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S6 E6 – Belle Collective 👠💬
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00:00Previously, on Bell Collective.
00:02I lost my mother, her birth me, and then my son.
00:05It's now going on five years since my son's life was taken.
00:10I was angry, I was hurt, I was pissed, and it's very, very painful.
00:15I am planning a trip to the Secret Coast, babo!
00:18So who all will be there?
00:21Everybody.
00:22When I brunch, I brunch on purpose.
00:24Getting back to work and hosting my first brunch on the Mississippi Brunch Tour
00:29is just the distraction that I need.
00:31I'm ready for this trip!
00:32All right, I am looking forward to going out of town with the girls.
00:37I'm just sick and tired of people playing in my face.
00:39I'm in a weird space with that.
00:41Two are going to have to bulk together.
00:43Carrie, seriously?
00:45Is there anything that Glenn is doing inappropriate?
00:49That's your answer right now.
00:59I thank you.
01:21¡Gracias!
01:51Amanda, like I always say, like, I don't know her to be a liar, so, you know, I don't know what conversations you and Glendale have had, but, you know, whatever conversations definitely take heat if she said something, for sure.
02:04I'm not satisfied with Latrice's answers, and she's deflecting, putting it on Glenn. I can handle my own marriage. I just need Latrice to take accountability for her own actions, and it don't look like I'm going to be getting that tonight.
02:18Let's move forward.
02:21I'm all about my paper, they can't deal with me. Them females that be petty, they can't chill with me.
02:40Good morning.
02:42Good morning, Monroe.
02:44I know you hate I slept in here, but I told you I was sleeping in here with you.
02:48After dinner last night, I mean, everybody was pretty much exhausted, and we went home and went straight to bed. I was supposed to sleep in the room with Latrice, but I didn't want to do that, so I'm bunking with Marie.
03:00So how you feel about your Latrice conversation last night?
03:04My thing is, when people show you who they are, as they say, you have to believe them.
03:10I was just sleeping in the rain.
03:11I saw Tisha when they were there.
03:13Tisha did not sleep with me last night.
03:15You said I'm not sleeping in this twin day.
03:18Things didn't go well at dinner last night, and frankly, I expected that, but it kind of leaves us at an awkward point.
03:27So how you feel like you and Tisha's on talk?
03:30Y'all done talk now?
03:31I just feel like they, like she wanted me to be at fault for what went on, but at the end of the day, it's still damned if I do, damned if I don't, because at the end of the day, Tisha, you are not going to leave Glam, right?
03:44And don't try to make it seem like it's my fault for something that your man did.
03:49I feel for the position that Latrice is in.
03:54When I first found out about the DMs, I didn't want anything to do with it.
04:00I don't want to be the person who, you know, everybody knows a situation, and then we're around Latisha.
04:07Like, this is something that I literally wouldn't take to her.
04:09I wouldn't either.
04:10I am grateful every day that I missed that pool party.
04:14I want to stay out of the drama.
04:17We in each other's presence.
04:18Let's be cordial.
04:19Like, I don't need no hostility, no animosity.
04:22I'm not about this.
04:23And we're going to see how today just goes.
04:25Oh, God.
04:25I think today is going to be good.
04:27It's going to be good.
04:28It's going to be good, because we make it good.
04:36I am in a hard space, because Latisha is my friend.
04:40Latrice is my friend.
04:41I've been knowing both these ladies for years.
04:43This is definitely not what Keri wanted on this trip.
04:47Can we just all get along?
04:49Are you ready for this brunch to get back to your purpose and what God called you to do?
04:54Absolutely.
04:55And let's brunch.
04:56And let's brunch.
04:57Today is very important.
04:58I am relaunching the Mississippi Brunch Tour, Women Brunch Mississippi.
05:03And it's not all about entrepreneurship.
05:04It's also about home ownership and connecting women together.
05:08Thank you.
05:09I love you.
05:09I love you more, friend.
05:11Yeah.
05:11Yes.
05:15Party every day till the sun and up.
05:17We do what we want.
05:18We don't waste no time.
05:20Party every day till the sun and up.
05:23We do what we want.
05:24Better fall in line.
05:25We're having a brunch.
05:27No way.
05:28Yes.
05:29You should join us.
05:31I really feel good being able to show up as Latisha's friend and help her with this brunch.
05:34It is of the utmost importance that this brunch goes well.
05:38I know that these ladies know that I'm a boss, but seeing is believing.
05:42And this is my chance to show them that, hey, Keri's working with something.
05:48Girl, it looks really good.
05:50We're going to wait for Latisha and them to get here before we get started, but they're coming.
05:55I put on something comfortable because you know I'll be moving around at the brunches.
05:58Brunch fashion is very important.
06:07The fascinators, the flowers, the southern belle attire, all of that.
06:12I'm dressed to impress.
06:14Y'all know I'll be extra nice, so it's important for me to show up and show out.
06:18I think my dress is cute.
06:20I think people should dress their personality, especially when you're showing up to a brunch.
06:25When it comes to Latrice Rogers, she steps each and every time.
06:28I don't care if she's taking out the garbage.
06:31So brunch is no different.
06:32I mean, I'm going to show up as my fabulous self.
06:34I am wearing 4S collections today, and I'm going to top it off, pair it with a cute hat.
06:42I am representing Jackson very well.
