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90 Day Fiance Season 11 Episode 3
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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancing.
00:00:02I want your family.
00:00:04No, my family.
00:00:06I love being married to Matt.
00:00:08We do all the typical family things.
00:00:11But there is one aspect of our life
00:00:13that is slightly less difficult.
00:00:17We're a throuple, and we have a girlfriend.
00:00:20Her name is Ani, and she lives in Tijuana, Mexico.
00:00:24Our only option is to get legally divorced
00:00:26so that one of us can apply for the K-1 visa
00:00:29and bring her to the U.S.
00:00:31We were thinking about...
00:00:32Getting a divorce.
00:00:33Wait. Whoa, whoa, whoa.
00:00:35When you know, you know.
00:00:39Yeah, yeah.
00:00:40My fiance, Joan, arrives from Uganda,
00:00:42and I am absolutely just head over heels
00:00:44in love with this girl.
00:00:46Hey, Mom.
00:00:47Oh, hello, dear. You home?
00:00:49But living at home with my mother,
00:00:50you know, it's this huge cock block, you know?
00:00:53You know, you've been alone the whole time,
00:00:54and now all of a sudden you have a woman
00:00:56in your room with you.
00:00:57Would you consider a separate room?
00:01:01Oh, Shikaina!
00:01:02I missed you!
00:01:03My dear!
00:01:04My feelings are confused right now.
00:01:06When are you going?
00:01:11I see faces dropping.
00:01:21I'm the bad guy here.
00:01:26You home?
00:01:29After two years,
00:01:30Mina and Maria just arrived in America.
00:01:33Wow.
00:01:34This is Jordan and Jack.
00:01:36Yeah.
00:01:45I stay with you before life.
00:01:47I don't stay here.
00:01:48Oh, my God.
00:01:49I'm shaking.
00:01:50Stay back home.
00:01:51My parents are not feeling good with me leaving.
00:01:53They feel like what I have done.
00:01:55If you want to go back to my country,
00:01:57would you let me do that?
00:01:59It's shocking to hear Maddie say that
00:02:00in the first hours of being here.
00:02:01If Maddie chose to go back to Iran,
00:02:02I don't know that I would ever recover from that.
00:02:06And I'm starting to...
00:02:19Stop.
00:02:26Huh?
00:02:27Stop.
00:02:29Oh, my God.
00:02:31Oh, God.
00:02:33And I'm...
00:02:35I'm going to go back to Iran.
00:02:36She's happy, she's here.
00:02:38Are you happy?
00:02:39Yeah.
00:02:40Finally?
00:02:41A little.
00:02:42A little, come on.
00:02:53I'm so happy.
00:02:54You're finally here, baby.
00:02:56Yeah, finally.
00:02:57So long, you know?
00:02:58Yeah.
00:02:59Like two years?
00:03:01Mina just arrived.
00:03:03And it's been like this, like a roller coaster.
00:03:06But it's amazing to wake up having them here.
00:03:09I couldn't be happier,
00:03:10because this is what we've waited for for years.
00:03:14I need to call Clayton or talk to Clayton.
00:03:17Yeah, you want to call him now?
00:03:18Yeah. Of course.
00:03:19Okay.
00:03:20All right.
00:03:21Okay.
00:03:22Mina has a son from a previous relationship.
00:03:24His name is Clayton.
00:03:26Clayton's name was on the K-1 visa with Mina as a minor,
00:03:30as her son.
00:03:31And so, I just thought he was going to be able to travel with her to the USA.
00:03:35But his passport had some complications that we didn't realize.
00:03:42And so, Clayton's going to be staying with Mina's friend
00:03:45until we can get the paperwork sorted out.
00:03:47CLETON!
00:03:48CLETON!
00:03:49CLETON!
00:03:50Hey, Clayton, how are you?
00:03:51Hey buddy, you good?
00:03:52CLETON!
00:03:53Hey, miss you!
00:03:54I can't come back here.
00:03:55Oh!
00:03:56Yeah.
00:03:57First class of me and Maria, it's so good.
00:04:00To say, Papa, you made me a premier class.
00:04:06Oh!
00:04:07Yeah.
00:04:09First class for me and Maria.
00:04:11I eat so good.
00:04:14Maria, your sister.
00:04:18He said, Clayton.
00:04:22Clayton!
00:04:25I can wait for you to come back
00:04:28and the home.
00:04:31Come to the USA, Clayton.
00:04:32Your English is still good?
00:04:34Yes.
00:04:35You practicing?
00:04:36Yes.
00:04:36A little?
00:04:38You be okay?
00:04:39You're not sad?
00:04:43Yesterday, it's very sad.
00:04:45Because you go out of France.
00:04:51Oh, my...
00:04:52I'm gonna see you and I long, I think.
00:04:55No, you don't take this, okay?
00:04:58I think you're coming soon.
00:05:05And sincerely, for the moment,
00:05:08I don't know when he's going to be there
00:05:11with me in the United States.
00:05:13And that's where my pain is and I'm a lot of sad.
00:05:18And it's the first time that I leave him,
00:05:21that we're going to be far away from each other.
00:05:24Why is my passport taking so long?
00:05:33Ah...
00:05:34Clayton, I'm sorry, but I promise, I promise,
00:05:39I promise, Mom and Dad are working.
00:05:41You're going to be here for work.
00:05:42You're going to be here for work.
00:05:43You're going to be here for work.
00:05:43Okay?
00:05:44Okay?
00:05:44Okay.
00:05:45Bizzou, I love you.
00:05:52Bizzou, merci Tracy. Bizzou, Clayton. Au revoir.
00:05:57Bye. Bye.
00:05:58See you soon.
00:06:02Tracy, she's a good person, but she's not a mom, you know.
00:06:07I know, you're an amazing mom. I know. Clayton needs you. You need Clayton.
00:06:11I think it's not possible for me. I go to church, know my son, and I did change date for the wedding.
00:06:21It's not possible to change the date, baby. It's 90 days. You have to leave the USA if we don't get married.
00:06:28My God.
00:06:29I don't know what to do. You know, we got yours resolved.
00:06:42No, it's probably not so true to me. I don't know.
00:06:44I don't know what I can do. You can't go back right now because then you can't come.
00:07:01If you go back, you can't come back, you know. It's a one-time entry, so I don't know what else we can do, you know.
00:07:07It's not for you, baby. I love you so much. It's not this. It's just because I'm a mom.
00:07:14You know, I say maybe it's not a good choice. I need to wait for coming together.
00:07:20I don't know my money. I'm very confused. I'm very confused.
00:07:26I know you're confused, but why not?
00:07:27I can't marry me. It's not my son here.
00:07:29I don't know my son here.
00:07:59I'm thinking about two colors.
00:08:05I am down. Let's do it.
00:08:13I am so glad I found your salon and I'm going to tell all my friends about it.
00:08:19Okay.
00:08:20Well, how much do I owe you?
00:08:23Ten.
00:08:25Okay, can we come to another agreement?
00:08:27Can I pay you lots and lots of hugs and kisses?
00:08:31No.
00:08:31I want ten.
00:08:33Ten dollars.
00:08:36Today, Matt and I are going to travel to Mexico.
00:08:39We're so excited to see our girlfriend, Ani.
00:08:42Oh, black down.
00:08:43We're going to be in Mexico for two weeks, and it's the longest I've ever been without my babies, and I'm so, so sad.
00:08:52It's hard when you're dating, but you also have kids.
00:08:56We'll be gone for just a little bit.
00:08:58A couple weeks.
00:08:59How many days?
00:08:59A few days, and we'll FaceTime you.
00:09:02How many days?
00:09:03Two hands worth.
00:09:05Two hands.
00:09:06Ani has three kids, and we want this to work for the sake of our children as well.
00:09:12We fantasize about having a family life together as a throuple all the time.
00:09:17Kids drop-offs, the, you know, our brunch routines.
00:09:21Imagine, like, sharing life's burden together.
00:09:23Imagine sharing happy, beautiful moments and the holidays together.
00:09:28Like, I just think it can be something so, so beautiful, bigger than the three of us can imagine.
00:09:35Oh, my baby.
00:09:36Come, come, come.
00:09:38I love you.
00:09:39I love you.
00:09:40I love you.
00:09:42I love you.
