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00:00He's so funny.
00:02No, listen to it.
00:04You're dinner tonight, bitch!
00:06Sorry, you're not.
00:07You're not.
00:08I know the wedding's their thing,
00:11but hopefully she incorporates Sammy and me.
00:16I'm aware of almost no plans for the wedding.
00:19The doors have not been opened for me yet.
00:23If you're going to have an outdoor wedding,
00:25you can have it in my yard.
00:26And if she needed an emotional break
00:28due to overstimulation, tics,
00:31she could have her emotional break in the house.
00:34Balen has really been working really hard
00:37to be more independent.
00:39Having this wedding in her parents' backyard
00:41would be kind of like pushing her back into the fold.
00:45Yay! They're here.
00:47We're heading to Roanoke this weekend,
00:49and I'm excited to fill my family in
00:52on the non-existent wedding planning that's going on.
00:55We've went and seen a couple venues.
00:58Maybe you can check out some places
00:59around here on your way back.
01:01This is a private tour, right?
01:03Yeah.
01:04We are taking my mom's suggestion
01:06to look at a venue closer to Roanoke.
01:10Who is that?
01:12That's my mom and my sister.
01:13I asked them to join us.
01:16You didn't want to share any of that with me
01:18until they arrived?
01:19My mom has been dying
01:21to be a part of wedding planning,
01:23and the last person I want to hurt is my mom.
01:26I feel ambushed.
01:27I wanted to invite them
01:41because I don't know
01:43when we would have gotten a chance
01:44to include them in the wedding planning
01:45or anything like that.
01:46So...
01:47I feel caught off guard.
01:49We both decided
01:50we would involve our families
01:52in wedding planning
01:53after we pick a venue.
01:55So I think if my mom knew
01:57that Marlene and Colleen were here,
01:59she would feel left out.
02:01My mom drives a pussy Prius.
02:04Good afternoon, folks.
02:06Good afternoon.
02:07Hi.
02:07How are you?
02:08Baylen?
02:09Yes.
02:09Nice to meet you.
02:10Nice to meet you.
02:11Nice to meet you.
02:12Appreciate you guys coming out today.
02:13Where did you travel from?
02:16You okay?
02:17Yes.
02:17I have Tourette syndrome,
02:19which is an involuntary motor
02:20and vocal condition.
02:22I just want to make sure.
02:23Yes, I appreciate you.
02:24Thank you so much.
02:25I've never been around
02:26anybody with Tourette.
02:27I learned that I didn't know
02:28she had that until, you know,
02:29she brought it up,
02:30and obviously there were
02:31some signs of that.
02:33So I just...
02:34I feel for her.
02:35I really do.
02:37Well, I appreciate you coming,
02:38and, yeah,
02:39I'll show you around a little bit.
02:40We're excited.
02:41We're excited.
02:41Awesome.
02:43All right.
02:44Well, welcome.
02:45Thank you.
02:46Thank you.
02:47Holy crap.
02:49Oh, this is phenomenal.
02:50This is the Grand Hall.
02:58This is very grand.
03:07This place is crazy.
03:09This is pretty spot on.
03:11I'm glad you like it.
03:12During the reception,
03:14all these veranda doors
03:16were typically open.
03:17Okay.
03:17So you have some people
03:18on the dance floor,
03:19some people on the veranda.
03:21This place is just very rustic.
03:23God damn!
03:24It's very rustic.
03:25It feels, like, homey
03:26and relaxing.
03:28Yeah, and the fact
03:28that you can, like,
03:29open the doors
03:30makes it indoor,
03:31outdoor space,
03:32and with my tics,
03:33I don't feel like
03:34I'm holding anything in
03:35or anything echoing.
03:38I'm obsessed.
03:39This setup works really well
03:40for a rain plan, too.
03:41Most of the ceremonies
03:42are out here
03:43where I'll show you
03:44in a few minutes,
03:44but if it were to rain,
03:46we set up rows of chairs down.
03:48Still provides a nice backdrop
03:49if it rains.
03:50Have you guys ever had alpacas?
03:52No.
03:53Okay.
03:54I'm sure we could work
03:55something out on that.
03:56Okay.
03:57We had an Indian wedding
03:58up here a few years ago
03:59where they brought
03:59a white stallion up.
04:01Oh, there you go, Colin.
04:03Colin could ride up
04:04the driveway and, you know,
04:05yes.
04:06That's his dream.
04:07That's what he wants to do.
04:08He's like,
04:09let's get wedding pictures
04:10on a horse.
04:11A white stallion.
04:12There you go.
04:12Yeah.
04:13I'm like,
04:13I could do a horse
04:14in carriage.
04:15Okay.
04:15I'll drive the horse
04:16and then you can be
04:17in the carriage behind me.
04:18I'm gonna get that thing going.
04:21You have 911 on speed dial.
04:23No, literally.
04:24That's a bonus.
04:25You want to see
04:26where the ceremonies take place?
04:27Please.
04:28Yeah.
04:28Let's go.
04:28Let's go.
04:31Okay.
04:31This opens up
04:32to the ceremony site.
04:34Oh, my gosh.
04:36Look at that view.
04:38This is crazy.
04:40This is insane.
04:41Wow.
04:41This is my dream.
04:42To have that kind
04:43of a backdrop behind us,
04:45I mean, that's gorgeous.
04:46That's all I've been
04:46talking about.
04:47That's all I wanted.
04:49King Julian.
04:50Are there any places
04:51on site where
04:52outside guests could stay
04:53like grandparents
04:54or people from out of town?
04:55Dick.
04:56Yeah, well,
04:56we have one short...
04:58We have one four-bedroom
05:00cottage right up here
05:01on site.
05:03But most of the guests
05:04would definitely
05:04stay in Lexington.
05:05Okay.
05:06So we're about 14 miles
05:07from like the heart
05:09of Lexington.
05:10Okay.
05:10We're a place that we didn't
05:13really know much about
05:13and we kind of just
05:14booked a tour
05:15last minute.
05:16This venue checks
05:17a lot of the boxes
05:18that we have.