06:45True southern belle style.
06:47We are headed to brunch, y'all.
06:50Go brunches, baby!
06:53Woo!
06:53Woo!
06:53Woo!
06:54Woo!
06:54Woo!
06:55Woo!
06:55Woo!
06:56Woo!
07:00On my way to the brunch, I do have mixed emotions because I'm not hands-on with this brunch as I normally would be.
07:07I'm nervous, but I'm excited.
07:09It's here.
07:10Hello, ladies.
07:11Hi!
07:12Hi, hey, hi!
07:13Hey, hey, hey!
07:14Hello!
07:15Good to see you again!
07:17So you guys have y'all a little spot right here.
07:22I love Keri's restaurant.
07:24I smell food, I see people enjoying themselves, having a good time.
07:30This is what I get excited about, Black women owning businesses, owning your brand.
07:36Can we have your attention, please?
07:39First, I would like to say thank you for coming out.
07:45It is an honor to be able to relaunch Women Brunch Mississippi.
07:48And for those of you who may not know what Women Brunch Mississippi is, it is a platform for female entrepreneurs
07:54throughout the state of Mississippi to network, connect, and we promote collaboration over
07:59competition.
08:00Can you say that for me?
08:01Collaboration over competition!
08:04I just want to thank you for coming here and highlighting my restaurant and choosing
08:08us to have your launch.
08:10Thank you.
08:11And I really just love women.
08:13And I love to see women grow and achieve the dreams of their heart.
08:18And y'all know I get emotional every time I do this.
08:22I don't know why.
08:23Cari is so emotional right now, she didn't realize her eyelash down here by her nose,
08:28honey.
08:29I've never had an entire lash to come off my eyelid.
08:33How can you not see it?
08:34It's right there.
08:35This eyelash is just hanging.
08:37I just want to touch it, but I'm too far away.
08:40Cari.
08:41This is really important to me, girl.
08:43Get your lash off.
08:44Where my lash going?
08:45Girl, help me.
08:47You got to grab my lash.
08:48You got to grab my lash.
08:49You got to grab my lash.
08:50You got to grab my lash.
08:51You got to grab my lash.
08:54Oh, Charlie.
08:56Child, I don't give a darn.
08:58OK.
08:59As the line goes, one monkey don't stop no show, two lashes ain't going to stop my shh.
09:05You know.
09:06I never will teach her.
09:09You cry a lot, and so do I.
09:11That's probably why we're drawn to each other.
09:13Thank you, Cari.
09:14Y'all, let's give it up again.
09:15I love it.
09:16I can't be crying, girl.
09:17You know I get emotional.
09:19Woo!
09:19Cari and I girl crushed over each other for years.
09:22On social media.
09:23We've been social media besties for a long time.
09:26Don't be afraid to slide in somebody's DM.
09:28Nope.
09:31Don't be afraid to slide in someone's DMs.
09:34That may not be your ministry right now.
09:36You may need to try to rephrase it and preach something else.
09:41Because your husband is practicing what you preach.
09:44So with that being said, what I've learned brunching since 2017 and traveling the world,
09:50there are so many entrepreneurs and inspiring entrepreneurs and women in general who can share
09:54their story.
09:55So today, I want you guys to actually tell your story and to inspire me as well.
10:00Let's hear the bells, okay?
10:01Yes.
10:02Thank you.
10:03What we know is when women talk, that's when things happen.
10:06Yes.
10:07When we talk and we get together, we can become vice president.
10:10I'm a realtor.
10:11I'm in management and consulting.
10:13And I'm a purpose coach for single moms because I am a single mom.
10:18And one thing about women in Mississippi, we stand for a lot.
10:22Yes.
10:23And you see that vision in all of us.
10:25Yes.
10:26Thank you to everybody for coming.
10:28This is Women Brunch Mississippi.
10:30And we are back.
10:31And I love you all.
10:32I feel like the brunch went great.
10:34Anytime there's an opportunity for me to connect with other women, it's a win for me.
10:38I think that it was a great collaboration between me and Carrie.
10:42And I just hope that the trip continues to be peaceful and good energy.
10:47It's time to get out.
10:48It's so good to see you.
10:49This is beautiful.
10:50Thank you.
10:52Coming up on Bell Collective.
10:54Oh, Lord.
10:55Come on.
10:56The bread, girl.
10:57You're burning the bread.
10:58Y'all.
10:59I thought you could multitask.
11:00I can't.
11:01Y'all got Jackson, the city, but we got Jackson County for all that ratchetness.
11:05I know you ain't kind of Jackson ratchet now.
11:07Y'all know Jackson is ratchet.
11:09I'm definitely not ratchet.
11:11We're going in circles.
11:12So I really want to know, like, where we stand.
11:15Feeling like a million bucks for a wand.
11:16You say I'm a baddie and I know it.
11:17Girl, I know it.
11:18Sprinter is here.
11:19Let's go.
11:20The Sprinter is here.
11:21Bye, Shauna.
11:22Bye, babe.
11:23Love you.
11:24I'm proud of you.
11:25Bye.
11:26Thank you.
11:27Bye, Shauna.
11:28Bye, babe.
11:29Love you.
11:30I'm proud of you.
11:31Bye.
11:32Thank you.
11:33What did y'all think about the brunch?
11:34Baby, it was nice.
