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Choisissez le jeu qui vous plaît le plus et explorez en profondeur les épreuves et la protection de l'intimité, l'adaptation et le développement d'une relation stagnante, ou la guérison et l'autoprotection après une rupture. Chaque jeu est accompagné de sa propre validation énergétique et de conseils sur les limites à respecter pour vous aider à dissiper la confusion et le brouillard.
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00:00 Ouverture et Guidance Énergie
04:05 Groupe 1
14:14 Groupe 2
23:38 Groupe 3
33:10 Trois Limites Guident le Jugement
45:29 Résumé et Commentaires
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Choisissez le jeu qui vous plaît le plus et explorez en profondeur les épreuves et la protection de l'intimité, l'adaptation et le développement d'une relation stagnante, ou la guérison et l'autoprotection après une rupture. Chaque jeu est accompagné de sa propre validation énergétique et de conseils sur les limites à respecter pour vous aider à dissiper la confusion et le brouillard.
[Horodatage]
00:00 Ouverture et Guidance Énergie
04:05 Groupe 1
14:14 Groupe 2
23:38 Groupe 3
33:10 Trois Limites Guident le Jugement
45:29 Résumé et Commentaires
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00:00Dear soul family, hello everyone. Welcome to today's Love Tarot reading. I am your tarot
00:06reader and today I'm bringing you a very special topic that everyone cares about most.
00:12Where is his true heart hidden? Set your three boundaries. Before we begin, I want to ask those
00:18watching. Are you currently in a confusing relationship? Are you always guessing what
00:24the other person is thinking? Do you feel anxious and insecure in an ambiguous relationship?
00:30Or are you already together but starting to doubt whether his true heart is still there?
00:35Or perhaps you've just gone through a breakup and want to know if he still loves you? Today's
00:40reading will explore these questions in depth and more importantly, we won't just find out where his
00:46true heart lies but also help you establish healthy relationship boundaries. Because true love shouldn't
00:53make you lose yourself but help you become a better version of yourself. Setting boundaries in love
00:59isn't about shutting the other person out but about protecting your inner self so love can grow in a
01:05healthy environment. Today, through three different card spreads, I'll provide guidance for different
01:11situations. Each set of cards will tell you where exactly his true heart is hidden and the three
01:18important boundaries you most need to set. Please remember, the accuracy of this reading will increase
01:25with your level of focus. So before choosing cards, please take three deep breaths, eliminate all
01:31distracting thoughts, and focus on the person you want to understand. If you're ready, let's begin
01:38today's spiritual journey. Card selection instructions and guidance. Now let me introduce today's three card
01:45spreads. Each has its unique energy frequency corresponding to different relationship states. First card spread.
01:54This set is especially suitable for those in the ambiguous stage, crush period, or just beginning
02:01to have feelings. If you're still testing each other, uncertain whether the other person is interested in
02:07you, or want to know if this relationship is worth continuing to invest in, this set will give you
02:13clear answers. It will also tell you the three boundaries you most need to protect at this stage.
02:19Second card spread. This set is suitable for those already together, but recently feeling the
02:26relationship is somewhat stagnant or changing. Maybe you're experiencing a cold war, or you feel
02:32he's been different lately and are starting to doubt his true heart. This set will reveal his true inner
02:38thoughts and how you need to adjust your boundaries to protect this relationship. Third card spread.
02:44This set is suitable for those experiencing breakup, no contact, or in a complicated love triangle. If you
02:52want to know if there's still a chance for reconciliation, or want to understand the real
02:57reason he left, this set will give you deep insights. It will also help you establish the most important
03:04self-protection mechanisms. Please choose by your first instinct. Don't think too long. Usually the first
03:12group that catches your attention is the message the universe wants to deliver to you. If you're still
03:18hesitating, close your eyes, silently repeat the person's name three times in your heart, then open
03:24your eyes and see which group attracts you most. While you're making your choice, please tell me in the
03:30comments. In a relationship, what can't you accept the most? Is it betrayal? Silent treatment? Or not being
03:38valued? Your sharing not only helps energy flow, but might also help other friends with similar
03:44troubles. Remember to like and subscribe. Turn on the notification bell so you won't miss weekly love
03:50guidance. First group. Energy verification. Friends who chose the first group before the formal reading,
03:58let's first conduct energy verification. This step is very important as it confirms whether this group's
04:05message resonates with you. Please close your eyes now and place your hands on your heart.
04:11Take a deep breath and feel your heartbeat. Now think about the person who confuses you in your
04:16heart. Think about their appearance, their voice, or your most recent interaction. If you experience any
04:23of the following situations, it means this group's energy completely corresponds with you. Sudden
04:29acceleration of heartbeat or heat in chest. Feeling of butterflies in stomach. Eyelet twitching or
04:36slight pressure in head. Sweaty palms or tingling in fingers. Suddenly remembering a specific scene or
04:43conversation with them. Feeling like smiling or eyes slightly warming. If you have any of these
04:50feelings, congratulations, this group's message will be particularly accurate. If not yet, don't worry,
04:56keep an open heart and the message will still reach you. Reading interpretation. This is a very rich and
05:03positive energy spread. I must first congratulate friends who chose this group, because this combination
05:10clearly shows. He does have true feelings for you, and these feelings are deeper than you imagine.