05:20It's really accommodating
05:22towards my family
05:23specifically just because
05:24it's a lot closer
05:25to them and they also
05:27have a cottage
05:28on the grounds
05:29that my older
05:30grandparents can stay in.
05:33But all of our guests
05:34wouldn't be able
05:35to like stay
05:35on the property
05:36like the last venue
05:37that we saw.
05:38What's y'all's availability
05:39looking like
05:40from like spring
05:41to summertime?
05:42I think we have
05:43like two dates left.
05:45The quicker you can book
05:46something, the better.
05:47We need to get on that.
05:48I appreciate you guys
05:50making the trip out here.
05:51Thank you.
05:51Appreciate it.
05:52I think I'm able
05:58to picture Colin
05:59as a groom.
06:00I'm also very excited
06:01to see Colin
06:02as a groom.
06:02You can make me cry.
06:06I'm going to cry
06:06my eyes out
06:07the day of the wedding
06:08but I'm very excited
06:10to see him as a groom.
06:11Sorry.
06:15Y'all be safe
06:16coming back, okay?
06:17I love you.
06:18I thought you guys
06:18liked it.
06:19Y'all be safe.
06:19Oh, I did.
06:20Y'all got some things
06:21to think about.
06:21Yes.
06:22For sure.
06:23All right.
06:23All right.
06:24Bye, guys.
06:24Bye, guys.
06:25Bye.
06:25Thank you.
06:26See ya.
06:27It's starting to rain.
06:29We're leaving
06:30just in time.
06:34What'd you think
06:35of the venue?
06:36It was really nice.
06:38Mm-hmm.
06:38I can just picture
06:40everything there.
06:42Like me actually
06:43walking down an aisle
06:45there.
06:45Like maybe not
06:47you on a horse.
06:48Like I just don't know
06:49like what is up
06:50with that.
06:51I'm not getting on.
06:51Maybe that's something
06:52that we can work on.
06:53Oh, my God.
06:54Can you imagine
06:56the story that we
06:57could tell our kids?
06:58I'm not saving money
06:59for our wedding budget
07:00for there to be a horse.
07:02Your mom's a dirty,
07:03fat, filthy horse.
07:06What if you can find
07:07a good deal on a horse?
07:09I still wouldn't ride it.
07:11The one you've got
07:11a good deal on
07:12probably has a discount
07:14for a reason.
07:15It has a discount
07:16for a reason.
07:16I'm telling you right now,
07:17it's going to be a donkey.
07:18So it sounded like
07:21he has really only
07:23two available weekends.
07:25Whenever we get back
07:26the numbers
07:27from these places,
07:28we're really going to
07:28have to sit down
07:29and make a decision.
07:31If budget is the
07:32number one factor,
07:33then the wedding
07:34should be in my
07:34parents' backyard.
07:36It's affordable.
07:38I'm sure that
07:39if we told him tomorrow
07:39my dad would plan
07:40everything out to a T,
07:42he would make
07:42everything for us.
07:43I mean,
07:44it would be really easy
07:45to accommodate
07:46everybody there.
07:47Me, personally,
07:48I don't really want
07:52to have your dad's
07:54backyard as an option.
07:57We're trying to build
07:59a life together.
08:01Yes, but that has nothing
08:02to do with my parents'
08:03backyard.
08:04Yes, it does.
08:05We're trying to make
08:06decisions on our own.
08:07And the decisions
08:10that we make
08:11may not align
08:13with your parents'
08:16or my parents'
08:18vision.
08:19And that's okay
08:19because it's
08:21our life.
08:23Having the wedding
08:25in Alan's backyard
08:26would save us
08:26a lot of money,
08:27but I want us to focus
08:28on building a life
08:29together without
08:31Balen's parents
08:32influencing or
08:34questioning every
08:34decision we make.
08:36But Alan's not going
08:37to back off
08:38unless Balen
08:39says something.
08:41I know you don't
08:42like confrontation,
08:43but I do think
08:45that it's a
08:47conversation that you
08:48should have
08:49with your father.
08:54I just, I just,
08:55I just don't know
08:56if it'll break his heart
08:57or hurt his feelings
08:57if I tell him.
08:59And I just don't
09:00really want to find out.
09:05Your father's
09:06having a lot of
09:07influence on
09:08our lives right now.
09:11I've asked Balen
09:12to have a conversation
09:13with her father.
09:14So, you don't want
09:15Balen to go
09:16communicate for you
09:17every time
09:18there's a concern.
09:20How do you feel
09:21about having a
09:21conversation with Alan?
09:23I love you guys so much!
09:39The next time we go to Roanoke
09:40they're coming with us.
09:41Okay.
09:42We got back from Roanoke
09:44last night.
09:44I really loved the venue
09:46we saw yesterday.
09:47However, I'm not telling
09:49my family about it
09:50because I know my mom
09:51probably won't be too happy
09:53because of Colin's
09:54family being there
09:55and because I know
09:57my dad is really
09:58insistent on having
09:59the wedding in the
09:59backyard.
10:02It's my mommy.
10:03She's calling.
10:05Hey mom.
10:07How are we?
10:08Hey babe.
10:08What a bit.
10:10So your dad and I
10:11had like this little idea.
10:13Oh, you guys always
10:14have little ideas.
10:15The last little idea
10:16you had we had therapy.
10:17Yeah, I think
10:18this one's better
10:19than therapy.
10:22Your mom and I
10:23want to celebrate
10:24your engagement
10:24and was hoping
10:25that you guys
10:26would be open
10:26to maybe come
10:27to the house
10:28bringing some
10:28of your buddies
10:29and having a big party.
10:30What do you think?
10:31Like an engagement party?
10:33Absolutely.
10:33Oh my god.
10:34That would be
10:35so sweet.
10:36Thank you.
10:37Surprise, surprise.
10:39We want to hold
10:40the engagement party
10:41because what better
10:43way to get involved
10:45in the wedding planning
10:46and hopefully
10:47they see that
10:47we can pull things
10:48together when needed.
10:50So where is this party
10:51going to be?
10:52We're in the backyard.
