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00:00¿Todo me lo que me gusta?
00:01La última vez que mi padre pide billet in the back yard
00:03a la wedding venue.
00:06I really don't have words,
00:08I'm really just trying to wrap my head around it all.
00:11Hey mommy.
00:12I would like to have like a sleepover,
00:14like a hangout with you.
00:16I'm surprised that Beckner requested
00:18to have a sleepover with me
00:19because like me he suffers from anxiety.
00:22Hola, ¿cómo estás? Muy bien, YouTube, muy bien.
00:26How ya doin', man?
00:27Good, you guys want to stay have a sleepover.
00:30¿Dónde está el lugar de tener tu abuelo?
00:33No hay idea.
00:34Bueno, siempre hay una opción.
00:37La backyard.
00:39I know exactamente
00:41quién le puso Bacnar a esto.
00:42Gracias, Alan.
00:45No sé cómo decirlo,
00:47pero sí, sí, sí.
00:49¿Qué te preocupes de?
00:51Todo.
00:53¿Tú?
00:53¿Te preocupes si te hablar por un segundo?
00:55No, no, no, no, no.
00:57Bacnar expressed to me his anxiety.
01:00Yeah.
01:00It's a really big issue.
01:19I was talking to Bacnar last night
01:21and he opened up to me about his anxieties
01:24and some of the OCD traits
01:27that I see.
01:28Yeah.
01:29It's a really big issue.
01:31I see a lot of myself
01:33in Bacnar
01:34and from my own journey
01:36and from my own standpoint,
01:38I do worry a little bit
01:39that Bacnar could develop OCD
01:41and without help,
01:43you're just swimming
01:44in your own thoughts all day.
01:46I mean, I think he's...
01:47He's definitely aware of it.
01:48Yeah, and I'm aware of it.
01:49We're aware of it, too.
01:50Okay.
01:51Bailen approaching me
01:53about Bacnar
01:54kind of implies at first
01:57like maybe I didn't know
01:59what was going on with him.
02:02But this is not the first conversation
02:04that we've ever had
02:05where she has concern about a sibling.
02:08This is just who Bailen is.
02:09Like, she has such a level
02:12of deep love for her siblings,
02:14not just Bacnar.
02:15He does a really good job
02:17of hiding it
02:17and putting on
02:18his big, tough Bacnar act.
02:20Bacnar doesn't hold back much
02:22with being open
02:23about his thoughts
02:24and his feelings.
02:25We just take it day by day.
02:28If we found out
02:28that Tourette's
02:29was already in the family
02:30and OCD already ran
02:31in the family,
02:33then we would be able
02:34to, like, as parents,
02:35have that, like,
02:36awareness before, like, the kid.
02:38Does that make any type of sense?
02:39Totally makes sense.
02:40That's why generational diagnoses
02:42mean so much.
02:44But Bacnar doesn't have a diagnosis,
02:46so that means
02:46he can't get treatment for it.
02:48We have been tackling
02:50these family generational disorders
02:53for years
02:53that have genetic components to them.
02:56You know, the tics
02:56and the Tourette
02:57and the OCD.
02:59But these are abstract conditions.
03:02This isn't you go in for an MRI,
03:04they tell you what's wrong,
03:05and they come up with a fix.
03:07There is not a recipe
03:08of knowing when you need
03:10medical help.
03:12Could he get to the point
03:12where maybe he needs
03:13some sort of
03:14interventional therapy?
03:15No, but it's about
03:16the diagnosis.
03:18Because if Bacnar found out
03:19all of these things now,
03:21and he was able to treat them now
03:23instead of at 15 years old...
03:25I'm not medicating
03:26an 11-year-old.
03:28I'm not.
03:28It's not about medication,
03:30but for him to get treated for it,
03:32he needs the diagnosis.
03:34I mean, obviously,
03:35my eyes are open to it.
03:37Right?
03:37You know what I mean?
03:39I don't know.
03:41Bacnar's such a good kid.
03:44With my own medical journey
03:46and the pain and the hurt
03:49that I went through,
03:49I turned it into passion.
03:52And it's helped me
03:55be 100% more aware
03:58of other people
03:59and their emotions.
04:01I just want my Bacchus.
04:02I think that she's taken
04:07those pieces of struggle
04:09and transformed them into power
04:11and her ability to see
04:14the lost, broken, hurt parts
04:16of other people
04:16because that's who she was.
04:18I'm really glad
04:21that you brought that up.
04:21I think it's just important
04:23to keep the conversation
04:24alive.
04:26You're always trying
04:27to stay ahead of the game
04:28because when you let things go,
04:29like, I feel like we let things
04:31go a little bit with Baelin,
04:32and you're backpedaling,
04:33and it's not fair to them.
04:35But with that being said,
04:36I feel like we've gotten
04:37a little bit better at it.
04:39So my gut tells me
04:40that I will know
04:41when it's time
04:42to seek more help
04:44for Beckner if needed.
04:55Why are you stacking them?
04:57I'm going to start out here
04:58with one board and screw it down.
04:59Oh, hey, dude.
05:00What's up?
05:00Beck, do you want to help me?
05:01What is this?
05:03Why is one higher than the other?
05:04This is a registration location
05:06for Baelin's wedding.
05:08Al's always ahead of himself
05:10on projects.
05:11I have plans.
05:12Are you channeling
05:13the field of dreams?
05:13Oh, my gosh.
05:14I am building the field of dreams.
