Baylen Out Loud Season 2 Episode 3

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00:00This is my dad, and we look exactly alike.

00:05And you can't tell us apart.

00:07My hair in the way?

00:09Deadpool.

00:10Deadpool.

00:12There.

00:14Twins.

00:16Oh, that's it right there.

00:18It's so pretty.

00:20Today, we're taking our first tour of a possible wedding

00:23venue.

00:24Nice to meet you.

00:25Welcome to Crystal View.

00:26Oh.

00:26Hi.

00:28My first impression is it's very echoey.

00:32Are your tics OK?

00:33Joe Biden does crystal math.

00:35This might not be the right one for us.

00:39When I leave the house, I have to click the lights three times

00:42because if I only do it once, then something bad's

00:44going to happen on the way to the airport.

00:46Sammy's anxiety and OCD becomes disabling.

00:50I can only say certain things.

00:52She has done a very good job at hiding it,

00:56but it has become more difficult.

00:59We have been talking about our marriage, and it started with some premarital counseling.

01:07If someone gets involved in our relationship or marriage too much, where does it end?

01:15Colin, did anything come up for you?

01:19I've been holding on to something for a while now, and it's not easy to say out loud,

01:25because I know it's going to affect Baylen.

01:27So, Colin, did anything come up for you that you thought would be important to bring up together?

01:49Yeah, I mean, there is something I want to talk about.

01:55Yeah.

01:56So, obviously, you know that here soon I have to make, like, a career decision.

02:03And that is, like, a super, like, heavy burden that I guess I could say that I have.

02:11Um, I feel like the pressure is on me to either stay in the military or go into some kind of government job.

02:21That way we have health insurance.

02:23Being able to have that kind of benefits, especially with someone with her condition, I know is, like, huge.

02:31But I don't necessarily really want to do either one of those things.

02:37Right.

02:38I've been in the military for about five years now, and my contract will be expiring in about a year.

02:47I joined at 19, and I was just a kid, immature.

02:51The military is the reason that I'm the man who I am.

02:55But now I'm headed into a completely different phase of life,

02:59and lately I've been wondering if there's a different career path for me outside of the military.

03:06But if I do decide to change careers, I need a job that I'm going to be successful in, be happy in,

03:12and also still be able to provide for me and my family.

03:16I feel like I'm being pulled, almost, and so it's just like...

03:21Between what?

03:23Like, family members and friends, especially your dad, want me to, like, choose a career path that's secured financially.

03:31And it scares me that I, like, may not go in that direction that everyone else wants me to go in.

03:38Yeah, but none of that would make you happy.

03:40Yeah.

03:41Colin discussed feeling really concerned about the expectations from family and friends,

03:48stressors that he's been holding in for quite some time.

03:51And while a lot of couples struggle financially, they're already dealing with more of a challenge

03:56as a result of Valen's conditions.

03:58Do you feel like it is solely on you to provide for the both of you and your future family financially?

04:05Yeah, I mean, it's just really hard for her to work a regular job.

04:09So it kind of has to be, like, on me to be able to make the main source of income.

04:15That's a lot of pressure on you.

04:17Yeah.

04:19There's a lot that goes on trying to take care of Valen on a day-to-day basis.

04:23Just the weight of trying to fill the shoes of her parents, making sure that she's okay,

04:31she's taking her medicine, taking care of three dogs, the weight of expenses in the future.

04:38It's a lot. And I have to make sure that I don't let it affect Valen. I don't let Valen see that I

04:43have all of this going on up here. But it is weighing on me a lot. And everyone has a breaking

04:50point somewhere. I just don't want to hit mine.

04:52So what I hear you saying, Colin, is that you don't want to bring her that stress. You don't

05:00want to share that with her.

05:01But, like, I don't want you to hold it, like, into yourself. Like, you wouldn't want me to do that to

05:07myself.

05:08Yeah, but it's different.

05:09When I hear that, it just is like...

05:11It's different, though. It's like you already have a lot of moving parts in your life.

05:16So then for me to, like, add on, like, my stress to that, I don't want to do that to you. Like,

05:22I don't want you to be overwhelmed and be stressed out. Like, it's just like...

