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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
00:03What do you think?
00:04Like, working here is not possible at all, huh?
00:08The cafe has to be successful, because if we're not,
00:12we'll be living with the parents forever.
00:18So when do you think you'll do furniture shopping?
00:20Probably this week.
00:21You might have to keep an eye on it, Dylan.
00:23She's already like, about my finances.
00:26I'm like, the f***?
00:27This is exactly what I was worried about.
00:31Obviously, you talked to your mom about the spending habits.
00:34Yes, I had opened up to my mom, and I had told her.
00:37Patia does have a spending problem.
00:39If she wants to come here and have the champagne lifestyle,
00:42unfortunately, that's not going to work.
00:47Let's show you the other bedroom.
00:49I think it'll make an excellent kids' bedroom.
00:50Two little twin beds here.
00:52Twins is on the agenda, then.
00:54I've become really unsure if I want kids,
00:56but I haven't told him yet.
00:59I just don't feel like we're in a place for a house at all.
01:05I have f***ed up.
01:07I want to be with you.
01:09It's hard for me to believe you, really.
01:12I can't stop to thinking about he touching a f***ing stripper.
01:16I can't give you a chance,
01:18but there's no chance to come back together.
01:21It's just one time.
01:23This f***ing f***ing is broken.
01:25I don't think he's going to change my mind.
01:27I don't think he's going to change my mind.
01:37I don't think he's going to change my mind.
01:42We're going to cook and make money.
02:02We hope so.
02:03We're going to cook and make money.
02:06It's been a week now, and things are starting to come together.
02:11The cafe now looks like a cafe.
02:14Construction's done, equipment is in,
02:16and today is just final touches.
02:19It's really exciting.
02:30Tomorrow, the owner of property is doing a religious ceremony,
02:35also known as Asunder Khan.
02:38So today, we're going to prepare the cafe
02:40and some food to show a lot of people
02:43that we are opening a new cafe over here.
02:46What are you making?
02:49Make coffee.
02:51Just coffee?
02:54So making coffee is also an art.
02:56Like, if you make good coffee,
02:58it can be at the star of our menu.
03:05Since the main customer in our area is students,
03:09we are focusing on home-cooked food, like bread roll,
03:13which is basically a bread filled with potatoes.
03:16Along with that, we're going to serve dal, lentil, rice, potato curries,
03:20the things that Indians love to eat on a daily routine.
03:24Coffee machine is here.
03:25All right.
03:25Yeah.
03:26Yeah.
03:28Mostly people in India drink chai,
03:30but coffee is also getting popular.
03:32But people serve instant coffee.
03:34So if we get a machine which will grind the beans
03:37and make a fresh coffee will definitely
03:40going to attract a lot of our customers.
03:43And that's why we just wanted this big, real-deal coffee machine.
03:55Eggs are delivered.
03:58Looks like all the stuff is here.
04:00Yeah.
04:01Yeah.
04:02We get a stove.
04:03We get fridge.
04:04We get another, like, cooking station.
04:07See how crowded it is already?
04:09We're not even working yet.
04:11This is such a small space.
04:13How are we going to all fit in here?
04:15We need to be, like, making schedule
04:18that who will be in and who will be out.
04:20So only, like, two people at a time,
04:23those who are cooking.
04:25Oh, we got a logo.
04:27Yay!
04:28Family Cafe.
04:30When I first showed the location to my family,
04:33everybody seemed disappointed.
04:34But I want to show them that the location is so good
04:37that we were going to get good customer over here.
04:39Now, I think we should start cleaning the place.
04:42We have a lot to do.
04:44A lot of people will be coming over here.
04:46I'm so nervous.
04:47I'm nervous, too.
04:50The people who are coming tomorrow for the blessing ceremony,
04:54they are the first one who's going to try the food.
04:56So we really need to make sure that everything is perfect.
04:59Is this preparation for the bread rolls?
05:01Yes.
05:02Yes.
05:12Don't drink anything, Jenny.
05:14We need to make a very good impression.
05:16Otherwise, they're not going to come back.