05:16If I do build it,
05:17maybe they will show up.
05:18Maybe it will happen.
05:20I'm lost.
05:21Yeah, we're all lost.
05:22Beckner, did you talk
05:22to Baelin for me?
05:23Yeah.
05:24I feel like I did
05:25a pretty good job.
05:26Of convincing her?
05:27Yeah.
05:28To her?
05:28What?
05:29Yeah.
05:30I almost feel like
05:31it's kind of low of Al
05:33to use Beckner
05:34as, like, this vessel
05:36to creep in
05:37and, like,
05:38push forward
05:39with the backyard dunyu.
05:41I'm not working on that.
05:42It's a brilliant idea.
05:43And if anybody
05:45Beckner knows
05:46what's going on,
05:47he's smarter
05:47than the majority of us.
05:48I'm still waiting
05:49on my payment.
05:50You're good.
05:51You're good.
05:52It's in the mail.
05:54Done.
05:55Look at that.
05:56You want me to take it
05:57from here?
05:58Yeah.
05:59I'm gonna go play games.
06:00Wow.
06:01Thanks for the help, buddy.
06:03Good luck on...
06:05I don't even know
06:05what that is.
06:07It's here.
06:07Did you really tell him
06:09to put in a good
06:10stinking word
06:11about the backyard?
06:13Yeah, I did.
06:14I wanted Beckner
06:15to kind of give me an idea.
06:16Have they found a place?
06:17Have they not?
06:18I don't know.
06:19I'm just in the dark.
06:20We have no idea
06:22how many people.
06:23We have no idea
06:24about time frame.
06:26Like, what month
06:27or if you pick the day?
06:28I mean, I know
06:29it's their thing,
06:31but hopefully
06:31she incorporates
06:33Sammy and me.
06:35Since Balaam
06:36got engaged
06:36nine months ago,
06:38I'm aware
06:38of almost no plans.
06:40The doors have not
06:41been opened
06:41for me yet.
06:43I'd love even, like,
06:44some pictures
06:45when they're, like,
06:46checking out these places,
06:47like, hey, Mom,
06:47this is where we're at.
06:49Oh, I don't know.
06:51I'll ask her eventually.
06:52I just...
06:52I'm just trying
06:52not to be so intrusive.
06:54That said,
06:55something else
06:56that came up
06:57at the sleepover
06:58is her concern
06:59about Beck's
07:01obsessions and compulsions
07:02and the idea
07:04of, like,
07:04a formal diagnosis.
07:07Like...
07:07For what?
07:08OCD, anxiety stuff.
07:12My immediate thought,
07:14honestly,
07:14is that
07:15he's being a boy,
07:16he's being rambunctious.
07:18I'm not too concerned
07:19about it.
07:20But having Balaam
07:21look after him
07:21is priceless to me.
07:23I think that her concern
07:24is coming from
07:25a good place
07:26because her OCD
07:28rules her life.
07:29But Beckner's
07:30so high-functioning.
07:32He just let him
07:33be a boy
07:33for a while.
07:34I look at him
07:35as more gifted
07:36at this point.
07:37Yeah.
07:38Having multiple children
07:40with OCD,
07:40it's like anything else
07:41in life.
07:42It comes and goes.
07:43It falls under that,
07:44like, general anxiety
07:45where if it becomes
07:46every single day
07:48it's starting to build up,
07:49then it's like,
07:49whoa, hang on a second,
07:50what's going on?
07:51Then it's a different
07:52conversation.
07:53We listen,
07:53we know when to act,
07:54but it's never ignored.
07:57No.
07:57The nurse doesn't
07:58warrant attention.
08:00But Al,
08:00she's so preoccupied
08:01that these things
08:02run in families
08:03and that is smart to know.
08:04It's super important.
08:05Yeah.
08:06And if she and Colin
08:07have kids,
08:07there's a good chance
08:08they're going to need
08:09some kind of medical
08:10intervention
08:10and good health insurance.
08:12That's why it's important
08:12that that's your
08:13number one priority
08:14when it comes to
08:14searching for jobs.
08:15The importance
08:19of medical insurance,
08:21especially when you're younger,
08:22is so imperative
08:23that without it,
08:25it almost guarantees you
08:27a path to poverty.
08:29One car accident,
08:30one mishap,
08:32one medical condition,
08:36and you will now be poor.
08:38It doesn't hurt
08:39to have a conversation
08:40and throw health insurance
08:43back in there.
08:43You are going to have
08:44a wife with Tourette's
08:45syndrome,
08:46and we don't know
08:47if it's ever going
08:48to get better.
08:49They might think
08:49that we're nagging,
08:51but I think it's just a poke,
08:52like, just remember
08:53this is worrying us.
08:55We don't know yet
08:57what Colin's future job
08:59will be,
08:59and I would feel
09:00a little bit more comforted
09:02if I knew he was
09:03going to do something
09:04where I felt like
09:05that they were both
09:05going to be taken care of.
09:07For the children.
09:07So I want to talk to you
09:16about something.
09:17Over the last several months,
09:18I have had a lot of stress
09:20regarding what to do
09:23with my career
09:24after the military.
09:25This allows me to be me
09:26and make the decisions
09:27that I think are right.
09:30So welcome to Airly.
09:31Oh, it's like romantic.
09:34This wedding venue
09:35feels more like us
09:38now as far as pricing.
09:40It could be anywhere
09:40from $12,000 to $50,000.
