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00:00He's so funny.
00:03Listen to it.
00:04You're dinner tonight, bitch.
00:06Sorry, you're not.
00:07You're not.
00:09I know the wedding's their thing,
00:11but hopefully she incorporates Sammy and me.
00:17I'm aware of almost no plans for the wedding.
00:20The doors have not been opened for me yet.
00:24If you're going to have an outdoor wedding,
00:26you can have it in my yard.
00:27And if she needed an emotional break
00:29due to overstimulation, tics,
00:33she could have her emotional break in the house.
00:36Balen has really been working really hard
00:39to be more independent.
00:41Having this wedding in her parents' backyard
00:43would be kind of like pushing her back into the fold.
00:47Yay, they're here.
00:49We're heading to Roanoke this weekend,
00:51and I'm excited to fill my family in
00:55on the non-existent wedding planning that's going on.
00:58We've went and seen a couple venues.
01:00Maybe you can check out some places around here on your way back.
01:04This is a private tour, right?
01:06Yeah.
01:07We are taking my mom's suggestion
01:09to look at a venue closer to Roanoke.
01:13Who is that?
01:14That's my mom and my sister.
01:17I asked them to join us.
01:19You didn't want to share any of that with me
01:22until they arrived.
01:23My mom has been dying
01:25to be a part of wedding planning,
01:27and the last person I want to hurt is my mom.
01:30I feel ambushed.
01:32I wanted to invite them
01:46because I don't know
01:48when we would have gotten a chance
01:49to include them in the wedding planning
01:50or anything like that.
01:52I feel caught off guard.
01:55We both decided
01:56we would involve our families
01:58in wedding planning
01:59after we pick a venue.
02:00So I think if my mom knew
02:03that Marlene and Colleen were here,
02:05she would feel left out.
02:07My mom drives a pussy, Prius.
02:11Good afternoon, folks.
02:12Good afternoon.
02:13Hi.
02:13How are you?
02:15Balen?
02:15Yes.
02:16Nice to meet you.
02:17Nice to meet you.
02:17Nice to meet you.
02:18I appreciate you guys coming out today.
02:21Where did you travel from?
02:22You okay?
02:23Yes.
02:24I have Tourette's Syndrome,
02:25which is an involuntary motor and vocal condition.
02:29I just want to make sure.
02:30Yes, I appreciate you.
02:31Thank you so much.
02:33I've never been around anybody with Tourette.
02:35I learned that I didn't know she had that
02:36until, you know, she brought it up
02:38and obviously there were some signs of that.
02:40So I just, I feel for her.
02:43I really do.
02:45Well, I appreciate you coming
02:46and yeah, I'll show you around a little bit.
02:49We're excited.
02:49Look at this one.
02:50Awesome.
02:52All right.
02:52Well, welcome.
02:56Holy crap.
02:57Oh, this is phenomenal.
02:59This is the Grand Hall.
03:07This is very grand.
03:08This place is crazy.
03:19This is pretty spot on.
03:21Glad you like it.
03:22During the reception,
03:24all these veranda doors were typically open.
03:26Okay.
03:27So you have some people on the dance floor,
03:29some people on the veranda.
03:31This place is just very rustic.
03:33God damn!
03:34It's very rustic.
03:35It feels like homey and relaxing.
03:38Yeah, and the fact that you can like open the doors
03:40makes it indoor, outdoor space.
03:43And with my tics,
03:44I don't feel like I'm holding anything in
03:46or anything echoing.
03:49I'm obsessed.
03:50This setup works really well for a rain plan too.
03:52Most of the ceremonies are out here
03:54where I'll show you in a few minutes.
03:55But if it were to rain,
03:57we set up rows of chairs down.
04:00Still provides a nice backdrop if it rains.
04:02Have you guys ever had alpacas?
04:04No.
04:04Okay.
04:05I'm sure we could work something out on that.
04:08Okay.
04:08We had an Indian wedding up here a few years ago
04:11where they brought a white stallion up.
04:13Oh, there you go, Colin.
04:15Colin could ride up the driveway and, you know, yeah.
04:17That's his dream.
04:19That's what he wants to do.
04:21He's like, let's get wedding pictures on a horse.
04:23A white stallion.
04:24There you go.
04:25I'm like, I could do a horse in carriage.
04:27Okay, I'll drive the horse
04:29and then you can be in the carriage behind me.
04:31I'm gonna get that thing going.
04:34You have 911 on speed dial.
04:36No, literally.
04:37That's a bonus.
04:38You want to see where the ceremonies take place?
04:40Please.
04:41Yeah, let's go.
04:42Let's go.
04:44Okay, this opens up to the ceremony site.
04:48Oh, my gosh.
04:50Look at that view.
04:52This is crazy.
04:54This is insane.
04:55Wow.
04:55This is my dream.
04:56To have that kind of a backdrop behind us,
04:59I mean, that's gorgeous.
05:00That's all I've been talking about.
05:01That's all I've wanted.
05:03King Julian.
05:05Are there any places on site
05:07where outside guests could stay,
05:08like grandparents or people from out of town?
