a stress on our relationship.
06:12But we get through it.
06:14I love her.
06:15She loves me.
06:17Hey, babe.
06:18Yo.
06:20Can you come help me for a second, please?
06:22There's things that men shouldn't have to do.
06:26For instance, during the time of the month.
06:29What's up, babe?
06:30I can't pull the tampon.
06:37I need you to help me.
06:47It's very degrading, and I just don't want to talk about it anymore.
06:50I've tried a lot of diets, fasting, intermediate fasting.
07:01I've tried eating, like, once a day, and that didn't work.
07:05I've tried everything.
07:08You want to throw it to you, or you want to throw it to me?
07:10All right, you got to under throw it, okay?
07:13Are you ready?
07:14I'm a mama to a five-year-old little boy.
07:17His name is Brian.
07:19All right, you ready?
07:21Yeah! You did it!
07:24He's adopted.
07:26We've tried with having our own.
07:28But the extra weight can really affect your fertility.
07:31Go get the ball, silly.
07:33Mommy's not running.
07:36Brian is my sweetest little boy,
07:40but I have extreme high blood pressure.
07:42Joint pain.
07:45And I can't walk without my back hurting.
07:47Mommy's going to sit down, because Mommy's getting tired, okay?
07:50Yeah.
07:54Brian's going to start baseball real soon.
07:57He got his little baseball gloves and his little helmet and everything.
08:00I was like, oh.
08:02I want to coach my son's team one day.
08:05And I physically can't do that because of my weight.
08:09Show Mommy your wink. Wink at me.
08:10Wink at me.
08:12I love you.
08:13I love you.
08:14I love you more.
08:16You did so good.
08:18I want to experience those things with him.
08:21And not just sit on the bleachers.
08:23I mean, the dugout is only, like, so big.
08:26And, you know, I take up a lot of space.
08:27Hey, babe.
08:28When it's bath time, I start the water for Brian's bath, but the bathroom floor in our house, it needs to be replaced.
08:44Every time I get on it, it's like, ooh, I'm going to fall right through because it's so weak.
08:50I can't give him a bath. You're going to have to give him a bath. I'm not going to risk falling on the floor because of the floor.
08:58I can't do this anymore.
09:00Because of my weight, I thought the floor was going to collapse out from under my feet.
09:05Being a mom and not being able to give your child a bath, it sucks. Enough's enough.
09:12Babe, you ready for dinner? We got us some Mexican for dinner.
09:25I don't go anywhere anymore. I can't go to certain restaurants.
09:28I'm scared that they're not going to fit because I don't know if the booths move or if the booths are bolted down to the ground.
09:34You can call off Waffle House because I ain't getting in there, even though they have really good food.
09:42I've been thinking a lot about how much I actually know that I can't do that I want to do.
09:51Yeah.
09:52I was kind of thinking, you know, looking more into that doctor in Atlanta.
10:00Okay.
10:02Yeah, I might actually reach out and see about the surgery.
10:06Okay.
10:10I love you.
10:11I love you.
10:20Here I am packing.
10:22Do you have to see Dr. Proctor?
10:24I'm excited.
10:26This whole journey is about to, like, legit start, you know?
10:31Like, I'm going to go see the cute doctor, you know? Dr. Proctor.
10:35Can I say he's cute?
10:36Can I say he's cute?
10:46Nervous yet?
10:48Yeah.
10:49I'm really nervous, actually.
10:51Yeah, I got a lot of questions I want to ask him.
10:53I love stuff.
10:54I hope he's nice.
10:57You're not the first person he's probably done, so you're in good hands.
11:01I hope so.
11:02I am so ready for biometric surgery. I'm, like, I want it tomorrow.
11:11Let's do it.
11:17Brian doesn't deserve the fat mom, you know?
11:19He deserves a mom that can run with him and be unstoppable.
11:23I want Brian to be like, you know what? My mom has got it together.
11:29Get closer.
11:31Closer.
11:32Yeah.
11:34Hey, guys.
11:35Hey, how are you?
11:36Good, I'm Dr. Charlie Proctor.
11:37How are you?
11:38Nice to meet you.
11:39Derek, nice to meet you.
11:40So, what can I do for you? How can I help you today?
11:44Go and get some weight loss surgery, hopefully.
11:48Yeah.
11:49So, why now?