05:18It's good.
05:31I'm so nervous.
05:32I had some ice.
05:33I've tried to put some ice to enjoy.
05:34It's so good.
05:34Yeah, I can eat it.
05:35But I want to make some ice.
05:36I want to make some ice.
05:38Yeah, I'm good.
05:38That means we're going to eat the ice.
05:39It's good to make some ice.
05:41I can take a cup of ice.
05:41I can eat the ice.
05:42I can make some ice.
05:43I can eat it because of ice.
05:44I can eat it because of ice you are eating it.
05:45It smells good, it smells good.
05:47Yes, it's good.
06:06I can't believe my eyes.
06:08This is unfiltered water.
06:10The area is next to the toilet.
06:12It's not hygienic at all.
06:14I don't know what makes him think that he can take water from the bathroom and use it for the kitchen.
06:19That's not going to happen in my kitchen.
06:21What happened?
06:22They fill the water from the bathroom and using it for cooking.
06:28What happened?
06:29They fill the water from the bathroom and using it for cooking.
06:33It's a very basic thing.
06:34It's a very basic thing.
06:35It's a very basic thing.
06:40What happened?
06:41They fill the water from the bathroom and using it for cooking.
06:45It's a very basic thing.
06:46It's a very basic thing.
06:47It's a very basic thing.
06:48Oh, you're so excited.
06:50Why are you doing our waste?
06:52It's a very basic thing.
06:53It's a very basic thing.
06:55It's the water from the bathroom.
06:56And the people work here, who are the workers who've asked for it to use it to use it.
07:00It's the water from the bathroom and washing it.
07:02They're using it for the plastic.
07:04I thought that most of them are in the water source.
07:07I think my parents are right. It's my failure. It's not just theirs. All the hard work is gone.
07:30We are planning to do opening tomorrow. And if we can't even prepare the food, I don't know how we
07:36will even be able to run the cafe. So what now? What are we going to do? What happens now? I don't know.
07:41We're going to prepare again everything tomorrow. Maybe this is why people get sick a lot when they
07:49eat in India. Oh, thanks. I feel so special. You are.
08:00I'm going to go. I'm going to finish shopping. I'm going to do shopping.
08:13Oh. Wow. Oh my God. This is super comfortable. Oh, it is, isn't it? Oh, that suits you.
08:23Oh, yeah. Is it comfortable? It's not too bad. How about that one?
08:29Go ahead, babe. There you go. Just sit in there. You love bossing me around, don't you?
08:34No, I'm not bossing you around. Do you like that one versus that one?
08:38This one's a bit more comfortable, yeah. Thank you. Oh, here it is. That's what I like.
08:44You really like that one. It looks like a movie theater thing. It does.
08:47When I'm shopping for furniture, I look for quality, I look for comfort, and I look for
08:53durability. And if it fits that category, it's perfect.
08:57You do need to look at the price tag also. That does come into it, my love.
09:03You can't just ignore it. You have to at least just graze your eyes across it.
09:07It can't help it if I have expensive taste.
09:09Oh.
09:10So this is like $2,699, and this one is $2,099. What do you think?
09:20I'd say $1,000 is cheap for a couch. Wouldn't it be better to get something more cost-effective,
09:25and then we can put the rest of the money towards your debt?
09:28We did have the conversation about budgeting and slowing down the spending.
09:34Oh, my gosh. We're furniture shopping. You have to really talk about this now.
09:37I know, love, but it's important. You still have this debt looming over you and this credit
09:43card interest that's accumulating every month.
09:49Patia's relationship with money is reckless. She would have these big spending sprees in
09:55Vegas where she'd drop $5,000 to $10,000. She'd walk into these clothing stores and the
10:00shop assistants would just absolutely love her, throwing clothes at her. She'd buy one of
10:05every colour. If she's got money, she's going to spend it. All of it. And once we get married,
10:11our finances are going to be intertwined, so it's a big issue.
10:16I want you to be 100% honest with me. How much debt...
10:22What's the actual number?
10:2720.
10:3020.
