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00:00This is my dad, and we look exactly alike, and he can't tell us apart.
00:07My hair in the way?
00:09Deadpool. Deadpool.
00:12There.
00:14Twins.
00:16Oh, that's it right there.
00:18Yeah, it's so pretty.
00:20Today we're taking our first tour of a possible wedding venue.
00:24Nice to meet you.
00:25Welcome to Crystal View.
00:26Hi!
00:26My first impression is, it's very echoey.
00:32Are your tics okay?
00:33Joe Biden does crystal math!
00:35This might not be the right one for us.
00:39When I leave the house, I have to click the lights three times before I think, because
00:43if I only do it once, then something bad's going to happen on the way to the airport.
00:46Sammy's anxiety and OCD becomes disabling.
00:50I can only say certain things.
00:51She has done a very good job at hiding it, but it has become more difficult.
01:00We have been talking about our marriage, and it started with some premarital counseling.
01:07If someone gets involved in our relationship or marriage too much, where does it end?
01:16Colin, did anything come up for you?
01:19I've been holding on to something for a while now, and it's not easy to say out loud, because
01:25I know it's going to affect Balin.
01:43So, Colin, did anything come up for you that you thought would be important to bring up
01:48together?
01:49Yeah, I mean, there is something I want to talk about.
01:55Yeah.
01:56So, obviously, you know that here soon I have to make, like, a career decision.
02:03And that is, like, a super, like, heavy burden that I guess I could say that I have.
02:11Um, I feel like the pressure is on me to either stay in the military or go into some kind of
02:20government job.
02:21That way we have health insurance.
02:24Being able to have that kind of benefits, especially with someone with her condition,
02:28I know is, like, huge.
02:31But I don't necessarily really want to do either one of those things.
02:37Right.
02:37I've been in the military for about five years now, and my contract will be expiring in about
02:46a year.
02:47I joined at 19, and I was just a kid, immature.
02:52The military is the reason that I'm the man who I am.
02:55But now I'm headed into a completely different phase of life.
02:59And lately I've been wondering if there's a different career path for me outside of the
03:05military.
03:05But if I do decide to change careers, I need a job that I'm going to be successful in,
03:11be happy in, and also still be able to provide for me and my family.
03:16I feel like I'm being pulled, almost.
03:20And so it's just like...
03:21Between what?
03:23Like, family members and friends, especially your dad, want me to, like, choose a career
03:29path that's secured financially, and it scares me that I, like, may not go in that direction
03:35that everyone else wants me to go in.
03:38Yeah, but none of that would make you happy.
03:41Yeah.
03:42Colin discussed feeling really concerned about the expectations from family and friends,
03:48stressors that he's been holding in for quite some time.
03:51And while a lot of couples struggle financially, they're already dealing with more of a challenge
03:57as a result of Phelan's conditions.
03:59Do you feel like it is solely on you to provide for the both of you and your future family financially?
04:06Yeah, I mean, it's just really hard for her to work a regular job.
04:09So it kind of has to be, like, on me to be able to make the main source of income.
04:16That's a lot of pressure on you.
04:17Yeah.
04:19There's a lot that goes on trying to take care of Balin on a day-to-day basis.
04:23Just the weight of trying to fill the shoes of her parents, making sure that she's okay,
04:31she's taking her medicine, taking care of three dogs, the weight of expenses in the future.
04:37It's a lot.
04:39And I have to make sure that I don't let it affect Balin.
04:42I don't let Balin see that I have all of this going on up here.
04:46But it is weighing on me a lot.
04:48And everyone has a breaking point somewhere.
04:51I just don't want to hit mine.
04:54So what I hear you saying, Colin, is that you don't want to bring her that stress.
05:00You don't want to share that with her.
05:02But, like, I don't want you to hold it, like, into yourself.
05:05Like, you wouldn't want me to do that, too.
05:07Yeah, but it's different.
05:09And, like, when I hear that, it just is, like...
05:11It's different, though.
05:12It's, like, you already have a lot of moving parts in your life.
05:16So then for me to, like, add on, like, my stress to that, I don't want to do that to you.
05:22Like, I don't want you to be overwhelmed and be stressed out.
