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00:00Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

00:03My name is Mulki Nur Alin

00:05Mulki Nur Alin, and you are a student

00:07Please go ahead with your question

00:09Okay, my question is

00:11Throughout life, we may go through many wounds and traumas

00:16And the traumas would transform into hatred in our unconscious mind

00:22So, whether it's towards our siblings

00:28Or our brotherhood, or even our parents

00:31So, my question is

00:34What is the ruling in Islam regarding this hidden feeling of hatred?

00:39Even when we still try to treat others well

00:42Like, the best treat to our parents

00:46But tip inside, it feels heavy to do so

00:49Because of the emotional burden from the past traumas

00:52Jazakumullah khair

00:54The sister loves the question that

00:56There are some feelings

00:59And that feeling gets converted to trauma

01:01And that trauma gets converted into hatred

01:04So, what should we do with certain feelings?

01:08Sister, my talk today was based on that

01:11That many people have feelings based on race

01:14On color

01:16Some people don't like because the person is black

01:18They don't like because he's poor

01:20They don't like because he's short

01:22And this feeling, then you start thinking, I'm superior

01:25Then it gets converted into trauma

01:28Then converted into hatred

01:30So, all these are wrong

01:32The only thing that can make you superior is taqwa

01:35So, my talk was based on that

01:37And I do agree with you

01:39This then causes disruption of the universal without

01:43So, when you have this feeling

01:45If it's wrong, you have to suppress this feeling

01:48Why are you letting that feeling convert into a trauma

01:52Then trauma into hatred

01:54Stop

01:54You have to nip it at the bud

01:56When you get this feeling

01:57You have to say, these feelings are wrong

01:59These are khutuwa to shaitan

02:00These are vaswa

02:02The vaswasa of the shaitan

02:04So, these feelings which are based on superiority

02:08Or, you know, feeling of trauma

02:10Then converts into hatred

02:12You have to see the source

02:14And you have to base it

02:17Keep quran as your guide

02:19Whatever matches with the quran, we agree

02:23We follow the quran

02:26What quran says is further muster

02:28We like the person

02:29The more taqwa he has, the more we respect him

02:31So, it is our fault

02:34That we are allowing such feelings

02:36To nurture in ourselves

02:38Convert into a trauma

02:40Then convert into hatred

02:42Who's to blame?

02:42We are to blame

02:43So, you should suppress it at the beginning

02:46That these are vaswasa of the shaitan

02:49Really, if the person is good

02:52Okay, he's a dhai

02:53He's putting the quran

02:55He's after the quran

02:56MashaAllah, good

02:57And if really he's doing things which are bad

03:01He may be alcoholic

03:03He may be a gambler

03:05Okay then

03:06But if he's your relatives

03:07You have to do dawah with them

03:08If your friend becomes alcoholic

03:12It's your duty to get her on the straight path

03:14Not hit her

03:16Get her on the straight path

03:17So, what is the benefit of hitting someone?

03:21So, your job is to see to it

03:23That if your relative

03:24Or if your friend

03:25Has gone on the wrong track

03:27You have to get them on the right track

03:28And you should not feel superior

03:30And have hatred

03:31So, if you follow the guidance of the quran

03:33Inshallah, you'll be on the straight path

03:34And you'll be able to spread more peace

03:36Hope that answers the question

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