11:50Um, well, I have a son.
11:53And I realized that, for instance, this Christmas,
11:57I want to sit on the floor with him and open presents.
12:00And I can't.
12:01So, next year, I want to be able to do that.
12:04And be able to go do things with him, of course.
12:07Ride rides, go to the beach, football game, anything.
12:13It's important.
12:15I have three boys also.
12:16I'll tell you that this is a time in their lives that you're not going to get back.
12:21It's going to go like a flash.
12:23And the more time you can buy with them at this age,
12:27every moment is precious.
12:29And you don't want to watch it go by.
12:31No. I don't.
12:33Yeah.
12:35Nikki's losing out.
12:36She's losing every single day the things that she wants to do with that child.
12:40And it's simply because of her weight.
12:41If we can't do something about this right now, she's going to lose those years.
12:46And she's going to lose years from her life.
12:48It's time to hop on the scale and see where we are.
12:52All righty.
12:53I don't know how much weight I've gained.
12:57So I am terrified as the only word I can think of.
13:03Terrified.
13:05Whenever you're ready.
13:06Whenever you're ready.
13:20Oh, you got it.
13:21There.
13:22Raise that left leg up.
13:23Pull it forward to the pole.
13:25I feel awkward.
13:26You all right?
13:27I was thinking how skinny they were and how pretty they were.
13:30And then like...
13:32I just...
13:33I'm done.
13:35Every time I've tried to lose weight, it's been a total bust.
13:39I'll grab you some chicken nuggets.
13:41I've cheated a lot.
13:42I'm going to give up.
13:43So I'm pretty defeated.
13:50It's time to hop on the scale and see where we are.
13:54All righty.
13:55I don't know exactly how much I weigh, but if I stay this big for even a couple more years, I'm going to start getting diabetes, high blood pressure, sleep apnea.
14:07I'm 30 and I have a five-year-old son, so I don't want to have those and him still be little and me can't do anything.
14:12But all I can see is the numbers just climbing higher and higher.
14:21470.
14:27Is that what you expected?
14:29Not really.
14:30That's all right.
14:31What we're going to work towards is doing bariatric surgery, but first I'm going to give you a goal of coming back in a month. I want to see you down 40 pounds.
14:49Really?
14:54Yeah.
14:5540?
14:56Yeah.
14:57This is serious.
14:59Because you've got a son at home who thinks you're the greatest person in the entire world.
15:04And he's going to want you to be there for a long, long time.
15:07He's the best.
15:10So we got to get to work.
15:11We have a team that we're going to involve with this that are going to tell you the kind of things that you need to do the dietary lifestyle changes and show you how to do that.
15:22You got to go clean the refrigerator out.
15:24The whole thing.
15:26You know, you joke, but it wouldn't be a bad idea.
15:28No.
15:30I've learned to have to lose 40 pounds in a month.
15:34That's going to be really hard, but I think I got it.
15:38Well, listen, guys, it was wonderful to meet you.
15:39Nice to meet you.
15:40See you soon.
15:41Bye now.
15:42Bye.
15:43Bye.
15:45One more?
15:47I'll help you.
15:49Okay.
16:02All right, guys.
16:03Are you ready?
16:04Are you ready for this?
16:05I'm going to show you what's in my fridge.
16:07I have some yummy yogurts in here that, I mean, I don't really know if I'm going to survive on yogurt, but I'm definitely going to give it my best shot.
16:16And when I got a sweet tooth, I go for my unsweetened applesauce.
16:21It's pretty good.
16:22It's pretty good.
16:23When Dr. Potter told me I had to lose 40 pounds in a month, my brain was like, phew.
16:31That's going to be really hard.
16:33We'll see.
16:34You're doing a little afternoon walk.
16:35Say hi.
16:36There you go.
16:49You can do it.
16:51I don't like exercising at all, but Derek's here with me.
17:00He's always supported me in anything.
17:02So I think this is just going to be something else that he can support me in.
17:05And obviously he could lose some weight as well.
17:08So this is great for him too.
17:11Oh God.
17:15This is harder than it looks.
17:18I'm done.
17:19So I've been on my diet for about a week, eating a whole lot of healthy food options.
17:35I went walking once or twice, but I haven't really been exercising.
17:41I don't like your typical gym.
17:42I like fun and exciting things.
