- 19 hours ago
Category
📺
TVTranscript
00:00:00Welcome to stunning Cape Town in South Africa, right here in the cradle of
00:00:18humankind, where many believe the Garden of Eden once stood, where the very first
00:00:25love story began. A city where the coast is dramatic, the wilderness is majestic, and
00:00:34the love is epic. This is the final chapter in Bear, our golden bachelor's
00:00:41search for love. At the beginning of this journey, 20 incredible women arrived at
00:00:48the mansion. Now, only two women remain. For one of them, the fairy tale comes true
00:00:57tonight. Hold on tight, because Bear's epic journey to find love comes to its
00:01:02dramatic finale, right here in South Africa's romantic soul, Cape Town.
00:01:09The love of my life passed away 14 years ago. Big family kiss come. I know deep down no
00:01:23one can replace her, but I think I'm ready to find my next love story. Do you think lightning
00:01:30can strike twice? Let's hope so. 20 incredible women, set their sights on finding love with
00:01:46the golden bachelor. I'd really love that feeling of falling in love again. I've got butterflies
00:01:52in winter. Full of fearless strength. Kim is just grabbing life by the horns. Bear being a widower,
00:02:05we just understand each other. And ageless beauty. It's really nice to receive something so special
00:02:14just for me. Nor will take your Lea wife's place. But the road to love is never easy. If you didn't
00:02:24receive a rose, please take a moment to say your goodbyes. I'm ready to fall in love. This was a good
00:02:32try. Until Bear opened his heart. Sonny, will you accept this rose? Absolutely. To two very different
00:02:40women. Jeanette, will you accept this rose? Yes, a hundred times. Tonight, we travel halfway across the globe
00:02:50for the final decision. I'm opening my heart after all these years. That's a really scary thing to do.
00:02:59Two final spectacular dates. Zipras! Zipras! I don't want to have another regret. I have to get that
00:03:08courage up to tell Bear how I feel. As Bear faces the ultimate choice.
00:03:17Let's see if we have any friends with us. Oh, they're joining us. I'm hoping to have till death
00:03:24to us apart. But will coming face to face with Bear's family... What do you like about my dad?
00:03:33Um, prove too much. Are you comfortable getting straight back into a relationship?
00:03:39The questions are intense. They are coming in hot and fast. Did you find love, do you think?
00:03:45Um... Finally, our golden bachelor's heart is ready. So you've found the one? Yes. I'm in love.
00:03:54The question is... The question is... I've found the one. With which remarkable woman?
00:04:07This love is going to last forever.
00:04:09When I lost Audrey, I didn't think I'd ever fall in love again. I can't believe I'm here.
00:04:34I've fallen for two women. But I don't know what the right choice is. And I have some real concerns
00:04:42that either of them can truly see a real future with me.
00:04:46Now I've found you.
00:04:48Wow. From the first moment I laid eyes on Jeanette, there was a spark. How are you feeling?
00:04:55Oh, I'm nervous. Me too. I have butterflies.
00:04:58That's why I chose her for the very first single date. Beautiful day. Beautiful woman.
00:05:06She's adventurous. She's a young at heart, vibrant woman. The chemistry between us is sensational.
00:05:15And there certainly is a deep connection there. But at one point, she really started to pull back.
00:05:26You felt the same way?
00:05:29She's had so many chances to tell me what's in her heart.
00:05:32I'll see you soon.
00:05:33All right. We're so close to the end. And I still don't know where I stand with Jeanette.
00:05:43Hi, I'm Sunny. S-U-W-N-Y.
00:05:46Sunny, yeah.
00:05:47Yeah, I brought Sunny here.
00:05:50Sunny from day one, she's just full of joy.
00:05:55She's such a bright and beautiful person. She's incredibly confident.
00:06:00And accomplished. She's a CEO in a male-dominated field. She's raised three kids. She's multi-talented.
00:06:11She's completely unique. But she's also overcome some devastating challenges.
00:06:16In 2017, I got diagnosed with breast cancer.
00:06:22And yet, she's so positive and open.
00:06:26My feelings, you know, it's grown a lot. And I'm in love with you, so...
00:06:33Oh, really?
00:06:34Sunny saying she's falling in love with me is everything to me. It's why I'm here.
00:06:41But my concern with Sunny is she's only been single for a short time.
00:06:45My relationship officially ended less than six months, six months plus minus.
00:06:53So I don't really know if she thinks of me as a rebound relationship or are her feelings true.
00:06:58When I lost Audrey, my family were my support network.
00:07:13My sons are everything to me.
00:07:15I don't ever want them to think that this is a replacement for their mother.
00:07:20I want them to see this as someone that can give me happiness for the rest of my life.
00:07:26We've been through so much together.
00:07:30They got me through the storm, and it's only fitting that I have them here with me for this.
00:07:36And they're the final part in me making this choice.
00:07:41Hey!
00:07:42What the hell?
00:07:43Hey!
00:07:44Look at this, mate!
00:07:45Hey!
00:07:46I brought my brother Tim from Toronto and two of my boys.
00:07:50Hello, Dad.
00:07:52My oldest boy, Charlie.
00:07:54Long time no stay.
00:07:56And my middle boy, Jack.
00:07:57Oh, my goodness.
00:07:58Unfortunately, my youngest son, Declan, had to work and couldn't be here with me.
00:08:02How you doing, bro?
00:08:06We are an incredibly close family, so I'm not going to make any choice without their opinions.
00:08:12So you're down to the last two, eh?
00:08:15Last two.
00:08:16Yeah, right.
00:08:16You're going to meet them today.
00:08:18Do you have any idea on who you're picking?
00:08:20Uh, not yet, no.
00:08:22No?
00:08:22It's been one of the toughest things I've ever done.
00:08:25I care deeply for them both.
00:08:28We've all, you know, we've been through a long road together.
00:08:32It's been quite the journey.
00:08:33Yeah, sure.
00:08:34Yeah, sure.
00:08:35What's their names?
00:08:35Jeanette and Sonny.
00:08:37I need your approval, of course.
00:08:40You guys are going to meet them as well.
00:08:41So if we say no, it's off?
00:08:43Well, we can discuss it.
00:08:45I trust your judgment.
00:08:46Yeah.
00:08:47I'm sure you picked good ladies.
00:08:49Yeah.
00:08:49So we're really excited to meet these two young ladies.
00:08:53We have questions that we're obviously going to ask, but is there anything you need from us, or...?
00:08:58Well, with Jeanette, who you're going to meet first, I am concerned that she's, um, she pulls back a bit, puts her walls up.
00:09:05Mm-hmm.
00:09:06So I'm not sure if, you know, you guys might have to ask her where her head's at.
00:09:11And what are you, what are you thinking about Sonny, any...?
00:09:13Sonny hasn't been single for a long time.
00:09:15Right.
00:09:16It's only recently, like in the last six months or so, so whether she's ready to, um, take on another long-term relationship.
00:09:28Bear's been through a lot of heartache over the years, and as big brother, I'm very protective of Bear.
00:09:34I really want him to find happiness again.
00:09:38You guys have been the joy and pride of my life, and I'm glad that we're all still so close.
00:09:44I am. I'm potentially bringing someone else into the family, so it, it means a lot that I get your
00:09:50approval, and I love you boys so much.
00:09:53Love you too, old man.
00:09:54I love you too, Dad.
00:09:55You're pretty good as well.
00:10:01We just want what's best for him, because it's important to me, and it's important to our family.
00:10:08It's going to be a tough decision. I care for both of them.
00:10:11Yeah.