05:10Dick.
05:10Yeah, well, we have one four-
05:12Joe Biden.
05:13We have one four-bedroom cottage right up here.
05:16Okay.
05:17On site.
05:18But most of the guests would definitely stay in Lexington.
05:21Okay.
05:21So we're about 14 miles from-
05:22It's a dirty, fat, filthy, horny oar.
05:24Like the heart of Lexington.
05:26Okay.
05:27For a place that we didn't really know much about
05:29and we kind of just booked a tour last minute.
05:32This venue checks a lot of the boxes that we have.
05:36It's really accommodating towards my family specifically
05:40just because it's a lot closer to them
05:42and they also have a cottage on the grounds
05:45that my older grandparents can stay in.
05:48But all of our guests wouldn't be able to, like,
05:52stay on the property, like the last venue that we saw.
05:55What's y'all's availability looking like
05:57from, like, spring to summertime?
05:59I think we have, like, two dates left.
06:02The quicker you can book something, the better.
06:04We need to get on that.
06:05Yeah.
06:06I appreciate you guys making the trip out here.
06:09Appreciate it.
06:09Of course.
06:10It's about to start.
06:11Thanks, guys.
06:11I'll walk back down with you.
06:12All right.
06:12I think I'm able to picture Colin as a groom.
06:18I'm also very excited to see Colin as a groom.
06:20He's going to make me cry.
06:22It's true.
06:24I'm going to cry my eyes out the day of the wedding,
06:26but I'm very excited to see him as a groom.
06:29Sorry.
06:34Y'all be safe coming back, okay?
06:35I love you.
06:36I thought you guys liked it.
06:37Y'all be safe.
06:38Oh, I did.
06:39Y'all got some things to think about.
06:40Yes.
06:41For sure.
06:42All right.
06:42Bye, guys.
06:43Bye, guys.
06:44Bye, guys.
06:45See ya.
06:47It's starting to rain.
06:49We're leaving just in time.
06:53What'd you think of the venue?
06:55It was really nice.
06:57Mm-hmm.
06:58I can just picture everything there.
07:02Like, me actually walking down an aisle there.
07:06Like, maybe not you on a horse.
07:09Like, I just don't know, like, what is up with that.
07:11I'm not getting on.
07:12Maybe that's something that we can work on with that.
07:13Oh, my God.
07:15Can you imagine the story that we could tell our kids?
07:19I'm not saving money for our wedding budget for there to be a horse.
07:23Your mom's a dirty, fat, filthy horse.
07:25What if he can find a good deal on a horse?
07:30There's still one rat.
07:31The one you got a good deal on probably has a discount for a reason.
07:36It has a discount for a reason.
07:38I'm telling you right now.
07:39It's going to be a donkey.
07:39It's going to be a donkey.
07:40So it sounded like he has really only two available weekends.
07:47Whenever we get back the numbers from these places, we're really going to have to sit down
07:52and make a decision.
07:53If budget is the number one factor, then the wedding should be in my parents' backyard.
07:59It's affordable.
08:01I'm sure that if we told him tomorrow, my dad would plan everything out to a T.
08:05He would make everything for us.
08:07I mean, it would be really easy to accommodate everybody there.
08:10Me, personally, I don't really want to have your dad's backyard as an option.
08:21We're trying to build a life together.
08:25Yes, but that has nothing to do with my parents' backyard.
08:28Yes, it does.
08:29We're trying to make decisions on our own.
08:32And the decisions that we make may not align with your parents' or my parents' vision.
08:43And that's okay because it's our life.
08:49Having the wedding in Alan's backyard would save us a lot of money.
08:52But I want us to focus on building a life together without Balen's parents influencing
08:59or questioning every decision we make.
09:01But Alan's not going to back off unless Balen says something.
09:07I know you don't like confrontation.
09:10But I do think that it's a conversation that you should have with your father.
09:20I just don't know if it'll break his heart or hurt his feelings if I tell him.
09:26And I just don't really want to find out.
09:31Her father's having a lot of influence on our lives right now.
09:38I've asked Balen to have a conversation with her father.
09:42So you don't want Balen to go communicate for you every time there's a concern.
09:48How do you feel about having a conversation with Alan?
09:51The next time we go to Roanoke they're coming with us.
10:10Okay.
10:11We got back from Roanoke last night.
10:14I really loved the venue we saw yesterday.
10:16However, I'm not telling my family about it because I know my mom probably won't be too
10:22happy because of Colin's family being there.
10:25And because I know my dad is really insistent on having the wedding in the backyard.
10:29It's my mommy.
10:34She's calling.
10:36Hey mom.
10:37Mommy.
10:38Hey babe.
10:39Bonnet up.
10:40So your dad and I had like this little idea.
10:44Oh you guys always have little ideas.
10:46The last little idea you had we had therapy.
10:48Yeah I think this one's better than therapy.
10:50Your mom and I want to celebrate your engagement and was hoping that you guys would be open to
10:58maybe come to the house bringing some of your buddies and having a big party.
11:02What do you think?
11:02Like an engagement party?
11:04Absolutely.
