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00:00All right.
00:00Ventress, take two.
00:03Action.
00:04Hey, everyone.
00:05I'm Sarah Malisky, and welcome to Real Talk,
00:07where we get hot, spicy, and to the drama.
00:24Richard and Jessica, okay,
00:26I have been dying to interact with you as a couple.
00:31You guys are my goals in life.
00:34Oh, thank you.
00:35I think so many of us just look at you guys,
00:37and we're like, I want a family like this.
00:39And it's Valentine's Day,
00:41so I'm just so excited to talk about love
00:43and just get to know your relationship,
00:45how you guys met and everything.
00:46And especially with, you know,
00:48we work at Real Short and so many amazing series.
00:51They're all pretty love-focused,
00:53so I'd love to focus on a real couple
00:56instead of a made-bully couple now.
00:59What's that like, right?
01:00Tell me what's it like to not be acting in love?
01:03What's it like to be just in this, like,
01:06beautiful relationship?
01:08Well, you can take that.
01:09Yeah.
01:09Take a lead on that one.
01:10Um, I think it's something that, like,
01:13it started as a whirlwind,
01:14and I feel like we just keep it up
01:17to make sure it stays that way.
01:19Um, we've been married,
01:21we're coming up on a decade?
01:23Yeah.
01:24Yeah, 10 years in December, so.
01:27She's like the Curious Case of Benjamin,
01:29but she ages backwards.
01:30I was gonna say, hey, what?
01:32What is this?
01:33This, this warlock thing now?
01:35The magic spell doesn't end all.
01:38Not at all.
01:39Okay, so, well, just,
01:40let's start from the beginning.
01:41Where did you guys meet?
01:44So that's, like, a little complicated.
01:46Uh-oh!
01:47I'd love to hear that!
01:49Okay, okay.
01:50So, I was working at Disney World at the time,
01:55and you were, where were you?
01:57I was in LA.
01:57And then, so, what's funny is that
01:59it was a very close friend of mine.
02:03I did a couple of shows with him in the past,
02:05and so his wife knew that I was, you know,
02:07dating around and stuff like that,
02:08and she would always roll her eyes
02:09and make fun of, like, you know,
02:10like, ah, like, I know the perfect girl for you.
02:13And she, she set us up.
02:15It was actually your distant cousin,
02:17like, first cousin or something?
02:18Yeah, so distant.
02:19I had no idea.
02:20Yeah, I had no idea.
02:21Exactly.
02:21Like, who she was.
02:22But when she set me up,
02:24she was just like,
02:24I got the perfect girl for you.
02:26Stop chasing these, like, you know,
02:27flashy ones.
02:27Yeah.
02:28I was like, all right, all right.
02:28Blind dates.
02:29I'm sure you've been on them.
02:30They're horrible.
02:31No.
02:31Exactly, you're like, no.
02:32I've never.
02:33You've never been on a blind date?
02:35No, and that's why even you guys
02:37just talking about being set up
02:39is almost so foreign to me.
02:41Yeah.
02:41Because that's not how you date anymore.
02:42It's almost old-fashioned.
02:44It is, yeah.
02:44You know how Netflix has those things
02:46where they do, like, you know,
02:46love at first sight or, like, blind,
02:48love is blind or whatever,
02:49where they actually make you interact
02:51with your personality first
02:52before you actually meet them?
02:53We kind of, oddly enough,
02:54had our own version of that.
02:55Yeah.
02:56Because she was in Orlando.
02:57We're on opposite coast.
02:58We're on opposite coast.
02:59She was in Orlando
02:59working as a princess.
03:02And then-
03:02What princess?
03:04So, Princess Aurora and Ariel
03:07were my two best friends over there.
03:11You had the tail?
03:13Oh, my gosh.
03:14Oh, my gosh.
03:14That's a whole other segment.
03:16I know.
03:16It was so much fun.
03:18It was so much.
03:18I mean, you get paid to make someone's day.
03:21I mean, who doesn't love that?
03:22And you just automatically have this aura
03:24that is princess person.
03:26Oh, you're nice.
03:27You're in a beautiful cloud fairy.
03:30Don't ever brag about it,
03:31but, like, I'll do it for her.
03:32Sure.
03:33It was so phenomenal and great with the kids
03:35that they actually chose her
03:36to be the one that did
03:37the Make-A-Wish interactions.
03:39Sometimes.
03:40So, Disney World actually has
03:41their own Make-A-Wish hotel
03:42specifically for them
03:43whenever their wish is
03:44to meet the princesses
03:45and go to Disney World.
03:46And then Jessica would, like, you know,
03:47be the princess for that interaction.
03:49And it was phenomenal.
03:50You'll have women.
03:51The mothers, of course,
03:52off camera just crying the whole time
03:54because their little babies
03:55are interacting with a princess.
03:56Oh, my God.
03:57I mean, I believe it.
03:58Yeah, I remember one time
04:00there was this little boy
04:04who came in.
04:04If I get emotional,
04:06please stop me.
04:06Oh, no.
04:07But this little boy came in
04:09to see Aurora
04:10and we were talking about, like,
04:12fighting dragons
04:13and all that stuff.
04:14And the mom just started crying
04:15and she was like,
04:17yeah, he's been fighting, like,
04:18these dragons all the time.
04:19Yeah.
04:19he actually, like,
04:21was able to overcome it.
04:23And, like,
04:23so that was just, like,
04:24a really, like,
04:25memorable moment for me
04:27because you can see, like,
04:29in real time
04:30how you affect people
04:31and how, like,
04:32I mean,
04:33maybe my interaction
04:36helped them
04:36but, like,
04:37it helped me too.
04:38I thought, like,
04:38it was just such a beautiful
04:40experience to have had
04:42and I'm just so grateful.
04:44I'm so, so grateful
04:45that I got to have it.
04:46Oh, my gosh.
04:46I mean,
04:47what a beautiful gift
04:48for both of you.
04:50Yeah.
04:51And that really just
04:52tracks with you.
04:54You are just a fairy princess,
04:55like,
04:56so beautiful human.
04:57Oh, my gosh.
05:00Well, okay, so...
05:01To build on that,
05:01like, the...
05:02So we were separate
05:03on separate coasts
05:04and oddly enough,
05:04I know we talked about it
05:05a little bit before.
05:06Wait, so were you texting?
05:08We were texting.
05:08We were on Facebook.
05:09We were just messaging each other.
05:10Okay, so hold on.
05:11So you got her number
05:13on Facebook
05:13because back then
05:15Facebook was the thing
05:16we used.
05:16We were playing games.
05:17And I was like,
05:18hey...
05:18We're aging ourselves.
05:18We're aging ourselves.
05:19I was smiling
05:20in every detail.
05:21I need every detail.
05:22I was like,
05:22hey, Michelle.
05:23Her name's Michelle.
05:24I was like,
05:24Michelle, give me your number.
05:26Yeah.
05:27Were you like,
05:28who are you?
05:28Yeah, who are you?
05:29Were you like,
05:30are you a fan?
05:32Yeah, it was like,
05:33so bizarre.
05:35And then he was...
05:36The stalker.
05:38Just kidding.
05:39And then, like,
05:39you were filming...
05:40I was filming
05:41the Star Wars commercial.
05:42Yeah.
05:43Full circle.
05:44I know, full circle.
05:45How weird is that?
05:46I was like,
05:46on a Kid History set
05:48filming,
05:50and he was dressed as a...
05:51Oh, it was Chewbacca.
05:51Yeah, Chewbacca.
05:53So you're both these,
05:54like, crazy kids.