05:26Like, it's just, like, that way, like, it almost makes me feel like, okay, I have to do this on my own.
05:35In a way.
05:36Oh, I don't want you to feel like that.
05:37Yeah.
05:39I'm hearing that you're also struggling with other people's opinions and separating that from yours and mine.
05:50Like, you don't want to upset them or, like, not please everybody.
05:55Kind of like how I am.
05:56I knew that Colin was stressed about his career, but I didn't know that he was this overwhelmed.
06:05This is something I've always worried about because with my Tourette and other conditions, it can be a lot.
06:11Not just for me, but also for Colin to take on as my partner.
06:16So the last thing I want is Colin to protect me from these type of difficult subjects.
06:20It's not healthy for him or our relationship.
06:23It breaks my heart that he's been keeping this in.
06:26Regarding the pressure he feels from family and friends' opinions, I know it sucks because I feel it, too.
06:47I feel like I'm stuck in the middle of Colin and them.
06:50And that's going to be a harder issue for me to address because I usually see both sides.
06:54Everything that everyone else says almost shouldn't be a burden.
07:00And I know that it's still going to be.
07:03And I'm telling you, like, suck a fat ****.
07:09I'm telling you that, like, that's between us.
07:12That's not between my dad, your parents, no one.
07:15And if we believe that it can work, then it'll happen.
07:22That's taken.
07:24It's just really nice to know that no matter what I decide, she just wants me to be happy.
07:31You have a few things to focus on until I see you next.
07:35Thank you so much.
07:36But I still have a lot to figure out with our financial future, and I have a feeling Alan isn't really going to let it go until I make some real decisions.
07:45What you say to me?
07:54Tell me what you're doing.
07:56Don't let the rules down.
07:58If we will cut you, we're independent.
08:01We've got the hot wheels.
08:03We've got a little cash.
08:04Enough to keep it real.
08:06Hey!
08:07Can I ask you something?
08:10Huh?
08:11What are we doing?
08:12I'm starting something for a project.
08:15Don't try to block it.
08:16You're clearly trying to hide something, which is weird.
08:21Man, I'm making something for someone.
08:25It's a surprise.
08:26Okay.
08:27Right?
08:28You're acting weird.
08:29I can usually tell when Al has something up his sleeve, and there's always something crazy going on in this head of his where he's conjuring up some silly ideas.
08:39The sooner I find out, the better, because this is just awkward.
08:43Yeah.
08:44So, I've been working on a surprise for Valen, just in case she can or can't have certain things at her wedding.
08:51But we don't know that much about her wedding or her venue yet.
08:54Like, we only know she needs the dogs there.
08:56That's really all we know, so I don't know how you are coming up with this and thinking that it's just going to fit into whatever.
09:05It's going to fit in.
09:06Yeah.
09:07It's going to fit in.
09:09So, here's the deal.
09:10I've been thinking a lot about Valen's wedding and how sensitive she is to her surroundings, and I want to pitch an idea to her.
09:17But before I pitch it, I want her to envision it, and that's what my secret little project is all about.
09:24Do you want it to be a surprise for me, too?
09:26Am I not allowed to see this again?
09:27Yes, of course.
09:27I'm just going to do this.
09:28Okay.
09:29And I'm just going to show you this.
09:30And then you can say, wow, or you can say, that's never going anywhere.
09:35Will you let Sammy and Burke see it when they fly in for their long summer weekend with their mom and dad?
09:40Yeah.
09:41So, you're telling me it's going to be done for the weekend?
09:44Yes.
09:44Yeah.
09:44And the longer you bother me about it, the less I'm working on this.
09:49You know what I mean?
09:49Like, I've got to get some things done.
09:54I'm a little nervous.
09:55I mean, with the wedding coming up and with Valen's condition, we know that she needs help.
10:02But I also don't want us to overstep our boundaries.
10:08Okay.
10:08But I guess I have no choice but to wait and see what's up Alan's sleeve in this carving situation.
10:16Nope.
10:16Hurry up and wait.
10:20I can still see you.
10:22And I have so many questions for you.
10:25So many questions.
10:28Hi, baby.
10:30Hi, Rhonda.
