How To Compliment a Girl Over Text

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In this video, I'm going to explain to you the best way to compliment a girl over text and also the reasons why you shouldn't do it and what to do instead.   WATCH NOW: How to Meet Girls for Relationships, Dating, & Sex (Exact Steps!) https://youtu.be/DcbLq0e9HLc   WHO AM I:  Hi, I’m Eddy Baller, author & founder of Conquer & Win.  I’ve been a dating and relationship coach since 2011, and since then I have helped men across the globe to build their social confidence and get the dates and relationships they deserve.    FOR COACHING, GO TO: https://www.conquerandwin.com/vancouver-dating-coach/   GET IN TOUCH:  If you’d like to talk, I’d love to hear from you. Emailing me at eddy@conquerandwin.com directly will be the quickest way to get a response. I try my best to reply to things but there sadly aren’t enough hours in the day to respond to everyone though I’d get there as soon as I can.    ▼ see below for links & more ▼ ✉️  Sign up to my weekly email newsletter - https://www.conquerandwin.com/contact/ 🌍  My website / blog - https://www.conquerandwin.com 📸  Instagram - https://instagram.com/conquerandwin

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00:00All right, you're watching this video because you want to know how to compliment a girl over text.

00:04The answer is don't. But if you want to do it anyways, I'm going to explain the best way to do it

00:08and also the reasons why you shouldn't compliment girls over text and what to do instead.

00:12I'm Eddie Baller and I'm a dating coach and the owner of ConquerWin.com and I've been coaching men since 2011

00:16to build their confidence and meet the kind of women they deserve. Now I know it works from thousands of

00:20personal experiences as well as watching my clients infield regardless of their height,

00:24age, race, looks or financial status. So let's jump into it.

00:30Why you shouldn't compliment girls over text? Now a lot of this depends on your scenario. Have you

00:36known this girl for a long time? Is it somebody you're already dating? Or is it somebody you just

00:40met? If it's someone you just met, you really shouldn't be sending compliments over text.

00:44It just looks needy. And typically when guys are sending compliments, especially a lot of compliments,

00:48it's because they're hoping to get something back. They think that by sending a girl a compliment

00:53that she's going to fall magically in love with him or be attracted to him by virtue of his compliment

00:58giving. But it just doesn't work that way. Now sincere compliments are great, but you don't want

01:02to overdo it in any case. Now sending compliments to girls over text will validate her but do

01:07absolutely nothing for you, right? It's not going to improve your position. It's not going to improve

01:10her interest in you or attraction for you. Another downside is that it can look like you're trying

01:14too hard. Now if you're a guy who has shit going on and you're calm, cool and collected, right? You can

01:19hold your own. You're not desperate for any girl. It's very unlikely you're going to be sending a whole

01:23much of compliments to a girl over text. And even in person, if you're already dating with her

01:28and that's great, she has some interest in you, giving her compliments is not going to make her

01:32like you more. Now I don't want to make it sound like I'm completely against compliments. Actually

01:35one of the approaches I use, uses a compliment to get it started, right? But that's just for the

01:39opener, right? Once you tell her why you're there and you tell her, you know, you thought she was

01:43really cute or whatever, that's kind of where it ends, right? You're just giving her the reason

01:47that's why you came to talk to her. And if a guy keeps giving compliments after that point,

01:50it's going to create that needy look. It's just not a good fit. So now that I covered why you

01:54probably shouldn't send her a compliment over text, I'm going to cover how to compliment a girl over

01:58text. If you still really want to send her a compliment over text, just keep these rules of

02:02thumb in mind. Number one, don't overdo it. Just like spice is really good when you put a little

02:07bit of spice on there, overdoing it is going to create an overwhelming flavor basically or like

02:11adding too much salt or, you know, any other kind of comparison like that. It's basically the same

02:15thing. It just doesn't come across too strong. Number two, just keep the compliment pretty chill or low-key

02:20or, you know, however you want to describe it, but basically don't give her a really strong

02:23compliment. Just focus on something that's kind of subtle compliment, something that's nice and light.

02:28Number three, keep it very infrequent. If you give her a compliment over text, make sure you're not

02:33sending your compliments over text every week or every day or even every month, right? You're going

02:37to have to kind of play this by ear and see how your relationship's developing and, you know,

02:40decide what's going to be best for you. But, you know, keeping it infrequent is going to make it a lot

02:45more sincere too. She's actually going to appreciate any compliments you give her because she's going to know

02:49you mean it. Number four, it's better to compliment her on something she's done as opposed to her

02:54appearance. She already knows you find her attractive. Occasionally, you'll get very infrequently. You

02:58might bring up something you like about her physically, but it's better to compliment the

03:02things she's done, compliment her mind, and she'll appreciate those more, generally speaking. Now,

03:07obviously, things are going to change as your relationship develops and you get to know each

03:11other. You have a good connection with each other. You know, you have to be too restrained about how

03:14you're complimenting her or not complimenting her and have some kind of special formula. You're just going to do

03:19it when you want to do it, right? If you feel like it, and that's totally fine. In a serious relationship,

03:23it's good to give some compliments. It's good to give some praise and positive reinforcement. And

03:27how often you compliment her is something you should decide based on what kind of relationship you have.

03:31But when you're just starting the date, keep it a lot more sparse. For full information on how to

03:35text a girl, check out the link in the description or the comment section below. If you have any comments,

03:39leave them below. And until next time, conquer and win.

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