17:44I'm playful.
17:45I'm flirty and try to be that sexy person for my husband.
17:50So right now I'm about to try a really fun pole dancing class.
17:54I love to be able to try new things.
17:55Right then and there, it's spice.
17:58Hi.
17:59I'm Nikki.
18:00Nice to meet you.
18:01Oh, nice to meet you, Nikki.
18:02I'm here for the session.
18:03Yes, we've been expecting you.
18:05Okay.
18:06So are you ready to go?
18:07Yes.
18:08Just follow me to the back here.
18:10We do get women of her size in our classes, absolutely.
18:13Okay.
18:15There's usually concerns about, am I going to be the largest person in class?
18:19Is everyone going to be looking at me?
18:21So we just try to reassure all women that it's not weight that makes you sexy.
18:26It's inside that makes you sexy.
18:28Okay.
18:29So Nikki, so tell us, why did you want to try pole dancing?
18:32Well, I've always wanted to.
18:35Okay.
18:36But honestly, I heard it was a really good workout.
18:39Awesome.
18:40Being on the pole is the same thing as the gym, except your equipment is upright.
18:46Holy cow.
18:48These instructors, they're really skinny and really pretty.
18:51Next to them, I don't feel sexy.
18:55I mean, I think I'm pretty, but I think I'm pretty from here up.
18:58All right, so come to behind your pole.
18:59Oh, you can have both hands on the pole.
19:00Okay.
19:01Feel nice and secure.
19:03All right.
19:04So we're thrusting forward, to the side, back, and side.
19:05There you go.
19:06Nice little hip roll.
19:07You got it.
19:08Yes.
19:09Bend the standing leg and then take the other leg up.
19:11Pull.
19:12You got it.
19:13There.
19:14Raise that left leg up.
19:15Bring it up.
19:16Yes.
19:17All right.
19:18So take those hands down the side of your face.
19:20Down your shoulders.
19:21Melt it all the way down.
19:22Yes.
19:23Okay.
19:24And roll those wrists the opposite way.
19:25Yes.
19:26You got it.
19:27Yes.
19:28Yes.
19:29Yes.
19:30Yes.
19:31Yes.
19:32Now you're going to roll those shoulders, bring them forward, up to your ears, back and down.
19:49Nice big shoulder rolls.
19:53I don't feel the sexiness yet.
19:55It's coming.
19:56That's okay.
19:57It's coming.
19:58This is the warm-up version of the sexiness.
19:59Yeah.
20:00Okay.
20:01You're going to bring your chest forward to the pole.
20:04And then drop that chest back.
20:06Oh, this is awkward for me.
20:07So awkward.
20:08It's okay.
20:09I look huge, guys.
20:12Yes, ma'am.
20:14You look great.
20:16Oh, you're going to make me cry.
20:18All right.
20:19It's a little awkward.
20:20Okay.
20:21It's okay.
20:22So bring it back to neutral and we're going to go the other way because we got to do both
20:26sides, right?
20:27You all right?
20:30It's okay.
20:31It's okay.
20:32You're okay.
20:33I know it's hard initially.
20:37What part are you feeling awkward about?
20:43Looking at myself now and then like looking at you guys because y'all are so pretty.
20:50But you're very pretty.
20:51So prettiness comes from within.
20:54It really doesn't come based on a size.
20:58We always think of sexiness as an aura.
21:01An aura always comes from within.
21:03There are women of all sizes who have no confidence whatsoever.
21:07And so just try to be like, you know, I just don't care if this is me.
21:10This is who I am.
21:11This is where I'm at today.
21:12And I love where I'm at today and where I'm going.
21:15Like I know I'm pretty, but like I want to feel pretty like all the time.
21:24With no ifs, ands, buts about it.
21:26You know, I have 40 pounds to lose.
21:28And my goal seems like a super impossible task.
21:34I have a long way to go.
21:37How's your month been?
21:41I realized that I am an emotional eater.
21:44So there was a lot of cheat days.
21:47I'm really nervous.
21:49I'm just in shock.
21:52This is going to put you in an early grave.
21:58I went and got food.
22:03I got us two chicken sandwiches and some fries.
22:07Oh, okay.
22:08Yeah.
22:10So I have my weigh-in coming up.
22:14And it's not going too great.