11:35Valentisha, for real, you're extemporaneous speaking.
11:37Baby, you got that now.
11:38Yes.
11:39I like it.
11:40It comes from the heart every time and it just flows.
11:42Carrie, you really have a really nice vignette.
11:45Thank you.
11:46Thank you.
11:47How did y'all like the brunch?
11:48Why you telling us don't eat that much?
11:49What you got planned, Carrie?
11:51Y'all know I'm going to give Creole all day long.
11:53I'm going to get my portion.
11:54I love Creole.
11:55I don't eat spicy.
11:56What you have for me?
11:58When I saw Martin, I knew you liked that up-seasoned chicken.
12:01Oh!
12:03Up-seasoned chicken?
12:05That's the one right there.
12:07That's for Carrie.
12:11Thank you.
12:13Ooh.
12:14Yes.
12:15That was good.
12:16Yes.
12:17That was really good.
12:18Home sweet home.
12:20I felt like the brunch went swimmingly.
12:23It was great.
12:24Now I've got a few surprises.
12:27And I don't know what the ladies are going to think about it,
12:30but I'm hoping they're going to love it.
12:32Ooh.
12:33Lord, these shoes got to come out.
12:34Well, I want everybody to go and change into their PJs.
12:38And we are going to have what is called a lemon squeeze.
12:42OK.
12:43So a lemon squeeze is something we used to do in our sorority
12:46whenever we had, like, you know, something that needed to come to the surface.
12:49Like, just imagine we getting together, squeezing lemons together for the lemonade.
12:52OK.
12:53And trying to make, you know, lemonade out of a lemon, right?
12:55Yes.
12:56So change.
12:57OK.
12:58OK.
12:59And then we're going to squeeze the lemons.
13:00OK.
13:01OK.
13:02I don't understand the lemon squeeze.
13:03This is another scheme that Carrie set up
13:07to stir up some drama between me and Latrice.
13:10I just know that any time they say, let's have a conversation,
13:15we're about to squeeze some out.
13:19Hey, y'all.
13:20What y'all got?
13:21What y'all going to happen?
13:23Hey, dear.
13:24How you doing?
13:25How you doing?
13:26We got gumbo and rice and potatoes.
13:29Oh, good.
13:30So I need to get a pot and we need to warm this up.
13:32Oh, do y'all have a pot large enough for the gumbo?
13:34Yeah, I can do.
13:35Oh, no.
13:36That is desecration.
13:38We will not.
13:39Food definitely brings people together.
13:41I know that from just being a Southern belle myself.
13:44I think that the combination of gumbo and the lemon squeeze
13:47will bring tons of harmony back to the group.
13:50At least we're hoping so.
13:53Oh, they cooking food.
13:56Hi.
13:58We got the family here.
13:59They done brought the food to us.
14:01And if you bring food to me, you get an A in my book.
14:05Food is my everything.
14:06That's why I cannot get rid of these thighs.
14:08Y'all know I promised y'all some good Creole heritage,
14:11so I brought my Creole crew.
14:12Oh, I'm so glad you did.
14:14Oh, Diamond.
14:15Y'all, this is my mother-in-law.
14:17This is Matt's mom.
14:20And y'all know my mom.
14:22Nice meeting y'all and all that.
14:24Nice meeting you, too.
14:26Nice meeting you.
14:27Nice meeting you, baby.
14:28All right, Karen.
14:29Enjoy.
14:30We're going to go ahead and get started with our lemon squeeze,
14:32OK?
14:33I am ready.
14:34I'll fix y'all both gumbo first.
14:35Yes, go ahead.
14:36OK.
14:37Minus me.
14:38I'm not eating that.
14:41We're going to get the lemon squeeze started as we are multitasking,
14:44but we're going to eat as we go.
14:46So what exactly is a lemon squeeze?
14:48It is a time when women get together and get everything off of your chest.
14:52We need to put it all out and open so that we can maintain our sisterhood.
14:56You know what I mean?
14:57OK.
14:58OK.
14:59And I must always say this.
15:00I smell something.
15:01Oh, Lord.
15:02The bread, girl.
15:03You're burning the bread.
15:04Y'all.
15:05I thought you could multitask.
15:06I can't.
15:07Y'all need her to put that in a bag and take it outside.
15:10Oh, my God.
15:11And one fell.
15:13Oh, my goodness.
15:14Karen, we know you can't cook.
15:16I can cook.
15:17I just don't do it often.
15:19You burn bread?
15:20How do you burn bread?
15:21How do you burn bread?
15:22She was just heating up the food.
15:23So how do you burn heated up food?
15:28I see why her family cooking food for.
15:30She can't cook.
15:31Um, that's probably for me.
15:35That ain't the dark chocolate is.
15:39Who's at the door?
15:41Carrie, did you hire a stripper or something?
15:43I hope not because Dr. Monroe, she can't control herself around strippers.
15:49Baby, you just have it on.
15:53You remember what happened last time.
15:55So I hope you know what you're doing.
15:58Oh, that might be her food.
15:59That's my pizza.
16:00That's my food.
16:01Oh, Carrie, grab the napkins.
16:04You want a piece?
16:05I do.
16:06Okay.
16:07Anybody else want a piece?
16:08Uh-uh.
16:09Thank you.
16:10I have never, I would never order food when going to a person's house as a guest.
16:18I don't know.