05:17Where is his true heart? The page of wands as the opening tells me he has fresh and pure interest in you.
05:23The page of wands represents curiosity and adventurous spirit. He looks at you like looking at a gift full
05:30of surprises. He might use seemingly childish or clumsy ways to attract your attention, like deliberately
05:37showing off in front of you, creating chance encounters, or using boring excuses to chat with you.
05:44These behaviors seem immature but are actually expressions of his true heart. The queen of wands'
05:50appearance further confirms his inner passion. The queen of wands is full of charm and confidence,
05:57meaning he really wants to show his best self in front of you. He might pay special attention to his
06:03appearance or act particularly positive in front of you. But at the same time, the queen of cups'
06:09appearance tells us another layer. He also has a delicate and sensitive side. The queen of cups represents
06:16deep emotions and intuition, meaning his feelings for you aren't just surface attraction but have deeper
06:23emotional connection. He can sense your emotional changes, silently remembers what you've said,
06:30notices your little habits. But this sensitivity also makes him cautious, afraid his true heart will be
06:37rejected or hurt. The temperance card is the core energy of the entire spread.
06:42This major arcana card's appearance is very important. It tells us he's trying hard to find
06:48balance. On one hand, he wants to bravely pursue you and express his feelings. On the other hand,
06:55he wants to remain rational and not appear too eager or scare you. This inner struggle might make his
07:01behavior seem contradictory, sometimes very proactive, sometimes suddenly withdrawing.
07:07His inner world and considerations. The king of swords and king of pentacles appearing together
07:13is a very interesting combination. The king of swords represents rational thinking and logical analysis.
07:21He evaluates this relationship very rationally. He might think, are our personalities compatible?
07:28Are our values similar? Does this relationship have a future? He's not someone who acts only on feelings.
07:35He needs to confirm this relationship is worth investing in. The king of pentacles shows he
07:42values material foundation and stability. He's considering not just current feelings but the
07:47long-term future. He might worry, are my current conditions good enough? Can I give her the life she
07:55wants? Am I ready to commit to a serious relationship? This practical thinking might make him seem hesitant
08:02or conservative, but it's actually because he considers this relationship very important.
08:07The wheel of fortune brings a message from the universe. This card tells us your meeting is no
08:13coincidence but destiny's arrangement. You're now at an important turning point, and future development
08:20will depend on both your choices. The wheel also represents cycles and changes, suggesting your relationship
08:27is about to enter a new phase. The universe is pushing this relationship forward, but you need
08:33to actively seize the opportunity. Beautiful potential for future development. The sun card's appearance
08:40really makes me happy for you. This is one of the most positive and bright cards in tarot.
08:46The sun represents success, joy, and fulfillment, indicating this relationship has extremely beautiful
08:53future potential. If you can break through the current ambiguous period, you'll welcome a relationship
08:59full of sunshine, happiness, and satisfaction. Being together will feel very natural and comfortable,
09:07warming each other like sunshine. The knight of pentacles shows he's about to take practical action.
09:14This won't be dramatic confession but proving his intentions through actual actions. He might start
09:20asking you out more frequently, actively helping solve your problems, or appearing when you need him.
09:26The knight of pentacles is steady and reliable energy. He'll express love through actions rather than
09:32words. The ten of cups' appearance further confirms this relationship's beautiful outcome.
09:38The ten of cups symbolizes emotional satisfaction and family harmony, representing living happily ever after.
09:46If you can be together, you'll establish a relationship that makes both feel happy and satisfied,
09:53possibly even developing into a long-term partnership or marriage.
09:57Challenges and obstacles to note. However, we also need to honestly face some challenges.
10:04The seven of pentacles reminds us to be patient.
10:07This card represents waiting and evaluation.
10:11He might be waiting for a better time or preparing more for this relationship.
10:15He doesn't want to act hastily but hopes everything is ready before officially starting.
10:21This might make you anxious but please believe good things are worth waiting for.
10:26The five of pentacles and two of swords combination reveals his inner fears and struggles.
10:31The five of pentacles represents feelings of lack and insecurity.
10:36He might have been hurt in relationships before or isn't confident enough about his conditions.
10:41He might think,
10:43Am I worthy of her? What if I'm rejected? Will I disappoint her?
10:49The two of swords shows his difficulty making decisions.
10:53He's like being blindfolded, hesitating between two choices.
10:57Bravely move forward or maintain safe distance.
11:01Confess now or wait and see.
11:03This inner struggle might make his behavior seem inconsistent.
11:06Approaching then distancing.
11:09The ace of pentacles as the final message brings energy of new beginnings.
11:14This card represents new opportunities and substantial development.
11:18Suggesting your relationship is about to have substantial progress.
11:23It might be an important conversation, a clear confession, or confirmation of relationship status.