10:31So, like, how many credit cards in total have you maxed out?
10:35Five. All of them.
10:38Why is there five credit cards maxed out? How does that happen?
10:43I had no debt when we went to Thailand. And then when I came back, I accumulated the debt
10:49again because I had to start all over.
10:51Okay.
10:52This is your fault. I had no debt when I moved to Thailand with you.
10:57When I met Dylan, I was in a lot of debt, but I worked really hard myself and was able
11:04to pay it off. But then we moved to Thailand and we broke up. Eleven months later, I had to
11:10move back to the United States and start from scratch. I hadn't been working in Thailand.
11:16I had zero savings. I felt like I was at the lowest of my lowest. So I have a lot of resentment
11:24regarding my financial situation because I sacrificed a lot for Dylan.
11:30I understand that some of it was possibly my fault, but that was four years ago and you've
11:36been dancing for the last four years, making pretty good money. It just seems like the
11:41same problem just keeps occurring. Are your spending habits going to change?
11:49Yes. I'm not the same. I've learned from my mistakes. That's why I'm asking you to sell
11:56that house to help me with the stack.
12:02I'm scared that if I do sell one of my properties, that there's going to be something else and
12:08something else and something else.
12:12I own a couple of properties in Launceston and they generate some income. But I don't
12:17think selling one of those properties to pay off her debt is the right financial choice.
12:21Because it just feels like she's not taking any accountability for her spending habits.
12:26And it's rubbish that she's in debt just because she moved to Thailand. She's been spending this
12:31way her whole life. When I first met Patia, I thought she was rich or something. I thought,
12:38you know, she's a stripper. She's got heaps of money. But then I found out she was 60k in debt.
12:43So this is a pattern. And I mean, I love Patia and I want to be with her. But I don't want
12:51to have to be always cleaning up her mess.
12:54You keep asking me for a ring. The main reason you haven't got that ring and I haven't proposed
13:01yet is because of the spending issues that you've had. My fear is that this spending thing
13:06is never going to stop. I'm hoping there's going to be lots and lots of little babies
13:15and children. I didn't plan on opening up to Matthew's family, but it all just kind of
13:21came out. I've been having like a lot of anxiety about having children lately.
13:25Me and Madeleine got into it a couple of times. She called off the wedding. You're completely
13:37just manipulated and controlled all the time. Wake the up. You don't have to go through with
13:43this.
13:55I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I have to go through with her.
14:14But that's her. She's a big girl. She's a big girl. She's a big girl. She's a big girl.
14:23Since I've arrived in England, things have been up and down.
14:27It feels like Matthew and I are on different pages
14:30about everything, like money and where we're going to live
14:34and the future.
14:36It's been a bumpy start.
14:39What type of tea is this?
14:40English breakfast.
14:41OK.
14:42I mean, I don't know why I asked that.
14:44The only tea that we have, actually.
14:45Right.
14:47Matthew is working today.
14:49So Matthew's mother has invited me to tea with her,
14:54Matthew's grandma, and also Matthew's brother's fiance.
15:01All right, so these are the normal.
15:03Do you think we're meant to say normal, aren't we?
15:04Oh, it's OK.
15:06I'm used to it.
15:07So these are the vegan ones?
15:08These are the vegan ones.
15:09We're not saying you're abnormal.
15:11It's OK.
15:12I realize I probably am.
15:13So this is the vegan plate here.
15:14That's the vegan.
15:15Oh, my gosh.
15:16Wow.
15:17Matthew and I did English afternoon tea once before.
15:21I just loved it.
15:22I felt very posh, as English would say it.
15:26You drink tea together, and you normally
15:28have a tray of little sandwiches and pastries
15:32set in the middle of the table, which
15:35is why in those old English TV shows,
15:37when people are trying to speak to each other,
15:39and they have to look over the little rack of food.
15:43This is vegan cheese.
15:45Yeah, vegan cheese.
15:46I think I'm going to have a fat.
15:49Sorry, Greta.
15:50Are you all right with me eating this?
15:52Yeah.