16:19That's just a little rude to order pizza.
16:21I think I would have went to bed hungry.
16:23This is typical, Marie.
16:25Right now, this piece is the best pizza I've had because I'm starving.
16:29Now that we got the food settled, let's get back to the lemon squeeze.
16:33So I know we did the brunch today, and I enjoyed it.
16:36I know you guys enjoyed it.
16:37Mm-hmm.
16:38Now, I can say, though, I do think, you know, Jackson shows up and they show out, baby.
16:44Mm-hmm.
16:45Oh, of course.
16:46Every time.
16:47I didn't notice the coast is like more dressed down.
16:50Oh, okay.
16:51Coastal casual.
16:52Coastal casual.
16:53Okay.
16:54Y'all got Jackson, the city, but we got Jackson County for all that wretchedness.
16:57So if that's what you mean by that.
16:59Oh, what?
17:00You got that wretchedness?
17:01I know you ain't kind of Jackson wretched now.
17:03Coming up on Bell Collective.
17:10When I confide in somebody, it's wholeheartedly, and once they cross me, bitch, it's up.
17:16I always get the smoke.
17:18Y'all always coming for me.
17:20Latrice, you bring the smoke.
17:21No more bull .
17:22Y'all got Jackson, the city, but we got Jackson County for all that wretchedness.
17:28So if that's what you mean by that.
17:30What?
17:31I know you ain't calling Jackson wretched now.
17:34Well, what I would say.
17:37What I would say.
17:38Are you calling Jackson wretched?
17:40Yes.
17:41Cari!
17:42Jackson is definitely wretched, and I stand on that.
17:45It can also be sophisticated as well, but for the most part, wretched.
17:50And the girls are acting all clutching their pearls, but they know good and darn well that Jackson is wretched too.
17:57Cari!
17:58What's that?
17:59I'm from Jackson.
18:00She's from Jackson.
18:01She's from Jackson.
18:02I have lots of wretched.
18:03She's from Jackson.
18:04Are you calling Jackson wretched?
18:05Nothing wretched about me.
18:06Not y'all.
18:07But y'all know Jackson is wretched.
18:09Well, look, we ain't look wretched today at that point.
18:11I know.
18:12Okay.
18:13We shut it down.
18:14I'm definitely not wretched.
18:15So it opened up saying that people on Gulf Coast were dressed down.
18:22So Cari got offended.
18:23Uh-uh.
18:24I wasn't offended.
18:25Well, why did you say, Cari, let me help you.
18:27Yes.
18:28I've had enough of the deflection and the projection.
18:32I'm gonna need y'all get down to the real nitty-gritty of what's going on in this group.
18:37But moving along, I will ask y'all this.
18:40The elephant in the room, Latrice and Leticia, are you harboring anything?
18:44Because now is the time to get it off your chest.
18:47I don't want y'all to leave the Gulf Coast and go back after the beautiful-
18:51You want to look.
18:52Squeeze the lemon dry.
18:53With anything on your chest.
18:55So what y'all need to squeeze and get out?
18:57Because we leaving it here.
18:58Okay.
18:59We done squeezed.
19:00We need to squeeze some more because we done squeezed out.
19:02I done squeezed our stuff.
19:04This season in my life, I'm moving accordingly.
19:06When people show me who they are, whether it's you, Teresa, whoever,
19:09when I confide in somebody, it's wholeheartedly.
19:11And once they cross me, bitch, it's up.
19:13If you do that or you mess with my marriage or anything, that's what I'm saying.
19:17I don't want to be surrounded by nobody I have to question.
19:19And it's okay.
19:20It's okay for people not to get along.
19:22It's okay for people not to like people.
19:24But it's not okay for people to weaponize vulnerability.
19:29Latrice definitely violated my trust.
19:32And trust and a friendship is top priority.
19:36If you're friends with someone, that means that you have to be able to trust them
19:41and you believe that they're going to be right there to have your back,
19:44even if you're not in the room.
19:46I'm telling you, your vulnerability is what makes you you.
19:49That's what I have grown to love about you.
19:51And I think it's beautiful that you do share.
19:54Thank you, Carrie. You always want to me.
19:56And I feel like it's a gift and a curse putting your business out there.
19:59You know, just being authentic in certain spaces.
20:02Well, I vow to not get caught up in no damn bull.
20:05No more bull .
20:06This is how I am.
20:07Pretend I'm Latrice.
20:08You my girl and she my girl.
20:10Something going on with your husband, with her, right?
20:12I ain't going to say nothing to you.
20:14And I ain't going to say nothing to her.
20:15I'm going to step to his ass.
20:17And I'm going to say, look, bruh, I know what you're doing.
20:19I'm going to check his ass and let him know.
20:21If you don't stop, I'm telling both of them.
20:23Well, everybody held the situation different.
20:25You just said that.
20:26That's how I'm handling it.
20:27Because I ain't going to be in the middle of no .
20:30Latrice, why are you so quiet?
20:33I'm listening to y'all.
20:34Baby, I ain't listening to you.
20:36Riri, I knew it was a matter of time
20:38before you showed your true colors again.
20:40I'm tired of being a scapegoat for this group.
20:42And especially for Glenn and Latisha's marital problems.
20:45Tell me to do the same information I knew, child.
20:48Latisha, something she not saying.
20:49Would you?
20:50You see me?