00:10:11I need your help.
00:10:12You got our support.
00:10:14We will be as honest as possible.
00:10:16Yeah. Well, that's good. I hope so.
00:10:18I have dreamt for years of coming to Africa.
00:10:31I have been excited all morning, and I definitely have butterflies.
00:10:35It has been a few days since I've seen Bear, and I did miss an opportunity at my hometown to tell Bear how I felt, and I do regret it.
00:10:48I risk losing what we've got because I haven't been able to say it, and letting my marriage go was a regret.
00:11:00I don't want to have another regret.
00:11:13Hello.
00:11:13How are you?
00:11:16Good. How are you?
00:11:17Good. It's good to see you.
00:11:19It's great to see you.
00:11:22Look at you.
00:11:23I know. And we are in Africa.
00:11:26And we are in South Africa.
00:11:28This is my dream.
00:11:29This is a bucket list.
00:11:30Yeah, it is a bucket list.
00:11:31Yeah.
00:11:31You're going to meet two of my sons and my oldest brother.
00:11:35That's exciting.
00:11:36I know.
00:11:37What can I do to impress them?
00:11:39You just be yourself.
00:11:40I'll just be me.
00:11:41All right.
00:11:42Okay.
00:11:42Let's go.
00:11:43Let's go.
00:11:44My family's opinion of Bear was of the utmost importance to me because I value what they think.
00:11:51So I'm thinking this will be the same.
00:11:54I think it'll be a big deal to Bear.
00:11:57It's been a long time since I've met someone's family members, and I'm nervous because I don't know
00:12:04what's going to happen.
00:12:05Hey.
00:12:05Hello.
00:12:06Hello.
00:12:06Hey.
00:12:07Careful.
00:12:07Hello.
00:12:08Hi. How's it going?
00:12:09How are you?
00:12:11Charlie.
00:12:11Nice to meet you.
00:12:12Nice to meet you.
00:12:13Hi.
00:12:14This is Jack.
00:12:14Hi, Jack.
00:12:15Hi.
00:12:16I'm Tim.
00:12:16I'm the brother.
00:12:17Hello.
00:12:18Hello, Tim the brother.
00:12:19Yeah.
00:12:20I'm the middle child.
00:12:21Middle child.
00:12:22Oldest.
00:12:22The troubled child.
00:12:25You guys have been having fun the last few weeks?
00:12:27Yeah.
00:12:27Yeah.
00:12:28I'm sure it's been a bit of an emotional rollercoaster and all.
00:12:31Yes, it has.
00:12:32Yeah?
00:12:33You're still happy to be here?
00:12:34Yeah.
00:12:35Lovely.
00:12:35What abouts you do for work?
00:12:37I'm a Pilates instructor.
00:12:38Oh, okay.
00:12:39Do you run your own studio?
00:12:40I do, yes.
00:12:41Oh, lovely.
00:12:41Nice.
00:12:41Yeah, yeah.
00:12:42You work out a lot.
00:12:43Yeah, I do.
00:12:43Oh, well, one day, one day you can let me challenge you.
00:12:47Oh, no, you'll smoke me anything Pilates related.
00:12:50Oh, yeah.
00:12:53Jeanette seemed very lovely.
00:12:55She seemed super active, cool, kind of relaxed, easy going.
00:12:59Definitely someone I can see my father with.
00:13:01Yeah, good impressions from the get-go.
00:13:03Me and Charlie both really like her.
00:13:04I think she'll fit in well.
00:13:07So, I think it's time to maybe go and have a little chat to chat.
00:13:12Okay.
00:13:13Can you be gentle with me?
00:13:15I will, of course, of course.
00:13:16I do get the feeling Tim is here not just representing himself,
00:13:21but I think the whole family.
00:13:23And it is a big family.
00:13:26So, it's a little bit intimidating
00:13:28because I know he's going to report back.
00:13:31See you, boys.
00:13:32Enjoy.
00:13:32See you guys soon.
00:13:34So, Bear told me that Jeanette had some walls up
00:13:37and I'd like to dig a little deeper
00:13:40and find out exactly how she feels about Bear.
00:13:44It's been, we really want him to have a happy life.
00:13:47We want him to find love.
00:13:49He's got a tough choice to make,
00:13:51so I just want to make sure that he's making the right one.
00:13:55You really got along well together, it sounds like.
00:13:58We do get along really well.
00:14:00That's fantastic.
00:14:00I think we've got a really nice connection.
00:14:03Yeah?
00:14:03Yeah.
00:14:03Yeah, that's good because he's, it's been a while.
00:14:06You know, he's been single for a long time.
00:14:08And you, have you been married before?
00:14:10I have been married before.
00:14:11Okay.
00:14:12Yeah.
00:14:13Why did you choose to come on this show?
00:14:17Well, for love.
00:14:18Honest to God truth, I came on to find love.
00:14:22Yeah, I came in for the right reason.
00:14:24Oh, that's good.
00:14:26And you were married before, how long ago was that?
00:14:28My marriage ended in 2005.
00:14:32Okay.
00:14:33The divorce?
00:14:34Yes.
00:14:34Yes, okay.
00:14:35Yes.
00:14:35The questions from Tim are intense.
00:14:38What do you think the reason was, you know, when you got divorced, do you feel?
00:14:42I can see his mind conjuring up the next question before I've even got my answer out for the one
00:14:47he's just presently asked me.
00:14:49We want to make sure, you know, everyone's hoping that he finds love.
00:14:53Yes.
00:14:54And so do you, did you find love, do you think?
00:14:59It's a difficult question, but you know, he deserves to be happy, he deserves to be loved.
00:15:03Yeah, look, I think, um, um, I just, um, I, I won't say I love him at the moment.
00:15:17Right.
00:15:18Why?
00:15:18Did you find love, do you think?
00:15:34Are you?
00:15:36It's a difficult question, but you know, he deserves to be happy, he deserves to be loved.
00:15:41I won't say I love him at the moment.
00:15:44Right.
00:15:45Why?
00:15:45I think it's too soon to say that.
00:15:51This is a short period.
00:15:52It's a very short period, but it's going to be, there's going to be a decision made.
00:15:56He's been through a lot over the years.
00:15:59Our concern, of course, is that he finds somebody who is going to have a strong connection to him.
00:16:05Do you feel you're ready for another relationship?
00:16:08Um, I, it's been a very slowish progression.
00:16:15It's been about six weeks.
00:16:17Yeah.
00:16:17You've had some dates with him.
00:16:19How do you feel about him now?
00:16:21I just, um, I'm not sure that I can, I think I definitely love spending time with him.
00:16:32I don't think it's, you can place a word on it.
00:16:34You just know.
00:16:35Yeah.
00:16:35There's something.
00:16:36I was working up a sweat answering all of Tim's questions.
00:16:43There is obviously very important to him, but it's just left me feeling it was just a disaster.
00:16:51And I don't think he was very impressed with me.
00:16:55I am scared to let myself go completely.
00:16:58And I'm really disappointed in myself.
00:17:01Well, thank you very much for your honesty.
00:17:03Let's go back and see the guys.
00:17:05It's concerning to me that she wasn't able to say she has feelings for him.
00:17:10The idea is for my brother to find love.
00:17:13And so that concerned me a little bit.
00:17:16I was wondering if she was, you know, coming into the experience with the right sort of mindset.
00:17:23He's got a tough choice to make, so I just want to make sure that he's making the right one.
00:17:27It grilled you a bit?
00:17:29Tim was a bit tough.
00:17:31I'm a softie.
00:17:33Like your family, we're very close, very protective.