10:30Sammy and Burke are both in town for a long weekend.
10:33They live out of state, so I don't see them as much.
10:36Did I tell you guys that me and Colin are in premarital therapy?
10:38I didn't know he was carrying stress with, like, the future and him getting out of the military.
10:43Because he knows you can't work a normal job?
10:45Mm-hmm.
10:45Yeah.
10:48Maylon, I want to show you something that we got outside.
10:50What?
10:51Yeah, what are we doing?
10:53Julie doesn't have a clue.
10:54I keep her in the dark about things because that's the fastest way to get my ideas ruined,
10:59is to invite her into my mind space on these.
11:02You're being creepy and weird right now.
11:09I ain't livin' in no twilight fantasy.
11:12I'm a grown-up woman, I'm a pedigree.
11:15I've been jillin' in my own menagerie.
11:18This means brush your teeth for today.
11:20Flop, get the whole one.
11:21Hmm.
11:26We have no food.
11:27Are you not hungry?
11:29No.
11:29We can go grocery shopping and get food, and then we can cook something.
11:33Okay.
11:34So what are you up to today?
11:35Any plans?
11:36I am gonna go hang out with Sammy and Burke.
11:39She finally got to be able to be on a plane because of her OCD and all of her rituals, so...
11:45Yeah, that's good.
11:45I'm glad.
11:46How are you feeling after therapy?
11:50Fine.
11:52I, like, feel closer.
11:55Mm-hmm.
11:55I don't know how I feel.
11:58What?
11:59I feel fine.
12:00I feel fine.
12:00Okay.
12:02After one session of premarital counseling, this marriage stuff is gettin' dick down in Dallas.
12:10It's gettin' real.
12:11I knew you were gonna laugh.
12:14I look over, there's just a...
12:16I didn't know that you carried a lot of weight and a lot of burden on your shoulders with finances and wedding planning and saving money and the stress of work and the unknown of that.
12:32Yeah, I had no idea.
12:34Yeah.
12:35I just don't want you to carry the stress by yourself.
12:40I can handle some stress.
12:44I honestly really appreciate Balin saying that she wants to help out with all of the burdens that I've been carrying, but there's a reason why I haven't, you know, brought this up to her, and it's because I know that stressful stuff sets off her anxiety.
13:00But a part of this whole counseling thing is learning to trust.
13:05If she says that I need to be open about something, then I need to be.
13:10Let's talk about some of the big expenses that we have coming up.
13:15Do I need to get out my calculator for this?
13:17Wedding.
13:19House, eventually.
13:21Bachelor, bachelorette trip.
13:23Honeymoon.
13:23Let's stop adding all this stuff.
13:27A lot of money right there.
13:28Gosh.
13:30It's okay.
13:31It's fine.
13:32So, I mean, we need to find ways to be able to save money so that we can be able to not have to worry about all of those in the next year.
13:43What do we cut?
13:45Well, we spend a lot of money.
13:46Dick.
13:47On.
13:47Sorry.
13:48Good?
13:49Yeah.
13:49Sure?
13:50Yep.
13:50Dick.
13:51Yep.
13:51Dick.
13:52Okay, here we go.
13:53I mean, we can start cutting by you not shopping as much.
14:04It's so hard to save when your love language is overpriced deliveries and shopping.
14:10It's kind of hard.
14:12Every day, she's looking on some website.
14:17The reason why I have, like, the shopping addiction is because I don't go out and regularly go shopping because of my dicks.
14:26No, you're just addicted all around.
14:30Is that your name?
14:32Well, you name it, I got it.
14:36Just about.
14:37Also, if we can start cooking more meals here, the both of us not ordering food deliveries.
14:43Yep.
14:44We do that a lot.
14:46Wow.
14:46I really want to cook more, but as you know, as we get later into the day and, like, making meals and, like, just with my tics, it gets a lot harder.
14:55So, I know that I go to almost, like, ordering food as, like, a comfort because I'm just too scared, but I feel like I can, like, come out of my comfort zone a little bit because I need, we need to save some money.
15:08Mm-hmm.
15:08I would appreciate that.
15:11The more we talk about it, the more I realize this isn't going to be easy, you little bitch.
15:16Yep.