11:30Your three important boundaries to set.
11:32Based on this group's energy, I'll provide three most important relationship boundaries.
11:39First boundary, time boundary.
11:42Set a reasonable deadline for this ambiguity.
11:45I suggest three months.
11:47If after three months he still hasn't clearly expressed himself or made substantial progress,
11:52you need to actively make a choice.
11:55You can choose to directly ask his thoughts or choose to exit this relationship.
11:59Remember, your time and youth are precious and shouldn't wait indefinitely for an uncertain answer.
12:06Time boundaries help you avoid falling into endless ambiguous entanglement.
12:11Second boundary.
12:13Emotional investment boundary.
12:15Before he clearly expresses himself, control your degree of emotional investment.
12:20You can enjoy the present beauty and ambiguous sweetness, but don't invest all your emotions.
12:26Maintain certain rationality and independence.
12:30Continue living your life well.
12:31Don't give up your friends, interests, or goals for him.
12:35Remember, in a relationship without commitment, you have no obligation to give everything for him.
12:41Protect your heart until he proves himself worthy of your complete investment.
12:46Third boundary.
12:47Self-worth boundary.
12:49Most importantly, absolutely don't lower your standards or value because of waiting for his true heart.
12:55You deserve to be actively pursued, deserve to be clearly chosen, deserve to be cherished.
13:02If he always makes you guess, makes you anxious, makes you doubt yourself, then you have the right to leave.
13:08Don't accept any disrespect or lack of attention just because you like him.
13:12Your value doesn't need to be proven through his recognition.
13:16You are complete and beautiful in yourself.
13:19Second group.
13:20Energy verification.
13:21Friends who chose the second group, let's first verify the energy connection.
13:28This step ensures the following messages are accurately delivered to you.
13:32Please adjust your sitting position now to feel comfortable.
13:36Put one hand on your chest, the other on your stomach.
13:40Breathe slowly and deeply.
13:42Feeling the breath flowing through your body.
13:44Now, imagine there's an invisible energy line connecting your hearts between you and him.
13:49If you experience the following feelings, it means this group's cards are completely in sync with your energy.
13:56Heaviness or pressure in chest.
13:59Feeling like sighing or need to breathe deeply.
14:02I suddenly moistening or urge to cry.
14:05Tension in shoulders or neck.
14:07Stomach tightening or churning.
14:09Suddenly remembering a specific argument or beautiful memory between you.
14:14Feeling tired or wanting to let go of something.
14:18These feelings are normal energy responses, representing your subconscious receiving messages from the universe.
14:25Take a deep breath.
14:27Let's begin the reading.
14:29Reading interpretation.
14:30This group's energy tells me you're in a relationship transition period.
14:34Maybe you've been together for a while but recently feel something's different.
14:40Perhaps passion has cooled.
14:42Perhaps communication has decreased.
14:44Perhaps you're starting to doubt his feelings.
14:47Let me reveal the truth for you.
14:49Analysis of his true heart's current state.
14:53The two of wands as the opening immediately reveals his current psychological state.
14:58He's planning and thinking about the future.
15:01This card shows he hasn't stopped loving you,
15:03but is seriously thinking about this relationship's next step.
15:08He stands high overlooking, holding a globe,
15:11representing he's considering the bigger picture.
15:14What will our future be like?
15:16How can I take this relationship to the next level?
15:20How do we overcome the challenges we face?
15:23The Page of Cups brings an important message.
15:26He actually wants to rediscover the feeling of first love.
15:29The Page of Cups represents innocent love and fresh emotions.
15:34He yearns to return to the excitement and sweetness when you first got together.
15:39He might miss your first date, first time holding hands, first time saying I love you.
15:44This isn't because he doesn't love you anymore,
15:46but because daily life's pressure temporarily made him forget those beautiful moments.
15:51The Ace of Pentacles shows this relationship actually has potential for new beginnings.
15:58This card represents new opportunities and substantial development,
16:02suggesting your relationship can enter a new phase,
16:05possibly moving in together, engagement, or planning the future together.
16:11The key is you need to work together to seize this opportunity to start anew.
16:15His Deep Feelings for You
16:17The Knight of Cups and King of Cups appearing together is a very meaningful combination.
16:23The Knight of Cups represents the romantic pursuer,
16:26while the King of Cups represents mature love.
16:30This shows his feelings for you are undergoing transformation,
16:33from initial passionate romance to deeper, more mature love.
16:38The Knight of Cups tells me he actually wants to do romantic things for you,
16:42wants to pursue you again, make you feel loved again.
16:45He might be planning special surprises or wanting to take you to revisit your memory lanes.
16:51The King of Cups shows he's already treating you as the most important person in his life.
16:56His love is no longer just passion but includes responsibility, commitment, and deep care.
17:03The Six of Wands is a symbol of victory and recognition.
17:07This card tells us he's actually proud of the challenges you've overcome together.
17:11You might have overcome many difficulties together, family opposition,
17:16long-distance relationship, financial pressure, etc.
17:21These experiences have made your relationship stronger.