05:28That way, like, it almost makes me feel like,

05:31like, okay, I have to do this on my own, in a way.

05:35Oh, I don't want you to feel like that.

05:37Yeah.

05:37I'm hearing that you're also struggling with other people's opinions and separating that from yours

05:49and mine. Like, you don't want to upset them or, like, not please everybody. Kind of like how I am.

05:56I knew that Colin was stressed about his career, but I didn't know that he was this overwhelmed.

06:05This is something I've always worried about, because with my Tourette and other conditions,

06:10it can be a lot. Not just for me, but also for Colin to take on as my partner.

06:15So the last thing I want is Colin to protect me from these type of difficult subjects.

06:20It's not healthy for him or our relationship.

06:22It breaks my heart that he's been keeping this in.

06:28You don't want to put anything onto me, and I understand that. However, you doing that

06:35is hurting yourself, and I don't want to feel disconnected from you.

06:41Regarding the pressure he feels from family and friends' opinions, I know it sucks because I feel it,

06:46too. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle of Colin and them. And that's going to be a harder issue for me to

06:52address because I usually see both sides. Everything that everyone else says almost

06:58shouldn't be a burden. And I know that it's still going to be. And I'm telling you, like,

07:06suck a fat . I'm telling you that, like, that's between us. That's not between

07:13my dad, your parents, and no one. And if we believe that it can work, then it'll happen.

07:25It's just really nice to know that no matter what I decide, she just wants me to be happy.

07:30You have a few things to focus on until I see you next. Thank you so much.

07:35Thank you so much.

07:36But I still have a lot to figure out with our financial future, and I have a feeling Alan

07:43isn't really going to let it go until I make some real decisions.

07:59We're independent. We've got the hot wheel. We've got a little cash enough to keep it real.

08:06Hey, let's do something.

08:10Huh? What are we doing?

08:12I'm starting something for a project. Don't try to block it.

08:18You're clearly trying to hide something, which is weird.

08:24I'm making something for someone. It's a surprise.

08:26Okay. You're acting weird.

08:31I can usually tell when Al has something up his sleeve, and there's always something crazy

08:36going on in this head of his where he's conjuring up some silly ideas. The sooner I find out, the

08:40better, because this is just awkward. Yeah. So I've been working on a surprise for Valen,

08:47just in case she can or can't have certain things at her wedding.

08:51But we don't know that much about her wedding or her venue yet.

08:53Like we only know she needs the dogs there. That's really all we know. So I don't know how you

08:59are coming up with this and thinking that it's just going to fit into whatever.

09:05It's going to fit in. It's going to fit in.

09:09So here's the deal. I've been thinking a lot about Valen's wedding and how sensitive she is to her

09:14surroundings. And I want to pitch an idea to her. But before I pitch it, I want her to envision it.

09:20And that's what my secret little project is all about.

09:23Do you want it to be a surprise for me too?

09:25Am I not allowed to see this again? Yes, of course. I'm just going to do this.

09:28Okay. And I'm just going to show you this. And then you can say,

09:31wow. Or you can say, that's never going anywhere.

09:34Will you let Sammy and Burke see it when they fly in for their

09:38long summer weekend with their mom and dad? Yeah.

09:40So you're telling me it's going to be done for the weekend?

09:44Yeah. And the longer you bother me about it, the less I'm working on this.

09:48You know what I mean? Like, I got to get some things done.

09:53I'm a little nervous. I mean, with the wedding coming up and with Valen's condition,

09:59we know that she needs help. But I also don't want us to overstep our boundaries.

10:08Okay. But I guess I have no choice but to wait and see

10:11what's up Alan's sleeve in this carving situation.

10:16Nope. Hurry up and wait.

10:20I can still see you. And I have so many questions for you. So many questions.

10:26Yes. Hi, baby. Sammy and Burke are both in town for a long weekend.

10:33They live out of state. So I don't see them as much.

10:35Did I tell you guys that me and Colin are in premarital therapy?

10:38I didn't know he was carrying stress with like the future and him getting out of the military.

10:42And because he knows you can't work a normal job.