11:05Oh my god that would be so sweet.
11:09Surprise, surprise.
11:11We want to hold the engagement party because what better way to get involved in the wedding
11:17planning and hopefully they see that we can pull things together when needed.
11:22So where is this party going to be?
11:25We're in the backyard.
11:27It's pretty amazing for Alan and Julie to offer their backyard for an engagement party.
11:32But also at the same time like this is definitely Alan's way of saying hey the backyard could definitely
11:38be a wedding spot for you guys.
11:40Balen really loved the venue that we saw yesterday.
11:43So I just don't want her to feel like she's being pushed in a certain direction.
11:47You would do all the inviting of your friends.
11:50We'll give you the time and the date for this weekend.
11:53Hopefully that gives people enough time.
11:55Is Sammy going to be there?
11:57Yeah she's promised to fly out.
11:59Obviously you know she hates to fly but she's been a little better lately so.
12:03That sounds promising.
12:05Yeah.
12:05We're definitely excited for this so.
12:08Thank you guys so much for putting this together.
12:11Yeah thank you guys.
12:12I'm excited.
12:14I love you.
12:15Okay love you.
12:15Bye.
12:16I'm pretty excited for the engagement party.
12:21It's awful that they want to do something for us but do you think that your parents throwing
12:28this kind of a party they have some kind of ulterior motive behind it?
12:34Why do you think my dad has ulterior motives?
12:36I mean your dad really does want us to have our wedding there.
12:42That's what I think.
12:45But regardless of their motives I do think that you still need to be able to have that conversation
12:52with your dad regarding the boundaries in our relationship.
12:56I don't want to have that conversation.
13:00I understand where Colin's coming from but my parents have been there through the ups
13:05and the downs of my tics and my condition and they not only are my parents but they're
13:11my best friends.
13:12So I know Colin sees it as my dad overstepping in our relationship but I don't really want
13:18to talk to my dad.
13:30Phelan sounded so excited for the engagement party.
13:33Yeah, listen, I'm going to the rental place tomorrow and I'm ordering a tent and generators
13:40and with lights and tables with the chairs, games, like the cornhole and the things like
13:46that.
13:47It sounds fun.
13:48It sounds a little overboard and extra for an engagement party but it sounds fun.
13:52You're lucky I'm not coming home with a bulldozer.
13:55Okay.
13:56It's a little much.
13:58It's a little much but that aligns perfectly with who Al is.
14:04Not so much me.
14:06I would be like, all right, let's dump off some pizzas, throw in a couple tables.
14:10Al's like, no, this is how it's going to roll.
14:15I'll help you do it.
14:17Yeah, I'm going to call the rental company tomorrow.
14:19You won't have to do hardly anything.
14:21Just be there and enjoy the whole thing.
14:25I'm going downstairs to get this stuff ready.
14:28I'm going to make sure I got everything, okay?
14:30Okay.
14:30It'll be fun.
14:32Oh, this is going to be epic.
14:33You got this, Al.
14:44Both hands on the wheel.
14:46Ten and two, bitch.
14:49Are you excited to go to therapy?
14:51Yeah, I'm excited.
14:52No, you sound excited.
14:53You sound really excited.
14:54We're headed to couples counseling.
14:58The last time, it was pretty intense, so I'm a little bit nervous to see what's going to come up today, especially with the engagement party right around the corner.
15:07To death do us part.
15:08Nah, bitch.
15:10Josh, did you invite your family to the party?
15:13Yeah, they're coming.
15:14It's just a long drive for them, as you know.
15:17But I do think that that is, like, the perfect time to maybe tell everybody what...
15:23That you suck George Washington's...
15:25Tell everybody what venue we chose.
15:31Once we decide what it is, we can just tell everybody there.
15:35It does add a little bit of pressure.
15:38But if there's no deadline, I mean, we could be doing this for the next six months to another year of debating back and forth between venues.
15:45I think...
15:47I think you sucked Joe Biden's...
15:51I thought it was George Washington.
15:55You're changing up presidents on me.
15:58All right, we're here.
16:03I like the hand action.
16:06Can we sway him, too?
16:06No.
16:07Okay.
16:10Hello.
16:11Hi.
16:11It's so good to see you again.
16:15It's nice to meet you.
16:15How have you been?
16:17Lovely.
16:17How are you?
16:18Good.
16:18Hey, Colin.
16:20How are you?
16:20Good.
16:21How are you?
16:21Good to see you again.
16:24How have you, too, been since the last time you were here?
16:27Lovely.
16:28I've been good.
16:29Yeah.
16:29I have been opening up a lot more about just things that overwhelm me or stress me out.
16:34And it's almost just, like, nice to be able to, like, talk about it.
16:38Ho, ho, ho your ass out the door, bitch.
16:41Oh.
16:42Berkey, turkey, beef, jerky, hot ass.
16:46That tick came from forever ago where I would make fun of my brother, Berk, by calling him that.
16:52Berkey, turkey, beef, jerky, hot ass.
16:54Banana, whoop your ass.
16:55Butter your own biscuit, you fat ass.