10:55It's pretty amazing
10:56for Alan and Julie
10:57to offer their backyard
10:58for an engagement party
10:59but also at the same time
11:01like this is definitely
11:02Alan's way of saying
11:03hey, the backyard
11:04could definitely
11:05be a wedding spot
11:06for you guys.
11:07Balen really loved
11:08the venue
11:08that we saw yesterday
11:09so I just don't want
11:10her to feel like
11:11she's being pushed
11:12in a certain direction.
11:14You do all the
11:15inviting of your friends
11:16we'll give you
11:17the time and the date
11:18for this weekend
11:18hopefully that gives
11:19people enough time.
11:21Is Sammy going to be there?
11:22Yeah, she's promised
11:23to fly out
11:24obviously you know
11:25she hates to fly
11:26but she's been
11:27a little better lately
11:28so
11:28That sounds promising.
11:30Yeah.
11:31We're definitely
11:31excited for this
11:32so
11:32Thank you guys
11:34so much for putting
11:34this together.
11:36Yeah, thank you guys.
11:37I'm excited.
11:39I love you.
11:40Okay, love you.
11:40I'm pretty excited
11:44for the engagement party.
11:46It's thoughtful
11:46that they
11:47want to do
11:49something for us
11:49but
11:51do you think
11:52that your parents
11:52throwing this
11:53kind of a party
11:54they have some
11:55kind of ulterior
11:56motive behind it?
11:58Why do you think
11:59my dad has
11:59ulterior motives?
12:01I mean your dad
12:02really does want us
12:03to have our wedding there.
12:06That's what I think.
12:07But regardless
12:09of their motives
12:11I do think
12:12that you still
12:13need to be able
12:14to have
12:14a conversation
12:15with your dad
12:16regarding
12:17the boundaries
12:18in our relationship.
12:20I don't want
12:21to have that conversation.
12:23I understand
12:24where Colin's
12:25coming from
12:25but my parents
12:26have been there
12:27through the ups
12:27and the downs
12:28of my tics
12:29and my condition
12:30and they
12:31not only
12:32are my parents
12:33but they're
12:33my best friends.
12:35So I know
12:35Colin sees it
12:36as my dad
12:37overstepping
12:37in our relationship
12:38but I don't
12:39really want
12:40to talk
12:40to my dad.
12:51Phelan sounded
12:52so excited
12:53for the engagement
12:54party.
12:55Yeah.
12:55Listen,
12:56I'm going
12:56to the rental
12:57place tomorrow
12:57and I'm ordering
12:59a tent
12:59and generators
13:01and with lights
13:02and tables
13:02with the chairs
13:03games
13:04like the cornhole
13:06and the things
13:07like that.
13:07It sounds fun.
13:09It sounds a little
13:09overboard and extra
13:10for an engagement
13:11party but it sounds
13:12fun.
13:13You're lucky
13:13I'm not coming
13:13home with a bulldozer.
13:15Okay.
13:17It's a little much.
13:18It's a little much
13:20but that aligns
13:22perfectly
13:22with who Al is.
13:24Not so much me.
13:25I would be like
13:26alright let's dump
13:27off some pizzas
13:28throw in a couple
13:29tables.
13:29Al's like
13:30no this is
13:32how it's going
13:32to roll.
13:35I'll help
13:35you do it.
13:36Yeah I'm going
13:37to call the rental
13:37company tomorrow.
13:38You won't have
13:39to do hardly
13:39anything.
13:40Just be there
13:41and enjoy
13:42the whole thing.
13:44I'm going
13:44downstairs
13:45to get this
13:45stuff ready.
13:47I'm going
13:47to make sure
13:47I got everything.
13:48Okay.
13:49It'll be fun.
13:50Oh this is
13:51going to be epic.
13:51You got this Al.
13:52We're both
14:03hands on the wheel
14:0310-2 bitch.
14:06Are you excited
14:07to go to therapy?
14:08Yeah.
14:09I'm excited.
14:10You sound excited.
14:11You sound really excited.
14:13We're headed
14:14to couples counseling.
14:15The last time
14:16it was pretty intense
14:17so I'm a little bit
14:18nervous to see
14:19what's going
14:19to come up today.
14:21Especially with
14:21the engagement party
14:22right around
14:22the corner.
14:24Till death
14:24do us part.
14:25Nah.
14:26Bitch.
14:28Did you invite
14:28your family
14:29to the party?
14:30Yeah they're coming.
14:31It's just a long
14:31drive for them
14:32as you know.
14:33But I do think
14:34that that is like
14:35the perfect time
14:36to maybe
14:37tell everybody
14:38what...
14:39That you suck
14:40George Washington's
14:41f***.
14:42Tell everybody
14:43what venue
14:44we chose.
14:46Once we decide
14:47what it is
14:48we can just
14:49tell everybody
14:49there.
14:50It does add
14:51a little bit
14:52of pressure.
14:53But if there's
14:54no deadline
14:55I mean we could
14:55be doing this
14:56for the next
14:56six months
14:57to another year
14:58of debating
14:59back and forth
14:59between venues.
15:01I think
15:02what have I...
15:03I think
15:03you sucked
15:04Joe Biden's
15:05thought it was
15:07George Washington.
15:09You're changing
15:10up presidents
15:11on me.
15:13All right
15:14we're here.
15:18I like the
15:18hand action.
15:20Can we sway him too?
15:20No.
15:21Okay.
15:21We're here.
15:21We're here.
15:22We're here.
15:22We're here.
15:22We're here.
15:22We're here.
15:22We're here.
15:23We're here.
15:24We're here.
15:24Hello.
15:25Hi.
15:25It's so good
15:28to see you again.
15:28It's nice to meet you.
15:29How have you been?
15:30Lovely.
15:31How are you?
15:31Good.
15:32How are you, Tyler?
15:33How are you?
15:34Good.
15:34How are you?
15:34Good to see you again.
15:35Woo hoo.
15:36Woo hoo.
15:37How have you too been
15:39since the last time
15:40you were here?
15:40Lovely.
15:41I've been good.
15:41Yeah?