09:53Oh, my, I'm sorry.
09:54I'm sorry.
09:55I'm sorry.
09:56What is that?
09:57Oh, that's a fat pimple.
10:00Her name's Susan.
10:02We're on our way
10:03to a wedding venue
10:03about an hour outside of D.C.
10:05And I'm so excited
10:06to get back into
10:08touring wedding venues
10:09and getting in, like,
10:10the wedding mood.
10:13He's thrilled.
10:16So I want to talk
10:17to you about something.
10:18Over the last several months,
10:20I have had a lot of stress
10:22regarding what to do
10:24with my career
10:25after the military.
10:26So before we reach
10:28this new wedding venue,
10:29I have something
10:30really important
10:31to tell Vaylin.
10:31And I'm a little nervous.
10:33I'm seriously considering
10:35real estate
10:36as a possible career option
10:39after the military.
10:43I'm not going to say
10:44that it's, like, shocking to me
10:46to find out
10:47that this is what you want to do
10:48because I've known
10:49that any job you got
10:51outside of the military
10:52was not going to be...
10:54A corporate job.
10:54Yes.
10:55I was really interested
10:57in real estate
10:58before I joined the military.
11:00I even did a course
11:02in course exams.
11:03I just never took
11:04my state licensing exam.
11:05I joined the military instead.
11:07So I've always had
11:09the interest in it.
11:10It's just never been
11:11the right time.
11:12It's a career where
11:13I can see myself
11:14going into work
11:15every single day
11:16and, like,
11:17being happy.
11:18Like, it's not like
11:19a nine-to-five.
11:21I'm getting paid
11:21whenever I close
11:22on a house.
11:23So there might be, like,
11:25three months
11:26where I don't collect
11:27a single paycheck.
11:29What benefits
11:30does it come with?
11:31Freedom.
11:32Okay.
11:33But not the benefits
11:35that you are talking about.
11:36It's a big benefit,
11:38but it's also, like,
11:39a really big risk
11:41with not having actual
11:42and literal benefits.
11:44I mean, yeah,
11:44but you make enough money,
11:46hopefully,
11:47that you can afford health care.
11:50My medical bills
11:51are a lot.
11:52I'm currently covered
11:53under my parents'
11:55health insurance.
11:56However,
11:57a couple years from now,
11:58I won't be.
12:00Like, that's kind of like
12:00So how do people
12:01do it at first?
12:02If you're barely making
12:04any money at first,
12:05how are
12:05paying out of pocket
12:07going to be safe?
12:08Colin is very ambitious
12:10and very hardworking,
12:12but there is a lot
12:13of uncertainties
12:14with no benefits
12:15and no health care
12:16and not a steady paycheck.
12:18So that's just scary.
12:20How would we even
12:21pay for that?
12:23I don't know.
12:24I'm still trying
12:25to figure everything out.
12:27First things first,
12:29we need to find
12:30a wedding venue.
12:32Like, figuring out
12:33what we like
12:33and what we don't like
12:34is so much fun.
12:36We're getting really close
12:38to when we want
12:39our wedding to happen
12:40and we don't have
12:41a venue yet.
12:42The indoor wedding venue
12:43was kind of a bust.
12:45Her dad pitched the idea
12:46of his backyard
12:47being a venue
12:48and I'm glad
12:50that we're back
12:50on the road
12:51looking at actual venues.
12:54Do you know
12:56what color suit
12:57you want to wear?
12:58Some kind of blue
12:59or...
12:59I'm going to be honest.
13:01I don't dig the blue.
13:02Because my eyes are blue.
13:03So anytime I wear blue,
13:04my eyes pop.
13:06I'm like the creator
13:07of the wedding
13:08and he's like the...
13:10whatever he is.
13:14You're more of the planner
13:15and I'm more of the decorator
13:18and that's why
13:19we're not wearing blue.
13:20Who ends up winning?
13:21Me.
13:22Yeah, there's going to be
13:23a lot of compromise.
13:27For you.
13:28I hope that we can, like,
13:30envision ourselves
13:30getting married here,
13:31you know?
13:32Yeah.
13:32Yeah.
13:38Oh my gosh, no.
13:44This place is so many.
13:46I don't even think
13:47this is the only thing.
13:52This place is amazing.
13:54It's so open.
13:55It's so gorgeous.
13:57It's giving me
13:58old money vibes.
14:00This place is so pretty.
14:02It's like a mansion.
14:04Yeah.
14:04It's effing huge.
14:06Hello!
14:07How are you?
14:08Nice to meet both of you.
14:10Nice to meet you.
14:10I'm Erica.
14:11So, welcome to Airly.
14:13So, for the tour today,
14:14we're going to look at
14:15where ceremony would be.
14:16We'll move to cocktail hour.
14:18We'll look at reception.
14:19You are more than welcome
14:19to interrupt me
14:20for any questions that you have.
14:21We'll go through everything.
14:22Perfect. Thank you.
14:23You're welcome.
14:24Let's go.
14:24Sweet.
14:26Oh, it's like romantic.
14:30This is so pretty.
14:31This is so pretty.
14:32That's like a little mushroom.
14:34So, then we come down here
14:35and this is where ceremony would be.
14:37Oh, my God.
14:40Bitch.
14:43Okay.
14:44So, you have multiple different spaces
14:46that you could stand.
14:46So, you could stand right where you are
14:48and have the archway as the background.
14:49You could also stand over here
14:51in front of the hydranias.
