00:00The men have a role in which to be on for their family and be off towards their Lord
00:07and the Divine, the kingdom.
00:09The role of the man is to guide the home and guide the family assuming that he is rightly
00:16guided and to be a qualified imam.
00:19You have to follow the sunnah to according to the way of Prophet ï·º and you have to
00:24be an Islam.
00:25So these are all the givens.
00:28Then we talked about when they enter into the home the role of women was not to be lumberjack
00:34because shaitan very happy with that.
00:36Then they come to spirituality with the same philosophy that, I'm here I want to be a Sufi,
00:43a Sufi lumberjack.
00:44Say, but that's not how we were built and you find that that doesn't work.
00:48The system works when we work, her safety is her home.
00:53As a result, her service is now again this binary code.
00:59Her life in the presence of her husband will be a Nukh.
01:03Learns to shut down and turn off.
01:07Not to co-imam the house, you're not here to co-debate and co-imam the house.
01:13So as a result, she understands, don't please the imam and I'm in my life to be a Nukh.
01:20As a result of the Nukh, I receive a tremendous amount of power by staying quiet.
01:28Just like the student in the presence of the shaykh.
01:31If the student wants to show themselves, they are never going to achieve tariqah.
01:36When the servant is able to control their tongue, control their emotion, control their
01:41waswases, God gives them energy.
01:44Means I have a purpose, be patient, let me to follow you and I will serve you.
01:50So then the woman is trained that be a Nukh in the house.
01:55Not the cause of every problem where you have to be a one, that's now Satan entered into
02:01the home to bring confusion because the role is not to be a one but to be a Nukh, but the
02:07Nukh is always understanding, respects the authority, even gives the person of authority more feeling
02:15of authority and this is called humility and good character and the person appreciates that.