15:42I have been opening
15:43up a lot more
15:44about just things
15:45that overwhelm me
15:46or stress me out
15:47and it's almost just
15:48like nice to be able
15:49to like talk about it.
15:51Ho ho ho your ass
15:52out the door, bitch.
15:54Ah!
15:55Berkey turkey beef jerky
15:56head ass.
15:58That tick came from
16:00forever ago
16:00where I would make fun
16:01of my brother Berk
16:02by calling him that.
16:04Berkey turkey beef jerky
16:05head ass.
16:06Banana whoop your ass.
16:07Buddy your own biscuit.
16:08Bad ass.
16:10Um, how's the wedding
16:11coming along?
16:12Wedding planning?
16:13We have seen a lot
16:15of venues.
16:17We have a lot
16:17of good options.
16:18My dad offered
16:20my back in my parents
16:21backyard as a wedding venue.
16:23OK.
16:25And that's where it stands.
16:26And?
16:27OK.
16:28It's just.
16:30It came from a good place.
16:33I think they're still
16:34just in their own way
16:36still trying to figure out
16:38how to let you go.
16:41Hmm.
16:42Do your parents trust
16:44the two of you?
16:47You don't think so?
16:49Mm-hmm.
16:51I don't think they 100%
16:54trust us.
16:54Mm-hmm.
16:55And why?
16:59Just making, like,
17:00big decisions.
17:02Like, whether it's
17:03the venues
17:04or what career
17:05I want to go into
17:06or health care
17:08or taking care of
17:09Balen.
17:10Mm-hmm.
17:11Their father's
17:12having a lot of influence
17:13on our lives right now.
17:19There is a lot of pressures
17:21that I'm feeling,
17:22so I've asked Balen
17:24to have a conversation
17:25with her father
17:26about allowing us
17:28to be able to have
17:29the freedom
17:31to be able to make
17:32whatever choice.
17:33and she does not
17:36want to have
17:37that conversation.
17:38Okay.
17:41Colin keeps bringing it up.
17:43I just don't like
17:44the situation
17:45with it feeling like
17:47it's Colin
17:47versus my family.
17:49My parents
17:50will always be my parents,
17:51so what else do I do?
17:53Like, I see both sides,
17:54I understand both sides,
17:55but I just don't want
17:56to be in the middle.
17:56So, one of the things
18:00that I'm picking up on
18:01is that you are
18:02feeling the pressure.
18:04Yeah.
18:04And so Balen
18:05is the closest
18:06to her parents
18:07and she's your fiancé,
18:08therefore it makes sense
18:09that you would want
18:10her support
18:11in having this
18:11conversation with them.
18:13I wonder what type
18:14of relationship
18:15you want with them.
18:19You don't want Balen
18:20to go communicate
18:22for you every time
18:23there's a concern,
18:25right?
18:27Yeah.
18:27So, how do you feel
18:29about having
18:30a conversation
18:30with Alan?
18:42This is your future
18:43father-in-law
18:43and right now
18:45you're...
18:46Alan's bald
18:47and Chuck is bald
18:48and Marlene's a dirty,
18:48fat, filthy, horny whore.
18:50And Alan's going to be
18:53your future father-in-law.
18:54Uh, I've had a lot
18:57of conversations
18:58with Alan in the past.
19:01Nothing better
19:01happen to my kid.
19:02If she's over there
19:03on your watch
19:04and something happens
19:05to her,
19:06I will find you.
19:07I would like to have
19:08both of your blessings
19:09to have your daughter's
19:09hand in marriage.
19:12I don't really have
19:13an answer.
19:13Um, I don't know.
19:21It's really important
19:22that Colin does have
19:23that honest,
19:24direct conversation
19:25with Alan.
19:26If he continues
19:27to go through Balen,
19:28there's a potential
19:29for miscommunication,
19:31lack of trust,
19:32and potentially even
19:34some more resentment.
19:34We can still
19:39both talk to him
19:39if you want me
19:41to sit there with you.
19:46I am fine
19:47with us both going
19:48and talking to him.
19:49Maybe he will, like,
19:51bring down his guard
19:53a little bit more
19:54if you're there.
19:57I don't know
19:58when the conversation
19:59with my dad will happen,
20:00but I'm a little nervous
20:02because I don't really
20:03know what he's going
20:03to say,
20:04don't really know
20:05how it's going to go.
20:08You can handle it.
20:09It just won't be...
20:11Comfortable.
20:12It won't be comfortable.
20:13It won't be.
20:17All righty.
20:18So we'll see you guys
20:19next time,
20:20and then we'll check in,
20:21see how things have gone.
20:22Thank you.
20:23Thank you.
20:25Take care.
20:32It's margarita time.
20:46Colin went out golfing tonight,
20:47but my sister just got here
20:49for the engagement party,
20:51and her and my mom
20:52are heading over
20:52to have drinks.
20:53I don't know much
20:54of the party plans
20:55for this weekend.
20:56However, what I do know
20:57is that this will be
20:58a great distraction
20:59from the conversation
21:01Colin wants me to have
21:02with my dad.
21:04And Sammy's definitely
21:05going to need a drink
21:06after flying with her OCD
21:08and her anxiety,
21:09and she just turned 21,
21:11so shut, shut.
21:12Sorry.
21:15Coming.
21:17Who the heck is here?
21:19Who the heck is here?
21:20Hi, your favorite people
21:22have arrived in.
21:23Hi, everybody.
21:24Hi, honey.
21:25I'm going to need
21:26a drink, too,
21:27because I'm going to
21:27have to tell them
21:28that Colleen and Marlene
21:29came to the wedding
21:30venue tour with us.
21:31Will you get the bartender
21:32so I, like,
21:33don't have to do anything?
21:33Nope.
21:34You don't have to do anything.
21:35We'll just hope
21:35it comes out fine.
21:36Thank you.
21:36I'm just going to
21:37move that out of your way
21:38for a second.
21:39You just use this.
21:41God.
21:42All right.
21:43How was the travel here?
21:45It was just a flight.
21:47I had anxiety,
21:48and then I got on the flight,
21:49landed, and now I'm here.