14:53Oh, wow.
14:55And you would come out of the garden.
14:57I would come out of the garden like a fairy.
14:59Yeah, like a fairy.
15:00Fairy.
15:01This wedding venue feels more like us.
15:05I feel really comfortable ticking
15:07because it's outdoors
15:09and it smells fresh, literally.
15:11My parents' backyard smells like horse manure.
15:14This place is a step closer towards our vision
15:16and it's just like your mouth has dropped the whole time.
15:18Okay, here's one of the most important questions.
15:20Do you guys allow animals?
15:22Absolutely.
15:24Sweet.
15:24We have bunnies, deer, foxes.
15:27Do you have horses?
15:28We have.
15:29Not at the moment we don't have any horses,
15:31but we do allow horses.
15:32What about, have you guys ever had alpacas?
15:34No.
15:35So there's an alpaca or a llama farm
15:37right up the road, actually.
15:38Yes, for sure.
15:40It is fate.
15:41If Balin gets her alpacas,
15:44then I'd definitely get my horse.
15:46Only if it's attached to a carriage.
15:48Nope.
15:51This would be reception space.
15:53Mania!
15:54You can just head on in.
15:56Thank you.
15:57You're welcome.
15:58Look at the lights.
15:59This is sick.
16:00This is insane.
16:01Mm-hmm.
16:01So this is the pavilion.
16:03And what is great about this space
16:05is all of these windows are actually doors,
16:07so they can open up for an indoor-outdoor feel.
16:09It's so gorgeous,
16:10and it has so much natural lighting.
16:13But indoor spaces can set off my tics,
16:15so it's really comforting knowing
16:16that all the windows and doors open up.
16:20And as far as, like, the food...
16:22You can do buffet or plated.
16:24I'm not sure if you guys have an idea
16:25of which way you're wanting to go,
16:26but we can do either or in this space.
16:28Do you guys do, like, grilled cheese sliders?
16:30So we do all kinds of things.
16:32We have a late-night bites list.
16:33It has chicken and waffles.
16:34It has cupcake bar.
16:35It has the fry time.
16:36Do you have any ice cream?
16:38We can make ice cream.
16:39A queso fountain.
16:41I have a wedding doing a queso fountain here this August.
16:43I do.
16:44I mean, when I hear the words queso fountain...
16:47Diarrhea, bitch!
16:49Sorry.
16:50I mean...
16:51Cha-cha-cha.
16:53And for our guests,
16:56where is the closest place for them to stay?
17:00Here.
17:01Like, 180 people could stay here.
17:03We have 123 rooms on property.
17:04Holy s***.
17:04We also have two cottages.
17:06So you would actually get a complimentary room
17:08the night of your wedding.
17:10It's an all-inclusive.
17:11That's just amazing.
17:13And we haven't seen a venue like that.
17:16Now, as far as pricing,
17:17how would it be for a weekend between May and June?
17:22Pricing, it's a very wide range.
17:24So, like, a day of wedding,
17:25it could be anywhere from $12,000 to $50,000.
17:29But I do send you a proposal,
17:30so you have a good idea of what it would look like.
17:33Everything about this place seems perfect.
17:35But then when the price is brought up...
17:39Your heart drops to your ass.
17:42You guys have any questions for in here?
17:44I do not.
17:45I'm just obsessed with the whole property.
17:47I can very much see myself getting married here.
17:52The price has got to be right.
17:54Why ain't it?
17:55This is what the case of that one's going to look like.
17:56Yeah.
17:58You guys are getting married.
18:00You're going to eventually want children.
18:01Colin's not 100% sure what his next path is.
18:05Like, a medical plan is probably the number one thing
18:08when it comes to jobs.
18:10At some point, you're going to have to trust me
18:12to be able to take care of your daughter.
18:17You got this girl!
18:32How are you?
18:33Good to see you.
18:34We're going through doggy outfits.
18:36Okay, perfect.
18:37So that's what we're doing?
18:38Basically, I need to organize them
18:40to see if they still fit them or not.
18:43Okay.
18:44These puppies have more clothes than I do.
18:45Here's Tootsie's on May 5th.
18:48You go, Tootsie!
18:49Would you wear these at the wedding, too?
18:51Huh?
18:53Hey, Tootsie, does Balen have good taste
18:55when it comes to your fashion?
18:59Fluff, you like this, bro?
19:02He goes, absolutely not, Mom.
19:05Fluffy, what do you think about your dress?
19:10You like Tootsie's bathing suit?
19:12Nothing but modest in this house.
19:13Okay.
19:14This is...
19:15Colin would want me in for the wedding.
19:16I'd be like, this is it!
19:18Speaking of that, how is that going?
19:20It's going.
19:21It's going.
19:22We just got done looking at a wedding venue,
19:24and it was gorgeous,
19:26but I'm just scared to see how much it's going to cost.
19:29So it might be out of our budget.
19:31So are you excited about looking at dresses,
19:33trying them on?
19:34I'm so excited,
19:35but I'm a little nervous to try them on.
19:37I need to get in shape first.
19:38My new med, which is a mood stabilizer,
19:42makes me gain weight like crazy.
19:44Two years ago, I took a medication,
19:47and it made me gain 30 pounds in a month.
19:51Not 13, 30.
19:53So I'm a little bit more than concerned
19:55going down this route again.
19:57When I tell you nothing fits,
19:59my jeans don't fit,
20:01I'm surprised my sweatpants do,
20:03my bras.