16:58How's the wedding coming along?
17:00Wedding planning.
17:01We have seen a lot of venues.
17:05We have a lot of good options.
17:07My dad offered my back, my parents' backyard as a wedding venue.
17:12Okay.
17:14And that's where it stands.
17:16And?
17:16Okay.
17:17It's just...
17:19It came from a good place.
17:21I think they're still, just, in their own way, still trying to figure out how to let you go.
17:31Hmm.
17:32Do your parents trust the two of you?
17:38You don't think so?
17:41Hmm.
17:41I don't think they 100% trust us.
17:46In what?
17:50Just making, like, big decisions.
17:53Like, whether it's the venues or what career I want to go into or healthcare or taking care of Balin.
18:01Mm-hmm.
18:02Their father's having a lot of influence on our lives right now.
18:11There's a lot of pressures that I'm feeling, so I've asked Balin to have a conversation with her father
18:18about allowing us to be able to have the freedom to be able to make whatever choice.
18:28And she does not want to have that conversation.
18:31Okay.
18:34Colin keeps bringing it up.
18:36I just don't like the situation with it feeling like it's Colin versus my family.
18:42My parents will always be my parents, so what else do I do?
18:46Like, I see both sides.
18:48I understand both sides, but I just don't want to be in the middle.
18:51So, one of the things that I'm picking up on is that you are feeling the pressure.
18:58Yeah.
18:58And so Balin is the closest to her parents, and she's your fiancé, therefore it makes sense that you would want her support in having this conversation with them.
19:08I wonder what type of relationship you want with them.
19:11You don't want Balin to go communicate for you every time there's a concern, right?
19:22Yeah.
19:22So, how do you feel about having a conversation with Alan?
19:27This is your future father-in-law, and right now you're...
19:42Alan's bald, and Chuck is bald, and Marlene's a dirty, fat, filthy, horny whore.
19:47And Alan's going to be your future father-in-law.
19:51Uh, I've had a lot of conversations with Alan in the past.
19:58Nothing better happen to my kid.
20:00If she's over there on your watch and something happens to her, I will find you.
20:05I would like to have both of your blessings to have your daughter's hand in marriage.
20:09I don't really have an answer.
20:11Um, I don't know.
20:19It's really important that Colin does have that honest, direct conversation with Alan.
20:24If he continues to go through Balin, there's a potential for miscommunication, lack of trust, and potentially even some more resentment.
20:36We can still both talk to him.
20:38If you want me to sit there with you.
20:46I am fine with us both going and talking to him.
20:49Maybe he will, like, bring down his guard a little bit more if you're there.
20:57I don't know when the conversation with my dad will happen, but...
21:01I'm a little nervous because I don't really know what he's going to say.
21:04I don't really know how it's going to go.
21:08You can handle it.
21:09It just won't be...
21:11Comfortable.
21:12It won't be comfortable.
21:14It won't be.
21:18All righty.
21:19So we'll see you guys next time, and then we'll check in, see how things have gone.
21:26Take care.
21:27It's margarita time.
21:48Colin went out golfing tonight.
21:50But my sister just got here for the engagement party, and her and my mom are heading over
21:55to have drinks.
21:56I don't know much of the party plans for this weekend.
21:58However, what I do know is that this will be a great distraction from the conversation
22:04Colin wants me to have with my dad.
22:07And Sammy's definitely going to need a drink after flying with her OCD and her anxiety.
22:13And she just turned 21, so shut, shut.
22:16Sorry.
22:19Coming.
22:20You guys, who the heck is here?
22:22You guys, they get me.
22:24Hi.
22:25You're favorite people have arrived in.
22:27Hi, everybody.
22:28Hi, honey.
22:29I'm going to need a drink, too, because I'm going to have to tell them that Colleen and
22:33Marlene came to the wedding venue tour with us.
22:36Are you guys the bartender, so I, like, don't have to do anything?
22:38Nope.
22:38You don't have to do anything.
22:39We'll just hope it comes out fine.
22:41I'm just going to move that out of your way for a second.
22:44You just use this.
22:46God.
22:47All right.
22:48How was the travel here?
22:51It was just a flight.
22:52An anxiety, and then I got on the flight, landed, and now I'm here.
22:56She's minimizing it.
22:57Yeah.
22:57She's minimizing.
22:59You know I don't like to talk about my flights after I have to wait.
23:03You're like, I've made it.
23:03I'm done.
23:04I have to wait, like, a week.
23:05I mean, I'm glad you're here, and you made it safe.
23:07Me, too.
23:08Both feet on the ground.
23:10Yeah.
23:11I always hate flying with my anxiety, but I would never miss Balen's engagement party,
23:15even though my parents threw it together last minute.
23:17Time that we spend together right now is so very meaningful because Balen's life is really
23:23going to change with getting married and whatever else comes after that.
23:27This isn't going to happen as frequently.
23:29It's going to be few and far between, so we have to take all the moments while we have
23:33them.
23:34Balenia!
23:35All right.
23:36We're just going to keep...
23:38Okay.
23:38Do you guys want these?
23:39She's already been drinking.