05:55So he was sending me
05:56this, like,
05:57costumed up,
05:59We were face-styping each other,
06:00and I'm literally
06:01walking around
06:02the Bo-Saisley Cantina
06:03bar set
06:04as Chewbacca,
06:05and she's...
06:06Aurora.
06:06Aurora!
06:07We need...
06:08We need...
06:08So I should have been,
06:10like,
06:10Balor instead.
06:11Like,
06:11I feel like...
06:12Exactly.
06:13That would attract better.
06:14That would have been on,
06:14like,
06:15IP there.
06:16Oh, my gosh.
06:17We have to have some show
06:18of Chewbacca meets Aurora.
06:20Meet Aurora.
06:21Exactly.
06:21That's a great vertical.
06:22Yeah.
06:22Yeah.
06:23So,
06:23somebody's right now.
06:24That's a great idea.
06:25Yeah, yeah.
06:26Okay, so,
06:27again,
06:28I just...
06:28I need all the juicy details
06:29on this.
06:30So,
06:30you got her info.
06:32You guys start
06:32casually talking.
06:33You realize he's not
06:34a creepy weirdo
06:35because someone...
06:36Your first cousin
06:37hooked it up.
06:38Yeah.
06:38Okay,
06:39and then you're like,
06:39okay, okay.
06:40So, you're texting.
06:41It's going well.
06:42It's cute.
06:43He's not weird.
06:44And then you start FaceTiming.
06:46Yeah,
06:46and then they were...
06:47Oh, we didn't even FaceTime.
06:48Oh.
06:49No, yeah.
06:49We just messaged
06:50and then,
06:51like,
06:52a month went by
06:53and we finally did,
06:55like,
06:55our first,
06:56like,
06:56meetup.
06:57Oh.
06:57And we did our first date.
06:59What was the first meetup?
07:00You took me to a fancy dinner.
07:02Yeah.
07:02Where?
07:03LA.
07:03Is this LA or Florida?
07:05Where was it?
07:06It was actually up in Utah
07:07because her family,
07:08they have a place in Park City.
07:09Oh, yeah.
07:09It's all over the map.
07:11Yeah,
07:11where are we?
07:12Yeah,
07:12are we servers?
07:13That's why it's complicated.
07:14Yeah.
07:15We just decided to go everywhere.
07:17Yeah,
07:17we met up in Park City.
07:18Yep.
07:19And then,
07:21you had a movie.
07:23Yeah.
07:23He's all about storytelling.
07:24He's all about movies.
07:26It was a movie called
07:27Intouchables.
07:28Intouchables, yeah.
07:29And it's about a man
07:31who pen pals
07:33this woman
07:34stopped forever.
07:35Did you write it?
07:36No, no,
07:36it's a famous French film.
07:38Oh, yeah.
07:39I was like,
07:40all right.
07:40I know,
07:41it's really obscure.
07:41It's almost like he wrote it.
07:42I'm one of those guys,
07:43but I made fun of the fact
07:45that we were pen pals
07:46for so long
07:46and then he finally meets
07:48his love interest
07:49at the end of the movie
07:50and then they fall in love,
07:52obviously.
07:52So I was like,
07:52it's kind of like our story,
07:53right?
07:54Yeah.
07:54And we ended up
07:55going to a great dinner.
07:57Obviously,
07:58the chatter and everything
07:58is great.
07:59The personalities play,
08:00good stuff.
08:00And then we watched
08:00that movie at night.
08:02Oh,
08:02and then you took me
08:04on your motorcycle
08:05afterwards for ice cream.
08:07Oh,
08:07I've heard the motorcycle
08:09is like a third party
08:10in this relationship.
08:11Oh my gosh,
08:12he is him
08:13and his motorcycle.
08:14I'm surprised
08:15I made it into
08:16that love triangle.
08:19The date nights
08:20were phenomenal.
08:21It was great
08:21because like we would
08:22literally,
08:23because it was
08:23your first time
08:23obviously like,
08:24you know,
08:24being on a motorcycle
08:24one,
08:25but then I was like,
08:26look at this,
08:26like we can eat
08:28dinner here,
08:29we can go get dessert
08:30here and then we can
08:31go get after like,
08:31you know,
08:31we would literally
08:32almost like a treasure map.
08:33Yeah.
08:34We still do that.
08:35That's like our favorite
08:36thing.
08:37We like,
08:37we don't eat at one place.
08:39We eat at several places.
08:41Oh,
08:41appetizers here,
08:43dinner there,
08:44like motorcycle.
08:45I don't know how
08:46we're at 300 pounds
08:46because like everything
08:47is just food related.
08:49We're like,
08:49we got to try this.
08:49We got to try that.
08:50But on a motorcycle,
08:51you can do that,
08:52especially in LA.
08:53When we were,
08:53when we moved here
08:54and we actually
08:55started attacking
08:56like,
08:56you know,
08:56all of LA's eat spots.
08:58Like,
08:58oh my God,
08:58there's so many.
08:59But you could do it.
09:00Like you start up
09:00in the valley
09:01and then you could
09:01drop down into
09:02the Santa Monica
09:03and like go down
09:03to Venice
09:04and then pop into
09:05like WeHo
09:05and you can do that
09:06on a bike
09:07in just a matter
09:08of like 10 or 15 minutes.
09:09And it's fun traveling.
09:10No one like,
09:11we're in the car today
09:12for an hour and a half.
09:12Oh,
09:13miserable.
09:13Yeah.
09:14I'm the one
09:14who zips right by you
09:15and says bye.
09:16And you're like,
09:16Jesus.
09:18So you guys probably
09:19what,
09:20kept texting?
09:20It was great.
09:21Yeah.
09:21And then what,
09:23how did it blossom
09:24into a real relationship?
09:26I mean,
09:26we just kept
09:27visiting each other.
09:28You waited in line
09:29to meet me.
09:30Oh,
09:30I think it was a crazy story.
09:31So this is it.
09:32So I grew up actually
09:33just four bros.
09:35I had no sisters.
09:36So this whole princessing
09:37stuff was like
09:37completely new to me.
09:38And so I was like,
09:39you know,
09:40we were pretty serious now.
09:41So I was like,
09:41you know what?
09:41I'm going to surprise her.
09:42So I bought a ticket
09:43and I flew to Orlando
09:44and I was like,
09:45I'm going to go meet her
09:46when she's princessing.
09:47Oh.
09:48I did not know
09:49that people wait
09:49three hours to meet her.
09:51And I'm pretty big,
09:53you know,
09:54it's like there's like
09:55me in line alone
09:56and then all these
09:57little girls
09:57and their dads,
09:58the dads are like,
09:59so what's up?
10:00Why are you here?
10:01What?
10:02Is this guy
10:03like a sketchy man?
10:05I swear I'm just not creepy.
10:06They're like,
10:06he's at Disney alone.
10:07Someone call the cops.
10:09I know the princess.
10:10I remember there was
10:11a boy in line
10:12and he was like,
10:13I don't want to meet
10:14the princesses.
10:14And you're like,
10:15it's the coolest thing.
10:16He was trying to be
10:17too cool for school.
10:18So I gassed him up
10:19and like the parents
10:20were like laughing.
10:21Yeah.
10:21Thank you for that.
10:22You know,
10:22because he was trying
10:22to be like,
10:23I don't want to meet him
10:23or whatever.
10:24Because his sister
10:25was waiting in line.
10:25Right.
10:26And then he meets
10:27Jessica and he's like,
10:28he's like,
10:28literally,
10:30they're like deer in headlights.