22:17I feel like every time I drive past a fast food restaurant, I'm like,
22:21let's stop.
22:22Who's going to numb my feeling?
22:24I don't know.
22:26I've cheated a lot.
22:31My failed pole dancing class definitely pushed me over the edge.
22:37I felt defeated.
22:38And I went through the drive-through and I got my favorite meal.
22:43I'll get me some chicken nuggets.
22:47Right now I'm feeling kind of bad and ashamed, disappointed.
22:59I want to give up because I've already failed.
23:03So I have an approval appointment coming up and if I'm disappointed in myself,
23:09if I step on that scale and it's not exactly what we want to see,
23:14you know, everyone else is going to be disappointed, even the doctor.
23:16Yeah, I'm feeling pretty defeated.
23:29The doctor's ready for you.
23:30Thank you.
23:31Mm-hmm.
23:32I'm super nervous for my approval appointment for surgery.
23:44I'm crossing fingers, crossing toes, praying that even the little amount that I did was enough.
23:52We'll see.
23:56Nikki, how are you?
23:57Hi, good, how are you?
23:58Good, it's good to see you again.
23:59Yeah.
24:00You here by yourself today?
24:01Yes, by myself.
24:02Okay.
24:03I suppose it's been a month.
24:05Mm-hmm.
24:06Wow.
24:07How's your month been?
24:08I realized that I am an emotional eater in this month.
24:13So it was a lot of cheat days.
24:17I feel like you're trying to tell me you're not going to make weight.
24:22I'm really nervous.
24:24This was my shot.
24:26I met you a month ago.
24:28You were 470 pounds.
24:30Yes.
24:31I told you I wanted you to lose 40 pounds in a month.
24:35Let's see where we are.
24:36Gosh.
24:39All right, whenever you're ready.
24:43Four hundred ninety-three pounds.
24:58Mm-hmm.
25:00You actually gained twenty-three pounds in the last month.
25:04Seeing 493 on the scale, I am kind of in shock.
25:15I wasn't prepared to see twenty-three pound weight gain difference.
25:21Can I have a tissue?
25:23Yeah.
25:24Yeah, thank you.
25:25Sure.
25:26Put it right there.
25:29I don't know if I'm disappointed or just in shock.
25:32I give patients these weight loss goals so they can prove to themselves that they can meet a goal,
25:38that they can have a bit of a success.
25:41I don't know when I've ever seen a patient come in after a weight loss challenge,
25:45having instead gained twenty-three pounds.
25:47I really don't even know how to react to that.
25:50I know you're disappointed.
25:51I'm disappointed in myself.
25:53You're gonna rob your child of his mother.
25:57No, I'm not.
25:58Yeah, the way you're going, you are.
26:00Because I'm gonna do it if you give me a chance.
26:03Okay?
26:04This is where it gets real.
26:06This is where you decide if you want to live.
26:08This is where you decide who you want your son to grow up with.
26:12I think you really need some psychological support on this.
26:17Things are always going to come up in life.
26:19We've got to figure out a different way to deal with it because this,
26:22this is just going to put you in an early grave.
26:25I don't want to die.
26:28Now I want to see you die.
26:35I'll give you another month to lose forty pounds.
26:37Same goal, one extra month.
26:42Yes, sir.
26:43All right.
26:49So moving forward, there will be no more bad foods in the house.
26:53Bye-bye, cupcakes.
26:55Bye-bye, donuts.
26:56Are you going to miss the chocolate chips?
26:58Yeah.
26:59I'm kind of flipping out a little bit.
27:01Just a little bit.
27:03Bye, cheesecake.
27:04Bye.
27:06Everything.
27:19What are you doing?
27:20I'm throwing away all this junk food.
27:22Why?
27:24How am I going to lose any weight?
27:27If I'm eating donuts.
27:29When I didn't make my first weight goal, it was devastating to everybody and myself.
27:34Um, Dr. Potter was disappointed in me.
27:36After talking with Dr. Potter's psychiatrist, it definitely feels like a wake-up call.
27:41I know that now I have to put my big girl panties on and start over and do it again.
27:47You see this?
27:48All this.
27:49Say bye.
27:50Say bye, girl.
27:51Say bye to the chips.
27:52Getting rid of all the chips and cookies.
27:53Bye-bye.
27:54For now one, there's no more bad food in this house.