21:50She's minimizing it.
21:51So you slide the plane.
21:52She's minimizing.
21:53You know I don't like
21:54to talk about my flights
21:55after I have to wait like...
21:56You're like, I've made it.
21:57I'm done.
21:58I have to wait like a week.
21:59I mean, I'm glad you're here,
22:00and you made it safe.
22:01Me too.
22:02Both feet on the ground.
22:04Yeah.
22:04I always hate flying
22:05with my anxiety,
22:06but I would never miss
22:07Balen's engagement party,
22:08even though my parents
22:09threw it together last minute.
22:10Time that we spend together
22:12right now is so very meaningful
22:14because Balen's life
22:15is really going to change
22:17with getting married
22:18and whatever else comes after that.
22:20This isn't going to happen
22:21as frequently.
22:22It's going to be few
22:23and far between,
22:24so we have to take
22:24all the moments
22:25while we have them.
22:27Valeria!
22:28All right.
22:28We're just going to keep...
22:30Okay, do you guys want
22:31these titties?
22:32She's already been drinking.
22:33Oh, big old titties.
22:35All right.
22:35Okay.
22:36How's Balen as a bartender?
22:38Oh, she's killing it.
22:38You know, if she turned
22:40the thing around for Tiff,
22:41I'd know.
22:42Like, you know.
22:44Okay.
22:44Cheers to being 21.
22:46Dick.
22:49No, absolutely not.
22:50No?
22:50Okay, you don't have to.
22:51I hate this.
22:53I just don't like tequila.
22:55Oh, I'm trying not to judge you,
22:56but I'm kind of judging you.
22:57Yeah.
22:57Our goal for the wedding
22:59is to help Balen expand
23:00her alcohol palate.
23:02Yeah.
23:04So, on a scale of one
23:05to the anatomy.
23:06What's our excitement
23:06for the engagement party?
23:08How is the backyard looking?
23:10Your dad has spent more time
23:11on the mower.
23:12I'm like,
23:13I met him in the driveway
23:14the other day.
23:14I was like,
23:15you actually missed
23:16a blade of grass?
23:17And I think you should
23:17go back out there
23:18with the scissors.
23:20It might be overkill.
23:21It's okay.
23:22Al's vision
23:23seems to be coming together.
23:25It's with the high hopes
23:27for Colin and Balen
23:28to flip a switch
23:29and go,
23:30oh,
23:30we definitely want
23:31our wedding here.
23:32So,
23:33I guess we're just gonna
23:34see how it turns out.
23:36So,
23:36how was your trip
23:37to Roanoke
23:37that we haven't had
23:38a chance
23:38to chit-chat about?
23:42It was good.
23:43We had a really good barbecue.
23:44It was really,
23:45really nice.
23:45With like all his family
23:46or whatever?
23:47Cray cooked the best
23:48barbecue chicken.
23:49He made like
23:50homemade brownies
23:51with sprinkles on top.
23:53That's right,
23:54up around.
23:54Barbecue chicken.
23:54And then
23:57we went
23:59and saw
23:59a wedding venue
24:00that we
24:01decided last minute
24:03to see.
24:05Kind of like
24:06close to them?
24:07Yeah.
24:08Okay.
24:09It's a good distance.
24:10I couldn't.
24:10So,
24:11we looked at that
24:11and they ended up coming.
24:13They surprised me
24:14there by coming.
24:16What do you mean
24:17that they like
24:17surprised you
24:20at the venue?
24:20Like you didn't invite them?
24:22They just showed up?
24:23I turned around
24:24and they were right there.
24:24Did Colin invite them?
24:25Colin invited them.
24:28This is one of her
24:29biggest moments in life
24:30and as the mother
24:32of the bride,
24:33I still haven't even
24:34been able to see
24:34any venues.
24:35I wish my parents
24:36were a little bit
24:37more involved
24:37because I feel like
24:38Colin inviting his family
24:40to the wedding venue
24:40that they toured
24:41stripped them of it
24:42a little bit,
24:43of experiencing that
24:44with their daughter.
24:49It was really nice.
24:52So truly,
24:53how close
24:53do you think
24:54the two of you are
24:54to coming
24:55to a decision
24:56on the venue?
24:58We're coming
24:58to a conclusion.
24:59Okay.
25:00All right, ladies.
25:01Cheers to, um...
25:03Hopefully finding
25:03a wedding venue.
25:04Yep.
25:04Cheers to more
25:05of these girl dates
25:06and talking about
25:07future wedding plans
25:09after, after the venue
25:11is secured.
25:12Are you okay?
25:12Cheers.
25:13Ready?
25:13Cheers to more planning.
25:18He's like a s***.
25:20Oh, that was not
25:21a good ending.
25:22That's okay.
25:22And we have to really
25:23hurry up and pick up
25:24the red.
25:24Oh my God.
25:25It's fine.
25:26Don't freak out.
25:26Flight it into the thing.
25:27Okay, where's your towels?
25:29Yeah.
25:30Okay.
25:31I'm relieved
25:31that my mom knows now
25:33that Colin's sister
25:33and mom went on the tour.
25:35And moving forward,
25:36I would like to involve
25:37my family more.
25:38I mean, look how great
25:39they are at helping me
25:40clean up all my other messes.
25:41After I just cheers
25:42to more of these
25:43get-togethers.
25:44Let's do it.
25:46Yeah.
25:50Hi.
25:51Hi.
25:51Hi.
25:53Today's
25:53Van Collins
25:54engagement party
25:55and it's looking
25:56pretty amazing.
25:57This is so beautiful.
25:59My dad is making
26:00this wedding venue
26:01decision really hard.
26:02We're making
26:03the right decision,
26:04right?
26:05I don't know,
26:06are we?
26:15Boys, let's go.
26:17Your dad needs help
26:18with the outdoor stuff
26:19and it's going to go
26:20right in that area
26:21over there.
26:23Today's
26:24Van Collins
26:24engagement party
26:25and it's looking
26:26pretty amazing.
26:27But what we've set up
26:29today is just
26:30the beginning.