00:09:43It would be good for Brittany, okay?
00:09:44Okay.
00:09:45This time when we go to Mexico, it'll be a lot different than the previous times.
00:09:50Well, y'all be careful.
00:09:51Bye, baby.
00:09:52The first half of the trip, we'll be spending some time in Ensenada.
00:09:55We'll be romantic, doing all these touristy things together.
00:09:59On the second part of the trip, we're going to Guadalajara, and that's where Ani's from and where she grew up.
00:10:04We want to see how she acts around her family.
00:10:08I think this is a lot about somebody.
00:10:10So many of our friends and stuff know about her now, you know, and all of her friends are about to meet us.
00:10:18So how is she going to handle that?
00:10:20There's a little bit of nervousness.
00:10:22It's normal because when you care, you're nervous.
00:10:25But we're super excited.
00:10:29I don't know.
00:10:30It was hard for me to leave them.
00:10:34Man, I'm devastated.
00:10:36I haven't left them that long before.
00:10:39Yeah, I get it, honey.
00:10:40I just feel horrible.
00:10:51I feel like a s*** mom.
00:10:56Honey, we are very much there for our children.
00:10:59It's not about being there for them.
00:11:02It's like leaving them for two weeks to pursue love, you know?
00:11:06Sometimes I'm like, why can't we just be like the normal parents?
00:11:12Leaving our kids is getting harder and harder.
00:11:14We leave to Mexico, have a hole in our heart because our babies are missing.
00:11:20We come back to the States, we have a hole in our heart.
00:11:22Cassani's not there.
00:11:24But the sponsor for the K-1 visa is huge commitment.
00:11:28And because we have a family, the risks of stakes are much higher.
00:11:33We need to be sure we're confident to make the right decision
00:11:36and take the next step in the relationship.
00:11:40Sometimes we're with her a whole week trip, and then we go back home.
00:11:42It's like, oh, this is nice to be our one-on-one time.
00:11:45Yeah.
00:11:45There would be a time there was no more one-on-one.
00:11:48Like, how do we navigate that?
00:11:50Maybe there should be boundaries or rules or I don't know.
00:11:54I think that we're never going to learn this process.
00:11:58If we're not in it.
00:12:01Like, I've always been the jealous, possessive person in the relationship.
00:12:05It's the Middle Eastern in me, I guess.
00:12:08Or maybe it's just me, so.
00:12:09I would like to be kept in the known.
00:12:12Like, if you had any conversations with her that, you know, maybe I wasn't part of.
00:12:17Or you started feeling some things that I wasn't part of.
00:12:21Like, I want to know, you know?
00:12:23It's already complicated to be with a woman,
00:12:26and let alone being in a throuple.
00:12:29I want to make sure that they're growing their relationship.
00:12:33But there's a possibility where potentially Matt can develop stronger and stronger feelings for her.
00:12:41I always, like, wonder, like, what if another woman could be a better partner to Matt than me?
00:12:53Like, all the things that I'm not good at.
00:12:55What if she was good at it?
00:12:56All the things that are important to him.
00:12:58What if another woman would check all the boxes more than me?
00:13:03I'm going to cross.
00:13:03You ready?
00:13:04Crossing the border.
00:13:05No matter what, we know, going back from the strip, things are going to be different.
00:13:11To what direction, we don't know.
00:13:13So, that's the hard part.
00:13:14That actually made a loaf of bread.
00:13:22So, instead of holding up a sign, we'll hold up a loaf of sourdough.
00:13:25Today's the day where Joan arrives from Uganda, and, like, I am just so ecstatic.
00:13:30It feels like I've been waiting my entire life for this moment.
00:13:33It's like, you know, opening that box of pizza and just having that first slice, taking that first bite.
00:13:38Oh, my God.
00:13:39Last night, you said something about they're already having some doubts that maybe you might want to go back.
00:13:47Maybe.
00:13:49I have never been evaded from my family, from my parents, for my whole life.
00:13:54I miss them already.
00:13:57If you're having regrets already, we're not going to get through 90 days or our entire life.
00:14:33Another humid day.
00:14:37So, you have to leave soon.
00:14:39Yeah, I got to get going as soon as possible.
00:14:42You putting mayonnaise or anything?
00:14:44No, she don't like mayo.
00:14:45Oh.
00:14:47You're just making one?
00:14:48You got enough meat there for two.
00:14:50You got the micromanager over here.
00:14:52No cheese, no cheese.
00:14:53Watch out.
00:14:53Oh.
00:14:54Come on.
00:14:55Today's the day where Joan arrives from Uganda, and, like, I am just so ecstatic.
00:14:59I can't even control myself.
00:15:01I feel like I'm just going to shoot out of these boots, like, you know, like a rocket from SpaceX or something like that, you know?
00:15:06So, what's on your mind?
00:15:09What's going on?
00:15:10I was thinking, have you thought any more about separate rooms?
00:15:13I mean, I really haven't, you know?
00:15:17I know it's hard.
00:15:19You know what I mean?
00:15:20I know it's very concerning for you.
00:15:22I just don't need to hear things going on.
00:15:25You don't want to hear the bed rocking or anything like that?
00:15:27Yeah, I just don't want to hear it.
00:15:28It's not my business, you know?
00:15:30I get that.
00:15:32Mom wants to sleep in separate bedrooms because, you know, the house, I guess, the walls are very thin.
00:15:37So, if we're getting intimate, we're getting sexual with each other, I mean, she can probably pick up, you know, everything that's going on.
00:15:43You know, I'm not used to having a woman in your bed with you.
00:15:46I get that.
00:15:47I do wish things were different.
00:15:49Of course, I want my own place, and I want privacy for ourselves.
00:15:52But this is what we have to deal with for now, and we're going to get through it.
00:15:56You want this all in a little shopping bag?
00:15:58I know you're going to put it in a shopping bag anyway, so boom, go.
00:16:01You can't just have it loose like this.
00:16:04Pack it up.
00:16:06I know when they're together here, they want to spend time alone, you know, to do what they want as the urge strikes.
00:16:12You've got to get your shoes on, right?
00:16:14Oh, shoes, shirt.
00:16:16Cologne.
00:16:16Cologne, but I hope they still want to, you know, have me around in their life, and, you know, I ain't going to be like a third wheel to them, and, you know, that Craig would still appreciate me and not tell me to get lost.
00:16:31So, besides the cookies, I actually made a loaf of bread.
00:16:36Oh, that's cute.
00:16:37So, instead of holding up a sign, I'm going to hold up a loaf of sourdough.
00:16:41I hope she sees that.
00:16:42It says Joan, right?
00:16:43Joan and I, I started this K-1 process about a year and a half ago, and it is just absolutely crazy that it's happening now.
00:16:51I love you, Mom.
00:16:52I love you.
00:16:53I'll let you know about dinner.
00:17:02It feels like I've been waiting my entire life for this moment.
00:17:04It's like, you know, opening that beat box of pizza and just having that first slice, taking that first bite, it's going to be like, the whole world has stopped for a second.
00:17:14Like, fireworks, and just beautiful, man.
00:17:16Like, I'm at a ten-piece orchestra symphony, you know?
00:17:20It's like, it's just amazing.
00:17:42So our flight has arrived at 1.03, just waiting for it to come out now, man.
00:17:47It's exciting. This is crazy. This is crazy, man.
00:18:06Oh, my God.
00:18:12Do you see the breath?
00:18:22Oh, wow.
00:18:24Do you see the breath?
00:18:26I want you and only you.
00:18:29I want you and only you.
00:18:33Oh, my God, that's .
00:18:35Do you see the breath?
00:18:39Yes, I like it.
00:18:41Instead of holding a cardboard sign, you know?
00:18:47My name is John, and I'm from Kampala, Uganda.
00:18:50So I've traveled all the way from Uganda to meet my fiancée, Gregory.
00:18:54So I'm excited to be here.
00:18:58Oh, my God.
00:19:00I love you so much, baby.
00:19:02I love you.
00:19:03Let's get you out of here.
00:19:04Oh, okay.
00:19:05It feels amazing to be reunited again.
00:19:07It feels like I'm waking up for the first time ever.
00:19:09Being born out of my mom's womb, you know?
00:19:12Sorry, sorry, sorry.