10:45Yeah.

10:47Maylon, I want to show you something that we got outside.

10:50What? Yeah. What are we doing?

10:53Julie doesn't have a clue. I keep her in the dark about

10:56things because that's the fastest way to get my ideas ruined,

10:59is to invite her into my mind space on these.

11:02You're being creepy and weird right now.

11:18This means brush your teeth for today.

11:20Flop gets a whole one.

11:26We have no food. Are you not hungry?

11:28No. We can go grocery shopping and get food. And we can cook something.

11:33Okay.

11:34So what are you up to today? Any plans?

11:36I am going to go hang out with Sammy and Burke.

11:39She finally got to be able to be on a plane because of her OCD and all of her rituals.

11:44Yeah, that's good. I'm glad. How are you feeling after therapy?

11:50Fine. I feel closer.

11:56I don't know how I feel.

11:58What?

11:58I feel fine.

12:02Okay.

12:02After one session of premarital counseling, this marriage stuff is getting

12:08down in Dallas. It's getting real.

12:13Stop. I knew you were going to laugh. I look over and there's just a...

12:16I didn't know that you carried a lot of weight and a lot of burden on your shoulders with finances

12:24and wedding planning and saving money and the stress of work and the unknown of that. I had no idea.

12:34Yeah.

12:34I just don't want you to carry the stress by yourself. I can handle some stress.

12:44I honestly really appreciate Baylen saying that she wants to help out with

12:48all of the burdens that I've been carrying. But there's a reason why I haven't, you know,

12:54brought this up to her. And it's because I know that stressful stuff sets off her anxiety.

13:01But a part of this whole counseling thing is learning to trust. If she says that I need to

13:06be open about something, then I need to be. Let's talk about some of the big expenses that we have

13:13coming up. Do I need to get out my calculator for this? Wedding. House, eventually.

13:21Bachelor, bachelorette trip. Honeymoon. Let's stop adding all of the stuff.

13:27A lot of money right there. It's okay. It's fine. So I mean, we need to find ways to be able to save

13:36money so that we can be able to not have to worry about all of those in the next year.

13:43What do we cut? Well, we spend a lot of money. Dick. Sorry. Good? Yeah. Sure. Yep. Dick. Yep.

13:51Okay, here we go. I mean, we can start cutting by you not shopping as much.

14:04It's so hard to save when your love language is overpriced deliveries and shopping. It's kind of hard.

14:11Every day she's looking on some website. The reason why I have, like, the shopping addiction

14:20is because I don't go out and regularly go shopping because of my dicks.

14:28No, you're just addicted all around. Is that your name? Well, you name it, I got it.

14:34Just about. Also, if we can start cooking more meals here. The both of us not ordering food

14:42deliveries. Yep. We do that a lot. A lot. Wow. I really want to cook more, but as you know,

14:49as we get later into the day and, like, making meals and, like, just with my tics, it gets a lot

14:54harder. So I know that I go to almost, like, ordering food as, like, a comfort because I'm just too scared.

15:02But I feel like I can, like, come out of my comfort zone a little bit because I need,

15:06we need to save for some money. Mm-hmm. I would appreciate that.

15:12The more we talk about it, the more I realize this isn't going to be easy,

15:15you little bitch. Yep. But we're going to try. Yep. You little bitch.

15:21What is setting that to go off? I don't know.

15:32We're going to have a good time. We're going to have a good time. Get your paper up.

15:36We're going to have a good time. We're going to have a good time. Yeah.

15:38Live it up. Live it up.

15:44Bitch. Sammy and Burke are both in town for a long weekend. They both live out of state,

15:50so I don't see them as much. So we're meeting up in a bar around my neighborhood.

15:54Where are Burke and Sammy? I don't like this. I die them. I die them.

16:09Of course they're late. I absolutely hate walking into anywhere alone.

16:17It's kind of like torture because I'm just worried about the other people's reactions that are in the

16:23building. Oh thank god they're here. Oh thank god. My baby. Don't ever let me be the first one at

16:39the function ever again. Hi baby. I love you. I love you. I love you. I love you. I haven't seen Sammy in a long time.