20:51And then you see what he married to.
20:53Girl.
20:54I'm like, girl.
20:55You see?
20:56But I'm not going to throw her under the bus.
21:00Marie, you ask why I'm so quiet.
21:02It's because each and every time, I don't care what it is.
21:04The sky could be blue, yellow, pink.
21:06I always get the smoke.
21:08Y'all always coming for me.
21:09Latrice, you bring the smoke.
21:11No more bull .
21:12If we're going to be a collective, let's be a collective.
21:15If it ain't no trust, I don't want to be around nobody
21:17that I don't trust.
21:18Where is the sisterhood?
21:19Where is the womanhood?
21:21Marie, why are you doing all this dramatic ?
21:23the life out.
21:25Baby, I don't have no more life.
21:26You wanted the lemon squeeze.
21:28I mean, I wanted to squeeze it.
21:30Why are we doing this, Latisha?
21:32You're doing the same ?
21:34Because it comes right back to this.
21:35And that's not where I'm set up in my life right now.
21:38Because I ain't squeezing no about Mandy no more.
21:40Mandy is squeezed out.
21:41I planned this lemon squeeze so everybody
21:43could work out their differences.
21:45But things are going downhill real fast.
21:48I have one more surprise up my sleeve
21:50to bring the group back together.
21:52We're about to take it way back.
21:55Is that the door?
21:56Who am?
21:57Well, you know, I love a good trick up my sleeve.
22:00If a man is on the other side of this door,
22:02I am calling me an Uber.
22:05And I'm getting to the closest hotel.
22:12Well, hello.
22:13Hi.
22:14Hello.
22:15Hello.
22:16How are you?
22:17Wonderful.
22:18Come on in, Ms. LaCara.
22:19Yes.
22:20Hello, ladies.
22:21Hi.
22:22You know, we've had some issues within the group.
22:23And so my assistant booked Ms. LaCara,
22:25and she is a minister medium.
22:26OK.
22:27So.
22:28Healing and peace is in the utmost importance to me in relationships.
22:30I don't play that keeping things all bottled up.
22:32I think it's a recipe for disaster.
22:33So I want to be that person that can help to find healing and peace with this group.
22:39And I'm willing to go the extra mile to help to help to bring these ladies on a spiritual journey of healing.
23:04So formally, I'm Dr. LaCara Foster.
23:05OK.
23:06Yes, and I am a minister and a medium.
23:09And the mediumship part allows me to be able to connect to loved ones who have passed, right,
23:13to see if they have any messages that want to come through or they want to share,
23:16of healing, closure, or peace.
23:18And this gift just allows me to be able to tap into that energy.
23:21And we're just going to get into it.
23:23OK.
23:24I'm a little nervous about it.
23:26I've never interacted with a medium before.
23:29I don't need to dibble and dabble in.
23:31I believe there are some, you know, some legit psychics and mediums.
23:37But that's not something that I take lightly or play with.
23:41It's a little scary, but I'm human, and I can't help but to really want to know if this person has a gift that can tell me something that I'm curious about.
23:52I guess we'll see.
23:53Girl, I don't do this.
23:56Like, I believe in a higher power, and this is just not it.
23:59So, like, I have this huge phobia about psychics, because as a Baptist, like, we grew up and psychics are not with God.
24:09So I'm always taught against it.
24:11And it may be a misconception, like.
24:12I think it's truly a misconception.
24:14And I even say Jesus was a medium, right?
24:18Because Jesus was on the Mount of Transfiguration communicating with Moses who had already passed.
24:24I think I'm good with just, you know, praying about things.
24:29So I'll tell you guys how it works with me, and we'll see what comes up.
24:33I don't have any control over who comes through, but chances are if it's someone that wants to communicate with you or has a message for you,
24:39that is usually who does come through.
24:41Did someone here lose a father?
24:43A father figure?
24:44You did, and you did.
24:45Did somebody's father, I feel like they were sick and then they passed suddenly?
24:50Or they passed suddenly?
24:51That's you.
24:52Okay.
24:53Now, he shows me, like, there's a sudden passing, but it makes me feel like some people did not get the chance to say goodbye.
24:57Does that make sense for you?
24:58Yeah.
24:59Are you one of the people that...
25:00But he's also making me feel like he owes you an apology, and maybe he owes some other people an apology.
25:05Does that make sense for you?
25:07Would this be your mother that he owes an apology to?
25:09Yes.
25:10Gotcha.
25:11Because he's bringing in, he's showing me another...
25:13Do you look like your mom?
25:14I do.
25:15Gotcha.
25:16Because he's, like, copy-paste, right, on the face here.
25:18Um, and so he's showing me her, but he's, like, they look just alike.
25:22Now, this is interesting here.
25:24Did he pass at home?
25:25He did.
25:26I don't know.
25:27Maybe the sudden that you keep talking about is probably my son, because he was suddenly murdered.
25:33Oh, wow.
25:34Wow.
25:35Wow.
25:36And can I just ask a question?
25:37Yeah.
25:38Production, did y'all have, did y'all have her write these notes, or is this really coming from you?
25:44Oh, no.
25:45I told them I've never seen your show.
25:46I've never spoken to you.
25:47Yeah.
25:48I've never seen the show.
25:49I told them I didn't want to know who you all were.
25:52I didn't want to know anything about you all, because I believe in my work.