17:24He knows this deeply and feels proud of it.
17:27The Six of Cups brings nostalgic and innocent energy.
17:31He often recalls your best times together, those simple and happy days.
17:36Maybe the first movie you watched together, first trip, or quiet afternoons cuddling together.
17:42These memories are his most precious treasures and motivation to keep going.
17:47Challenges and pressures in the relationship.
17:50But we must also face some issues squarely.
17:53The hanged man's appearance reveals his current predicament.
17:56He feels trapped and needs to look at problems from different angles.
18:00The hanged man represents sacrifice and waiting.
18:03He might have given up something for this relationship.
18:07Perhaps personal dreams, friend circles, or certain opportunities.
18:12This sacrifice creates some pressure and confusion.
18:16The Nine of Swords reveals anxiety and worry deep in his heart.
18:20This card represents insomnia, overthinking, and mental pressure.
18:25He might often lie awake at night thinking about various problems.
18:28Work pressure, financial burden, uncertainty about the future, worries about the relationship.
18:36These anxieties affect his performance in the relationship, making him silent, distant, or irritable.
18:44The Page of Pentacles and Eight of Pentacles combination shows he's working hard to learn and improve.
18:50The Page of Pentacles represents learning new skills, while the Eight of Pentacles represents diligent work.
18:57He might be working to improve himself, learning how to be a better partner, working hard to improve finances, or working on personal growth.
19:06He knows he needs to grow and is quietly working on it.
19:09The Relationship's Ultimate Direction
19:12The Ten of Pentacles and the World Card combination brings very positive messages.
19:18The Ten of Pentacles represents family fulfillment and material abundance, while the World represents completion and achievement.
19:25These two cards tell us your relationship has potential to reach the most perfect state.
19:32Deep in his heart, he sees you as a life partner.
19:35The World Card is particularly important because it's the last major arcana card, representing completion of one cycle and beginning of a new one.
19:45Your relationship might have completed one phase and now needs to enter a new level.
19:50This requires your joint effort and understanding.
19:54The Justice Card as the ending brings energy of fairness and balance.
19:58This card has several meanings.
20:00First, it represents karma.
20:03Your past efforts will be rewarded.
20:05Second, it reminds you the relationship needs to reestablish balance.
20:10Perhaps one side gave too much in the past.
20:13Finally, it also suggests there might be important decisions or commitments, like proposal or marriage.
20:20Your three core boundaries to set.
20:23Based on the second group's energy guidance, you need to set these three boundaries.
20:28First boundary.
20:29Communication quality boundary.
20:32You have the right to demand high-quality communication.
20:35This means when there are problems or concerns, you must have open, honest, deep conversations, not perfunctory responses, avoidance, or cold wars.
20:46Set rules.
20:47Important topics must be discussed face-to-face, not resolved through messages.
20:52When discussing problems, phones must be turned off to give each other complete attention.
20:58No hurtful language or bringing up old issues during arguments.
21:01If he's unwilling to communicate properly, then this relationship loses its potential for growth.
21:09Second boundary.
21:10Personal space boundary.
21:12Even in intimate relationships, you need to maintain personal space and independence.
21:18You both need your own friends, interests, and goals.
21:22Set clear personal time.
21:24For example, at least one evening per week belongs to yourself to do what you want.
21:29This isn't distancing but maintaining individual integrity.
21:34When two complete people are together, the relationship will be healthier.
21:38Also respect each other's personal space.
21:41Don't over-control due to insecurity.
21:44Third boundary.
21:45Growth synchronization boundary.
21:48Relationship stagnation often comes from unsynchronized growth.
21:52Set this boundary.
21:54You both must commit to personal growth and relationship growth.
21:58This includes regularly discussing each other's goals and dreams, supporting each other's
22:04growth, even if it means temporary separation, learning new things or trying new experiences
22:10together.
22:11When one person stagnates, the other has the right to express concern.
22:16If only one person is working, the relationship will eventually become imbalanced.
22:21Third group.
22:23Energy verification.
22:24Friends who chose the third group, I can feel you're carrying heavy emotional energy.
22:30Before starting the reading, let's first conduct energy clearing and verification.
22:36Please stand up now.
22:37Gently shake your body to let energy flow.
22:40Then sit down.
22:41Place your feet flat on the ground.
22:44Imagine roots extending from your soles deep into the earth, conducting all negative energy
22:49into the earth's core.
22:50Take three deep breaths, releasing some pain and confusion with each exhale.
22:56If you experience the following situations, it means this group completely corresponds to
23:01your energy field.
23:03Stabbing or heavy feeling in heart.
23:06Choking sensation in throat or inability to speak.
23:09Emptiness in solar plexus.
23:12Above stomach.
23:13Whole body feels tired wanting to lie down.
23:16Suddenly remembering the moment of separation.
23:19Strong emotions surging.
23:22Anger.
23:23Sadness.
23:23Unwillingness.
23:25Feeling time has stopped or is passing particularly slowly.
23:29These are all normal energy responses, representing your soul seeking healing.
