00:00that like telling my husband i don't have the money to pay the mortgage trend was truly designed
00:04in a lab to irritate me personally because first of all i loathe couples accounts and couples
00:08content generally like please stop shoving a camera in this man's face and pretending like
00:12these are genuine reactions like i don't want to see your husband being all fake sexy like baby
00:17you know you don't pay the mortgage in this house then the comments being flooded with people taking
00:21it at face value and being like god i've seen what you've done for others but what i really
00:24hate is that the general vibe of most of these videos especially the ones that go viral is it's
00:28like a laughable unthinkable situation that the wife would be paying the mortgage or really any bills
00:33and i do personally pay the mortgage in my house every month and i'm proud to do so so obviously i'm
00:38a little biased but i think the general underlying message is still very much worth unpacking because
00:43i do think this generation is getting far enough removed from the time when women had literally no
00:47financial independence to now idolize voluntarily choosing that and it's not to say that a woman
00:53has to pay the bills but like she should know who has the mortgage she should have access to all the
00:56accounts she should be aware of what bills are being paid and how much they are she should also
01:00have her own emergency fund in addition to the one shared by the couple should for any reason she
01:05need to leave because you know what a healthy couple situation would be a couple having shared
01:09visibility into their finances the person who handles one bill saying hey it looks like we don't
01:14have enough to cover it and the couple sitting down and figuring out how they're going to handle
01:18that from a budgetary perspective now and going forward but i guess that doesn't get views
01:22that right from that point of view i'll um it is цел ...
01:28that's a pretty good comment
01:36i mean it's getting� to know a little bit on the individual
01:39is trying to do it and i know who will leave you at the close 전
01:42to see you know it will make them available
01:44and we're done with them all right then you would hit me around
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