10:31For sure.
10:31Because like to them,
10:32they're meeting
10:33like Brad Pitt
10:34or something.
10:34You know,
10:35it's like this huge thing,
10:37personality that they've
10:38interacted with
10:38millions of times
10:40of watching these
10:40princesses as kids.
10:42I mean,
10:42I even shared a story
10:42with you.
10:43Like I,
10:44the animated movies
10:44and stuff are very impactful.
10:46Oh yeah.
10:46If you like,
10:47you know,
10:47you rewatch them,
10:48you watch them,
10:48they mean something
10:49and then all of a sudden
10:50you get to meet one.
10:51Crazy.
10:52And especially as a,
10:52as a kid.
10:53As a kid,
10:54yeah.
10:54Oh.
10:55So when you got up
10:57to the front of the line,
10:58did you see him
10:59in the line at all?
11:00Or were you genuinely,
11:01were you like,
11:03yeah,
11:03I didn't see him
11:04because you can't
11:05really see the line.
11:06Okay.
11:07I mean,
11:07not to get too technical,
11:08you can't really see the line.
11:09Like they just come in
11:10in like little groups.
11:11Yeah,
11:11yeah.
11:11And so he came in
11:12as a group
11:13and totally,
11:13yeah,
11:15blew me away.
11:16I was so shocked.
11:17Did you come out
11:18of character?
11:19I,
11:20I did stumble a bit
11:21to be honest.
11:22Yeah.
11:23But you,
11:24I was surprised.
11:25I know.
11:25I'm pretty swat.
11:26You know,
11:27of course you are.
11:28He actually made me
11:29like speechless.
11:30It was so funny
11:31because there's certain kids
11:32when you meet them,
11:33they're either really
11:34talkative with you
11:35or they,
11:35they're really talkative
11:36in line.
11:37And then when they meet you,
11:37they just like,
11:38they're just like,
11:39oh my gosh.
11:40Yeah, exactly.
11:40They freeze.
11:40And you,
11:42I'm like,
11:42Richard's a talker
11:43and I,
11:45yeah,
11:45nothing.
11:46And he was like,
11:47you have beautiful eyes.
11:49I was taking it all in.
11:50Hey,
11:50let me define myself.
11:53But I swear,
11:54I swear I was speechless.
11:55I was just like,
11:56whoa,
11:56because when she's
11:58all dressed up
11:59as Aurora,
12:00I swear to you,
12:01it literally looked like
12:02she walked out
12:03of the pages
12:03of the fairy tales.
12:04And like,
12:04I saw her walk around
12:05and I was just like,
12:06oh my God,
12:06you are Aurora.
12:08So when did you guys
12:09get to the point
12:10of where you realized
12:11like,
12:11oh,
12:11I'm in love
12:12with this person?
12:13Like,
12:13how did you
12:13have that,
12:15that feeling?
12:17How did you know
12:17it was real?
12:18Because I feel like
12:19sometimes it's hard to tell.
12:21Yeah.
12:21How did you know?
12:22How did you know?
12:23How did you know?
12:23Yeah.
12:25So I feel like,
12:27I feel like it doesn't
12:27just come at once.
12:28It's always like
12:29this progression
12:30as time goes on.
12:32He's very suave,
12:33you know,
12:34did all the things.
12:35Like,
12:35he loves making
12:36like movie moments.
12:38Oh my gosh.
12:38And so he like,
12:39kind of leads his life
12:40that way.
12:40And so being with him
12:42was just like movie moment
12:44after movie moment.
12:45Like we went on
12:46like a motorcycle ride
12:47in New York.
12:48Like we stayed up
12:49until the sun came up.
12:51He came to visit me,
12:52you know,
12:53at work.
12:53And there's just like
12:55so many like magical moments
12:57along the way.
12:58And like we were coming home
13:01from like,
13:01we were in New York
13:02and we were,
13:04we just saw a play,
13:06I think.
13:06Yeah.
13:07And we were just walking.
13:10It was like 2 a.m.
13:11And I don't know,
13:13I just looked at him
13:14and I was like,
13:15oh, this,
13:17it just like settled in my heart.
13:18I'm like,
13:18this is what love is.
13:19Like,
13:20I didn't know that this is like,
13:22I have felt love before,
13:24but I didn't know
13:26I could love this deeply
13:27if that makes any sense.
13:28And like,
13:29that's when it really hit me like,
13:30oh,
13:31I am in love with this man.
13:32And not just because
13:33he makes everything
13:35like a movie,
13:37but it's because
13:38he puts in the effort
13:39to make things magical,
13:41to make things wonderful.
13:42For you.
13:42For me, yeah.
13:43And that shows like,
13:46I feel like people think that like
13:47magic and movie moments
13:49like come out of thin air
13:50and like I'm sure
13:51Real Shorts knows all about this.
13:52It takes a lot of effort.
13:54Oh, yeah.
13:54Yeah,
13:55there's a lot of things
13:56that it takes to make
13:58these magical moments.
14:00And he was willing
14:02to put in that effort for me
14:03and I'm willing
14:05to put it back for him.
14:06And I can just see
14:07that I knew
14:08that if we just like
14:10continued this way,
14:11our life would always be magical
14:13because we would make sure
14:14that we took care of each other,
14:16that we loved each other
14:17and that we put each other first.
14:19And so,
14:20yeah,
14:20that was,
14:20that was it for me.
14:22I don't know.
14:22Well,
14:23I,
14:24Richard,
14:25one second.
14:25So,
14:26for you,
14:27can you give a word of advice
14:30to the girlies watching this?
14:31Because I feel like it's,
14:35unfortunately,
14:36nowadays,
14:36a lot of guys
14:37don't put that much effort in.
14:39It's like,
14:39they don't even want to
14:40like pay for your dinner
14:42or even like text you back
14:45or like,
14:45you know,
14:46it's like so hard
14:47to know if a guy likes you even.
14:50And what would you say,
14:52I don't know if you had boyfriends
14:53before,
14:54Richard,
14:54but just like,
14:56how did you realize like,
14:59oh,
14:59I can have a standard for myself
15:01and I can have love,
15:02a love like this.
15:04Yeah.
15:04What would you say for girls
15:05who are like yearning
15:06for something like that?
15:07I feel like in the past
15:08I would date people who
15:10you were never really sure
15:12where you stood.
15:13You know what I mean?
15:14Like,
15:14I feel like that's relatable
15:15to everyone.
15:17Like,
15:17you never know where you stand,
15:18the games,
15:19like things like that.
15:20When I met him,
15:22like,
15:23after like our first date,
15:25like two weeks later,
15:25you wanted me to meet your parents.
15:27Like,
15:27you were like,
15:29I can explain that.
15:33Honestly,
15:34I love it though.
15:35Yeah.
15:35And like,
15:37I just knew like,
15:40he is sure about me.
15:41Now I can like,
15:43think about how I feel about him.
15:45And like,
15:45I hadn't been in that position before.
15:47And so like,
15:47I think my advice would be,
15:50don't waste your time
15:51with people who aren't sure about you.
15:53Like,
15:54and have the confidence
15:55to understand like,
15:57what's important to me.
15:58Like,
15:58I felt like so many times
16:00because I was insecure
16:02about where our relationship is,
16:03I would try so hard for them.
16:05And I would constantly think about like,
16:06what did they need?
16:07What do they need?
16:08And I forgot,
16:09what do I need?
16:10And he gave me what,
16:12because he was confident
16:14and assured in me,
16:15I was able to be like,
16:16okay,
16:17what do I want?