00:19:15Sorry, sorry, sorry.
00:19:16Yeah, you can.
00:19:17You can.
00:19:18All right.
00:19:19Oh, my God, baby.
00:19:20Come here.
00:19:21Mm-hmm.
00:19:22Mm-hmm.
00:19:23Mm-hmm.
00:19:24Mm-hmm.
00:19:25Mm-hmm.
00:19:26Mm-hmm.
00:19:27Mm-hmm.
00:19:28Mm-hmm.
00:19:29So, baby, we got the bread.
00:19:31I made you the bread.
00:19:32Ginger cookies.
00:19:33Wow.
00:19:34Can I have one?
00:19:35Yeah, of course.
00:19:38I've missed Greg so much.
00:19:40Oh, he's looking great.
00:19:41He has lost weight.
00:19:42Yeah, I like that.
00:19:45I'm glad we're done with this long distance.
00:19:48I'm really excited.
00:19:54I almost missed my flight.
00:19:56Really?
00:19:57I was so worried about that.
00:19:58I'm not going to lie.
00:19:59I can never do this again.
00:20:00Yeah, never again.
00:20:01You don't have to then.
00:20:02You don't have to.
00:20:03Oh, man, I can't wait to show you how to make bread.
00:20:06You know?
00:20:07Mm-hmm.
00:20:08Sourdough.
00:20:09Probably not tonight, right?
00:20:12Right now, I'm on, like, cloud nine.
00:20:14Like, seriously, I'm up there.
00:20:15I'm hovering.
00:20:16But I do have a realization of what needs to be done.
00:20:21I wish I could just take her back from this airport
00:20:23and go home to our own place, our own apartment.
00:20:26And I just worry about, you know, being enough for her
00:20:28and this life being enough for her.
00:20:33I can't believe neither, baby.
00:20:36Can you believe this or what?
00:20:37Yeah.
00:20:38You can?
00:20:39Oh.
00:20:42Oh.
00:20:43Oh.
00:20:44Oh.
00:20:45Oh.
00:20:46Oh, man.
00:20:47Oh, man.
00:20:48The triple shot.
00:20:49The speed of my flesh, my heart.
00:20:54Did you slip?
00:20:55Yeah, man.
00:20:56I don't feel good.
00:20:57I can't get sick.
00:20:59I've heard it's so expensive to go see the doctor.
00:21:12What do you want to do today?
00:21:14There's a really famous building that I've seen in videos.
00:21:21Is it in French?
00:21:23The French Quarter.
00:21:24Quarter, yes.
00:21:24Yeah.
00:21:25I'd love to go there.
00:21:27Our first night in New Orleans was just as good as our first night together ever.
00:21:33I think this one was way better because I wasn't stressed.
00:21:37I was like relaxed and like more professional.
00:21:45More professional?
00:21:46Yeah.
00:21:48Yeah.
00:21:49Yeah.
00:21:50He's a professional now, thanks to me.
00:21:52I was going to ask you last night when we were talking, you said something about how
00:22:00it would feel if you went back to your country.
00:22:04Yeah.
00:22:05So you're already maybe having some doubts that maybe you might want to go back?
00:22:09The thing is, it just crossed my mind.
00:22:12Like, I said it without even thinking about it.
00:22:16That would mean that you shouldn't have made this decision to begin with.
00:22:18It wasn't a serious question because...
00:22:21It's serious to me.
00:22:22It hurts hearing Maddie say that he could possibly want to go back to Iran because it's my
00:22:34understanding that if he ever chooses to go back home, he may not be able to return back
00:22:38to the United States.
00:22:41If you're having regrets already, you're not going to get through 90 days or our entire
00:22:46life.
00:22:47I mean, like, it's already happening, so.
00:22:49I'm sorry if it made me feel bad.
00:22:53I would have never asked that if I knew.
00:22:56You don't go into something if you're, like, have doubts that you might possibly not want
00:23:00it later.
00:23:02Right now, you are more important than my parents, okay?
00:23:06I chose you.
00:23:07But you're saying that it could possibly change and you would be willing to go back and take
00:23:11that risk.
00:23:13It hurts.
00:23:14I have never been away from my family, from my parents, for my whole life.
00:23:22I miss them already.
00:23:23This happened in my mind for three seconds.
00:23:25I didn't think that it would hurt her.
00:23:27So I'm just regretting that I asked her.
00:23:30I miss my parents.
00:23:34And if you asked me, like, two weeks ago, it was like, I would never go back if I want
00:23:39to see them.
00:23:40I think right now it's just hard.
00:23:43Maybe it'll get easier.
00:23:46Maybe.
00:23:46Yeah.
00:23:46All right.
00:24:06honestly i did have a lot of guilt about maddie leaving his family because i really ultimately
00:24:16wanted to make sure that that was the decision he wanted to do before he left
00:24:19it's a lot of pressure knowing that i have to kind of fulfill
00:24:23all the voids that he has from leaving it's also really scary when someone says
00:24:30like if it's not enough then they'll go back you know because how you can't fill that void
00:24:35something i'm worried about the most is us having a bad fight and i'm like get out of my place
00:24:59yeah and where he is going to go my friends he can call on them too i think she's still feeling
00:25:07that he will visit her home rather than they're going to live in the same house together
00:25:12he may come back i definitely have friends that would like have a neutral position
00:25:17oh my god you don't know him at all really
00:25:27that's a privilege for you
00:25:39hello hello
00:25:49she wanted to go to pool and i i can't say no to her you know
00:26:00let's go all the time and he wants to swim all the time so they're a good match
00:26:04you guys go swim together yeah go jump in i want to see you do a cannonball babe
00:26:09you and her made me circus mind you know that but i'm happy that's my faith
00:26:20they're so cute
00:26:24whoa cute she did more of a cannonball
00:26:31cheers sister cheers to the new beginnings let's say yeah how are you feeling happy
00:26:39i feel relieved really happy i feel a little bit like sad too and and guilty
00:26:49and bad about taking him away from you guys
00:26:53he's the only one and i am the only one in this small family um that's why our parents uh feel sad how
00:27:03he's away i know i hate that i know that's the thing i think i hope they don't end up resenting me for this
00:27:12um
00:27:15we have our own dots that's it i get it um for us it's really um we don't feel okay for him to be there
00:27:26alone obviously
00:27:31like you know you fight right when you are here and you left the house yeah a couple times
00:27:42it's the thing i'm worried about the most is us having a bad fight and i'm like get out of my place
00:27:49yeah and where he is going to go he may come back
00:27:56yeah but i want to connect him to good people that he feels like even though they're my friends
00:28:03he can call on them too do you think that your friends will open their houses i definitely have
00:28:09friends that would like have a neutral position oh really never do that
00:28:18one thing she says alarm me like uh whatever happens between us my friends can always open their
00:28:27doors to him which is which was weird because he doesn't have to go somewhere else because right now
00:28:36the house will be theirs but i think she's still feeling that he will visit her home rather than
00:28:43they're going to live in the same house together i don't want to scary or something but i don't know
00:28:53are you really ready to handle a side of him that opens up when he feels he's not in control
00:29:03it is different you know he's not making an income in los angeles and that makes him feel like he's not
00:29:10in the power seat and it will make him react in a way that he wouldn't in here
00:29:18in my experience with sarper he does not handle not being in control very well and he will create
00:29:24chaos for us if he feels like things aren't going his way or that he's not in the driver's seat
00:29:30so i'm just worried that him feeling out of control in the u.s could cause him to just sabotage what we have
00:29:39what did you talk nothing that's for us girls to know yeah girl talk girl girl talk
00:29:49this is the dresser you know it's kind of more like convenience store it's small it's a little
00:29:56different than paris of course they don't have the fresh mushroom this is cream of mushroom soup
00:30:03it's home you're not yeah and um she had asked maybe you want to sleep in like a separate room
00:30:13i think about what i had to sacrifice to come to america so it's really hard i'm sad i feel like
00:30:21crying don't cry
00:30:37it's a spirit to know maya no it's enough for baby
00:30:51maria come to eat you don't have your chair it's the system bigger and this oh my god
00:31:05okay i try because now it's not comfortable for you try you okay bon appetit
00:31:15oh my god baby what's the smoke you burn something
00:31:29it's okay you find everything yeah but you don't have the share for maria you don't buy it i almost
00:31:35did i was gonna but then i got busy and getting you yeah so i didn't have time but we can go into
00:31:41it down again you know it's been 20 plus years since i raised the baby so you gotta expect a few
00:31:48things to slip through the cracks baby maria come come daddy need um the eye chair uh the diapers
00:31:59i messed up i should have made a checklist i know
00:32:04why have this what is this yeah it's like entrance for privacy you know oh okay aviation community
00:32:20then one time i saw a bear was right here
00:32:22yeah
00:32:26seriously yeah he came out on the street i was on the below i was biking and the bear came out
00:32:32i know this is a small town it's a little different than paris
00:32:36of course and the bearers tell me eat me and me and maria
00:32:42now the bears are friendly here they're nice they're nice do you remember the place uh the bacon