23:34Let's face the truth together and find the way forward.
23:38Reading interpretation.
23:39This group's energy is quite complex and profound, full of pain and confusion, but also containing
23:46possibilities for healing and rebirth.
23:49I know you're experiencing one of life's most difficult periods.
23:53Let me reveal the truth hidden beneath the surface.
23:57The truth behind the pain.
23:59The Ten of Swords appearance immediately caught my attention.
24:02This is one of the most painful cards in tarot, representing betrayal, endings, and extreme
24:09pain.
24:10You might have experienced something heartbreaking.
24:13Sudden breakup.
24:14Discovering a third party.
24:16Being deceived or betrayed.
24:18Or truth you cannot accept.
24:20This pain is so real, so profound, making you feel like your whole world has collapsed.
24:25But note, the Two of Wands appears before the Ten of Swords.
24:30This sequence is important.
24:32The Two of Wands tells us before all this happened, he was actually planning something.
24:38He stands on the castle overlooking the distance.
24:41Holding a globe he's considering the bigger picture.
24:44Possibly work opportunities, life direction, or re-evaluating this relationship.
24:50His leaving or betrayal wasn't entirely an impulsive decision but a considered choice.
24:55The Page of Cups brings complex messages.
24:59This card usually represents new emotional opportunities or emotional expression.
25:05In this position, it might suggest several situations.
25:08He might have met someone new and developed new feelings.
25:12Or he wants to start over but doesn't know how to face the past.
25:15Or it represents his wounded inner child that needs healing and understanding.
25:20His inner struggles and contradictions.
25:22The Four of Swords shows he's currently in a state of rest and reflection.
25:28This card depicts a knight lying on a tomb with three swords on the wall and one beneath.
25:33This represents he's temporarily withdrawn from battle, needing time to heal and think.
25:39He might also be in pain, regret, and confusion.
25:43Separation isn't easy for him either, even if he chose it.
25:47The Three of Cups makes the situation more complex.
25:50This card usually represents celebration and socializing.
25:55But in relationship readings, it often hints at third parties or outside influence.
26:00Someone else might have intervened in your relationship.
26:03Or his friends and family had negative influence on your relationship.
26:08Or he chose to return to single life, seeking happiness with friends.
26:13The Temperance card brings a glimmer of hope and healing energy.
26:17Temperance represents balance, patience, and healing.
26:21This card tells us time heals all wounds and might bring opportunities for reconciliation.
26:27He and you both need time to balance inner emotions and rediscover life's rhythm.
26:33Impatience and impulsiveness will only bring more harm.
26:36The Two of Swords appears again, same as first group, showing his difficulty and blindness in making decisions.
26:44He's like being blindfolded, holding two swords, not knowing how to choose.
26:49He might be struggling.
26:51Should he come back?
26:52Should he apologize?
26:54Should he completely let go?
26:56This indecision might continue for a while.
26:59Hidden Emotional Truth
27:01The Page of Pentacles and Six of Cups combination reveals important information.
27:07The Page of Pentacles represents new learning and growth.
27:10He might be learning important life lessons from this separation.
27:15The Six of Cups is full of nostalgic energy.
27:18He often thinks of your past, those beautiful memories playing like movies in his mind.
27:24The Six of Cups is particularly important because it represents innocent love and beautiful memories.
27:29He remembers how you first met, remembers your smile, remembers every important moment you spent together.
27:38These memories cannot be erased.
27:40They surface during quiet late nights, making him feel regret and longing.
27:45The Knight of Swords shows there might be rushed or impulsive actions.
27:49He might suddenly contact you, say hurtful or reconciling words, then disappear again.
27:55This unstable behavior actually reflects his inner chaos and pain.
28:01The Knight of Swords energy is fast but not lasting.
28:04So don't assign too much meaning to his sudden appearances or disappearances.
28:09Future Possibilities and Hope
28:11The Ten of Pentacles and Three of Wands combination hints at the future.
28:16The Ten of Pentacles represents family fulfillment and ultimate success,
28:20suggesting if you can overcome current difficulties.
28:24It's still possible to build a stable, happy relationship.
28:29But this requires both parties to experience growth and transformation.
28:33The Three of Wands as the ending brings energy of expansion and vision.
28:38This card shows someone standing on a cliff watching distant ships sail.
28:43This represents needing to see further, not being trapped by current pain.
28:48Perhaps separation is for individual growth.
28:51Perhaps pain is for deeper understanding.
28:54There are many future possibilities.
28:57Don't think everything is over just because of the current ending.
29:00Where exactly is his true heart?
29:03Combining all the cards, I need to tell you an answer that might be hard to accept but very real.
29:09His true heart never actually left.
29:11It's just been covered by fear, confusion, desire and outside influence.
29:16He might have truly loved you, even still loves you to some degree now, but he chose another path.
29:23This isn't your fault.
29:24It's his choice and the karma he needs to bear.
29:27Your Three Essential Survival Boundaries
29:29For you experiencing such pain, setting boundaries isn't just important but necessary for survival.