27:59All right.
28:00We all are going to go burn.
28:02Burn, baby.
28:03Burn.
28:04Bye-bye, cupcakes.
28:05Bye-bye, donuts.
28:06Say bye-bye, donuts.
28:07Bye-bye, donuts.
28:08Bye-bye, donuts.
28:09Bye-bye, donuts.
28:10Bye-bye, chocolate chips.
28:11Are you going to miss the chocolate chips?
28:12Yep.
28:13Are you going to miss the ramen noodle?
28:14Yeah.
28:15But you know it's good because Mommy needs to lose weight, right?
28:16Yeah.
28:17So Mommy can get approved for surgery.
28:18Yep.
28:19When I get surgery, I'm going to become that badass softball mom so he can see it.
28:22Bye-bye.
28:23Say bye-bye.
28:24Bye-bye.
28:25All right.
28:26Brian's going to be like, Mommy, I'm so proud of you.
28:27That's going to be the best day ever.
28:28Bye, cheesecake.
28:29Bye.
28:30Everything.
28:32I can't do it.
28:33I can't do it.
28:34I can't do it.
28:35I can't do it.
28:36I can't do it.
28:37I can't do it.
28:38I can't do it.
28:39I can't do it.
28:40I can't do it.
28:41I can't do it.
28:42I can't do it.
28:43I can do this and I will.
28:46So I didn't make my first weight goal.
28:49My second approval appointment with Dr. Proctor.
28:52It was in two weeks.
28:53So I'm kind of flipping out a little bit.
28:56Just a little bit.
28:58But you know, I'm going to give it my best shot.
29:01I want to slay it.
29:08Good evening.
29:09Welcome to Bambi Kitchen Room.
29:12Or I should say Nicky's Kitchen.
29:14Oh, yeah.
29:18Gonna eat so healthy.
29:21Feeling excited.
29:22Because I've really been doing what I'm supposed to be doing.
29:25Diet.
29:26I've been drinking water.
29:27I've been walking.
29:30I've been working out.
29:33And when I feel overwhelmed or mad sad or any kind of major emotion, I'll just write in my new cute journals that my therapist gave me.
29:46And see if it can help calm me down instead of food.
29:50Thank you.
29:51All right.
29:52Hey, Dr. Proctor.
29:53Hey, Karen.
29:54You have that Zoom appointment with Nicky Etheridge to approve her for surgery.
29:57Thank you.
29:58Thank you.
29:59Appreciate it.
30:00You have that Zoom appointment with Nicky Etheridge to approve her for surgery.
30:05Thank you.
30:05Thank you.
30:06Appreciate it.
30:08All right.
30:10Nicky.
30:12Hi.
30:13Hey, can you hear me?
30:14How are you?
30:15I'm wonderful.
30:16How have things been going since we last met?
30:19Great.
30:20Good.
30:20I've been walking and drinking water and eating everything I'm supposed to.
30:25Where do you think you are?
30:26You think you've lost weight?
30:27I mean, I definitely think I've lost weight, but we're going to find out.
30:32Yeah.
30:33You got a scale there?
30:35Yeah, hold on.
30:35Let's see what we can do.
30:37Dr. Proctor originally gave me a goal to lose 40 pounds in a month.
30:41So I didn't make my first weight goal.
30:43He's like, you know, I'm going to give you another chance.
30:45You got a second chance.
30:47I have been checking at home, but it kind of fluctuates.
30:51So I really don't know how much I weigh.
30:54I'm nervous.
30:54All right, are you ready?
30:58I'm ready.
30:58Let's see.
31:00Hold on, guys.
31:03I see it.
31:05I can see it.
31:06You're at 460 pounds.
31:09That's a huge turnaround.
31:10I am 460 pounds.
31:11That's fantastic.
31:12You put a lot of effort in this, but you didn't completely meet the goal that I gave you.
31:21But you made some amazing changes in your life, and there's going to be some collateral good come from this.
31:26You are going to make incredible changes in your son's life, so let's take this momentum, and let's move forward with your surgery.
31:33Yeah!
31:35Okay.
31:36Congratulations, Nikki.
31:37Oh, my gosh.
31:39I was not expecting him to say that.
31:41It's shocking.
31:42I'm very thankful, and if this ain't motivation, I don't know what is.