00:32:50from this morning yeah i got it here so they have a they have a lot of diaper i hope yeah we'll see
00:32:58i'll get maria yeah
00:33:00come on baby girl go inside
00:33:09mark what
00:33:12this is the dresser you know it's kind of more like convenience store it's small
00:33:20come on we look for diapers for you
00:33:23okay
00:33:39allay maintenant come on maria you see
00:33:45why is the lamb i don't think they have the lamb here i don't but we can check
00:33:50okay i don't know but glance in the fridge back here they might have meat
00:33:58ah yeah so here is the meat and dairy now i changed my mind you have pasta
00:34:05this is like frozen stuff to reheat
00:34:08it's a it's a gas station it's convenience store it's for emergency you just run down you get this
00:34:23you come back oh my god
00:34:24you don't have the fresh mushroom
00:34:31i doubt it these are like canned you know i don't even think that much this is cream of mushroom soup
00:34:41hello hey how you doing today good good thank you find everything okay i think so but you didn't
00:34:47have it you don't have lamb here do you like lamb chops or anything like that yeah i didn't think so
00:34:53but we were just checking fresh mushroom no no that's the first time anybody's ever asked me for
00:34:59that that's all right we'll go another wait we have to pay maria wait i have to pay i give it back
00:35:06thank you thank you you're welcome all right we go back home we change your diaper mama's got diapers
00:35:13here's g thank you
00:35:21masha set set i like this name what name
00:35:28where do you see my show just shit masha just shit it's here the city masha sister oh manchester
00:35:35where i say in the the the the sign yeah it's a mess just that's just massachusetts yes this is a
00:35:46state massachusetts thank you no thank you how did you say that again no
00:35:51massachusetts i like this it's sexy oh yeah maybe it's a place for you sure okay
00:36:04oh my god
00:36:08okay
00:36:08everything in here has a bear on it yeah the bear home it's cool
00:36:25can i help you find anything yeah so they just moved here from france and uh we didn't move
00:36:31everything so we need a uh you know a baby high chair for for her to eat do you have anything like
00:36:36that nothing specifically for a baby for a toddler yeah we've got counter stools and bar stools but
00:36:45and this tony don't have babies yeah yeah we don't we don't do much for the baby furniture here okay
00:36:52but take a look around and you see if you see anything else just give a holler okay yeah we'll
00:36:58look around i might go to convince her yeah okay
00:37:18what do you think anything you like
00:37:20what do you think you want to get no no je pense que 90 jours soit pas assez pour en fait que je
00:37:28puisse me sentir à l'aise et lever les enfants ici
00:37:39i just touched down city for the bright lights new york home before the great nightlife
00:37:45everything is new
00:37:50this is america baby this is america
00:37:54looking all the grass everything right no fruit trees though
00:37:57yeah but you also have some trees i thought you don't have trees
00:38:00i never said one no i say that you don't like on street yeah yeah
00:38:06i'm in america
00:38:08and welcome to new york we have a beautiful skyline in front of us
00:38:25and if you look to your right you will see uh i don't even know just empty space or a road
00:38:30so i mean i have so many people who want to meet you though but i mean seriously so many people
00:38:40it's what you're not yeah she's really excited to meet you you're going to be meeting her soon
00:38:45i'm also excited but also nervous
00:38:47so we were having a conversation about uh you coming here and um you know one thing we were
00:38:56talking about is just like obviously us getting intimate making love
00:39:01and she was very concerned because she doesn't want to hear noises and all these crazy things
00:39:05you talk to your parents about intimacy it's not that i got into like raw details about everything
00:39:14like you know what i mean but you know the whole situation as far as my mom not wanting to hear
00:39:19what's going on between us you know what i mean i told her i was like listen i hear you
00:39:24i understand and she had asked if it was possible oh my god um maybe you wanted to sleep in like a separate room
00:39:35i'm not sleeping in a separate room
00:39:42no i don't i i don't want you to you know maybe we can compromise on something with mom like leaving
00:39:48the door open like leave the like leave the door open like for some hours or you have to leave the
00:39:54door obviously when we go to sleep and she's in bed we're closing the door like that's gonna happen
00:39:58you know what i mean okay but like during the day if we're all home and she's home she doesn't want us
00:40:03like going upstairs and and fooling around you know like we can go upstairs nothing happen like
00:40:09i don't know i just don't want to disrespect my mom in her house and i completely understand that
00:40:13you know what i mean but listen going into this like hope you're not mad or you you know what i
00:40:20mean don't be like sour or no i'm not mad i'm just sad i'm sad i feel like crying just because of
00:40:27thinking of that situation don't cry it's alive
00:40:36i didn't expect that i think about what i had to sacrifice to come to america in uganda i had like
00:40:45a life i'm a director at an ngo so i have a bachelor's degree and here in america i'm like i'm a nobody
00:40:52i have nothing to do i have to just sit home staying in my mother-in-law's house so it's really
00:41:00hard are you really crying come on baby i'm just sad i said about the whole situation about what coming
00:41:11back to my mom's house and having to deal with yeah
00:41:15i feel so bad about that i mean i know she's tired i know she's exhausted she's feeling extremely
00:41:23vulnerable at this point i could imagine so i wanted this just day to just go smooth you know
00:41:27and and the fact that now she's feeling like this it's not what i expected at all and it's it's it's
00:41:32it's a pretty stressful situation like i don't there's no words to describe what i'm feeling right now
00:41:39it's gonna be all right baby it's gonna be good don't worry oops singing and dancing if you do that
00:41:51in iran they can arrest you i can feel the freedom watching maddie walk around new orleans is like
00:41:58when you bring a kid to disneyland and they're like over stimulated would you stay these in your
00:42:04country never oh my gosh look at the street performer across the street it's like a different
00:42:26planet to me yeah let's get something else how do you feel i feel weird like i do not belong here but i'd like
00:42:37i can do it i can do it i can do it i love this smell should you hold your bag no i'm fine
00:42:50charlie
00:42:56is this good i told you it's good when i had the first bite i was like
00:43:03boom i've never had anything close to it i really hope that all american snack and food
00:43:10do not taste and feel like beignet because if that's the case i think i'm gonna gain so much weight
00:43:16i wish i could send one of these to my family in iran
00:43:18do you need these do i yeah would you say these in your country never not not not even the picture
00:43:38like like nothing like the head i mean you can't see the head oh my gosh
00:43:53he's not a real man he's not real that's scary do you want a picture no don't want to say hi
00:44:00it's so scary watching maddie walk around new orleans is like when you bring a kid to disneyland and
00:44:09they're like overstimulated by everything that they see and i feel like maddie didn't know which way to
00:44:16look or what to look at or what was appropriate to look at when does the flashing stuff start
00:44:23tonight i mean like if you can make us oh like booby beads oh oh oh beans yes
00:44:35seeing people singing and dancing like on the street it just feels weird because if you do that in iran
00:44:43like they can arrest you did you know that for dancing for dancing for like singing i can feel
00:44:49the freedom yeah obviously here yeah did you know that you can't do that in your gone too
00:44:58what you can't have your uh dog even even on a leash well where are you supposed to keep it
00:45:05i don't know at home i feel like everything has changed 48 hours ago i was in iran
00:45:12everything was like like you really um i have to be yeah i have to be careful about the words
00:45:22you can speak freely here you're in america i know but i'm worried about my family
00:45:27it just goes back to the uh politics stuff and it's not comparable yeah
00:45:34are you ready to go home is it gonna be way different than here oh yeah for sure i feel like
00:45:43i had a uh sunglasses in iran that i could see everything darker but here everything looks more
00:45:53colorful and livable i can totally feel the freedom here i told you a hundred times but
00:46:00i do feel like i'm still dreaming i'm so sad to leave you guys you got no all right yeah
00:46:12it is really difficult leaving everything that hurts how are you feeling babe confused
00:46:19i've changed a lot of things in my life for her i hope she appreciates that i think it's a little
00:46:28overly traumatic because you're a grown man
00:46:37my name is annie matt is my boyfriend and amani is my girlfriend i working in the strip club in tijuana but
00:46:46they want to go for live together they want a готов leaf together
00:47:09We are going to leave, I'm so sad to leave you guys.