15:17But we're going to try.
15:18Yep.
15:19You little bitch.
15:21What is setting that dick off?
15:24I don't know.
15:25We're going to have a good time.
15:29We're going to have a good time.
15:30Yeah.
15:30Live it up.
15:32We're going to have a good time.
15:33We're going to have a good time.
15:34Get your paper off.
15:36We're going to have a good time.
15:37We're going to have a good time.
15:38Yeah.
15:39Live it up.
15:40Live it up.
15:44Bitch.
15:46Sammy and Burke are both in town for a long weekend.
15:49They both live out of state, so I don't see them as much.
15:52So, we're meeting up in a bar around my neighborhood.
15:54Where are Burke and Sammy?
16:01I don't like this.
16:04I die on them.
16:06I die on them.
16:07Of course they're late.
16:10I absolutely hate walking into anywhere alone.
16:16It's kind of like torture, because I am just worried about the other people's reactions that are in the building.
16:23Oh, thank God they're here.
16:33Oh, thank God.
16:34Hi, baby.
16:36Don't ever let me be the first one at the function ever again.
16:40Hi, baby.
16:41I love you.
16:43I haven't seen Sammy in a long time.
16:47You look so good with your hair like this.
16:49Oh, thanks.
16:50She has severe OCD and anxiety, so it's always been hard for her to leave her comfort and travel home.
16:57Hi, Burke.
16:58What's up, babe?
16:59What's up?
17:00My oldest brother Burke's living in Tampa.
17:04He is currently, honestly, thriving down there and loves it.
17:08How was your flight today?
17:10I was worried that you weren't going to get on the plane.
17:11Dude, I was at this flight.
17:13I can't get up and walk around, but I, like, can't sit still.
17:16I, like, can't watch a movie.
17:17I just, it's just a lot.
17:20Traveling with my OCD and flying is...
17:24Obsessive-compulsive dick.
17:25...disorder is very challenging for me, and some days are harder than others.
17:30It's very common for Baylin to have new tics after you haven't seen her in a while, because
17:44she can pick up anything from a TV show, a movie, music.
17:47Yep.
17:48Take a dick.
17:49Self-serve that dick.
17:51They don't really surprise me that much anymore, because there's been some crazy ones.
17:55Yeah.
17:56I mean, you really can't get much more crazy, especially with that airport one with the gun.
17:58Yeah.
17:59Yeah.
18:00I have a gun.
18:01Oof.
18:02My God, it's right there.
18:03Oof.
18:04I have a gun.
18:05Yeah.
18:06Maybe try to whisper it.
18:07Is it going to play shuffleboard?
18:09Yeah.
18:10Yeah, sure.
18:11So...
18:12Do you want to be red or blue?
18:15I'll be blue.
18:16So we're going to try to knock each other's arms.
18:17Wait.
18:18It's going to take a little bit, because you just got to barely let go of the thing.
18:20Oh, that one broke.
18:23Not bad, though.
18:24Bro.
18:25So now you want to try to knock his off, because...
18:28Oh.
18:29All right.
18:30The three of us being the oldest and hanging out is a lot different than the three younger
18:35ones hanging out, because we're not fighting over boogers or baseball bats.
18:41Too hard.
18:42That's what she said.
18:43Your mom's too hard.
18:44That's what she said.
18:45That's what she said.
18:46Your mom's too hard.
18:47That's money, too.
18:48Bitch.
18:49I'm exhausted.
18:50We should have stretched out beforehand.
18:51Dude.
18:52Did I tell you guys that me and Colin are in premarital therapy?
18:56So who brought that up?
18:57Mom and Dad.
18:58I think it's a great idea.
18:59I'm all for it.
19:00It's great to be on the same page about children.
19:01Like, do you want to go to church every Sunday?
19:02Do you want to do this stuff?
19:03How...
19:04And we're so...
19:05Well, some of that stuff should be basic conversations you have with each other.
19:06Yes.
19:07Like, there's multiple things.
19:08Like, I didn't know he was carrying stress with, like, the future and him getting out
19:09of the military.
19:10Saving enough, having enough money for all these expenses and all these things.
19:12And...
19:13Because he knows you can't work a normal job?