16:18And who do,
16:19like,
16:20what things do I like about him?
16:21what would be like a good life turn,
16:24like lifelong partner for me.
16:27And so yeah,
16:28that assurity,
16:29just being confident in yourself
16:31to not settle
16:34for something that doesn't feel stable.
16:38So Richard,
16:39what about you?
16:39When did you know
16:40that you were in love?
16:42I always made the joke
16:43that I knew the moment I first saw her.
16:44Yeah.
16:45And I really do believe
16:47in the things of like,
16:48you know,
16:48there's high powers
16:49and like fate involved
16:50and stuff like that.
16:51And for someone who's so free will
16:53and will like charge at life
16:54and do everything,
16:54you know,
16:55I do actually feel like
16:55there's a bigger purpose
16:56and stuff.
16:57And I always chase that.
16:58So maybe that's another added element
16:59to the fact that I can chase things
17:01with reckless abandon.
17:02But I guess expand a little bit more
17:05on the New York City thing.
17:06Yeah.
17:07It did take some orchestrations.
17:09Like, you know,
17:09when I do chase these
17:11create movie moments
17:12for my life,
17:14but now I was creating movie moments
17:15for like my,
17:16the love of my life.
17:17And so I called up ahead.
17:19And so when I did my undergrad at NYU,
17:21your first year is mandatory NYU housing.
17:23So they put me down in Chinatown,
17:24like the middle of nowhere.
17:26And I'm always eating.
17:28And so I was like,
17:28they didn't even have food service
17:29at this point.
17:30So I had to get up in the morning
17:31and I'm like,
17:31get on the subway.
17:32I was miserable.
17:33I would go to another dorm
17:34that had food service,
17:35get to the cafeteria
17:36and finally eat.
17:37And I was just like,
17:38dude, this sucks.
17:38And then I realized
17:39I have a chance of a lifetime here.
17:41It's once in a lifetime.
17:42I live in New York City.
17:43I get to call it home.
17:44And I felt like a rat.
17:45I was underground all the time.
17:46I was always in the subway.
17:47I was waiting.
17:48It was cold.
17:48It was like miserable.
17:50And so me and my buddies got together
17:51and we're like,
17:51you know what?
17:51Let's change this.
17:52And so we got on Craigslist
17:53and bought these dinky,
17:55crappy motorcycles.
17:56And then my entire life switched.
17:58And in New York.
17:59In New York City, exactly.
18:00And I learned how to ride a bike
18:02dodging cabs.
18:03Did you ever get hit?
18:04No.
18:05I actually laid it out once.
18:06It was 3 a.m.
18:07in the middle of nowhere, though.
18:08And it was just,
18:09I did the rookie move.
18:09Skid?
18:10I did a break on gravel.
18:12And it might as well have been ice.
18:14Right from under me.
18:15That's a whole side story.
18:16Yeah, we don't talk about that much.
18:17Yeah.
18:18But anyways,
18:19I always make the joke.
18:20She hates it.
18:21She always rolls eyes at me.
18:22But like,
18:22all of like history and time
18:24is like, you know,
18:25before Christ, after Christ.
18:26Like my life is before bike,
18:28after bike.
18:30That's my line of demarcation.
18:32Oh, Jess.
18:33That's how much my life takes.
18:34Oh, dear.
18:36Okay.
18:36That's how much my life changes
18:37on a motorcycle.
18:38So like,
18:38imagine tearing up Manhattan
18:39of all places on a motorcycle.
18:41And then Friday nights,
18:42weekends,
18:42you name it.
18:43Like you're zipping across
18:44Brooklyn Bridge to get pizza.
18:45Then you're going into Times Square.
18:47Then you're like,
18:48you know,
18:48you're going on the West Side Highway,
18:49like upper,
18:50upper West Side.
18:51You can drop down into Canal.
18:52Like you can go to Chinatown
18:53and do dumplings.
18:53I'm telling you,
18:54like it was everything opened up
18:55because you're on a motorcycle.
18:56Right.
18:57And she would hear
18:57all these crazy stories
18:58that I would tell about
18:59when I did this.
19:00And I was like,
19:00I want to recreate that,
19:02but with the love of my life.
19:03And so I called up ahead of time
19:05when we were flying
19:05and I'm like,
19:05my buddy still lived there.
19:07And I'm like,
19:07can I borrow your bike?
19:08And he's like,
19:09of course.
19:09So he left me with two helmets
19:10and two like,
19:11you know,
19:11motorcycle gloves.
19:12And we tore up Manhattan.
19:14Were you scared?
19:16I mean,
19:17I'm a secret thrill seeker.
19:18Yeah.
19:19She's the one who leans in
19:20and is like,
19:21don't pass.
19:21Oh yeah,
19:21yeah.
19:21You're like,
19:22don't pass.
19:23You wouldn't think.
19:24He's like,
19:24let's go.
19:25My dad had bikes growing up.
19:27And so he would always
19:28like do wheelies on it
19:29and like with my phone.
19:31And so that was like,
19:33yeah,
19:34I loved it.
19:35I thought it was fun.
19:36It really was like
19:37a cinematic moment
19:38because I would recreate
19:39and tell her all these stories
19:40that I had from doing this
19:42back when I was an undergrad.
19:43Yeah.
19:44You'd always have this taco place
19:45right here.
19:46And then like Las Chimas.
19:47Yeah, we went out.
19:47And then I went to go get pizza
19:49and like the owner
19:50still remembered me
19:51because I was like
19:51the first time I went there
19:52with a group of friends
19:53and the owner,
19:54he's really cool.
19:54He would come over
19:55to the tables and be like,
19:56so how was it?
19:57Yeah.
19:57And I didn't skip a beat.
19:58I was like,
19:59dude,
19:59this is so good.
20:00There's like,
20:00Papa John's Pizza Hut,
20:02but you're like a close third.
20:03And he just goes,
20:03who the hell is this guy?
20:05Yeah, of course, Richard.
20:06I know, he lost,
20:06but he thought it was funny.
20:07But I was like,
20:08and then we got close after that.
20:09But then of course,
20:10I brought Jessica
20:10and I introduced it.
20:12And then all of a sudden,
20:13we're done with that.
20:13Give him a big hug.
20:14And then I just took off again.
20:15There's a diner.
20:16I remember the diner.
20:18What diner?
20:18That's the banana walnut pancakes.
20:20That's it, yeah.
20:20The banana walnut pancakes.
20:21So my buddies and I,
20:23we're still four college kids,
20:24you know?
20:24Sure.
20:24And it's fucking playing
20:25like NYU of all places.
20:26Yeah.
20:30We didn't go there.
20:31We went to these just really grimy,
20:33like in the middle of nowhere diners.
20:34Which are the best.
20:35Which are the best, exactly.
20:36And so there's one in Greenwich Village
20:37where we could go
20:38and me and my buddies were regulars.
20:40They knew that
20:41when the motorcycles came there.
20:42The boys.
20:43That's the boys.
20:44The boys.
20:44Anybody, you boys.
20:46We'd sit down.
20:47It's like 2 a.m., 3 a.m.
20:48And we would order these
20:49banana walnut pancakes,
20:50like the whole platter.
20:52And when I sat down
20:54and they didn't skip a beat,
20:55they're like,
20:56Richard, who's this?
20:57And so I was like,
20:58this is Jessica.
20:59And they're like,
20:59you want the same?
21:00The same.
21:01They remembered.
21:02Yeah, they knew.
21:03I was like,
21:03that was cool.