00:47:30Sarper and I are headed back to Istanbul this morning and saying goodbye to his family
00:47:44at the summer cottage. This has been a very hard visit. It's been really heavy feeling
00:47:49and you know we delivered news to his family that made them feel so sad.
00:47:55It's really difficult living everything going to us to a surrounding
00:48:09that I don't know anyone but Shikina only knowing that I cannot come here whenever
00:48:16I want that hurts.
00:48:25How are you feeling babe?
00:48:40Confused.
00:48:41You feel confused?
00:48:42Yeah.
00:48:43Yeah, it made me a little confused.
00:48:45How is it from your point of view?
00:48:48Honestly?
00:48:49Honestly.
00:48:50I think it's a little overly dramatic because you're a grown man and it kind of seems like
00:49:03you're attached to the hip with your parents and like you have never been away from it before.
00:49:13You cannot get it. It's a little different in Turkey, you know? It's not about being
00:49:19mom or boy or whatever. It's something being close to each other to help whenever needed.
00:49:25That's a big thing. But you have me now. I have you, yeah. I'm your family now.
00:49:31Yeah. I chose you over them. That's right.
00:49:35You don't need to choose me over them.
00:49:37Baby, you saw my mother's face. Was that normal?
00:49:41Like I said, you're a grown-up.
00:49:42One day Sophie tells you that she goes to another country.
00:49:45I've raised her to be very independent.
00:49:47Okay. Maybe that you can feel my mother's feelings.
00:49:52She kind of has different cultures. The family relationships are so different than ours.
00:49:58Look at my family. I mean, how supportive they are in any condition.
00:50:03And Shekinah's family is not supporting her enough. And it's a big contrast.
00:50:08So, I mean, sometimes it is difficult for her to understand the relationship with my family.
00:50:13I mean, I'm leaving everything that I built up back, including my parents,
00:50:19and I'm going to answer to her just to be with her.
00:50:31Home sweet home.
00:50:33It's not that sweet.
00:50:35Hey, what is the problem of yours with this house?
00:50:38You couldn't love this. You will miss this, you know?
00:50:41Look, you changed everything.
00:50:43You think I will miss this?
00:50:44There is nothing. No bottles collection.
00:50:46No bottles collection.
00:50:47The only thing I would miss is you and I'm taking it with me, so.
00:50:51The beginning of the end.
00:50:53The beginning of a new chapter, not the end.
00:50:57How many years? Like 12, 13 years I'm living here.
00:51:01Forget about them. Who cares?
00:51:02You hate this house, right?
00:51:03Do you want to pour the gasoline and burn this house when we are leaving?
00:51:07You're so dramatic.
00:51:09Go take your shower.
00:51:10Okay.
00:51:11Go take your shower.
00:51:12I'm living in my apartment for 13 years, I think, and at least thousands of girls visited there.
00:51:24I have to make this place a museum, you know?
00:51:28I changed a lot of things in my life for her, and I hope she appreciates that.
00:51:39And I hope it won't be a mistake to go to United States.
00:51:43Shikaina, Shikaina.
00:51:45My biggest trouble in this world.
00:51:47I can hear you.
00:51:57I just let her know that we just crossed.
00:52:01She said she'd been waiting for us all day.
00:52:12We're going to downtown Tijuana.
00:52:14I think there is like a festival going on for the Day of the Dead.
00:52:17It's probably a party.
00:52:19I got this one for you.
00:52:22I got this one too much, like my dress.
00:52:25Ta-da.
00:52:27Who are you and what you do with my wife?
00:52:29I honestly don't know much about the Day of the Dead.
00:52:32I associate it with Halloween.
00:52:35It is a day to remember those in your family who have passed.
00:52:40Aw, that sounds sad.
00:52:42It's not sad.
00:52:43It's supposed to be happy.
00:52:46I always see that she puts effort into how she looks before she sees us.
00:52:50It's cute.
00:52:51She's always dressed up for us.
00:52:52I know I do that too when I care, you know?
00:52:55With her being so mysterious and, you know, we're showing up in masks.
00:52:59Like, it's fun.
00:53:00It's like, it's a little chase.
00:53:02Oh my gosh, it's almost time.
00:53:05We're getting so close.
00:53:07Every second goes by is a step closer to see Ani.
00:53:12That excitement never goes away.
00:53:14Every time we're going to see Ani, even if she goes to the store and back, we're excited to see her.
00:53:19Seriously.
00:53:20We're like a dog.
00:53:22Yes.
00:53:23Not forever.
00:53:25My name is Ani.
00:53:26I have 37 years old.
00:53:27I'm from Guadalajara.
00:53:28Matt is my boyfriend and Amani is my girlfriend.
00:53:33My name is Annie, I have 37 years old, I'm from Guadalajara.
00:53:51Matt is my boyfriend and Amani is my girlfriend.
00:53:56I'm working in the strip club in Tijuana.
00:54:03I'm working in the dressing chain.
00:54:06We're sitting down on the Ko Ko, we're getting a loco.
00:54:10I'm sitting down on the Ko Ko, we're getting a loco.
00:54:15We're sitting down on thedit ko ko.
00:54:19We're sitting down on theokko.
00:54:21We're getting a loco.
00:54:23Bravo, que bonita, que hermosa te miras, como estas?
00:54:28Como estas?
00:54:29Como estas?
00:54:30Tente.
00:54:31Yo tengo muchos chismes.
00:54:32Cuéntame, ¿qué estás haciendo?
00:54:34Pero me voy a juzgar.
00:54:37Trabajo moviendo el culo.
00:54:38¿Tú crees que te voy a juzgar?
00:54:41Estoy en una relación.
00:54:44Ah, ok, ok.
00:54:45Con la niña.
00:54:48Ajá, es guapísima, pero con el niño también.
00:54:53Ay, Yanny.
00:54:55Soy la novia de la pareja.
00:54:57Ah, es como swingers.
00:55:00Pero creo que ya va más para allá la situación.
00:55:03Es que, pues, realmente, pues, ellos se tienen que divorciar para que yo me case con ellos.
00:55:08Están casados.
00:55:09Sí, están casados.
00:55:10Y tienen dos niñas.
00:55:12Va a ser complicado.
00:55:15Las mamás que tenemos este trabajo somos mujeres muy fuertes.
00:55:21Me voy a cambiar.
00:55:22Ok.
00:55:22We need to enter 6 p.m.
00:55:26And you finish maybe 6 a.m.
00:55:30When you finish, you're so tired.
00:55:34Very, very tired.
00:55:36But I will do anything for my babies.
00:55:39¿Cómo estás, mi amor?
00:55:53¿Qué haces?
00:55:53I have three children.
00:55:59My first son is 20 years now.
00:56:02My other son is 11 years.
00:56:05And my daughter lives with me.
00:56:07She is my friend, says Antonella.
00:56:10She has 7 years.
00:56:12How are you going to school?
00:56:15¿Ya te aprendiste bien las tablas?
00:56:19A ver.
00:56:19Dos por cinco.
00:56:21Dos por cinco.
00:56:22Sí, dos por cinco.
00:56:23Diez.
00:56:23Diez.
00:56:24Tres por cinco.
00:56:26Quince.
00:56:27Muy bien, mi amor.
00:56:28Dame un besito.
00:56:29You are smart.
00:56:35I have a really, really hard life.
00:56:38When I am 16, I am pregnant.
00:56:42The father that my son, he disappeared when I am pregnant.
00:56:45I don't have any money.
00:56:48So I am start working in the strip club.