15:52I figured no worries.
15:54Greta, I just want you to know how welcome you are
15:57in our family, and how much it means to have you with us.
15:59If you stay in our house for three weeks or three months,
16:02or even perhaps not quite three,
16:03like that, three years would be far too long.
16:07Especially in such a small house.
16:09Yeah, but you know you are most welcome, and I just
16:13want you to know that.
16:14Thank you so much.
16:16I've said to Matthew, I think you're his soulmate.
16:19Aww.
16:20You were pulled together from across the world.
16:22It was meant to happen, wasn't it?
16:24It was fate.
16:25Sorry.
16:26That's, like, so sweet.
16:27That's so sweet.
16:28OK.
16:29Yeah, I mean, it really, like, it really means
16:32the world to be so accepted in the family.
16:34Like, I, like, don't know what that's like, really.
16:37We have, last two years, we've had some wonderful
16:40Christmases, haven't we, together?
16:42Yeah.
16:42Yeah, they really have.
16:43And I know you said that that's not what you have done
16:46in the past with your family.
16:47Yeah, and, like, holidays are especially really
16:51challenging because I have, my mother and my sister and I,
16:55we made homemade ornaments for the tree.
16:58And the first time we were integrating the tree
17:03after she had passed, my father was in a new relationship.
17:07And I was, like, so excited to hang up
17:08the ornaments on the tree.
17:10And this, this person that my father was in a relationship
17:16basically said, like, the ornaments were really ugly
17:19and that she didn't want them hang on the tree.
17:21She wasn't very nice.
17:22Yeah, and so, like, one of my first memories was, like,
17:27me, like, trying to hide some of the ornaments in the tree.
17:30Oh, no.
17:31And so, like, we can still hang on them.
17:32Oh, you shouldn't have to hide.
17:33Have you still got them?
17:34No, because she, she, um, she threw them out.
17:38Oh, my God.
17:39That's awful.
17:40That's dreadful.
17:41Oh, Greta, oh, Greta, I want to hug you.
17:45I'm sorry.
17:46I've got to hug you.
17:47Let me hug you.
17:48I can't bear that.
17:49I tell you what, we've got lots of family traditions
17:53and we will have some Christmas family traditions
17:55and you can be part of those traditions.
17:58And your babies.
17:59Yeah.
18:00Yeah.
18:01We'll hang ornaments.
18:02Yeah, we'll make them.
18:03In fact, we've got lots of Christmas ornaments
18:05and we will buy some new ones.
18:06You buy new ones, don't you?
18:07We can make some ornaments and we will start.
18:11You'll be able to do that with your children.
18:12Yes, you will.
18:14I'm hoping there's going to be lots and lots
18:17of little babies and children.
18:18I've been manifesting twins since I was, like, 16 years old.
18:21Oh, my God.
18:22Excellent.
18:25Yeah, I mean, I think, like, when we first met,
18:28we both wanted children, like, a lot.
18:30But I've been having, like, a lot of anxiety
18:34about having children lately.
18:37And I can't tell if it's, like, a phase or not.
18:43Like, if I'll want them more later,
18:46like, if we have a house together
18:47and I can, like, feel it more.
18:54I mean, I know he wants children
18:56and I think he should have children.
18:57Like, I think he's the type of person
19:03who would be a really amazing dad.
19:05And I don't want to take that from him.
19:09It's hard as well because your upbringing in your childhood
19:13and not having your mother to see as a role model.
19:17Such a young age.
19:18That means being a mother yourself
19:20must be quite a big thing.
19:22Yeah.
19:24I loved having babies myself.
19:26And I've always looked forward to the day
19:28when perhaps they would go on and have children of their own.
19:31So I would be disappointed if I didn't have any grandchildren.
19:35But it's quite a big decision whether you're
19:38going to have children or not.
19:40It is the sort of thing that could break up a relationship
19:43if one desperately wants children and one doesn't.
19:47Relationships, if they last the long haul,
19:50they don't go easy.
19:51There's tricky times and you have to get through them together.