00:17:36Yeah.
00:17:36You know.
00:17:37Just want the best form.
00:17:38Yeah, of course.
00:17:40And a lot of testosterone.
00:17:42So we were saying it'd be good to get some pheromones in the mix once in a while.
00:17:47Yeah, yeah.
00:17:47Get the equilibrium back about...
00:17:49Feminine energy.
00:17:50Anyhow.
00:17:52Time to go.
00:17:53I think you have to leave.
00:17:54I'll do.
00:17:55Do you want to say your goodbyes?
00:17:56I do.
00:17:57It was lovely.
00:17:58It was so nice to meet you.
00:18:00So nice to meet you.
00:18:02Nice to meet you.
00:18:02Nice to meet you.
00:18:03Nice to meet you.
00:18:04How's it feel down here?
00:18:05It was lovely to meet you.
00:18:07Good to meet you too.
00:18:09I look forward to seeing you again.
00:18:11Yeah, we said it's good.
00:18:11Having that beer.
00:18:12Yeah, having that beer.
00:18:13And putting you through your paces, yeah.
00:18:15Okay, see you.
00:18:16See you guys.
00:18:17See you.
00:18:17Have a good one.
00:18:18See ya.
00:18:20Well, yesterday you met Jeanette.
00:18:31Yeah.
00:18:31I hope she ticked a lot of boxes for you guys.
00:18:34She did, she did.
00:18:35Yep.
00:18:35Well, today you're meeting Sonny.
00:18:38Fantastic.
00:18:38Yeah, I'm looking forward to that.
00:18:40I'm days away from making a huge decision.
00:18:43Who can I spend the rest of my life with?
00:18:45Jeanette or Sonny?
00:18:47I'm excited to meet Sonny now.
00:18:48I'm to the next.
00:18:49So I'm grateful to have my family here to help me,
00:18:52especially because I'm worried about Sonny.
00:18:53Sonny's the CEO of an IT company.
00:18:57Oh, wow.
00:18:58Nice.
00:18:58She's beautiful, intelligent, and a ball of energy.
00:19:03I see.
00:19:03She's just so full of joy.
00:19:06Yeah, and whereas Jeanette has a guard up, she's not sure.
00:19:09Sonny's a bit opposite to that.
00:19:11She just comes out guns blazing.
00:19:13She just says...
00:19:14What she thinks.
00:19:15She says what she thinks.
00:19:16She knows what she wants.
00:19:18Any concerns you might have with her that we need to...
00:19:20Well, she's only...
00:19:21I'd say the big concern is she's only been single for a short period of time.
00:19:25Yeah.
00:19:25Like, maybe about six months.
00:19:28You don't want to feel like a rebound at all.
00:19:30Yeah, so...
00:19:31That would be a concern, yeah, for sure.
00:19:33Barry Kane and Mehta.
00:19:34My dream is to find my true love, and now...
00:19:57Oh, my God.
00:19:58I'm in Cape Town, South Africa.
00:20:01I can't believe it.
00:20:04I'm hoping I'm about to have my dream come true.
00:20:13With Bae, he is so genuine.
00:20:16I'm in love with him.
00:20:20But after talking to my two daughters,
00:20:22I'm a bit nervous that maybe the feeling is not mutual.
00:20:26I'm a bit concerned because it seems like you're more into him than he's into you.
00:20:31Yeah.
00:20:34This is very important to meet his family because I start to see the future with Bae.
00:20:43So I'm a bit nervous, but I've always been open book, so I'm going to be myself because I believe he's the one for me and I don't want to have any regrets.
00:20:57Oh, my God.
00:21:03Oh, my God.
00:21:05Oh, so good to see you.
00:21:07Oh, my God.
00:21:08Look at you.
00:21:09Look at you.
00:21:09You look fabulous.
00:21:10Oh, thank you.
00:21:11You look beautiful.
00:21:12You look beautiful too.
00:21:12I missed you.
00:21:14Yeah, I missed you too.
00:21:15Really?
00:21:15How are you in?
00:21:17Oh, I feel really good because I've finally met you now.
00:21:20You're here?
00:21:20Yeah, I'm here.
00:21:21And then I can't wait to meet your family.
00:21:23I am so excited to sit in.
00:21:25Yeah?
00:21:26A little bit nervous?
00:21:26Oh, a bit nervous.
00:21:28But I'm going to be me.
00:21:31I absolutely love seeing Sunny every time I see her.
00:21:33She just brings a lot of sunshine and joy into my life.
00:21:37And I believe a future with Sunny would be just that, Sunny.
00:21:42Well, you ready?
00:21:43Yeah, I'm ready.
00:21:46I can't wait.
00:21:48But I am concerned that she's only been single for a relatively short amount of time.
00:21:53Oh, my God.
00:21:53Where are they?
00:21:55So I'm hoping that my family can find out if she's ready for a long-term relationship with me.
00:22:01Hello.
00:22:02Oh, my God.
00:22:03Hello, honey.
00:22:04You must be Tim.
00:22:05Yes, hi.
00:22:05Oh, my God.
00:22:06So nice to meet you.
00:22:07Nice to meet you.
00:22:08Oh, I'm a hugger, so I'm going to go.
00:22:10Meeting Bear's family today is just amazing.
00:22:13Lovely to meet you.
00:22:14Chick!
00:22:14Oh, nice to meet you.
00:22:16Oh, my God.
00:22:17And I'm a hugger, so I just impressed them one by one.
00:22:20It's all on the boys, how optimistic you are and how sunny you are.
00:22:25Yes.
00:22:26My nickname is actually Sunny Bunny De-Energizer.
00:22:29Love that.
00:22:30Love that.
00:22:33How's this whole experience been the last...
00:22:35Oh, my God.
00:22:35How long has been exciting, nerve-wracking, all the above?
00:22:39Actually, very, very exciting, especially meeting your dad.
00:22:42Yes.
00:22:43And so you've got two daughters and a son?
00:22:45Oh, very good.
00:22:46Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:22:47Oh, so you've told them everyone.
00:22:48A little bit, a little bit.
00:22:49He's been telling us.
00:22:49He told us lots about you.
00:22:50Excellent.
00:22:51They grilled me.
00:22:52They grilled you?
00:22:52Yeah.
00:22:53So, I think it's often to give you...
00:22:55Yes, I love that.
00:22:56Yeah, I love that.
00:22:56You want that?
00:22:57Sure?
00:22:57Yeah.
00:22:58Of course.
00:22:58Of course.
00:22:59Charlie and Jack took me to the other side of the house.
00:23:04Hey.
00:23:05How are you feeling?
00:23:06Are you feeling okay?
00:23:07Yeah.
00:23:08Yeah.
00:23:08I mean, it's so great to see you all.
00:23:11It was friendly and a lot of laughter.
00:23:14And suddenly it became very somber.
00:23:18What do you like about my dad?
00:23:19Okay, so...
00:23:25I feel like I'm being interviewed.
00:23:27About your dad, what I like about him?
00:23:29Yeah.
00:23:30All the boxes tick.
00:23:31What boxes would those be?
00:23:34And they ask me very hard questions.
00:23:37Number one is, you know, he's cute and all that.
00:23:41Oh, gosh.
00:23:42Right.
00:23:42Yeah.
00:23:43And then your dad is so strong.
00:23:46Oh, my God.
00:23:47It's like brick here.
00:23:51Oh, my God.
00:23:52So, I felt really kind of, you know, chemistry.
00:23:57There you go.
00:23:59My dad's looking for someone to share the rest of his life with,
00:24:01and he's been single now for a while.