20:04I don't know what's going on.
20:06I need to be able to walk down the aisle,
20:08not be rolled, okay?
20:10But having said that,
20:12I've looked at pictures online of, like, dresses,
20:14but I've never, haven't tried any on.
20:16Should we look at some?
20:17Let's do it.
20:17That's the thing.
20:18Let's go look at them.
20:20There's two types of style dresses
20:22that I can envision myself in,
20:25either princess style
20:27or a boho dress.
20:30But also, I change my mind too much.
20:34Okay.
20:35Cute.
20:35What do you like about this one?
20:37So I like...
20:38The ruffles.
20:39Yeah, it's like a start to the ruffles.
20:41You want to have tiers.
20:42You want to have layers.
20:42Yes.
20:43Yeah, so that's, like, the bottom.
20:44Okay.
20:46This is cute.
20:47I like the silk.
20:48But it's too simple.
20:51Okay, I love this.
20:52That is really pretty.
20:53I like...
20:54Do you like lace?
20:55Yes, but I like the sleeves more.
20:57My sister's going to hate me
21:00when she's going to have to butt and all that.
21:01Is she going to be her maid of honor, right?
21:04Love that.
21:04Yeah.
21:05I know that my mom would love to be
21:08as involved as possible.
21:09But, well, without a date
21:11and without a venue,
21:13I don't got no information to give.
21:15But I do know my mom and my sister
21:17would be very devastated
21:18if I did not take them wedding dress shopping.
21:20Would they even talk to me?
21:23Like...
21:24Pink.
21:27Pink.
21:28Like, would you be open
21:29and not having a...
21:29Okay, I could do pink,
21:31just not this color pink.
21:32What does Colin think about?
21:33Colin doesn't know what I'm wearing
21:35when I go down the aisle
21:36until I walk down the aisle.
21:38I know Colin wants everything traditional.
21:40White shoes, white veil, white dress.
21:42That sucks.
21:43I will not not be in color.
21:47Okay, that is so pretty.
21:48I like that pink.
21:49I like the train.
21:50I could take that.
21:51Oh, yes!
21:54That's cute.
21:54This is perfect.
21:56There we go.
21:56I like the swirls.
21:57I like how big it is.
21:58It looks so fun to, like,
21:59throw around, you know?
22:00Yes.
22:01I am prepared to wear
22:03whatever dress,
22:03whatever color,
22:05whatever style dress I want
22:06in hopes that he will be...
22:08draws to the floor.
22:11I want that dress.
22:12What is he going to say
22:13if I come down the aisle
22:14in a pink, bright pink dress?
22:15What is he going to do?
22:17Say no?
22:18No.
22:18Because he won't get your weight off.
22:20Okay.
22:34I'm glad that Lila
22:36was able to watch the babies.
22:37Yeah.
22:38So we're heading to Roanoke
22:40this weekend,
22:41and I'm excited
22:42to fill my family in
22:44on the non-existent
22:46wedding planning
22:46that's going on,
22:47but we have made
22:48a little bit of progress.
22:50Chuck's bald.
22:52Marlene's a dirty, fat,
22:53filthy, horny,
22:54f***ing whore.
22:56Because of the new tick
22:57I have about Marlene,
22:58Marlene's a dirty, fat,
22:59filthy, horny, lying bitch.
23:01Whore.
23:03We think it's best
23:06that we stay in a hotel
23:07for the night.
23:07I hope I don't say
23:10that tick in front
23:11of your mom,
23:12even though you told me
23:13to say it in front
23:14of your mom.
23:14Yeah.
23:15She knows that you
23:15can't control it,
23:17so look her right
23:18in the eyes,
23:19into her soul.
23:19Marlene's a dirty,
23:20fat, filthy,
23:22horny, whore,
23:23you b***h.
23:23Yep.
23:24And you say exactly that.
23:26No.
23:28I want her to get
23:29over the fear
23:30that she's having
23:31or this anxiety
23:31that she's having
23:32that my mom's
23:34going to, like,
23:35hate her
23:35for saying that.
23:36She knows she's not
23:37a fat, dirty, filthy whore.
23:39Horny whore.
23:40It's just, like,
23:41to have a tick
23:42about Colin's mom,
23:43it's so inappropriate.
23:46You're f***ing bald, sir!
23:49You woke up bald!
23:525 o'clock!
23:53Chuck is bald!
23:57Hi, Mom.
23:59Hey, Dad.
23:59How are you doing?
24:00Hey, Dad.
24:01I'm with Colin.
24:02We're on our way
24:02to Roanoke
24:03to hang out
24:03with the fam.
24:05Okay.
24:06I just wanted
24:07to thank you
24:08again for being
24:09so insightful
24:10and compassionate
24:12and not afraid
24:13to talk to me
24:14about Beckner
24:16and some of the
24:17things that you saw
24:18and that kind of
24:19prompted your dad
24:20and I to think
24:21about things.
24:22Okay.
24:23And since you
24:25and Colin
24:25are obviously
24:26in the car together,
24:27you guys are really
24:28well aware
24:28at this point
24:29what the familial
24:30genetic combination
24:32is with some
24:33of the things
24:34that are going on
24:34with the family.
24:35Mm-hmm.
24:36And you guys
24:37are getting married.
24:38You're going to
24:39eventually want children.
24:40Colin's not 100%
24:41sure what his next
24:43path is,
24:43whether it's staying
24:44in the military,
24:45most likely leaving,
24:46and I start thinking
24:47about medical insurance
24:49and I have some concerns.