19:14Mm-hmm.
19:15It's hard for me to work a nine-to-five as much as I would love to.
19:18It's hard with my tics.
19:20Yeah.
19:21Yeah.
19:22Yeah.
19:23But I do want to help contribute in, like, some way.
19:24Yeah.
19:25So, what's Colin's plan after he gets out of the military?
19:26He doesn't honestly know.
19:27He officially gets out next year.
19:28Kind of like, that's when he'll, like, be transitioning out to his next job if he
19:30can.
19:31Yeah.
19:32Yeah.
19:33Yeah.
19:34Yeah.
19:35Yeah.
19:36Yeah.
19:37Yeah.
19:38Yeah.
19:39Yeah.
19:40Yeah.
19:41Yeah.
19:42Yeah.
19:43Yeah.
19:44Yeah.
19:45Yeah.
19:46Yeah.
19:47Yeah.
19:48Yeah.
19:49Yeah.
19:50Yeah.
19:51Yeah.
19:52Yeah.
19:53Yeah.
19:54Yeah.
19:55Yeah.
19:56Yeah.
19:57I mean, it's important when you have a job, you don't want to leave it until something
20:00else is lined up there.
20:01I know.
20:02That's the thing.
20:03I can definitely sympathize with Colin because the responsibility and due diligence
20:11of taking care of not only yourself but two people and providing for dogs and doing
20:17all that, I definitely, I definitely empathize with him.
20:20But I think it's also like a, you know what you signed up for.
20:23You knew she couldn't work a normal job.
20:25Yeah.
20:26He needs to find like steady income, a job.
20:27Yeah.
20:28Not even a stable job, just a providing job for the both of them.
20:31But it's not our job to tell him which job.
20:32Yes.
20:33You know what I mean?
20:34Yes.
20:35He's got to come up with that himself.
20:36It's not, I'm not going to go to Colin and be like, hey, you need a 40 hour work week
20:42with health insurance and this.
20:44That's my dad's, my dad can do that.
20:46I just think it's hard for you.
20:48Like, let's say he gets out of the military and then waits like six months like Burke did
20:51after college for a job.
20:52Who knows on the timeframe.
20:54Yes.
20:55That's why he's stressed.
20:56I do love spending time with Burke and Sammy.
21:02However, they both do have very strong opinions.
21:05They're very, very protective of me.
21:07No, let's just go.
21:08Colin and I just talked about in therapy the pressure he feels when my family weighs in
21:20in our business.
21:21If Sammy and Burke are doing all this questioning, I can't even imagine what my parents are going
21:25to think.
21:26This is the first time that I've had a solid, tight group of girlfriends.
21:33Pump that dick, bitch.
21:34Oh my God.
21:35I'm scared.
21:36It's really nice to spend time with people where the main focus isn't about finding Colin's
21:39future.
21:40Oh my God.
21:41It's great.
21:42It's great.
21:43Between therapy and wedding planning lately, things have been very stressful.
22:04So, since Colin is working late, tonight I'm having a girls' night where we are just going
22:09to let loose and have tons of fun.
22:11Take a dick, bitch.
22:13Hello.
22:14Hello.
22:15Hi, Bailey.
22:16What's that girl?
22:17Since I moved to DC, I actually met a lot of new people through my best friend Lila,
22:23as well as through Colin's friends.
22:25Okay, so who's in charge of the liquor?
22:27Wait, aren't you a bartender?
22:28Oh yeah.
22:29There we go.
22:30This is the first time that I've had a solid, tight group of girlfriends.
22:35It's great.
22:36It's great.
22:37It's great.
22:38So how's your wedding planning going?
22:41We've looked at one venue.
22:43When we went there, it was beautiful.
22:45It had these huge stairs that were filled with flowers.
22:48However, it's very echoey, which turned out to be a very big trigger.
22:53I'm just hearing myself echo as I tick.
22:55Me and Colin agreed that it just wasn't the right place for us.
22:59You want to be somewhere where you're comfortable for us.
23:01Mm-hmm.
23:02The first time that I met Bailyn, she was ticking, but at the same time, for me personally,
23:06I grew up having a friend that had Tourette's, so I kind of already knew what it was,
23:09and that it's an uncontrollable thing, and it's worse to hold them in than it is to just let it all out.