16:47You look so good with your hair like this. Oh thanks. She has severe OCD and anxiety so it's always

16:54been hard for her to leave her comfort and travel home. Hi Burke. What's up? My oldest brother Burke's

17:03living in Tampa. He is currently honestly thriving down there and loves it. How was your flight today?

17:10I was worried that you weren't going to get on the plane. Dude I was at past this flight. I can't get up and

17:14walk around but I like can't sit still. I like can't watch a movie. I just it's just a lot.

17:21Traveling with my OCD and flying. Obsessive compulsive dick. Disorder um is very challenging

17:28for me and some days are harder than others. Objection! Where the is the function? Your mom

17:36has one life and she's 30% off this week. It's very common for Balin to have new tics after you

17:42haven't seen her in a while because she can pick up anything from a tv show, a movie, music.

17:47Yep. Take a dick. Self-serve that dick. They don't really surprise me that much anymore because

17:54there's been some crazy ones. Yeah. I mean you really can't get much more crazy especially

17:57that airport one with the gun. Yeah. You know what I mean? I have a gun. Oh my god it's right there.

18:03I have a gun. Maybe try to whisper it. Is it gonna play shuffleboard? Yeah. Yeah sure. So do you want

18:14to be red or blue? I'll be blue. So we're gonna try to knock each other's arms. It's gonna take a

18:18little bit because you just gotta barely let go of the thing. Oh that one broke. Not bad though. Bro.

18:26So now you want to try to knock his off because oh. All right. The three of us being the oldest and

18:34hanging out is a lot different than like the three younger ones hanging out because we're not fighting

18:38over boogers or like baseball bats. Too hard. That's what she said. Your mom's too hard.

18:48That's money too. Bitch.

18:51I'm exhausted. We should have stretched out beforehand. Dude. Did I tell you guys that me and

18:59Colin are in premarital therapy? So who brought that up? Mom and dad. I think it's a great idea.

19:05I'm all for it. It's great to be on the same page about children. Like do you want to go to church

19:10every Sunday? Do you want to do this stuff? How? And we're so. Well some of that stuff should be basic

19:14conversations you have with each other. Yes like there's multiple things like I didn't know he was

19:18carrying stress with like the future and him getting out of the military saving enough having

19:22enough money for all these expenses and all these things and because he knows you can't work a normal

19:27job. It's hard for me to work a nine to five as much as I would love to. It's hard with my tics.

19:34Yeah. But I do want to help contribute in like some way. Yeah.

19:42So what's Colin's plan after he gets out of the military? He doesn't honestly know.

19:47He officially gets out next year. Kind of like that's when he'll like be transitioning out to

19:52his next job if he has one. What do you? If he has one? Yeah. I mean it's important when you have a job

19:59you don't want to leave it until something else is lined up there. I know. That's the thing.

20:04I can definitely sympathize with Colin because

20:09the responsibility and due diligence of taking care of not only yourself but two people and providing for

20:16dogs and doing all that I definitely I definitely empathize with him but I think it's also like a

20:22you know what you signed up for. You knew she couldn't work a normal job. He needs to find like

20:26steady income a job. Not even a stable job just a providing job for the both of them. But it's not

20:32our job to tell him which job. Yes. You know what I mean? Yes. He's got to come up with that himself.

20:36I'm not going to go to Colin and be like hey you need you need a 40 hour work week with health

20:43insurance and this. That's my dad's. My dad can do that. I just think it's hard for you like let's

20:48say he gets out of the military and then waits like six months like Burke did after college for a job.

20:53Who knows on the time frame. Yes. That's why he's stressed.

21:00I do love spending time with Burke and Sammy. However they both do have very strong opinions.

21:05They're very very protective of me. Wayne. All right. That's okay. Do you want a nap?

21:12No. Let's just go. Colin and I just talked about in therapy the pressure he feels

21:19when my family weighs in on our business. If Sammy and Burke are doing all this questioning

21:23I can't even imagine what my parents are going to think.