29:37First boundary, Dignity Bottom Line
29:39No matter what happened, no matter how much you love him, you absolutely cannot lose your dignity.
29:46Set clear rules.
29:48No begging, no humbling yourself, no sacrificing your principles and values to win him back.
29:54If he wants to come back, he must bring sincere apology, clear changes and specific action plans.
30:01You're not a backup option or retreat.
30:04You deserve to be the first choice.
30:06If he can't give you the respect and position you deserve, then he doesn't deserve your love.
30:12Second boundary, Contact Frequency Boundary
30:15Set clear contact rules.
30:18If you've broken up, I recommend at least one month of complete no contact.
30:23Don't look at his social media.
30:26Don't respond to his contact.
30:28Don't ask about him through mutual friends.
30:31This isn't to punish anyone but to give yourself space to heal.
30:34If he keeps appearing and disappearing, giving you false hope, you have the right to cut off contact completely.
30:42Set rules.
30:43Either seriously discuss reconciliation or no contact at all no gray areas accepted.
30:49Third boundary, Healing Timeline Boundary
30:52Set a healing schedule for yourself, like three months focused on your own healing and growth.
30:58During this period, don't rush into new relationships.
31:02Rebound relationships often bring more hurt.
31:05Don't rush to make major decisions.
31:07Focus on your physical and mental health.
31:10Exercise, meditation, counseling, etc.
31:14Rebuild your life, friends, interests, goals.
31:18Remember, your healing and happiness don't depend on his apology or return.
31:22You have the ability to stand up on your own and become stronger than before.
31:28Comprehensive advice and deep guidance.
31:31Dear friends, regardless of which group you chose, I want to give you some comprehensive advice and deeper guidance.
31:38The ultimate truth about true hearts.
31:41Through today's three groups of cards, we see a common pattern.
31:44True hearts do exist, but they're often covered by various factors, fear, pressure, desire, confusion, past wounds, worries about the future.
31:55Men often have more difficulty expressing emotions than women.
31:59They might use avoidance instead of facing, actions instead of words, rationality to suppress emotions.
32:07But here's an important point.
32:08Even if he has true feelings, if he cannot or will not properly express and practice these feelings, then these feelings are meaningless to you.
32:18Love isn't just a feeling but a choice and action.
32:21If he chooses not to act, then you need to make a choice for yourself.
32:26Why setting boundaries is so important.
32:29Many people misunderstand the meaning of boundaries, thinking setting boundaries is cold or selfish.
32:34Actually, healthy boundaries are expressions of love, loving yourself, and giving the other person clear direction.
32:43When you set clear boundaries.
32:451. You re-telling the other person what's acceptable and what's not.
32:492. You re-protecting your energy and emotional health.
32:533. You re-creating an environment where love can grow healthily.
32:574. You re-teaching the other person how to love you properly.
33:015. You re-avoiding accumulation of resentment and pain.
33:053. Boundary guidelines.
33:071. Response rhythm.
33:09No more guessing.
33:10Being busy is fine, but please give me a safety message by noon the same day or next day.
33:16If exceeded, I'll withdraw that day's expectations and wait until you're ready to align.
33:222. Time together rhythm.
33:23Schedule love.
33:24Let's schedule our time together.
33:27At least once a week for quality time.
33:29If rescheduled twice in a row, next time you actively arrange to make up for it.
33:353. External consistency being seen in the light.
33:39When we confirm long-term, I need to be consistently introduced to friends or family.
33:44If you have difficulties, please tell me the reason and acceptable timeline.
33:493. Major misunderstandings and solutions.
33:53Misunderstanding one, he says, wait a bit.
33:55I want to take it slow equals not treating you as real girlfriend slash boyfriend.
34:01Solution turns slow into milestones and checkpoints.
34:05For example, I respect the pace but need visible milestones.
34:10Let's make weekly quality time and consistent titles with friends next month to checkpoints.
34:16Okay?
34:16This concrete approach significantly reduces his defensiveness.
34:21Misunderstanding two asterisk asterisk he talks about money slash work too much equals he's not romantic.
34:28Solution.
34:30Translate your romantic expectations into rhythm and rituals.
34:35For example, I hope for one dinner together weekly.
34:39Cost doesn't matter.
34:40What matters is sitting together with phones aside.
34:43When you change romance from expensive events to repeatable rhythms, he'll happily cooperate.
34:50Misunderstanding three asterisk asterisk he reschedules slash doesn't reply equals he doesn't care.
34:57Solution asterisk asterisk first set response rhythm and make up rules.
35:01Rescheduling is okay, but twice in a row means he actively arranges make up.
35:07Safety message by same slash next day noon.
35:10Also inform, I'll withdraw that day's expectations to avoid both getting more tired.
35:17You're not giving cold treatment but demonstrating respecting each other's lives order.
35:22Your three most concerned scenarios broken down.
35:26Ambiguous scenario.
35:28He's very warm but goes quiet about titles slash going public.
35:32Three progress observation questions.
35:35One, has he scheduled you into fixed weekly rhythm?
35:38Like weekly quality time.