23:41Oh, big old titties.
23:42All right.
23:42Okay.
23:44How's Bailen as a bartender?
23:45Oh, she's killing us.
23:47You know, if she turned the thing around for tip, I'd...
23:49No.
23:50Like, you know.
23:52Okay.
23:52Cheers to being 21.
23:54Dick.
23:57No.
23:58Absolutely not.
23:58No.
23:59Okay.
23:59You don't have to.
24:00I hate this.
24:01I just don't like tequila.
24:03Oh, I'm trying not to judge you, but I'm kind of judging you.
24:06Yeah.
24:06Our goal for the wedding is to help Bailen expand her alcohol palette.
24:11Yeah.
24:13So, on a scale of one to time, what's our excitement for the engagement party?
24:17How is the backyard looking?
24:19Your dad has spent more time on the mower.
24:22I'm like, I met him in the driveway the other day.
24:24I was like, you actually missed a blade of grass, and I think you should go back out there
24:28with the scissors.
24:30It might be overkill.
24:31It's okay.
24:33Al's vision seems to be coming together.
24:35It's with the high hopes for Colin and Bailen to flip a switch and go, oh, we definitely
24:42want our wedding here.
24:43So, I guess we're just going to see how it turns out.
24:46So, how was your trip to Roanoke that we haven't had a chance to chit-chat about?
24:53It was good.
24:54We had a really good barbecue.
24:55It was really, really nice.
24:57With, like, all his family or whatever?
24:58Cray cooked the best barbecue chicken.
25:00He made, like, homemade brownies with sprinkles on top.
25:04That's right up our alley.
25:05Barbecue chicken chicken.
25:08And then we went and saw a wedding venue that we decided last minute to see.
25:18Kind of, like, close to them?
25:19Yeah.
25:20Okay.
25:21It's a good distance.
25:22I couldn't.
25:23So, we looked at that, and they ended up coming.
25:25They surprised me there by coming.
25:29What do you mean that they, like, surprised you at the venue?
25:33Like, you didn't invite them?
25:35They just showed up?
25:35You showed up.
25:36I turned around, and they were right there.
25:37Did Colin invite them?
25:38Colin invited them.
25:39This is one of her biggest moments in life, and as the mother of the bride, I still haven't
25:47even been able to see any venues.
25:49I wish my parents were a little bit more involved, because I feel like Colin inviting his family
25:54to the wedding venue that they toured stripped them of it a little bit, of experiencing that
25:58with their daughter.
25:59It was really nice.
26:06So, truly, how close do you think the two of you are to coming to a decision on the venue?
26:13We're coming to a conclusion.
26:14Okay.
26:15All right, ladies.
26:16Cheers to, um...
26:18Hopefully finding a wedding venue.
26:19Yep.
26:20Cheers to one of these girl dates and talking about future wedding plans after the venue is secured.
26:27Are you okay?
26:28Cheers.
26:28Ready?
26:29Cheers to more planning.
26:34Oh, that was not a good ending, and we have to really hurry up and pick up the red.
26:41Oh, my God.
26:41It's fine.
26:42Don't freak out.
26:42Slide it into the thing.
26:43Okay, where's your towels?
26:45Yeah.
26:46Okay.
26:47I'm relieved that my mom knows now that Colin's sister and mom went on the tour, and moving
26:52forward, I would like to involve my family more.
26:55I mean, look how great they are at helping me clean up all my other messes.
26:58After I just cheers to more of these get-togethers.
27:01Let's do it.
27:03Yeah.
27:07Hi.
27:09Hi.
27:09Hi.
27:09Today's Dan Collins' engagement party, and it's looking pretty amazing.
27:15This is so beautiful.
27:17My dad is making this wedding venue decision really hard.
27:20We're making the right decision, right?
27:22I don't know, are we?
27:34Boys, let's go.
27:35Your dad needs help with the outdoor stuff, and it's going to go right in that area over
27:40there.
27:40Today's Dan Collins' engagement party, and it's looking pretty amazing.
27:47But what we've set up today is just the beginning.
27:50And if they want to have the wedding in the backyard, I would build 10 times better than
27:54this to have these guys have an amazing day.
27:56Hey, y'all.
27:59Lila!
28:00How are y'all?
28:01Hey, girlfriend.
28:02Okay, huggies.
28:03Oh, how are you?
28:05I'm so glad that you came to help.
28:06Thanks.
28:07Oh, yes.
28:07Okay, we're going to throw these over here for now.
28:10Is there a lot of people going to be here?
28:12Probably 50 or more.
28:14Today, I am mostly excited about the food table, mostly the desserts.
28:19That's where I'm going to be spending most of my time.
28:20The backyard definitely looks way better than I expected.
28:24There's a tent, food, tables, chairs, like literally everything.
28:30Kobe.
28:31Is there anything missing from this party?
28:33I would add a DJ, and then I would add like maybe like a surprise gift, like a car for
28:39like one lucky like brother.
28:42Like me?
28:43Like one who's like 17.
28:46Sammy's out getting the cake, so oh my gosh, I appreciate you so much.