26:30And if they want
26:31to have a wedding
26:31in the backyard,
26:32I would build
26:33ten times better
26:34than this
26:34to have these guys
26:36have an amazing day.
26:38Hey, y'all.
26:39Lila!
26:40How are y'all?
26:41Hey, girlfriend.
26:42Okay, huggies.
26:43How are you?
26:44I'm so glad
26:45that you came to help.
26:46Thanks.
26:46Oh, yes.
26:47Okay, we're going to
26:47throw these over
26:47here for now.
26:50Is there a lot
26:50of people going
26:51to be here?
26:51Probably 50 or more.
26:53Today, I am
26:54mostly excited
26:55about the food table,
26:57mostly the desserts.
26:58That's where we
26:59spend most of my time.
26:59The backyard
27:00definitely looks
27:01way better
27:02than I expected.
27:03There's a tent,
27:04food, tables,
27:06chairs,
27:06like literally
27:07everything.
27:09Kobe.
27:10Is there anything
27:10missing from this party?
27:12I would add a DJ
27:13and then I would add
27:14like maybe like
27:15a surprise gift,
27:15like a car
27:16for like one
27:18lucky like brother.
27:20Like me?
27:21Like one who's
27:21like 17.
27:24Sammy's out
27:24getting the cake.
27:25So, oh my gosh,
27:26I appreciate you so much.
27:27Yeah, of course.
27:28Anytime.
27:29It's just weird
27:29because it's feeling
27:30very wedding-esque.
27:32I know.
27:33Are you so excited though?
27:34Like how do you feel
27:34about like all the
27:35planning and everything?
27:37I don't know.
27:38It's just odd still
27:40because I haven't
27:41really contributed
27:41anything to her planning.
27:44So this feels like
27:45this is my opportunity
27:46to do something.
27:49Yeah.
27:49No, I'm excited
27:50to see what wedding
27:51venue she picks.
27:53Did you know
27:53that her father
27:54wants her to be here?
27:56Has she told you that?
27:56Oh, no.
27:57I didn't know that.
27:58Low key though?
28:00Yeah.
28:00I mean, it would be amazing.
28:01Like that would be amazing.
28:02Maybe she'll see this
28:02and be like,
28:03okay, this is,
28:04this will work.
28:06Like overwhelmed
28:08with trying to sell
28:10this backyard venue idea.
28:12I've come around
28:13to seeing the benefits
28:14of having the wedding here
28:15and I can see the potential,
28:17especially how everything
28:18is coming together.
28:20But it's like exhausting
28:21at the same time.
28:22It's like,
28:22Elle, like,
28:24when do we stop?
28:25These look good.
28:26I'm sending her inside.
28:27Oh, yeah, thank you.
28:28I'm sending her inside
28:30to make some punch.
28:31It's kind of funny,
28:32actually,
28:33how hard we're trying.
28:36Well, that's all
28:37set up over there.
28:38Okay.
28:38Got it.
28:39What else do you have to do?
28:41This is literally it for me.
28:42Listen, this looks amazing.
28:43I got it.
28:44Those look really funny.
28:45I'm stressing.
28:46I got a surprise
28:47coming for Bailen.
28:47I got alpacas coming here.
28:50What alpacas?
28:52From the farm
28:52that we went from.
28:53I can't.
28:54We're not running alpacas here today.
28:56They're coming right over here.
28:57Put them in the yard.
28:58I literally can't with you.
29:00No, I'm selling
29:00this whole side venue.
29:01This whole thing.
29:02I'm going to be one
29:03of those event planners.
29:04I'm going to get a suit.
29:04Oh, s***.
29:05The alpaca surprise
29:06is so next level.
29:08But I kind of wouldn't
29:10expect anything less from him.
29:12If he's going to do a surprise,
29:14he's going all in.
29:15And I just can't believe
29:18he went that far in.
29:21Everything looks so good.
29:23Yeah, this looks amazing.
29:24I'm going to go get dressed.
29:25And you have to get dressed, too,
29:26because you're dripping sweat.
29:27We missing anything?
29:29Yeah, the alpacas, apparently.
29:31For the love.
29:32Ha!
29:45You ready?
29:46Yep.
29:47Hey, y'all.
29:48Hey.
29:49Can you clean up, Nass?
29:53Oh, they're here.
29:54Oh, they're here.
29:54They're here.
29:56Oh, my gosh.
29:57I am so excited.
29:58Today is our engagement party day.
30:00And we finally made the decision
30:02about our wedding venue.
30:04And we are going to tell
30:05all of our guests.
30:06Hi.
30:07Hi.
30:08Hi.
30:09They were good.
30:10Oh, my gosh.
30:11They kind of overdid themselves.
30:13What do you think?
30:15It's amazing.
30:17Oh, my God.
30:17Y'all got wood tables and everything?
30:19My initial reaction
30:21to everything being set up was,
30:24I got it.
30:26Alan really went, like,
30:27all out with this.
30:28He went full throttle.
30:29And it's amazing.
30:31Mm-hmm.
30:31What do you think, sweetheart?
30:32Oh, my God.
30:33You guys are amazing.
30:34Is that the alpaca bench that you made?
30:37Yeah.
30:37Come on.
30:38Find a spot.
30:39Do you want to come?
30:39Find a spot in your apartment
30:40because it's going there.
30:41We wanted to have
30:43a tough conversation
30:44with my dad.
30:45Give your alpaca a kiss.
30:48Today's not the day.
30:50Not the day, not the time.
30:52This one's not going to spit
30:53in your face.
30:54One, two, three.
30:57I think that a conversation
30:58like that definitely
30:59needs to be had.
31:00But having it on a day
31:02like this would just
31:03ruin the moment.
31:05My mom's a swinger.
31:08It's okay.
31:09We were talking about
31:10these people we know
31:11that we think are swingers
31:12and that was on the way here.
31:14So good.
31:16This is so beautiful.
31:18It's so rustic.
31:20This is beginner level, Bailen.
31:21Oh, it's beautiful, though.
31:22For a wedding,
31:22this could be, like, advanced.