21:29This is the first time that I've had a solid tight group of girlfriends. Pump that dick,

21:34bitch. Oh my god. It's really nice to spend time with people where the main focus isn't about

21:39mining Colin's future. Oh my god. It's great. It's great.

21:58Between therapy and wedding planning lately things have been very stressful. So since Colin is working

22:06late. Tonight I'm having a girls night where we are just going to let loose and have tons of fun.

22:12Take a dick, bitch. Hello.

22:15Hello. Hi, Bailey. What's up, girl?

22:19Since I moved to DC, I actually met a lot of new people through my best friend Leela,

22:24as well as through Colin's friends. Okay, so who's in charge of the liquor?

22:27Who? Wait, aren't you a bartender? Oh yeah. There we go.

22:30Hello. This is the first time that I've had a solid tight group of girlfriends.

22:37It's great. So how's your wedding planning going?

22:42We've looked at one venue. When we went there, it was beautiful. It had these huge stairs that

22:46were filled with flowers. However, it's very echoey, which turned out to be a very big trigger. I'm just

22:54hearing myself echo as I tick. Me and Colin agreed that it just wasn't the right place for us.

22:59You want to be somewhere where you're comfortable.

23:02The first time that I met Balin, she was ticking. But at the same time, for me personally, I grew up

23:07having a friend that had Tourette's. So I kind of already knew what it was and that it's an

23:10uncontrollable thing and it's worse to hold them in than it is to just let it all out. And so she would

23:15tick and then we just kind of move on with our conversation. There were some other things that

23:19I didn't realize that I didn't like. Like I didn't like circle tables because like it only got you

23:24secluded to the people that were at your table. So I kind of want like long tables and then I would

23:29want to be separated, like him and I. Like a sweetheart table? Oh, I love that. Honestly,

23:35having a sweetheart table was so nice, like my wedding, because it was like we got to sit there

23:39and enjoy each other and not be surrounded by a bunch of people. The fact that my tics are not being

23:46brought up, like no one's just dying laughing out of anywhere. I feel accepted and I feel like I

23:52belong in this group because we're all just being ourselves.

23:57Two girls. Nice.

23:59Salut.

24:02This is so strong.

24:05Okay, so I'm going to do something you guys have never seen before and I'm going to make us all some

24:08cotton candy. Oh my gosh.

24:09It's a cotton candy.

24:11Has anybody ever made cotton candy before?

24:13A long time ago.

24:14Absolutely. I have never.

24:16It's coming out. Look at it.

24:18Pump that dick, bitch. Oh my gosh. That looks good.

24:23Oh, thank you. That's literally perfect.

24:26A little sugar hangover.

24:27By the way, with wedding planning, me and Colin decided that we were going to start

24:32premarital therapy. One thing that was brought up was finances and saving money and kind of like

24:39this huge stress that he has with this, like him getting out of the military.

24:43So, when you heard Colin say that in...

24:47Is that something that like you knew that he was feeling?

24:51No.

24:52And I know it was hard for him to say it. He's like holding it onto himself thinking that like,

24:56I can't help him.

24:57Hearing that Balin and Colin are doing premarital counseling, I thought was really inspiring.

25:02And I think that's something that a lot of newlyweds or

25:05fiancés aren't really talking about as much anymore when it used to be a lot more common to do.

25:10Especially with what she's dealing with, her Tourette syndrome.

25:14They can set themselves up for a healthy marriage and hopefully for the rest of their life.

25:17So I was like, you know what? We'll save money with like, not ordering out so much.

25:23And it's like, okay, well now I have to start making food. So fun times.

25:26So what kind of foods are you going to be making?

25:28I haven't figured that out yet. That's a good question.

25:31We should figure that out.

25:32We'll make you a recipe book.

25:34Yeah. Ooh, that's a good idea.

25:35We could all literally send in our favorite recipes.

25:38Make sure to do half of it. I can put in the air fryer.

25:40I love the air fryer.

25:42We should get you a crock pot.

25:43Crock pot is so easy. You can just throw it in there in the morning, turn it on,

25:46and then you don't have to deal with it all day. And it's so nice.

25:48Crock pot.

25:50I have a gift for everybody. Right, punky boy?

25:53I have a gift.