28:50Yeah, of course.
28:51It's just weird because it's feeling very wedding-esque.
28:55I know.
28:55Are you so excited though?
28:56Like how do you feel about like all the planning and everything?
29:00I don't know.
29:01It's just odd still because I haven't really contributed anything to her planning.
29:07So this feels like this is my opportunity to do something.
29:12Yeah.
29:13No, I'm excited to see what wedding venue she picks.
29:16Did you know that her father wants it to be here?
29:19Has she told you that?
29:20Oh, no, I didn't know that.
29:22Low-key though, yeah.
29:24I mean it would be amazing.
29:25Like that would be amazing.
29:26Maybe she'll see this and be like, okay, this is, this will work.
29:31Like overwhelmed with trying to sell this backyard venue idea.
29:36I've come around to seeing the benefits of having the wedding here and I can see the potential, especially how everything is coming together.
29:45But it's like exhausting at the same time.
29:47It's like, Al, like when do we stop?
29:51These look good.
29:51I'm sending her inside.
29:52Oh, yeah, thank you.
29:53I like the other engagement ring.
29:54I'm sending her inside to make some punch.
29:57It's kind of funny, actually, how hard we're trying.
30:02Well, that's all set up over there.
30:04Okay.
30:04Got it.
30:05What else do you have to do?
30:07This is literally it for me.
30:08Listen, this looks amazing.
30:09I got it.
30:10Those look really funny.
30:11I'm stressing.
30:12I got a surprise coming for Palin.
30:14I got alpacas coming here.
30:17What alpacas?
30:18From the farm that we went there.
30:20Oh, that I can't.
30:21We're not bringing alpacas here today.
30:23They're coming right over here.
30:24Put them in the yard.
30:25I literally can't with you.
30:27No, I'm selling this whole outside venue.
30:29This whole thing.
30:29I'm going to be one of those event planners.
30:31I'm going to get a suit.
30:31Oh, the alpaca surprise is so next level.
30:36But I kind of wouldn't expect anything less from him.
30:40If he's going to do a surprise, he's going all in.
30:44I just can't believe he went that far in.
30:49Everything looks so good.
30:51Yeah, this looks amazing.
30:52I'm going to go get dressed.
30:53And you have to get dressed, too, because you're dripping sweat.
30:56We missing anything?
30:57Yeah, the alpacas, apparently.
30:59For the love.
31:14You ready?
31:16Yep.
31:16Hey, y'all.
31:17Hey.
31:18Hey, you clean up, Nash.
31:23Oh, they're here.
31:23They're here.
31:24They're here.
31:26Oh, my gosh.
31:27I am so excited.
31:28Today is our engagement party day.
31:30And we finally made the decision about our wedding venue.
31:34And we are going to tell all of our guests.
31:37Hi.
31:38Hi.
31:39We were good.
31:40Oh, my gosh.
31:42They kind of overdid themselves.
31:44What do you think?
31:46It's amazing.
31:48Oh, my God.
31:48Y'all got wood tables and everything?
31:50My initial reaction to everything being set up was,
31:55I got wood.
31:57Alan really went, like, all out with this.
31:59He went full throttle.
32:00With this.
32:00And it's amazing.
32:02Mm-hmm.
32:03What do you think, sweetheart?
32:04Oh, my God.
32:04You guys are amazing.
32:06Is that the alpaca bench that you made?
32:08Yeah.
32:09Come on.
32:10Find a spot.
32:11Do you want to come?
32:11Find a spot in your apartment, because it's going there.
32:13We wanted to have a tough conversation with my dad.
32:18Give your alpaca a kiss.
32:20Today is not the day.
32:22Not the day, not the time.
32:24This one's not going to spit in your face.
32:26One, two, three.
32:29I think that a conversation like that definitely needs to be had.
32:34But having it on a day like this would just ruin the moment.
32:38My mom's a swinger.
32:42It's okay.
32:42Anyway, we were talking about these people we know that we think are swingers, and that
32:47was on the way here.
32:48It's all good.
32:50This is so beautiful.
32:52It's so rustic.
32:54This is beginner level, Baelin.
32:55Oh, it's beautiful, though.
32:56For a wedding, this could be, like, advanced.
32:58You can see the look, though.
32:59You can see the look.
33:00No, it's so perfect.
33:02Yeah, it's so cute.
33:03My dad is making this wedding venue decision really hard.
33:09Everything that he did, he made absolutely beautiful.
33:11And unforgettable, like, spot on.
33:16Your dad really did go above and beyond for this.
33:20All out.
33:21It's amazing.
33:22I mean, it's amazing.
33:25Those and I are having a problem.
33:29Let's just switch sides.
33:30Well, I don't want you to smash the cookies either, so just keep a proper distance.
33:34Okay.
33:35Okay?
33:35Right here.
33:36Yep.
33:36Out of reach.
33:37Yep.
33:37Here we go.
33:39This is so perfect.
33:41I didn't think that it could look like this.
33:45Like, I...
33:46I didn't see the vision either.
33:49I didn't envision any of this.
33:50It makes me change my mind, and now I'm stressed.