31:24You can see the look, though.
31:25You can see the look.
31:26No, it's so perfect.
31:28Yeah, it's so cute.
31:28My dad is making
31:30this wedding venue decision
31:31really hard.
31:34Everything that he did,
31:35he made absolutely beautiful
31:37and unforgettable.
31:39Like, spot on.
31:41Your dad really did go
31:43above and beyond for this.
31:45All out.
31:46It's amazing.
31:47I mean, it's amazing.
31:50Those and I are having a problem.
31:53Let's just switch sides.
31:54Well, I don't want you
31:55to smash the cookies either,
31:56so just keep a proper distance.
31:58Okay.
31:59Okay?
31:59Right here.
32:00Yep.
32:00Out of reach.
32:01Yep.
32:01Here we go.
32:03This is so perfect.
32:05I didn't think that
32:06it could look like this.
32:08Like, I...
32:09I didn't see the vision either.
32:12I didn't envision any of this.
32:14It makes me change my mind
32:15and now I'm stressed.
32:20We're making the right decision, right?
32:26I don't know, are we?
32:29I mean, I could really picture
32:31the wedding back in the backyard.
32:33Could you?
32:34Yeah.
32:35Seeing how good the backyard looks
32:37makes me question
32:38if we're making the right decision.
32:41Like, this just makes my heart happy.
32:43I was definitely feeling
32:45that's that against it before.
32:46But now, Baylen's second-guessing
32:48the wedding venue choice,
32:50and I kind of am, too.
32:51I don't know.
32:53I don't know.
32:57I don't know.
33:05Are we really just flipping everything?
33:15All right.
33:16Well, we can talk about it later.
33:18After seeing this amazing
33:20engagement party set up,
33:22it can only make me wonder
33:23what they would do for the wedding.
33:24And it's making me a little nervous
33:26because we have to announce
33:28our wedding venue,
33:29and I'm second-guessing it.
33:34Oh, my family's here.
33:35Hello.
33:36Hi, everyone.
33:38Hey, Mom.
33:39But it's so nice
33:40to have both Collins
33:41and my friends and family
33:42get together
33:43and all of us just having
33:44dick for Thanksgiving.
33:47All of us having a good time.
33:49Hi.
33:49Hi, guys.
33:50Thanks for coming.
33:52Hey.
33:53It's just a really special day.
33:55Four years ago,
33:56I would have never pictured
33:57myself here now.
34:01I've gone from
34:02needing my parents
34:04and living with them
34:05to
34:05being independent
34:08and
34:08growing.
34:11Having Colin in my life
34:12has
34:12made me
34:14the person I am today.
34:16I feel like we're doing
34:19vows right now.
34:20Damn.
34:20I feel like I'm going to be
34:21off.
34:23Together we belong.
34:24We don't need
34:26our stars to die
34:27or stone
34:29because we become
34:31more and big together.
34:33We are that time
34:34that burns forever.
34:35Hi.
34:36You look beautiful.
34:37How are you?
34:39Great.
34:40It's been a few months
34:40since Olivia has visited
34:42from Tulsa.
34:43I'm glad she's here,
34:44but we do set each other's
34:45tics off.
34:46I've dressed in terms
34:46stupid.
34:47Same.
34:48So have you
34:51like found
34:52a wedding venue?
34:54We've seen a lot
34:55of them
34:55and it's just
34:57really hard.
34:58Yeah.
35:03So do you guys
35:04know anything
35:05about the venue?
35:06I know that you
35:07looked at one
35:07with them.
35:08It is amazing.
35:11Mountains,
35:11360 views,
35:13very private.
35:14Yeah.
35:15I think it's
35:16a very hot
35:17contenter.
35:18I do.
35:18Like have
35:19they come over
35:20to you and said
35:21like hey
35:21that's the one?
35:22No.
35:22Because I know
35:23that they've
35:23looked at a few.
35:24They haven't really
35:25said if this is
35:26the right one
35:27or not.
35:27Yeah.
35:28Like really
35:28they haven't?
35:29No.
35:30No.
35:30They haven't really.
35:31No.
35:32They have not
35:32said this is the one.
35:33Yeah.
35:34Hopefully they
35:34give us some
35:35clarity.
35:35I know.
35:36I hope so.
35:37I hope so too.
35:39them kids.
35:45Oh.
35:46Simi looks
35:47so good.
35:48Simi.
35:48Hi.
35:49You are so
35:49very gorgeous.
35:50I love you
35:51but we got to
35:51put that down.
35:52Let's go walk
35:52it up.
35:52Okay.
35:54You're bald,
35:55Chuck.
35:55Thank you.
35:56Just in case
35:56you weren't aware
35:57already.
35:57Yeah.
35:58Stay away
35:58from the gate.
35:59I know.
35:59I'm trying to
35:59stay away
36:00from everything.
36:01I'm excited.
36:02It's really
36:02cute.
36:03You like it?
36:04It's so cute.
36:04You could have
36:04a wedding out
36:05here now.
36:05Oh, good
36:06Lord.
36:06Thanks,
36:07Simi.
36:08It's bottom
36:09barrel but
36:10it's not bad.
36:12Well,
36:12from where I'm
36:12standing,
36:13the barrel looks
36:13pretty good.
36:14It looks pretty
36:15I think
36:16it's great.
36:16It's a glimpse
36:17of what the
36:17wedding could be
36:18if they wanted
36:19the wedding here
36:19but I think
36:20he did a great
36:21job.
36:23My surprise
36:23is here.
36:24Oh my gosh.
36:25I'm going
36:25down the driveway.
36:28Perfect.
36:31Oh, hey
36:31everybody.
36:33Holy
36:34she's going
36:35to lose
36:35her mind.
36:36Hi,
36:37Scooby.
36:38Hi.
36:39When we
36:39were at
36:40an alpaca
36:41farm for
36:41Easter,
36:42Balen
36:42really,
36:43really
36:44bonded
36:45with one
36:46particular
36:46alpaca
36:47named Scooby.
36:49Yeah,
36:50Scooby just
36:50turned two.