24:51Mm-hmm.
24:51Like, a medical plan
24:53is probably the number
24:55one thing
24:55when it comes to jobs.
24:56It's not like,
24:57what do I want to do
24:58because I think
24:58it's fun and cool.
24:59It's, what does
25:00a medical plan look like?
25:01And then second is,
25:03will I make enough
25:03money to survive?
25:05So what does this
25:06have to do with Beckner?
25:07We're just trying to really
25:11help better equip you
25:12with, you know,
25:13an advantage
25:14compared to
25:15figuring it out
25:16on your own
25:16and making
25:17some really serious
25:19decisions
25:20that may have
25:21difficult consequences.
25:22Balen's concern
25:25about Beckner
25:25is extremely important.
25:28That's why it's up to us
25:29to explain to our kid
25:31and our fiance,
25:32this is why
25:34you need health care.
25:35Balen has a few more years
25:36left on my plan.
25:38A few more years from now,
25:39when you have children,
25:41your child is not
25:42on our plan.
25:42You need to do the best
25:43you can do for your family
25:44because if not,
25:46you better fix yourself.
25:48It's not just about
25:49medical insurance
25:50for you, Balen,
25:51but it's for your kids.
25:53Can someone just
25:54get to where
25:55this is going?
25:56Because I'm so confused.
25:58Like, what is going on?
26:00Is Beckner okay?
26:01You know, just watch him go.
26:03He's just a rambunctious kid
26:04and at this point,
26:05we're just really
26:05not pursuing anything.
26:07So you guys came
26:08to the conclusion
26:08that you guys aren't
26:09taking him to the doctor?
26:12No.
26:12I think that we are, like,
26:14a safe, secure spot for him
26:15and if it gets to a point
26:17where things seem to change,
26:18then, like,
26:20we've already been through this
26:20where we're like,
26:21uh-huh, so...
26:22Mm-hmm.
26:23I'm a little disappointed
26:24in them not taking Beckner
26:26to the doctor,
26:27but I trust them
26:28with whatever decision
26:29they make.
26:29They're parenting, not me.
26:31Well, I appreciate
26:32you guys telling me...
26:34Well, we won't keep you.
26:35We love you guys, all right?
26:36All right, love you too.
26:37We'll keep you a little bit, honey.
26:38Okay.
26:39Bye.
26:40Okay, love you.
26:41Bye.
26:42Anywho,
26:43I know what my parents mean
26:45with health insurance.
26:46I mean, my medical files
26:47are, like, this thick
26:48and a lot of my siblings
26:50are pretty thick, too.
26:52I mean, your dad
26:52kind of lost me
26:53when he said stability
26:55and having health care
26:57is more important
26:58than doing something
27:00that you enjoy.
27:01I know that Colin's happiness
27:02isn't in the military,
27:04but I know it's hard
27:05for my parents,
27:06especially my dad,
27:07to trust that everything's
27:08going to work out just fine.
27:10He wants to know
27:10that there's a plan in place
27:11for a stable future.
27:13It's our life,
27:15our family,
27:16it's our household
27:17that we're going to be building.
27:19We need to be able
27:20to make decisions
27:21by ourselves,
27:22and if that involves
27:24a job that doesn't provide
27:26health benefits,
27:27like real estate,
27:29then that's something that
27:30we would have to figure out
27:32on our own.
27:34I understand that
27:35Valen's parents
27:35are worried about their daughter,
27:37but we're about to get married,
27:39and at some point
27:41you're going to have to
27:42trust me to be able
27:43to take care of your daughter.
27:45But at the end of the day,
27:47nobody's going to tell me
27:48what job I'm going to choose.
27:49We'll see you next time.
28:19Oh, you look so pretty.
28:20Oh, you look so pretty.
28:21Oh, thank you.
28:22It is very hard
28:23to go a couple of months
28:24without seeing my son.
28:25It's just,
28:26I like talking to him a lot.
28:27Oh, I'm glad you got to come in.
28:29I'm just seeing you.
28:30I mean, it's been months
28:31since they got engaged,
28:32so I'd love to just get an idea
28:34of where they're at
28:35with all of the planning.
28:36I haven't heard anything.
28:38I just, I like details.
28:39What have you guys been doing
28:40in the meantime?
28:41Well, we're...
28:42We're still looking at,
28:44we're still looking at venues.
28:48That was good.
28:49I'm pretty accurate
28:50if I do say so myself.
28:54We've went and seen
28:55a couple of venues.
28:56One was indoor.
28:58Like all indoors,
28:59high end,
29:00like chandeliers everywhere.
29:01Like everything was marble.
29:03It was very echoey.
29:04That's why we didn't really like it
29:06because it just like
29:07made her feel like
29:07she had to hold in her tics.
29:09So then we looked
29:09at this other place.
29:11It was really beautiful.
29:12It was like on this like compound,
29:14but we just don't know
29:15if it's going to be
29:16within our price range.
29:17And then we have
29:18a cheaper option.
29:19Yeah.
29:20My parents' backyard.
29:21Oh.
29:22They brought that up.
29:23Okay.
29:24Have you thought about
29:25any around here?
29:27I haven't looked
29:28at any around here.
29:30Well, maybe you can
29:31check out some places
29:31around here on your way back.
29:33See if there's some
29:34you can look at.
29:35Yeah.
29:35That'd be awesome.