21:04Talk about like movie mode.
21:05Like that was so cool for me.
21:07And then it was like,
21:08after we were done at the diner,
21:09we were checking while.
21:10I was like,
21:10oh my God,
21:10it was like,
21:11what, 6 a.m., 7?
21:12The sun was coming up.
21:14So I had to go make my way back
21:15to a place we were staying at
21:16in the Upper West Side.
21:17And so we're going up Broadway.
21:20And when you drive up,
21:21when you're going north,
21:22the horizon,
21:23the sun comes up right at home.
21:25It was like,
21:25we're driving back
21:27and the sun is rising
21:28as we're coming back home.
21:30And it's like,
21:31I want to have these movie moments
21:33for the rest of my life
21:33with this woman.
21:34Like those are those kind of things
21:35that hit close
21:36and I was just like,
21:37that's cool.
21:37But it did take a lot of effort.
21:39Like I was prepping everything.
21:40I knew how to make all that.
21:41Behind the scenes.
21:43And to piggyback
21:44what she was saying,
21:45it's like,
21:45you got to find that,
21:46find someone who is willing
21:47to put in all that effort
21:48and work for you
21:49because that's just normal.
21:51They want to do that for you.
21:53It's not something
21:53that's like begrudging.
21:54Like,
21:54oh God,
21:55now I got to do this.
21:55Ball and chain.
21:56I know.
21:57Like,
21:57I actually would always get angry
21:58when people would,
21:59because now that we're married,
22:00we have like married couples
22:01and married friends
22:02and stuff like that.
22:02And like the guys
22:03that always talk about
22:03ball and chain,
22:04I'm just like,
22:05especially in front of their
22:06significant others.
22:06I'm just like,
22:07why did you marry her then?
22:09It's sometimes crazy
22:11when you're with another couple
22:13and you start to see,
22:14you know,
22:14them being like,
22:15no babe,
22:16like why,
22:16or like they're like fighting
22:18and you're just like,
22:19you look at your partner
22:20and you're like,
22:20ooh,
22:20we don't ever do that.
22:22I don't want to ever do that.
22:23And that actually leads me
22:25into my next question
22:25for you guys is,
22:27you've been together
22:27for so long
22:28and you have such a
22:29fun,
22:30exciting relationship.
22:31How do you guys
22:32keep it alive still?
22:35And do you guys still
22:36do these big movie moments
22:38or how do you,
22:39how do you keep,
22:40how do you not get bored?
22:42Kind of.
22:43Cause it happens.
22:44Yeah.
22:44I feel like,
22:45I mean,
22:46we made a commitment
22:47like way before we had kids
22:49where like every year
22:50we're going to do
22:51like a big trip.
22:51We love to travel.
22:52We love to do things together.
22:53We're like,
22:54we're going to do a big trip,
22:55just us.
22:56And so like every year
22:57we've been like going to Greece,
22:59Scotland,
23:00like doing all these fun things.
23:02And like,
23:02we get to have those
23:03like movie moments again.
23:05And then I feel like
23:07a lot of people
23:08really take for granted
23:09like the Monday
23:10and every day.
23:12Um,
23:12we really make it a point
23:14to like romanticize our life.
23:16Even if it's just like
23:17you drinking like
23:20a coffee in the morning,
23:21some people just grab a to-go cup
23:22and run out the door.
23:23It's like,
23:23you get up early,
23:25you sit with like your favorite mug,
23:27you watch the sunrise,
23:28you know,
23:28like stuff like that.
23:29Like there's just so many
23:30easy ways to romanticize your life.
23:32And then there's easy ways
23:34to like romanticize yourselves
23:35as a couple.
23:37And so like,
23:38you know,
23:38when Richard comes home,
23:40like he'll orchestrate
23:41like a really fun movie night
23:42and get the kids involved
23:43and get the popcorn
23:44and make it like a themed
23:46Star Wars night
23:47or a theme,
23:48you know,
23:48like there's simple ways
23:50to make your life magical
23:52like on a day-to-day basis.
23:53And I feel like
23:54we really try to uphold that.
23:57Do you have
23:58kind of general tips
24:00for people
24:01that might be feeling
24:02just a little stagnant
24:03in their relationship
24:04or it's just kind of like,
24:06you know,
24:06sometimes you could just like,
24:07it could just be,
24:08you're talking about work a lot
24:10or like the kids
24:11or something.
24:11How do you guys
24:13do steps to be like,
24:14okay,
24:15like now it's like our time.
24:16Like we're going to like
24:16focus on like mom and dad
24:18right now.
24:18And like,
24:19what are some tips?
24:21The biggest advice,
24:22at least for me,
24:23it works for me
24:24and I tell people
24:24like maybe it works
24:25for you or not.
24:26I always try to look at it
24:27like some people fall
24:28into the trap
24:28of when they get married.
24:29It's almost like
24:30the trophy that you finally got
24:32and then you can put it
24:32on a shelf
24:33and then focus on other things.
24:34I actually try to
24:35almost trick yourself
24:36into thinking
24:36like you're never,
24:38you never have possession
24:38of the prize.
24:39Nothing's permanent.
24:40Nothing's permanent.
24:40In fact,
24:41you almost treat it
24:41like you're still dating.
24:43And so you never,
24:44even though husband
24:45always been married,
24:45it's like you're still,
24:46I'm still trying to court her.
24:47I'm still trying to be like,
24:48how can I do this
24:49on a Friday night
24:50that would make her go,
24:51and it's like,
24:51and you have to really
24:52think outside the box now
24:54because it's been
24:54like nine years now.
24:56Right.
24:56But still,
24:58it's like,
24:58that's at least
24:59a quick little trick
25:00for me
25:00is that you always
25:01just remind yourself.
25:02It's like,
25:02it's not a trophy
25:03that I can put on a shelf.
25:04It's like,
25:04I'm constantly trying
25:05to court her
25:06and date her
25:06and then it doesn't matter
25:07how many years
25:08marriage we have,
25:09I'm still trying to date her.
25:10That's how I kind of
25:11like click into that mindset.
25:13I think it's just remembering
25:14like those beginning feelings
25:16that you had.
25:17They don't go away,
25:18you know,
25:19so it's like tapping into like,
25:21why did I fall in love
25:22with this person?
25:23And what makes them
25:24so special to me?
25:25And now I know him even more.
25:27So like I can do
25:28way more things that catered.
25:30Like I think people think
25:32you've run out of stuff
25:33to do or talk about.
25:35And I'm like,
25:35no,
25:36I know him so much more.
25:38I have so much more
25:39that I can give to him
25:41and vice versa.
25:42And I think that's important.
25:43What's crazy is that like,
25:44we always try to like
25:45outdo each other
25:45and like how you can do something
25:46to surprise them
25:47for their birthday.
25:48He got me the coolest gift
25:49ever one year
25:50for my birthday.
25:51And I was like,
25:51all right,
25:52what's she going to do?
25:52Like I've seen her do this,
25:53I've seen her do that.
25:54And then she's just like,
25:55I know how much
25:56you love motorcycles.
25:57And she just leaned into it
25:58and she got me
25:59this thing in San Diego
26:00called Wheelie University.
26:01Oh yeah.
26:02And they teach you
26:03how to do wheelies on bikes.
26:04And so I was like,
26:05this is the coolest thing ever.
26:06And so like,
26:07yeah,
26:07she just let me go.
26:09I got to go do it.
26:09I hung out with a bunch
26:10of other bike,
26:11you know,
26:11motorcyclists.