00:24:03So, I think he's definitely ready to dive in head deep with someone.
00:24:07Yeah.
00:24:07So, we need to check her intentions, make sure they're in the right spot before anything goes ahead.
00:24:13Yeah.
00:24:14I would really not want to see my father get hurt again.
00:24:17Have you previously had a partner?
00:24:18I, oh, yes.
00:24:20I had two men in my life.
00:24:21Right.
00:24:22Yeah.
00:24:22So, my first husband, I had three kids with him.
00:24:26And then I met, um, second partner.
00:24:29And, um...
00:24:30How long did you date him for?
00:24:31Oh, no, just 16 years and 15 years.
00:24:34So, I've just been single, like, six months.
00:24:39I can see Charlie and Jack.
00:24:42They are concerned because, you know, being single, very short period of time.
00:24:47And I'm definitely very nervous.
00:24:50This is, this is going to sound a little brutal, but I might just put it out there.
00:24:54No, no, no, go.
00:24:54Being single for a short amount of time, I'd say, within a year.
00:24:58And then, obviously, meeting my father.
00:25:01Are you comfortable getting straight back into a relationship?
00:25:03Um.
00:25:05I really love my dad.
00:25:07Like, he's been our rock since we were young.
00:25:10I don't want to, like, fully, you know, tell my dad what to do.
00:25:13But if she's not ready to fully give herself to my dad, then there's a bit of an issue there.
00:25:18Do you know for certain? Because, like, we're worried, like, we just don't want our dad to get hurt.
00:25:23So, I just think Sunny could definitely be a risk.
00:25:39Being single for a short amount of time, I'd say, within a year.
00:25:43And then, obviously, meeting my father.
00:25:45Are you comfortable getting straight back into a relationship?
00:25:48Meeting Charlie and Jack.
00:25:51Straight away, immediately, they ask me very hard questions.
00:25:55Do you know for certain?
00:25:56Because, like, we're worried, like, we just don't want our dad to get hurt.
00:26:00But I just answer truthfully.
00:26:04Because I believe honesty is best policy.
00:26:07And I just feel their love for their dad.
00:26:10He's been our rock for the past 20 years.
00:26:13He's done everything for us.
00:26:14Yeah.
00:26:15I like that about him.
00:26:16Mm-hmm.
00:26:17He has very kind-hearted, very considerate.
00:26:19Yeah.
00:26:20And also deep-seated family value.
00:26:23Because he's important to me.
00:26:25Um, I'm from South Korea.
00:26:28And don't have any family members.
00:26:32And you may say, oh, so quick to meet another person.
00:26:35But I think it's perfect timing.
00:26:37All right.
00:26:37And may I be honest with you?
00:26:39Yeah, of course.
00:26:40I'm beginning to fall in love with your dad.
00:26:42Oh, you have?
00:26:43Yeah.
00:26:45Because also my two daughters said,
00:26:47Mom, I think you like him more than he likes you.
00:26:50I think it's important to be honest.
00:26:54Honest about yourself, about your true feelings.
00:26:57Thank you very much for that.
00:26:58That was lovely talking to you.
00:27:00And I just hope they feel my sincerity and love for their dad.
00:27:05Wow.
00:27:06So how are you feeling after meeting everyone?
00:27:08That's actually the best part so far, meeting you guys.
00:27:11Oh, I don't want to leave.
00:27:15I absolutely adore Bear's family.
00:27:18So nice to meet you.
00:27:19Lovely to meet you as well.
00:27:21I can picture myself and Bear together,
00:27:24and Bear's kids and my kids.
00:27:26So nice to meet you.
00:27:27Nice to meet you as well.
00:27:28This is what I always dreamed of.
00:27:30Lovely to meet you today.
00:27:31All right, thank you.
00:27:32And after meeting his family,
00:27:34I have full confidence he's the man for me.
00:27:42How are you going?
00:27:43Yeah.
00:27:44How was that?
00:27:46Yeah, I'm feeling good, yeah?
00:27:47We're very proud of you.
00:27:49It was just so lovely seeing you with both of them.
00:27:51Like, the way you kind of lit up each time you brought them in.
00:27:54It was, yeah, really lovely to see.
00:27:57So what's your opinion?
00:27:59I'll start with Jeanette.
00:28:01She's absolutely lovely.
00:28:02She's so nice.
00:28:03She seems like definitely someone that, um,
00:28:06could keep up with a lifestyle that you lead.
00:28:08Yeah.
00:28:09For me, I found that, uh, you know,
00:28:12and I pressed her on it a few times, you know, do you love him?
00:28:15And I know it's a short time and I know it's difficult to do,
00:28:19but, you know, she couldn't quite commit to that yet,
00:28:21which is, of course, what we all want for you.
00:28:23We want you to be happy.
00:28:25We want you to be in a loving relationship
00:28:27that you know is going to be long-term.
00:28:30Yeah, that's a good point.
00:28:31On the other hand, with Sunny, I could definitely see
00:28:34that she seemed, um, super eager on you and super keen.
00:28:38But, obviously, in the last 30-odd years,
00:28:40she's been single for less than a year.
00:28:44So we were a bit concerned that she maybe was just wanting
00:28:46to fill someone into her life.
00:28:49Rebound.
00:28:50Yeah.
00:28:50Like, naturally, when you've had someone in your life for so long,
00:28:53you just want to put someone else in that place
00:28:55and you might be a bit overly eager to fall in love.
00:28:58You know, I think our concern was, like,
00:29:00is that love or is that kind of lust?
00:29:02Yeah, I certainly have strong feelings for both of them.
00:29:06Um, I've got a very, very difficult decision to make.
00:29:11It feels like no matter what you pick, you'll be happy.
00:29:13And you've got our support, like, 100%.
00:29:15No matter who you pick, we're going to be here always.
00:29:18I was hoping my family would tell me which woman was right for me.
00:29:22But, unfortunately, it's just left me more confused.
00:29:26I love you, Dad.
00:29:27I love you, too.
00:29:28Hello.
00:29:42Hello.
00:29:43Hello.
00:29:43Hi.
00:29:43How are you?
00:29:44I'm good.
00:29:45How are you?
00:29:46I'm good.
00:29:47You look gorgeous.
00:29:48You look gorgeous, too.
00:29:49Oh, my God.
00:29:49Welcome.
00:29:50This is your place.
00:29:51This is my room in Cape Town.
00:29:53Pretty good, huh?
00:29:54Oh, this is stunning.
00:29:55I wanted to get you over for coffee, because I feel like we haven't had much time together,
00:29:59so I wanted to see how you were.
00:30:01Yes.
00:30:02Well, come on in.
00:30:03You know, this used to be a silo, an actual silo.
00:30:06I love this.
00:30:09Since I last saw you, you've met Bear's boys and his brother.
00:30:12Yes.
00:30:13How was that experience?
00:30:14Um, his boys are divine.
00:30:17They're beautiful.
00:30:18You know, he's done a beautiful job, and you can see the love.
00:30:22Also, Tim, Bear's older brother, came along.
00:30:26He gave me a grueling grilling, very intense questions.
00:30:31How did you answer those?
00:30:32I don't think he believed I was there for the right reasons.
00:30:36I cannot use the love word at this stage.
00:30:41And I don't feel I've got the tick of approval.
00:30:47You and Sunny could not be more different in personality types.
00:30:50I don't know. He clearly sees something special in her.
00:30:55I'm not sure what it is.
00:30:56Hmm. Sunny is very open and honest about her feelings.