00:56:53Wait, I can't, I can't cry.
00:56:55No, no, no, no.
00:56:59Muchas mamás
00:57:00no les dan la oportunidad que se merecen
00:57:07y por eso muchas hacemos lo que necesitamos hacer.
00:57:15Sorry.
00:57:18Oye, me voy a ir a ver a Manny.
00:57:21Y a Manny, vengo en unos días, ¿vale?
00:57:23¿Tú qué piensas?
00:57:24¿Tú qué piensas de que?
00:57:26Manny, ¿qué?
00:57:28Pues de que vivimos juntos.
00:57:30¿Que nos vayamos a vivir a Estados Unidos?
00:57:33¿Te gusta la idea o no?
00:57:36Sí.
00:57:38So many couples go to my job,
00:57:41but when I see them the first time,
00:57:43I say, oh my God.
00:57:48It's perfect for me
00:57:49because it's tall, it's pretty.
00:57:52Together it's look sexy.
00:57:56He's 10 and she's 1,000.
00:58:01I love them because
00:58:03Amani and Matt accept me
00:58:05with my old past,
00:58:08with my job,
00:58:09with so many things in my life.
00:58:11The boat will take care of me,
00:58:13not only her, not only him.
00:58:15The boat.
00:58:16In the past,
00:58:18I don't feel that
00:58:19because my ex-boyfriends left me.
00:58:22But Amani and Matt
00:58:23stay around.
00:58:25And I am a stay with them.
00:58:38Amani and Matt,
00:58:39they tell me
00:58:40if I want to go
00:58:42or live together.
00:58:44I'm excited,
00:58:45but I'm feel nervous.
00:58:48I don't know.
00:58:48I don't know.
00:59:18I feel
00:59:19no issues,
00:59:24but
00:59:24I'm scared.
00:59:27I'm afraid.
00:59:35Mom?
00:59:36Yeah?
00:59:37All the way 7,000 miles.
00:59:40Nice and thin.
00:59:41Not for long.
00:59:42They're not in their own place
00:59:44and have to consider me here.
00:59:47I talked to her
00:59:47about sleeping in separate rooms.
00:59:49I mean,
00:59:49she was really upset.
00:59:50You know what I mean?
00:59:51She came here to be with me.
00:59:52And it really hit her hard.
00:59:54I don't know.
00:59:54You hungry, you know?
01:00:02Yeah.
01:00:03It's from french fries,
01:00:05chicken wrap.
01:00:08Amen.
01:00:11So I make all this
01:00:12from scratch.
01:00:13You know?
01:00:14Cut the potatoes,
01:00:16marinating the chicken.
01:00:18They're salty.
01:00:19Really?
01:00:19The fries
01:00:21and the fogging.
01:00:24Better do your homework.
01:00:26Better.
01:00:27I want the world to see.
01:00:35It's only you and me.
01:00:38So this is it.
01:00:40The humble abode.
01:00:41I'm looking for the first time.
01:00:52I'm seeing Greg's house
01:00:53for the first time.
01:00:55It's a very beautiful house,
01:00:57but after Greg told me
01:00:59that his mom told him
01:01:01we have to sleep
01:01:02in different rooms,
01:01:03it's really making me sad.
01:01:05I can't wait
01:01:06to introduce you to mom.
01:01:08If Greg had told me
01:01:09before I traveled,
01:01:10I wasn't coming to America.
01:01:13It's a bit heavy.
01:01:15Oh, yeah.
01:01:17So I come in?
01:01:18Yeah, yeah.
01:01:19I close this?
01:01:20Yeah.
01:01:21Okay.
01:01:22Mom?
01:01:23Yeah.
01:01:24Finally.
01:01:25What time is it?
01:01:26Quarter to ten.
01:01:28Yeah.
01:01:29Hello.
01:01:30Oh, my God.
01:01:32All the way.
01:01:34All the way.
01:01:357,000 miles.
01:01:36Hi.
01:01:37How are you?
01:01:38Hello.
01:01:39How was your trip?
01:01:44Tessa.
01:01:44Tessa.
01:01:45You're so tired.
01:01:46I see it in your eyes.
01:01:48You look so tired.
01:01:49But you made it.
01:01:50I can't believe it.
01:01:51Yeah.
01:01:52Oh, that's the dog.
01:01:54This is Daisy?
01:01:55That's Daisy, yeah.
01:01:56Good, good moment.
01:01:57Yeah.
01:01:59What do you think, mom?
01:02:00More beautiful in person?
01:02:01She's beautiful, right?
01:02:01She's tiny.
01:02:03Nice and thin.
01:02:04Not for long.
01:02:06Not for long being thin, right?
01:02:10Joan seems very shy and very clingy with Gregory.
01:02:15Are you guys hungry?
01:02:17You want to eat?
01:02:17I'm not.
01:02:18I'm tired.
01:02:19We were going to sit and talk over dinner.
01:02:24So, just real quick.
01:02:25This is a bathroom over here.
01:02:28Okay.
01:02:29There's things that have to be put out there, you know, on the table.
01:02:34And just think that they're not in their own place.
01:02:37And they have to consider me here.
01:02:41Oh, my.
01:02:44What do you got here?
01:02:44Bricks?
01:02:45Jesus.
01:02:4620 pounds of gobble golf.
01:02:50The unorganized room.
01:02:54So, it could be cleaner.
01:02:56Why do you have a 2017 calendar?
01:02:59I don't know.
01:03:00My mom put it up there.
01:03:01I just never really took it down.
01:03:02I guess I kind of just like the dogs, you know?
01:03:05They're adorable.
01:03:06This is obviously the bed.
01:03:08You know?
01:03:09And this, we're going to have to clear this out.
01:03:12Maybe you can help me.
01:03:14Obviously, you can have either side.
01:03:17What do you think?
01:03:18Not organized.
01:03:20In reality, I did clean a good portion of it.
01:03:24But my mom came in and just...
01:03:25Hoped to.
01:03:26Yeah.
01:03:27What do you think?
01:03:29This is Daisy or me?
01:03:30She jumped up.
01:03:31That's Daisy.
01:03:32She jumped up.
01:03:33Put her down.
01:03:35Daisy, you got to get down.
01:03:38I'm sorry.
01:03:39I'm not on bed.
01:03:41She's freaking out.
01:03:43All right.
01:03:43So, yeah, maybe this is it.
01:03:45That's the bed.
01:03:46No.
01:03:46No.
01:03:47No.
01:03:48Daisy, no.
01:03:50Yeah.
01:03:51In my country, dogs are outside the house.
01:03:55They're like security dogs.
01:03:57But in Greg's house, dogs come onto the bed.
01:04:01I've not been in that situation.
01:04:03You are sweating on them.
01:04:08Casey, I'm sorry.
01:04:10Want to take a shower?
01:04:11Okay.
01:04:11I'm so happy to finally be here with my fiancé, but everything here is very complicated.
01:04:21We have to be in his mother's house, us and two dogs, and we have to follow his mother's
01:04:27route.
01:04:28So, I think I'm going to need more time to be comfortable with everybody at the house,
01:04:33especially Mrs. Lucille.
01:04:37Oh, man.
01:04:38So, how'd it go?
01:04:45So, we were up there, and we were just hanging out, and all of some Daisy just jumped right
01:04:50on the bed, and she was just like, what?
01:04:52Like, she had someone about to talk on the bed, you know?
01:04:54Oh, no.
01:04:55You're going to have to push back a little on that person.
01:04:57We'll see what happens.
01:04:58We'll see what happens.
01:04:59Look at their paws, how clean they are.
01:05:01What'd she do, collapse?
01:05:07She went in the shower.
01:05:08She wants to go take a shower.
01:05:10Yeah, I know.
01:05:11She should be out now, right?
01:05:14No, I think she's probably still in.
01:05:17So, I don't know.
01:05:18I talked to her about sleeping in separate rooms.
01:05:20I mean, she was really upset.
01:05:21I mean, I guess in her perspective, it's like, you know what I mean?
01:05:24She came here to be with me, you know?
01:05:26I mean, it's not only that.
01:05:28It's like she is afraid of the dark, you know?
01:05:30And I don't blame her.
01:05:30She's afraid of the dark?