31:48You put the work in.
31:49You've shown the effort.
31:50I'm excited for you.
31:52Even though she didn't hit that 40-pound weight loss goal, she was close, and I'm more impressed with the mental turnaround that she's made.
31:59That's what tells me she's ready to move forward with surgery.
32:01I'll float her those last seven pounds, and she'll have to make it up for me on the other end.
32:06Congratulations.
32:07I'm excited for you.
32:08This is going to be a huge new thing for your life.
32:11Yes!
32:12Let's get going on it, okay?
32:13Thank you!
32:15Bye now.
32:25I think I packed enough stuff.
32:28Probably.
32:29You always do.
32:31I overpack.
32:40It's the morning of my weight loss surgery, and I'm feeling all different kind of emotions.
32:47Happy, sad, scared.
32:50It's all in one.
32:54I'm starting to freak out inside.
32:56Just think, you're going to come out, you're going to be a totally different woman, healthier for your son, for us, and for yourself.
33:09What if my body doesn't handle it well?
33:13It will.
33:15I'm really scared of, like, the whole thing.
33:17It's going to be okay, baby.
33:18I am terrified.
33:22I'm scared I'm going to die on the table, or I'm scared I'm going to go home and, like, two days later, have a blood clot.
33:28I want to live and be around for my son.
33:33I'm sorry.
33:33Just make sure Brian knows how much mama loves him.
33:44I will.
33:45I want to love.
33:57You set?
33:57I say so.
33:59A little nervous?
34:02¿Score un poco?
34:03¿Qué va a hacer?
34:03¿No has algo raro con esto?
34:04¿No estás nervioso?
34:05You're going to do great.
34:05I'll come find you in a little while, ¿ok?
34:08Weight loss surgery means freedom.
34:10Everything, walking down the street happily
34:12and not having to carry all the extra weight around.
34:17Being able to sit on the floor and play with my kid.
34:20It means being a great mom.
34:23Anesthesia, are you happy?
34:25Yes.
34:26I need one of the 8mm trail cars.
34:28Alright, I think we're ready to dock the robot
34:32Yeah, she's in surgery right now
34:35And I'm nervous and scared
34:37And just ready for her to be out
34:39And everything will be okay
34:41Will you retract that momentum for me?
34:45She deserves this
34:46After all the hard work she put in
34:47It's going to change everything about our lives
34:50Alright, let's close out
34:52Great work today
34:53So we just finished Nikki's surgery
34:55And everything went really great
34:57She didn't throw us any curveballs
34:58Everything went really great
34:59So now I'm going to go out and talk to her husband
35:01So we're all done
35:04She did really well
35:05I'll take care of
35:07I hope they'll be there
35:27So about a year ago
35:30I was on social media and I got a lot of hate
35:33Negative comments about how I should go eat another burger
35:38How I should be ashamed of even posting
35:41But who cares?
35:44Pretty much F the haters
35:45My motivation for losing weight
35:49It was really for myself
35:50And for my son
35:52What shirt do you think?
35:54Blue or the black one?
35:55Black
35:55The black one?
35:57Alright
35:57Everything's definitely changed
36:00Before I couldn't sit on the floor
36:03Or get myself up for that matter
36:04Couldn't even change my own tampon
36:07I couldn't go to certain restaurants
36:09Because I don't know if the booths move
36:11You ready to take mommy out on her big day?
36:15Yeah
36:15Alright, let's go
36:17Before we couldn't go to the movie theaters
36:20Unless they had the bigger chairs for the movies
36:23Or the arms let up
36:24Now we don't have to worry about booths
36:27When we go out to dinner
36:28Since losing the weight
36:30I discover things that I can do every day
36:32I can touch my toes
36:34Or I can clip my own toenails
36:36I'm trying to walk on the line
36:38Her confidence is coming back
36:41Her old self that I married
36:43The old Nikki is coming back
36:44It's my life
36:47I'm gonna only be doing what I was
36:50When I wanted
36:52It's my life
36:53Bathrooms, party of three
36:55Awesome
36:56Great
36:56Follow me
36:57When I wanted to do nothing
37:00When I was at my heaviest
37:02I was at 493
37:05And I've lost over 250 pounds
37:08I want to get to about 180
37:10And I think that I can
37:12Moving forward
37:15I want to go back to school
37:16And get my GED
37:17And I want to go work at an ER
37:19As a philbotomist
37:20And then I want to be the best mom I can be
37:22Tell a little man how much you've lost
37:25Like 250 pounds
37:27What?