23:14And so she would tick, and then we just kind of move on with our conversation.
23:18There were some other things that I didn't realize that I didn't like.
23:21Like, I didn't like circle tables because, like, it only got you secluded to the people that were at your table.
23:26So I kind of want, like, long tables, and then I would want to be separated, like him and I.
23:31Like a sweetheart table?
23:32Mm-hmm.
23:33Oh, that's, I love that.
23:34Honestly, having a sweetheart table was so nice, like at, like, my wedding,
23:37because it was like we got to sit there and enjoy each other.
23:40Mm-hmm.
23:41And not be surrounded by a bunch of people.
23:43The fact that my tics are not being brought up, like, no one's just dying laughing out of anywhere.
23:49I feel accepted, and I feel like I belong in this group because we're all just being ourselves.
23:56Two girls' lives!
23:59Salut.
24:02This is so strong.
24:05Okay, so I'm going to do something you guys have never seen before,
24:07and I'm going to make us all some cotton candy.
24:08Oh, my gosh.
24:09It's cotton candy!
24:10Exactly.
24:11Has anybody ever made cotton candy before?
24:12A long time ago.
24:13Absolutely.
24:14I have never.
24:15Oh, it's coming out!
24:17Look at it.
24:18Pump that dick, bitch.
24:19Oh, my gosh.
24:20That looks good.
24:22Mm.
24:23Oh.
24:24Thank you.
24:25That's literally perfect.
24:26Little sugar hangover.
24:27By the way, with wedding planning, me and Colin decided that we were going to start premarital therapy.
24:33One thing that was brought up was finances and saving money and kind of like this huge stress that he has with this,
24:40like, him getting out of the military.
24:42So, when you heard Colin say that in...
24:46That bitch!
24:47Is that something that, like, you knew that he was feeling?
24:51No.
24:52And I know it was hard for him to say it.
24:53He's, like, holding it onto himself, thinking that, like, I can't help him.
24:58Hearing that Baylin and Colin are doing premarital counseling I thought was really inspiring,
25:02and I think that's something that a lot of newlyweds or fiancés aren't really talking about as much anymore,
25:08when it used to be a lot more common to do.
25:10Especially with what she's dealing with, her Tourette syndrome.
25:13They can set themselves up for a healthy marriage and hopefully for the rest of their life.
25:17So, I was like, you know what, we'll save money with, like, not ordering out so much.
25:22And it's like, okay, well, now I have to start making food.
25:25So, fun times.
25:26So, what kind of foods are you going to be making?
25:28I haven't figured that out yet.
25:29That's a good question.
25:30We should figure that out.
25:31We'll make your recipe book.
25:32Yeah.
25:33Ooh, that's a good idea.
25:34We could all literally send in our favorite recipes.
25:37That's great.
25:38Make sure the half of it I can put in the air fryer.
25:40Make sure the air fryer.
25:41We should get you a crock pot.
25:42Crock pot is so easy.
25:43You can just throw it in there in the morning, turn it on, and then you don't have to deal with it all day.
25:46Mm-hmm.
25:47And it's so nice.
25:48Crock pot.
25:49I have a gift for everybody.
25:51Right, punky boy?
25:52I have a gift.
25:54Tonight, I have a special, fun, surprise for my girls.
25:59Girls' night with a twist.
26:02Twist that dick around, wrap it, slap it, tap it, that dick.
26:08Everybody, pick a bag.
26:10Ooh.
26:11Here you go.
26:12Just hand it to us.
26:13Oh, gosh.
26:14I'm scared.
26:15Oh.
26:16Mine's multicolored.
26:17Mine is literally multicolored.
26:18No way.
26:19I got purple.
26:20I got purple.
26:21So, the theme for the night is wigs.
26:24This is so fun.
26:26Oh.
26:27I don't think I have my underwear.
26:28Oh, my God.
26:31This is what Girls' Night is all about.
26:33Oh, show up what you got, show up what you got.
26:34Oh, show up what you got.
26:35Show up what you got.
26:36Oh, show up what you got.
26:37Show up what you got.