01:05:33Yeah, well, dark is different over there, you know what I mean?
01:05:35There's no lights, and, like, it's not easy.
01:05:37You know, you can wake up in the middle of the night, and there's no power, you know?
01:05:40Oh, okay.
01:05:41So?
01:05:41And she was kind of nervous to meet you.
01:05:43Like, she was really nervous to meet you because of all that.
01:05:45And it really hit her hard, and I don't know.
01:05:49I just can't wait to just hold her.
01:05:51Really, just every day.
01:05:52I don't know.
01:06:00Oh, it's okay, Greg.
01:06:05It's okay, Greg.
01:06:05I was just getting emotional about, you know, just not being, I guess, good enough.
01:06:18It's not that I'm not good enough for her, but just the fact that I never want to make
01:06:21her regret the sacrifice she's given to come here, and, you know, I don't want her to ever
01:06:25think that it's a waste of time to come here and, you know, give me the opportunities she
01:06:29has in her life.
01:06:31I just love her so much.
01:06:32I really do.
01:06:33Yeah.
01:06:34I mean, we can make the compromise leaving the door open.
01:06:40All right.
01:06:40Gregory is emotional, but I never see him break down like that, really, ever.
01:07:02That's it.
01:07:02I don't know.
01:07:03I got to get some sleep.
01:07:04Okay.
01:07:05Yeah, you better.
01:07:06Thank you, Mom.
01:07:07So there is a little fear.
01:07:08Gregory seems very happy today, very elated that she's here, and I'm hoping that she feels
01:07:16just as much for him as he does for her.
01:07:20Usually works out better that way.
01:07:26My daughter already has a bad impression of you from my family.
01:07:30I can't marry someone she doesn't like.
01:07:33Are you kidding with me, babe?
01:07:35No, I'm just curious.
01:07:35Is that threat?
01:07:37This is what I am.
01:07:37I'm an asshole sometimes, but I'm cute.
01:07:40Don't be an asshole in front of her.
01:07:42If she doesn't like me, I will come back.
01:07:44What did you do there?
01:08:01Like magic?
01:08:02Voodoo?
01:08:03I turned you from a f*** boy into a real man.
01:08:05That's what I did.
01:08:06You turned me from f*** boy to a f*** boy.
01:08:09Okay, babe.
01:08:10Today is the big day.
01:08:21We're finally leaving Istanbul, and Sarber is coming to the United States with me.
01:08:26You're taking half of my house with us.
01:08:29I know, but three of these are mine.
01:08:32Three of these are yours.
01:08:33I know.
01:08:33I'm coming to the U.S. permanently.
01:08:35I know, babe.
01:08:36And three of them are yours.
01:08:39I'm leaving everything behind my cozy apartment.
01:08:42Many memories with Shekinah, my love.
01:08:45It's been a long journey for me, and living there, setting up a life there by my own.
01:08:55Ultimately, it's the apartment or me, so I'm glad you chose me.
01:08:59Yeah.
01:08:59Thanks, babe.
01:09:00I make sacrifices for this relationship.
01:09:03No.
01:09:05Babe, I want to talk to you really quick before we go about one thing, and it is really important.
01:09:12What's that?
01:09:12I just can't help but think about how bad it went with Shariah.
01:09:16Yeah.
01:09:17And it just can't go like that with Sophie, you know?
01:09:22I do worry that my daughter, Sophie, won't be able to make an unbiased decision about what she thinks about Sarber
01:09:28because of what she's heard happened when my sister, Shariah, came to Turkey to meet Sarber.
01:09:33I want always to debate these issues face to face.
01:09:37If she's texting, she acts like a slut, you know?
01:09:42Wait, what?
01:09:43Slut.
01:09:44What I see from him is someone who wants to have control.
01:09:48He wants to tell you the way it's going to be.
01:09:50This wasn't his best night.
01:09:51I don't look at it that way.
01:09:54Sophie has never met Sarber before, and it's really important to me for my daughter to see me in a happy and healthy relationship,
01:10:01and it's important to me that she likes him.
01:10:05My daughter already has a bad impression of you from my family.
01:10:10You need to really think about everything you say because if she doesn't like you, I can't marry someone she doesn't like.
01:10:19That's my daughter.
01:10:20Are you kidding with me, babe?
01:10:24No, I'm serious.
01:10:24Is it a threat?
01:10:27Well, I think it's good for you to think about before we leave.
01:10:30You have to think about this stuff.
01:10:32Okay, no problem.
01:10:32If she doesn't like me, it will be a touristic travel for me, and I will come back.
01:10:38That's how you think about it?
01:10:39If you don't marry with me, then I have to come back.
01:10:43Why don't you just say something like, she's going to love me, I'm going to do my best.
01:10:47She's going to love me, I will do my best.
01:10:48Of course I will do my best.
01:10:50But what do you want me to do?
01:10:51I cannot do extra than my character, you know?
01:10:55This is what I am.
01:10:56I'm an asshole sometimes, but I'm cute.
01:10:59Don't be an asshole in front of her.
01:11:01Okay, only cute.
01:11:02That's all I have to say.
01:11:02Only cute.
01:11:03Only be cute, please.
01:11:06I don't want our destiny or fate of our relationship to be on her lips.
01:11:11I don't like Sarpur, so I don't want you to marry Mama.
01:11:17I mean, it's not fair.
01:11:20Oh my God.
01:11:21I think they are here.
01:11:23How are we going to push all of these?
01:11:27Sophie is her daughter, but she's a teenager.
01:11:30I hope, even if she doesn't like me, she kind of sees that I'm trying my best, because
01:11:35I am also making a sacrifice.
01:11:39Why don't you?
01:11:40I don't know.
01:11:42I don't know.
01:11:42Why don't you?
01:11:42I don't know.
01:11:45Hey.
01:11:45Bye.
01:11:46Hi.
01:11:48How are you, Baba?
01:11:52Hi, OK.
01:11:52Bye.
01:11:59Bye.
01:12:00Bye.
01:12:04Bye.
01:12:04Bye.
01:12:04Bye.
01:12:06Bye.
01:12:06Bye.
01:12:08Bye.
01:12:08Bye.
01:12:08Bye.
01:12:09Bye.
01:12:09Bye.
01:12:09Bye.
01:12:09Bye.
01:12:10Bye.
01:12:10Bye.
01:12:10No way.
01:12:14People go so long.
01:12:18No way.
01:12:20No way.
01:12:22No way.
01:12:24No way.
01:12:26No way.
01:12:30No way.
01:12:32driving to the airport everything is surreal i have to be so excited i'm going to a new country
01:12:41with the girl i love to set up a new life with her but i'm not because i'm leaving everything behind
01:12:48including my parents
01:12:50hen seviniyorum hem üzülüyorum hem istiyorum gitsin orada bir istikbali olsun ama bir
01:13:01yandan sevdiği kadınla beraber olsun ama tabi ayrılık çok acı
01:13:09Okay.
01:13:18Allah sizi korusun.
01:13:24You okay, babe?
01:13:28Right now, I'm walking away from my parents and it's so heartbreaking, you know?
01:13:34I wish I could take them with me.
01:13:39They said everything will be okay, but they cannot move it.
01:13:42And I hate the feeling of if something happens and if I don't know,
01:13:47that would probably kill me.
01:13:49So I hope that sacrifice worth something.
01:13:57You okay?
01:13:59I am, babe.
01:14:01Let's go.
01:14:05I can't wait to take you to see the family,
01:14:07to see Jordan and talk with her.
01:14:09Tell me, is she and me is enemies?
01:14:12No, no, no.
01:14:13You're not enemies.
01:14:14Her concern is just about,
01:14:16does dad really need to have more kids?
01:14:19Crap.
01:14:21Jordan is a hypocrite.
01:14:23Why you don't talk to me direct?
01:14:25She don't have the authorization for coming in your relationship with me.
01:14:30It's a snake.
01:14:31No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
01:14:32My daughter is not a snake.
01:14:34Bull .
01:14:35She's waiting for me.
01:14:47And I know where.
01:14:48Maria, it's time for heat.
01:14:53It's gas station pasta, baby girl.
01:14:55It looks good, though.
01:14:57She's waiting for me.
01:15:01And I know where.
01:15:03Gas station pasta, gas station wine.
01:15:06Let's see.