25:57For me to be talking to the other side, that's a first for me.
26:05That's a very fair question.
26:08But this is the work that I do every single day.
26:11What's your son's name, if I may ask?
26:13Quincy Johnson.
26:17Was there not justice for him yet?
26:19It hasn't been justice.
26:21Yeah, he shows me that, but he says that there will be.
26:25You kept something of his.
26:27This makes me feel like some type of clothing or some type of...
26:30I have the clothes that he was murdered in.
26:33Wow.
26:34I have it at home.
26:35Yeah.
26:36I couldn't get rid of it.
26:37No, and that's what he shows me, that you still have it.
26:39I still have it.
26:40You don't have to get rid of it.
26:41He does not want you to grieve yourself to death.
26:43I can't help it.
26:45But this is why he's saying it.
26:48It's so hard.
26:49Yeah.
26:50He's like, you have to tell her this.
26:53She has to know I'm with her, because she's going to grieve herself to death.
26:56Oh, that's what I've been doing.
26:58Mm-hmm.
26:59He doesn't want that for you.
27:01This is why I'm here.
27:03To hopefully bring some level of healing and closure.
27:07So whatever that looks like for you, you got to do it.
27:11You can't go where he is right now.
27:13You still have work to do while you're here.
27:16Hearing the medium tell me that my son do not want me grieving and he will get justice,
27:23it makes me feel really good.
27:25It gives me hope, because I have been, like, grieving myself to death.
27:31Now, let's see if we can connect with your dad as well.
27:35No, ma'am.
27:36Not today.
27:37No, thank you.
27:43Coming up on Bell Collective.
27:45Just don't bring people around me, because everybody you bring around, they come for me.
27:48What you were saying, basically, Tisha not over it. She's still mad. She still got animosity.
27:53My concern is where I am in this season of my life, who for me and who not.
27:58I trusted you.
28:03Now, let's see if we can connect with your dad as well.
28:06If you don't have to.
28:07Yeah, she said we don't have to.
28:09Okay.
28:10I promise you we don't.
28:11Okay.
28:12I'm a little on edge when it comes to the medium.
28:15Um, her talking to Selena has me contemplating, but I don't want to go against my morals and values.
28:24Was there anybody else that wanted, like, had a question or wanted to tap into anything?
28:29I haven't gone no past, tragically.
28:31From an accident?
28:33You could say it was an accident.
28:34Okay.
28:35Let's try to tap into that energy here.
28:37Mmm.
28:40I'm seeing, like, the question marks, right, around the passing.
28:44I don't know.
28:45This just makes me feel like there's a lot of blame going around.
28:48What is that that I'm feeling?
28:49I don't know.
28:50Maybe sometimes when people are going through something and you see them and you want to help them, but you don't know how.
28:57Yeah.
28:58Yeah.
28:59And the blame might be, like, could we have stepped in?
29:02Mm-hmm.
29:03Was this, like, an overdose or suicide with your aunt?
29:07It was suicide.
29:08There's a lot of trauma that your aunt is showing me.
29:13Does that make sense?
29:14You know how, like, in families we sweep a lot of stuff under the rug?
29:17My cousin and I talk all the time, and we lament the fact that our family sweeps things under the rug, and we use that term all the time.
29:32It hit way too close to home.
29:34It did something to me.
29:35I was not expecting that.
29:37I'm not going to lie.
29:38I was wondering if you were legit.
29:39I mean, I was sitting here like, okay.
29:41I think I want to do my dad.
29:42She said, I'm ready now.
29:43Why did you say you're ready now?
29:45Carrie motivated me.
29:47Carrie got so emotional when it came to the media connecting with her family.
29:53And I felt like she really got something out of it.
29:58Maybe it was closure.
29:59It was something that she needed.
30:01And maybe that's something that I need.
30:04We'll try to tap in with your dad.
30:06This is interesting.
30:07Was there a very complicated situation with your mom?
30:10Yeah.
30:11But he also shows me he walks away.
30:14It feels like he doesn't have a right to say this, right?
30:16But he's like proud of you, right?
30:17But does it feel like he contributed to whatever your success is?
30:21Does that make sense?
30:23He's making an apology and saying like, I failed.
30:26I failed you all.
30:31At his funeral, like, I didn't even cry because, you know, I felt so much anger towards my father.
30:39He wasn't ever there.
30:41Like, I didn't know whether he was proud of me.
30:43I didn't know whether he was happy for me.
30:45So actually hearing her say that my father apologized, like, that means a lot.
30:52Hmm.
30:53Who's the woman on the other side for you?
30:56My grandmother.
30:57Grandmother.
30:58Were you very close to her?
30:59Yes.
31:00She just adores you.
31:01She's whispering in my ear that you're her favorite, but it's like she can't say it out loud.
31:04Does that make sense?
31:05Mm-hmm.
31:06She's like, you knew that and other people know it too, but it's like, can't say it out loud.
31:10Yeah.
31:11We literally always joke about that, like me being a favorite.
31:13Yeah.
31:14And she's acknowledging that you are indeed the favorite.
31:16The favorite.
31:20Even though me and Latrice are not in a great place at the moment, I still love her.
31:25I spoke to her when she was helping plan her grandmother's funeral.
31:29So of course I have empathy for her.
31:31How you feeling?
31:32Feel good.