00:31:01Being the only woman who hasn't expressed feelings,
00:31:04it's just left me a little bit concerned.
00:31:07If you don't let yourself fall in love,
00:31:09are you risking this chance at possible happiness?
00:31:13You've come all the way here to Cape Town,
00:31:16and you have had regrets in the past.
00:31:18Yes.
00:31:19I just need more time.
00:31:21Six weeks isn't a long time to fall in love,
00:31:25but to have the feelings that I have this quickly,
00:31:29the potential is definitely there.
00:31:31I have been single for a long time,
00:31:33and when it comes to love, it's not a race.
00:31:36It's a matter of time, and I hope Bear feels the same.
00:31:52I'm certainly conflicted coming into the last date with Jeannette.
00:32:02I have strong feelings for Jeannette.
00:32:06But my family were a bit worried.
00:32:08She may not be ready for a true commitment,
00:32:13so it makes me feel a bit tentative about jumping in.
00:32:19I need to know if she's ready to put her full heart and soul
00:32:22into a relationship.
00:32:23I need to know if she's ready to put her full heart and soul in love.
00:32:35Hi.
00:32:36Hello.
00:32:37How are you doing?
00:32:39I'm good. How are you?
00:32:40I'm good.
00:32:41Every time I see Bear, I just have the biggest grin on my face.
00:32:47And today, with this final date,
00:32:50I'm hoping to solidify in his mind that I am the perfect person for him.
00:32:57It was so nice for you to meet my family the other day.
00:33:00I loved it.
00:33:01Really enjoyed meeting them.
00:33:02Your boys are divine.
00:33:05They loved you as well.
00:33:06Oh, did they?
00:33:06And so did my brother.
00:33:07Oh, good.
00:33:08Yeah, he grilled me.
00:33:10Really?
00:33:10Yeah.
00:33:11Well, he's a protective big brother.
00:33:13I get that.
00:33:14I get that.
00:33:15He's looking out for you.
00:33:16But your boys were very gentle.
00:33:18Yeah, I really enjoyed talking to them.
00:33:21Yeah.
00:33:21Yeah.
00:33:21That's sweet.
00:33:22Well, today, we're going to meet some of the locals.
00:33:25Yeah.
00:33:26Some of the local wildlife.
00:33:28We are going on safari.
00:33:29Yes.
00:33:29Yay!
00:33:31That's fantastic.
00:33:34I'm so excited.
00:33:35Like, elation just does not describe what I'm feeling.
00:33:40If I wasn't in high heels, I'd jump up and down.
00:33:42Good job, anyway.
00:33:44When my boys were young, we were watching The Lion King over and over and over again.
00:33:49I pretended it was for the boys, but it was actually for me.
00:33:53Anything to do with wildlife, I am passionate about.
00:33:57I forget about it.
00:34:05You don't have to jump out.
00:34:09I am excited.
00:34:35Hi there, guys.
00:34:36Hello.
00:34:37Welcome to Aquila Private Game Reserve.
00:34:38We're gonna go and have some fun on safari out there.
00:34:40Beautiful.
00:34:41Sounds fun.
00:34:42I wanted to take Jeanette on safari here.
00:34:44You get it?
00:34:45Yep.
00:34:46Beautiful.
00:34:47Because it's one of the leading animal conservation centers in South Africa.
00:34:51Hang on tight.
00:34:53Home of wild animals and reptiles that are potentially dangerous.
00:35:08Oh.
00:35:09Oh, wow.
00:35:10What?
00:35:11Stripey horses.
00:35:12Zebras!
00:35:13Zebras!
00:35:14Zebras!
00:35:15Elephants!
00:35:16Buffalo.
00:35:17Buffalo.
00:35:18Buffalo.
00:35:19Buffalo.
00:35:20Buffalo.
00:35:21Buffalo.
00:35:22Buffalo.
00:35:23Buffalo.
00:35:24It's a baby buffalo.
00:35:26Everywhere you look, there are these incredible African animals that you've only ever seen on
00:35:40TV.
00:35:41And we're so close, we can almost reach out and touch them.
00:35:43Oh, you know what they are.
00:35:45Hey, big guys.
00:35:47Is that what ostrich is in Spain?
00:35:50Does that sound amazing?
00:35:51It sounds like a lion's roe, but it's much more softer.
00:35:55Mm.
00:35:56Mm.
00:35:57Mm.
00:35:58See how they're looking like?
00:35:59Yeah.
00:36:00Mm.
00:36:01Mm.
00:36:02Mm.
00:36:03Oh, look at him.
00:36:04Mm.
00:36:05This is definitely a pinch me moment.
00:36:07Ah.
00:36:08No.
00:36:09You believe my head bones?
00:36:11I'll hold you.
00:36:12I'll protect you from the head bones.
00:36:14I end up in South Africa with bear and now I'm at an animal safari.
00:36:19Someone up there is making all my dreams come true.
00:36:22This is already one of the best experiences.
00:36:26Really?
00:36:27Yeah.
00:36:28I've seen hippos and buffaloes.
00:36:29With a bear.
00:36:30With a bear.
00:36:31Jeez.
00:36:32How can I get any better?
00:36:35Everything about today is taking my breath away.
00:36:42And the more time I spend with bear, the more the feelings grow.
00:36:47I see your head moving down there.
00:36:52Oh, yes.
00:36:53Uh-huh.
00:36:54Look at them.
00:36:56They are the most magnificent animals.
00:37:00Oh.
00:37:01Look how close they are.
00:37:04What do you think?
00:37:09You happy?
00:37:10Yeah.
00:37:11Bear's got his arms wrapped around me and tears just welled up in my eyes.
00:37:28Today is my last opportunity to tell bear how I feel before he has to make a big decision.
00:37:40But I am scared to let myself go completely because of fear of having my heart broken.
00:37:50It's a case of breaking down my wall and letting him see me and how I feel.
00:37:57And that is super scary.
00:38:04Still to come.
00:38:05I'm all shy.
00:38:06Yeah.
00:38:07Will Jeanette finally open her heart?
00:38:10I hope it's not too little too late.
00:38:13Hi.
00:38:14Before a close encounter.
00:38:16Oh, my God.
00:38:18Has Sunny flipping out.
00:38:20Woo!
00:38:21For me, I'm scared of any moving animals.
00:38:33Look at this.
00:38:34Oh, nice.
00:38:36Look what I have prepared for us.
00:38:39Beautiful.
00:38:40Do you like the champagne?
00:38:41Yeah.
00:38:42Why not?
00:38:43Yes.
00:38:44Jeanette is so easygoing and so down to earth that I can't help feeling comfortable with her.
00:38:51Here you go.
00:38:52She's beautiful.
00:38:53She's fun-loving.
00:38:54We've got similar interests and values, so it's easy to imagine a future with her.
00:39:00Cheers.
00:39:01Cheers.
00:39:02Thank you for a beautiful day.
00:39:03And it's still not over.
00:39:05It's still not over.
00:39:06I'm loving every moment.
00:39:07I'm just loving this backdrop.
00:39:09Yeah.
00:39:10Turn around, have a look at this.
00:39:12I don't need to.
00:39:13I see what I want to see right in front of me.
00:39:20I've let Jeanette into my heart and into my life.
00:39:27But as we get closer to this choice, I just need her to tell me how she really feels about
00:39:33me.
00:39:34So, this is our last date, potentially.
00:39:38We're the first of many.
00:39:41Exactly.
00:39:42I feel very fortunate to be here in Africa and to have had this day and to have it with
00:39:50you.
00:39:51I feel fortunate as well.