36:51Would I
36:53be able
36:53to particularly
36:54have Scooby
36:55at the wedding?
36:56If you want
36:57Scooby there,
36:57we'll make sure
36:58Scooby's at your
36:58wedding.
36:59So I really
37:00knew I had
37:00to get him
37:01here today.
37:02This is going
37:02to be absolutely
37:03amazing.
37:04You can't
37:04wait to see
37:05the look
37:05on her face.
37:07Oh, yeah.
37:07Oh, yeah.
37:07Oh, yeah.
37:13What?
37:13I did it.
37:14What?
37:17This is Scooby.
37:19Oh, my God.
37:20It's Scooby.
37:23Scooby.
37:25I love you.
37:27Oh, my God.
37:29Oh, my God.
37:32You look so
37:33good.
37:33Thanks for
37:33making my
37:34kids smile.
37:35Thank you
37:36so much.
37:37You're so welcome,
37:37Balen.
37:38I love you
37:38and I wanted
37:39you to have me.
37:39This makes my
37:39entire day.
37:43It was just
37:43really thoughtful.
37:44I feel like my
37:45dad knows just
37:46how much alpacas
37:47calm me down
37:47and help my
37:48anxiety.
37:49Honestly, what
37:50a great day.
37:51I really don't
37:52like surprises,
37:53but this was
37:53the best surprise
37:54I've ever had.
37:55It was pretty
37:56amazing.
37:57Her face is
37:58like ingrained
38:00like I'll never
38:01forget it.
38:02This is the
38:03happiest I've
38:04seen Balen
38:04in a while.
38:06You know,
38:07because we see
38:08a lot of ups
38:09and downs.
38:09So just to
38:10see this one
38:11moment of
38:13like authentic,
38:14pure joy,
38:17it's amazing.
38:19Okay.
38:20Come on.
38:21Turn it around.
38:22Oh, you say
38:22that's you.
38:24It means
38:24everything to me
38:25to make Balen
38:26happy.
38:26And I'm pretty
38:28sure Balen
38:29understands just
38:30the distance that
38:31her dad will go
38:32to make her
38:32happy.
38:36Alan's bald.
38:37We have to
38:37make a decision
38:38on the
38:39bignet.
38:41We still have
38:42a really big
38:42decision to make
38:43today.
38:44Like, the
38:45clock is
38:45ticking.
38:48Are we on
38:52the same page?
38:54Take it up the
38:55ass.
38:56I think we
38:57are.
38:57Come on.
38:59In this moment,
39:00I am extremely
39:01overwhelmed and
39:02anxious.
39:04And Colin will
39:05be doing all
39:05the talking.
39:07Suck a
39:07b****.
39:08Suck a b****.
39:09Can you go right
39:09here?
39:09Yeah.
39:10All right.
39:11Hey, everybody.
39:12Can we get you
39:12guys to come over
39:13here?
39:13We just have an
39:14announcement and
39:15everything.
39:16Oh, boy.
39:17What do they have
39:17to tell us?
39:18It's a boy.
39:19Don't just get
39:20out.
39:20Chuck is
39:23bald.
39:24Allen is
39:25bald.
39:26Jamie does
39:27crystal math with
39:28Joe Biden.
39:29Okay, keep
39:30talking.
39:30I'm just...
39:32So we just
39:32wanted to thank
39:33everybody for
39:33coming out here,
39:34friends, family.
39:35Like, this means a
39:36lot to us.
39:37We wanted to give a
39:38big shout-out to
39:39Julie and Allen for
39:40hosting an event like
39:41this.
39:41All you people.
39:41It means a lot.
39:42And you guys did an
39:43amazing job.
39:44My sister sucks for a
39:44living.
39:45So thank you,
39:45guys.
39:46God.
39:47Just throw that
39:48one out there.
39:49Poor Colin.
39:49Can't make it
39:50through a sentence.
39:51So in the quest
39:52for a wedding venue,
39:54it has been our
39:55number one priority
39:56to find something
39:57that Balin feels
39:58comfortable with.
39:59And that in and
40:01of itself has been
40:02pretty eventful,
40:03trying to find the
40:04right one that
40:05checks all of the
40:06boxes.
40:07It's been a really,
40:08really hard decision
40:09because of all the
40:09great options that
40:10we have.
40:11With that being
40:12said, where we
40:15will be having
40:16our wedding will
40:18be at...
40:19Miss it, bitch.
40:37In all Nantucket,
40:39they all wankers.
40:41Nantucket?
40:41You forgot your
40:42dildo in the airport.
40:44I'm on the struggle
40:45bus with the dildo tech.
40:46I mean, you're
40:47thinking about getting
40:48the real estate?
40:49Yeah, I am.
40:49As a realtor,
40:50you're an independent
40:51contractor, and so
40:52healthcare can be
40:53challenging.
40:53I don't care who it
40:55upsets.
40:55I'm going to do
40:56what's best for me
40:57and what I think is
40:58best for the both of us.
40:59If this doesn't work
41:00about what are you
41:02going to do, it's
41:03getting harder for
41:04Sammy to come here
41:05with her anxiety
41:06and her thoughts,
41:07so this just adds to
41:08it.
41:11I really wish that
41:13Sammy could be here.
41:15Wedding planning can
41:16be a little scary.
41:17We've gone back and
41:18we've crunched the
41:19numbers.
41:19We're going to need
41:20them to kind of, like,
41:21come back down to
41:22earth.
41:23I want us to have
41:24kids sooner than
41:26later.
41:26You're throwing me
41:27for another loop.
41:28If you can't take
41:29care of you, then you
41:30can't take care of a
41:31child.
41:32You remember the
41:33link I sent you on
41:35the device?
41:35Yes, the new
41:36pulse.
41:37So this device that
41:38sits on your hand like
41:39a watch could cut her
41:41ticks almost in half.
41:42I would love to try
41:44this device.
41:45It's not available
41:46here.
41:46If you did want to
41:47try it, you'd have to
41:48go to the UK, I'm
41:49afraid.
41:50Well, the way news.
41:52Good day, take off
41:52now.
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