31:33Okay.
31:34Wasn't so scary, huh?
31:35Yes.
31:36Okay.
31:37Well, that is what I have.
31:39Thank y'all for having me.
31:40So I'll make sure you all get my information for sure.
31:43Thank you.
31:44Thank you so much.
31:45You're so welcome.
31:46It's a pleasure to meet you guys.
31:48I'm gonna walk you out.
31:49Yes.
31:50Thank you so much.
31:51Y'all have an amazing night.
31:52You too.
31:53Now that it's over, I am really glad that I planned the minister medium to come in and
31:58speak with all of us.
31:59I feel that the ladies who got something from it really did feel deeply about what she shared
32:07with us.
32:08And even for the ones who decided not to partake, I respect that too.
32:11Even for me, I had no choice but to receive it.
32:14Because what she said to me was so real and it hit so close to home.
32:19I really feel good about how it went.
32:21Latrice, what you think?
32:22Because I know you said, you know, you don't really believe in that.
32:25A lot of stuff that she did say was very factual.
32:27I think it's stuff that we kind of already know.
32:30But hearing it from somebody else that don't know you, you know, it kind of hits different.
32:35Yeah.
32:36I'm still trying to process everything, but I'm glad you invited her, Carrie.
32:42Mm-hmm.
32:43When she said that my son will get justice.
32:45That was everything.
32:46That part.
32:47Everything to me.
32:48Yes.
32:49Yes.
32:50Coming on this trip, I'm just thinking we're just gonna have fun, go to the brunch, and
32:55just chill.
32:56But talking to this medium, and being able to talk to my son and my father, it just makes
33:03me feel a lot better.
33:05Carrie really did her big one with this one.
33:08I don't know about you.
33:09Me, personally, I just think I didn't connect with her.
33:12And that just could have been our energy, frequencies, whatever.
33:16I just...
33:17It's the same.
33:18You know what I'm saying?
33:19You know what I'm saying?
33:20It might be...
33:21I've been wearing the hell out of my incelso.
33:22They probably like, give her a hug.
33:25So, what are we going to do?
33:26Are we going to pack up tonight?
33:27I'm gonna go back.
33:28Yes.
33:29We can talk.
33:30Yeah, let's pack.
33:31I can start packing up.
33:32I can start packing up.
33:33Before we go, Tisha Payton, let me talk to you.
33:35Okay.
33:36Outside.
33:37Oh, outside?
33:38Well, give me this blanket.
33:39Speaking with the medium, she brought a lot of things to perspective.
33:41Especially holding things in and not expressing how you feel to people.
33:46So, with that, I want to pull Tisha to the side and express to her exactly how I feel.
33:52Yes, okay.
33:53Well, y'all better get some of this bread pudding before y'all go, baby.
33:55Oh, no, please.
33:56No, she gonna force that bread pudding down y'all's throat.
33:59Golly.
34:00You're gonna take me later.
34:02Take me later.
34:03Yes, I'm gonna do.
34:04That was a lot.
34:06Baby.
34:07I know.
34:08After the minister medium leaves, Latrice asked me to join her outside.
34:13Oh, my God. This is so nice.
34:14I knew it was gonna happen, just in no end.
34:17I wanted to talk to you one-on-one because, you know, we've been around the collective,
34:21like, the entire trip.
34:22Yeah.
34:23And we just never had a chance to just, you know.
34:25Talk one-on-one.
34:26Basically.
34:27Yeah.
34:28Because I know your biggest thing is, you know, playing in your face and I could've told
34:31you, right?
34:32Mm-hmm.
34:33Especially you.
34:34Because we talk every day about everything else.
34:37We do, Tisha.
34:38We do.
34:39With moving forward, like, I can't go back and correct what's already to happen.
34:44Yeah.
34:45And I just feel like, you know, we're going in circles and, you know, I'm constantly saying,
34:50okay, Tisha, I didn't know about this or, you know, that was not my intention.
34:54Like, you know, you know I wouldn't do anything to harm you.
34:57But I just feel like by me saying that and even you saying the stuff that you're saying,
35:01like, it's kind of like, okay, you know, steal trees.
35:04So I really want to know, like, where we stand.
35:14I just feel like by me saying that and even you saying the stuff that you're saying, like,
35:19it's kind of like, okay, you know, steal trees.
35:21So I really want to know, like, where we stand.
35:24And it's no, like, no piggybacking.
35:26Yeah.
35:27No beating around the bushes.
35:28It's just like, bitch, I...
35:29Let you have a conversation.
35:30Yeah.
35:31It's like, bitch, I with you or, bitch, I don't.
35:33Yeah.
35:34I want to clear the air with Leticia because I want her to completely understand
35:38that I had nothing to do with this.
35:41I'm not malicious.
35:43I meant her no harm.
35:44From day one, it's been solid.
35:46Like, anything, I just straight shut it down off the rip.
35:49You know what I mean?
35:50And for me, I'm not gonna lie, it started bringing back, like, well, dang,
35:54everybody that you befriend or, you know, that you bring around a group, they come for me.
36:00Respectfully, in front of God and everybody, Leticia Pearson is so full of .
36:05You so full of .
36:07Your husband cheating on you.
36:09He a liar.
36:10What?
36:11Why do you say that?
36:16Regardless if Antoinette come around, Mandy come around, you feel like I got them in my space to come at you.