00:39:53It's been a very special day.
00:39:55It has.
00:39:56I'm pinching myself, seriously.
00:39:57Yeah.
00:39:58It's just beautiful.
00:39:59And I think we have a connection.
00:40:02Yeah.
00:40:03Like, I know I've had my ups and downs where my wall's gone up and it's come down.
00:40:08Yeah.
00:40:09And it was confusing a little bit.
00:40:11Well, yeah.
00:40:12I am trying to let it down, but there's one thing you have to remember.
00:40:17You still have to make a choice out of two people.
00:40:22So, there's still the fear of rejection and being hurt.
00:40:27I understand that.
00:40:30It's human nature.
00:40:31We protect ourselves.
00:40:32Yeah, of course.
00:40:33Of course.
00:40:34And it's not easy for you.
00:40:35Yeah.
00:40:36It's a very difficult situation we're both in.
00:40:38Yeah.
00:40:39Putting my heart on the line.
00:40:41Telling Bear how I feel.
00:40:43I am wracked with nerves.
00:40:46No.
00:40:47I...
00:40:48I...
00:40:55You started to cry when you saw the lions.
00:40:57I know.
00:40:58I am...
00:40:59I'm quite an emotional person.
00:41:01You know, I came into this with an open heart.
00:41:08I wanted to be kissed by someone who took my breath away.
00:41:11Yeah.
00:41:12Um...
00:41:13And not just from the kiss, but in the depth of the connection behind the kiss.
00:41:17And I want to feel the excitement of falling in love again.
00:41:23Um...
00:41:26Love is a big word for me, and I don't say it very easily.
00:41:33Um...
00:41:34Because...
00:41:35It's not a word.
00:41:36It's...
00:41:37It's a feeling.
00:41:38And...
00:41:39It takes a long time for me to say it.
00:41:41But when I say it...
00:41:42It's from the heart.
00:41:43And it's...
00:41:44It's...
00:41:45It's big for me.
00:41:46Yeah.
00:41:47Yeah?
00:41:48Hmm.
00:41:49Because I'm falling for you.
00:41:52Yeah?
00:41:53Yeah.
00:41:54I think you know that though, don't you?
00:41:56Well...
00:41:57After today, I think, yeah.
00:42:00Yeah.
00:42:01No, I am.
00:42:02I am falling for you.
00:42:03And I'm falling for you as well.
00:42:05You know what I said about that kiss that takes your breath away?
00:42:18Was that one?
00:42:19Yeah.
00:42:21I have no regrets.
00:42:23I've told Bear how I feel.
00:42:25And...
00:42:26If he chooses Sonny, I will wish him all the luck in the world.
00:42:31But...
00:42:32He's gonna choose me.
00:42:35I'm gonna thank you.
00:42:36Oh, hello.
00:42:37Oh, hello.
00:42:38Oh my God.
00:42:39Amazing.
00:42:40Welcome to my room.
00:42:42Oh, thank you.
00:42:43Cheers.
00:42:44Cheers.
00:42:45You have a lot to talk about.
00:42:46Yeah, we have got a lot to talk about.
00:42:47Yeah.
00:42:48You met Bear's family yesterday?
00:42:49Bear's family yesterday.
00:42:50Yeah, and Bear's family.
00:42:51Yes, yes.
00:42:52Oh, my God. Amazing.
00:42:55Welcome to my room.
00:42:56Oh, thank you.
00:42:57Cheers.
00:42:57Cheers.
00:42:58Yeah, a lot to talk about.
00:43:00Yeah, we have got a lot to talk about.
00:43:01Yeah.
00:43:02You met Bear's family yesterday.
00:43:05Bear's family yesterday.
00:43:07Oh, my God.
00:43:08I just immediately fell in love with them, all of them.
00:43:12And I can't wait for them to meet my daughters, Ejvel, and my son.
00:43:17So you really have fallen head over heels.
00:43:20Oh, yeah, definitely.
00:43:20I know you're a positive person, but do you, is there any concern?
00:43:24I mean, this is a big thing to do.
00:43:27We're moments away from a big decision by Bear.
00:43:30He probably has strong feelings for both of you.
00:43:32I think this is where he's so confused.
00:43:35You two are so different, you and Jeannette.
00:43:37You're really the opposite of each other.
00:43:40We are quite different, I think.
00:43:41I don't know Jeannette very much, but based on my experience,
00:43:44Jeannette, she's a bit introverted, but I'm very positive,
00:43:49and I open my heart 100%, because I don't want to have any regrets.
00:43:55I'm in love with Bear, and I am very confident
00:43:58that we will have a very happy life together.
00:44:01So I don't worry about Jeannette,
00:44:04but I don't know whether he's fully ready
00:44:06and if he feels the same about me.
00:44:10My two daughters actually said,
00:44:11Mom, I think you'll like him more than he likes you.
00:44:15Oh, do they?
00:44:16Yeah.
00:44:17Does that worry you?
00:44:18I'm a bit concerned, of course, yeah.
00:44:23Soon is the final date,
00:44:25and I don't have much time to figure out how he feels.
00:44:30So I'm anxious and nervous.
00:44:33The last date she'll love is very difficult to find
00:44:42pushes Sonny to breaking point.
00:44:45I need to know, is it real with you?
00:44:47Oh, I really want this now more than anything else
00:44:53before Bear makes his final decision.
00:44:56For the first time in years and years and years,
00:44:59I am in love again.
00:45:17I've never met anyone like Sonny.
00:45:19She's so vibrant.
00:45:20She's just so full of life, full of joy,
00:45:22so full of sunshine.
00:45:24It's truly infectious.
00:45:26She surprised me more and more,
00:45:27and that has not changed in this whole experience.
00:45:32But with Sonny, it may be a bit of a risk.
00:45:36And I want to talk through my concerns with her today
00:45:38before I make my decision.
00:45:44True love is very difficult to find in life.
00:45:49And I am in love with Bear.
00:45:52I just feel so lucky.
00:45:55I find some amazing guy.
00:45:57But at the same time, I feel a bit scary
00:46:00because I know that Bear has very strong feelings
00:46:04for Jeanette as well.
00:46:06And as women, we are completely opposite.
00:46:09So I'm just wondering what Bear is looking for.
00:46:12I've only had two serious relationships in my life.
00:46:17I don't give my love to just anybody.
00:46:20I know what I want, and it's Bear.
00:46:29Oh!
00:46:31Hi!
00:46:33Hi!
00:46:34Hi!
00:46:35How are you?
00:46:36I absolutely love seeing Sonny every time I see her.
00:46:41We are very affectionate to each other.
00:46:44How are you?
00:46:45Missed you.
00:46:46You miss me?
00:46:47I'll miss you too.
00:46:48And I really love that.
00:46:50So I've got something really special planned for you.
00:46:53Okay.
00:46:53Yeah?
00:46:54I'm excited.
00:46:55So?
00:46:55We're swimming with some penguins.
00:46:57Penguins?
00:46:59Okay.
00:47:01Penguins?
00:47:02Penguins?
00:47:02Yeah?
00:47:03Oh my goodness.
00:47:04For me, I'm scared of any moving, you know, animals.
00:47:09So, uh, I was a bit scared.
00:47:13I look around, and suddenly...
00:47:15Oh my gosh!
00:47:17All I can see is scary.
00:47:19Black and white.
00:47:20Look.
00:47:20Penguins?
00:47:21Boom!
00:47:22My God, they were so scary.
00:47:33So, are you excited?
00:47:35Yeah.
00:47:37Today is my final day with babe, so just want to enjoy his company.