29:36Colin has a lot of older
29:37persons in his family.
29:39His granddad,
29:39his grandma,
29:40a lot of them
29:41take a lot of medication too.
29:42So he would probably
29:43get more family members
29:44to come to his wedding
29:46if it's closer.
29:47Ride the horse.
29:50Colin wants a horse.
29:51Yeah, I do want a horse.
29:52And I want an alpaca.
29:53Think about it.
29:53Just think about it.
29:55Instead of having
29:55a getaway car,
29:56that's our getaway car.
29:57The horse.
29:57We get on the horse
29:58and we ride it.
29:59I don't like horses.
29:59I don't.
30:00Put the horse in front
30:01of a carriage
30:02and get in the carriage
30:03and let the horse.
30:03Well, then you're not
30:04on the horse.
30:04You're not on the horse, though.
30:06How are you going to get
30:07on a horse in a tux?
30:08You're going to rip your pants.
30:09I'm not going to wear
30:09tight pants.
30:10I don't find a way
30:11to get on that.
30:12Oh, my God.
30:12Even if I rip my pants.
30:14This is not going to end
30:14the way I'm going to do.
30:15No, it's honestly not.
30:17And that's why
30:18I just let him ran.
30:18I didn't even go.
30:20He used to have
30:20this stick horse
30:21that he would ride
30:22around the house, too.
30:23But only with his gun holster.
30:26That's it.
30:27Butt naked.
30:28I'd be butt naked
30:29with my horse head
30:30on a stick.
30:31Ride the horse.
30:32Every night?
30:33No, it was any time
30:34I had to take a shower.
30:35Right before the shower.
30:37Sounds a little OCD.
30:37I would just get
30:38like the zoomies
30:39or whatever
30:39and I'd be like,
30:40oh, I'm so excited
30:40for my shower.
30:41Let me go ride my horse.
30:43Ride the horse.
30:43Well, you're never
30:44that excited anymore
30:45for a shower.
30:46So it's okay.
30:47I did a lot of things
30:47when I was three
30:48and four, too.
30:49So mom told me
30:50the other day
30:51that you weren't
30:51feeling well.
30:52Are you still feeling bad?
30:53You're bald.
30:54Yeah, that too.
30:57Sorry.
30:58It's okay.
30:59I have a really
31:00very, Marlene's
31:02a dirty, fat,
31:02filthy, horny whore.
31:07This specific tick
31:08is really uncomfortable
31:10for me
31:10because nobody wants
31:11to be called
31:12any of those things,
31:13especially Colin's mom.
31:15I'm just going
31:17to let that out now
31:18and say you have
31:19a very extensive tick
31:20and I don't want
31:21you to be offended.
31:24That's okay.
31:25Okay.
31:25I am not going
31:26to be offended.
31:26Okay.
31:28I think in that moment
31:29she might have
31:30been embarrassed.
31:30Hmm.
31:31So I think she might
31:33have some inner feelings
31:34about her ticks
31:35and that she can't
31:36maybe express them
31:38fully in front of us yet.
31:39But for me,
31:40I've gotten to the point
31:41where her Tourette's
31:42is her Tourette's.
31:43I know where her heart is
31:44and I know how she truly
31:46feels about me
31:47so I just want her
31:47to know that it's okay.
31:48It's been eating away
31:50at me.
31:52My mom's reaction
31:53was that she just
31:54didn't care.
31:54And she wouldn't be
31:55offended which was
31:55really, really nice.
31:56I know but I needed
31:57to hear it from her
31:58not from you.
32:00I'll take a bow.
32:01Take a dick.
32:02Take a dick.
32:03Take a dick.
32:04I mean, there's so many
32:07things that go into
32:08a wedding.
32:09What is the number one
32:11thing for each of you?
32:13For me, it's budget.
32:15I want the wedding
32:16to be as colorful
32:17as possible.
32:18That's just everything
32:18I can hope.
32:19We're all going to be
32:19wearing pink.
32:20Please!
32:22Please!
32:23I tried to get Colin
32:24in a pink tux
32:24and he's like,
32:25I will not wear that.
32:26Don't blame me.
32:26I wear pink tux.
32:28I love pink.
32:29Yes!
32:30Can I wear shorts?
32:31Nope.
32:31Skinny jeans with holes.
32:33No, I'm not.
32:34Skinny jeans.
32:35All right.
32:36All right, I'm going to
32:37start cleaning up
32:37some of this stuff then.
32:38It gets me excited
32:39to know that his family
32:41is also excited.
32:43Now we're talking.
32:44Now we're talking wedding.
32:45We'll definitely find ways
32:46to get y'all involved
32:48but I do think
32:49that we should check out
32:49a place on the way
32:50back to D.C. tomorrow
32:51like a venue.
32:52I agree.
32:53I would like to have
32:55some involvement
32:55with Colin in the wedding
32:56but it needs to be
32:58their day.
32:58It needs to be
32:58what they've planned,
32:59what they wanted
33:00but I'd be more than
33:01happy to be a part
33:02of anything that they
33:03would like for me to have.
33:04Let me see
33:05what the heck's going on.
33:07Hey, Jalene.
33:08Can I talk to you real quick?
33:09Sure.
33:09Let me go.
33:12I want to talk
33:14to my sister
33:15because besides Valen,
33:16my sister really
33:17knows me the best.