36:24That's how I felt.
36:25And then it was constant, like, you know, just coming for me, coming for me.
36:29That was so hurtful.
36:30Humiliating.
36:31It was very hurtful.
36:32It was humiliating.
36:33So I just felt like in the house, how we be on the phone and everything, like, boo, this is what we gonna do.
36:39This is how we roll.
36:40You got my back.
36:41And in that moment, it was like, you said nothing.
36:44Mm-hmm.
36:45You know what I'm saying?
36:46And I'm not gonna lie.
36:47I'm not gonna cry.
36:48But that did, like, where my girl at?
36:51It just really, really hurt me that you know what I've gone through in my marriage.
36:56And for you to allow someone to weaponize that and make a mockery out of that and embarrass me in your home and you say nothing, that was just wrong and it was very hurtful.
37:07Like, if I had a bird's eye view now, like, I would go back and do so many different things.
37:12But at that moment, at that present moment, like, it was just like, it was so many things happening so fast and I wasn't thinking.
37:19Like, drinking and not thinking.
37:21So it was just one of those moments like, you know, I don't know.
37:27Like, I didn't know what the is going on.
37:29My concern is where I am in this season of my life.
37:32Who for me and who not?
37:34You know?
37:35And if I'm not for you and you're not for me, we have to be in the space and say, baby, let's keep it moving.
37:40Ain't no love.
37:41Ain't no love.
37:42That's the point of this whole conversation.
37:43Yeah.
37:44Because like I said, I feel like we was going in circles.
37:46And you was saying like, okay, Treece, you know, we're good.
37:49We're good or whatever.
37:50But I was feeling like, you know, what you was saying basically was some BS.
37:55I was like, Tisha not over it.
37:56Like, she still got, you know, she's still mad.
37:59She still got animosity.
38:00Not animosity.
38:01Just still, I am, I am still, like, hurt about.
38:05And I trusted you.
38:07I now more so understand where she's coming from.
38:11And it's still going to take a lot for us to get back to where we once were, if we ever get back.
38:18With the husbands not talking, it's definitely a lot pending.
38:22I don't know how Glendale feels towards my husband.
38:25We'll just take this entire situation back to Jackson.
38:28The Pearsons and the Rogers definitely need work.
38:30I don't want to have any doubts, just like you don't want to have any doubts.
38:33Mm-hmm.
38:34Everybody that's around me, especially in this season of my life, I want it to be solid.
38:37I want it to be real.
38:38I want it to be genuine.
38:39I want us to have, like, a real, super friendship because I do have love for you.
38:44And whatever consequences happen, that's what happens for me.
38:47But I'm standing ten toes behind people that I genuinely care about.
38:50And all I ask for is a sign.
38:53Even though Latrice and I have talked, it's going to take some time.
38:57That was a hard hit.
38:59I don't hold grudges, but I don't think that I can be 100% back in the friendship like before.
39:05I can't trust her.
39:07I just can't trust her.
39:09Come on, ladies! Let's go!
39:12Overall, despite everything that happened with me and Latisha, the girls' trip went great.
39:18I love all the energy that Carrie put into the girls' trip.
39:22But you're going to have to quit talking about Jax.
39:25Carrie did good.
39:26She might step her A game up with the food, though.
39:29Like, for real.
39:30She was playing with me with that food.
39:33I'm headed out, honey.
39:35Carrie definitely fits in with this group of ladies.
39:38And the trip proves it.
39:40I feel like a more established part of the group, after experiencing this group trip with them,
39:46it gave us plenty of time to bond and to get down to what makes each other tick.
39:52But let me be honest, baby.
39:54I walked in as a bell, and I'm going to walk out as one.
39:56So it didn't really take much.
39:58OK.
39:59Come on.
40:00I got what I needed out of the trip.
40:02I mean, I had my brunch.
40:04I was able to get away from the house for a little while.
40:08I had a conversation with Latrice to get a little clarity.
40:12I think that this trip allowed us to really think about what we mean to each other.
40:19And is this worth fighting for?
40:22Tamara!
40:23Yes!
40:24Come on!
40:25OK.
40:28Next on Bell Collecting.
40:30Honey, I'm home.
40:32Home.
40:33This ain't home.
40:34I know when I was on the trip, my husband did tell me he was staying home.
40:38But I honestly think he stayed at the condos.
40:40And that is not OK.
40:42This move off your shoes.
40:45And we're going to put my stuff in.
40:47You know, I'm coming to you, man, the man that you should have had my back more than that.
40:50I ain't going to lie.
40:51My house out of that shit down from the junk.
40:54I feel like y'all playing in my face.
40:57Coming back here to Prentice, where my son was murdered, is a big step for me.
41:02We love you, baby.
41:03Yes, we do.
41:04We love you.
41:05I don't know what I'm doing or where I'm going.
41:07I'm just asking what's wrong with people showing up for me like I'm going.
41:09I show up for everybody else.
41:10You know what, Tisha?
41:11Forget it.
41:12We ain't got to do nothing.
41:13So you can't take responsibility.
41:14Nah.
41:15I'm not taking responsibility.
41:16Oh, really?
41:17Don't worry about it.
41:18it.
41:19Lord have mercy.
41:20it.
41:21I'm done.
41:22OK.
41:23Man, bro, turn that up, bro.
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