00:47:42And whatever penguins activities he planned, I'm just going to enjoy everything.
00:47:48And, um, just being with him, that's the most important thing.
00:47:52Shall we go?
00:47:53Yeah, let's go.
00:47:54Let's go.
00:48:02Oh my God!
00:48:04Oh my God!
00:48:08Let's see if we have any friends with us.
00:48:12Oh, I'd like to.
00:48:14Swimming with bear, there are so many penguins around us.
00:48:20Oh, look!
00:48:20There are penguins there, look!
00:48:22Look, here they come.
00:48:23Oh, they're joining us.
00:48:25Don't come near me, please!
00:48:27Please stop, because I don't know what to...
00:48:29and how to handle you.
00:48:33Oh, penguins are following me!
00:48:35Oh!
00:48:36I'll meet you.
00:48:37But when I'm with bear, I feel so comfortable, and he makes me feel safe.
00:48:49I never, ever, in million years, picture myself in the final two, let alone falling in love with the bachelor.
00:48:57I feel strongly we are fully connected.
00:49:00I can picture my life with him.
00:49:03Yay, yay, yay!
00:49:07Woo!
00:49:09I'm hoping to have every day like this today, till death do us apart.
00:49:19Oh my God.
00:49:20And we've got more adventures than we.
00:49:22I can't wait.
00:49:23Yeah?
00:49:23Let's go.
00:49:24Big surprise.
00:49:25Okay.
00:49:27Ready?
00:49:27Yep.
00:49:28Let's go.
00:49:28Chemistry with Sunny is unreal.
00:49:32Every date is flirty, full of laughter and fun.
00:49:36How about this thing?
00:49:37Road trip?
00:49:39Wow.
00:49:40This is gorgeous.
00:49:42What we have grows deeper with every encounter.
00:49:45Woo-hoo!
00:49:47You ready?
00:49:47Yay!
00:49:48Woo!
00:49:49Woo!
00:49:49Woo!
00:49:49Woo!
00:49:49Woo!
00:49:50Woo!
00:49:50Woo!
00:49:50Woo!
00:49:51Woo!
00:49:51Woo!
00:49:52Woo!
00:49:52Woo!
00:49:53Woo!
00:49:53Woo!
00:49:54Woo!
00:49:54Woo!
00:49:55Woo!
00:49:55Woo!
00:49:56Woo!
00:49:57Woo!
00:49:57Woo!
00:49:58Woo!
00:49:58Woo!
00:49:58Woo!
00:49:59Woo!
00:50:08And the more I fall, the more vulnerable I feel.
00:50:28oh my god look at this how nice is this oh wow yeah come over here oh wow oh my goodness
00:50:41look what i've had for you i love oysters yeah oh my goodness there you go thank you
00:50:49sunny is a powerhouse she's so strong she's a ceo and when she wants something she gets it
00:50:55so today what a wonderful day because i was with you babe yeah
00:51:03but i do wonder if i'm just another thing on her list cheers to us
00:51:10you want to have a very active life
00:51:15but you know what i'm talking about i know what you're talking about
00:51:19are you ready for it are you oh my god i can't wait
00:51:29yeah so um i need to know is it is it real with you is it is it are your feelings for me oh yeah you
00:51:38know you you haven't been single for a long time it does something i understand but first relationship
00:51:4616 years and then single for three months and then another 15 years long-term relationship so very
00:51:53faithful and my you know feelings and my heart is like so rapidly growing um because when i'm with you
00:52:04i feel safer and i don't have to be strong all the time and i feel like i'm a woman again
00:52:11that's so sweet it's not just sweet i'm just being honest
00:52:19i know i know i know of course this is important for both of us yeah
00:52:26at our age and i picture us together blended family and oh my god is it means a lot to me
00:52:34and thinking about my three kids kids are gonna love each other i think so too that that i know yeah
00:52:39i can picture them just laughing and giggling and having fun that would be amazing oh my god i'm
00:52:48very emotional already thinking about it because i want someone special in my life and i want someone
00:52:57special in my life come in the morning and lie next to my man that's what i want and i think you are the
00:53:06one for me i'm in love yeah yeah but whatever you you know you make decision i just wanted to follow
00:53:20your heart i will i'm happy that he knows how i feel about him but if i was not chosen
00:53:32i would be very sad um
00:53:37and disappointed
00:53:39i really want a pair and a beautiful family it's not only for me but also for my two daughters and my
00:53:53son so i really want this now more than anything else
00:54:00if you choose janet
00:54:15yeah i would be very sad
00:54:22still to come
00:54:23i found someone that i really think i can spend the rest of my days with
00:54:30there's golden love story
00:54:34reaches its breathtaking conclusion
00:54:39for the first time in years and years and years i am in love again
00:54:53a couple of months ago i came to the mansion hoping for a second chance at love
00:55:08i met 20 incredible women and now there's two beautiful ladies remaining
00:55:13here's to a beautiful first day
00:55:17i came on this journey looking for love i believe in second chances and maybe this is mine you're special
00:55:25i am important for you
00:55:28i'm really glad i'm here with you feel better now because i have you
00:55:33definitely falling in love i feel that i'm the best one for you
00:55:37they both open their selves to me they both let me know how they felt
00:55:45has left me feeling conflicted they're both extraordinary but they couldn't be more different
00:55:53i've been up all night thinking about this decision and after the final date suddenly everything's become
00:56:00very clear to me and i realized for the first time in a very long time that i'm in love
00:56:09audrey i know would be all for what i'm doing today she'd be all for me finding love again and i know it
00:56:17she's even said that before she passed so i have her blessing
00:56:32i know bear and sunny have a connection and that is playing on my mind she's fun and likes to be the
00:56:39life at the party but i think there's a lot more to a long-term relationship than just fun
00:56:49i haven't felt this special or had these feelings in such a long time it feels like
00:56:56the beginning of a love story and i feel like there could be happily ever after
00:57:03i never ever imagined the feelings i'm actually experiencing and i don't have any doubts
00:57:15no hesitation he's the man for me i love him i've been very lucky in life three beautiful children
00:57:25i have absolutely stunning house a successful company and business i have everything but there is a missing piece
00:57:46hello hi
00:57:47how are you i'm good how are you i'm very well it's nice to see you great to see you
00:57:57today is the big day how are you feeling i'm very nervous i'm excited but a little sad as well
00:58:06it really weighs on my mind that i'm going to break someone's heart today so very mixed emotions very
00:58:11bittersweet yes very mixed it's it's a really tough decision today so you've had to do some real
00:58:17soul-searching indeed yes it hasn't been easy but i'm confident and comfortable i've made the right
00:58:23choice you were unsure if you were ready weren't you yes but you were open to trying something
00:58:30different i certainly was and you knew you wanted to find love yes are you ready now i spent a lot of
00:58:37years looking after my boys they're grown now they're they're moving on and i feel i'm worthy for love i
00:58:45know i know i'm worthy for love i know it's my time how are you different right now i'm different
00:58:50right now i'm in love that's how different i am oh my goodness you're in love i am i found someone
00:58:57that i really think i can spend the rest of my days with yeah this is amazing yeah this is what i was
00:59:05hoping for so you feel like you found the one i'm certain i found the one yes this is such a beautiful
00:59:13thing you look so happy thank you i feel happy well i think it's time it's time good luck i think
00:59:23i want to need it you'll be okay yeah thank you all right at the beginning of this journey i truly thought
00:59:37that maybe you only get one chance at love but here i am i am in love
00:59:47but it's so bittersweet i don't feel good about breaking anyone's heart anytime it's going to be brutal
00:59:55i think that is study in a bit i actually feel i feel calm i think i do feel calm because i think
01:00:10the connection that bear and i have i do feel quite confident today i saw a book on african wisdom and
01:00:19i flipped open to a page and it said the leap into a new order so i'm taking that in to
01:00:28context of something new is happening for me today
01:00:36i'm nervous i'm not very confident to be honest i know he's the man for me
01:00:42but i'm nervous that the feeling is not mutual i know i'm the best for him and he's the best man for
01:00:51me i don't think jeanette is the right person i'm not scared of telling him how i feel i say good luck to
01:01:00uh huh but i don't want to lose
01:01:18i have to be selfish
01:01:21because i know i love him
01:01:23and i know i can make him happy and if he doesn't choose me
01:01:33can we not talk about this please
01:01:53so
01:02:03so
01:02:05you
01:02:19Oh, my God.