01:15:07Santé, baby.
01:15:08Santé.
01:15:10Maria, stop.
01:15:11Maria.
01:15:15Where's the...
01:15:17Maria, you okay?
01:15:20Maria, look.
01:15:24It's not working.
01:15:27It's not working.
01:15:28It's not working, daddy.
01:15:29You sure?
01:15:30Yeah.
01:15:31I'll take her to bed.
01:15:32She's tired.
01:15:33Okay.
01:15:33Maria, go.
01:15:35Come on.
01:15:35You finish.
01:15:36You'll have some more wine and relax.
01:15:39Tu sais, baby, Maria,
01:15:41elle a un peu le palais français.
01:15:44She don't like the pasta gas station because she's...
01:15:49Of course.
01:15:50I understand.
01:15:51No.
01:15:52Not everything we eat or make is going to be from a gas station.
01:15:56There is good food in America.
01:15:58Not everywhere is like Paris,
01:16:00but we can find some good food, I promise you.
01:16:02Finally, Maria, she's asleep.
01:16:15Yeah.
01:16:16All right, come on.
01:16:17This is like Santorini.
01:16:18Why are we Santorini?
01:16:19Yeah.
01:16:20It's so good.
01:16:21I don't think I can.
01:16:23It's so good.
01:16:24I don't think I can.
01:16:26I don't think I can.
01:16:27I don't think I can.
01:16:28Thank you, baby.
01:16:32Oh, yeah.
01:16:33Santorini.
01:16:34Yes.
01:16:35Very nice.
01:16:36Mm-hmm.
01:16:39You see the beauty of New Hampshire?
01:16:46You know, it's quiet.
01:16:47It's calm.
01:16:48I want Maria to see this, too.
01:16:50And you maybe will like it, you know?
01:16:52I think you enjoy it, so you give it a shot, okay?
01:16:55And, baby, you know, I can't wait to take you down.
01:17:01You know, we'll go south to see the family.
01:17:03You know, I want you to see Jordan and talk with her
01:17:05more than in Paris for the weekend.
01:17:08And it's important to me that you and Jordan get along.
01:17:12And you're her stepmother, you know?
01:17:14Yeah.
01:17:14I stress.
01:17:15I know, because she's 27.
01:17:17But it's important we get that relationship going, you know?
01:17:21Yeah, I know.
01:17:25You know, Mina already not adjusting to New Hampshire
01:17:28is starting to stress me out a little bit.
01:17:31But, you know, even beyond that, I'm a little worried
01:17:34about how she's going to fit into the family.
01:17:37I know my daughter Jordan has a lot of concerns,
01:17:40and, you know, that's been weighing on me tremendously.
01:17:43You know, I don't have a problem with the family,
01:17:48but I have an impression that Jordan and me is a competition.
01:17:54No, it's not competition.
01:17:55For your hair.
01:17:56It's different.
01:17:57There's room for both of you.
01:17:58I love you both.
01:17:59I'm not going to stop loving you both.
01:18:01She has concerns.
01:18:04Why is it concerns?
01:18:05You know, there's a big age gap,
01:18:08even because she was only around you the one weekend.
01:18:10So are you marrying me for love or just to come to the USA?
01:18:13Tell me, she and me is enemies?
01:18:16No, no, no.
01:18:17You're not enemies.
01:18:17Give her a chance to know you and love you.
01:18:20I give a chance for your family every time.
01:18:23Every time was one time in Paris.
01:18:25One time in Paris for the baby baptism.
01:18:28She was mad about you guys not having more time together.
01:18:32But this is, she, me and her are very close.
01:18:35Father, daughter.
01:18:36So her concern is just about,
01:18:39does dad really need to have more kids?
01:18:43Obviously, we have a baby together, you know?
01:18:46Baby, I'm sorry.
01:18:47Okay.
01:18:52Baby, come on, stop.
01:18:53No, because it's true.
01:18:55It's just, uh...
01:18:57I don't think you need to cry.
01:18:58No, because...
01:19:00You know, it's my emotion, you know?
01:19:03I know, it's my emotion.
01:19:04I come here.
01:19:05I come for my new family.
01:19:09And this, I don't understand
01:19:10why she changed me the bull...
01:19:14For me, Jordan is a hypocrite
01:19:20because I'm in Paris, she's dancing with me.
01:19:23I have followed by Jordan, she's my...
01:19:27And he talked to the father.
01:19:29He don't like this, this.
01:19:31Why he don't talk to me direct?
01:19:35I'm not happy.
01:19:36I don't know.
01:19:37I'm not comfortable for talking with Jordan
01:19:40because now I say, I say I'm a snake, you know?
01:19:44No, no, no, no, no.
01:19:45Don't compare.
01:19:46Oh, I don't go.
01:19:47This, my daughter is not a snake.
01:19:50She's, she...
01:19:51My daughter just...
01:19:51It's the same.
01:19:52The depression is emotion.
01:19:53Right now, this is your impression.
01:19:54This is your impression.
01:19:55No, no, no, it's not my impression.
01:19:57She say, I'm not sure.
01:19:59It's the same snake.
01:20:00I'm not sure she loves my dad.
01:20:02She...
01:20:02My dad is stupid.
01:20:04Stay with this girl or not.
01:20:05It's coming just for the green card or not.
01:20:07You understand me?
01:20:08I know you, you listen to Jordan.
01:20:12Of course I do.
01:20:12She's my daughter.
01:20:13But I listen to you.
01:20:14No.
01:20:15If she's your daughter, yes.
01:20:17But she stay in the place.
01:20:18She don't have the authorizations for coming in your life
01:20:22and your relationship with me.
01:20:25Listen, I'm just gonna say this again,
01:20:27so I hope you understand.
01:20:29She only wants to be sure I'm not making a mistake.
01:20:35I'm going to the bat, okay?
01:20:37Serious?
01:20:38Yeah.
01:20:39I don't know how to do that.
01:20:40Please, you don't come in the bed, okay?
01:20:43Serious?
01:20:44Yeah.
01:20:45I'm very serious.
01:20:47You call Jordan?
01:20:50Oh, f***.
01:20:53We're home.
01:20:54Go on, get rid of it.
01:20:55Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:20:58It feels weird.
01:20:59I'm really hoping Maddie will feel at home here.
01:21:02Oh, my God.
01:21:03Why do you have boobs?
01:21:05I see boobs everywhere, like boobs, boobs, boobs.
01:21:11I swear I didn't know you were, like, doing this a lot.
01:21:14Coming from a country that you might get arrested
01:21:17if you have a naked girl picture,
01:21:19I wish you would have hidden them.
01:21:21Oh, my God.
01:21:25I can't wait to squeeze that booty.
01:21:27Ooh, I'm all alone.
01:21:29Bye, Greg.
01:21:31I want me and Greg to get our own house soon,
01:21:35because we need to build our future.
01:21:37You know I declined that state job?
01:21:39You did?
01:21:40We need the money.
01:21:41Douglas is very sweet and very shy and simple,
01:21:47but now everything's a different playing field.
01:21:53Aaliyah was born, so there is no more Douglas.
01:21:56Oh, my God, my visa interview is tomorrow.
01:22:00I was wondering if I should go as a boy.
01:22:04Aaliyah shows up at the interview,
01:22:05and they're expecting a Douglas.
01:22:07That could be the end of our journey right then and there.
01:22:10I can't imagine how painful it can be
01:22:12to have to pretend to be another person.
01:22:14It's so hard already to find your person.
01:22:29I long find the third person,
01:22:32so there's so much to lose.
01:22:38How you been?
01:22:38Been a while?
01:22:39For me, I need one more baby.
01:22:42He might tell me he needs authorization to draw them.
01:22:47If he makes you happy, his daughter loses.
01:22:50If he says we have no more babies, you lose.
01:22:53Maybe I made a mistake coming to live with Mark in America.
01:22:58The problem is Mark.
01:23:02You haven't answered my questions yet.
01:23:05What happened on the cruise?
01:23:07That's my pride in that.
01:23:08On his last cruise,
01:23:12he allegedly cheated with a woman.
01:23:16Girls have intuition,
01:23:17and I want honesty from Juan.
01:23:21Did you sleep with that girl?
01:23:22Did you sleep with that girl?
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