25:54Tonight, I have a special fun surprise for my girls.

25:59Girls night with a twist.

26:03Twist that dick around, wrap it, slap it, tap it, that dick.

26:08Everybody pick a bag.

26:10Here you go.

26:11Okay.

26:11Just hand it to us.

26:14I'm scared.

26:14All right, can we open it?

26:15Oh, mine's multicolored.

26:17Mine is literally multicolored.

26:19I got purple.

26:21So the theme for the night is wigs.

26:25This is so fun.

26:26Oh, I don't think I have my husband.

26:28Oh, my God.

26:32This is what girls night is all about.

26:49We've had candy. We've had the jungle juice, like the crazy wigs.

26:53Sophie time.

26:54This is a very Balan night.

26:57This was exactly what I needed.

26:58Me and the girls laughing, having fun.

27:01It's really nice to spend time with people where the main focus isn't about my Tourette's

27:05or mine and Colin's future.

27:07I would say that tonight was a super successful girls night.

27:12Holy , I look like Beckner.

27:15I want you to be able to like think about something for a second.

27:19I truly thought he was insane.

27:20Like this is, this is no girl's dream.

27:31But how many blankets do we need?

27:51Do you think I sound good?

27:52I think you sound like you got a tracheotomy actually.

27:55Is this a good look for me?

27:56Is this a good sound?

27:57Sounds great.

27:58Means I can't yell at kids.

28:01One of you jokers gave this to me.

28:03This is not my fault.

28:04Yeah, well, did you come here with this?

28:08I did not.

28:09Okay, well then you're not culpable.

28:14Since my siblings Sammy and Burke are in town, my dad wants to have a barbecue this weekend.

28:19But also my dad's been bugging me to come by the house to see something.

28:25And I have no idea what it is.

28:27So I decided to get a two-hour rideshare from DC to be able to see everybody.

28:33them kids.

28:35Oh baby, finally made it.

28:39Hi.

28:39Hey.

28:40Hey.

28:40How was it?

28:41Yeah, the ride was good.

28:42Okay.

28:43It wasn't like the other time where I got motion sickness.

28:45Because rideshares in DC are...

28:47I know.

28:48How long is it?

28:49Like two hours?

28:49The whole way.

28:53Are we going to eat?

28:54Yeah, I'm just waiting for Burke to finish grilling.

28:56He's out there grilling.

28:57Come on.

28:58Are you hungry?

28:58Yeah.

28:59Are you?

28:59Yeah, a little bit.

29:00Where's the wieners?

29:01Are you all done?

29:02We're almost done.

29:02Yep, almost.

29:03We're just talking about how you knew your way around a wiener.

29:05These wieners are very big.

29:07You were telling me how you had a girls' night.

29:09How did that go?

29:10Yes, so it went great.

29:12Me and my friends have like these regular like girls' nights where they'll all come over,

29:16but they're all themed nights.

29:18So we did wig nights.

29:21You don't have to wear it, Beckner, because...

29:22Wait, what?

29:23I'm actually you.

29:26That's you, Beckner?

29:27Let's do a side-by-side to see the accuracy.

29:29Looks like you guys both just fried ramen noodles and just plop them up there.

29:33That's good.

29:33It's okay.

29:34We'll just get back there.

29:35The wig looks better than Beckner's right now.

29:37Honestly, put it on.

29:38Put it on Yoder.

29:40So you have other wigs?

29:41Oh, yeah.

29:43Yes, but I only have one other wig for one person in the room who needs it.

29:47That looks like somebody shaved their pubes and just threw it on a wig.

29:50Let me just do this.

29:59What do you think?

30:00Damn.

30:01I think it looks good because I haven't seen it.

30:04I don't think you want it.

30:06You look like Sven with his hair.

30:07No, no.

30:08Now I look like Sven.

30:09Dead.

30:16With a baseball bat.

30:17No, it's this.

30:24I think you look like you should be on some sort of list.

30:27Maybe 200 feet away from schools or something.

30:29Well, before we eat, Baylen, I want to show you something that we got outside.

30:35Okay.

30:36Do you want this home?