19:55I didn't plan on opening up to Matthew's family,
19:59but it all just kind of came out.
20:03I didn't want to ruin this perfect image they had of the future.
20:07But they're so excited for me to be here
20:09and they love me so much and they've been so accepting.
20:12I don't want to get their hopes up
20:16about something that may never happen.
20:18Matthew, he loves you dearly and he wants the best for you.
20:26So you'll have to navigate that decision together
20:29and hopefully, you know, reach a compromise.
20:35The last time Matthew and I talked about kids
20:37was almost six months ago.
20:40And Matthew and I talked about it
20:42and agreed that we would want kids together.
20:44But when I've really started to picture it recently,
20:47like house, marriage, kids,
20:50I feel really conflicted.
20:55I feel nervous that I'm going to now
20:57have to break this news to Matthew
20:59because it could really determine
21:01the course of our relationship.
21:10I accumulated this debt because of you.
21:13Every time there's a problem, it's like it's my fault.
21:15It's almost like he wants to see me suffer through the debt.
21:20Like, let's watch you squirm.
21:22He needs to move past this
21:23because if he doesn't propose, I'm done.
21:26What's up, man?
21:50How you doing?
21:51How you doing?
21:52Start without me?
21:55Let me grab a beer.
21:57I'll be right back.
21:59Brian is one of my closest friends.
22:01We met in Colombia.
22:02He was married to one of Madeleine's friends.
22:05But Madeleine and Brian paid each other.
22:09Madeleine started a rumor that I was unfaithful to my ex-wife
22:16just to get back at me telling Luke what happens when he's not there.
22:22It's Madeleine's world and we're just living in it.
22:24Like, she says, jump, and Luke says, how high?
22:26She says, bark, and Luke barks.
22:32Here you go, man.
22:33Cheers. Salud.
22:35Madeleine does not want me to see Brian.
22:37But to be honest, I think that we should be able to talk,
22:41and I could use it just about now.
22:44How you been, man?
22:45Good.
22:47How's it going?
22:48So you've been here for a couple of days now, right?
22:49Yeah, it's been dramatic, man.
22:51Me and Madeleine got into it a couple of times.
22:54She called off the wedding.
22:57I mean, it's been stressful, man, you know?
22:59But trying to work through it.
23:02It sounds real healthy, Luke.
23:04It sounds like you're really making progress.
23:06Yeah, I mean, I, you have a point, dude.
23:09I feel like you have, like, Stockholm Syndrome.
23:12You know?
23:13What's that?
23:14When someone, like, kidnaps somebody and takes them hostage,
23:17then the hostage starts to fall in love with the captive.
23:23We've been through a lot, you know?
23:24I mean, maybe there's a little bit of a trauma bond there.
23:27Like, I've kind of been at, like, my lowest low in life,
23:31you know, like, financially unstable.
23:34Yeah, but you've been saying this since the moment you met her.
23:37So you're, everything you're telling me, nothing's changed.
23:40It's bad, bro.
23:42And you're completely just manipulated and controlled all the time.
23:48What is it about her?
23:50Like, why do you want to be with her?
23:52Sell her to be pleased.
23:55Really, like, me seeing you and your life,
23:58I wanted to move here.
23:59I wanted to be in a different country,
24:02as an entrepreneur, living a life.
24:05I just wanted to live the dream and not have to work how I did in the United States.
24:07Sell me her, not the dream. Sell me her.
24:10I think, ultimately, I'm a little bit scared of being alone.
24:17And she has been there.
24:20Is she there for you?
24:21Because last time I talked, you're like, oh, sometimes she ignores me for days.
24:25That's someone that's there for you?
24:27I'm telling you to sell me her.
24:29You haven't said one nice thing about her.
24:31And you're getting married.
24:33Like, what about this sounds like a good idea?
24:38You don't have to go through with this.
24:40Did I want to be going through this stuff, like, the weeks before my marriage?
24:46No.
24:47You know, am I happy right now?
24:51No, I feel like I'm walking on eggshells.