33:57We're making the right decision, right?
34:03I don't know, are we?
34:04I mean, I could really picture the wedding back here.
34:10Could you?
34:11Yeah.
34:13Seeing how good the backyard looks makes me question if we're making the right decision.
34:19Like, this just makes my heart happy.
34:21I was definitely feeling that set against it before.
34:25But now, Baylin's second-guessing the wedding venue choice, and I kind of am too.
34:30I don't know.
34:32I don't know.
34:35I don't know.
34:49Are we really just flipping everything?
34:55All right.
34:56Well, we can talk about it later.
34:57After seeing this amazing engagement party set up, it can only make me wonder what they
35:03would do for the wedding.
35:05And it's making me a little nervous because we have to announce our wedding venue, and
35:11I'm second-guessing it.
35:14Oh, my family's here.
35:16Hello.
35:17Hi, Baylin.
35:18Hey, guys.
35:18Hey, Mom.
35:20But it's so nice to have both Collins and my friends and family get together, and all of
35:25us just having, mm, dick, mm, for Thanksgiving, mm, all of us having a good time.
35:30Hi.
35:30Hi, hi, hi.
35:31Hi, girl.
35:31Thanks for coming.
35:32Hi.
35:33Hey.
35:33Hey.
35:33Hi, guys.
35:34It's just a really special day.
35:37Four years ago, I would have never pictured myself here now.
35:40I've gone from needing my parents and living with them to being independent and, um, growing.
35:53Having Colin in my life has made me the person I am today.
36:01I feel like we're doing vows right now.
36:03Damn.
36:03Aw, my God.
36:06Together we belong.
36:08We don't need no stars to guide us along because we become more and big together.
36:16We have that fire that burns forever.
36:19Hi.
36:20You look beautiful.
36:21How are you?
36:22Great.
36:23It's been a few months since Olivia has visited from Tulsa.
36:27I'm glad she's here, but we do set each other's tics off.
36:30I've trusted her stupid.
36:31Same.
36:34So have you, like, found a wedding venue?
36:37Um, we've seen a lot of them and it's just really hard.
36:43Yeah.
36:48So do you guys know anything about the venue?
36:51I know that you looked at one with them.
36:53Yeah.
36:54It is amazing.
36:56Mountains, 360 views.
36:58Very private.
36:59Yeah.
37:00I think it's a very high contender.
37:03I do.
37:04Like, have they come over to you and said, like, hey, that's the one?
37:08No.
37:09Because I know that they've looked at a few.
37:11They haven't really said that this is the right one or not.
37:14Yeah.
37:15Like, really they haven't?
37:16Mm-mm.
37:17No.
37:18No.
37:19They haven't really.
37:20No.
37:21They have not said this is the one.
37:22Yeah.
37:23Hopefully they give us some clarity.
37:24I know.
37:25I hope so.
37:26I hope so too.
37:27them kids.
37:28Yep.
37:29Yep.
37:33Aw.
37:34Sammy looks so good.
37:35Sammy!
37:36Hi.
37:37You are so very gorgeous.
37:38I love you, but we gotta put that down.
37:39I know.
37:40Let's go walk it up.
37:41Okay.
37:42You're bald, Chuck.
37:44Just in case you weren't aware already.
37:45Yeah.
37:46Stay away from the gate.
37:47I know.
37:48I'm trying to stay away from everything.
37:49I'm excited.
37:50It's really cute.
37:51You like it?
37:52It's so cute.
37:53You could have a wedding out here now.
37:54Oh, good lord.
37:55Thanks, Sammy.
37:57It's bottom barrel, but it's not bad.
38:00Well, from where I'm standing, the barrel looks pretty good.
38:03It looks pretty bad.
38:04I think it's great.
38:05It's a glimpse of what the wedding could be if they wanted the wedding here.
38:09But I think he did a great job.
38:11My surprise is here.
38:13Oh, my gosh.
38:14I'm going down the driveway.
38:18Perfect.
38:19Oh, hey, everybody.
38:22Holy .
38:24She's gonna lose her mind.
38:26Hi, Scoob.
38:28Hi.
38:29When we were at an alpaca farm for Easter,
38:32Balen really, really bonded with one particular alpaca named Scooby.
38:39I'm here.
38:40Yeah.
38:41Scooby just turned two.
38:42That's a boy.
38:43Would I be able to particularly have Scooby at the wedding?
38:47If you want Scooby there, we'll make sure Scooby's at your wedding.
38:50So I really knew I had to get him here today.
38:53This is gonna be absolutely amazing.
38:55You can't wait to see the look on her face.
38:58Oh, yeah.
38:59What?
39:00I did it.
39:01What?
39:02This is Scooby.
39:03Oh, my God.
39:04It's Scooby.
39:05Scooby.
39:06I love you.
39:07You look so good.
39:08Thanks for making my kids smile.
39:09Thank you so much.
39:10Thank you so much.
39:11Thank you so much.
39:12Thank you so much.
39:13Thank you so much.
39:14You're so welcome, Balen.
39:15I love you and I wanted you to have...
