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Ashley John-Baptiste is a BBC reporter who grew up in foster care and spent most of his life believing he was an only ch | dHNfSE9haG5WaHZSS00

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00:00Well, let's have a look at that moment in the documentary
00:03where Ashley's reunited with one of his former social workers,
00:06a lady called Rosalyn,
00:08and then you share the news about the siblings,
00:11which she knew nothing about,
00:13and then she drops a huge bombshell.
00:16Have a look.
00:18So, a few years ago, I had a brother get in touch with me.
00:24Really? Yeah. From where?
00:27He just spoke to me on Facebook.
00:29My dad's side. Oh, my God.
00:31Yeah. I can't talk to you about this, man.
00:33I don't know why I feel emotional.
00:35Oh, my God. Yeah.
00:37Ooh. Oh, wow.
00:39Oh, my gosh. I had...
00:42So, basically, on my dad's side,
00:45I've got at least four siblings who are all older than me.
00:49Was I ever considered for adoption?
00:52I know that's a big question, and you don't have to answer it
00:54if you don't know, but... Yeah, I was going to say,
00:56you might not want... I told you what I think I know,
00:59but you might not want it on camera.
01:00No, no, I'm...
01:01Was I ever considered...
01:02Yeah, I think you were, from what I can remember you were,
01:06but I think they fell pregnant, and then they pulled out.
01:11Yeah.
01:12At what... Ooh.
01:14At what age?
01:15Very, very, very young.
01:18Oh, my God.
01:20So, you didn't know that?
01:21I didn't know that.
01:22And the thing is, you wouldn't have...
01:23And the thing is, you feel like your narrative and your life
01:26and your identity doesn't belong to you.
01:28Like, the fact that you could have been adopted,
01:30the fact that you could have siblings,
01:32but no one necessarily tells you that they're there,
01:35I just feel like everybody wants to know who they are.
01:38Everybody wants to know, like, who they're connected to.
01:41Ashley's documentary, Split Up In Keir, Life Without Siblings,
01:44is available on BBC iPlayer now.
01:46And if you need any more information on this subject,
01:48please visit the BBC Action Line website.
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