24:54But the way she makes me feel when I'm with her
24:57makes me forget a lot of the stress, a lot of the things that I'm going through.
25:04I see my future, and I want to be happy.
25:07I want to be happy with her.
25:08I just, I want it so bad.
25:12It's just, I felt like I haven't been myself in a really long time.
25:16Because really, like, I can't hit home on the financial stress that I'm going through.
25:22So where is the root of your financial problems?
25:29How much money did you spend on Madeline in a year?
25:33A lot.
25:34Any woman will love you if you send your whole paycheck to them.
25:42That doesn't mean it's true love.
25:44A real woman, knowing that you're in financial ruin, won't push the limits of what you can or cannot give her.
25:51It's hard to be your friend when you keep making the same mistakes with the same girl.
25:59Wake the up.
26:00Brian is saying some pretty nasty , but there's some truth in that.
26:09I've boughten her cars, I've boughten her beauty studio, I pay her rent, I pay her food, I pay everything.
26:16It's been horrible since I've moved here.
26:21And it's not how I want my future to be.
26:24It's not the relationship that I had envisioned.
26:27I don't know, I don't know what to do.
26:29You keep asking me for a ring, but my fear is that this spending thing is never going to stop.
26:49I haven't seen the changes, I need to see those changes before we commit and get married.
26:54It's an addiction that you have.
27:01It's a chronic addiction, you know, it's detrimental love, it's got to stop, and it's serious.
27:09You brought me to tears with it, because it's like, when is this woman going to stop spending?
27:15Now there's been many months where you have not had the money for rent, and I've had to pay it for you.
27:19What are you talking about? That's because you put me in that place.
27:24You've got a very deluded view of what has and hasn't happened.
27:33I didn't know, like deep down, how you really felt about my spending issue.
27:38In the past, every time I expressed it, you'd get really upset and mad and just told me to start
27:42your business, and it would just start a fight, and so I just kind of gave up.
27:47You're right.
27:47But I accumulated this debt because of you.
27:54The debt that you had when you met me, whose fault was that?
27:58When I met Dylan, I just moved to Vegas, and I was in a lot of debt.
28:05As performers, strippers, we had to look the part, and it's expensive. We had to tan,
28:10we had to do the nails, the hair. You have to spin to make it, but I did not spin like I used to.
28:17Babe, I've learned from my mistakes, but this debt, I swear, honestly, I feel like it's your fault.
28:26You know it's your fault.
28:27Every time there's a problem, it's like it's my fault.
28:29It just seems it's just easy just to blame stuff on me and then just keep spending.
28:37It makes me mad. This last debt was because of him.
28:43If it bothers you, help me, help me pay it.
28:45It's almost like he wants to see me suffer through the debt.
28:49Like, let's watch you squirm and see what you can do, you know?
28:52I'm not that same girl anymore. I've gotten better. Now that we're together,
28:59it's going to be your money, and I'm not going to be doing that.
29:04I don't know what more I can do or say to say,
29:06look, I'm not that high-maintenance girl like I was back in the days.
29:10He needs to move past this because if he doesn't propose, I'm done. I'm moving on.
29:22He spread some holy water, which was mixed with a cow urine.
29:52He needs to be a cow urine. He needs to be a cow urine.
29:55He needs to be a cow urine. He needs to be a cow urine.
29:59Vico?
30:01I'm going to write that. I want Jojo.
30:04For burgers, I want to.
30:06Patties and french fries.
30:12You know, last night was rough night.
30:14Like, I know, I really felt so bad that you guys worked so hard for so long,
30:19and we have to throw everything away. That was, that was so bad.
30:23Last night, that really set us back. We were up late preparing once again,
30:30and now we all are tired, cranky, and you know, it's not a great way to start our first day.
30:36This blessing ceremony is a big thing for all the businesses in the market.
30:40A lot of people are coming, and we're going to hand out a sample of our food in order to advertise
30:45our cafe. But, like, it's not going to be easy because we all are tired.
30:51Okay, here we are.
30:56We have the water jar. If you guys need water, we have water over here.
31:00Yeah, big jar.