37:29That's a what, ain't it?
37:30Mommy's changed a lot since surgery, hasn't she?
37:33You like big mommy or little mommy?
37:35Little mama
37:35Why?
37:36They can do a lot more things with us
37:39Like what?
37:40Play baseball
37:41A year ago
37:46We would go to the baseball field
37:48And I would have to sit in the car
37:50Because I just physically couldn't do it
37:53And now, after losing all the weight
37:55I'm able to get on the field with Derek and Brian
37:57What?
37:59Woo!
38:00First try
38:01Go Nikki!
38:04Woo!
38:05It was really heartwarming
38:08To see her running around the bases
38:09Because we have a pick-up game every Friday
38:12And she hasn't come to our game at all
38:14This is the first time she's come
38:16And for her to be able to run the bases
38:17Not just walk, but run the bases
38:20It was just awesome
38:21Good job!
38:23Way to go!
38:24So proud of you
38:25That was amazing
38:27She's happy, which makes me happy
38:31Brian's happy
38:32I mean, I couldn't ask for more
38:34As a dad
38:35Well, that was fun, y'all
38:37Family house
38:38Family house
38:39It was just fun to be there
38:41In the moment
38:42Playing with Brian
38:43On the field
38:45Instead of sitting in the car
38:46And that makes me feel good
38:47And on top of that
38:49I got a very big surprise for Brian
38:53Close your eyes
38:54All right, open them
38:56What?
38:57All right, Brian, can you read this?
38:59Yeah
38:59It says, best big bro
39:02Do you know what that means?
39:02You want to be a big brother?
39:04Are you serious?
39:04Yeah, mommy's serious
39:06There's a baby interbound
39:07I know they tell you after surgery
39:10You're not supposed to get pregnant
39:11Until the doctor releases you
39:13Or for 12 months
39:14We weren't really preventing it
39:16But I never thought that it would happen to me
39:18But here we are
39:20I mean, I kind of still don't believe it
39:23Are you excited?
39:24Do you want to give me a baby?
39:26Mmm
39:27I'll let you help
39:30We'll give you some options
39:31How about that?
39:32Okay
39:32We tried for so many years
39:35But the magic key was her losing the weight
39:37And now we got a baby on the way
39:40You gonna change the diapers?
39:42Yeah, dad
39:42You have to do the changing neckers
39:44I hope it's a girl
39:45I'm a little sister
39:48I've worked really hard to lose this weight
39:54And I just want people to know
39:56That if I can do it, you can do it
39:59Because I was a big self-doubter
40:01And I just kept pushing
40:02I knew that I saw something bigger for myself
40:04I'm excited about moving forward
40:06And I'm really excited for the new little one
40:09Mama, what if you have two babies?
40:12We never know
40:13Don't wish that upon me
40:18Next time on Dangerously Obese
40:32See, I'm in here
40:33Oh my goodness, did the wheel just pop?
40:37I'm Keith
40:37Everybody calls me KC
40:39I don't think we both can pull our thigh up in this car
40:41I'm just saying
40:42See, I got one nigga
40:43I'm LaShawn
40:45We've been married for 11 years
40:47We like to go experience different types of food
40:50We don't want to think about every little calorie
40:53I kind of went overboard with three out of your face
40:56You gonna really eat all that?
40:58Whatever
40:58I know this is kind of difficult
41:03Helping me pan the foot like this
41:05It's all right
41:06It stopped our marriage at a certain point
41:09This has been really hard
41:10And I don't know what else to do
41:13I don't have to tell you
41:15You're kind of a ticking time bomb
41:16Keith may not live another five or six years
41:19If he doesn't do something about his weight
41:21Very, very quickly
41:22I'm hitting my two miles
41:24Why are you starting with five pounds?
41:26I'm doing the best I can
41:27Biggest fear is
41:28My weight is beyond repair
41:30I don't want to be hooked up to no hoes
41:32You know what I'm saying?
41:34I don't want to have
41:35That would be something to deal with
41:37I don't want to die
41:39I don't want to die
41:43I don't want to die
41:45Gracias por ver el video.
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