30:36You guys should come all.

30:38I've been working on a surprise I want to share with the family, but especially Baylen.

30:44Come on.

30:47What are you doing?

30:48Yeah, what are we doing?

30:50Julie doesn't have a clue.

30:52I keep her in the dark about things because that's the fastest way to get my ideas ruined,

30:57is to invite her into my mind space on these.

31:01Where are we going?

31:02We're here.

31:02What the f*** are we doing?

31:03I want you to be able to like think about something for a second.

31:08I have no idea why my dad is taking us out back.

31:11I am so confused on so many different levels.

31:15You're being creepy and weird right now.

31:17He's like, let me show you my knife collection.

31:20Now listen, I don't know where you are with the whole wedding location search.

31:24So I know that you want animals at your wedding, right?

31:29Mm-hmm.

31:29Goats and alpacas and Ringling Brothers or whatever you want.

31:35And a lot of wedding venues probably aren't going to let you have animals.

31:40Okay?

31:40Mm-hmm.

31:41You got one chance to make this amazing.

31:44This is it.

31:46You can put all those things right here.

31:48Let's have the wedding here in the backyard.

31:51How is that funny?

31:54No, I'm being serious.

31:56Serious?

31:58I've been working on a plan to have the entire yard wide open for Balen's wedding.

32:04Rip the fence down, cut trees, build a platform, whatever she wants.

32:11Let's start doing something.

32:15Come on, Dad.

32:16Seriously?

32:17Who the hell wants a wedding in their backyard?

32:21I don't even know what to say.

32:24So much for trying to take some pressure off of Colin.

32:26This whole idea is only going to add to it.

32:29This is crazy.

32:39This is it.

32:40Let's have the wedding here in the backyard.

32:43How is that funny?

32:44No, I'm being serious.

32:48I'm envisioning it.

32:50There's not a lot to envision.

32:53You can have whatever you want here.

32:54I'll get those tents put up.

32:58This is where she comes up the aisle.

33:01And then we pass the lump.

33:02We pass the lump.

33:04I tripped.

33:05All right.

33:06I truly thought he was insane.

33:08Like, this is no girl's dream.

33:10How many people do you think inviting?

33:12We are probably thinking about inviting 175 and thinking between 125 and 150 will show up.

33:18With two toilets here.

33:19With two toilets?

33:21Two toilets, one grill.

33:23We're looking at a port-a-potties.

33:25Like, imagine 150 people in this house.

33:27Oh, no.

33:28They'd have to get Uber to, like, the Holiday Inn or something.

33:30No.

33:30Obviously, 150 people are going to lay up cots here.

33:33I mean, come on.

33:35I'm talking about people wandering around getting food.

33:37I mean, just imagine 150 people just hammered.

33:40Brutal.

33:41Brutal.

33:41All right.

33:42So we'll think of different venues, but appreciate your offer.

33:45Let's move on.

33:45But if you go to another venue and then they don't allow half of the stuff that you want

33:49in your wedding, this is the wedding.

33:51This is an option.

33:52This is something that, I mean, let's hope it only happens once in your life.

33:55It is an option.

33:56The last option, but it is an option.

33:57It could be the last option.

33:59The last one.

34:01It's fine.

34:02It's all right.

34:04I am enjoying this.

34:06But to me, I'm not worried about the food.

34:09I'm not worried about desserts.

34:10I'm not worried about tents.

34:12I'm not worried about outdoors cat.

34:13I'm not worried about this.

34:14I'm worried about, is Balin going to be comfortable at this location?

34:19Because we all know that when she gets overstimulated, she could have a bad tick attack

34:23and end up on the floor.

34:25Having her wedding here at the house, she has a safe place

34:28that she's familiar with, comfortable with.

34:31And if we can take some of that emotional baggage and struggle away from her

34:36to make her day amazing, then that's what it's truly about.

34:42It's not everyone else's wedding.

34:43It's her wedding.

34:44Okay.

34:44It's what you want.

34:46So either way, whether you choose here or you choose somewhere else,

34:50I want you to come over here and look at something.

34:53It's one more thing for you to think about and visualize.