31:02Sunda Khan ceremony is an important time when we ask for the blessings from all the god and goddesses.
31:09This particular ceremony becomes extra special because it's on an auspicious day where the planets
31:16and stars are aligned, which helps us to get more blessings from the god.
31:29I feel like I need to take a coffee-making class.
31:32I'm here. I'll teach you. That's not an issue.
31:35Okay, so to make Americano single cup.
31:38Single sauce. Shots. This is for double shots.
31:40Double shots.
31:41Press it. Your espresso is ready.
31:44Then put the water here, and your Americano is ready.
31:48I was really excited to get this coffee machine, and now I'm looking at it like,
31:55what the hell? Temper this and steam that. I'm in way over my head here.
32:01I'm lost.
32:03Shall I help you?
32:04Yeah.
32:04Yeah.
32:05You have to be really very fast. Simple.
32:08Okay.
32:09I mean, what the hell did I get into?
32:12My fingers are crossed. Everything works out.
32:15We'll see.
32:18I already forget what to do.
32:34Before the main ceremony begins, the priests come into every individual cafe and bless every shop.
32:41He spread some holy water, which was mixed with a cow urine.
32:55Cow urine is considered very religious and pure in my culture.
32:59Did you say cow urine?
33:01Yeah, you heard it right.
33:03Cow is a holy animal above anyone, even like gods. Because cow gives us milk. She's like a mother to us.
33:10Throwing cow urine around while you're cooking? We would never do something like that in America.
33:16If you use holy water, we use cow urine.
33:19Yes, you're hungry.
33:20Yeollah.
33:20Yes, you're hungry.
33:22Yes, you're hungry.
33:26You're hungry.
33:26Yes, you're hungry.
33:28Okay, now our cafe is bliss.
33:33A cafe is bliss.
33:57We're just making a buzz that, yes, we are here in the market.
34:01So from tomorrow onwards, please do come in and enjoy more and more different varieties of foods and coffees.
34:14At the end of the day, I'm very proud of the work we did.
34:17Like, it's really good.
34:19We served a lot of people, hundreds of plates went out of the kitchen.
34:23It really makes it feel good that we can do it.
34:26You guys, you know, all I saw was food going out the door and no money coming in.
34:33I know how important this was, but we made no money.
34:38When they said we were going to be handing out samples, I thought it was going to be small.
34:44But they're handing out whole plates of food.
34:47And there's got to be at least 100 people here.
34:50So at this point, we might as well just be throwing money out.
34:55So there's a lot of people.
34:57So I thought this is our chance.
34:59We are letting people know that look what we are having over here,
35:03which you won't find in the neighborhood.
35:05See, we are new today.
35:07And they are running business for months now.
35:10So how will people recognize Family Cafe?
35:12Take it as investment.
35:14Yes.
35:15Don't worry.
35:16It will be all fine.
35:17Are these people delusional?
35:20Am I the only one realizing we didn't make any money today?
35:25On top of all the food we had to throw away yesterday?
35:29Like, what the hell?
35:31Now I'm worried it's going to take us longer to start making any money.
35:36And we might be stuck living with the family forever.
35:39I've been having a lot of anxiety lately because I've been thinking about something.
35:54I don't think I've ever picked apples before.
36:15Really?
36:16No.
36:17It's good as a third day here and things still feel unsettled.
36:24I hear some snorts.
36:26Oh, my God.
36:27Piggy.
36:28Aww.
36:29Aww.
36:30Look at those sweet little angels.
36:33Aww.
36:34Hi, honey.
36:35Look at their ears.
36:36You're just like...
36:39Hi.
36:40How are you?
36:41Do you have a name?
36:43It's okay.
36:44If you don't want to come to us, you don't have to.
36:46We just want to say hello.
36:48I think we should go pick some apples for them, honey, so they trust us more.
36:52Yep.
36:53Let's go get some apples.
36:55Do apples grow in Oklahoma?
36:58Um, I'm sure they do, but it's not really a thing in Oklahoma.
37:03I'm going to get some of the apples down here on this low branch.