39:16This makes my entire day.
39:18It was just really thoughtful.
39:20I feel like my dad knows just how much alpacas calm me down and help my anxiety.
39:21Honestly, what a great day.
39:22I really don't like surprises, but this was the best surprise I've ever had.
39:23It was pretty amazing.
39:24It was pretty amazing.
39:25Her face was, like, ingrained.
39:26Yeah.
39:27Like, I'll never forget it.
39:28You look so good.
39:29You look so good.
39:30Thanks for making my kids smile.
39:31Thank you so much.
39:32Thank you so much.
39:33You're so welcome, Balen.
39:34I love you and I wanted you to have...
39:35This makes my entire day.
39:36It was just really thoughtful.
39:38I feel like my dad knows just how much alpacas calm me down and help my anxiety.
39:43Honestly, what a great day.
39:44I really don't like surprises, but this was the best surprise I've ever had.
39:48It was pretty amazing.
39:50Her face was, like, ingrained.
39:53Yeah.
39:54Like, I'll never forget it.
39:55This is the happiest I've seen Balen in a while.
40:01You know, because we see a lot of ups and downs.
40:04So, just to see this one moment of, like, authentic, pure joy, it's amazing.
40:13Okay.
40:14Come on.
40:15Turn it around.
40:16Turn it around.
40:17Oh!
40:18You say that's you!
40:19It means everything to me to make Balen happy.
40:22And I'm pretty sure Balen understands just the distance that her dad will go to make her happy.
40:32Alan's bald.
40:33We have to make a decision on the venue.
40:37We still have a really big decision to make today.
40:40Like, the clock is ticking.
40:42Dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick, dick.
40:45Ah!
40:48Are we on the same page?
40:51Take a b**k up the ass.
40:52I think, I think we are.
40:54Come on.
40:56In this moment, I am extremely overwhelmed and anxious.
40:59and anxious, um, and Colin will be doing all the talking.
41:04Suck it. Suck it.
41:06Can you go right here?
41:07Yeah.
41:07All right.
41:08Hey, everybody.
41:09Can we get you guys to come over here?
41:11We just have, uh, an announcement and everything.
41:14Oh, boy.
41:15What do they have to tell us?
41:16It's a boy.
41:17No, I'm just kidding.
41:20Chuck is bald.
41:22Alan is bald.
41:25JV does crystal math with Joe Biden.
41:27Okay, keep talking.
41:28No, I'm just in between.
41:31So we just wanted to thank everybody for coming out here.
41:33Friends, family, like, this means a lot to us.
41:36We wanted to give a big shout out to Julie and Alan for hosting an event like this.
41:40all you people.
41:40It means a lot.
41:41And you guys did an amazing job.
41:43My sister sucks for a living.
41:44So thank you, guys.
41:45God, let's just throw that one out there.
41:48Poor Colin.
41:49Can't make it through a sentence.
41:51So in the quest for a wedding venue,
41:53it has been our number one priority to find something that Balen feels
41:58comfortable with.
41:59And that in and of itself has been pretty eventful,
42:03trying to find the right one that checks all of the boxes.
42:07It's been a really, really hard decision because of all the great options that we have.
42:11So with that being said, where we will be having our wedding will be at...
42:20Miss it, bitch!
42:39In all Nantucket, they all wankers.
42:43Nantucket?
42:43You forgot your dildo in the airport.
42:45I'm on the struggle bus with the dildo tech.
42:49I mean, you're thinking about getting the real estate?
42:51Yeah, I am.
42:52As a realtor, you're an independent contractor.
42:54And so health care can be challenging.
42:56I don't care who it upsets.
42:58I'm going to do what's best for me and what I think is best for the both of us.
43:02If this doesn't work out, what are you going to do?
43:06It's getting harder for Stevie to come here with her anxiety and her thoughts.
43:10So this just adds to it.
43:15I really wish that Sammy could be here.
43:18Wedding planning can be a little scary.
43:21We've gone back and we've crunched some numbers.
43:23We're going to need them to kind of, like, come back down to earth.
43:27I want us to have kids sooner than later.
43:30You're throwing me for another loop.
43:32If you can't take care of you, then you can't take care of a child.
43:37You remember the link I sent you on the device?
43:40Yes, the new Pulse.
43:42So this device that sits on your hand like a watch could cut her tics almost in half.
43:47I would love to try this device.
43:50It's not available here.
43:51If you did want to try it, you'd have to go to the UK, I'm afraid.
43:56Well, Dwayne is.
43:58Good day, take off now.
44:01Hello, London.
44:03Okay, here we go.
44:04Next stop, Piccadilly Circus.
44:06Pick a dick, bitch!
44:08Spotted dick.
44:10There's a guy over there in the corner laughing at me.
44:13This device would make situations like today a lot less stressful.
44:19Are you ready to try the device, Bailey?
44:24This could change everything.
44:26Yeah.
44:26Here we go.
44:28Keep going.
44:28Okay.
44:30Good day.
44:33Good day.
44:37Good day.
44:38Everywhere.
44:39Bye.
44:39Bye.
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