34:55All right, let's go over here.

34:56Come on.

34:58You'll like this.

35:00Here, Balin, come over here and stand in front of this.

35:01Look this way.

35:02So I can take this off and then you can be surprised.

35:04It looks like he ordered a bed frame.

35:05I know.

35:07Wait, so he's been out back making this and you guys haven't?

35:09He told me he was doing something special.

35:15What?

35:17What?

35:18Oh, why are you guys laughing?

35:20Oh, God.

35:20Only your dad.

35:21Oh, my God.

35:22What are we doing with this?

35:25So this, so listen.

35:26So no matter what you pick, you can use this for a venue.

35:30All right?

35:31Okay.

35:31Well, it's not going to be.

35:33Oh, my goodness.

35:36Oh.

35:40This is going in the apartment.

35:42No.

35:42Okay.

35:43We just need to add some sprinkles.

35:45Do you know what they are?

35:46That's a horse.

35:48That's Fluffy and Toots.

35:50Toots me.

35:53Thank you so much.

35:54This probably took you so long.

35:56I am freaking so excited.

35:59I love alpacas.

36:01Mr. and Mrs. Dooley, there we go.

36:02That's Chop and that's Marlene.

36:04Marlene's a dirty, filthy whore.

36:07Okay.

36:07All right, as our maid of honor, we accept this.

36:10We're not super sure about the venue portion of the whole thing.

36:12I think the venue's good.

36:13I could see, like, two big circus tents, your animals running around.

36:17A place to, like, take photos and there can be, like, flowers in the background.

36:20Yeah, whatever you want to do.

36:21It's your wedding.

36:22It ended up being a great surprise.

36:25I'm totally impressed.

36:27The backyard venue idea, I'm not so sure of, but the bench is beautiful.

36:34This probably took you so long to make.

36:35How long did it take you to make this?

36:3860 now.

36:38No, time, I don't know.

36:39Time to stand still when we carve, so I'm not given a time frame.

36:42It's worth it.

36:46When Balyn was at her worst four years ago in her medical journey, I really questioned that

36:52a day like this would come.

36:53Balyn deserves to have the perfect wedding day like anybody else.

36:57It's been a long journey and her day needs to be as amazing as her expectations wanted.

37:04I want her to be able to say, Dad, this is the best day ever.

37:15You can put, like, a bow tie.

37:17Oh, we can put whatever you want.

37:19It's kind of like Mr. and Mrs. Dooley.

37:21That'd be so cute.

37:22Okay, that is really cute.

37:24That's a really cute idea.

37:25How heavy are these?

37:27What if she...

37:27Well, they're heavy.

37:28Oh, yeah, they've got to be heavy.

37:29I mean, what if the venue's, like, four hours down the road?

37:33Like, I'll just drive it down the road or what if it's here?

37:36This sweet gift from my dad has definitely made it harder to choose a wedding venue.

37:44I mean, I totally get what my dad thinks.

37:46It would be better for me to have it here.

37:49And even though it's not exactly what I thought I wanted for my wedding,

37:52he's been taking care of me a long time, so I definitely trust his judgment.

37:59So what do you think?

38:01It's an option.

38:03It is an option.

38:03Me and Colin are trying to save money for this specific reason, so I can bring it up to him.

38:11However, I don't think my parents' backyard is Colin's first wedding venue choice.

38:16And I know Colin feels a lot of pressure when my dad gives suggestions,

38:20even when they're meant to be helpful.

38:22And honestly, I'm a little afraid to ask.

38:31I can't look at the chickens.

38:36Have you told Colin?

38:37No.

38:39Tell me what?

38:40The last time I saw my dad, he pitched the backyard as a wedding venue.

38:44I haven't even told Colin yet, and I'm not even sure I want to.

38:48Hey, Mom.

38:49Hi, baby.

38:50Baxter, I would like to have, like, a sleepover with you for the weekend.

38:55I'm a little, like, nervous.

38:56I've never hosted a kid before.

39:01Okay, I'm going to show you how to bedazzle.

39:02I don't even know what bedazzle, bedazzle, bedazzle, bedazzle, bedazzle.

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