37:08Yeah, they look good.
37:09Oh, God.
37:10You know, who'd have thought that three years after we met on a vegan dating app, we would
37:16go on this journey together and share these experiences?
37:19Yeah.
37:20I'm really grateful that you love animals as well because I've felt like I've always struggled
37:28finding a partner who feels the same way that I do about animals.
37:32So, thank you for allowing me to have that space.
37:35I feel exactly the same.
37:37I thought I'd have to go my whole life being in relationships with people or probably getting
37:43married to someone that I just accepted wasn't a vegan or doesn't love animals to the same
37:49extent as me.
37:51But it surprised me when I was able to find you.
37:56And maybe what I'm trying to say is thank you for being in my life.
38:01Aw.
38:04Gretel moved to a new country.
38:06She's left her cat behind, her friends behind to be with me.
38:10And although it hasn't been perfect, I just want to reassure her that she's my person
38:16and I'm looking forward to a life with her.
38:19That's very sweet.
38:21And I mean, you helped me be unapologetically myself, but I've been having a lot of anxiety
38:30lately because I've been thinking about something, like really struggling with it.
38:39I didn't talk to you about it because I wanted to know if I was going through a phase or not.
38:50But where my head's at now, I feel so unsure if I do want kids anymore.
39:08That's a bombshell.
39:12Yeah.
39:15I am like really struggling because I think you were meant to be a dad.
39:19And I think like you would be an amazing dad.
39:24I absolutely want kids.
39:26And I want those kids with you.
39:30Because you are the one for me.
39:32Do you think maybe the reason why you feel like you don't want kids is because you had a difficult childhood?
39:44No, I think my childhood would actually be one of the reasons why I would want kids because I would be able to build a family life that I've always dreamed of but never got to experience.
39:58This is a complete shock to me.
40:03Me and Greta have spoken together about kids dozens if not hundreds of times.
40:10We've even named what all of our kids would be called.
40:14The hobbies they would have, the way we would raise them, all the way down to the kinds of schools we want them to go to.
40:22I don't know where this has come from.
40:24I was really sure about having kids and then I started to really think about what having a child would mean and like what my life would look like if I had a kid.
40:37And I think having a kid and a family life would be a major deterrence to being the type of advocate that I've always wanted to be.
40:47I don't think you should see it purely from your impact. I think you should see how much of an impact they could have as well.
41:02Your ability to raise people in the image that you always wanted to be raised in as a child.
41:09I think it's such an opportunity for you.
41:11And if you don't have the time to be a mother, I will be 200% of the father.
41:18Still to come on 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way.
41:34This is the happiest of singing since we got here.
41:39I have a surprise for you.
41:42I feel like our life is really starting here.
41:52It's giving me anxiety. There's no food deliveries, no taxi, nothing.
41:58We are finally moving to our home sweet home. It's in the ass of France.
42:04What the ?
42:07There's nothing here, man. I'm not made for this.
42:10I've got one, Patia.
42:14Ah!
42:16Dylan's mom is the reason why we are not married today.
42:19I feel like you're a needy mother, Joe.
42:22I'm not going to be classed as needy.
42:24Every day you have to talk to your mom. It's ridiculous.
42:28You better start picking your battles, because you're just going to be nagging me until we're both dead.
42:32At the beginning, I felt like he was Mr. Darcy and I was Elizabeth.
42:42Honey, I'm home.
42:44And that's not how I'm feeling right now.
42:46The honest, like, truth is that I don't think I'm being very fair to you at all.
42:54What do I do now?
42:59I already told you parents were moving out.
43:01We are depending on them right now. We cannot move out of there.
43:04If you don't want to go with me, I guess I'll have to move out by myself.
43:10You're going to be marrying my son, but it's her.
43:14Is this really what you want?
43:16I still have so many doubts. I even know if you're going to marry this guy.
43:29These aren't my earrings, you .
43:33Oh, God.
43:35I feel like I was in a relationship with a total different person.
43:40Chloe.
43:41Those are not mine.
43:43It's mine.
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