26:38Oh, show up what you got.
26:39Show up what you got.
26:40Show up what you got.
26:41Show up what you got.
26:42¡Ah!
26:44¡Oh!
26:48We've had candy, we've had the jungle juice, like the crazy wigs.
26:53Sophie turn!
26:54This was a very Balan night.
26:57This was exactly what I needed.
26:58Me and the girls laughing, having fun.
27:01It was really nice to spend time with people
27:03where the main focus isn't about my Tourette's
27:05or mine and Colin's future.
27:07I would say that tonight was a super successful girls' night.
27:11i want you to be able to like think about something for a second
27:18i truly thought he was insane like this is this is no girl's dream
27:41how many blankets do we need do you think i sound good i think you sound like you got a tracheotomy
27:55actually good look for me is this a good sound sounds great means i can't yell at kids
28:00one of you jokers gave this to me this is not my fault yeah well did you come here with this
28:08i did not okay well then you're not culpable thank you since my siblings sammy and burke are in town
28:17my dad wants to have a barbecue this weekend but also my dad's been bugging me to come by the house
28:23to see something and i have no idea what it is so i decided to get a two-hour ride share from dc
28:30to be able to see everybody them kids oh baby finally made it
28:38hi how was it yeah the ride was good okay it wasn't like the other time where i got motion
28:45sickness because ride shares in dc are i know how long is it like two hours
28:49the whole way oh are we gonna eat yeah we're just waiting for burke to finish grilling he's out there
28:57grilling are you hungry yeah are you yeah a little bit where's the wieners are you almost done okay
29:03we're just talking about how you knew your way around a wiener these wieners are very big um you
29:08were telling me how you had a girls night how did that go yes so it went great um me and my friends
29:13have like these regular like girls nights where they'll all come over but they're all themed nights
29:18so we did wig nights you don't have to wear it beckner because what i'm actually you
29:24that's you beckner let's do a side by side see the accuracy looks like you guys both just fried
29:31ramen noodles and just plopped a lot there that's good it's okay we'll just get look at beckner the
29:36wig look for the beckers right now honestly put it on put it on yoder so you have other wigs
29:41yeah yes but i only have one other wig for one person in the room who needs it dad looks like
29:48he shaved their pubes and just threw it on a wig what do you think damn i think it looks good
30:02wait no i haven't seen it i don't think you look like sven with his hair no no now i look like sven
30:09dad
30:16with a baseball bat no it's this
30:24i think you look like you should be on some sort of list maybe 200 feet away from schools or something
30:32well before we eat balen i want to show you something that's that we got outside
30:35okay you guys should come all i've been working on a surprise i want to share with the family but
30:42especially balen good come on what he doing yeah what are we doing julie doesn't have a clue
30:52i i keep her in the dark about things because that's the fastest way to get my ideas ruined
30:57is to invite her into my mind space on these where are we going right here what are we doing i want
31:04you to be able to like think about something for a second i have no idea why my dad is taking us out
31:10back i am so confused on so many different levels you're being creepy and weird right now he's like let
31:17me show you my knife collection now listen i don't know where you are with the whole wedding location
31:24search so so i know that you want animals at your wedding right goats and alpacas and
31:33ringling brothers or whatever you want and a lot of wedding venues probably aren't going to let you have
31:38animals okay you got one chance to make this amazing this this this is it you can put all
31:47those things right here let's have the wedding here in the backyard how was that funny no i'm being
31:55serious serious i've been working on a plan to have the entire yard wide open for balen's wedding
32:04rip the fence down cut trees build a platform day whatever she wants let's start doing something
32:15come on dad seriously who the hell wants a wedding in their backyard i don't even know what to say
32:24so much for trying to take some pressure off of colin this whole idea is only going to add to it this is
32:30crazy this is it let's have the wedding here in the backyard how was that funny no i'm being serious
32:48i'm envisioning it there's not a lot to envision you can have whatever you want here i'll get those
32:55tents put up this is where she comes up the aisle and then we pass the lump we pass we pass along i
33:04trip all right i truly thought he was insane like this is this is no girl's dream how many people you
33:12think inviting we're probably thinking about inviting 175 and thinking between 125 and 150 will show up with
33:18with two toilets here with two toilets two toilets one world like imagine 150 people in this house oh no