01:02:49Oh, my God.
01:03:19Oh, my God.
01:03:49Oh, my God.
01:04:19Whoa.
01:04:21Whoa.
01:04:23Hello?
01:04:24Hi.
01:04:25Look, very handsome.
01:04:26You look beautiful as well.
01:04:28Look at this place.
01:04:30It's a little bit windy.
01:04:33You okay?
01:04:35I'm good.
01:04:37I'm good.
01:04:46I was so nervous about doing this because you made me feel like I haven't felt in a long time.
01:04:54You're just a real honest and genuine person with a beautiful heart.
01:05:12I feel like I could tell you anything, and it was us against the world, and I love that.
01:05:18Jeanette, you deserve a love worth fighting for.
01:05:27I'm sorry.
01:05:29I'm sorry.
01:05:30Yeah.
01:05:31But I'm so sorry.
01:05:36It's not with me.
01:05:41And I know this hurts.
01:05:53Yeah.
01:05:54Yeah.
01:05:55You're someone I really care for and I really respect.
01:05:59I know there's somebody out there for you.
01:06:12I'm fine.
01:06:14I read your eyes the minute I walked up here.
01:06:21I do really care for you.
01:06:24Don't disrespect Sonny by saying anything like that.
01:06:29I hope you're very happy, both of you.
01:06:33I'm sorry.
01:06:34You're sorry?
01:06:35No.
01:06:36So stop saying it.
01:06:41No.
01:06:42You okay?
01:06:44Yes, thank you.
01:06:45You sure?
01:06:46Yep.
01:06:47When I hear our song, I feel my heart drop.
01:07:04Everything that I've held is gone.
01:07:09I fell in pieces when you were leaving.
01:07:13I couldn't fight the fire off.
01:07:18I thought I'm healing, but you're still creeping.
01:07:22Can someone tell me when it stops?
01:07:29I miss you a lot.
01:07:30I thought it was me.
01:07:32I thought it was going to chase me.
01:07:35And I feel like a fool.
01:07:39I fell in pieces when you were leaving.
01:07:44I couldn't fight the fire off.
01:07:45Even though it hasn't worked out, I still have that sense of feeling empowered for showing my vulnerability.
01:07:53Someone tell me when it stops.
01:07:56I miss you a lot.
01:08:01I have to try really hard not to let my wall go back up again now.
01:08:07And that's my initial reaction is just to shut down again.
01:08:12It may not be love or potential love with somebody, but love is my turn of power.
01:08:28There's still someone out there for me.
01:08:37Oh my god.
01:08:41Oh my god.
01:08:47For the first time in years and years and years I have butterflies in my stomach.
01:09:17I'm in love again.
01:09:22I've never met anyone like Sunny.
01:09:24Her connection is magical.
01:09:26She's accomplished, driven, a fiercely protective mom, a business woman.
01:09:31She's a force of nature.
01:09:47There's no greater feeling than being in love and to find out again at this age, I didn't
01:09:57think it was possible.
01:10:10Hi.
01:10:17Hi, darling.
01:10:20Hi, how are you?
01:10:23Hi.
01:10:24How are you?
01:10:27You okay?
01:10:29Sunny.
01:10:33Yes, Dad.
01:10:38When I decided to do this, I didn't know what to expect.
01:10:44Me neither.
01:10:45I didn't know if I'd be lucky enough to fall in love again.
01:10:51And from the moment I met you, you excited me.
01:10:55Every day you showed me a new facet of your life.
01:11:01What?
01:11:02You amazed me with your resilience and your courage.
01:11:06You blow me away.
01:11:09Hey.
01:11:11You've overcome so much and still so loving and full of life.
01:11:18You're a force of nature.
01:11:21Hi.
01:11:22Hi.
01:11:23You deserve somebody to lift you up and never clip your wings.
01:11:26Oh, my God.
01:11:29When I think about the future, the life I want to live, how I want to spend the rest of
01:11:35my days, I can't imagine doing it without you.
01:11:41Oh, my God.
01:11:43Oh, my goodness, babe.
01:11:50I feel so lucky that I found you.
01:11:52Oh, my God.
01:11:53I love you.
01:11:54Oh, my God.
01:11:56Oh, my God.
01:11:57Oh, my God.
01:11:58Mmm.
01:12:19Hey.
01:12:20Yeah?
01:12:21I want to tell you something.
01:12:22For me, my life, dark days are gone, and bright days are here because I'm here, and my heart
01:12:34is full of joy and happiness and love for you, and I'm looking forward to the journey
01:12:43with you in life.
01:12:49I have something for you.
01:12:50I got you.
01:12:51That's enough.
01:12:52Yeah?
01:12:53Yeah.
01:12:54One more little thing.
01:12:56This is a little token of my love and a sign of commitment to you, if you accept it.
01:13:06Actually, I definitely am.
01:13:09Let me put it up.
01:13:11Oh, my gosh.
01:13:12It's been great.
01:13:13Oh, my gosh.
01:13:14Oh, my gosh.
01:13:15Oh, my gosh.
01:13:16Oh, my gosh.
01:13:17Oh, my gosh.
01:13:18Oh, my gosh.
01:13:19Oh, my gosh.
01:13:20Oh, my gosh.
01:13:21Oh, my gosh.
01:13:22Oh, my gosh.
01:13:23Oh, my gosh.
01:13:24I've seen a girl from the first breath
01:13:27Oh my God
01:13:28Pulled you close, kissed your lips
01:13:38What does this part of the world?
01:13:41That's what I can say
01:13:42Feels like that
01:13:44Darling, it's you
01:13:46It's always you
01:13:50My heart is filled with love and joy
01:13:54And happiness
01:13:55And I'm the happiest of women alive
01:13:57The moment to tell her what I finally felt
01:14:01Was really special
01:14:02I was hanging on to her for a long time
01:14:04And I finally let it out
01:14:06And yell it to the world, it's great
01:14:09I love you, babe
01:14:11I love you
01:14:24I love you, babe
01:14:25I love you, babe
01:14:26I love you, babe
01:14:27I love you, babe
01:14:28I love you, babe
01:14:29I love you, babe
01:14:30I love you, babe
01:14:31I love you, babe
01:14:32I love you, babe
01:14:33I love you, babe
01:14:34I love you, babe
01:14:35I love you, babe
01:14:36I love you, babe
01:14:37I love you, babe
Recommended
1:06:12
|
Up next
1:20:31
1:09:12
1:01:51
1:01:28
54:53
58:49
58:26
26:17
59:47
26:06
26:29
25:50
26:02
52:45
25:53
1:03:39
42:26
1:04:02
24:13
43:13
41:30
44:09
Be the first to comment