35:40Two, does he actively make up?
35:43After rescheduling, actively proposing alternatives.
35:47Three, has he brought you into the light in small circles?
35:50Friend gatherings, photos, social media interaction.
35:54If two of three are achieved and maintained for four consecutive weeks, he's expressing through actions.
36:00Then propose small and doable external consistency.
36:04Like next month's friend's birthday party.
36:07Ask him to introduce his partner.
36:10Success rate will be high.
36:11Partnership scenario.
36:14Getting along well but can't agree on future.
36:17Key isn't immediate agreement but turning differences into process.
36:21You often get stuck on three issues.
36:24Money A-A-A-B joint fund.
36:27Time mutual weekly rhythm.
36:29Family visiting boundaries.
36:31Approach.
36:32Big topic to small one at a time 30 minute limit.
36:35Follow up conclusion next day weekly review.
36:39King of swords likes lists and conclusions.
36:42King of pentacles likes executable items.
36:45Temperance requires rhythm.
36:46When you can dialogue and process, you'll be surprised differences are just different languages, not value opposition.
36:54Cold war slash no contact scenario.
36:57He's been absent for long.
36:59Should you still wait?
37:00First use three indicators to measure worthiness.
37:04One, does he still leave traces in your daily life?
37:07Passive but regular replies.
37:09Being told your updates.
37:11Natural concern from shared circles.
37:14Two, when you propose small projects.
37:17Is he willing to cooperate?
37:19Handling something together.
37:20Exercising together for two weeks.
37:23Three, after explaining response rhythm and makeup rules.
37:27Can he follow for two weeks?
37:29If two of three pass, it's rebuildable.
37:32If none, suggest pause waiting.
37:34Pull yourself back to order.
37:36Avoid investing time in ineffective waiting.
37:39Dialogue scripts.
37:40True heart versus boundaries.
37:43Script one small step to going public.
37:45Wheel of fortune times the sun.
37:48You.
37:49I like our current state and believe your pacing.
37:52For both our peace of mind, I hope at XX's birthday party next month, you'll introduce me as your partner.
38:00If you have difficulties, please tell me the reason and time you need.
38:04I'm willing to listen.
38:05Explanation.
38:06You put needs and flexibility on the table simultaneously, avoiding him feeling forced.
38:14Script two makeup rules.
38:15Night of pentacles times temperance.
38:18You.
38:18I understand rescheduling, but if rescheduled twice in a row, next time you actively propose time and arrangements.
38:27This way I'll feel valued and can better arrange my life.
38:31Explanation.
38:32Express with I feel.
38:34My life.
38:35Not attacking character.
38:37Script three response rhythm.
38:39Two of swords times five of pentacles.
38:42You.
38:42On busy days I need a safety message same day or by noon next day, brief is fine.
38:48If exceeded, I'll withdraw that day's expectations and arrange my own life.
38:54Explanation.
38:55You're not punishing but demonstrating order, so neither is consumed by anxiety.
39:01Timescale.
39:02How long before it's wasting time?
39:05Zero to two weeks.
39:06Does he accept response rhythm and makeup rules?
39:10Three to six weeks.
39:11Has fixed weekly rhythm formed?
39:14Weekly quality time or equivalent?
39:17Six to twelve weeks.
39:19Has there been one small external consistency checkpoint?
39:22Friend gathering, photos, social media interaction?
39:26Three to six months.
39:28Have you discussed at least one long-term issue?
39:31Finances slash living slash chores slash family?
39:34And reached feasible conclusion?
39:36If passing each stage, relationship is on track.
39:39If failing first stage rules ignored, suggest pausing investment, returning focus to self-order, sleep, exercise, chores, socializing.
39:51Avoid trading more giving for minimal security.
39:54Red and green flag summary.
39:56Green flags.
39:57Reschedules actively makes up.
40:00Time location process.
40:02Actively pulls you into weekly rhythm.
40:05Fixed dinner slash exercise.
40:08Willing to discuss money and chores, not avoiding.
40:11Naturally public in small circles.
40:14Friends know.
40:15Social media interaction.
40:17Willing to hear your boundaries and follow within two weeks.
40:21Red flags.
40:21Only has emotional conversations late at night.
40:25No daytime action.
40:27Always concludes with wait a bit.
40:30Response to any needs with too busy lately.
40:33Long-term dodging publicly.
40:35Ambiguous titles avoiding meetings.
40:38Long-term inability to implement any agreed rules.
40:42Remember, love without boundaries isn't love.
40:45It's dependency and sacrifice.
40:47True love is union based on maintaining individual integrity.
40:52How to practice these three boundaries?
40:55Practice step one.
40:57Write your boundary declaration.
40:59Tonight, take out pen and paper.
41:01Formally write your three boundaries.
41:04Not just thinking but writing down.
41:06Format can be.
41:08I, your name.
41:09Set the following relationship boundaries today.
41:12One-time boundary.
41:14Specific content.
41:15Two-respect boundary.
41:18Specific content.
41:20Three-growth boundary.