33:28they'd have to get over to like the holiday end or something no obviously 150 people are going to lay
33:32up cots here i mean come on i'm talking about people wandering around getting food i mean just imagine
33:38150 people just hammer brutal brutal all right so we'll think of different venues but appreciate your
33:44offer let's move on but if you go to another venue and then they don't allow half of the stuff that
33:49you want in your wedding this is this is the wedding this is an option this is something that
33:53i mean let's hope it only happens once in your life it is an option the last option but it is an
33:57option it could be the last option the last one it's fine it's all right it's it i am enjoying this
34:06but to me i'm not worried about the food i'm not worried about desserts i'm not worried about tents i'm
34:12not worried about outdoors cat i'm not worried about this i'm worried about is bailing going to be
34:17comfortable at this location because we all know that when she gets overstimulated she could have a
34:22bad tick attack and end up on the floor having her wedding here at the house she has a safe place that
34:29she's familiar with comfortable with and if we can take some of that emotional baggage and struggle
34:36away from her to make her day amazing then then that's what it's truly about it's not everyone
34:43else's wedding it's her wedding okay that's what you want so either way whether you choose here or
34:49you choose somewhere else i want you to come over here and look at something it's one more thing for
34:54you to think about and visualize all right let's go over here come on you'll like this here bailing come
35:00over here and stand in front of this look this way so i can take this off and then you can be surprised
35:04it looks like he ordered a bed frame i know wait so he's been out back making this and you guys
35:09haven't he he told me he was doing something special what oh why are you guys laughing oh my god
35:23what are we doing so this so listen so no matter what you pick pick you you can use this for a venue
35:30all right okay well it's not going to be oh my goodness this is going in the apartment no okay we
35:43just need to add some sprinkles do you know what they are that's a horse that's fluffy and toots
35:50so sweet thank you so much this probably took you so long i am freaking so excited i love alpacas
36:01mr and mrs dooley there we go that's chop and that's marlene marlene's a dirty filthy whore
36:07okay all right whatever as our maid of honor we accept this we're not super sure about the venue
36:12i think the venue's good i could see like two big circus tents your animals running around a place to like
36:18take photos there can be like flowers in the background yeah whatever you want to do it's
36:21your wedding it ended up being a great surprise i'm totally impressed the backyard venue idea
36:30i'm not so sure of but the bench is beautiful this probably took you so long to make how long
36:35did it take you to make this 60 now no time i don't know time to stand still when you carve so i'm
36:41not given a time frame it it it's worth it when balen was at her worst four years ago in her medical
36:49journey i really questioned that a day like this would come balen deserves to have the perfect wedding
36:55day like anybody else it's been a long journey and her day needs to be as amazing as her expectations
37:04want to i want her to be able to say dad this is the best day ever
37:15you can put like a like a bow tie or we can put whatever you want it's kind of like
37:20mr and mrs julie that'd be so cute okay that is really cute that's a really cute idea how heavy
37:26are these what if she did well they're heavy oh yeah they got to be heavy i mean what if the venue's
37:31like four hours down the road like i'll just drive it down the road or what if it's here
37:36this sweet gift from my dad has definitely made it harder to choose a wedding venue
37:44i mean i totally get what my dad thinks it would be better for me to have it here and even though
37:50it's not exactly what i thought i wanted for my wedding he's been taking care of me a long time so i
37:56definitely trust his judgment so what do you think it's an option it it is an option me and colin are
38:04trying to save money for this specific reason so i can bring it up to him however i don't think my
38:13parents backyard is colin's first wedding venue choice and i know colin feels a lot of pressure when
38:18my dad gives suggestions even when they're meant to be helpful and honestly i'm a little afraid to ask
38:31i can't look at the chickens
38:36have you told colin no
38:39told me what the last time i saw my dad he pitched the backyard as a wedding venue
38:44i haven't even told colin yet and i'm not even sure i want to
38:48hey mom hi baby baxter would like to have like a sleepover with you for the weekend i'm a little
38:55like nervous i've never hosted a kid before okay i'm going to show you how to bedazzle
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