26:12And then we all
26:12were like learning
26:13how to do wheelies
26:13on this like contraption
26:15that the guy made
26:15and had a patent for.
26:16I know he would like let you,
26:18he would crank it
26:18and let you do a higher
26:19and higher wheelie
26:20is the more,
26:21you know,
26:21confident that you got in.
26:22Like the whole day
26:23I was on cloud nine.
26:23I was like,
26:24this is freaking cool.
26:25It seems that you guys
26:25have such a strong trust
26:27between each other
26:29and such a strong foundation.
26:30And would you say
26:31that that's kind of
26:32how you guys make it work
26:34is that foundation
26:35and keeping it so concrete.
26:38I think it goes back to like,
26:39I've known that he has
26:41been sure of me
26:42since day one.
26:42There it is, right?
26:43And I never have
26:44to worry about it.
26:45I don't worry about it at all.
26:46It doesn't even cross my mind.
26:48I get excited to meet
26:49his co-star.
26:50I get excited to like,
26:52you know,
26:52see all the stuff he did.
26:53I'm so proud.
26:54Like, I'm so proud of him.
26:56Yeah, all the co-stars
26:57actually lose it
26:58when they're like,
26:58I'm going to meet the princess.
27:00Well, I think also
27:02for people watching,
27:03that's just another lesson
27:06with you can find someone
27:08who makes you feel that way.
27:09Like they are out there.
27:11You don't have to feel insecure.
27:13Do they like me?
27:14You shouldn't have to feel that way
27:15because when you don't feel that way,
27:17it is so much better.
27:19Yeah.
27:20It really is.
27:21It's a bit different.
27:22Yeah.
27:22So we have a really fun segment.
27:26It's called
27:26How Well Do You Know Each Other?
27:29Go, here we go.
27:30So I'm going to ask you
27:31a series of questions
27:32and you guys are going to
27:34let me know
27:34how well you know each other.
27:36Let's do it.
27:39Okay, let's start
27:41the love segment.
27:43What is Richard's
27:45favorite basketball team?
27:47Oh my gosh.
27:48I hope I get this right.
27:49Oh no!
27:51Let's sing it.
27:52What did you say?
27:52The Lakers.
27:53The Lakers.
27:53Oh no!
27:54The Lakers.
27:55Okay, okay.
27:56Kobe.
27:57What is Jessica's
27:58favorite karaoke song?
28:03Once Upon a...
28:03Yeah, do it!
28:04I remember the name.
28:06No way.
28:07Oh.
28:07I wouldn't say it's karaoke,
28:09but I sing it to my daughter
28:11every night for bed.
28:13So...
28:13So that does count.
28:14It's karaoke in my mind.
28:16Where does Richard
28:17want to travel to next?
28:19Let's see it.
28:21Oh!
28:22Again?
28:23Yeah.
28:24What did you put?
28:25I put a tarziket.
28:25Oh, it's English.
28:27I'm trying to get
28:28all seven consonants.
28:29Ah, okay.
28:30What's Jessica's pet peeve?
28:34A big kind?
28:35Oh, yes!
28:36Oh my gosh, I did it!
28:36I did it!
28:36I did it!
28:37No, it's the same thing.
28:38Yeah.
28:38There was this boy,
28:41like probably 16, 17,
28:43and he was sitting
28:44at Krispy Kreme
28:45just like burning CDs
28:47for like a new track
28:48that he was doing.
28:49Oh.
28:49And people were just...
28:50Oh, okay.
28:51People were like whispering
28:52and like laughing about it.
28:54Oh.
28:54And like,
28:55I feel like the world's
28:56harsh enough already.
28:57For sure.
28:57Why not like add joy to it
29:00instead of try to take it away?
29:02He saw how upset I was about it,
29:04so he like went
29:04and got his mixtape
29:05and bought it
29:06and like started talking to him
29:08and it was,
29:09yeah, it was really sweet.
29:10Oh my gosh,
29:11you guys are not real people.
29:13So the injustice of that.
29:16Yeah, exactly.
29:18What is Richard's
29:19go-to comfort food?
29:22Steak and sushi!
29:24Oh my gosh,
29:24they are the perfect couple.
29:28What is Jessica's
29:30top love language to give?
29:32Three, two, one,
29:33let's see them.
29:34A polka-dome.
29:36What physical touch for Richard
29:37because I know
29:38that's his love language.
29:40I think like going to
29:40like the kindness thing
29:41or leading good
29:42wherever you go.
29:43I like to be worthy of that.
29:44She loves it
29:45whenever you tell her
29:46amazing things.
29:48But I would actually,
29:49I took it outside
29:50of the relationship actually
29:51and like,
29:51which one she likes to give.
29:52So when she's extremely thoughtful
29:54when she gives people's gifts,
29:56like her closest friends
29:56and even people like,
29:57you know,
29:58acts of service
29:58and then those moments
30:00that she shares with people.
30:01But when I get stopped
30:02or like, you know,
30:03when people recognize me,
30:04she's the first to know
30:05that these 30 seconds
30:06or 60 second interactions
30:07can change a lot of stuff
30:09and mean are very impactful.
30:10So she's actually
30:11the first one to be like,
30:12you know,
30:12you want to take a picture?
30:13And she takes the picture,
30:15she takes the camera from them.
30:16And she's so good
30:17at giving people
30:18this quality of time
30:19with that little 30 second increment
30:20that she knows
30:21is very impactful with people.
30:23So I don't know
30:24if we got that right or wrong.
30:25I don't really know.
30:26I don't,
30:27the question is ambiguous.
30:30Yeah, exactly.
30:31Okay, so you guys
30:33obviously touched
30:34upon your relationship,
30:36how it all got started
30:37and you have a beautiful family too.
30:40I think we do.
30:41You're 100% doing it.
30:42She did pretty good.
30:43You did really good.
30:44You did really good.
30:45So how do you two
30:47create magical moments
30:48that include your family?
30:51Oh, I mean,
30:52I'm really passionate
30:53about creating magical moments
30:55for my kids.
30:56I think like
30:57it just comes to everything.
30:59Like holidays
31:00are a really big deal to me.
31:02Richard was definitely
31:04blown away
31:04the first time
31:05he came to my family's house
31:06for holidays.
31:07We really...
31:08They amp it up.
31:09Yeah.
31:09On max.
31:10We get all into it.
31:11And so we do like,
31:13my kids talk about
31:14like the breakfast
31:14like we make,
31:16like for Valentine's Day
31:17we make like heart pancakes
31:18and I give them
31:20like little cups
31:21with strawberry milk
31:22and you know,
31:23they just like,
31:24they get so excited for it.
31:26We play like Valentine bingo.
31:28We do heart-shaped food
31:31the whole day
31:32and we also like put
31:34little hearts on their door
31:35every day leading up
31:37to Valentine's Day
31:40where we put what we love
31:42about like certain things
31:44that we love about our kids
31:45and they get excited
31:47to read it every morning.
31:48Oh my gosh.
31:50You're the best mother ever.
31:52I don't know about that
31:54but I do.
31:55I love,
31:56I love keeping like
31:59childhood pure for them.
32:01It's like we like,
32:04we're the parents
32:05and we're like giving them
32:06a place where they
32:07still believe in magic
32:08and they still like
32:09have so much wonder
32:11for the world
32:12and I think like
32:13if I can prolong that
32:14as long as possible
32:15and like have them
32:16believe in magic
32:17and have them
32:18believe in themselves
32:18like I just feel like
32:19that'll help them
32:21as they grow old
32:23and like life's hard enough
32:24like I want to,
32:25I want to preserve
32:26their childhood
32:27as long as possible.