33:18I have a lot of things
33:19on my mind right now
33:20with wedding planning,
33:22the job after military
33:23and Alan's opinion
33:26that job stability
33:28is more important
33:28than happiness
33:29which is just crazy to me.
33:32It's a lot.
33:33What's up?
33:33So, aside from the wedding,
33:47there's a lot of like
33:48big life decisions
33:50that I have coming up
33:50that I have to make
33:51and I know that you
33:53are doing real estate.
33:54Yeah, yeah, yeah.
33:55I've always been super
33:56interested in real estate
33:57so I wanted to ask you
33:59how's it going?
34:01What's your thoughts
34:01about it?
34:02Yeah, I mean for me,
34:03I have a full-time job
34:05and I do real estate
34:06part-time.
34:07What are you thinking?
34:08It would be
34:09a full-time gig.
34:10Okay.
34:11Why real estate?
34:12Because you could go months
34:14without having a paycheck
34:15and that's definitely
34:17something that you have
34:18to not only
34:19financially prepare for
34:20but mentally prepare for.
34:22Yeah.
34:23So.
34:23It is scary to think
34:25that I couldn't make
34:26a single paycheck
34:27for an entire year.
34:28So, yeah,
34:29there is a risk
34:30but if this happens,
34:31I'm going to give real estate
34:32everything in my body
34:34for it to succeed.
34:36And I just like had
34:36a lot of outside noise
34:37and pressure.
34:39Who's causing
34:39the outside noise?
34:42That would be
34:43Alan,
34:44her father.
34:45Okay.
34:46I think that
34:46as long as it benefits
34:48you and Balin,
34:49that's all that matters.
34:52Okay.
34:52Just shut out the noise.
34:54They're creating
34:55a life together.
34:57I think the outside noise
34:59can create
35:00a lot of distraction.
35:02It's not my parents,
35:04it's not her parents,
35:05it's their life.
35:07I appreciate that.
35:08Of course.
35:09I love that my family
35:11has my back
35:12and I know
35:13that I'm going to regret it
35:14if I don't even just try.
35:17Simply because
35:17it's something
35:18that I've been wanting
35:18to do for a very long time
35:20and it's very,
35:22very important
35:23to have
35:24Balin believe in me.
35:26For the longest time
35:30It's been me and you
35:35Hold tight to stay right here
35:39I know the look on your face
35:43Don't back, don't back away
35:45Cause I don't want to lose you now
35:49This is country roads right here.
35:53So we're still waiting
35:55on the early budget proposal
35:58and right now
35:59it's the one to beat
36:00but today
36:01we are taking
36:02my mom's suggestion
36:03to look at a venue
36:05closer to Roanoke
36:06and we found
36:07a beautiful location
36:08that would fit us in
36:09last minute for a tour
36:10right before we head home.
36:12I'm so excited.
36:15I just hope
36:16I hope it's in our price range
36:18because
36:18Oh my gosh
36:20Look at this
36:23Oh my gosh
36:28Look at this side
36:29Oh my god
36:31It's a barn
36:31Oh my god
36:36I don't think
36:36we need to look
36:37for anything else
36:38This is crazy
36:41Home suite
36:42Let's get eloped today
36:44I'm in a dress
36:45I don't see a horse
36:49getting up here
36:49That's all I gotta see
36:50What do you mean
36:51you don't see a horse
36:51I don't see a horse
36:52getting up
36:52I'm not taking a horse
36:53and carriage down that road
36:54This is a private tour, right?
36:58Yeah
36:58Yeah
36:59Where are they at?
37:02Who is that?
37:03That's my mom and my sister
37:05I asked them to join us
37:06You didn't want to share
37:09any of that with me
37:10until they arrived?
37:12I really want my family
37:14to be involved
37:15in the wedding planning
37:16Why couldn't you tell me
37:17they were coming?
37:18Because I wanted them to
37:20Hi
37:20Hi guys
37:21So I invited my mom
37:25and my sister
37:25to look at this venue
37:27last minute
37:27because I don't know
37:28when they're going to be
37:29able to help us out
37:30in the future
37:30Hey
37:32Hey
37:32I always wonder
37:33why we were waiting out here
37:34Thanks for having us
37:35Yeah
37:36I don't understand
37:37why Colin couldn't
37:38just tell me
37:38that he invited his mom
37:39and his sister on this tour
37:40Don't get me wrong
37:42I love Colin's family
37:43I just know that
37:45my mom has been dying
37:46to be a part
37:48of wedding planning
37:48and the last person
37:50I want to hurt
37:51is my mom
37:51I feel ambushed
37:57Valeria
37:58It's margarita time
38:00I've never needed
38:02to drink more
38:03So we went
38:06and saw
38:07a wedding venue
38:07that we decided
38:09last minute to see
38:10and Khalid and Marlene
38:12surprised me there
38:12by coming
38:13So your dad and I
38:15had like this
38:16little idea
38:17It's the last little idea
38:18you had
38:18we had therapy
38:19Yeah
38:20I think this one's
38:20about as a therapy
38:21Okay
38:22Your mom and I
38:23want to have a big party
38:24Like an engagement party?
38:26Absolutely
38:26Do you think
38:27that your parents
38:28have some kind
38:28of ulterior motive
38:29behind it?
38:31My dad offered
38:32my parents' backyard
38:33as a wedding venue
38:34Okay
38:35It's just
38:36It's just
38:36And
38:37I'm
38:41not
38:42that you
38:44know
38:45I don't
38:46know
38:46that you
38:47know
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