41:22Specific content.
41:24I commit to upholding these boundaries because I deserve to be treated well.
41:28Put this declaration where you can see it daily.
41:31Read it whenever you want to compromise to remind yourself.
41:35Practice step two.
41:37Create support system.
41:39Setting boundaries requires courage and support.
41:42Find two to three trusted friends.
41:44Tell them your boundaries.
41:46Ask them to remind you when you're weak.
41:48When you want to break your own boundaries, call them first.
41:52Sometimes we need outside voices to help us stay clear.
41:56Practice step three.
41:57Prepare for backlash.
41:59When you start setting boundaries, the other person might have various reactions.
42:04Anger accusing you've changed, trying to make you feel guilty, or suddenly becoming especially nice.
42:09These are all normal reactions because you've changed the game rules.
42:14Hold firm.
42:15Don't abandon your boundaries because of their reactions.
42:19Remember, if he truly loves you, he'll learn to respect your boundaries.
42:23If he can't accept them, then he's not suitable for you.
42:27Special Situation Additional Guidance.
42:29If you're in the ambiguous period, give yourself a deadline, suggest three months.
42:35Observe his actions during this period.
42:38If no progress after three months, you need to actively clarify relationship status.
42:44You can say,
42:45I really enjoy our time together, but I need to know what we are.
42:49Don't fear this conversation.
42:51The right person won't leave because of your honesty.
42:55Fear in a Cold War.
42:56Cold War over a week is emotional violence.
43:00If over a week, you need to break the deadlock.
43:03Send a simple message.
43:05We need to talk.
43:06This Cold War isn't good for anyone.
43:09If he still doesn't respond, then you have your answer.
43:12He's not mature enough to handle relationship conflicts.
43:16If you want to reconcile, reconciliation isn't impossible but needs to meet several conditions.
43:22The root problem causing breakup must be resolved.
43:26Both must have grown and changed.
43:29Must have clear reconciliation plan and new interaction mode.
43:33Can't reconcile just because of loneliness or habit.
43:37If these conditions aren't met, reconciliation will only repeat past pain.
43:42Interactive Section and Community Building.
43:45Now, I want to have a deeper connection with you watching.
43:49Please answer the following questions in the comments.
43:52Let's create a supportive community.
43:55Which group did you choose?
43:57How accurate was it?
43:58Please comment, for example.
44:01Second group, 95% accuracy, especially about his anxiety.
44:06Completely spot on.
44:07Your feedback helps me serve everyone better.
44:10What are your three boundaries?
44:12Share the boundaries you've set for yourself, for example.
44:16My three boundaries.
44:18No silent treatment.
44:19Demand honest communication.
44:22Mutual growth.
44:23My boundaries.
44:24Three-month deadline.
44:26Maintain independence.
44:27Don't lower standards.
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44:31What's the biggest insight this reading gave you?
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44:36Maybe advice gave you clarity.
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44:47Will he contact me?
44:49How to improve love luck?
44:51Is this relationship worth continuing?
44:53How to heal from heartbreak?
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45:10Energy blessing in closing.
45:12Before ending today's reading, let's do an energy blessing ritual together.
45:17Please stand up now, feet shoulder width apart.
45:21Take a deep breath.
45:22Imagine golden light entering your body from above.
45:25This light is full of love, wisdom, and power.
45:29Let this light flow through your whole body, clearing all negative energy and wounds.
45:34Now place your hands on your heart and say with me.
45:38I am complete.
45:39I am loved.
45:40I deserve the best love.
45:42I set healthy boundaries to protect myself.
45:45I release all fear and doubt.
45:47I trust the universe will bring me the most suitable person.
45:51I open my heart to receive true love.
45:54I choose to love myself as I love others.
45:57I am love.
45:58I am surrounded by love.
46:00Take a deep breath.
46:01Feel this blessing energy flowing within you.
46:04Dear friend, please remember.
46:07You don't need anyone to complete you because you are already complete.
46:11Relationships are icing on the cake.
46:13Not cold in snowy weather.
46:15When you truly love and respect yourself, you'll attract someone who equally loves and respects you.
46:22True hearts don't need you to excavate, search for, or prove.
46:26Real true hearts will actively appear before you, proving their existence through actions.
46:32If you always have to guess, doubt, feel insecure, then perhaps this isn't the right person for you.
46:39Setting boundaries isn't about keeping love out, but ensuring what comes in is real love.
46:44You deserve to be cherished, respected, and treated well.
46:48Don't accept less than you deserve because you're afraid of being alone.
46:52Remember, the universe loves you and I love you too.
46:56You're not alone.
46:57We're all learning and growing on love's path.
47:00Every experience, whether sweet or painful, teaches us how to better love and be loved.
47:06May you find someone who cherishes you.
47:09May your love be full of light and joy.
47:11May your boundaries protect you from harm.
47:14May your true love arrive as expected.
47:17See you next week.
47:18Remember to subscribe so you don't miss next episodes.
47:22Will he contact you?
47:23Clear signals from the universe.
47:26Love and light be with you.
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