32:29I'm getting emotional.
32:31Well,
32:31it seems like
32:33you guys are so
32:35aware of those
32:37small 30-second moments
32:39that impact a child's life,
32:40right?
32:40These little things
32:41and every little
32:42little thing
32:44that you plop down
32:45is going to add up
32:46for them
32:46when they're older
32:47and remember that
32:48they do.
32:49Like you remember,
32:49we remember our childhood,
32:51you know,
32:51certain things that made you
32:52who you are
32:53and whatnot
32:54and that's so beautiful
32:56that you put so much
32:57effort into that.
32:58That's just really special.
33:00It's really cute actually
33:01whenever the kids,
33:02they know that they're
33:04going to be,
33:05there's going to be
33:05a write-up about them
33:06that's going to get posted
33:07on their wall
33:07every single day
33:08until Valentine's Day
33:09and so they look forward
33:10to it so much
33:11when Jessica puts it
33:12on there
33:12and they're like
33:13giddy and jumping
33:13and stuff
33:14and then she reads it
33:15to them
33:15and it's like a cool
33:16little positive trait
33:17about them
33:17that, you know,
33:18sometimes they don't
33:19even see coming
33:19and sometimes
33:20they're really proud
33:20of it
33:21and it's really,
33:22really cool.
33:23They're little,
33:23they're little confidence
33:25builders for the kids
33:26and stuff.
33:27Yeah, I love like
33:28when they read it
33:29and they're like,
33:30I am really funny
33:31or I am really smart
33:33and then we start talking
33:34like,
33:35it's almost like a little
33:36like a note
33:37to start a conversation.
33:39It's like,
33:39oh my gosh,
33:41do you remember
33:41when you said
33:42that silly thing
33:43like,
33:43oh,
33:43I just love your humor
33:44like,
33:45what other times
33:46have you been really silly
33:47and like,
33:48they'll just think about it
33:49and it really like
33:50establishes like
33:51who they are.
33:52Right.
33:52It's just like
33:53small things like that
33:54just like,
33:55you don't think
33:55that's a big deal
33:56writing a note to them
33:57but I mean,
33:59they talk about it
33:59and they remember
34:01and I feel like
34:02it helps them
34:03in the world,
34:05in school
34:05and to have
34:07that confidence.
34:08Do you have
34:09any other family
34:09traditions
34:10that you guys do?
34:11We have too many.
34:12Which one stands out
34:14to you?
34:14For me,
34:15like we're talking
34:16like full,
34:19like I said,
34:19like on mats,
34:20like they like
34:20took the mob
34:21and went all the way.
34:22Like even for
34:23St. Paddy's Day,
34:24like for us,
34:25we would just like,
34:26in my family,
34:26you'd wear a green.
34:27You're like,
34:28what are you doing?
34:28St. Paddy's Day.
34:29But they,
34:30she would go all out
34:31like where they go
34:32and they bury gold coins
34:33outside of the garden.
34:34So you go
34:35and they bury it
34:36and then when they come back,
34:37it's a giant lollipop.
34:39A rainbow lollipop.
34:40Oh my gosh.
34:42And then they come back
34:43and of course
34:43it's perfectly orchestrated
34:44so when they go back,
34:45they see a clue
34:46on the ground
34:46and they're like,
34:47hey,
34:48the leprechaun left a clue
34:49because there's a leprechaun door.
34:50Right.
34:51We have a little leprechaun door.
34:53A little leprechaun door
34:54where the leprechaun
34:55will come out
34:55and leave these little
34:56trivia things
34:57that they have to go now
34:58on a treasure hunt.
34:59And so they read this clue,
35:01they think of the answer,
35:02oh, it's over here.
35:03And so they go run upstairs
35:04and they go into like
35:04the bedroom,
35:05find the other clue,
35:06find the other clue
35:07and at the end
35:07is a treasure chest
35:09and you open it
35:10and it's just like
35:10gold coins.
35:12There's like candy there.
35:13Well, it seems like
35:14you guys keep
35:15your kids really active
35:16in like brain activities
35:18and doing cool things
35:19and just keeping it going,
35:21not just sitting around like,
35:23I feel like it's hard
35:24nowadays with kids too.
35:25It's like,
35:26I have bad kids,
35:27you know,
35:27like just like,
35:28what do you do
35:29with them?
35:29We're not perfect.
35:30Well, no, I mean,
35:31you also have to like,
35:32They're off camera
35:32right now on iPads.
35:33I mean,
35:34at some point
35:35you have to give the kid
35:35the iPads
35:36so they can focus
35:37and stuff,
35:37but it's such a hard balance
35:39because when we were younger,
35:40I mean,
35:40we didn't have that, right?
35:41We were outside
35:42all the time
35:42doing activities
35:44and I feel like
35:45even these little things
35:46that you do
35:46just keep,
35:47keep the brain
35:48working a little bit.
35:49Yeah.
35:49Oh, that's so beautiful.
35:51So what is happily ever after
35:53mean for you
35:54and your family?
35:56I mean,
35:57I think it's just
35:59preserving your family
36:02and like,
36:02it's on little bubble
36:03of like,
36:04is it silly to say
36:05like happiness
36:05and love,
36:06like a piece of heaven
36:07or something
36:08just to like have
36:09this time together.
36:12Like when you step
36:12into the house,
36:13I hope that you feel
36:14that it's different,
36:16that it's like
36:16calm,
36:17peaceful,
36:18like full of love,
36:19full of acceptance.
36:20Like I want my kids
36:22when we're together
36:24to feel like
36:25that this is where
36:26I feel safe.
36:27This is where
36:27I feel comfortable.
36:28This is where
36:29I feel loved
36:30and I hope it,
36:31I hope our efforts,
36:32like we were talking about,
36:34like, you know,
36:34Richard made a ton of effort
36:36to make things magical for me
36:37and I can,
36:40I feel that
36:41and I hope to make things
36:43magical for them
36:43and I think we're just
36:45always orchestrating
36:47in order to create
36:48this little place
36:50where they can look back
36:51on their memories
36:52and be like,
36:53I just felt so loved
36:55and I felt like
36:56my life was magical
36:58and that happily ever after
37:02doesn't just stop
37:03when you get married,
37:04it continues
37:04throughout your life
37:06and that does take effort.
37:08It's not,
37:08it's not as easy
37:10as you think it is,
37:11but it's worth the effort.
37:13Did you,
37:14were both of you raised
37:16in this type of culture
37:17at home
37:17where it was
37:18so loving
37:19and so focused
37:21on that
37:22or did you guys
37:23kind of feel,
37:25or did you figure
37:25that out on your own
37:26that you wanted
37:27to create an environment
37:28in your home
37:29like that?
37:31Do you,
37:31do you want to answer?
37:32She makes fun of me
37:33because like,
37:33it was just a bunch
37:34of bros,
37:34like we didn't have it.
37:35You and your brothers.
37:36It's different.
37:37It's not worth,
37:39like worse or better.
37:41I realized pretty quickly
37:42like where she came from.
37:44She learned it from
37:45like her,
37:45you said your grandma,
37:46right?
37:46My great grandma,
37:47she would,
37:51she was like the OG
37:52of making magical moments
37:54for her family.
37:56She used to fill the backyard
38:00with water
38:00and we would all,
38:02yeah,
38:03like she would flood it
38:04and we would all just play back there
38:06and splash around
38:07and she would make
38:08these little like stone paths
38:11and we would put like our handprints in it
38:14and put our name in there
38:15so she'd always remember it.
38:16Like I just have so many
38:18like amazing memories
38:19and my great grandma,
38:22my mom saw
38:24what my great grandma was doing
38:26and like she did it for us.
38:28Okay.
38:28And then,
38:30you know,
38:30you always want to like
38:31do the same
38:33or if not better
38:34than like those before you
38:35and so like I learned
38:36from my mother
38:37and so I,
38:40yeah,
38:40I really try to,
38:42that's how I like
38:43give love
38:45and how I like want
38:47or how I hope they feel love.
38:52You're really good
38:52at making those pure joy moments
38:53like you were talking about.
38:54Oh, I mean,
38:55I feel it now.
38:56Yeah.
38:56I feel it now.
38:58So you want to get adopted
38:58as a failure?
38:59Actually,
39:00like can you guys adopt me?
39:03Do you want a sister?
39:03Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly.
39:06Well, Cozy would love a sister.
39:07I'll come hang out.
39:08Yes.
39:09I'll play princess.
39:10I'll play older princess girl.
39:12So I want to play
39:14another game with you.
39:15Oh, another game.
39:15Yes,
39:17but I think
39:17let's bring in the kids.
39:19I'll bring in the kids.
39:20Yeah.
39:22Okay,
39:23so we have
39:23some very special guests today.
39:26Would you mind
39:27introducing yourself?
39:28My name's Marble.
39:31Good job, buddy.
39:32What's your name?
39:33What's your name?
39:33Cosette.
39:34Cosette.
39:35Woo!
39:35So cute.
39:37Oh my gosh.
39:38I have to say
39:38I absolutely love your dress.
39:40By the way, everybody,
39:41this was an accident.
39:43We just matched
39:44because
39:45we're twins.
39:46Or was it?
39:47It was fate.
39:47It was fate.
39:48It was fate.
39:49Exactly.
39:49Exactly.
39:50So now we're going to play
39:51a really fun game
39:53called
39:53Who is Most Likely to?
39:56So it's either going to be
39:57mommy or daddy.
39:58Okay?
39:59Okay,
39:59so question
40:00number one.
40:02Who is most likely
40:04to fall asleep first?
40:07Daddy!
40:08Daddy!
40:10What?
40:10That was immediate.
40:11That was a little too quick.
40:12I know,
40:13that was too quick.
40:13Who is most likely
40:15to take the longest
40:16to get ready?
40:20Mommy.
40:20We got three moms
40:21and one dad.
40:23She's like,
40:24girl power.
40:24She's going to help
40:25you.
40:25Yeah, yeah,
40:25shut up.
40:27Who's cooking
40:28would the kids
40:30rather eat?
40:32Mommy's or daddy's?
40:33Okay.
40:34Mommy or daddy's cooking?
40:36That's right.
40:37Dad!
40:37That's right!
40:38Woo!
40:39Okay.
40:39He makes a good steak.
40:40I know,
40:41I always make steaks.
40:42Who is most likely
40:43to lose their phone?
40:47What?
40:48Oh, we cozy on dad.
40:50She's a mama's girl.
40:51I know.
40:54Who do the kids
40:57most likely
40:58want to play
40:58video games with?
41:00Who plays video games
41:01with you?
41:02Oh, cozy on
41:03mommy's team again.
41:07Yes!
41:08That's my girl.
41:09You're co-tour.
41:09I like them, right?
41:10Who's most likely
41:11to take selfies?
41:15Oh, we got a
41:1850-50.
41:20Mom and dad.
41:21Okay, so mom and dad,
41:22who do you guys think?
41:23Mommy.
41:23I think that daddy
41:27takes the most selfies,
41:28but I take a lot of videos
41:29of you guys.
41:30Okay, last but not least,
41:34who is most likely
41:35to have a surprise?
41:39Mom.
41:39Yeah, mommy's got
41:40the surprises done.
41:41Mommy's got that lockdown.
41:43I love surprises, huh?
41:45Yay!
41:46Good job, guys.
41:46That was so fun.
41:48Cozy, we'll talk about this later.
41:49Okay, so speaking of surprises,
41:57I heard you have one for us.
42:00Yeah, do you want to?
42:01No, you got it.
42:02I, we are expecting
42:05another little one.
42:07There's another cute
42:08little guy coming.
42:09Yeah.
42:10Or girl.
42:10We don't know yet.
42:11Oh!
42:12But we will
42:12when we make our video.
42:14So we actually love
42:15to make these,
42:15of course, movie moments.
42:16We actually make
42:17these little gender reveal movies.
42:19And so there's
42:20a really cute one
42:20with Maverick
42:21whenever he found out
42:22that she was pregnant
42:23with a baby
42:24that we didn't know
42:25if it was a little sister
42:26or a little brother.
42:27And so we filmed
42:28this cute little thing
42:28of Maverick
42:29like peeping behind trees
42:30and like going into the forest
42:31and finding a little Easter egg,
42:34like little carriage, right?
42:35Yeah.
42:35And then he opens
42:36the Easter egg
42:37and pink confetti
42:38just falls right out.
42:39Oh my gosh.
42:41So we're going to do
42:41one for this one too.
42:43So we got a version of that
42:44that we're going to shoot.
42:44They're going to be surprised.
42:46So stay tuned.
42:47And you can see the video.
43:17Well, from the studio
43:41here at Real Talk,
43:42we have a little gift for you.
43:44A little surprise,
43:45if you will.
43:46We surprised the surprise
43:47king and queen.
43:49So here.
43:51Oh my gosh.
43:53That's so sweet.
43:54Yes.
43:54We love you so much.
43:57That's so kind.
43:58Thank you so much.
43:59That's amazing.
44:00That's so cute.
44:01That gets us probably
44:02through two days
44:03of diaper changing.
44:05Does it?
44:05Yeah.
44:06Yeah.
44:07Blowouts and everything.
44:08It's going to be awesome.
44:08Thank you for that.
44:09Thank you so much.
44:10Thank you guys so much
44:11for being here today.
44:12You are just
44:13the light of my personal life now.
44:16And so inspirational
44:17in so many ways.
44:18Just personally,
44:19your relationship,
44:20your family values,
44:21your work ethic,
44:22so much.
44:23I just feel honored
44:24to have even spoken
44:25with you for a couple hours.
44:27And we're honored too.
44:29It really just warms my soul.
44:31Truly.
44:31You're so great.
44:32This was awesome.
44:33It was so much fun.
44:34Thank you so much
44:35for having us.
44:35Yes.
44:36And do you have anything else
44:37you want to say
44:37to our Real Talk fans?
44:39We got a new series coming,
44:40so definitely stay tuned
44:41for that one.
44:42Like I said,
44:42it gets really crazy.
44:43There's like the hardest
44:44of highs,
44:44lowest of lows.
44:45It gets pretty dark
44:46on this one.
44:46So you're going to feel
44:47the feelies on this one.
44:49All the drama.
44:49All the drama.
44:50And Real Shorts
44:51does drama like no other.
44:52So thank you so much
44:54for being an amazing community
44:57that you are.
44:57I think I want to follow up
44:58with that.
44:59Is that like even
44:59during the wildfires,
45:00I mean,
45:00we shared during the podcast
45:02that they reached out to us
45:03personally in our DMs
45:05and they said,
45:05is Maverick and Cozy okay?
45:07Are you guys safe?
45:08And you guys are just
45:09the best fans in the world.
45:10And we want to appreciate you guys.
45:12Love you guys so much.
45:13Bye guys.
45:14Love you.
45:14See you next time.
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